People are trying to compare this relationship to Rémy Ma and Papoose. Let's NOT do that because we know for a fact that Papoose hasn't publicly disrespected Rémy Ma by having a known side chick on his arm. Also can we stop accepting cheating as a normal part of a relationship? Say no to struggle love!
Yes. Both are completely different. But one thing i can say out of all the couples Ma And Pap, Yandy and Men are the only two that made it through and stuck it out.
So when Yandy was pregnant with Skylar, Mendeecee was mad because she is out hustling for her family and couldn't grab Omear from school??? While pregnant? And he was a block away from Omear's school??? So he want an award for being a father???? Black women deserve so much better than this bs.
Samantha’s problems with Yandy are different than Erika’s. Samantha really cared about what was being said about her kids, where as Erika desperately wanted to prove that she wasn’t a side chick 😂
Wow I had no idea Mendeecees had a son from a previous relationship. I'm so glad Yandy kept reminding me that he was his son from a previous relationship. Otherwise I would have had no idea that that was his son from a previous relationship
@@kellslaay6969 Omg yeah, i even forgot that another son he had with one of his baby mommas lol. Let's be real though, Yandee has always been a cash cow for mendecees lol
😮No Way. Relationships req. balance. If Yandy can't trust Mendecees to be entertained by a well known artist then come home to her she shouldn't be with him. That is needy energy but if you want we can blame this energy on her preggo. In the same breath Yandy pregnant and should be relaxing not worried about nothing.
I genuinely feel in the beginning he used Yandy for a come up. Then he gradually and honesty fell in love with her once their child was born. I’ll still never forget Yandy flaunting that fake ass wedding in our faces.
Yup, that’s the only reason he picked her to be the main. He know she brings in that bred and he wants to live comfortably. He ain’t stupid lol, I just hope she’s not.
Yes he is the typical bob the builder. And why did he go to jail anyway? Irresponsible men always want the go getters, The more they work the less they need to do. Don’t get stuck with one of those, they will never step up to the plate and pull their own weight or be responsible enough to support a wife and children on their own. I’ve seen second wives pay their husbands first baby mamas child support. Do you not get stuck with someone like that.
When Mendeecees lied to Yandy about her son being hurt, that was LOW low. And then when him and his assistant started laughing at her..... hilarious 😐😐😐
@@janassyjoachim1623 wtf a lady that stays with a man while he is in prison for 5 years after he cheated and all then got out and said he wouldn’t do it for her and on top of that she wasn’t legally married she is a liar .. she is NOT a role model for nobody😂
@@worldofnaay9750 When you do things for people, do it from your heart, not because you think they would do it for you. She held him down cause she seen something in him we don’t see... a lot of men won’t do it for a woman and that’s why we praise pap so much. He choices in love is not what makes her a role model, he business and the way she uplifts our youth is! That’s a strong black woman! I won’t let some internet hero’s to change my opinion
@@worldofnaay9750 you said "she wasn't legally married" as if that's an L. Baby girl's protecting her coins. Imagine being legally married to someone in jail with debts and child support now you gadda pay for that shit with your hard earned money😂 no thanks.. At least she might be a sucker for love but not a fool when it comes to finances
“Before we move in together we need to see where this relationship is going” Lmao moving is too fast but having a child together in an unstable relationship is ok
She thought she was better than other others and she but he chose her bc she had the bag. He would’ve never married her if he would’ve never went to prison
You already knoooooow that that was what he was thinking lmfaoooo! Smh you can't tell men that you'll never leave them, but you also don't want to often tell them "I'll leave you at any point for any man" because those are manipulation immature tactics to instill guilt, shame, & fear in someone and will never lead to healthy relationship developments.
When he told little Mendeces he might not be around for a while made me so sad. You could tell that he kind of understood, but not really. When he touched his face I cried.
The scene with his son made me cry that was so upsetting to see I know ppl need consequences when they break the law but it just really sucks for situations like this bc the kids are innocent
lol but girl did u see how freaking tall her heels were?? like the heels she was wearing when they were in the tattoo shop, they were atleast 6 inches!! I kno they were vuittons but they looked like stripper heels lol ❤️❤️
@@samanthameza6114 lmao girl yes but according to google Yandy & mendeecees the same height (5’7) so no matter what inch heel she wear she would be taller than him 😭 couldn’t be me
@@only1kristen girl right, my husband is only like 2 inches taller than me so I hardly wear heels anymore when I'm with him, I usually just wear them when I'm with my bitches cause I'm not tryna be taller then my man lol
Mendeecees is crazy. He was in and out of jail while she hustled and worked. And, now he is complaining about what she did not do. Please, he needs to stop whining and crying and do everything he can to help Yandy.
@@thegoat7517 or you blind?she lied she was married She lied she sent KimBella to Lil Mendeeces bday party to crash it She lied about them trying to get child support Shall I go on?
Maybe it’s just me, but if my husband is were to call me and say my baby in the hospital just to “get my attention” and then while I’m upset with him, start grinning in my face? I would have torn that studio up. And then his assistant doesn’t ask if I’m okay, she coming akiki’ing in too? Oh no ma’am
I been looking for this comment! I would’ve slapped tf outta both of them cause u don’t play like that. Not with anyone, especially a pregnant woman. BITCH IF HE WASN’T OK WTF WAS U GONE DO??? Idc if I was in there whooping his ass, stand tf down ASSISTANT. She should’ve known her place n he should’ve put her in her place b4 Yandy got in her face.
She actually wasn't pregnwnt at the same time Erica got pregnant when her and mendeecees was off for a minute then they got back together after Erica had her baby and she didn't know
@@thegoat7517 on the "tangled web mendeecees, yandy" thing on youtube part 2 Yandy said she found out when ericka was 7 months pregnant. So yeah they werent pregnant at the same time i thought they were lol. But she did infact kno about ericka.
Dey should hook us up.. And that's exactly how I felt.. Like she keepit on hunnid wid people buh dey always stab her in the back.. I mean I can totally relate to her.. And her vision of girl code.. I really like her a lot.. And I'm just stating my opinion...
And that’s all they are, is attractive. They lack depth to me. Don’t have the things that truly should be valued in a relationship. They feel like a stunt couple. And that’s fine, but at least have your love be deeper than how you look and how much money you have 🥴 that’s how you have problems.
@@ChristalJ that's cause she stole him from Erica by being his side piece. There never was any depth. Tandy got pregnant and he wanted to "do right" by her 🙄🤦🏿♀️
they tried to push the idea that she was super messy with the BMs, but i’m a firm believer that two things can be true at once, and i felt their bitterness. especially Erika like 🥴
@@ByNature15 Folks don't like darker skinned people...period! I've encountered that my whole life so I know what I'm seeing. She's also smart and goes against the grain. Bad combo for a lot of people. They want to take her down a peg or two.
Pick me dynamics are so bizarre. Many women predicate their worth upon whether or not a man wants them and I can’t entirely blame them. That’s how women are socialized since girlhood, to prioritize the male gaze but at the end of the day if two women have kids by a man and have been deserted by him, you’ve gotta be smart enough to avoid him. Mendeeces is not a catch by any stretch of the imagination and Yandy is willing to scrap with other women over him like a skunk on a pile of trash. It’s so sad.
It was really disrespectful of Remy to ask Mendeece if he was good while he's arguing with his wife/gf. The fact that she didn't see anything wrong with doing that shows how silly she is. It's inappropriate. Stay in your place and mind your business
"Yandy doesn't believe in divorce" so just to confirm they have definitely been cheating, or he has been cheating and she isn't going no where. Plus they aren't relationship goals like at all
Why is that because they been thru trails and tribulations ? I don't think anybody wants to be cheated on. But let's get back to reality. It happens... And instead of her leaving. She believed in her family. NOW they are doing better. Women get cheated on all day and night and stay. At least he grew up learnt from his mistakes and now take care of his family and made her his queen. Nomore thots running around
Well i am going to say this. They are working with whatever relationship they have. I seen a lot of couples so quick to give up and not fight or work. A relationship is work. They've been on and off for 6 years. That's a long time. And their biggest issue has been suppose cheating and the mother's of his children drama. So while others bash or talk about them negatively they're making it work. So they doing what's beat for them
@@DainelleSpeaksTv girl yes thank you! 👏🏻👏🏻 So many women stating Mendeecees and Yandy are relationship goals like girl bye. I wouldn't stay with a man who cheated on me, let alone had a whole ass baby with another female. Yandy is mad at the other mothers of Mendeecees kids. She should be mad at Mendeecees. He's not some kind of prize being in and out his kids lives. It's unhealthy for the children, and Yandy is a mess bringing more kids into that situation. Yandy is going to stay with Mendeecees no matter what and that is a sad sad thing. He can do whatever he wants and basically Yandy will never get a divorce. That's not goals, that's low self esteem.
It's,wild that they romanticized the moving in and proposal while he had a whole other baby they didn't mention until it got messy. It's good that they love each other and if they happy I love it but don't idolize this by touching music multiple jail and prison stints
Yeah the other baby was the same age as their son yandy was the side piece that’s fucked up it’s like yandy didn’t even acknowledge mendecees other son
@@ElleBoogie_ He had been with Erica on and off for like a decade. She posted a lot of receipts of them being together shortly before this season because Yandy was trying to make their child out to be a break baby when in all actuality Erica and Mendecees were together for awhile. Mendecees definitely used Yandy, it's clear as day.
Oh Chile! Struggle love....I struggled before, and during my marriage. Finally gave up all the drama, and started to breath. I learned that people are who they are. My X has been chasing me every since. I can't go back there. Not a chance. She'll learn.
I respect Yandy for atleast treating the outside children with respect and love ..many step mothers are emotionally abusive or secretly hate their partners kids .. the children didn’t ask to be here and you gotta be a low down insecure evil wench to hurt innocent kids
Self surrendering is very hard to do. I really do not care for Yandy but I have mad respect for how she held it down. Unless you been through it, you will never know stress like that.
Did anyone notice that in the interview Yandy had a fake belly in the first couple minutes of the video but once she had the baby in the show, during the interview, she was wearing the same shirt, same makeup, and same hair but no belly lmao reality tv is fake
@@ninapeihopa4948 yes and no lol, they’ve done that to other cast members. Masika had a fake belly in her interviews and part of the show because the producers made her wear it even though she had her baby already
He was wrong for saying Amir was in the hospital and causing her unnecessary stress during her pregnancy tho. But other than that, they seem like a cute couple
I agree it was fucked up though how do you just leave your child at school and not be there to pick them up if she was at an event she should have told mendeeces can you grab him from school you don’t just leave him there and have the school calling where are you
To me yandy seem like she only married to him to get to his other baby mommas to show that she not the baby momma she the wife. But that's just my opinion
Why Mendeces act like his case THEIR case? Like she allowed to be happy about the baby, work on her career, and want more. That's why she never sent the papers off
They were very annoying like let bygones be bygones but no..they had to be petty so she was petty back..at the end of the day it was only supposed to be about the kids but smh
Mendeecees at 25.00 mins was toxic as hell and actually pretty disgusting. So what if the school couldn't find yandy for one instance. You are his father and SHE IS PREGNANT and he is causing this foolishness and laughing because ' yandy wasn't on point.' Mendecees realizes Yandy messed up collecting the children so he acts like this knowing she is working. TRASH!!
you can tell the love yandy has for mandeeces is real but they never really were the overly affectionate type. the vibe is even more distant now like there are some wedges between them
I prefer to disagree . As New Yorkers We Don’t Publicly Kiss & Touchy Feely In Public. It’s disrespectful to children and others who may be looking on. In New York when we see people in the street kissing we yell out “GO GET A GOT DAMN ROOM OR TAKE THAT ISH TO THE HOTEL! “ 🤣😂.. seriously
they straight started at yandy first and brought all these receipts but been they didn’t like what yandy had to say and when they were expecting yandy to get upset but instead she held her man down, THEN all of a sudden it’s about the kids lmao 😂😂😂 hating ass bitches bro
yall. Mendeecee doesn’t even respect Yandy at all. she’s pregnant and he’s acting like that?! If my man starts grinning like that, and having his assistant all up on me, i’m ready to leave. and who IS HE, to blame yandy for not paying attention to HIS AND HER SON?! Coming from a man who’s sentenced to prison for drug related offences. Between Yandy and Mendecee, he’s the one who DIDNT EVEN THINK about his own KIDS and FAMILY in the first place. He’s in jail because of HIS OWN CHOICES of doing drugs, while Yandy out here fighting his own battles for him while he sittin in the cell. come on man.
Sir, you could have picked your child up from school. If my partner is the bread winner, pregnant, and taking care of home, I’m going to do everything in my power to make it easier on them.
I love their relationship I can't lie mendeces is always shy never really too big on words but I like him and yandy adores him I mean amidst the baby mama drama they seem solid now
People are trying to compare this relationship to Rémy Ma and Papoose. Let's NOT do that because we know for a fact that Papoose hasn't publicly disrespected Rémy Ma by having a known side chick on his arm. Also can we stop accepting cheating as a normal part of a relationship? Say no to struggle love!
BINGO!!!!
Facts
Yes. Both are completely different. But one thing i can say out of all the couples Ma And Pap, Yandy and Men are the only two that made it through and stuck it out.
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Your right tho. We do accept cheating as a normal part of a relationship 😩😩 at one point in life myself included. We’ve normalized it.
So when Yandy was pregnant with Skylar, Mendeecee was mad because she is out hustling for her family and couldn't grab Omear from school??? While pregnant? And he was a block away from Omear's school??? So he want an award for being a father???? Black women deserve so much better than this bs.
And talking about she keep leaving 'these kids' like he isn't equally responsible for them.
@@leonie85 that part
I was just about to write the same damn thing!!
And then they would go off when he would send Yandy
Amir*****
Something about Mendeece's face has always reminded me of a lighter skinned 50 Cent 🤷😂💀
Its the mouth lool
😂
If 50 cent had a street brother
Think dey long lost brothers... Dey just don't know it...
Thought it was only me
Samantha’s problems with Yandy are different than Erika’s. Samantha really cared about what was being said about her kids, where as Erika desperately wanted to prove that she wasn’t a side chick 😂
you are absolutely right
She wasn't though, you ain't call my baby a dang on break baby 😂😂
And to prove that mendecees still wanted her
Right Samantha did have a more valid point whereas Erika was trying to convince ppl that she was so much more than what she actually was
@@noraafrica3555yessss
One thing about Yandy....she gon' lie! 💕
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💀😂
😭😭😭😭
Period 🤣
Bwaaahahahaaahahaaaaa TRUE 🤣
I have never seen a realtor dressed like that😂😂😂😂😂
It seem like all the realtors on love and hip hop dress crazy 🤣🤣
LMAOOOO FRFR
I thought it was Brandy from Love and Hip Hop Hollywood.
Wow I had no idea Mendeecees had a son from a previous relationship. I'm so glad Yandy kept reminding me that he was his son from a previous relationship. Otherwise I would have had no idea that that was his son from a previous relationship
😂😂
Loooool 💀💀
Two boys from Two old relationships
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Omg 🤣🤣🤣🤣
When Mendeece said “ did you see his moves ? Show mommy ya moves” and Amir went off like that I lost it. 😅😭😭
I can’t believe you guys are saying that they are relationship goals. Did you forget that he had two women pregnant at the same time?
🤣i got no words...
And Yandy was the side chick too xD
Im starting to think they were just business partners
EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I had to comment because some of these people in the comments are on some BS. They are NOT relationship goals....
"his son from a previous relationship" ... Yandy made sure that was clear every time.
she did too much, she could’ve just said her step son or mendeces son 😭
What about the next son, they acted like he didn’t exist
@@samariahbenard505 nah she said it perfectly and they weren't married at that time
That's like "A Pimp Named Slickback" at this point!
@@kellslaay6969 Omg yeah, i even forgot that another son he had with one of his baby mommas lol. Let's be real though, Yandee has always been a cash cow for mendecees lol
“Hickory head, apple faced man” 🤣😭💀
Go to hell
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That was funny 😂😂😂
The days are getting shortened, Jesus is coming back soon. accept the free gift of salvation. turn away from your wicked ways with the help of Jesus🤎🤎
@djkdosduShdjd5550 AMEN
He really left their Babyshower early just to go to the club? Major red flag!!! 🚩
😮No Way. Relationships req. balance. If Yandy can't trust Mendecees to be entertained by a well known artist then come home to her she shouldn't be with him. That is needy energy but if you want we can blame this energy on her preggo. In the same breath Yandy pregnant and should be relaxing not worried about nothing.
MAJOR! the club is always open, he couldn’t have gone to the club the next day/ following week?
His NY accent is something serious.
Hear Rosy Perez ... 😝 now dats sumthin else.... 😆
Yes
Yep. He, Young B & Remy make me gawk
Lmao forreal ‼️
He some serious 🥴
Remy and Papoose are the only relationship goals in all of love and hip hop. Yandy and them are cute but fuck all that drama and cheating
Well Said.
also jessica dime and shawn with the happy ending
How do you know pap and Remy haven’t had cheating problems. ? We aren’t there with them off camera
Don't refer to them as relationship goals. Didn't they unfortunately suffer a miscarriage? Be careful what you speak onto yourself.
@@Bee-lieve623 that can happen to anybody relationship or not
I genuinely feel in the beginning he used Yandy for a come up. Then he gradually and honesty fell in love with her once their child was born. I’ll still never forget Yandy flaunting that fake ass wedding in our faces.
I’ve always thought that. Especially when you look at his baby mothers and then her. She had the most to offer and he wanted to get on.
Yup, that’s the only reason he picked her to be the main. He know she brings in that bred and he wants to live comfortably. He ain’t stupid lol, I just hope she’s not.
I agree
I think she loves him more than he loves her. He hurt her when he said he wouldn’t hold him down in jail the way she held him down
Yes he is the typical bob the builder. And why did he go to jail anyway? Irresponsible men always want the go getters, The more they work the less they need to do. Don’t get stuck with one of those, they will never step up to the plate and pull their own weight or be responsible enough to support a wife and children on their own. I’ve seen second wives pay their husbands first baby mamas child support. Do you not get stuck with someone like that.
Amir really got yandys blue eyes its so beautiful. All their kids are so cute
Yandy does have beautiful eyes but her eyes are green.
Facts and her daughter is too adorable she look just like Yandy mother
Didn't even notice yandy had colored eyes
I always thought she wore contacts 😭💀 did not know those were her real eyes
Wow I thought she wore contacts until I saw the baby
When Mendeecees lied to Yandy about her son being hurt, that was LOW low. And then when him and his assistant started laughing at her..... hilarious 😐😐😐
Thats foul bro
I actually felt bad for yandy in that scene, mendeecees was such a 🐍
Exactly. Could've caused Yandy to go into premature labor from stress and panic. TF was he thinking?!
Feel u babe xx
He laughs about everything, remember when his Mom threw that drink on Samantha Mom
The way that the realtor was dressed 😭
Chile....the second hand embarrassment!!!🤣😩🤣😩🤣😩🤣
I thought it was just me 👀👀
I cringedddd so hard
I was looking through the comments to see if anyone else saw that?! Like what? Who told her to wear that?! Whhhyyy 😫😭😂
Omg I thought I was the only one who noticed. He routfit was so loud lmaooo
She's smart for not getting legally married and doing the POA. It puts her in a better position to support their family if something happens.
Yea
I Just don’t understand why lie about it.
@@tkittrell9315 Yeah I agree. I wonder if that was part of the storyline for the show
What’s a POA?
@@Jazzmynnnn Power of Attorney?
Struggle love is NEVER worth it
EVAAA!!!
Never 🎯
They both rich, how is it struggle love. Stfu ya say anything.
@@kanariepotts3394they both rich dummy
Each for their own l guess
Mendeecees damn near falling while using Yandy's leg for support had me hollering 😭😭😭
This!! ☝🏿🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😁😁😁, am traumatized
😂😂😂😂😅
Say what you want about Yandy but she works her ass off and she's definitely a great mom
Ort den
Yes! I think she's a wonderful role model for young women
@@janassyjoachim1623 wtf a lady that stays with a man while he is in prison for 5 years after he cheated and all then got out and said he wouldn’t do it for her and on top of that she wasn’t legally married she is a liar .. she is NOT a role model for nobody😂
@@worldofnaay9750 When you do things for people, do it from your heart, not because you think they would do it for you. She held him down cause she seen something in him we don’t see... a lot of men won’t do it for a woman and that’s why we praise pap so much. He choices in love is not what makes her a role model, he business and the way she uplifts our youth is! That’s a strong black woman! I won’t let some internet hero’s to change my opinion
@@worldofnaay9750 you said "she wasn't legally married" as if that's an L. Baby girl's protecting her coins. Imagine being legally married to someone in jail with debts and child support now you gadda pay for that shit with your hard earned money😂 no thanks.. At least she might be a sucker for love but not a fool when it comes to finances
All I know if my husband call my phone and lie about our child in the hospital, ima make sure he Goin straight to the hospital his damn self. 💯
🤣😂👏👏 same
That's facts
🙌🏾 right
1:51 "Your faver is gonna drive you...."
I would've punched him right in his face! Did my "faver" knock me up too??! Stupid!
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LMFAOOOO !!!!! Why I pronounced it as “favor” and got confused 😭😂😂😂, then I realized you was mocking his accent
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@@fluffybear1539 SAME!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
“Faver” screaminggggggggg 🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️
Omg as soon as she put her beautiful baby boy over her shoulder, his big eyes caught my attention coz Amir is so so cute he's so bloody beautiful.
Amir and Skylar are so beautiful 😭
“Before we move in together we need to see where this relationship is going”
Lmao moving is too fast but having a child together in an unstable relationship is ok
yandy made a big mistake holding him down for those many years. he is now saying that he doesn’t know if he would do the same for her
I wouldn't either
She thought she was better than other others and she but he chose her bc she had the bag. He would’ve never married her if he would’ve never went to prison
@@quetta561 he was in the streets he had money lmao
@@harveyworld2372 yea but yandy came with stability & a secure bag his other baby mommas he took care of them
@Jess Torres Facts!
That blue eyed curly haired teeny tiny button of a baby, is *ADORABLE* !! Haha!
The realtor outfit at 6:49 had me 💀😂
That’s the most ghetto realtor I’ve ever seen like is that some ny shit or sum’n ?
Exactly i was thinking the same thing!!!!
Yeah, a bit unprofessional!!
So Funny 😆
What about Joc and Karli realtor
Lol when he said she said she will never leave her husband
His Mind Really Thinking I Can Cheat And She Ain't Going No Where...🤣🤣🤣
LMAO I THOUGHT THE SAME
You already knoooooow that that was what he was thinking lmfaoooo! Smh you can't tell men that you'll never leave them, but you also don't want to often tell them "I'll leave you at any point for any man" because those are manipulation immature tactics to instill guilt, shame, & fear in someone and will never lead to healthy relationship developments.
It never occurred to him that she was going to be fucking other people too or did he just not care?
Women Better Wake Up, Diseases are Real 😬 Im Sorry I'll just be single because cheating is a No for Me 😏
That what I said too 😅
When he told little Mendeces he might not be around for a while made me so sad. You could tell that he kind of understood, but not really. When he touched his face I cried.
One thing I love is how she includes lil mendences in everything
Not everyone are haters❤
We're never getting Hazel vs Masika or best of Masika 🤣
It better come by Easter 🧐
@@cookielove8174 chile one of us are going to have to do it lmao
It'll be cool to get da best of both just to see where dey come from and how much dey've evolved...
@@domodacutee1731 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@sasha-leevanderwesthuizen5406 i agree 100%
That realtor’s outfit was a mess 😭😭💀
The scene with his son made me cry that was so upsetting to see I know ppl need consequences when they break the law but it just really sucks for situations like this bc the kids are innocent
Yesss it was so sad. A lot of black men out here need to know that their kids need them an they need to do right
MONIECE & FIZZ TIMELINE + HAZEL VS MASIKA TIMELINE....I'm not settling for anything less than those 2.. 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾❤❤❤❤❤ PLEASE, PLEASE PLEASE, Vh1!!!
They not doing the hazel vs masika ...
@@deniyahdenise9637 Why not?
Yea moniece and fizz would be interesting too😂
@@steph8407 Yes! I wanna know why there's such bad vibes with each other.
@@phoenixtehrani7848 bc she threaten them with her lawyers
It’s her keep saying “me,him,Amir and his son from a previous relationship”😂😂
Not Yandy having to bend down to kiss Mendeecees when she had heels on😭😭😭
lol but girl did u see how freaking tall her heels were?? like the heels she was wearing when they were in the tattoo shop, they were atleast 6 inches!! I kno they were vuittons but they looked like stripper heels lol ❤️❤️
@@samanthameza6114 lmao girl yes but according to google Yandy & mendeecees the same height (5’7) so no matter what inch heel she wear she would be taller than him 😭 couldn’t be me
@@only1kristen girl right, my husband is only like 2 inches taller than me so I hardly wear heels anymore when I'm with him, I usually just wear them when I'm with my bitches cause I'm not tryna be taller then my man lol
She's taller than him, even without the heels
@@mariamaria-ti8fq no they look about the same height to me when you google pictures of them together unless Yandy got on some tall ass heels over him
Mendeecees is crazy. He was in and out of jail while she hustled and worked. And, now he is complaining about what she did not do. Please, he needs to stop whining and crying and do everything he can to help Yandy.
yandy, him and his assistant laughing at you is....a no from the general population
So glad someone else noticed that
Mendeecee always looks just off to me like the lights are on but nobody is home.
😂
I agree 💯
He is a narcissist lol
Poor Yandy 😩 she fought so hard for a relationship that she was trying to convince to the world that he was a good man .
well she never said he was perfect
He is a good man
Dollymolly6085 if that’s what a good man is to you then you don’t have standards.
They out here exposing Yandy and her lies 😂😂 I’m here for it.
I just hollered
I don't see no lies but hate
@@thegoat7517 or you blind?she lied she was married
She lied she sent KimBella to Lil Mendeeces bday party to crash it
She lied about them trying to get child support
Shall I go on?
@@dgkingdom7391 keep going. I’ve been asking someone to give me context and explain more hot lies she allegedly told.
@@determinedheretic5344 Literally every other scene is a different storyline she’s forcing for the camera’s
Maybe it’s just me, but if my husband is were to call me and say my baby in the hospital just to “get my attention” and then while I’m upset with him, start grinning in my face? I would have torn that studio up. And then his assistant doesn’t ask if I’m okay, she coming akiki’ing in too? Oh no ma’am
“Akiki’ing” 🤣🤣🤣
@@ioh7908 Girl, I was pissed as hell watching that
I been looking for this comment! I would’ve slapped tf outta both of them cause u don’t play like that. Not with anyone, especially a pregnant woman. BITCH IF HE WASN’T OK WTF WAS U GONE DO??? Idc if I was in there whooping his ass, stand tf down ASSISTANT. She should’ve known her place n he should’ve put her in her place b4 Yandy got in her face.
Its funny how Yandy didnt mention that she was pregnant at the same time as Ericka.
She actually wasn't pregnwnt at the same time Erica got pregnant when her and mendeecees was off for a minute then they got back together after Erica had her baby and she didn't know
@@thegoat7517 on the "tangled web mendeecees, yandy" thing on youtube part 2 Yandy said she found out when ericka was 7 months pregnant. So yeah they werent pregnant at the same time i thought they were lol. But she did infact kno about ericka.
@@uhmno1210 okay I can agree to that
Want woman wants to mention that 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
@@ceceblack2613 every relationship go's threw things if you actually love someone you would stick with them till the end
I believe Mendeecee chose Yandy because he can see her love. She shows real feelings.
She’s a check
@@nataliehenderson8657 exactly! Outta the 3 women, Yandy has the most to offer
Or even Hazel E and Teairra Mari’s friendship timeline.
Yeah.. Just to think they were so close at one time that they stopped being friends the next...
There’s one imma try and tag u
Oh no that’s nicki and her sorry lol
Dey should hook us up.. And that's exactly how I felt.. Like she keepit on hunnid wid people buh dey always stab her in the back.. I mean I can totally relate to her.. And her vision of girl code.. I really like her a lot.. And I'm just stating my opinion...
They have one now
Mendecees and Yandy really are a cute couple/attractive minus all the babymama drama and Yandy being messy and liar 🙄🙄🙄 ijs tho
And that’s all they are, is attractive. They lack depth to me. Don’t have the things that truly should be valued in a relationship. They feel like a stunt couple. And that’s fine, but at least have your love be deeper than how you look and how much money you have 🥴 that’s how you have problems.
@@ChristalJ I agree/u better preach it 💯❤
@@ChristalJ Agreed
I agree 😂😂😂
@@ChristalJ that's cause she stole him from Erica by being his side piece. There never was any depth. Tandy got pregnant and he wanted to "do right" by her 🙄🤦🏿♀️
they tried to push the idea that she was super messy with the BMs, but i’m a firm believer that two things can be true at once, and i felt their bitterness. especially Erika like 🥴
Exactly
Aww the scene with lil Mendeecees was sad that is his twin for sure.
I don't know why, I'll always like Yandy despite the fact that she clearly is not liked by many
That's what I'm saying
I feel the same way. I think colorism plays a role and she's financially independent. Envy shows up also.
@@xLAPPUINx Colorism? No but the finances, possibly. However, she’s shady too so that’s probably why she’s not liked.
@@ByNature15 Folks don't like darker skinned people...period! I've encountered that my whole life so I know what I'm seeing. She's also smart and goes against the grain. Bad combo for a lot of people. They want to take her down a peg or two.
There are many that do like her. It's weird that you people think everyone is supposed to like the same thing. I hate it here.
i just loves the way he talks 😂😂
Talks just like a Harlem dude. Idk who’s accent is thicker between him and Cam’ron 😂
Sorry...but this is NOT relationship goals🙄
Periodddd
They passed the goals already
PREACH...ain't nobody on this earth looking to them as goals.. with his mouthful of teeth...
Exactly
Nobody’s relationship is to be idolized that’s what people need to understand 🤣 no other relationship other than the one with God should be the focus.
When a man is ready to step up and do right it’s no turning back nobody is perfect but you can always see the love between them two
Wen yandy was pregnant in the black going off on everybody her hormones was on gansta mode😂😂😂😅
Yoooo😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣
Pick me dynamics are so bizarre. Many women predicate their worth upon whether or not a man wants them and I can’t entirely blame them. That’s how women are socialized since girlhood, to prioritize the male gaze but at the end of the day if two women have kids by a man and have been deserted by him, you’ve gotta be smart enough to avoid him. Mendeeces is not a catch by any stretch of the imagination and Yandy is willing to scrap with other women over him like a skunk on a pile of trash. It’s so sad.
Beautifully said 👍🏾
Yandy so naturally beautiful man
Ewww
It was really disrespectful of Remy to ask Mendeece if he was good while he's arguing with his wife/gf. The fact that she didn't see anything wrong with doing that shows how silly she is. It's inappropriate. Stay in your place and mind your business
She lost me when she was stan n 4 Tory Lanez.
"Yandy doesn't believe in divorce" so just to confirm they have definitely been cheating, or he has been cheating and she isn't going no where. Plus they aren't relationship goals like at all
Can’t get a divorce if they were never legally married
@@DainelleSpeaksTv It's not
Why is that because they been thru trails and tribulations ? I don't think anybody wants to be cheated on. But let's get back to reality. It happens... And instead of her leaving. She believed in her family. NOW they are doing better. Women get cheated on all day and night and stay. At least he grew up learnt from his mistakes and now take care of his family and made her his queen. Nomore thots running around
Well i am going to say this. They are working with whatever relationship they have. I seen a lot of couples so quick to give up and not fight or work. A relationship is work. They've been on and off for 6 years. That's a long time. And their biggest issue has been suppose cheating and the mother's of his children drama. So while others bash or talk about them negatively they're making it work. So they doing what's beat for them
@@DainelleSpeaksTv girl yes thank you! 👏🏻👏🏻 So many women stating Mendeecees and Yandy are relationship goals like girl bye. I wouldn't stay with a man who cheated on me, let alone had a whole ass baby with another female. Yandy is mad at the other mothers of Mendeecees kids. She should be mad at Mendeecees. He's not some kind of prize being in and out his kids lives. It's unhealthy for the children, and Yandy is a mess bringing more kids into that situation. Yandy is going to stay with Mendeecees no matter what and that is a sad sad thing. He can do whatever he wants and basically Yandy will never get a divorce. That's not goals, that's low self esteem.
Did she really have eggos in a frying pan 🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
I’m holleringgggg 😭😭😭😭
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
See how they snuck Erica’s baby right on in the picture! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣THIS THE FAKEST RELATIONSHIP ON TV!!
I peeped how at the “commitment ceremony” she called the father + oldest son but left Erica son sitting with the mother in law. Yandy sooo shady 😂
The matching sweater scene will always get to me🥰🥺😭
Sis said and if this hickory head apple face man 😂😂😂
10:00 the face he made when she said “are you serious?” 😹😹😹😹🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂right like bihhh get this ring hell
That "duhhh" face was so cute though lol
Lmaoo that was funny asf
What the name song playing I always hear on different shows?
Took me straight out
It's,wild that they romanticized the moving in and proposal while he had a whole other baby they didn't mention until it got messy. It's good that they love each other and if they happy I love it but don't idolize this by touching music multiple jail and prison stints
Yeah the other baby was the same age as their son yandy was the side piece that’s fucked up it’s like yandy didn’t even acknowledge mendecees other son
@@dcvirgo8707 did you notice that she only acknowledged one then miraculously acknowledges multiple child's mother when aseem was 4 years old.
@@dcvirgo8707 wait, huh? how was Yandy the side chick if he was on national TV with her and proposed to her? Lol.
@@ElleBoogie_ He had been with Erica on and off for like a decade. She posted a lot of receipts of them being together shortly before this season because Yandy was trying to make their child out to be a break baby when in all actuality Erica and Mendecees were together for awhile. Mendecees definitely used Yandy, it's clear as day.
@@bossytweed6664 that doesn't really explain why Yandy is a side piece or whatever. Erika was clearly the side chick lol
Oh Chile! Struggle love....I struggled before, and during my marriage. Finally gave up all the drama, and started to breath. I learned that people are who they are. My X has been chasing me every since. I can't go back there. Not a chance. She'll learn.
Same here 😊 Never go back
Notice how Mendeeces looks down everytime he lies.....
I respect Yandy for atleast treating the outside children with respect and love ..many step mothers are emotionally abusive or secretly hate their partners kids .. the children didn’t ask to be here and you gotta be a low down insecure evil wench to hurt innocent kids
If he wasn't good wtf was the assistant bouta do? ... then for both of them to laugh in yandys face... yea real cute ..
Yea that was real suspect..smh
When he choked out her cousin 😂😂😂😂😂
where was that at?
@@taneeyalee8528 fr 💀
They ain’t show it😡😡
Y’all ain’t see this!!! It’s just clips we already saw😳
He bout life frfr he did not care bout camera
Girl baby showers not your wedding night once you have a baby shower that's it boo
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Self surrendering is very hard to do. I really do not care for Yandy but I have mad respect for how she held it down. Unless you been through it, you will never know stress like that.
This comment really made me think about it differently. I kinda feel for her just a little bit now
This whole thing was cringe. He absolutely was never that much into her.
why are y’all praising this weird ass relationship...
Istg🚶♀️it was so fake and messy
No goals there
It's better than any relationship in Love & hip Hop
@@thegoat7517 delusional I see
@@dgkingdom7391 the matter of the fact is there's only two relationship that are successful yandy and mendeecees and Remy and Pap
@Ev3LyN Vj since I'm clearly sick name a relationship that's better than those two
Yo his speech got so much better cause no way he used to talk like that 😭
When a square college girl meets a STREET 👑. YANDY LOST HER MIND. MENDEECEES SO FINE
I'm a square and I'll only date other squares 💕 Dust to stuggle love 💯👀
@@angelgray8899 And the church said amen!!
@@angelgray8899 👏🏽👏🏽 any day
This is the comment. This lowkey needs to be the title of the video.
😂😂😂😂
Vh1 yall hiring? Cause I got some great relationship/friendship timelines that I could put together.
Family too hell 😂😂😂😂
Share ideas. I believe They read comments
If they hiring am auditioning cause i got some good tea my neighbourhood
No frrrrr.. Shit i have a tell ALL!!!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Did anyone notice that in the interview Yandy had a fake belly in the first couple minutes of the video but once she had the baby in the show, during the interview, she was wearing the same shirt, same makeup, and same hair but no belly lmao reality tv is fake
right the fake belly was crooked too💀 and ain’t the same size as her real stomach was
Damn wtf I didn’t even notice fhat
Let's get to the facts Yandy is fake as they come that's why
@@ninapeihopa4948 yes and no lol, they’ve done that to other cast members. Masika had a fake belly in her interviews and part of the show because the producers made her wear it even though she had her baby already
😭omg I need to tighten up on noticing small details because wtf!
He was wrong for saying Amir was in the hospital and causing her unnecessary stress during her pregnancy tho. But other than that, they seem like a cute couple
I agree it was fucked up though how do you just leave your child at school and not be there to pick them up if she was at an event she should have told mendeeces can you grab him from school you don’t just leave him there and have the school calling where are you
*Cue the babymama drama in 3...2...1...*
Lmao
To me yandy seem like she only married to him to get to his other baby mommas to show that she not the baby momma she the wife. But that's just my opinion
I agree
Yeah they seem like business partners to me
I agree too.. Just so she don't get a bad rap..😒🙄
🎯
I can see that
I dont care what anyone says but they seem good together and Yandy is a good mother. Through good and bad times they made it through it all.
Why Mendeces act like his case THEIR case? Like she allowed to be happy about the baby, work on her career, and want more. That's why she never sent the papers off
That’s why he doin this
Why is that when Mendeecee was in Jail those baby mama’s came and doing all the extra bs. They are very annoing
Because they didn't have Mendeecees to keep them hidden
He kept them in check while he was out.
@@girlwiththepurplepen 😂😂 maybe you right
@@DainelleSpeaksTv Nah. It's the lame tag teaming baby momma's for me
They were very annoying like let bygones be bygones but no..they had to be petty so she was petty back..at the end of the day it was only supposed to be about the kids but smh
So Yandy admits her and Mendecees were on and off. So why the switch up in season 7?
She Didn’t She Said That She Was In A Relationship As Well During Them 6 Years Of Being On And Off . 😂
@@AniyaLashay3 right, she always made that clear
Erica said they were on and off for 7 years. So how is Erica a side chick again? It seems like Mendeces was playing both of them.
Mendeecees at 25.00 mins was toxic as hell and actually pretty disgusting. So what if the school couldn't find yandy for one instance. You are his father and SHE IS PREGNANT and he is causing this foolishness and laughing because ' yandy wasn't on point.'
Mendecees realizes Yandy messed up collecting the children so he acts like this knowing she is working.
TRASH!!
Yandy seems like a incredible mother to her own and medecee children.
Watching this now and to see how far they have come as a family makes me unbelievably happy. God is sooo good!!!
She is pregnant 😳mendecees don't just play like that with a mother
It’s evident that mendecees was a lier, cheater and had no respect for the other mothers of his children. I wonder if he wld have waited for yandy
Of course not 😂😂
Learn to spell first
No
He wouldn't have waited.
Can't spell "Liar"??
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Ladies - don't raise kids and wait for a man in prison
you can tell the love yandy has for mandeeces is real but they never really were the overly affectionate type. the vibe is even more distant now like there are some wedges between them
I prefer to disagree . As New Yorkers We Don’t Publicly Kiss & Touchy Feely In Public. It’s disrespectful to children and others who may be looking on. In New York when we see people in the street kissing we yell out “GO GET A GOT DAMN ROOM OR TAKE THAT ISH TO THE HOTEL! “ 🤣😂.. seriously
@@ashantizulu144 So true, I’m from NY, too 😂😂
@@ashantizulu144 lmao i see ya point
Y’all missing the whole point of the original comment. Fuck y’all being from BRICK CITY! Yandy fake and Mendeecees is STILL cheating!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@blane6592 well damn sis lmaooooooooo
every time she mentioned his other kid she says “ from his previous relationship “ 😂😂😂😂😂😂 that’s deep but it’s funny
Yeah from his one of other baby mommas 😂
they straight started at yandy first and brought all these receipts but been they didn’t like what yandy had to say and when they were expecting yandy to get upset but instead she held her man down, THEN all of a sudden it’s about the kids lmao 😂😂😂 hating ass bitches bro
Yandy is such a pickme that got picked. Lord.
yall. Mendeecee doesn’t even respect Yandy at all. she’s pregnant and he’s acting like that?! If my man starts grinning like that, and having his assistant all up on me, i’m ready to leave. and who IS HE, to blame yandy for not paying attention to HIS AND HER SON?! Coming from a man who’s sentenced to prison for drug related offences. Between Yandy and Mendecee, he’s the one who DIDNT EVEN THINK about his own KIDS and FAMILY in the first place. He’s in jail because of HIS OWN CHOICES of doing drugs, while Yandy out here fighting his own battles for him while he sittin in the cell. come on man.
Sir, you could have picked your child up from school. If my partner is the bread winner, pregnant, and taking care of home, I’m going to do everything in my power to make it easier on them.
I love their relationship I can't lie mendeces is always shy never really too big on words but I like him and yandy adores him I mean amidst the baby mama drama they seem solid now
Ces and Dutch doing their tattoos hilariously sums up their relationship too 🥴😂🤣
Mendecces told the assistant
"Go sit down,go file some papers, go do something" lol we need more partners like that
After yandy wanted to whoop that girl cause he let her laugh in her face.
Did anyone else cry when he told his son he'll be gone for awhile💔