@@jinellerobinson4392 Mendeeces offered to help with finding an apartment and paying two months rent, and help her transition into an adult, that's more then a lot of biological parents do for their children. After everything, she should take this offer and move forward. But Mendeeces in a hard place, he wants to protect himself and children, but he doesn't want to hurt Yandy. In my opinion, Yandy should put her husband and children first, and let Infiniti go, and live her life. She proved multiple times that she was there for Infiniti.
As much as Yandy may come across as a liar etc One thing about it she is a good ass mother, step mother, really genuine intentions with children period, I strongly believe this was not for a publicity stunt at all.
She takes peoples kids tho infinity was fine and the other kids that her husband had she dogs the mothers when she took the kids they didn’t have to go there with her . Yandy is a snake
If someone opened their home and family to me, I'd appreciate it. The way she threatened them with a Tell-All book is all the way wrong and the definition of betrayal.
Yes but she’s a child. Even if she’s of legal age. I was in the foster care system and for the most part most of the kids have a lot of problems, I definitely don’t think Mendeecees was going for it and bottom line she chose her husband over her foster daughter. I don’t think she ever should’ve taken her to begin with. You really need to be able to love that child like they’re your own and bond which is hard to do with teenagers
@@mep2737 and she didn't deny it when Yandy confronted her, all she did was plaster on another story about men and forced to grow up. She ran away and was in the system since November (assuming from how it was said that not even a year had passed)
@@Ilovecerealcerealcereal she's a child 💯 but she failed to understand that she's not their child. They don't have to be disrespected by someone else's child.
I understand infinity was in the foster system and her life wasn’t easy, but that doesn’t excuse her behavior. She knew exactly what she was doing when she threatened to write a tell all book. I’m not a fan of mendeecees but I understand his feelings toward her. I wouldn’t want anything to do with her either.
@@queencharlibee1991 so threatened and writing things that not true isnt worse? Her a$$ need to be crying and i would've but her back into foster care idc
Y'all talking shit about yandy but infinity lied about her past, threatened to do a tell all, and she decided it start wildin 🤷🏾♀️ it sounds to me like infinity wanted a come up and a luxury life thru yandy
When Mendeecees and Yandy told her that she had to get an apt, I think it was really mature of Infinity to understand that her reaction to the situation may have been a trauma response and that she is not seeing the situation correctly because of her trauma. That type of self-awareness can only come if you are going to therapy.
Her past issues made her cry. But the reason they are getting her an apartment is because Mendc wants her out. And is going with what her husband says. If his son had done the same thing because of hurt or whatever reason he would pull him closer not push him further because he is having issues while becoming a young man.
When you tell a foster kid they need to get an apt. That’s a niece way of saying you don’t accept them. I think the statement could of been a reaction of her being exploited
Infinity thought she was going to be a celebrity kid and it didn’t go as planned for her. She should have appreciated what was done for her and acted right instead of being a brat about it.
being a foster parent isn't easy. These kids have been through stuff you don't even know and they react to things in all the wrong ways. I don't think Yandy was prepared for the difficulties
Mendecee makes a good point. It’s about responsibility. Why she’s on the phone while they had a conversation with her. Why yandee is encouraging her to come back. This girl doesn’t want to take responsibility. Mandecee did not say anything wrong to her. I don’t know why infinity kept on crying . They wanna help you . And you need to help yourself too. Growing up baby girl. There is nothing wrong to take responsibility.
Not to mention she was a dating a older man 💯 yandy tried to stop it and she wouldn’t listen just like she threaten to write a book. I believe yandy really care for her and Mendeecees I also believe the real mom because some her ways showed up in between them times she was around Mendeeces is a very observant guy he feels energy and he is very concentrated. 💯 I understand she been through it but I also think she can be manipulative. Soon as mendeecees told her what they plan to do far as her independence she start crying. They really tryna help her they still gonna be there for her but even after what she did shit I would be cautious too.
I understand but everyone is different. She didn’t feel like she had a home environment as a child. So she never had that child hood. It’s like people have that mentality of you 18 time to get out on your own. NO every family don’t operate like that, this world is cruel and having your family close to help each other thru life shouldn’t be frowned upon. It take strong minded people. She can establish independence getting a job and living at home where she feels safe. She was intelligent enough to express that’s exactly what she needs and wants.
@@eboneepeevy2666 I’m with you on this. I’m sure if she was their biological daughter it would not be going down this way when she began acting irresponsibly. They may have had the same concerns but they would not have forced her to become independent, especially at her age and still in college which is quite challenging both emotionally and financially. Everyones story is different.
@Helly XanHellz ayo stop tagging my name my comment still STANDS I said what I said and I don’t have to explain anything to you. It’s called OPINIONS. Move around
It’s so sweet to see Infinity with the kids, you can tell how much they love each other. I really feel for her, she’s obviously been through a lot. I hope that Yandy truly understands the emotional responsibility of taking in a traumatized child and doesn’t add to her trauma but helps her heal. She needs to be held!!! Hug her and love her!!
I completely understand why infinity is the way she is. Being in the system completely changes you in the worst way. Life becomes nothing but survival. You become untrustworthy of everybody and you use anything and everything against everybody to protect yourself. It takes a lot of love and support to unlearn those things and unfortunately, even when we have it, we ruin it because we just don’t trust anyone. We burn bridges and end up feeling abandoned even though it was our fault. It takes a lot of self-accountability to get over it.
@@bohkhuj9247 definitely didn’t lie about something her mother lied because it’s evidence that she was in the system multiple times court records talking to social workers .
@@bohkhuj9247 even if she was in the system for months it doesn’t matter because she was one of six kids living in poverty being abandoned with a mother who was a alcoholic she was forced to take care of herself then placed in foster care so all of that mixed in a pot hurts
@@bohkhuj9247 and again in Mendences validated every thing she has experienced because he knows what he feels like he just held her accountable it was never no “oh he sees through her BS” like he said he sees all her issues because he can relate to him but she needs to understand how to communicate which is an issue that are you going to which she myself and multiple other children have went through don’t know how to communicate we weren’t taught to communicate we were taught to survive so that means sometimes to run or attack
Honestly Infinity’s behavior is a liability being that Mendeeces just got out of prison. She can say anything about him to easily send him back. Also she’s never seen or been in a loving two parent family so I think her reaction is exploiting to keep Yandy to herself. 🤚🏽My opinion.
He’s already been accused of r’ing an underage girl and literally had to beat the case and probably doesn’t want it to happen again so I don’t blame him either
You can’t be disloyal and expect anyone to bring you in their home. No can do. I don’t care how much I love you. If you loved me your loyalty and my privacy would be respected.
My heart really goes out to Infinty and all the kids in the system. For people to take on the responsibility of a child or multiple children and then decide it’s too much and send them back is horrendous! When Infinity mentioned that once she was back in Yandy’s house, it really broke my heart! How can anyone do that?! SMH it’s a horrible situation that some of these kids are in.
@@kweenz600 I came from foster care system from Colombia in which I was multiple homes & got adopted into USA & that family didn’t want us & got readopted again, although she went though trauma I honestly don’t think Yandy or mandecees was being hard on her, she’s older now so helping her become an young adult which she is is the best thing they can do for her and also get her some therapy. I too once didn’t listen and hated reprimand from parents but it was just because I wanted to feel secure and loved, but I wouldn’t act out in the way she did in order to get my way, specially with a public family like them. I feel for both parties and see both point of views. I think she’s still stuck in trauma as a little girl and wants to be taken care of which is how I once was, but what she doesn’t realize is one your 18 your free from anybody controlling where you go & when you go SPECIALLY from the system. The fact they were willing to help with college & help her get on her own! My adopted parents didn’t give a fuck and I been on my own with no help since 17
@@jordinhassen it's your testimony that makes me advocate for the real survivors of the system. People hear system and right away are feeling sorry for a spoiled brat run away like infinity. When you really endured it gracefully and healed from it. You deserve to be awarded,praised and heard. You had to be in the darkness and created a empress within yourself.May God bless you abundantly 🧚🏽♀️🏆💯
Can you see that lady from The Game in her? She was the girlfriend of the spoiled rotten football player and in real life. I can't remember her name but she also played on a movie called Sparkle. She a model too.
It’s because they probably didn’t experience the same pain she does. Just like a person who never used drugs wouldn’t understand the struggle of an addict
I feel the most bad for mendeecees because Yandy put him in a bad situation. And now she had to renig on what she promised infinity. Yand did not think this through in its entirety and caused alot of drama and pain.
Infinity needs a lot of therapy, she’s seems entitled and tactical. I too wouldn’t trust her around my family for too long. You can’t threaten a family with ‘exposing’ them and expect for them to take care of you! 😂
Agree. I don't like the 'manipulation vibes' Infinity gives off. She cries, then Yandy cries and gives in. Infinity's issues are going to need long term, on going therapy, not an instant family.
I don’t blame her like she’s only 16 years old but that doesn’t mean she can’t do whatever she wants because I was a freeman at that age and I had people decipline me when I was young but I that don’t bother me because I’m 23 years old now and I’m grown so I don’t need no rules
I knew infinity my husband use to teach her how to play basketball she’s a very smart girl that went through a lot growing up in Brownsville it’s not easy… I’m praying for her.
Or one could say so that the mothers lies could be believed. The real mother clearly is drunk and high running the streets herself sleeping with random men. We all know that part of Infinity’s story is true.
Oh pls she didn't wana listen to her mother's rules or live with her Grandmother who BOTH love her and wanted the best for her. She don't like to be told no. She's very emotionally unstable and wants all the attention.
Some kids when they get a certain age start thinking they are grown and you can't tell them NOTHING....and when they start doing that it's either follow the rules( like EVERYBODY ELSE IN LIFE) Infinity seems like she think people owe her something and if it's a case of Yandy might be breaking the rules she can't DO THAT!!! AND YOU NEVER BITE THE Hand THAT FEEDS YOU.... THREATENING TO EXPOSE THE ONE PERSON THAT WAS THERE FOR YOU IS JUST WRONG!!!!
EXACTLY SHES USING THIS VICTIM ROLE TO MUCH IN THE LONG RUN you're your own person and need to be held accountable for what u do wrong and grow up cuz u ain't gonna be 7 again
I truly believe Yandy’s heart was in the right place but let’s be real Her man was gone for a long time she has 3 kids and was BORED and may have bit off more than she could chew. And it’s very unfair to make your husband adjust to another new lifestyle in his own home
but it wasn't unfair for him to leave her with three kids and go to jail for breaking the law for years? I'm sure even in his mind her trying to help a kid doesn't compare.
@@animechik10 Exactly, was it fair 🤔 for him to be Away from his family for 3 years! Yikes. Yandy did a much better job and Prison vs. Being there and raising kids are 2 different things and incomparable.
Yeah naw that’s not his home it’s Yandy home she contributed to their lifestyle ‼️ Mendecees just scared she’s going to tarnish his image with Yandy what we already know
Infinity is young and she's made mistakes. It hurts the most when you feel like the people who are supposed to be there for you aren't supporting you in the ways that you need. I hope she finds the love she deserves and so desperately craves.
What was her intention of the tell all book and not coming over for Christmas when she was invited. So because she isn’t home medeecees can’t take a pic with his family? Yandy should have thought this through thoroughly. Bringing in someone into your house is a whole other thing. Their traumas may blind them to appreciating the love shown them. Yandy should have thought this through.
She is not ready to be on her own. She clearly communicated this and if you chose the responsibility to adopt, your love and support needs to be unconditional, as if you birthed them. Infinity definitely needs therapy to work out her abandonment issues but Yandy needs to also learn how trauma can affect children. The more you know the better you can navigate these situations.
Be very careful who you bring into your peace. people tend to weigh you out . it's not a good idea stop falling for the tears they aren't Sincere. Be Vigilant Yandee ❤️❤️🙌🏾
As a real life Foster Parent, let me just say I cannot imagine being a teenage girl, being taken in by someone you loved and trusted, then placed at a random persons house for two days because you’re waiting on a judge to say the person you love can keep you, then you come back and right when you felt stable, YOUR GUARDIAN, ON NATIONAL TELEVISION JUST TO MEET WITH THE WOMAN WHO LET YOU GO BUT KEEPS ALL HER OTHER CHILDREN AND THEN CALLS YOU A LIAR. Like what 😭 Also, how does Yandy not know how long Infinity was in the system? If she was a close mentor for three years prior to considering Fostering? Um ok.
My heart goes out to Infinity!! I’m not going to lie but it’s hard to know genuine Yandys intentions are sometimes…. I looked at her sideways ever since she took Samantha and Mendeeces child to visit Mendeeces in jail without permission from Samantha first. Especially knowing that she had FULL custody at the time. Yandy oversteps and pushes boundaries all the time.
Yandy does a lot of shady shit and that's why she's fallen out with a lot of these people. Chrissy tried to put us on game and Yandy spun the story....but one thing that I've realized is that everybody has a shady Yandy story....
@@elisest.george8245 you have the audacity to bring up Chrissy ignorant lying ass to prove a point about yandy 🤣🤣🤣 nah sweetie you loud and wrong Chrissy has always been a liar just go back to her seasons an see the bullshit she caused an what has yandy lied about really 😭
@@kussiebussie9715 but she wasn't forced shes making big decisions that are leading her up to that point, if she wants to act grown then she needs to grow up and start acting like an adult and hold herself accountable shes js playing the victim card to hold on to her narrative
The audacity of Mendece to not show Infinity any mercy, interestingly, this is coming from someone that’s been given mercy, over and over again. The hypocrisy is overwhelming. He has been in prison many of times and his babies mothers has extended their grace, he doesn’t want Yandy’s attention elsewhere. Yes, Infinity’s behavior was unacceptable, however, if she was THEIR daughter, they would not have thrown her out. You do not use adoption as a storyline.
??? They are a high profile family they don't need this little girl kicking them where it hurts everytime her little feelings get hurt. What she needs to do is heal and then come back. If someone does something wrong with the intent of hurting you and not caring how you feel there needs to be consequences. This girl keep crying and acting like someone's hurting her. She just gunna do it again if its that easy to just come back like it was nothing. She's not getting thrown out she getting to an apartment. She's just ungreatful. She wants what she wants or nothing at all.
@@chaylavienails5937 She seems manipulative as well...I can't stand people using mind games as a way of controlling outcomes of situations..it irks me!!
I'm now beginning to understand why Kimbella was saying wat she said on the reunion and the show, and I quote she said "I hope that you're doing this for the right reasons" coming from one of yandy's closest Best Friends (Kimbella) for her to say that she must've seen some things that we didn't or don't see behind the cameras. Moral of the story it's giving storyline.
I don’t think somebody would invite a foster child over for four years pay for her look after her love her and nurture her and fake it for a storyline…this is genuine ! not all people on tv do things for a storyline get a grip!
I feel sorry for her but regardless of what she's been through she's gonna have to grow up... Just because they wanted her in her own apartment doesn't mean they're throwing her to the side. I could understand the tears if she hadn't done anything wrong. But she broke that trust and once it's broken, it's not easy to get back. At least they're giving her that opportunity though because some wouldn't allow that. 🤷♀️
@@bohkhuj9247 You’re clearly obsessed and have no education or empathy at the end of the day from her experiences she equated that she was being left out and removed from the situation like she’s always been removed has nothing to do with being manipulative it’s her emotions
@@bohkhuj9247 Plus if you knew anything you know that they said they’ll recently and did a podcast talking about everything that wasn’t shown on the show so it was told to infinity by yandy close friend at one point they only adopted her for clout so her fear and pain is valid
Yandy took in a girl who had been abandoned multiple times and has clear abandonment issues and then as soon as her husband got out of jail, all of sudden she's too much to handle. I'm sorry, but to me it looks like Infinity was a project for Yandy while Mendeecees was in jail.
I don’t think so I feel that infinity manipulated the situation she researched Yandy and told a story to get the life she wanted Yandy took her in with good intention I work in foster care and you just understand kids have trauma and problems and feel they can do what they want because it’s not there biological parent or family.
@@alishamoore4472 infinity was the child in the situation and yandy chose to adopt her. being manipulative or having any other issues doesn't justify yandy going out of her way to adopt her as a teenager only to abandon her when issues started to surface. she should've just left her in the system
It’s so sad that this relationship felt conditional. Infinity was only welcomed as long as she acted like a perfect little angel 🙄 Come on. That’s unrealistic! People make mistakes, especially young kids! I have a 16 year old myself, and she drives me crazy at times. But I would never in a million years kick her out. To have this kind of expectation is detrimental to the longevity of any relationship. Especially when committing to the roll of a foster parent. She didn’t hurt anyone physically. It was a threat that many people make out of anger and hurt. She owned up to it and apologized and seemed VERY genuine about it. What’s heartbreaking is that she didn’t care about them helping her get an apartment. Who at that age would not want to be independent and make their own rules?! If I told my daughter I’m going to help her get an apartment, she’d jump at the opportunity! That’s what you get from a teen who’s been smothered with love. Not one that’s desperate for it! Yea she may have screwed up, said some things in the heat of the moment, but who hasn’t?! As long as she accepts her wrongs and is willing to put in the hard work to be better, that’s all that matters! I pray Infinity finds her way.. you got this girl!
@@sheilamumbi8643 you’re probably right. But being in college AND on your own is very emotionally and financially challenging. Even if she was 19 or 20 that is still very young. Science will tell you, that our brains have yet to mature. She needs to be nurtured and loved unconditionally. She’s desperate for it and it shows in her actions. If she was in college, I don’t see why she could not come back n forth and be allowed to have a place to call home, if needed? Many students do that, live locally and commute from home to school and back. I think what pains her the most is that she should be allowed to make that decision for herself. It’s not like she’s 30, not pursuing an education and living off of them. That would be completely different.
Threatening ur own family is something far worse than hurting them physically. It is not OK. Especially considering that these people decided to take u in, who decided that they want to give u what u never had. A family. And u just go out and say u gonna b*tch about them because of a fallout? Arguments r normal in a family. Bitching about them in front of others isn't. Even if everyone does that. Since when is everyone doing something anyhow acceptable in the first place? Everybody had a fair share in this mess but she should be at least thankfull enough to say "u know what we fought but I ain't gonna rat on you because u took me in ur family". U thinking this was a conditional relationship is actually scary. Parents r n authority. U have to respect them and do as they say. That's not conditioning that's parenting.
@@bohkhuj9247 going into foster care for a second it is traumatic anyone who’s been in the situation know that and she was in foster care for years out of her life
I NOW have mad respect for Yandy!! She trying to help Infinity during a difficult time in her life is admirable, even tho she has kids of her own. Am adopted so I can relate to what Infinity is going thru. It tough with the trust issues, but she getting decent persons willing to help her and she betraying that trust, really hard to bounce back from. May the Heavenly Father grant each person in this situation, wisdom and grace to make the right decisions going forward.
No, DF he didn't, he saw this as a business move because you get paid for being a foster parent, and he treated her exactly like that. Not a father figure at all and I'm pretty sure she saw his interactions between Him and his biological children , she was looking for a father figure, remember the conversation she had with yandy trying to figure out ifshe could call mendeecees Dad or not. So, no he handle it wrong , and I suggest that you don't adopt anyone's child.
As a mother, Yandy recognizes that infinity isn’t ready. She’s been deprived of that motherly love that she’s so desperately looking for, not saying that excuses her issues, but when you take on a foster child you take on everything & that’s something yandy hopefully talked to her husband about before hand bc he is coming off as excluding infinity from the kids when she’s been apart of that dynamic for so long.
I am 20 and I was adopted when I was 3 because my baby sister was murdered by my mother. The family I was adopted by my grandpa but once he passed away I was not with my biological family. I was abused and a personal caregiver. I grew up hating myself, never loving what I looked like…still to this day my insecurities eat me alive and I’m working on it. But I was on the streets from 14 to 18. I was working full time first at Burger King then little Caesars, going to school getting good grades. It was so hard going to school trying to be normal when I see all these happy kids that come from 2 parent homes even if their parents were divorced I was so envious. I would have to go to the nurse everyday and ask for crackers because I never had money for lunch and at some point they gave me free lunch but they stopped because my guardian wouldn’t apply me for it. My school had to give me clothes, hygiene products literally anything a parent would do my school would do. And I would have to beg them because I was on the street with no one to help me. If I ask my mother for help with food she tells me I’m using her. I’m so grateful for the people who have spared me a couple dollars or helped me in any kind of way because I wouldn’t be alive if no one hadn’t. I laid down in the middle of the road when I was 18 and I just cried and begged for someone to run me over and I was on a busy road and no one hit me. God was keeping me here for some reason. My only dream I’ve ever had is to be in the position to be able to help other people. I don’t wanna just throw somebody a fish and only let it feed them for the time being I want to actually teach the person how to go out there and catch that fish with their bare hands because I would hope I would hope and I pray every day and I asked for God to have someone show me how to fish with my bare hands because as soon I learn the game I WILL be spreading the wealth because ain’t no one ever putting me or my future kids out. Period.
your story brought me to tears I'm so very saddened to hear all you had to go through no child should have to go through that! how are you doing today?
@@sandraruiz3834 literally was crying earlier because I just started a new job and I don’t get my check for 3 weeks and my power just went out and I have no way to pay for it. And I literally have no one to ask to help me.
I came from foster care system from Colombia & got adopted into USA & then readopted again, although she went though trauma I honestly don’t think Yandy or mandecees was being hard on her, she’s older now so helping her become an young adult which she is is the best thing they can do for her and also get her some therapy. I too once didn’t listen and hated reprimand from parents but it was just because I wanted to feel secure and loved, but I wouldn’t act out in the way she did in order to get my way, specially with a public family like them. I feel for both parties and see both point of views. I think she’s still stuck in trauma as a little girl and wants to be taken care of which is how I once was, but what she doesn’t realize is one your 18 your free from anybody controlling where you go & when you go, your free to create your own family
It's an abuse/abandonment type attitude she's not used to controlling her feelings and how to carry herself they are teaching her how to be the best her I
@@Brianesha it is actually. She is out of high school and off to college She became disrespectful and wants to move in because she isn't ready to be on her own??? GTFOH. If she wanted to be with her "family" she wouldn't have done what she had done. Period.,
Infinity’s mom has 6 children and seems extremely disconnected regarding Infinity and what she’s going through. Why isn’t SHE fighting for her daughter? SMH
She is a NARCISSISTIC CHILD. These type of people are very difficult to deal with. Though we as parents screw up. Infinity clearly is intelligent enough to be aware of her situation. She needs to deal with that by taking responsibilty for her actions. Then can deal with WHY she behaves this way.( her mothers action) So she can start to heal. She is aware but making exscuses to act out. She can do better. She got what she claims she wanted with Yandi. So she chooses to act like this. Narc people do stuff like " tell all your biz" when they get angry. ..
This hit me hard. I was 17 and lost on who I was as a person and where I was going in life. When I was most confused, I needed guidance and love. My mom kicked me out instead and told me she didn’t want a relationship with me. For years after that fact I tried so hard to reconcile with her and she’s denied it every time. This child is pleading to be loved and accepted and to hear that you can’t stay because it jeopardizes someone else’s security makes you feel like a problem. It makes you feel alone and abandoned. She wants someone to stand up for her and protect her and she sees that in Yandy. She expressed that. I wouldn’t have told her she couldn’t stay there until I exasperated all of my options coming to find out she could get an emergency hearing in 2 days smh. I also don’t like her telling her she has “rules and regulations”… you could’ve said it in a different way in my opinion. Don’t adopt or take in a child you’re not fully capable or ready to take care of.
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I’m glad her husband was there to mediate because a lot of ppl had to grow up fast and there are so many ppl that want and should be saved. Apart of growing up is taking opportunities as they come because nobody owes you anything and life isn’t perfect for a lot of ppl so your pain is not special. She should be in counseling and learning how to address her feelings because she is learning that she can explode for not knowing how to effectively communicate then cry to manipulate the situation. Take the blessing as it comes and make the best out of what’s given to you.
Yandy got her imperfect ways but one thing y’all can’t call that women is SELFISH. Too love a child that ain’t even yours let alone your man’s..speaks volumes! You go Yand keep being selfless, a godly trait. Praying for your family always!🙏🏼
I was a foster parent and Guardian ad litem ( representing the interest of the child in court) Every foster child is not the same. Some children fit in well with their foster home BUT some children have emotional and behavioral issues and no amount of love will ever make them trust someone, some children are so use to negative feedback that they will create situations just to get it.
Wow wow wow. I NEVER liked Yandy, at all actually. But I had no idea about the situation with that child from the foster home. I really respect her a lot for doing that. God knows her heart is big. That's one thing nobody can take from her. 💜
Infinity went though more than a normal child. But why talk, treat and act like Yandy did nothing for you?? Very disrespectful. She needs to be kissing Yandy and her husband asses for taking care of her for years!!
These comments let's me know folks is clueless... Talking about she did this for a story line.... Lol people don't know how this process works... Everyone has to get finger printed... It's a process... You can't fake this... You get random visits... There's not an amount of storyline that can be paid for what you through to become a foster parents so you right 👍
After watching everything I can conclude that whatever age she was abandoned she’s stuck and can’t get past that. She’s broken and we need to recognize that.
ALL narcissist are stuck at the age that they've experienced their trauma... Only thing about that is that We all experience some kind of trauma in our lives💯💯 so that's really not an excuse for her behavior..
I definitely get the way infinity feels. I had my mother there but emotionally I didn't have her sometimes physically I didn't have her. So to have yandy come along and show her the love that every girl needs and wants I definitely get it but I have my mom the upmost respect now because that's who made me who I am today. Yes I mightve been a teen mom but I graduated high school on time walked across the stage with my head held high, got my own place at 18 when my mom and her bf told me that I couldn't live in their house with a child because they weren't helping me. my dad seen me trying and helped me get my 1st car. I enrolled at Benedict college with my child and my apartment without my parents even knowing and still graduated college on time during the pandemic and had my 2nd daughter just months before graduating. I feel like yandy and mendeeces where doing the right thing. It was all love and support that truth be told I barely had and now my parents have more respect for me to this day. So I definitely get both sides to the situation from yandy and mendeeces to infinity and I wish them the best. It took me to go to therapy also which could be a great thing for infinity but I realized self-awareness of situations that I have to grow from.
I was in foster care my entire life and I've always wanted something like this to just understand we need love too. Seeing Infinity go through the ups and downs and all of that was relatable in so many ways. Ive never been the type to speak up about how I really felt like she did instead I acted out behavior wise. However, I always said I will never let my situation define me or my future and I stood by that forever. Threats is something ive done as well but it was well because of how I was being treated and it was known not just for no reason. I pray over her hurt in her life for healing and growing to understand life is what you want it to be. The system completely changes you especially when you enter your first bad home its defense mode for the rest of your life with anybody. You get mistreated so bad you tend to think thats how the world is and people can never be nice. I ran away from every single one of my foster homes and had one more to go to which was when I was 11, if I didn't I would be in a group home for until I turned 18. I seen my mood change and my attitude worsen because I didn't wanna be there and I came from abuse with my family and neglect. You see life so much different. I been in and out since my actual birth until my parents completely got their rights taken away. I prayed long and hard for God to just heal my heart so I wouldn't dare neglect myself and was on survival mode ever since. Its like you have to be strong so nobody will play with you or touch you and if you cry you're seen as weak, especially growing up in la. I thank God for where I am now because omg seeing this is just a reminder of how far God has brought me and the rest of the youth with worse or same experiences. Now im majoring in Psychology because of this
To be honest dealing with anybody who has experienced this level of trauma is difficult. They can manipulate you so easily with sob stories. Not negating anything this girl has been through as a child, but people often use their trauma as a way to validate their bad behavior and stay stuck in their ways. Once you get a certain age, accountability needs to be second nature. Yandy should not have took this girl in without her husband being present. This is why a man leads, because clearly all of Yandy's decisions in this particular situation was emotion based. She needed logic from her man.
I totally understood where, Mendeecees was coming from. He's a family man and it's time for Infinity to take full responsibility for herself. I wish her well...tho it's hard
I don’t feel bad for infinity after watching the full season of yandy and her and I can honestly say infinity had a one in a life time blessing yandy set her future up so bright but yet infinity wanted to do what she wanted to do like. Her birth mother said ! Than she threaten to tell the media about what goes on in yandy personal house hold is a no no !!! Because yandy has other mouths to feed too and it can affect her businesses and her deals and taking food out her kids mouth so I 100% understand! YOU DONT BITE THE HAND THAT FEEDS YOU !! I commend yandy because nobody would know how to deal with having a heart and protecting yo family it’s confusing but everything you do has consequences
bro thank you, i only watched this complitaion and just from this i can see how infinity speaks and acts and im not a fan... understandable that she was in the foster system, but the fact she lied about being there when she was born says enough. her mother may or may have put up this act but she after hearing infinity speak to yandy about 'leaving her out in the streets' or something it was just a lot.. i know abandonement issues is real but infinity needs to work on herself if she doesnt wanna be looked at as the bad guy cause what im seeing hmmmm
I understand both sides but I feel like infinity is manipulating them with her past trauma by crying and blaming them for abandoning her but your almost 21 and you can live on your own. You have them as your help and support but you don’t have to live with them. She wants to be taken care of and live off of them but your an adult and while transitioning into adulthood it’s awesome to have a great family to have your back during that time.
Bingo that’s another thing she old enough now it’s one thing if she was still a lil kid but she in college and a growing adult with there situation it’s actually odd for her not to jump on the apartment deal they had good thing mendecess saw right through those tears
Dude if I had a rich couple offering to pay my first and second months rent I would be over the moon!! Infinity seems really ungrateful and I actually believe her birth mom is telling the truth.
@Charnele Johnskn Yeah but I think she wanted a hand out but would say and do the most to make it seem as if she wants a "mother" etc...my thing is-go do this with your biological mother smh bet she wouldn't because her mom doesn't have fame or money like them I'm sure.
I missed all of this. But I can see both sides. Mendecees just got home, he wants to be around his family, I'm sure it would be a bit uncomfortable to not be fully relaxed at home with someone you have only spoken to a few times.. But then I get Infinity and her abandonment issues. Hope they're good now
Mendecees know that girl is playing a role!.. He's from the streets, he see her game and he ran it back at her... Talking about she don't wanna b grown😂, he know, that's y he told her it's time to b... It's was a easy let down💪.. They're not heartless though so they're not gonna cut her completely out but I can tell u one thing, she's gonna do some disloyal shit again💯💯
If you knew what children went through in those places this whole scenario would make you look at Yandy different . This was absolutely exploitative and Yandy didn’t even hug the girl when she was crying…
@@dayananarie she didn't need to comfort someone who took her trust nd tried to "expose" "blast" however u wanna say it on social media then gets mad becuz they r trying to help her become an adult in time
@@dayananarie none of this matters - she took her in as a foster child on the scale of zero to 100 on the scale of teenage issues that’s a 5 considering what she’s been through and the image Yandy presented
Now wat I'm bout 2 say com from me REALLY be raised in Foster Care not never knowing my biological MOTHER. But tis MATTER is Infinity jus try'n 2 find dah easy way out an she knew an kno dat Yandy had an have money. Now she's had NEVER been abused her problem is she wanted to do wat she wanted to do an then wen her mother & grandma had rules for her she runs away , datz not being in Foster Care mean like being bounced from home to home every other month like I was abandonment issues so she ran away from her real family dat seem to wanted dah best phor her. Infinity is manipulative an lied about how she lived jus so she can have a tv lyfe wit Yandy an Mendeece .. Like on God they must cut ties wit her because everything she learns or see wat goes in dah family she is definitely gona share it to dah public. I wouldn't TRUST her at all in my house or around my family.
Yandy is trying to play a role of a good person. Everything Kimbella said was right. You don’t owe the bio mom a meeting. There’s a reason why she doesn’t have custody of the kid. Why wasn’t she actively trying to get custody back ? I hate that we expect children to act as adults in adults situations.
Probably because she were busy taking care of her other 5 children.. The one's that wasn't trying to run away and stay out late hours of the night trying to act grown!!! Hell she said that she sent her to live with her grandma and she didn't wanna stay because she didn't wanna follow the rules...All I'm saying is "victims" doesn't go around yelling their a victim, manipulators do! Knowing that, I would've had to look deeper into that situation too... Too many ppl out here that Not who they Pretend to be to b just taking ppl tears.. I mean word like that.. Bet Yanda wished she'd listened💯
I’m sorry but i feel like infinity was manipulative like she wanted a come up. I think her mom was telling the truth about her and infinity was also telling some truth but she uses her pass as an excuse. And everything she said in the beginning is not true and she crying to cover it up.
Def believe Kimbella because we've all seen exactly what Yandy is capable of and has done to so many people. Shell smile in their faces right before stabbing them in their backs.
@@noirlily3413 Agreed, however, one was a young girl being put through a corrupt, abusive and sometimes deadly system, while Yandy was and is a grown woman and a mother but I knew right when she offered this young lady a stable roof over her head, that it was for appearances because Yandy has done some of the foulest things to the mother of her step children. Yandy locked one out of her own apartment, claiming to be Mendeecees wife, which we later found out she was lying, had her family member attack the other mother on stage because Yandy ran her mouth but could cash those checks she written, not to mention all the all sly, venomous things Yandys done to those two women yet claimed to love her step children so much but was literally using those babies for power over their mother and even stabbed her best friend in the back, so I don't trust Yandys intentions as pure and from the heart but if I am proven wrong, will admit I was wrong.
I'm 31 and like Infiniti I had to grow up fast....Getting an apt while working and going to school at 19. A lot of traumatic things that made me feel isolated before that. I'm shocked at how Mandecees man from the streets was so hard on this girl. She's a female first of all and we are emotional. They basically telling her "Since you were not perfect and a rebellious teen you are not our daughter anymore" To see this girl begging to be a part of this family is so painful.
As soon as Infinity found out Yandy met up with her bio mom she knew it was over for her. I don't doubt that young lady went thru some things but I also don't doubt she's an entitled brat. She manipulated the hell outta Yandy & im glad Mendes saw right thru the bs.
Infinity's tone seemed disrespectful, entitled & problematic, despite her upbringing/trauma. She was a liability & Mendeecees' approach was right. Turning to social media & threatening to write a book, just because he posted a pic of his family without her was very telling. Sometimes, it doesn't matter how good/kind you are to other ppl's children.
No ways I would adopt some rude as kid who left her mamas house. She got attitude for days, just coz she’s a child don’t mean she don’t know what’s up. She’s manipulative af
The scene when mendecess was telling infinity to become independent and on her own then she start crying and mendecess telling her not to cry then dips was too funny to me 😭😭😭
I knew something was off in her by her tone when she was talking back to yandy after she explained that she couldn't stay inside the home until it was approved ...that would have been a wrap. she would have to watch her effing tone with me from jump.
Yandy I'll give you a round 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽of applause for stepping up. One thing you can not do is change how a person feel about life. Take this as a learning experience
@@Kyle-ig9yp it's not excuses it's facts because had yandy not used her for a story she never would have gotten into yandy home to be able to tell yandy business 🤷🏾♂️
@@racheltoria I mean she did take her in and did a lot for that girl and in return because yandy told her she couldn’t date a grown 23 year old women she was upset and threatened to write a tell all book said yandy was awful but ended right back up in her face ? And kimbella ain’t not saint herself yes yandy do lie and do stuff but in this case she wasn’t
@@racheltoria I’m not sure if you know who toya is lil Wayne’s baby mom but actually a few months ago toya,rasheeda yandy and some others all linked up and yandy took that girl with her and they had this cute little slumber party kinda thing in a mansion it was off tv even after all the stuff that little girl has said and done her own daughter wasn’t even there
Lord cover her she feels unwanted and Yandy was somehow filling the gap and now she feels Yandy is doing the same thing to her.But I also understand where Mendeeces is coming from,you can’t cause people not to trust you by your actions and expect them to let you in their home one shot.It’s about the ability of trust.I pray she finds a good therapist and goes with her mom and Yandy it will be such a good help for her to talk it through and let go some of the hurt and hate she has built up.I pray she finds peace and doesn’t resort to mental health so bad she gets suicidal and a lot of people resort to.The sooner she realizes she has to become her own best friend and mature and learn to love herself and get focus on her mental health she will be okay.I wish her all the best before the calm comes the storm things will get easier once she puts in the effort and don’t rely on anybody but herself.Sometimes situations like this is how females end up with abusive men and men who pimp them out they feed off their weaknesses I hope she gets help.
Yandy should have never made this part of her storyline. Telling her that on camera and not comforting her while she cried told me all I needed to know
Infinity lowkey looks like a young Kendra😭😭 i can’t unsee it!
Bruh same!!!!
Giiiirll
@@NatSpin ?
@@calired2473 I was agreeing witcha
@@NatSpin oh 😭yes girl !
Everything Mendeeces had to say was correct. He handled the situation very well imo
He handled it like a man is supposed to handle it I give him applause
I hate how they put him on the spot like that knowing he is not comfortable. Yandy is really a bad person imo to everyone involved
I agree. I get manipulative vibes from Infiniti.
@@morewithmariama7723 She's def lying. She doesn't like rules at her moms or her grandmas. Only reason she likes Yandy is probably the money.
@@jinellerobinson4392 Mendeeces offered to help with finding an apartment and paying two months rent, and help her transition into an adult, that's more then a lot of biological parents do for their children. After everything, she should take this offer and move forward. But Mendeeces in a hard place, he wants to protect himself and children, but he doesn't want to hurt Yandy. In my opinion, Yandy should put her husband and children first, and let Infiniti go, and live her life. She proved multiple times that she was there for Infiniti.
As much as Yandy may come across as a liar etc One thing about it she is a good ass mother, step mother, really genuine intentions with children period, I strongly believe this was not for a publicity stunt at all.
No but infinitys crap was shes playing victim to much to hold her narrative
I agree n her TRIFLING ass husband is her moving weird AF
She doesn’t come across as one, she is one lol
@@ByNature15 Clearly
She takes peoples kids tho infinity was fine and the other kids that her husband had she dogs the mothers when she took the kids they didn’t have to go there with her . Yandy is a snake
If someone opened their home and family to me, I'd appreciate it. The way she threatened them with a Tell-All book is all the way wrong and the definition of betrayal.
Facts ! If she done that to yandy I can only imagine how she treated her real family.
Yes but she’s a child. Even if she’s of legal age. I was in the foster care system and for the most part most of the kids have a lot of problems, I definitely don’t think Mendeecees was going for it and bottom line she chose her husband over her foster daughter. I don’t think she ever should’ve taken her to begin with. You really need to be able to love that child like they’re your own and bond which is hard to do with teenagers
@@Ilovecerealcerealcereal she was never in a foster home according to her mom she lied about everything
@@mep2737 and she didn't deny it when Yandy confronted her, all she did was plaster on another story about men and forced to grow up. She ran away and was in the system since November (assuming from how it was said that not even a year had passed)
@@Ilovecerealcerealcereal she's a child 💯 but she failed to understand that she's not their child. They don't have to be disrespected by someone else's child.
“If you don’t want people to say negative things about you don’t do them” 🙌🏾
I understand infinity was in the foster system and her life wasn’t easy, but that doesn’t excuse her behavior. She knew exactly what she was doing when she threatened to write a tell all book. I’m not a fan of mendeecees but I understand his feelings toward her. I wouldn’t want anything to do with her either.
Oh wow, really? She was obviously looking for a come up.
She coulda talked to Yandy before going to the internet.
But it was cool for yandy to put this girl crying and all that shit on camera for the world to see. Please save that bullshit
@@queencharlibee1991 so threatened and writing things that not true isnt worse?
Her a$$ need to be crying and i would've but her back into foster care idc
@@queencharlibee1991the girl is on a reality TV show. She had the opportunity to not be a part of it. So miss me with that BS
Y'all talking shit about yandy but infinity lied about her past, threatened to do a tell all, and she decided it start wildin 🤷🏾♀️ it sounds to me like infinity wanted a come up and a luxury life thru yandy
I don’t understand where you coming from but she older now in change for the better
Yup
It sounds like you don't have a lot of emotional intelligence and I mean that's a big issue with our society and in the world.
When Mendeecees and Yandy told her that she had to get an apt, I think it was really mature of Infinity to understand that her reaction to the situation may have been a trauma response and that she is not seeing the situation correctly because of her trauma. That type of self-awareness can only come if you are going to therapy.
it really shows her growth. I hope she gets to find that peace
Her past issues made her cry. But the reason they are getting her an apartment is because Mendc wants her out. And is going with what her husband says. If his son had done the same thing because of hurt or whatever reason he would pull him closer not push him further because he is having issues while becoming a young man.
@@betterdays239 I agree with everything you said eventhough this was a long time ago. Mendeces does not want her in the house.
When you tell a foster kid they need to get an apt. That’s a niece way of saying you don’t accept them. I think the statement could of been a reaction of her being exploited
Yessss I said the same thing. That girl gotta therapist!
Infinity thought she was going to be a celebrity kid and it didn’t go as planned for her. She should have appreciated what was done for her and acted right instead of being a brat about it.
being a foster parent isn't easy. These kids have been through stuff you don't even know and they react to things in all the wrong ways. I don't think Yandy was prepared for the difficulties
They don’t prepare foster parents enough and they do so accordingly, it’s intentional.
Mendecee makes a good point. It’s about responsibility. Why she’s on the phone while they had a conversation with her. Why yandee is encouraging her to come back. This girl doesn’t want to take responsibility. Mandecee did not say anything wrong to her. I don’t know why infinity kept on crying . They wanna help you . And you need to help yourself too. Growing up baby girl. There is nothing wrong to take responsibility.
^^^
Not to mention she was a dating a older man 💯 yandy tried to stop it and she wouldn’t listen just like she threaten to write a book. I believe yandy really care for her and Mendeecees I also believe the real mom because some her ways showed up in between them times she was around Mendeeces is a very observant guy he feels energy and he is very concentrated. 💯 I understand she been through it but I also think she can be manipulative. Soon as mendeecees told her what they plan to do far as her independence she start crying. They really tryna help her they still gonna be there for her but even after what she did shit I would be cautious too.
I understand but everyone is different. She didn’t feel like she had a home environment as a child. So she never had that child hood. It’s like people have that mentality of you 18 time to get out on your own. NO every family don’t operate like that, this world is cruel and having your family close to help each other thru life shouldn’t be frowned upon. It take strong minded people. She can establish independence getting a job and living at home where she feels safe. She was intelligent enough to express that’s exactly what she needs and wants.
@@eboneepeevy2666 I’m with you on this. I’m sure if she was their biological daughter it would not be going down this way when she began acting irresponsibly. They may have had the same concerns but they would not have forced her to become independent, especially at her age and still in college which is quite challenging both emotionally and financially. Everyones story is different.
@Helly XanHellz ayo stop tagging my name my comment still STANDS I said what I said and I don’t have to explain anything to you. It’s called OPINIONS. Move around
It’s so sweet to see Infinity with the kids, you can tell how much they love each other. I really feel for her, she’s obviously been through a lot. I hope that Yandy truly understands the emotional responsibility of taking in a traumatized child and doesn’t add to her trauma but helps her heal. She needs to be held!!! Hug her and love her!!
They're kids they love anyone who plays with them.
@@chaylavienails5937 Yep, kids love anyone who gives them attention. I bet infinity didn't treat her siblings that way.
Girl bye her ,,,
I completely understand why infinity is the way she is. Being in the system completely changes you in the worst way. Life becomes nothing but survival. You become untrustworthy of everybody and you use anything and everything against everybody to protect yourself. It takes a lot of love and support to unlearn those things and unfortunately, even when we have it, we ruin it because we just don’t trust anyone. We burn bridges and end up feeling abandoned even though it was our fault. It takes a lot of self-accountability to get over it.
But she wasn’t in the system all of her life ! She clearly lied about that .
Wow. Well said 💟
@@bohkhuj9247 definitely didn’t lie about something her mother lied because it’s evidence that she was in the system multiple times court records talking to social workers .
@@bohkhuj9247 even if she was in the system for months it doesn’t matter because she was one of six kids living in poverty being abandoned with a mother who was a alcoholic she was forced to take care of herself then placed in foster care so all of that mixed in a pot hurts
@@bohkhuj9247 and again in Mendences validated every thing she has experienced because he knows what he feels like he just held her accountable it was never no “oh he sees through her BS” like he said he sees all her issues because he can relate to him but she needs to understand how to communicate which is an issue that are you going to which she myself and multiple other children have went through don’t know how to communicate we weren’t taught to communicate we were taught to survive so that means sometimes to run or attack
Honestly Infinity’s behavior is a liability being that Mendeeces just got out of prison. She can say anything about him to easily send him back. Also she’s never seen or been in a loving two parent family so I think her reaction is exploiting to keep Yandy to herself. 🤚🏽My opinion.
He’s already been accused of r’ing an underage girl and literally had to beat the case and probably doesn’t want it to happen again so I don’t blame him either
Exactly my sentiments
Exactly
agreed, she is playing this victim role to much js to help her narrative to stay with em cuz like she said she was gon write a book about everything
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You can’t be disloyal and expect anyone to bring you in their home. No can do. I don’t care how much I love you. If you loved me your loyalty and my privacy would be respected.
Exactly nd she definitely knows what she's doing here tho knowing yandy gonna always take her back
My heart really goes out to Infinty and all the kids in the system. For people to take on the responsibility of a child or multiple children and then decide it’s too much and send them back is horrendous! When Infinity mentioned that once she was back in Yandy’s house, it really broke my heart! How can anyone do that?! SMH it’s a horrible situation that some of these kids are in.
Its their own opinion doesnt matter
Agreed!! And people are really falling all over themselves to not feel any empathy for Infinity. It’s honestly heartbreaking.
@@ccb3519 what’s their own opinion?
@@kweenz600 I came from foster care system from Colombia in which I was multiple homes & got adopted into USA & that family didn’t want us & got readopted again, although she went though trauma I honestly don’t think Yandy or mandecees was being hard on her, she’s older now so helping her become an young adult which she is is the best thing they can do for her and also get her some therapy. I too once didn’t listen and hated reprimand from parents but it was just because I wanted to feel secure and loved, but I wouldn’t act out in the way she did in order to get my way, specially with a public family like them. I feel for both parties and see both point of views. I think she’s still stuck in trauma as a little girl and wants to be taken care of which is how I once was, but what she doesn’t realize is one your 18 your free from anybody controlling where you go & when you go SPECIALLY from the system. The fact they were willing to help with college & help her get on her own! My adopted parents didn’t give a fuck and I been on my own with no help since 17
@@jordinhassen it's your testimony that makes me advocate for the real survivors of the system. People hear system and right away are feeling sorry for a spoiled brat run away like infinity. When you really endured it gracefully and healed from it. You deserve to be awarded,praised and heard. You had to be in the darkness and created a empress within yourself.May God bless you abundantly 🧚🏽♀️🏆💯
She looks like she could be Kendra's daughter (Young Joc's wife).
Look at her facial features.
Yup. I see it too
She do Wow you right
Can you see that lady from The Game in her? She was the girlfriend of the spoiled rotten football player and in real life. I can't remember her name but she also played on a movie called Sparkle. She a model too.
@@Asia-sk8lc Tika Sumpter
She looks like Jim jones mother to
I baffles me how adults think kids under 18 don't have life struggles and traumatic experiences. I wanna ask how great their childhood was.
It’s because they probably didn’t experience the same pain she does. Just like a person who never used drugs wouldn’t understand the struggle of an addict
Infinity: starts crying
Mendeeces: Alright, Imma head out 😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂as he should, that girl is bad news
Lolllll😂😂😂😂😂😂
😊😂
He’s a weirdo and bad dad
I feel the most bad for mendeecees because Yandy put him in a bad situation. And now she had to renig on what she promised infinity. Yand did not think this through in its entirety and caused alot of drama and pain.
He put Yandy in a bad situation The hell
Infinity needs a lot of therapy, she’s seems entitled and tactical. I too wouldn’t trust her around my family for too long. You can’t threaten a family with ‘exposing’ them and expect for them to take care of you! 😂
Agree. I don't like the 'manipulation vibes' Infinity gives off. She cries, then Yandy cries and gives in. Infinity's issues are going to need long term, on going therapy, not an instant family.
I don’t blame her like she’s only 16 years old but that doesn’t mean she can’t do whatever she wants because I was a freeman at that age and I had people decipline me when I was young but I that don’t bother me because I’m 23 years old now and I’m grown so I don’t need no rules
@@keshawnfarley2269 you don’t blame her for being manipulated!?!?
You said everything in one sentence
Agree said the same thing
Mendeeces was very chill and he spoke with value
Yandys husband made some good points.
I knew infinity my husband use to teach her how to play basketball she’s a very smart girl that went through a lot growing up in Brownsville it’s not easy… I’m praying for her.
Yea we know she's smart.. Gotta b smart to manipulate these many adults!
Infinity is so damn manipulative ! She got upset with yandy for meeting with her mom because she knew her lies was going to be exposed!
I feel like they both used each other for s come up.
That’s how i feel
@@kennedyfknalexa 🎯🎯🎯
@@kennedyfknalexa who? Yandy & Infinity???
I never watch these shows like this. Usually just the clips/compilations on RUclips.
Or one could say so that the mothers lies could be believed. The real mother clearly is drunk and high running the streets herself sleeping with random men. We all know that part of Infinity’s story is true.
Infinity: *starts crying*
Yandy husband: *"you feel abandoned??"*
Bruh😂😂😂😂
And then got up and left
Infinity gives me scammer vibes
i really feel sad for Infinity because she's been through so much and all she wanted is to be apart of a loving caring family
Of money
Agree...
Money too 💀
Oh pls she didn't wana listen to her mother's rules or live with her Grandmother who BOTH love her and wanted the best for her. She don't like to be told no. She's very emotionally unstable and wants all the attention.
But I'm kinda confused cause infinity and yandy look the same 😂
Some kids when they get a certain age start thinking they are grown and you can't tell them NOTHING....and when they start doing that it's either follow the rules( like EVERYBODY ELSE IN LIFE) Infinity seems like she think people owe her something and if it's a case of Yandy might be breaking the rules she can't DO THAT!!! AND YOU NEVER BITE THE Hand THAT FEEDS YOU.... THREATENING TO EXPOSE THE ONE PERSON THAT WAS THERE FOR YOU IS JUST WRONG!!!!
EXACTLY SHES USING THIS VICTIM ROLE TO MUCH IN THE LONG RUN you're your own person and need to be held accountable for what u do wrong and grow up cuz u ain't gonna be 7 again
@@guccirosas5218 FACTS💯
@@guccirosas5218 That's how Narcissist move... They use the victim role until they can't no more..
I truly believe Yandy’s heart was in the right place but let’s be real Her man was gone for a long time she has 3 kids and was BORED and may have bit off more than she could chew. And it’s very unfair to make your husband adjust to another new lifestyle in his own home
but it wasn't unfair for him to leave her with three kids and go to jail for breaking the law for years? I'm sure even in his mind her trying to help a kid doesn't compare.
@@animechik10 Exactly, was it fair 🤔 for him to be Away from his family for 3 years! Yikes. Yandy did a much better job and Prison vs. Being there and raising kids are 2 different things and incomparable.
Yeah naw that’s not his home it’s Yandy home she contributed to their lifestyle ‼️ Mendecees just scared she’s going to tarnish his image with Yandy what we already know
Are you serious? It wasn't fair for him to put his family through that.
I believe Infinity mother she's a rebel. Yandy didn't even know this girl when she tried to save her.
Infinity is young and she's made mistakes. It hurts the most when you feel like the people who are supposed to be there for you aren't supporting you in the ways that you need. I hope she finds the love she deserves and so desperately craves.
What was her intention of the tell all book and not coming over for Christmas when she was invited. So because she isn’t home medeecees can’t take a pic with his family? Yandy should have thought this through thoroughly. Bringing in someone into your house is a whole other thing. Their traumas may blind them to appreciating the love shown them. Yandy should have thought this through.
This is my life
She is not ready to be on her own. She clearly communicated this and if you chose the responsibility to adopt, your love and support needs to be unconditional, as if you birthed them. Infinity definitely needs therapy to work out her abandonment issues but Yandy needs to also learn how trauma can affect children. The more you know the better you can navigate these situations.
Definitely 🙌🏾
How old is she?
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Word! And Yandy needs to take full responsibility because her husband does not give af bout infinity. He didn’t even want her to cry.
Infinity was just a young girl looking to be accepted. I think Yandy genuinely cares for her.
Yea that's what she wanted everyone to believe 👀
Be very careful who you bring into your peace. people tend to weigh you out . it's not a good idea stop falling for the tears they aren't Sincere. Be Vigilant Yandee ❤️❤️🙌🏾
As a real life Foster Parent, let me just say I cannot imagine being a teenage girl, being taken in by someone you loved and trusted, then placed at a random persons house for two days because you’re waiting on a judge to say the person you love can keep you, then you come back and right when you felt stable, YOUR GUARDIAN, ON NATIONAL TELEVISION JUST TO MEET WITH THE WOMAN WHO LET YOU GO BUT KEEPS ALL HER OTHER CHILDREN AND THEN CALLS YOU A LIAR.
Like what 😭
Also, how does Yandy not know how long Infinity was in the system? If she was a close mentor for three years prior to considering Fostering? Um ok.
My heart goes out to Infinity!! I’m not going to lie but it’s hard to know genuine Yandys intentions are sometimes….
I looked at her sideways ever since she took Samantha and Mendeeces child to visit Mendeeces in jail without permission from Samantha first. Especially knowing that she had FULL custody at the time. Yandy oversteps and pushes boundaries all the time.
Yandy used Infinity as a storyline, if she had pure intentions she wouldn't have been so quick to throw her away.
Yandy does a lot of shady shit and that's why she's fallen out with a lot of these people. Chrissy tried to put us on game and Yandy spun the story....but one thing that I've realized is that everybody has a shady Yandy story....
@@kesh7711
She ain't need to used Infinity for a
Storyline,Why she picked her she Could had picked any other
Toddler or Teenager
@@elisest.george8245 you have the audacity to bring up Chrissy ignorant lying ass to prove a point about yandy 🤣🤣🤣 nah sweetie you loud and wrong Chrissy has always been a liar just go back to her seasons an see the bullshit she caused an what has yandy lied about really 😭
She doesn't have a choice on "growing up".. We ALL *HAVE* to grow up.
No one should be forced ti grow up before their time. That’s the point. Of course we all have to grow up
@@kussiebussie9715 yes!!!
It. M mmimmmmmp
@@kussiebussie9715 but she wasn't forced shes making big decisions that are leading her up to that point, if she wants to act grown then she needs to grow up and start acting like an adult and hold herself accountable shes js playing the victim card to hold on to her narrative
When she started crying and yandy didn't comfort her.. that showed me she is heartless but that girl also wasn't innocent..
Nah. She knows her better than us. The little girl became manipulative after awhile
@@Valentino2vaild She had a great teacher in Yandy
Yes!
Yandy had to stay strong too. Yandy was ready to cry she comforted her after laying down what’s what’s
The audacity of Mendece to not show Infinity any mercy, interestingly, this is coming from someone that’s been given mercy, over and over again. The hypocrisy is overwhelming. He has been in prison many of times and his babies mothers has extended their grace, he doesn’t want Yandy’s attention elsewhere. Yes, Infinity’s behavior was unacceptable, however, if she was THEIR daughter, they would not have thrown her out. You do not use adoption as a storyline.
Amen. I see this issue from God's eye. God forgives no matter what. I it's about money for yandy husband, nephew and first two kids.
He doesn’t have a Super ill way feeling towards her. He just protecting him and his family and that’s understandable.
??? They are a high profile family they don't need this little girl kicking them where it hurts everytime her little feelings get hurt.
What she needs to do is heal and then come back. If someone does something wrong with the intent of hurting you and not caring how you feel there needs to be consequences. This girl keep crying and acting like someone's hurting her. She just gunna do it again if its that easy to just come back like it was nothing.
She's not getting thrown out she getting to an apartment. She's just ungreatful. She wants what she wants or nothing at all.
@@chaylavienails5937 yes they are. I'm Christian I see it from God eyes he forgives us no what we done.
@@chaylavienails5937 She seems manipulative as well...I can't stand people using mind games as a way of controlling outcomes of situations..it irks me!!
I'm now beginning to understand why Kimbella was saying wat she said on the reunion and the show, and I quote she said "I hope that you're doing this for the right reasons" coming from one of yandy's closest Best Friends (Kimbella) for her to say that she must've seen some things that we didn't or don't see behind the cameras. Moral of the story it's giving storyline.
I don’t think somebody would invite a foster child over for four years pay for her look after her love her and nurture her and fake it for a storyline…this is genuine ! not all people on tv do things for a storyline get a grip!
@@shazaada4life176 Just My opinion love don't tripp carry on tho.
I definitely think it was genuine but for a storyline
I feel sorry for her but regardless of what she's been through she's gonna have to grow up... Just because they wanted her in her own apartment doesn't mean they're throwing her to the side. I could understand the tears if she hadn't done anything wrong. But she broke that trust and once it's broken, it's not easy to get back. At least they're giving her that opportunity though because some wouldn't allow that. 🤷♀️
Exactly! I feel like she was being manipulative in that moment .
You must not have any traumatic experiences with being thrown away as a child that’s how she acquitted the situation
@@bohkhuj9247 You’re clearly obsessed and have no education or empathy at the end of the day from her experiences she equated that she was being left out and removed from the situation like she’s always been removed has nothing to do with being manipulative it’s her emotions
@@bohkhuj9247 Plus if you knew anything you know that they said they’ll recently and did a podcast talking about everything that wasn’t shown on the show so it was told to infinity by yandy close friend at one point they only adopted her for clout so her fear and pain is valid
You're not lying! The moment she threatened to have Yandy's biological children taken away, my empathy for that girl dwindled.
Yandy took in a girl who had been abandoned multiple times and has clear abandonment issues and then as soon as her husband got out of jail, all of sudden she's too much to handle. I'm sorry, but to me it looks like Infinity was a project for Yandy while Mendeecees was in jail.
and a storyline
Yes!!!!!!
I don’t think so I feel that infinity manipulated the situation she researched Yandy and told a story to get the life she wanted Yandy took her in with good intention I work in foster care and you just understand kids have trauma and problems and feel they can do what they want because it’s not there biological parent or family.
@@alishamoore4472 infinity was the child in the situation and yandy chose to adopt her. being manipulative or having any other issues doesn't justify yandy going out of her way to adopt her as a teenager only to abandon her when issues started to surface. she should've just left her in the system
A storyline and distraction
Mendeecee has every right to feel that way.....As he should!
I agree with her husband . Respect is everything.
It’s so sad that this relationship felt conditional. Infinity was only welcomed as long as she acted like a perfect little angel 🙄 Come on. That’s unrealistic! People make mistakes, especially young kids! I have a 16 year old myself, and she drives me crazy at times. But I would never in a million years kick her out. To have this kind of expectation is detrimental to the longevity of any relationship. Especially when committing to the roll of a foster parent. She didn’t hurt anyone physically. It was a threat that many people make out of anger and hurt. She owned up to it and apologized and seemed VERY genuine about it.
What’s heartbreaking is that she didn’t care about them helping her get an apartment. Who at that age would not want to be independent and make their own rules?! If I told my daughter I’m going to help her get an apartment, she’d jump at the opportunity! That’s what you get from a teen who’s been smothered with love. Not one that’s desperate for it! Yea she may have screwed up, said some things in the heat of the moment, but who hasn’t?! As long as she accepts her wrongs and is willing to put in the hard work to be better, that’s all that matters!
I pray Infinity finds her way.. you got this girl!
I think she was like 19 or 20 when they had that conversation about her transition into a young adult. She was already in college
@@sheilamumbi8643 you’re probably right. But being in college AND on your own is very emotionally and financially challenging. Even if she was 19 or 20 that is still very young. Science will tell you, that our brains have yet to mature. She needs to be nurtured and loved unconditionally. She’s desperate for it and it shows in her actions. If she was in college, I don’t see why she could not come back n forth and be allowed to have a place to call home, if needed? Many students do that, live locally and commute from home to school and back. I think what pains her the most is that she should be allowed to make that decision for herself. It’s not like she’s 30, not pursuing an education and living off of them. That would be completely different.
They are doing their best,
You said we "all" make threats, but I never threatened my own family this way. She basically wanted to rat out the entire family. Where's the trust?
Threatening ur own family is something far worse than hurting them physically. It is not OK. Especially considering that these people decided to take u in, who decided that they want to give u what u never had. A family. And u just go out and say u gonna b*tch about them because of a fallout? Arguments r normal in a family. Bitching about them in front of others isn't. Even if everyone does that. Since when is everyone doing something anyhow acceptable in the first place? Everybody had a fair share in this mess but she should be at least thankfull enough to say "u know what we fought but I ain't gonna rat on you because u took me in ur family". U thinking this was a conditional relationship is actually scary. Parents r n authority. U have to respect them and do as they say. That's not conditioning that's parenting.
As someone who grow up in the system I feel the pain this young lady is feeling
The strongest normally go through the hardest situations. You are a real gem for making it and surviving all that you survived 💎
But she didn’t grow up in the foster system. She lied about that
@@bohkhuj9247 going into foster care for a second it is traumatic anyone who’s been in the situation know that and she was in foster care for years out of her life
@@jamiebrown2543 that’s a lie .
@SHENEKA DORVILUS did you watch the show ? She didnt grow up in the system like you.
I NOW have mad respect for Yandy!! She trying to help Infinity during a difficult time in her life is admirable, even tho she has kids of her own. Am adopted so I can relate to what Infinity is going thru. It tough with the trust issues, but she getting decent persons willing to help her and she betraying that trust, really hard to bounce back from. May the Heavenly Father grant each person in this situation, wisdom and grace to make the right decisions going forward.
I love mendeecees. He seems like a cool down to earth dude. He loves his kids and he handled the situation with infinity correct.
No, DF he didn't, he saw this as a business move because you get paid for being a foster parent, and he treated her exactly like that. Not a father figure at all and I'm pretty sure she saw his interactions between Him and his biological children , she was looking for a father figure, remember the conversation she had with yandy trying to figure out ifshe could call mendeecees Dad or not. So, no he handle it wrong , and I suggest that you don't adopt anyone's child.
As a mother, Yandy recognizes that infinity isn’t ready. She’s been deprived of that motherly love that she’s so desperately looking for, not saying that excuses her issues, but when you take on a foster child you take on everything & that’s something yandy hopefully talked to her husband about before hand bc he is coming off as excluding infinity from the kids when she’s been apart of that dynamic for so long.
I am 20 and I was adopted when I was 3 because my baby sister was murdered by my mother. The family I was adopted by my grandpa but once he passed away I was not with my biological family. I was abused and a personal caregiver. I grew up hating myself, never loving what I looked like…still to this day my insecurities eat me alive and I’m working on it. But I was on the streets from 14 to 18. I was working full time first at Burger King then little Caesars, going to school getting good grades. It was so hard going to school trying to be normal when I see all these happy kids that come from 2 parent homes even if their parents were divorced I was so envious. I would have to go to the nurse everyday and ask for crackers because I never had money for lunch and at some point they gave me free lunch but they stopped because my guardian wouldn’t apply me for it. My school had to give me clothes, hygiene products literally anything a parent would do my school would do. And I would have to beg them because I was on the street with no one to help me. If I ask my mother for help with food she tells me I’m using her. I’m so grateful for the people who have spared me a couple dollars or helped me in any kind of way because I wouldn’t be alive if no one hadn’t. I laid down in the middle of the road when I was 18 and I just cried and begged for someone to run me over and I was on a busy road and no one hit me. God was keeping me here for some reason. My only dream I’ve ever had is to be in the position to be able to help other people. I don’t wanna just throw somebody a fish and only let it feed them for the time being I want to actually teach the person how to go out there and catch that fish with their bare hands because I would hope I would hope and I pray every day and I asked for God to have someone show me how to fish with my bare hands because as soon I learn the game I WILL be spreading the wealth because ain’t no one ever putting me or my future kids out. Period.
May God bless you my love.
Sending you so much love, I love you ❤
your story brought me to tears I'm so very saddened to hear all you had to go through no child should have to go through that! how are you doing today?
@@sandraruiz3834 literally was crying earlier because I just started a new job and I don’t get my check for 3 weeks and my power just went out and I have no way to pay for it. And I literally have no one to ask to help me.
@@sandraruiz3834 I really appreciate that. I’ve been through so much and I hate when I see other kids being used just like how I was
I came from foster care system from Colombia & got adopted into USA & then readopted again, although she went though trauma I honestly don’t think Yandy or mandecees was being hard on her, she’s older now so helping her become an young adult which she is is the best thing they can do for her and also get her some therapy. I too once didn’t listen and hated reprimand from parents but it was just because I wanted to feel secure and loved, but I wouldn’t act out in the way she did in order to get my way, specially with a public family like them. I feel for both parties and see both point of views. I think she’s still stuck in trauma as a little girl and wants to be taken care of which is how I once was, but what she doesn’t realize is one your 18 your free from anybody controlling where you go & when you go, your free to create your own family
Eloquently stated.😌
Infinity needs to change her attitude. Yandy needs to be careful, remember you have a husband and infinity is growing up. Watch out peeps.
It's an abuse/abandonment type attitude she's not used to controlling her feelings and how to carry herself they are teaching her how to be the best her I
Infinity looks just like her mother
..but in reality she is not a child anymore. She can't stay with them forever.
That’s not what the whole situation was even about omfg
@@Brianesha it is actually. She is out of high school and off to college She became disrespectful and wants to move in because she isn't ready to be on her own??? GTFOH. If she wanted to be with her "family" she wouldn't have done what she had done. Period.,
Infinity’s mom has 6 children and seems extremely disconnected regarding Infinity and what she’s going through. Why isn’t SHE fighting for her daughter? SMH
PERIOD
Right
Exactly.
She’ just doesn’t want her. Some people just have disconnect with their own kids.
She is a NARCISSISTIC CHILD. These type of people are very difficult to deal with. Though we as parents screw up. Infinity clearly is intelligent enough to be aware of her situation. She needs to deal with that by taking responsibilty for her actions. Then can deal with WHY she behaves this way.( her mothers action) So she can start to heal. She is aware but making exscuses to act out. She can do better. She got what she claims she wanted with Yandi. So she chooses to act like this. Narc people do stuff like " tell all your biz" when they get angry. ..
Those kids love infinity honey that's a blessing
This hit me hard. I was 17 and lost on who I was as a person and where I was going in life. When I was most confused, I needed guidance and love. My mom kicked me out instead and told me she didn’t want a relationship with me. For years after that fact I tried so hard to reconcile with her and she’s denied it every time. This child is pleading to be loved and accepted and to hear that you can’t stay because it jeopardizes someone else’s security makes you feel like a problem. It makes you feel alone and abandoned. She wants someone to stand up for her and protect her and she sees that in Yandy. She expressed that. I wouldn’t have told her she couldn’t stay there until I exasperated all of my options coming to find out she could get an emergency hearing in 2 days smh. I also don’t like her telling her she has “rules and regulations”… you could’ve said it in a different way in my opinion. Don’t adopt or take in a child you’re not fully capable or ready to take care of.
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I’m glad her husband was there to mediate because a lot of ppl had to grow up fast and there are so many ppl that want and should be saved. Apart of growing up is taking opportunities as they come because nobody owes you anything and life isn’t perfect for a lot of ppl so your pain is not special. She should be in counseling and learning how to address her feelings because she is learning that she can explode for not knowing how to effectively communicate then cry to manipulate the situation. Take the blessing as it comes and make the best out of what’s given to you.
Being the fact that , it was their choice, to adopt her, they owe her everything.
Yandy got her imperfect ways but one thing y’all can’t call that women is SELFISH. Too love a child that ain’t even yours let alone your man’s..speaks volumes! You go Yand keep being selfless, a godly trait. Praying for your family always!🙏🏼
I was a foster parent and Guardian ad litem ( representing the interest of the child in court) Every foster child is not the same.
Some children fit in well with their foster home BUT some children have emotional and behavioral issues and no amount of love will ever make them trust someone, some children are so use to negative feedback that they will create situations just to get it.
Wow wow wow. I NEVER liked Yandy, at all actually. But I had no idea about the situation with that child from the foster home. I really respect her a lot for doing that. God knows her heart is big. That's one thing nobody can take from her. 💜
How u talk like her you even know her 😂
Infinity went though more than a normal child. But why talk, treat and act like Yandy did nothing for you?? Very disrespectful. She needs to be kissing Yandy and her husband asses for taking care of her for years!!
These comments let's me know folks is clueless... Talking about she did this for a story line.... Lol people don't know how this process works... Everyone has to get finger printed... It's a process... You can't fake this... You get random visits... There's not an amount of storyline that can be paid for what you through to become a foster parents so you right 👍
@@TheUniquemariah Thank you! These same people would never go through that process to open their doors for a child.
im actually kinda shocked at how mature mendeecees is after his long awaited return. hes talking like a diff man than early seasons.
After watching everything I can conclude that whatever age she was abandoned she’s stuck and can’t get past that. She’s broken and we need to recognize that.
It makes sense.
Some ppl aren't stuck.. They simply Choose to be the type of person they are... Manipulators know they're manipulators..
If mendeecees acted like a father figure to her instead of her Supervisor, then maybe..........
ALL narcissist are stuck at the age that they've experienced their trauma... Only thing about that is that We all experience some kind of trauma in our lives💯💯 so that's really not an excuse for her behavior..
Infinity fumbled the bag and she’s crying because she realizes it lmfao.
“I’m not ready to be isolated” 🥺🥺🥺 my heart hurts for her really
I see the pain on both of their faces...This is real with Yandy...There always gonna be a way..Trust God
INFINITY LOOKS LIKE SHE COULD KENDRA DAUGHTER LIKE SERIOUSLY SHE LOOKS LIKE HER SO DAMN MUCH ♥️
I definitely get the way infinity feels. I had my mother there but emotionally I didn't have her sometimes physically I didn't have her. So to have yandy come along and show her the love that every girl needs and wants I definitely get it but I have my mom the upmost respect now because that's who made me who I am today. Yes I mightve been a teen mom but I graduated high school on time walked across the stage with my head held high, got my own place at 18 when my mom and her bf told me that I couldn't live in their house with a child because they weren't helping me. my dad seen me trying and helped me get my 1st car. I enrolled at Benedict college with my child and my apartment without my parents even knowing and still graduated college on time during the pandemic and had my 2nd daughter just months before graduating. I feel like yandy and mendeeces where doing the right thing. It was all love and support that truth be told I barely had and now my parents have more respect for me to this day. So I definitely get both sides to the situation from yandy and mendeeces to infinity and I wish them the best. It took me to go to therapy also which could be a great thing for infinity but I realized self-awareness of situations that I have to grow from.
I was in foster care my entire life and I've always wanted something like this to just understand we need love too. Seeing Infinity go through the ups and downs and all of that was relatable in so many ways. Ive never been the type to speak up about how I really felt like she did instead I acted out behavior wise. However, I always said I will never let my situation define me or my future and I stood by that forever. Threats is something ive done as well but it was well because of how I was being treated and it was known not just for no reason. I pray over her hurt in her life for healing and growing to understand life is what you want it to be. The system completely changes you especially when you enter your first bad home its defense mode for the rest of your life with anybody. You get mistreated so bad you tend to think thats how the world is and people can never be nice. I ran away from every single one of my foster homes and had one more to go to which was when I was 11, if I didn't I would be in a group home for until I turned 18. I seen my mood change and my attitude worsen because I didn't wanna be there and I came from abuse with my family and neglect. You see life so much different. I been in and out since my actual birth until my parents completely got their rights taken away. I prayed long and hard for God to just heal my heart so I wouldn't dare neglect myself and was on survival mode ever since. Its like you have to be strong so nobody will play with you or touch you and if you cry you're seen as weak, especially growing up in la. I thank God for where I am now because omg seeing this is just a reminder of how far God has brought me and the rest of the youth with worse or same experiences. Now im majoring in Psychology because of this
Sorry to hear that. Congrats on overcoming those obstacles! We can be youtube/social media friends. God bless you doll.
Good lord. I'm so very sorry you went through that
To be honest dealing with anybody who has experienced this level of trauma is difficult. They can manipulate you so easily with sob stories. Not negating anything this girl has been through as a child, but people often use their trauma as a way to validate their bad behavior and stay stuck in their ways. Once you get a certain age, accountability needs to be second nature. Yandy should not have took this girl in without her husband being present. This is why a man leads, because clearly all of Yandy's decisions in this particular situation was emotion based. She needed logic from her man.
I think what yandy is doing is wonderful. Celebrities are self absorbed and busy having fun but yandy taking in a infinity makes her a great person.
& Then Kickin Her Out
I totally understood where, Mendeecees was coming from. He's a family man and it's time for Infinity to take full responsibility for herself. I wish her well...tho it's hard
She had no business bringing that grown ass teen in her home lol....I can see if she was about 5 but damn she's almost an adult 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
😂 😂
I don’t feel bad for infinity after watching the full season of yandy and her and I can honestly say infinity had a one in a life time blessing yandy set her future up so bright but yet infinity wanted to do what she wanted to do like. Her birth mother said ! Than she threaten to tell the media about what goes on in yandy personal house hold is a no no !!! Because yandy has other mouths to feed too and it can affect her businesses and her deals and taking food out her kids mouth so I 100% understand! YOU DONT BITE THE HAND THAT FEEDS YOU !! I commend yandy because nobody would know how to deal with having a heart and protecting yo family it’s confusing but everything you do has consequences
bro thank you, i only watched this complitaion and just from this i can see how infinity speaks and acts and im not a fan... understandable that she was in the foster system, but the fact she lied about being there when she was born says enough. her mother may or may have put up this act but she after hearing infinity speak to yandy about 'leaving her out in the streets' or something it was just a lot.. i know abandonement issues is real but infinity needs to work on herself if she doesnt wanna be looked at as the bad guy cause what im seeing hmmmm
@@topelawal4810 Exactly exactly!!! Because I was regretting the decision for yandy 😂 when she meet up with her mom !
We love you over here🥳YAndy for what you're doing with little Miss Infinity💖 ♾ ❤
I understand both sides but I feel like infinity is manipulating them with her past trauma by crying and blaming them for abandoning her but your almost 21 and you can live on your own. You have them as your help and support but you don’t have to live with them. She wants to be taken care of and live off of them but your an adult and while transitioning into adulthood it’s awesome to have a great family to have your back during that time.
Bingo that’s another thing she old enough now it’s one thing if she was still a lil kid but she in college and a growing adult with there situation it’s actually odd for her not to jump on the apartment deal they had good thing mendecess saw right through those tears
Dude if I had a rich couple offering to pay my first and second months rent I would be over the moon!! Infinity seems really ungrateful and I actually believe her birth mom is telling the truth.
I promise you! Two months ?! Whew Chile I would've taken that offer asap
@@bmooremoore4460 💯💯
Same
@Charnele Johnskn Yeah but I think she wanted a hand out but would say and do the most to make it seem as if she wants a "mother" etc...my thing is-go do this with your biological mother smh bet she wouldn't because her mom doesn't have fame or money like them I'm sure.
@@bmooremoore4460 mannnn what especially the new minimum wage-rent is like $1500-$2000
I missed all of this. But I can see both sides. Mendecees just got home, he wants to be around his family, I'm sure it would be a bit uncomfortable to not be fully relaxed at home with someone you have only spoken to a few times.. But then I get Infinity and her abandonment issues. Hope they're good now
I also heard she was seen some guy that they didn't approve of ... So there was more to that also...
Guess what? If you were in prison for most of your child's life, don't expect her to be perfect when you get out because YOU DID NOT raise her
Mendecees know that girl is playing a role!.. He's from the streets, he see her game and he ran it back at her... Talking about she don't wanna b grown😂, he know, that's y he told her it's time to b... It's was a easy let down💪.. They're not heartless though so they're not gonna cut her completely out but I can tell u one thing, she's gonna do some disloyal shit again💯💯
If you knew what children went through in those places this whole scenario would make you look at Yandy different . This was absolutely exploitative and Yandy didn’t even hug the girl when she was crying…
I Noticed that too like if you don’t hug that girl Yandy!
@@dayananarie she didn't need to comfort someone who took her trust nd tried to "expose" "blast" however u wanna say it on social media then gets mad becuz they r trying to help her become an adult in time
@@dayananarie it literally makes my heart ache watching it willing her to hug her
@@dayananarie none of this matters - she took her in as a foster child on the scale of zero to 100 on the scale of teenage issues that’s a 5 considering what she’s been through and the image Yandy presented
Mendeces never wanted tht girl around and Yandy knew tht ,I feel like she shudve never adopted her unless mendeces was home
Now wat I'm bout 2 say com from me REALLY be raised in Foster Care not never knowing my biological MOTHER. But tis MATTER is Infinity jus try'n 2 find dah easy way out an she knew an kno dat Yandy had an have money. Now she's had NEVER been abused her problem is she wanted to do wat she wanted to do an then wen her mother & grandma had rules for her she runs away , datz not being in Foster Care mean like being bounced from home to home every other month like I was abandonment issues so she ran away from her real family dat seem to wanted dah best phor her. Infinity is manipulative an lied about how she lived jus so she can have a tv lyfe wit Yandy an Mendeece .. Like on God they must cut ties wit her because everything she learns or see wat goes in dah family she is definitely gona share it to dah public. I wouldn't TRUST her at all in my house or around my family.
Exactly
Yandy is trying to play a role of a good person. Everything Kimbella said was right. You don’t owe the bio mom a meeting. There’s a reason why she doesn’t have custody of the kid. Why wasn’t she actively trying to get custody back ?
I hate that we expect children to act as adults in adults situations.
Probably because she were busy taking care of her other 5 children.. The one's that wasn't trying to run away and stay out late hours of the night trying to act grown!!! Hell she said that she sent her to live with her grandma and she didn't wanna stay because she didn't wanna follow the rules...All I'm saying is "victims" doesn't go around yelling their a victim, manipulators do! Knowing that, I would've had to look deeper into that situation too... Too many ppl out here that Not who they Pretend to be to b just taking ppl tears.. I mean word like that.. Bet Yanda wished she'd listened💯
Kimbella also came back and said yandee used infinity for a story line
That girl is manipulative
I’m sorry but i feel like infinity was manipulative like she wanted a come up. I think her mom was telling the truth about her and infinity was also telling some truth but she uses her pass as an excuse. And everything she said in the beginning is not true and she crying to cover it up.
I kinda feel like he sees right through her or some
Who believes when kimbella said that yandy used infinity
Def believe Kimbella because we've all seen exactly what Yandy is capable of and has done to so many people. Shell smile in their faces right before stabbing them in their backs.
I find them to both be opportunists. Yandy needed a void to be filled with Mendecees being away; and Infinity... She defo had the "come up"
@@noirlily3413 Agreed, however, one was a young girl being put through a corrupt, abusive and sometimes deadly system, while Yandy was and is a grown woman and a mother but I knew right when she offered this young lady a stable roof over her head, that it was for appearances because Yandy has done some of the foulest things to the mother of her step children. Yandy locked one out of her own apartment, claiming to be Mendeecees wife, which we later found out she was lying, had her family member attack the other mother on stage because Yandy ran her mouth but could cash those checks she written, not to mention all the all sly, venomous things Yandys done to those two women yet claimed to love her step children so much but was literally using those babies for power over their mother and even stabbed her best friend in the back, so I don't trust Yandys intentions as pure and from the heart but if I am proven wrong, will admit I was wrong.
@@christinekelly7769 okay chill with the essay ...it was just a question
I'm 31 and like Infiniti I had to grow up fast....Getting an apt while working and going to school at 19. A lot of traumatic things that made me feel isolated before that. I'm shocked at how Mandecees man from the streets was so hard on this girl. She's a female first of all and we are emotional. They basically telling her "Since you were not perfect and a rebellious teen you are not our daughter anymore" To see this girl begging to be a part of this family is so painful.
until someone can show me that Yandy did this for clout, I’m going to believe her when she says that she truly loved infinity.
Same
As soon as Infinity found out Yandy met up with her bio mom she knew it was over for her. I don't doubt that young lady went thru some things but I also don't doubt she's an entitled brat. She manipulated the hell outta Yandy & im glad Mendes saw right thru the bs.
Infinity's tone seemed disrespectful, entitled & problematic, despite her upbringing/trauma. She was a liability & Mendeecees' approach was right. Turning to social media & threatening to write a book, just because he posted a pic of his family without her was very telling. Sometimes, it doesn't matter how good/kind you are to other ppl's children.
No ways I would adopt some rude as kid who left her mamas house. She got attitude for days, just coz she’s a child don’t mean she don’t know what’s up. She’s manipulative af
The scene when mendecess was telling infinity to become independent and on her own then she start crying and mendecess telling her not to cry then dips was too funny to me 😭😭😭
I knew something was off in her by her tone when she was talking back to yandy after she explained that she couldn't stay inside the home until it was approved ...that would have been a wrap. she would have to watch her effing tone with me from jump.
Yandy I'll give you a round 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽of applause for stepping up. One thing you can not do is change how a person feel about life. Take this as a learning experience
I'm glad Yandy endorsed her husband to Infinity and that it's a joint decision. They both stood tall on the decision to get her own place..
Kimbella said it best was just anther storyline for yandy 🤷🏾♂️💯
People make excuses for that girl she disrespected yandy under her roof and tried to expose the family
People make excuses for that girl she disrespected yandy under her roof and tried to expose the family
@@Kyle-ig9yp it's not excuses it's facts because had yandy not used her for a story she never would have gotten into yandy home to be able to tell yandy business 🤷🏾♂️
@@freakysmart5265 but why would u wanna expose your “family” then call cps just because u mad
@@Kyle-ig9yp listen I'm not going to get up off yandy it takes two ....
Nothing Yandy does seem genuine to me. It’s no coincidence that everybody around her calls her a liar and a fake.
Yea but this was genuine
@@amiekent5781 I don’t think so, personally. Her very best friend wasn’t even convinced.
@@racheltoria I mean she did take her in and did a lot for that girl and in return because yandy told her she couldn’t date a grown 23 year old women she was upset and threatened to write a tell all book said yandy was awful but ended right back up in her face ? And kimbella ain’t not saint herself yes yandy do lie and do stuff but in this case she wasn’t
@@amiekent5781
I doubt she would have done this off camera, though.
@@racheltoria I’m not sure if you know who toya is lil Wayne’s baby mom but actually a few months ago toya,rasheeda yandy and some others all linked up and yandy took that girl with her and they had this cute little slumber party kinda thing in a mansion it was off tv even after all the stuff that little girl has said and done her own daughter wasn’t even there
She had to understand she wasn't they kid but a storyline for yandy
Yeah yandy is untrustworthy, she has lied many times
That lil girl a whole something else..she really pushed her way into that rich family.
& then blew it 😩
Lord cover her she feels unwanted and Yandy was somehow filling the gap and now she feels Yandy is doing the same thing to her.But I also understand where Mendeeces is coming from,you can’t cause people not to trust you by your actions and expect them to let you in their home one shot.It’s about the ability of trust.I pray she finds a good therapist and goes with her mom and Yandy it will be such a good help for her to talk it through and let go some of the hurt and hate she has built up.I pray she finds peace and doesn’t resort to mental health so bad she gets suicidal and a lot of people resort to.The sooner she realizes she has to become her own best friend and mature and learn to love herself and get focus on her mental health she will be okay.I wish her all the best before the calm comes the storm things will get easier once she puts in the effort and don’t rely on anybody but herself.Sometimes situations like this is how females end up with abusive men and men who pimp them out they feed off their weaknesses I hope she gets help.
Yandy should have never made this part of her storyline. Telling her that on camera and not comforting her while she cried told me all I needed to know