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Is- is nobody going to talk about how this comment was posted 3 days ago when the video itself was posted an hour ago???
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Can you kindly post the names of the games playing in the background? They look interesting enough for me to check them out. Thanks.
Story 2: The angry guy wasn't just an entitled jerk, but also an idiot.
Story 5: Minnie is a mooch who's dumb with money. "Minnie the Mooch" is a perfect nickname for her.
Story 6: If the OP's father did actually suffer from genuine mental problems, then talking to him now that he's gotten help may not hurt too much. That said, use of the word "absolved" is kind of a red flag. The father would be more sympathetic if he wanted to ATONE for the past before he dies.
I honestly cried at the last one because I saw their side but when they said "He was so happy and was brainstorming ways to meet me after I got back." And then later that it had made him cry I felt so bad for him in that moment I literally cried
i felt bad too😢 but i respect what she wants but maybe if he uses his birthday wish then yk a one time happy birthday🎉😅
I felt bad for him too, understand how the op felt but why tell them to put em on speaker so they can say that to their father and if they were that hell bent on it they could've done that any other day
@@lordtwego3142 because the OP felt for whatever reason that the abuse they suffered was severe enough they never wanted to deal with him again and the lie that they told the man tried to get him to get back in contact with her. The decision on whether or not to forgive him is ultimately up to the daughter and she decided not to.
The family ignored that decision. It's good that he's getting better, and if he is getting better he needs to recognize that he can ask for forgiveness but he cannot demand it. If this was what she had to do to hammer home the point after stating multiple times that she didn't want to deal with him then this says a lot about that family and that situation.
The truth that she didn't want to deal with him was going to come up one way or another and while it may seem cruel to do it on the man's birthday it was words he needed to hear. The family is the one that told him a lie and therefore they're the ones to blame for the fact that the truth hurt him.
They shouldn't have done that. OP isn't the one to blame.
Boo hoo for him, I guess. He shouldn't have abused his kid. The family shouldn't have been manipulative gaslighters.
*Story 1:* What the hell?! Why would anyone just waltz in to someone's home in the wee hours of morning just to destroy OP's TV? That makes no sense.
Entitlement and no condom.
What bothers me is the *"entitlement"* they felt for intruding on someone's property and then destroying someone's TV when they're not allowed to play games with it.
@@LunaP1no condom is crazy😭😭
Unfortunately this is what happens when you try to be nice to people!!
Both the Karen and her brat deserve to be kicked out.
Yeah, and to be forced to pay for the damage to the TV. Who allows their brat to do things like this?
She thought that she had to let them stay there. She was a guest and didn't need to be in there anyhow. At that hour of the morning I wouldn't get out of bed. I would be just about as grumpy as I ever could be at that hour
@@jasoncarpp7742she's the kind of person who would let her kid wreck a museum exhibit with the excuse "my child was bored and what to play with something. You can buy a new irreplaceable ancient vase to replace the one my child broke."
Agreed but man she's an idiot for opening the door at 3 fucking am
Don’t let random strangers or people you know in your house at 3 am especially when you’re home alone that’s asking to get harmed and robbed or have your shit destroyed.
That karen needs to be arrested for destruction of private property and that child needs to get a whopping. That child is basically saying, "I want a spanking! I want a spanking! I want a spanking!" No child should ever be that spoiled to the point of breaking someone else's stuff.
Maybe the child is that violent because of being spanked.
"We need the Plumber in room 2"😂😂😂😂😂
Same thing happened to me when I was leaving a pizza place I worked for late after inventory, except it wasn't a cop, it was a security guard, and they blocked me in the parking lot until I could get the GM to show up. Fortunately she lived close and wasn't asleep yet.
I should also mention I had worked at the place for two years at that point, and had taken that particular guard's order like three times that week.
The last one, they are in the wrong. It's up to you if you want to reconnect with your father and not them!!!.
After everything he's done to you i don't blame you at all
I don't think OP is much better. If the dad was diagnosed with mental health problems and seemed help, surely uts better to give it a go and give them the chance to earn you back. And do do that so harshly on speaker is cruel.
I had mental health issues and needed my friends but they basically were like said OP and just left me in a bad way. People like that who aren't there or atleast understanding and show some sympathy and support for mental health and just think entirely of themselves are selfish. Their Dad's seeked help so he's done the hard part which is addressing the problem and start the journey to recovery. That OP should show some support.
If it was something about meeting once, setting boundaries but where there's a chance to rebuild things than that is fine. To be so heartless though. Yeah OP is a selfish jerk.
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6:41 story 3
9:53 story 4
11:58 story 5
15:00 story 6
1:28 i just can't believe how realistic that sounded 😂
FYI, if you do not break out to poison ivy or the other two, it simply means you're not allergic to the oil they produce. In the us, roughly 15% of the population isn't allergic to it. I'm happy to claim that I'm among that 15%, which I have used to my advantage in Boy Scouts during games of man hunt and clearing trails/camp sites.
On the plant story; Telling a kid not to touch something is like saying stay out of puddles. It's an open invitation to do exactly that.
True, but then they have no one to blame but themselves if/when something goes wrong.
That noise at 1.29 got me rolling 😂
Why would you just turn up at someone's house at 3am? Call first!
Regarding Story #5 - One of the best lessons my step-father ever taught me --- When I hear the phrase "it's only money," then I should pay attention to who's money that person is referring. If you catch onto the pattern of that person using "it's only..." only when referring to some one else's money (or other asset), then you should never lend them anything you expect to be paid back. It was a great lesson that opened my eyes and allowed me to leave some potentially bad situations/relationships before things went south.
It's a broad and simple rule, and there are certainly nuances which allow for common sense. The key part is that you should just start paying closer attention when you hear it, and the use of idioms shouldn't be the sole basis for ending relationships. However, I do find that this rule has developed over the years and I've learned that it applies with those people whom habitually discount others; not only financially, but emotionally, & mentally.
Regarding Story #6 - I can empathize with OP. While I'm glad the OP's father got help, and I agree that it's a sad situation, I certainly don't believe everything should automatically be forgiven and forgotten. Personally, I was in my late 20s before I finally stopped having dreams replaying my own physical abuse. I couldn't imagine the damage it it would have done if that person re-entered my life. Also, while I'm very glad the father got the help he needed, it should be said that it was in the 'too little, too late' timeframe. When you are a parent, you're primary task is to protect your children , and to take whatever action is necessary before it's too late.
I know we've come a long way as a society in our understanding of PTSD in the past 2 decades, but the fact is that PTSD has been around for quite a while now. If the father went to the V.A. doctor 15 -20 years ago, there' would have been a high probability of a correct diagnoses with the offer of help. I'm certainly interpolating a lot based on the OP's story and my personal experience, but I'd bet the reason that the father didn't seek this help was his misguided understanding of masculinity and fatherhood. As a father, he didn't do what needed to be done to protect his children, and that's not easily forgotten.
Story 5: I got a similar lesson from my Dad. Never lend anything that you can't afford to lose. Money, personal property, etc. Do not expect that a loan will ever be paid back in full.
About the poison ivy story:
Poison ivy is actually an allergen that gets a reaction from almost everyone, OP's dad simply isn't allergic to it.
Yup, I lack that allergy, too. My sister, on the other hand is very allergic. We learned those facts on the same day.
@KamiNoBaka1 I'm not allergic to it either. My boy scout troop took full advantage of that by having me lead all the uncut trails and to remove any ivy. Lol
@@KamiNoBaka1 I'm already cracking up from that.
P.S. Not being allergic to poison ivy is basically a superpower, as someone who has that, you can do what the father from OP's story did. Enjoy!
Story 1, yeah "you can just buy another tv" would have done the same thing as the OP
On the last story the most important thing to remember is that while yes the man may have gone through therapy and became a better person and once forgiveness forgiveness is not his or anybody else's to demand.
Forgiveness is something that you offer not request. The daughter has every right in the world to refuse to forgive for the hurt she went through and the family trying to force it will only make the situation worse. You cannot just apologize a way 20 years of abuse
Honestly it's better to forgive then not to forgive at all I went through abuse and honestly I think before he dies before she has any regrets she should talk to him I will love to do that to my dad but I don't know where he is and I don't know how to do it but I would love to if I could I would want to do it before he passes away because I rather have that off my chest then have regrets for the rest of my life about what he's done to me what he's done to my mom and family I want to move on but I can't because I have so much regret of not going to talk to him my dad is going to die soon and I know he is he's lost the I already he has heart problems he has so many medical problems already you're saying that forgiveness is not something that can be forced but regret is something I rather not in most people rather not live with because regret is worse then not forgiving someone
@@tofluffybunny6780 thank you for feeling safe enough to mention this. I'm not going to pretend to know what you or even the original poster went through. That being said, my point still stands that the decision to forgive is ultimately up to the original poster. It's good that he was getting help and was getting better. But nobody is entitled to forgiveness. It's something you can ask for but not demand
Some wounds are so severe they cannot heal And if the original poster has determined for her own sake that the hurt she went through cannot be healed That is ultimately up to her.
The reason why the family are the jerks in this situation is because they took that decision away from her. And the fact that the OP felt the need to make that call to begin with speaks volumes about the situation.
Original poster feels that the abuse they suffered is enough to never deal with this man ever again and the lie the parents made incentivized the man to try and reach back out to her despite *EXPLICITLY* that she wanted nothing to do with him.
That entire family, with the exception of the brother looking out for her, intentionally ignored the OP, their boundaries, and their right consent. Not the asshole.
@@tofluffybunny6780 I let my bio dad die without earning my forgiveness. I have zero regrets. Forgiveness is for the victim, not the abuser. You can absolutely forgive them without having any further interactions with them. Forgive from afar. Keep living your best life away from their toxicity.
The science teacher should have gotten a few stinging nettles plants to teach the children about dangerous plants. Stinging nettles are irritating but there is a similar plant that is far worse called Gympie Gympie. That is the plant that you don't want, it not only causes worse pain but sometimes months or even years later you might occasionally feel the pain of it. There are apparently a lot of dangerous plants.
I mean I doubt said teacher is immune to nettles the same way he is to poison ivy, or rather urushiol, the irritant it secretes. I'm immune to urushiol, but stinging nettles still sting.
Hell, let's just plant a whole sandbox tree in the school yard to really teach them.a lesson.
This is for the last story. I had an uncle that, according to my mom, my dad, my cousins (two of them being his own kids), and my aunt (the one not married to my uncle) all said what an abusive asshole he was. From one of my family stories, he was in Vietnam when he was young, and I think was married to my aunt at the time. So after that happened and was home, he abused his wife, his daughter and his son to the point the both them were raised by our grandparents, my mom and aunts' parents. One point pulled a gun at one of his kids. I say that they are stories because they all happened before I and my younger cousin even existed. I never seen the dark side of him, nor did his youngest daughter. So yeah, he had 3 kids total from one wife, at the time. There was one incident, that affected me and my younger cousin. My mom, my brother, my aunt and my cousin went to my grandma's house to delay my uncle from harming said aunt and cousin. Me and my cousin were sent to one of my grandma's closets to hide. If anything, I was more of my cousin's moral support if anything. Oh I think I was 5 or 6 where my cousin was 4 or 5 when it happened. Anyways, the point is that my family was trying to stop my uncle from doing harm and someone called the cops at one point, I think before shit hit the fans. I was told not to leave the closet until everything was over, i.e. someone comes to us and says it's over. In the end I didn't see what happened nor the cops. Til this day, even after his death, my family has never forgiven him. I don't think my cousin ever knew or remembered about that day. I have no ill will towards my uncle but I understand what my family went through with the person I thought I knew. Point is that trauma doesn't go away the moment the abuser gets up, at least I think my uncle gotten help. Odds are that op only saw the worst and most of the family saw what he was before he cause the harm. Whatever op decides is up to them. Is the family's fault on giving him false hope. If op's dad is sad about it then that proves he has improved. But come on! If you built a relationship on a lie, it will fall apart. Op NTA. Stop being selfish and leave op alone and let them decide on how to confront op's father. Odds are op will not forgive the father even after his death or shed a tear.
Good acting at the beginning got me laughing
I can relate to the last story because I also had a abusive father growing up I was the youngest of 4 and his abuse was mainly aimed towards my mother and oldest brother because he would try to protect her while I was too young to really do anything, we left him and moved to the us from Mexico and I’ve lived 16 years without having him or a father figure in my life and now some of my siblings have been in contact with him and for the most part that’s their business and I don’t see anything wrong with it but I don’t like that they’re trying to pressure me into it too, the only memory I have of this man is me and my mother hiding in the bathroom because he came home while high off crack, ik they say his changed and that’s great on him for doing so but to me this is just a stranger that use to beat my family and abuse them I don’t see why I should be made to feel bad because I don’t want him in my life nor do I wanna talk to him
Stay strong! He doesn't get a do-over for years of abuse. What's done is done, and he has only himself to blame.
If he's straight up been abusive then I understand the feeling. My dad was amd used my as weapon for 3 years which affected my mental health and me and my much younger sister still see him but not close but since he got a new girlfriend he got better. I think various miscarriages before my sister is what was the start of it. I was 15 and she was 2 when they split.
There was nothing mental disorder for him though, so while he's still in our lives, we're not close.
As for the OP.of the last story my opinion differs as mental health was involved and the dad got diagnosed and seemed help. To me there should have atleast been a meeting and boundaries set and see where things left. I think the dad if that story should have a chance and how OP was on speaker to him, that's cruel.
was just hoping to find a new am i the jerk video and saw this and now this is a good day
My family wants me to forgive my dad after he did NSFW things to my sister for years and was emotionally abusive to us to the point of me not even being able to cry anymore(even after getting A 1cm deep/wide/long gash in my elbow only 1 tear got out)and I can literally smile while going through anything that I have seen people break down completely from.
Am I a jerk for not wanting him in my life anymore?
Really when I saw the title I thought they just walked in trespassing and invading someone's home.
I can relate on poison ivy immunity. Both me and my deceased grandmother have the immunity to it as well. It's crazy seeing the rest of the family break out when I can handle it no problem.
Last story: its honestly quite simple. Someone’s mental health issues is not the issues of others. It does not matter what the dad had. He left it untreated and it ruined his relationship with OP. Objectively, it is good he got it fixed before it did more harm. It is also a pleasant privilege that some family members are trying to reconnect now that he is better.
However, his actions are still his, regardless of mental illness. So it is his consequences to bear for their repercussions. One of those repercussions is knowing that he will die without ever getting to talk to OP in his positive mental state.
So yeah OP is not the jerk. The father made his choices and is reaping the results. Everyone else needs to stop and respect OP because otherwise they are being just as bad as the father was.
Forgiveness can be asked for but ultimately it is up to the hurt party to offer it. If the father is doing better that's good. If the rest of the family forgives him that's fine. The OP is within their rights as the hurt party to simply say I do not forgive you.
It doesn't hurt the OP in anyway letting her dad believe the lie that the family told him. But she is just being vindictive and wants to hurt her dad.
@@TheCarlitos562 except for the part where thanks to the family doing that the father wanted to further contact somebody who has explicitly stated they want nothing to do with them.
The family crossed a line and the outcome is entirely their fault. And you know what If the OP is being vindictive that's well within their rights. The OP is the victim and as such Is well within their rights not to let their name be associated with them in any way especially if that lie causes that abuser to reach out to them
Of course she has the right to feel how ever she wants, but going to the point where she calls to basically hurt her dad she is repeating the cycle and it isn't good for either. The only thing I could find unforgivable is if the dad SA the girl. Most other things with time.
@@TheCarlitos562 And that is honestly her right to do so. She has stated multiple times that she wants nothing to do with him. If this is what it takes that message you finally sink in then so be it. Regardless of what the exact abuse was it was serious enough that she wants nothing to do with the man and has made that very very obvious.
Everything that happened was default of the family who decided against her wishes try and get them on better terms. Because of family's lie the abuser was going to attempt to contact her which again was against her wishes.
The fact that this was necessary to hammer home the fact that she wants nothing to do with him says a lot about the situation and a lot about the family. They don't respect her or her choice not to associate with the man.
It is good that he got mental help and is doing better, but he is not owed forgiveness, that is up to the OP to decide *NO ONE* else
I would be pissed at that poison ivy teacher I'm highly allergic to it and get huge rashes that last for weeks and have to gwt shots and take pills to get rid of it I don't even have to touch the plant to get it
In the first story,everything was honky Dory until that brat destroyed the TV,and the op should have sued then because the mom literally refused to pay the op back for something her spawn did
Nothing good happens at 3am lol
Ive had dealings like that with multiple cops, they are all on a power trip and are proud of it
Poison Ivy irritation is actually an allergic reaction. Many people have this allergy, and can have problems with other members of that family (Anacardiaceae) such as mangos, or Chinese pistache.
I hate the voice used for the kid in the first story lol so well done XD
I wanna play I wanna play "sounds like he's about to poop his pants"
Not like cops ever need a good reason to pull up on anyone...
This is what happens if you want to call the manager in 3am 0:00
He thought the head nurse was the plumber? Considering what he was like I would have had him taken to the psychiatric ward. Maybe he needed it more than his mother. I would have to tell him that a plumber and doctor are not the same and doctors go to school for at least a few years to earn degrees. If he continued to ask for help I would just stop and say excuse me, I though I was just a plumber and by that logic I am unable to assist you, good day Sir!!
1:29 😂😂
I saw the first story on mini ladd’s channel. And honestly, people can be entitled at times
karen deserves to get out with her evil child spawn for what they did to op and his parents's tv in their house and i hope there's a part 2 to this story
if there is than i hope the parents sue karen.
I grew up u see but don’t touch,u break it u replace it
Chick already has a kid and nowhere to go and she doesn’t abort instead choosing to bring another kid into the world. Wtf? 🤦♂️
17:29 "they made him cry, not me" bro what is wrong with you, that sentence literally makes no sense, what
They made him cry by making him false hope.
You get told a lie and later you're sad and/or cry as you learn the truth. Now who made you cry? The person who told you the truth or the person who lied to you?
9:19 Op is probably has some poison ivy resistance most don't have this resistance
1:25
the accuracy of the whininess just… angers me. aaaa. i can only imagine how much more annoying it *actually* is coming from a shrill voiced brat
2. How did the mom have a UTI that had gotten so bad it was causing DELERIUM without anyone noticing? Didn't they notice she had been acting weird before she went hunting for the non existent people in the attic? I really hope someone followed up with her in some way after this hospital visit. Obviously, she wasn't getting the kind of help/care she needed from her AH son!
3. Hahaha that was wonderful!
5. It is crazy how people feel entitled to other people's money! How did this become such a common thing?
6. Yes, they were wrong for what they did at the birthday party and no, you are not obligated to have anyone in your life BUT, you have no clue what PTSD is like. Especially in Vets. He absolutely should have gotten help sooner and yes, it is unfair that the things he was dealing with hurt the family. The difference is, his hurting everyone wasn't by choice, you doing it is.
It absolutely was the last guy's choice to abuse his kid. He could have gotten treatment. He could have moved out to keep them safe from him. He did none of those things.
On the last story I understand where she's coming from but I will say that forgiveness is not for your father, it's for you.
The brat yells me: laughing my ass of is he trying to go super sayen?
being pregnant or being a single mother isn’t an excuse to break the law, honey.
In reference to the last story, it is her right to do that, it was very vindictive for her to do it the way she did it. I know how bi-polar makes you act, because i have it and i know a similar pain to what the father probably feels because my brother and my grandparents hate me due to my bi-polar being out of control about 3 years ago. All i can say is that i hope the op doesnt live to regret her decision or go through a similar battle with mental health.
1:29 holy frick
I WAnna PwAyyyyy I wannA pLwAY WAAAAAAAh
Big fan
Forgive me, officer, but you’re not wound too tight, are you?
In the last, he is the jerk
Story 2: i would have planted a suicide plant
Why answer the door at 3 am?
What game is in the background
onlu up i think
Gotta say, in story 4, the cop coulda handled it better but at least when he saw he saw in the wrong, he backed off unlike other stories you hear. Also, no one is perfect but he's trying so that's something
Hello
I know it sounds terrible but I hope she has a stillborn baby we don't need more of her in this world
"In my bra and panties" 💀💀💀
Would you rather she just said "in my panties"?
Ur the best
Second/first if it counts also I don’t really care if I’m first
Edit:I don’t really mind if I’m not first my comments don’t load in fast so I don’t see other comments so I’m sorry if I said first if I wasn’t 😓
no one cares.
Did you read the edit
@@Milk-vb2tc yeah and I said no one cares.
@viviennemorgan7217 if you don't care, why don't you just ignore it?
@@SweetyO666 exactly
Does anyone know what game this is?
Story 1
What if the op GTA or PT
theres an L instead of an I in the title
How d you get the emoji
Not to be rude but like if it was possible or cheaper couldn’t you just fix the glass on the tv sorry if it’s more complicated then that but I think fixing it instead of buying a new tv is a little better
Not to condone his behavior… but cops tend to have to deal with a lot of messed up things that it’s natural for them to assume the worst.. and alot of people forget they are in fact human beings… with emotions, mental health issues, you name it… they have it…
there is a cop who I looked to as a father figure my entire life… who’s name will be replaced with E for privacy… He had recounted a case to me that he responded to that shook him to his core.. he pulls up to the scene to see a little girl about the same age as his oldest kid riddled with bullet holes that are stuffed with a man’s private juices… alls he could picture in that moment was his own kid in that position… and it tore away at him mentally… and for a while E was inconsolable by anything except the bottle…
Cops have to go through a lot of trauma and deal with situations we ourselves can’t…
Story 6: I think the OP is the jerk. If u don't want to b close with ur dad, that's fine. Just... at least give him the chance to apologize. He'll prbly b sad that he won't get to b close with u, but at least he'll have that weight off his chest.
Tho i can understand why u don't want to associate with him. He did not treat u right at all. What he did was not right. He should never have done those things, regardless of anything that was going on with him.
But... we should always try to b forgiving. It is completely understandable if it takes time. Sometimes these things take time. But, if he really has changed, then at least try to see that.
Heck, u don't ever hafta become pals. U could just... send a message saying that u have forgiven him if and when u decide to forgive him and leave it at that
I FOUND IT
First actually 10th
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it's all well and good, even reasonable to Want forgiveness, but you ae not entitled to it, no one Has to forgive abuse as a child, even if you had issues. apparently the guy ned to talk to his therapist about moving on without the forgiveness and magical fresh start he wants. because abuse lingers even if you had your own issues.
I was awtside and somone scremed at me she sed be qiete jerk I ignord it
First???
Yessirrr
The last story's op was the jerk actually imma just come right out and say it they were the asshole bro just wanted a talk a talk isn't too much to ask
tOES.
The last story is realy messed up the op whating to do noting about the father
But the family takeimg it so far to making the fater think that so the op look like she cared when she did not what to do anyting to this
And to nail the coffin it was all on his 70th b day
It is realy messed up to thing about a family gass lighting the dad even though he changed for the better and thinking that the op was oppen airms when they realy did not
To me it goes realy hard on me becase i have experienced tings simalar to this as i have been manipulated "to well"and let me tell YOU THAT THEY HAVE Gilt TRICK ME INTO DOING STUF TO ME that might harm me in any situation
Second third fourth one
Don’t mean to be that guy… First
Ikr I don’t dislike those people but like what do you want a reward I don’t mean you
O boi im early!
Weeeee
1st
Team no jerks
Are you getting storys from other people cuz I've noticed that your storys switched genders?
>:(
Slw run of only up
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Sure, in the last case it is absolutely OPs choice to act that way. Which does not change the fact that said OP is, in fact a massive jerk.
Did you get abused? If not the stfu. Do you know how the feeling is if your abuser get in contact with you? Do you know what wounds the contact with the father could open up in op again? Especially as she doesn't want any kind of contact with him. If I have to "shut you up"/" hurt you with the truth" to protect myself you can bet that I would do that.
@@kevintull3302 Except she did not need to protect herself from him anymore. All she needed to do was stay away and do not engage, yet she decided to call in and unnecesarily hurt the man she owes her life to. That is not an action of vulnerable victim. That is an action of a jerk.
@@gobihoukou1 oh so I can torment my child because I gave him his live? So are your one of those idiots who think that because they gave their child their live that they can do with it what they want? And yes op was in danger! Her abuser wanted to get in contact with her again. And you can bet that the selfish family who gives a crap about op's boundaries would help him with it! Op wasn't in physical danger, she was in mental danger. If you can stop a fire before it spreads you do it.
@@gobihoukou1 Owes her life to? Hell no. Donating sperm is not the same as being an actual father who guides, loves, nurtures, and teaches their offspring to be great people. OP's sperm donor lost any right to call himself a father. Nobody has the right to judge an abuse victim who refuses to have a relationship with their abuser. The bio dad had PTSD. So does his abuse victim. Why should the OP retraumatize himself/herself by speaking to that monster? No.
@@InteriorDesignStudent Maybe read again what I wrote. I clearly stated that what makes her a jerk is not the fact she does not want to speak to him. She did no need to, she could have kept her distance. But no, she decided to speak to him of her own volition, with clear intent to needlesly harm him. That is what makes her a jerk.
And yes, she does owe him her life. Like it or not, she would not exist without that "sperm donation" as you call it.
The vindictive Daughter is a jerk. The simple fact that she felt the need to emotionally hurt her father by telling him the truth. She wants to be petty and not deal with him, Fine. Let the rest of the family lie to the man so he isn't plagued by this till he soon dies. How does it hurt the OP to just ignore her fam and let the man believe a lie. It doesn't but she is being vengeful and wants to make her dad keep suffering. Sadly one day she will most likely do something that her kids will hold over her head and untill then she might understand but her vengeance probably won't.
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I'm sorry I strongly disagree with the last one yes she has a right to feel a certain way but making a seventy-year-old man who has regrets in his life who wants to change that and fix that before he dies is just wrong that you would call him yelling at him you wanted nothing to do that actually is heartless and the fact that you're agreeing with her is even worse again she has a right to her own opinions but she doesn't need to drag her dad down when he's trying to recover noir need to tell people that she is in the right because in the end she's not in I know that abuse is sucking so hard to get over I've been abused for so many years since I was seven since I could remember I saw my mom with bruises I saw my mom get cheated on I got abused my sister got abused I got verbally abused everyone got abused and verbally but in the end you should not be that resentful because all you're doing is just making it worse instead of yelling at your dad you shouldn't have even bothered texting anyting if you were just going to get upset he's trying to mend his relationship with you and yes it's a hard thing to but in the end why are you going to go that far and making him cry does it make you feel better making him cry because I don't see how it would make you feel any better or give you closure it actually does make you look like a jerk and you can't tell me otherwise because I still have regretted not telling my dad that I forgive him the I want to mend our relationship but I know my dad hasn't went through any change like your dad's trying to go through it makes me want to cry the fact that he's trying to change and mend the relationship with you and you can't even give him the time of day you're so messed up I would love to have that chance but it's obvious to tell you're too privileged to see that his making an effort a lot of people don't do that so I disagree with you and the op of the last and I don't care how many people are going to disagree with me because if you haven't gone through abuse and if you have had a chance to do something like this then you won't understand
Sorry for what happened to you but you really get on my nerves! So what that he is seventy-year-old? So what that he regrets what he did? Your biased because your own experience! Don't you dare to judge other victims decision to not forgive their abuser! I have such hate for my abuser that I would spit in his face I he would lie dying in front of me. Oh he's sorry that he made my childhood a living hell for me. Guess what, you will burn in hell! It always depends on how deep and big the scars are which the abuser left one with. And without being hostile against you but if you would stand in front of me and would say I have to forgive them you where in serious danger to get at least a slap in the face, if not more, to get from me. So let me again make it clear! It's not your decision, nor the family's and never the abuser decision that op has to forgive her abuser!
Okay you're a young woman (story 1) in the house alone and you think "hey I'll answer the door at 3am"
Sorry but what the hell is wrong with you? That's beyond dangerous and stupid!
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