Yeah that’s true that’s why I avoid some houses from my siblings cause I can’t stand their spouses. And honestly I don’t wanna bring that energy to the home, I guess I do respect my siblings enough then
Kolini right? Anyway that was actually nice of her! But technically kalani + asuelu or however u spell his name are a family and he should just tell his mom and sis to kick back regardless of how he was brought up.
"I'm selfless. I got nine children." Yeah right! She had nine children so they could all give her money when they grow up. She said so herself. That's far from being selfless.
I was dumbstruck when Asuelu said she gives away money to others including the church and lets her kids eat crappy food. something tells me she could be in a cult whose sole purpose is to get money out of sheeple. churches don't force you to donate if you don't want to
Can we keep in mind his mother also straight up said she doesn’t care about the kids that he just needs to send money her and tam should’ve gotten that “tackle” ages ago
Yes!! Expose it! Yes, he definitely has the right to question where the money is going. It needs to go to his moms well being. Not to the whole village. Not ok.
My family is phillipino it’s similar. If we give My mother in law 1,000 the family will actually see maybe 200$ the rest to the “church” we stopped giving money and send clothes and goods they need. I had a good talk with her and explained I thought the church was taking her money, well she did some digging and they were it was so sad. It made us closer though she was happy we still help support her
@@mikuforlife1929 It's always great for people to help out family. I have friends who work a ton and send money they make to their family back in Mexico. But she is rich and lives in a huge house so she can afford to send them money. It's trash when people like Asuelo's mom beg for money when she's been repeatedly told that they don't have money and need to be able to afford to feed their kids.
Yara was being fun at the dinner, which clearly demonstrates that she’s able to be a fun mom and wife. But Jovi couldn’t appreciate the moment! His only idea of fun is getting drunk and stupid. I do not condone her physical violence but I felt bad for Yara here.
@@BrandyTexas214 Same. I would have slapped his ass too. Like why take her to a strip club in the first place? Then he blows a kiss at the stripper? Dude needs to stick to being single and not ready to mingle
Iam so proud of asuelu for putting his sister out. He still respects his mother but, his sister would've got her ass whooped if she was in my home with that bs!.
Proud of him? He's a moron who created an awkward situation that led to drama, and then he tries to play the hero? If he were any slower he'd be going backwards.
Unfortunately, he did the right thing. You know exactly when your family is about to attack somebody I've seen my sister do it on many occasions. He stopped his sister He didn't punch her. He just literally pushed her out the door. I think he needs to be a bouncer for a club and maybe he'll make some more money.
Jovi is such a dirty creep! If he doesn't change his creepiness and selfish ways, it's best for Yara to leave him and have a family with someone that respects her. That scene when Asuelu picked up his sister and threw her out was absolute gold! I had to replay that several times for the chuckle..
I can’t stand yara. All she cares abt is money an nice things an then tells him not to work 😂 she wants him on lockdown an home every single night an that isn’t realistic. She knew the kinda man he is an she chose it so she ain’t gonna change him 😂
I understand her getting mad at Jovi when he didn’t listen to her but Why would she go to the strip club in the first place..? I’m wondering if they used to go when they were not married...
As a Samoan 🇼🇸🇼🇸🇼🇸 I just want to say that our culture and our people do not all act like this. We aren’t all money driven and this disrespectful. Unfortunately Asuelu’s family are making us all look bad.
I went to school with Samoans & SOS (in San Jose) & I never seen any of this toxic mess being displayed by them. They were not greedy & no way would a grandmother put her bingo money over her grandkids being fed.
@@grabandgoadvice1694 the single life is coming up in 7 days,yara i would love to see her be with someone who cares for her and being on the single life i could see her on one of those seasons
@@Smurfytoonz I haven't watched The Single Life yet. With Yara having a newborn she may want to wait til Myla is a little older. Yara doesn't even feel comfortable leaving her baby to have date nights with Jovi, yet alone a new man. If that show lasts, it would be nice to see Yara find the right guy :)
@@alb5801 no he didn't. They didn't need to say he needs to divorce her and find a wife in his country. Smh they should've stayed out of it. It's between them but they want him to divorce her so that they can control him like before. When he lived in his country the mom said he would give her his money all the time.
@@thaliac7853 But he did start it in this instance. His wife already told him to keep it private and not bring it in front of people, several times, including in front of a car salesman. He needs to learn to keep things to himself. Very embarrassing for his wife to explain why she doesn’t want more kids to basic strangers.
Finally, he shows he has balls. Money is the only thing that drives his family. I understand giving money for your family but not to her so she can give to a church. She wants to look good in her community at his expense. Shame on them.
Jovi can't be with ANYBODY. "I thought we were having a good time" she clearly wasn't having a good time and expressed that. Watching him call her boring for raising their daughter over and over again while she was trying to eat dinner was so triggering.
Agree 💯! A person who is selfish, self-centered, manipulative, cruel and unable to empathize CANNOT and SHOULD not be in a relationship - a bond that requires the complete opposite!
I think he wasn't ready to be a father so fast and the marriage. He's young he should have had his fun before marriage, if he wanted to go to the strip club.
Not to mention 2 kids she still breast feeds these 2 grown kids. To have another one right now will not work now he has to wait for the fist 2 to stop breast feeding when they start high school
Yumiko 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 let him try morning sickness, scans, backache….that’s just early on. What a selfish person he is. She breastfed the babies, so I doubt he got up in the night more than a handful of times. He’s always off to play basketball? While kalani is home with the children.
Yes she is! The current host of the reunions NEVER calls people out for anything. Or tell them the hard truth that everybody’s already thinking. Makes me so angry when she just lets those people fight and lie… LOL. This entertaining, truth speaking lady is amazing!
Does that mean Asuelu’s mom is getting money from 9 of her children? She must be making a decent ant of money to give away. Also Jovi is a complete jerk.
Well this is what I'm wondering !!! Or just enough to play her stupid bingo after her hard work 😂🙄 no seriously this better be scripted I CnT handle the truth 😂
Yeah they've grown on me. It seemed like they were quite rude and judgemental towards Asuelu in the beginning, but it's nice to see how theyve accepted him now.
@@lolakay5282 I think they're nice considering they're housing a man child who throws tamper tantrums and disrespect their daughter. He even disrespected the mom. They never throw the fact that they're financially supporting him and his kids in his face or tell him to go back to Samoa like most Americans on this show have done.
I've not been a Yara fan at all but here, regardless of how annoying I've found her to be she has every right to be upset. I don't know how she managed to stay composed at all. If my husband took me to a strip club or actually even suggested it I would've left skid marks with fire on the ground from how fast I would've run. It may be a cultural thing and I know all relationships are different. This is a boundary line that needed to be addressed before marriage. Jovi has a great job but money and a nice home doesn't replace respect. He's such a loser., blowing kisses to a stranger that's only there to extract money from him meanwhile his wife sits there feeling like shit and disrespected. Wow what a loser that guy is.
@@Bunny11344 upon looking more into it I completely understand her reactions yet I don't condone her getting physical. I hope they get it together and am happy for Yara that his mother is the type of woman to call her son out when he's wrong
@Kyril Jordanov Iknr! I live in Sweden, have friends in the US they work hard just to live a modest life. I've been reading books about how many Americans have to work about 12-14 hours day and still struggle. Ppl should read and talk about how life in the US is for so many millions. It's NOT like in the movies.
The reason they think that is because ppl in the US make far more than the average anywhere is, however they don’t realize the cost of living is higher here. Like Dubai, or London, it’s SO EXPENSIVE those places so a lot struggle
Jovi is selfish. He wants the "fun Yara back" but then we hear she's never been to a strip club . Jovi just wants to keep up his old lifestyle and doesn't want to have to sacrifice any of it
It takes two to make a relationship work. She’s negative and miserable and he’s got issues too yet they still went ahead and got married anyway. She didn’t have to go if she didn’t want to.
He definitely started it. It totally wasn't cool if him. That's a VERY personal decision to make. The smart decision would be to work on your marriage and get out of your in laws place. 🤷♀️
Asuelu's mom sounds like those church scammers asking money for themselves LOL. We knew this will happens, honestly, I was waiting to listen to Asuelu's family and Kalani's dad to speak all in the Samoan language. This is becoming like the family's Chantel show.
Why you got to bring church into this bro? You understand to some people church is a place of religious meeting and worship. I understand your comment towards asuelu’s family but unnecessary to bring in church
What mind boggles me is that Tammy lives in the US and is more acclimated to the culture than her Brother. She should know better and have more empathy for his situation. What I believe is that their parents were abusive. Tammy's defense mechanism was probably to always stay on her parent's best side and even act as the snitch and executioner of her siblings.
I think Tammy was sending money, and she sees asuelo living better than her so wants him to send money. Think about it… if asuelo sends, Tammy doesn’t send or sends less. That’s why she pushes him
Her father was called a racists when he didn't want her daughter with a man from his home country. He knew the culture. Low was right in being concerned.
Can understand him feeling neglected by Yara after the birth of Mylah. But to bring Yara to strip club and witness his interaction with the stripper is really disrespectful.
He is lazy even his mother is disappointed with her own son. He thinks he's still single and no wife and no child. I feel bad for Yara. I like Yara she's the best on the show. She's a great mother and a wife. If she leaves him I won't blame her maybe Jovi will then finally realize all the mistakes he doing.
@@claraaguilar9899 I don’t think he’s as bad as everyone makes him out to be but Yara plays a role so that she can do no wrong in some people’s minds. He definitely has issues but she has the most negative personality and bad attitude that any woman on this show has had besides the woman who was married to George ( the Russian woman). All Yara does is frowns, complains, slaps people, and then turns things around to make herself seem good and Jovi seem bad.
why is another woman's decision of not wanting to have another baby any of their business... they're getting mad like they're the ones who're gonna be responsible for another life. ridiculous.
Asuelo's Mom: I don't care if your kids starve. Send me money. Also Asuelo's Mom: Why you don't have more kid's Kalani?? (More kids she'll demand money to be taken from. As if kids don't cost money... 🙄)
Kalani started the fight. Asuelu was just trying to express to Kalani what he wanted, which they had already talked about before & Kalani didn’t tell him she was against having anymore kids. Considering everyone in the room, Kalani should’ve thanked him for the gift, and then talked to him about it privately. She knows anything she says her mother & sister in law are gonna have an opinion about, so it would’ve been better just to diffuse the situation & talk about it in private. That’s what normal mature people do. So it kinda makes me wonder if it wasn’t a set up.
She been told him she didn't want another baby so the fact he gave her that blanket just shows he don't listen to what she wants it's all about what he wants
I can’t stand Tammy as soon as she walked in the house she starts with her bs you can tell she’s just envious of the way they live she must be miserable in her own life...what Tammy needs to do is give her mom money since she’s so concerned 😆
If ya seen the episode it’s crazy and rude of Tammy and Asuela mom to only talk about getting money and being disrespectful at Aseulas house. I’m glad he finally stood up for his family and wife and kicked them out. As for Jovi he is annoying for saying Yara is boring now that she’s a mother, well geesh atleast she’s being responsible mother!
What’s up with Jovi and this “fun Yara” he speaks of. Why can he not understand that she barely even has time for herself because she is focused on caring for a living, breathing, tiny human???
Because she is still his wife..... having a baby can change a relationship but he is away from his family months on end and wants to spend time with his wife too. His mom agreed to keep their baby so they can have some one on one. Yes love your kids, make them your priority just remember when you're in a relationship you have to find balance. Most people don't think about kids growing up and moving out then whats left for you and your spouse/partner??? Bottom line these two didn't know each other well enough to start a family in the first place imo.
@ルフバクシュモナ to me its obvious he wants to spend time with his wife too in addition to their child. Yara makes everything about their daughter which is ok, but she still needs to make time for their marriage
@ルフバクシュモナ when did I say the child shouldn't be a priority???? Never, ofcourse the child she be a priority.... but also being a wife does too. I have 3 children 2 who are now grown and out of the house and a teenager been married for almost 25 years. When you're married your a team and you make time for each other or when those kids grow up you won't have a spouse. They have to a find balance.
I would have asked them to leave the minute they walked past me without speaking. And the nerve of them to ask how much they paid for the house. DISGUSTING!
Maybe his wife should step up? He tried to plan a romantic dinner date & she shit on his idea, saying Russians aren't romantic. Agrees to go to the strip club & then wants to leave. She's putting in zero effort.
Hello thank you for saying that.... How much money are they giving. I'm guessing it's not that much considering all she wants from Asuelu and Kalani is their money......
OH AND DONT FORGET, Tammy says she's not obligated to the same finance responsibilities as her siblings. And doesn't give money to her own mother.... but expects her brother to pay for her lifestyle as well cause their mother pays for it.
ok i’m a bit late to this 🤣 but someone tell me why is tammy even relevant here?! does this woman not have a life of her own?! she’s so much in asuelu and kalani’s life and buisness... it kills me. 🤦🏻♀️ and kolini omggg she definitely got her sister’s back 💯 i love kalani and kolini ❤️ asuelu you have a great and beautiful woman and gaining an awesome sisters-in-law and more
I'm so damn proud of Asuelu, whether he started that or not by giving her that blanket, they should have been cut off from coming into their home from the minute they threatened his wife and her family. Props to him for tryin to include them, they are his family after all, but I don't care what country you're from, you show the upmost respect to someone when you are coming into their home. Especially on Christmas.
At least Jovi’s mom wasn’t deaf to Yara’s side of the story. Kudo’s to her, she is one of the few moms in the cast that doesn’t automatically defend her child that behaved badly.
Who goes to a strip club with their husband if they don’t wanna be there? He didn’t force her, she went so that she could use it as an excuse to get physically violent with him.
you would be surprised at how many women go to strip clubs with their boyfriends and husbands. I find it odd myself but I know some people who do and they act like I am the weird one for not wanting to.🤷🏼♀️
@@mariancounsellor Girl wtf. She went because she wanted to make him happy. He literally complained that she's "boring" and "not fun anymore" so she went to prove him wrong
Asuelo's mom needs to harrass her other 8 kids for money. He needs to dump that toxic sludge. Just because she gave him life doesn't mean he owes her anything. His children come first, and if he can only give 50 dollars, she should be grateful for even getting that much.
@@veronicalidstrom5424 yeah she was like hey ma did u see how fancy this house is,and the baby moment wasnt good,but tammy was put in her place she wants her bro to have 9 kids but yet tammy only has 2 what gives?
They give Samoans a bad wrap They make them seem like money hungry foreigners His sister’s attitude is disgusting And why don’t they realize that khalani’s family is the one who helps them all the time
I've never been but from that I've seen (outside of the show) they seem like authentic, down to earth people! They deserve to be represented accordingly. from what I've read up on, they're extremely hard working for what they have. I have so much respect for them.
Why ask for another baby when you can afford the ones you have kalani's parents are helping them.... Get on your own feet then think about another baby which should be a discussion with you and your wife alone he's got a lot of growing up to do
Asualu needs to stop with the more babies already. He's not even paying for the ones he has now. Tammy made herself look really stupid thinking that her brother has this big house. He doesn't have anything other then the clothing on his back. Everything else is paid for by his father and mother-inlaw. 🤦🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️.
True.. I'm 22 and never heard of samoans before.. and being this is a first impression of samoan people. It's kinda bad.. only because Asuelu family seems very money hungry in the bad way.. like break your knees for money kinda way
People need to understand that when you enter someone’s house, you need to show them the utmost respect in their homes.
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Well, where are you living? In God's Universe. Do you pay respect? Probably not
@@Empiremustfal must be talking about yourself....not everyone is like you lol
@@nellae9101 You have no idea what you're saying
Yeah that’s true that’s why I avoid some houses from my siblings cause I can’t stand their spouses. And honestly I don’t wanna bring that energy to the home, I guess I do respect my siblings enough then
When Kalini said he’s my family now It warmed my icy heart
Yep that made me like her
Your icy heart aww 🤣
Kolini right? Anyway that was actually nice of her!
But technically kalani + asuelu or however u spell his name are a family and he should just tell his mom and sis to kick back regardless of how he was brought up.
Yeah the way she stood up for him was really nice. Especially since she hasn’t always liked him for her sister. It was very mature of her.
It was a nice moment
The way Asuelo's Mom shouted "WE DON'T LIKE YOU ANYMORE!" through the closed door had me DYING 🤣🤣🤣
That sounds like my little sister when I don’t give her something
Girrrrrlll🤣🤣
Same bud, roflmfao what a PISSA!
Lmfao
Like a toddler
The mother and sister need exorcisms...good grief such horrible people.
so funny and true 😂😂😂
So true!!! Th're horrible !!!
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"I'm selfless. I got nine children." Yeah right! She had nine children so they could all give her money when they grow up. She said so herself. That's far from being selfless.
I was dumbstruck when Asuelu said she gives away money to others including the church and lets her kids eat crappy food. something tells me she could be in a cult whose sole purpose is to get money out of sheeple. churches don't force you to donate if you don't want to
She wants money to play bingo. 😆😛😜
"I'm selfless, now GIVE ME MONEY!!!"
@@SusanMinhTrangNguyen I think she meant selfish ,,,,,,😞
@@justinas1298 no they just kick you out the church or let everyone know you didn't give
Kalani's sister the prettiest ,the most caring, the protector... She's one of the beautiful woman💕💕
I agree she’s so beautiful and so smart and confident
Hawaiian Genes are very beautiful 😻
@@bettyannglover7045She's not Hawaiian. She's Samoan
I smell beta.
Can we keep in mind his mother also straight up said she doesn’t care about the kids that he just needs to send money her and tam should’ve gotten that “tackle” ages ago
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Yes she did say that!
Sometimes parents and family are the most toxic
Totally agree 💯
She would've become dead to me after that.
I'm proud of asuelu for pulling out those memories of his mom giving money to the church & getting nothing in return, kids eating the bare minimum.
His Mom is a Lowlife !
Yes!! Expose it! Yes, he definitely has the right to question where the money is going. It needs to go to his moms well being. Not to the whole village. Not ok.
I think it’s hard when parents force religious beliefs and show no example at home. Parents don’t damage ur children this way.
And y’all better not get in ur feelings about it bc it’s the truth 😂🤦♀️
Some ppl swear sucking up to the people of the church will get u into heaven
The sister has been the biggest problem, the mom was actually starting to be nice, but the sister would never let things go, can't stand her
If Asuleo mom has 9 children, can't the other 8 help her out financially? So much money hungry drama!
Lol not when she keeps giving the money to the church
My family is phillipino it’s similar. If we give My mother in law 1,000 the family will actually see maybe 200$ the rest to the “church” we stopped giving money and send clothes and goods they need. I had a good talk with her and explained I thought the church was taking her money, well she did some digging and they were it was so sad. It made us closer though she was happy we still help support her
What is those 8 kids already give her 1,000 each that’s 8,000 it’s crazy !!!
sooo tru👏👏👏👏😅🤔
9 kids where are the 9 dads?
There has never been 1 episode with Asuelo and his mom that she doesn't ask for money. Seriously
Exactly. Pretty sad...
I honestly think at this point she waits for the cameras to ask to put pressure on him.
I'm beginning to think it's scripted. Aseulo's mom is always asking for money. It's like the key thing in their staying on TLC
@@ladywed2699 It’s a nice gesture to help out your family but it’s trashy when it’s an expectation which they make painfully obvious
@@mikuforlife1929 It's always great for people to help out family. I have friends who work a ton and send money they make to their family back in Mexico. But she is rich and lives in a huge house so she can afford to send them money. It's trash when people like Asuelo's mom beg for money when she's been repeatedly told that they don't have money and need to be able to afford to feed their kids.
Yara was being fun at the dinner, which clearly demonstrates that she’s able to be a fun mom and wife. But Jovi couldn’t appreciate the moment! His only idea of fun is getting drunk and stupid. I do not condone her physical violence but I felt bad for Yara here.
Seriously. It was absolutely disrespectful and borderline abusive. Girl, RUN! 🏃♀️
I condone her slapping jovi 100%
@@BrandyTexas214
Me too.
@@BrandyTexas214 Same. I would have slapped his ass too. Like why take her to a strip club in the first place? Then he blows a kiss at the stripper? Dude needs to stick to being single and not ready to mingle
Honestly I’m really happy that yara did what she did because jovi throwing kisses at the stripper in front of his wife was extremely disrespectful
Iam so proud of asuelu for putting his sister out. He still respects his mother but, his sister would've got her ass whooped if she was in my home with that bs!.
The ambulance would’ve been called if she wants to try me 😁
it was his fault, he knew what he was doing giving Kalani that present in front of his mom and sister.
Proud of him? He's a moron who created an awkward situation that led to drama, and then he tries to play the hero? If he were any slower he'd be going backwards.
His sister talked about beating people up and look what happened. Nothing she was all talk lol
Agreed!!!
Unfortunately, he did the right thing. You know exactly when your family is about to attack somebody I've seen my sister do it on many occasions. He stopped his sister He didn't punch her. He just literally pushed her out the door. I think he needs to be a bouncer for a club and maybe he'll make some more money.
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Good advise but still shady 🤣🤣🤣
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Lmao exactly he would make a great bouncer because he bounced they AZZ out of there fast 🤣!!!!
Jovi promised to leave if she felt uncomfortable. He's a malignant narcissist.
And who blows a kiss to the stripper while he's sitting next to his wife? He's a clueless idiot.
Yup
It was a whole setup
Jovi is such a dirty creep! If he doesn't change his creepiness and selfish ways, it's best for Yara to leave him and have a family with someone that respects her.
That scene when Asuelu picked up his sister and threw her out was absolute gold! I had to replay that several times for the chuckle..
Lol
The baby is young enough. She csn easily adjust at this age. I like how his Mom is supportive honest and mature.
Same 🤣🤣😁
He really IS like what kind of creep throws kisses at stripper they don’t want your kisses they want your money.. lmao
Jovi still thinks he's a single 23 year old.🙄
I feel so bad for Yara. She really wants her family to work and is a good mother
If I was her in that situation just to let him see how uncomfortable it is I would have ask for male strippers lol
She's so boring and is just pissed he goes away for work. Being a mother doesn't have to mean a prison sentence
I can’t stand yara. All she cares abt is money an nice things an then tells him not to work 😂 she wants him on lockdown an home every single night an that isn’t realistic. She knew the kinda man he is an she chose it so she ain’t gonna change him 😂
Nah I don’t feel sorry for her, you make your bed then lie in it. Also slapping your partner in public is just ghetto! Grow up
I understand her getting mad at Jovi when he didn’t listen to her but Why would she go to the strip club in the first place..? I’m wondering if they used to go when they were not married...
As a Samoan 🇼🇸🇼🇸🇼🇸 I just want to say that our culture and our people do not all act like this. We aren’t all money driven and this disrespectful. Unfortunately Asuelu’s family are making us all look bad.
They are using culture for their toxic motives. They are sociopaths.
I know, my brother recently had a baby with a Samoan women and y’all are so nice and pleasant, ❤ there is just some bad people in the world.
I went to school with Samoans & SOS (in San Jose) & I never seen any of this toxic mess being displayed by them. They were not greedy & no way would a grandmother put her bingo money over her grandkids being fed.
Jovi doesn’t deserve Yara, he’s an immature sleezy guy
True that Jovi too much of a party guy
You are right. Hoping Yara finds her own strength and independence. His actions are not that of good Daddy material.
@@grabandgoadvice1694 the single life is coming up in 7 days,yara i would love to see her be with someone who cares for her and being on the single life i could see her on one of those seasons
@GapYear all drink. Party and no self control. Spoiled brat should act like a father
@@Smurfytoonz I haven't watched The Single Life yet. With Yara having a newborn she may want to wait til Myla is a little older. Yara doesn't even feel comfortable leaving her baby to have date nights with Jovi, yet alone a new man. If that show lasts, it would be nice to see Yara find the right guy :)
I liked how kolini said that Asuelo is family and stood up for her sister
This Host is Awesome and Relatable 🥰 l love Her!!! I want to see more of her in these segments
Glad asuelu stood up for his wife and her family.
For the first time lol
Yeah about time lol
He kinda started the argument though with that baby blanket!
@@alb5801 no he didn't. They didn't need to say he needs to divorce her and find a wife in his country. Smh they should've stayed out of it. It's between them but they want him to divorce her so that they can control him like before. When he lived in his country the mom said he would give her his money all the time.
@@thaliac7853 But he did start it in this instance. His wife already told him to keep it private and not bring it in front of people, several times, including in front of a car salesman. He needs to learn to keep things to himself. Very embarrassing for his wife to explain why she doesn’t want more kids to basic strangers.
Asuelu didn’t do a damn thing wrong. He manned up, that’s what Kalani needed from him. I’m proud of him tossing those two grifters out!
Well he knows how his mother and sister are
It's also part of her culture though. You all love screaming at everyone else about respecting and following others culture though. lol
He didn't have to put his hands on his sister like that. He should have told them to leave the house. He got physical.
Thats wrong to insult them
Huh d u m my
Asuelu's sister is something else. How does she come into someone's house and behave like that?
Finally, he shows he has balls. Money is the only thing that drives his family. I understand giving money for your family but not to her so she can give to a church. She wants to look good in her community at his expense. Shame on them.
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It's About Time!!
Jovi can't be with ANYBODY. "I thought we were having a good time" she clearly wasn't having a good time and expressed that. Watching him call her boring for raising their daughter over and over again while she was trying to eat dinner was so triggering.
He's an ass and a narcissist! He needs to grow up!
Agree 💯! A person who is selfish, self-centered, manipulative, cruel and unable to empathize CANNOT and SHOULD not be in a relationship - a bond that requires the complete opposite!
Nancy Navarrete yes he has no empathy ! And is so self indulgent it's gross
I think he isn't ready to be a father!
I think he wasn't ready to be a father so fast and the marriage. He's young he should have had his fun before marriage, if he wanted to go to the strip club.
The poor dad came in late as always and his “what the hell,” cracked me up 😂
I also love how Asuelu’s mom says straight up that she spends the money she earns on gambling then proceeds to ask for more money. 😂😂
Did she say that? I didn't catch that
You give m0ney to me and g0d bless you... You think about that 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@GoogleGebruiker the bingo lol
Did she actually say that ?🤢
She gives it to the church and uses it to play bingo… maybe she should spend more time weaving mats
She already has two kids. She has fulfilled her duty. She’s already struggling taking care of two kids. If you want another one, YOU HAVE IT!!!!
Not to mention 2 kids she still breast feeds these 2 grown kids. To have another one right now will not work now he has to wait for the fist 2 to stop breast feeding when they start high school
In my opinion she already has three kids, two she gave birth to and one she married….
@@Salsaholic1978 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Yumiko 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 let him try morning sickness, scans, backache….that’s just early on. What a selfish person he is. She breastfed the babies, so I doubt he got up in the night more than a handful of times. He’s always off to play basketball? While kalani is home with the children.
“Duty”???
Hahhahahha I love how Tammy is always held back so easily, she actually doesn’t want to fight and it’s so obvious 😂
Exactly, if “Lil Tam Tam” really wanted to fight, nobody could stop that. 😂
I LOVE THIS LADY HOSTING THIS SEGMENT!!! PLEASE TLC, make HER the HOST of all the TLC Reunion shows!!!
I agree, she is AWESOME!
Yes she is! The current host of the reunions NEVER calls people out for anything. Or tell them the hard truth that everybody’s already thinking. Makes me so angry when she just lets those people fight and lie… LOL. This entertaining, truth speaking lady is amazing!
Isn’t it the same presenter just with a different hairdo?
@@janetw4119 oh, thanks for the info. I should have known that since I’ve been watching the show for years.
this!!
Does that mean Asuelu’s mom is getting money from 9 of her children? She must be making a decent ant of money to give away. Also Jovi is a complete jerk.
Well this is what I'm wondering !!! Or just enough to play her stupid bingo after her hard work 😂🙄 no seriously this better be scripted I CnT handle the truth 😂
Melicia is so funny how she narrated the show. Love it
I love that Kalanis sister said hes now her family and supported him seeing how insane his family is. What a great family.
Yeah they've grown on me. It seemed like they were quite rude and judgemental towards Asuelu in the beginning, but it's nice to see how theyve accepted him now.
Me too!!!
Yes they were rude to him and khelani seemed controlling I still don’t like them his family weird but his wife family is fake
@@lolakay5282 I think they're nice considering they're housing a man child who throws tamper tantrums and disrespect their daughter. He even disrespected the mom. They never throw the fact that they're financially supporting him and his kids in his face or tell him to go back to Samoa like most Americans on this show have done.
i honestly wanted to see her beat up the mom and sister
I've not been a Yara fan at all but here, regardless of how annoying I've found her to be she has every right to be upset. I don't know how she managed to stay composed at all. If my husband took me to a strip club or actually even suggested it I would've left skid marks with fire on the ground from how fast I would've run. It may be a cultural thing and I know all relationships are different. This is a boundary line that needed to be addressed before marriage. Jovi has a great job but money and a nice home doesn't replace respect. He's such a loser., blowing kisses to a stranger that's only there to extract money from him meanwhile his wife sits there feeling like shit and disrespected. Wow what a loser that guy is.
Plus he didn’t sleep in their home probably went back and hooked up with the stripper
For real you must absolutely hate your wife to pull that kind of shit on your spouse
I'm with you and am not in any way a Yara fan, but certainly feel that she had a right to be upset that night.
He deserves to be married to a stripper instead of yara👍🏻
Cool girl syndrome....
Jovi seems jealous of his own child 💀
Are we not gonna talk about how toxic Jovi is!?!? "Maybe fun Yara will come out tonight" wtf is that suppose to mean. Yara deserves so much better!!!
I don't like either of them tbh, both are problematic
@@peacheskong2245 agreed .. idk why she stuck with him.. it’s partially her fault for marrying him. She needs to divorce asap
@@Bunny11344 upon looking more into it I completely understand her reactions yet I don't condone her getting physical. I hope they get it together and am happy for Yara that his mother is the type of woman to call her son out when he's wrong
I don't think he's toxic, just extremely immature.
@@peacheskong2245 I would have done the same thing. Lol
I hate when folks think if someone lives in the US they automatically have beaucoup cash.
@Kyril Jordanov Iknr! I live in Sweden, have friends in the US they work hard just to live a modest life. I've been reading books about how many Americans have to work about 12-14 hours day and still struggle. Ppl should read and talk about how life in the US is for so many millions.
It's NOT like in the movies.
Not “beaucoup”😂😂
@@xen2125 🤣😭
@@xen2125 I'm from Mississippi. That's how we say it.
The reason they think that is because ppl in the US make far more than the average anywhere is, however they don’t realize the cost of living is higher here. Like Dubai, or London, it’s SO EXPENSIVE those places so a lot struggle
*Asuelu & Kalani gives her 1 million dollars*
Her: That's not enough! I need more money
🙄🤣🤣🤣
Jovi is selfish. He wants the "fun Yara back" but then we hear she's never been to a strip club . Jovi just wants to keep up his old lifestyle and doesn't want to have to sacrifice any of it
It takes two to make a relationship work. She’s negative and miserable and he’s got issues too yet they still went ahead and got married anyway. She didn’t have to go if she didn’t want to.
Jovi needs Yara to hide his deeply closeted homosexuality from his family.
Asuelu's family is so wild....
asuelu on his deathbed: *dying*
His mom: "I'm gonna need money".
His sister: "how much did your casket cost?"
Hahaha
🤣🤣🤣😂😭🧐💀💀💀
Literally. These men have yet to understand, not all of their mamas actually love them.
Hahahahahah😅🤣😂🤣
*Asuelu 6ft under*
Her: son, where is my money?
Ffs 🤦♀️😂😂
'the more you know' had me rollin 😭😭 perfect. love these segments & this host? chefs kiss! love her commentary!!
I like how he finally stood up for his wife, but if he didn't start that baby talk, none of it would happen.
Wrong place, wrong time sure but hey nice gesture to be honest...
He definitely started it. It totally wasn't cool if him. That's a VERY personal decision to make. The smart decision would be to work on your marriage and get out of your in laws place. 🤷♀️
Well, those two witches from Samoa would have started something before night was through, that's for sure.
Asuelu's mom sounds like those church scammers asking money for themselves LOL. We knew this will happens, honestly, I was waiting to listen to Asuelu's family and Kalani's dad to speak all in the Samoan language. This is becoming like the family's Chantel show.
BINGO! 😂
I honestly thought Low was gonna step in lol but I was kinda suprised that Asuelu stepped up
🤣😅😂😭😭😭
Why you got to bring church into this bro? You understand to some people church is a place of religious meeting and worship. I understand your comment towards asuelu’s family but unnecessary to bring in church
Got that right...
Late but I just love how Kalani's parents were so chill in this mess 😅😅
Jovi really questioning a new mom on her morals of caring for her child. Jovi she’s not here to stroke your ego
He used his filthy mouth to tell a good mother she's using her child 🤮
What mind boggles me is that Tammy lives in the US and is more acclimated to the culture than her Brother. She should know better and have more empathy for his situation. What I believe is that their parents were abusive. Tammy's defense mechanism was probably to always stay on her parent's best side and even act as the snitch and executioner of her siblings.
I think Tammy was sending money, and she sees asuelo living better than her so wants him to send money. Think about it… if asuelo sends, Tammy doesn’t send or sends less. That’s why she pushes him
Her father was called a racists when he didn't want her daughter with a man from his home country. He knew the culture. Low was right in being concerned.
Facts cos he knew
Jovi needs to realize that Yara is his wife, not one of his buddies. Smh
And a mother!
Can understand him feeling neglected by Yara after the birth of Mylah. But to bring Yara to strip club and witness his interaction with the stripper is really disrespectful.
@@III-rp6zc Yara should divorce him instead.
What’s ur Instagram
Exactly....parenthood is fun AFTER the last baby graduates high school and leaves home. He needs to grow the F%$& up.
I love how Kalani was like "Tammy only has 2 kids why isn't his mom on her back about having babies" 🤭😆
It’s like the DemoRat Party ! I can You Can’t !
And Kalani calling her TamTam in her gangsta voice was hilarious 😂
@FatBoy Beaman right? The mom has actually been decent at times until Tammy starts running her mouth and egging the mom on
@@stevesanzari7294 aw... did you get lost on your way to the Klang rally hun?
@@evenstar04 😆😆😆
“I always was a grandma inside” So cute 🥺😆✨
Jovi is the worst partner ever
He is lazy even his mother is disappointed with her own son. He thinks he's still single and no wife and no child. I feel bad for Yara. I like Yara she's the best on the show. She's a great mother and a wife. If she leaves him I won't blame her maybe Jovi will then finally realize all the mistakes he doing.
@@daisyluvsummers8420
Agreed
I still like him no matter what
@@claraaguilar9899 I don’t think he’s as bad as everyone makes him out to be but Yara plays a role so that she can do no wrong in some people’s minds. He definitely has issues but she has the most negative personality and bad attitude that any woman on this show has had besides the woman who was married to George ( the Russian woman). All Yara does is frowns, complains, slaps people, and then turns things around to make herself seem good and Jovi seem bad.
why is another woman's decision of not wanting to have another baby any of their business... they're getting mad like they're the ones who're gonna be responsible for another life. ridiculous.
And at the same time have their hands out for money! Make it make sense!😂
Right
Asuelo's Mom: I don't care if your kids starve. Send me money.
Also Asuelo's Mom: Why you don't have more kid's Kalani??
(More kids she'll demand money to be taken from. As if kids don't cost money... 🙄)
@@Rachelreyes08
Asuelu's mom: 🤑🤑🤑
Asuelu's sister: 🤡🤡🤡
the looks from kalanis sister are FIERCE
Mama says she's fine with 9 kids while asking her son for money????? Oooohhhkkayy
Hi
Ikrr!!
That's why she had 9 kids.....she figured it would up her odds of getting $$
Right! Make it make sense😭
Jovi still thinks he’s single and doesn’t have a kid he needs to grow up and be a man for Yara.
I'm glad his mom finally came to her senses about the situation. Jovi needs to grow tf up already. The strip club scene was nauseating.
I love how Low just strolls in calmly asking what’s going on like a fight isn’t breaking out lmao
As much as Asuela started that fight, Tammy and her mom were looking for something to pounce on to rage at.
Kalani started the fight. Asuelu was just trying to express to Kalani what he wanted, which they had already talked about before & Kalani didn’t tell him she was against having anymore kids.
Considering everyone in the room, Kalani should’ve thanked him for the gift, and then talked to him about it privately. She knows anything she says her mother & sister in law are gonna have an opinion about, so it would’ve been better just to diffuse the situation & talk about it in private. That’s what normal mature people do. So it kinda makes me wonder if it wasn’t a set up.
@@moonglow630 he ain't got no money. I'm sure they talked about that too.
@Khizott_MaeMae 😂😂
She been told him she didn't want another baby so the fact he gave her that blanket just shows he don't listen to what she wants it's all about what he wants
I can't stand his sister. she thinks she's better than everyone else.
Hi
shes more of a fight first talk last,her way of reasoning is knocking someone out
She has the maturity level of a 10 year old which is twice as old as Asuelus maturity level
She’s a bum and wants her brother to act like her husband. It’s disgusting her and the mother.
God I love your commentary shows. Its so funny especially the "More you know" clip bits
I can’t stand Tammy as soon as she walked in the house she starts with her bs you can tell she’s just envious of the way they live she must be miserable in her own life...what Tammy needs to do is give her mom money since she’s so concerned 😆
@Live to ride Ride to live she probably was beating her husband up too much when he didn’t do what she wants. Her kids probably hate her too.
Tammy is the type of person that reality show producers love. They must love the drama she brings
Drama yes,trashy behavior yes
She's hoping for her on spin-off!😆😅🤣😂
Angela takes the cake now lol
The ET host is fantastic!
Yara deserve someone who will love her for her grandma self
Lmfao I’m dead
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Fr
😂😂😂😂
Lol. Nothing wrong with a lil geriatric tease😫🤣
Jovi's mom is the best. I hope Yara realizes how lucky she is to have a mother-in-law like that.
I agree
I also think khalanis mom and dad are the best!
I agree Jojo Bee
I think she married him because of how awesome his mom is 😆
Yesoooo. Well said. She is very lucky. I like your comments
The mother made me laugh so hard!......" don't touch us " " get away from us " 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
We don’t like you anymore 😅
If ya seen the episode it’s crazy and rude of Tammy and Asuela mom to only talk about getting money and being disrespectful at Aseulas house. I’m glad he finally stood up for his family and wife and kicked them out.
As for Jovi he is annoying for saying Yara is boring now that she’s a mother, well geesh atleast she’s being responsible mother!
Yeah, Jovi is immature. I think he didn't want to be a dad or to grow. Why did he get married if he doesn't want to be a husband?!
Why doesn't Tammy give her mom money. They should go back home never come around asking for money for her gambling habit
I love how Kalani’s dad just walks in wanting know what’s going on like he didn’t hear them before.
He came for the show
"hey, HEEYY!!..." i laughed too hard😆😆
It’s fake
I think he's reaaaaaally avoiding getting involved, cus when he does it won't b good for anyone.
@@Bellaagri_ low would f shit up
“Tackle” is a strong word.
What’s up with Jovi and this “fun Yara” he speaks of. Why can he not understand that she barely even has time for herself because she is focused on caring for a living, breathing, tiny human???
He still has the party boy mentality
And primarily by herself when he is at work for a month at a time and away for work at that.
Because she is still his wife..... having a baby can change a relationship but he is away from his family months on end and wants to spend time with his wife too. His mom agreed to keep their baby so they can have some one on one. Yes love your kids, make them your priority just remember when you're in a relationship you have to find balance. Most people don't think about kids growing up and moving out then whats left for you and your spouse/partner??? Bottom line these two didn't know each other well enough to start a family in the first place imo.
@ルフバクシュモナ to me its obvious he wants to spend time with his wife too in addition to their child. Yara makes everything about their daughter which is ok, but she still needs to make time for their marriage
@ルフバクシュモナ when did I say the child shouldn't be a priority???? Never, ofcourse the child she be a priority.... but also being a wife does too. I have 3 children 2 who are now grown and out of the house and a teenager been married for almost 25 years. When you're married your a team and you make time for each other or when those kids grow up you won't have a spouse. They have to a find balance.
I've had a shi*ty day, at least this entertained me lol
My God Tammy was basically like "I KNOW YOU HAVE MONEY, GIIIIIIIVE ME!"
90 days is addictive 🤣🤣
I would have asked them to leave the minute they walked past me without speaking. And the nerve of them to ask how much they paid for the house. DISGUSTING!
😆
Lol
Lmao, sorry about your day, I had A very tiring one too and this was amazing to watch...
Love this lady and the editors
Why is Jovi’s only idea of fun drinking and strip clubs? Find experiences that both of you can enjoy and agree on new adventures to go on.
Fr, there is zero compromise there. Their relationship stresses ME out.😂
He's immature...
@@Somegirl3602 THANKYOU ! But you forgot to add Selfish !
Maybe his wife should step up? He tried to plan a romantic dinner date & she shit on his idea, saying Russians aren't romantic. Agrees to go to the strip club & then wants to leave. She's putting in zero effort.
Kalani's dad is damn unintentionally funny 😂
He came in just like a dad would... late 🤣🤣🤣🤣lol he's a nice guy
😂😂😂😂 his what the hell cracked me up
“Wat da hell...”
@@shook198 😂😂
The editing of this legit cracked me up
“Leave us alone, we don’t like you anymore” this actually killed me😭😂
😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣😂😂😂
😂😂💀💀
“Hey, what the hell?”
Lol 😆
I'm surprised Asuelu's mom and sister want him to have more kids; that'd be less money available for them
It's not about having more kids. They're just trying to drive a rift between the two of them. They're being manipulative.
@@tdvaval16 I agree, they're being manipulative
@@tdvaval16 correct 👏🏾
They’re trying everything to decide them. I can even fake it with Asuelu’s sister.
I love that asuelu gave her sister a fake lotto 😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Granted in Samoa its respectful to help your parents in their old age...but doesn't this woman have 8 other kids??
Hello thank you for saying that.... How much money are they giving. I'm guessing it's not that much considering all she wants from Asuelu and Kalani is their money......
I guess cause Asuelu is in the US they expect riches, that’s how some of my family back home thinks
You give money and god bless you. period 😂😂
@@sahin4805 lol😁😁😁😁
OH AND DONT FORGET, Tammy says she's not obligated to the same finance responsibilities as her siblings. And doesn't give money to her own mother.... but expects her brother to pay for her lifestyle as well cause their mother pays for it.
Also Kelani and her sister are so beautiful to me
They are especially kolini
Yesss
Good. He finally stood up to them.
I lost my shit at the ‘’we don’t like you anymore’’ 😭😭😭😭😭
🤣😅😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Jovi is such a disappointment. To his wife and his mother. Looks like he’ll be going down the path of being a disappointing father...
ok i’m a bit late to this 🤣 but someone tell me why is tammy even relevant here?! does this woman not have a life of her own?! she’s so much in asuelu and kalani’s life and buisness... it kills me. 🤦🏻♀️ and kolini omggg she definitely got her sister’s back 💯 i love kalani and kolini ❤️ asuelu you have a great and beautiful woman and gaining an awesome sisters-in-law and more
I'm so damn proud of Asuelu, whether he started that or not by giving her that blanket, they should have been cut off from coming into their home from the minute they threatened his wife and her family. Props to him for tryin to include them, they are his family after all, but I don't care what country you're from, you show the upmost respect to someone when you are coming into their home. Especially on Christmas.
I feel bad for Asuelu. I feel like he love his mother and sister but they just won’t act right and it puts him in a bad position.
Asuelo’s Mom : “ WE DON’t LIKE YOU ANYMORE ! “ 😂
😂
The way i am cackling LOOOOOL !!
Sounds like kids pushin each other in the playground
😂😂😂😂😂
She never liked them 🤣
Kolini is the best! 😂😂 Tammy thought she was gonna back down to her. High key I think she was happy Asuelu dragged her out. 😂😂😂
At least Jovi’s mom wasn’t deaf to Yara’s side of the story. Kudo’s to her, she is one of the few moms in the cast that doesn’t automatically defend her child that behaved badly.
Who takes their wife to a strip clubbing? What a creep, she just had their baby!
Who goes to a strip club with their husband if they don’t wanna be there? He didn’t force her, she went so that she could use it as an excuse to get physically violent with him.
you would be surprised at how many women go to strip clubs with their boyfriends and husbands. I find it odd myself but I know some people who do and they act like I am the weird one for not wanting to.🤷🏼♀️
@@mariancounsellor Girl wtf. She went because she wanted to make him happy. He literally complained that she's "boring" and "not fun anymore" so she went to prove him wrong
@@mariancounsellor For a husband to even suggest a strip club to his wife is just so disrespectful. You have a doormat mentality.
Asuelo's mom needs to harrass her other 8 kids for money. He needs to dump that toxic sludge. Just because she gave him life doesn't mean he owes her anything. His children come first, and if he can only give 50 dollars, she should be grateful for even getting that much.
It's the "We dont like you anymore!" for me🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭
Lol
Lmao 😂
I don’t like you but I still want your money
😭😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣
That’s shit had me cracking up.
You go Yara! You deserve someone who will respect you ...
She needs to divorce him and get with someone thats not out of her league. Her standards definitely need to drop even more now that she has a kid.
These edits and the comentator is FIREEEEEEE, ET is stepping it up a lot🔥
Kolini and Kalani are so beautiful with their mom...beautiful hair❤they look like rapunzel...sooo beautiful.
Why does Tammy always bud in and want to fight!? I'm on asuelo side thank God he kicked them out! Bye money digging mama🤭
Tammy is just so envious and a very bitter person.
@@veronicalidstrom5424 yeah she was like hey ma did u see how fancy this house is,and the baby moment wasnt good,but tammy was put in her place she wants her bro to have 9 kids but yet tammy only has 2 what gives?
Love how they replayed the get away from us!!! Like three times!!! Lol !! WE DON'T LIKE YOU ANYMORE!!!! FLIPPING HILARIOUS!!!!😂
The way the mother said “Leave us alone, Don’t touch us” literally killed me😂😂😂😂 the best part ever
100 LMAO
😂😂😂
What made me laugh was the « we don’t like you anymore » 😂. Silly me thought parents are supposed to love their kids
🤣🤣🤣
Lol lol lol
They give Samoans a bad wrap
They make them seem like money hungry foreigners
His sister’s attitude is disgusting
And why don’t they realize that khalani’s family is the one who helps them all the time
I've never been but from that I've seen (outside of the show) they seem like authentic, down to earth people! They deserve to be represented accordingly. from what I've read up on, they're extremely hard working for what they have. I have so much respect for them.
Why ask for another baby when you can afford the ones you have kalani's parents are helping them.... Get on your own feet then think about another baby which should be a discussion with you and your wife alone he's got a lot of growing up to do
Asualu needs to stop with the more babies already. He's not even paying for the ones he has now. Tammy made herself look really stupid thinking that her brother has this big house. He doesn't have anything other then the clothing on his back. Everything else is paid for by his father and mother-inlaw. 🤦🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️.
Unfortunately, they are both bad representation but, I am team Asuelo. Who else wants to deal Kalani? She doesn't work not ambitious at all
True.. I'm 22 and never heard of samoans before.. and being this is a first impression of samoan people. It's kinda bad.. only because Asuelu family seems very money hungry in the bad way.. like break your knees for money kinda way
I can't believe how fast the transition from 😀 to 😦 can be with Kalani and Asuelu
About time asuelo threw them out