Ep 21_Mom told me to call off my wedding that very morning! I refused!
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- Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
- #TheDatingStories #love #marriage #wedding #dating
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Guest: Millie Waithaka
Host: Kerry Kagiri @kerrykagiri
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Hi Kerry, you have an amazing personality!
Aaah Kerry aty what can you shoot? 🤣🤣
love love your vibe!!!! love your ep as well
@TheDatingStories host you talk alot atleast let someone finish up
Hi Kerry really love your show but sorry to say this aki talk less and let the story teller do the story juu kuna vitu hua unawa cut off
The WORST thing as a woman you can EVER do is lower your standards. I have done that before and I'm still recovering from it many years later!
Thanks for sharing your story.
@@vickyitenyo. vile umefura na we mkubwa ufikiri ye pia alishukisha standards
@@vickyitenyo. Word🙌
1. Find fulfillment in yourself - only God can fill the void in your life
2. Know your purpose; without purpose, you have NO business getting married
3. Marriage is a choice, it's not about feelings. You need capacity(mental, emotional, spiritual, financial) to handle the intricacies of marriage
4. Have a working relationship with God - not just a transactional one! Be open to God pointing out areas in your life that are wanting, so that you can find the much needed healing
5. NEVER GET MARRIED TO PROVE A POINT!
Great lessons learnt from your shared experiences. Thank you Milly, its so evident that God really loves you. Thank you Kerry for the good work. 👍 🙏
@@davidogweno5427 Very true. I thank God He didn't allow me to get married in my 20s even when I really prayed and fasted to be married. I didn't even know my purpose then!
That's it Sir!!!
The feelings need to be there too. It's also about the simple things.
@@themalawiandiner180 I agree but let them not be the foundation you build on ....
when you finish proving the point, kumbe the crowd had left😂❤
Am 61 years old, lived a single married life for the longest time. God has been so good, through and through and am super grateful
I have seen the title and was like, my cousin has a similar story. Decided to check it out, turns out it is my cousin's story. Glad you are in a safe space. Praying for the best in your life moving forward. ❤💞
@@ngathangatha4742 Heeeeeey boo
Ladies let us learn to listen to our parents I swear majority of the time they are always right. Currently, I value my mom’s opinion more than anything ❤😊
Huyu dem I so narcissist to be married
Na hataki simp anataka sisi ...most of us are no nonsense
Kiliniramba mm,,but I av forgiven myself
I think you should listen to GOD .pray so hard and God will show you
💯. My mother did not want me to get married to my choice as he had been married 3 times previously. My mother did not come to my wedding. I finally realised what my mother meant when my husband literally dumped me a few weeks after my mother passed away. I mourn the loss of my mother but not the loss of my marriage.
@@blackbeautifulandsmart2849 you see, not all mother's have good intentions, some are looking for ways to make you cry But some God bless this one
whoever made us believe that marriage is a must in life wronged us big, my mum once said to mi lyfe is not all about marriage there are so many others things to do
That's true it shouldnt make your life stop before getting married but if you have the desire to get married then it's God's will for you to get married
My shosh would tell me this
yeah your mum is one in a million, thank God for her.
Your mum is real. Take her words seriously. But every time you enter in to a relationship, first work on the friendship and take your time in the friendship space before you graduate it to that marriage.,, that is if you really want marriage.
Hi Kerry I’m here to remind you again, please put on subtitles everytime you switch to your language. You’re always the first one to do it🙏
31:20!!!! Have never viewed this as a factor for marriage. And tbh, this is one of the main reasons why divorce is so prevalent in today's society. So happy YT recommended this. I needed it.
Please let the guest speak more without interfering ,i love your content ,great job ❤
Exactly yaanii hadi ata guest ako embarrassed
A broken engagement is better than a broken marriage.
@@monikawangai8719 and also better to return alive and healthy to your parents than return in a cofin because of physical abuse
Very true. Purpose is very important. God told me so as well. You just don't get into marriage for the sake of love...if you don't have a purpose that love is not enough
Truth. God ordained marriage for His purpose to be fulfilled through the marriage. Husband and wife are mirrors to each other...this is ground for each partner to become more like Christ because of the marriage.
I love it so much when we don't blame others but ran back to God and fully submit to Him
Heey just passed by here and have learnt a lot as a genz
Milly God is too wise to be mistaken, I know He is big enough to carry you through the rest of phases of life, its a matter of time
Thank you for enlightening me and many others
My generation seems to be getting married for the 'gram and the aesthetics, losing sight of what marriage truly stands for. We've underestimated its depth, often entering it for the wrong reasons, only to place the blame on marriage itself. If you're thinking about marriage but your futures and purposes don't align-or worse, if you don’t even know your life’s purpose-perhaps it’s time to pause and reconsider. Otherwise, you and your marriage might just become another statistic, and not a good one.
So so so good. You've summarised my whole story.
When a woman is emotionally driven, she refuses to listen to her intuation. Princess Diana said she knew she was making a huge mistake to get married to Prince Charles
@@mzuribeauty4287listening to your intuition is a skill...that needs cultivating...often the skill of ignoring it is more exercised.
Very true ,I hope its loud enough for the aspirants.
a standing ovation to you, ❤.
I absolutely love that you brought out the fact that serving in church does not equate a REALl-ationship with God. Oooh yeah. !! Alot of us use church service to numb our pain and fill the void with the applause of men.
Very insightful story as always!
"I can only shoot satan, pa!...devil afi die" hahaaa😂
Host slow down kidogo, ehe,ok,yes,ok,yes, I feel like like huwachi the guest ajifungue, ama mambo ni mengi masaa ni machache?😅 😅
Yes I noticed that too , she should the guest express herself freely
@@debraholwal5069 Exactly waah.
Umejijibu hahahahaha thanks for watching
@@debraholwal5069 Yeah she should tone down and reduce the interruptions
@@debraholwal5069 😆😆😆
Watching from USA...Washington State...these topics are an eye opener.
I can relate almost a similar story in my life now with 2kids now 30 yrs and going through a divorce in a marriage of 3 yrs
So so sorry my dear. May God be your Strength
First Time stumbling upon this channel and Goodddddd. I have learnt 101 things.
I am already subscribing to this channel.
We need to love GOD genuinely not because of what we can get from HIM.
Know your purpose in life and be COMPLETE and WHOLE in yourself.
Thanks for sharing your story Millie.
This is a great channel.❤❤
Helping us learn from the experiences of others.
Kudos🎉🎉
Such a great story! Such grace in her storytelling, so much love for this gorgeous woman 🤎
Awwwwwwwwh dear❤❤❤❤. Thankyou
Finally im consuming my local content,thx bby for coming with ts brilliant idea,more grace 🎉🎉🎉
Wow....its not just about getting married for the sake of proving a point to others...i leaent that the hard way...kudos millie and all the best. Asante Kagiri❤
I love you Millie,i just love your confidence and the way you are open minded
A common thread in several episodes is guests proclaiming christianity,
then proceeding to describe living unrestrained,
followed by heartbreak,
and eventually starting to practise restraint.
I left religion many years ago, but the way I remember it, the ultimate lesson is practise self-control/restraint in order to keep from harming oneself & others (love thy neighbour).
So, several episodes leave me wondering about what appears to be a gap in churches teaching young believers to navigate love/sex/marriage with restraint. (NB, not fear, but knowledge-based restraint)
Love this so much!
Ouf...!
I wish you knew how much it cost to admit that you failed in your morals journey of Christianity. Just in case you are looking for a PERFECT person in religion you are expecting too much. Now that you left religion, have you found a PERFECT person? If and when you do let us know.
Those are called personal choices..
I like this perspective
Thank you to my sweet guest. Weeeeh learnt so much from you. Lets keep having great conversations and hopefully have beautiful marriages in the future.
Great discussion. I wish every young who considers marriage should hear it.
Thankyou Dear
@@Millie_WaithakaYou're so so so gorgeous!!!!!!
I love that you share this for the younger girls. May God help us
Powerful conversation, I've learnt a lot from minister Milly
An amiable guest who has learnt and is still learning.
Subtitles please
Love from Cameroon always ❤
Thankyou Rose. You are so so kind
I have watched from day 1. Hehe, all of them! I love it Kerry! You really are built for this. Keep them coming! Watching from 🇺🇸
Thanks so much! 😊
Thank you sana
Thank You God that I find my fulfilment and satisfaction and trust in Christ Jesus alone and this is what makes everything work out for us💯❤️👍👏👏
People got the wrong idea about marriage, I think coz it has been so much advertised as the only way to escape problems and lust
Woooooow so so so good....I love it
I'll be fulfilled in God and have a purpose that God has given me in my life.
Have a working relationship with God
Hi, seeing the show for the first time. Thanks for a wonderful guest Millie, you make a great Host yourself beautiful and well expressive. All the best in 2025❤🇿🇦
Two minutes in and I already love the energy on this show ❤❤❤
Parents know what is Best for their children and that is true .
❤
Oh sweet girl millie. I had no idea this happened to you. We worked together at some point and she was such good vibes. But I am super happy to see the woman you've become. Keep growing, glowing and loving Christ.
Wah!!. May God put a demarcation between us and counterfeit men.
I have been there Milly so i totally understand you but God has been faithful.
I love your show and guests as they have a relationship with God despite their stories. This story captured my thoughts about self criticism and awareness.
Oh im so glad to be here❤...
I love Kerry ❤.....when I grow up! .....
Umenikumbusha mkiimba na njoki hehee..
Keep up Gurrrll❤
Please let the guest tell her story. Apart from that the rest is amazing
@@clarabanduka2979 thank you
True. It’s so annoying cutting her 😢
@@clarabanduka2979 she has actually made me stop watching. She has a nice show but she needs to let the guests talk.
Manzee
Learning alot...saw our host from Lynn Ngugi show
Millicent waithaka gatanga Girls 4s...you were talented
I really needed this...thank you so much for the advice
Even in church we have seen monsters pretending to be God fearing.
@@RebeccaNagawa-tb3un so true....
Kerry should have an episode of what's happening to young girls inside church!!!!
Be careful women, most especially God fearing young women, the evil can dwell in the church, yes demonic influenced men, seeking victims, and we are naively deceived by false charm, pretending, and after you’re trapped by marriage the mask comes off and the evil expands, the real person is released because they no longer have to deceive…they’ve got you (literally told that) afterwards.
Hoped and Prayed things would change many years, but how can two walk together unless they be agreed…the two never became one.
For many years, I knew something was wrong, but did not know what. I received a warning I my spirit before but went ahead with the wedding desiring such, a family, children. I suffered for that error emotionally, spiritually, and when it became physical, I said LORD get me out of here, a prayer I believe the LORD wanted to hear from me long ago, He tried to warn me, I failed to listen as I wanted marriage and family so bad (coming from a family of 10). GOD delivered me that very day.
I’m now at peace, no more emotional abuse, confusion, unrest, evil stares, he plays the victim now, but I no longer care. I wish him no ill will, only that he receives deliverance from demonic oppression. Thanks be to GOD I’m free.
Years later I read an article about demonic influenced persons “narcissists” met 14 out on the 16 characteristics. This topics needs to be addressed in the church.
Thank you Millie, i have gotten alot❤
Glory to God. May God give you His best
I love how God is involved in this story
Waaaaaaoh 😢these story is amazing... especially the purpose part 🎉🎉
Thankyou Mercy. Once you have your Purpose in order, it informs your choice of a spouse. May God give you His Best.
Am tired of following silently 😂😂😂😂
Thanks Kerry, as a single lady who’s hoping to get married( In God’s perfect time), I learn alot from these stories❤❤❤❤
Go girl ❤️ we’re not doing that silence thing no more! God’s blessings and favor upon you!
do you have a note book siz
Tuko hapo pamoja!
Have been following the stories from Lebanon..am learning alot
Just found this story , and put a sub , you ladies both look Amazing. You're all beautiful Happy new year . Catching up 🎉 from Uganda 🇺🇬 kampala ,
Keep up the good work
Welcome sebo
Beautiful lady.wish you the best in life.may God grant you a great hubby.
Thankyou Millie for sharing, lessons learnt
I rem in 2017,2018 Millie used to be a praise and worship team lead at TGL Rongai
Heeeeeey you❤❤❤
@@Millie_Waithaka❤❤
thought so... she had a great voice...... veeeeeery great🤓🤓🤓🤓
Because of Millie weeeee the love lazima nikuwa subscriber 🎉🎉🎉
Awwww❤ Christine
Millie has always been a beautiful girl, having known her from high school she was so good in music and took the music classes..
Thankyou so much dear❤❤❤
YOU KNEW LOVE WHEN YOU WERE IN CLASS 4....THINGS CANT FLOW WELL WHEN EVERYTHING IS DEEPER
Wooooiiiii the void is very very serious
I hadn't noticed it's Milly my schoolmate. You look so beautiful ❤
Great story....Marry when ready personally notof others opinions
Thank you so much Kerry and Millie... really learnt much. God bless you!
Amaaaaaaazing
You two are just precious. Milly touched a good point the couples that stayed together were in community and accountable to one another. It happened to me in 1990-97….. we ended in divorce and with two kids now 32 & 28!!
My father on the day i married, he had misgivings. I pushed along one year at a time and by year 7. I thought i would either go mad or commit murder. Mine was not malicious but indeferent, not confused, lazy, unadvisable. Head in cloud. I prayed i cried and i walked away. 4 yrs later i met second chance opportunity. Boys were 4 & 8. It was hard not being tempted to walk away because 4 yrs alone with my boys and having established co parenting where i was doing 90% and he 10%.
Lucky the friendship i had fought to keep because i saw my boys dad was just not able to be husband but fatherhood in his capacity was a plus.
When i met new guy. I told ex and we kept friendship and its 24 yrs and an extra child as icing.
Moderator relax kiasi - let the guest ajibonge
@pameshians1475 true
Hugs to you beautiful Milly... Yaani had to dig your story please forgive me... I just came across a post and found out you were married to my one time crushie Jimmy Lewa... Waah I remember we met at a workshop and he sat directly opposite me... I remember during our interactions he told me he's actually dating a kiuk lady 😢😢😢 of course being a kiuk too... 😅waaah I had to say that statement saved me right on time... I admired his dressing and the fact he told me his parents were men of God. Not sure why it ended this way...😢😢😢
@@rachaelsteve1728 yooo. Got a crush on a gu but he has a girlfriend
No comments 😭
Please let the guest tell her story peacefully.
What a story🎉🎉🎉ive learnt a lot,,,thanks for sharing❤
Aki Glory to God ❤❤❤
Am i the only one who feels kerry is a wonderful host..i feel like she is engaging the guest and not interrupting as some people think
Am single and happy❤
Kindly let the guest talk without interruptions.
41:28 Wow thank you Milly for sharing. You're such a beautiful soul
Thankyou so much dear❤❤❤
Love you Miss Kerry.❤You inspire me.
Hugs milly ...imagine I just came here to listen to our beautiful gal
Awwwwwwwwh ❤❤❤
Marriage is a none issue period
I really like your set Kerry.
Mimi kitu naezasema ,mzazi akikataa kitu LISTEN!!coz kitakuramba mbaya😢. 2nd Trust your instincts coz it gives a SIGHN.
3rd Usi!!wai downdate 😅.
The lessons towards the end.......taking notes
Ladies who shoot their shot, give Kerry and I lessons, because can never be me!😂😂😂
We have no business shooting shots.. "HE who FINDS....."
Am happy to hear from Milly,I looooooooove her
Love you right back
Milly is such a wise lady❤
Thankyou Dearest
The vibe wasn't vibing was your intuition warning you to detach instead. Kindly host allow your guests to express themselves, dont finish sentences for them or bring up a relational story. Give them the Spotlight 🕺🏽
After Emma amara story vitu zinalipuka weeh am taking notes,a lot of them kwanza..
Waited for this sana😊
Nipitie
We are learning..but love is blind😊
@@magdalenemohamedi7061 Love is not blind. That's an illusion.
Involve God in your choosing for a spouse. He will save you big time!
Awesome
Very true
I was in church prayed and fasted before marriage,served God and avoided immorality in my youth married at 26,had never slept with any man,,my marriage lasted for 6 months,we separated when I was pregnant,it's be 6 years.Dont judge people that they didn't involve God for their predicaments
@mm-hk7jp Did God confirm your spouse before getting married. I know God is not a God of confusion.
GOD IS NOT GOD OF CONFUSION! IF YOU SEEK HIM ABOUT MARRIAGE PARTNER HE FAITHFULL BLESS YOU WITH YOUR RIB BECAUSE HE IS THE FOUNDER OF MARRIAGE.
how have i not watched this show....yoooooow.#binge.I am gonna knit and watch all the episodes
What a brilliant cute girl. I pray you find love again
Thankyou so much. You are so kind ❤❤❤
You're so brave to share this with 35K people so far... super proud of you.
Thankyou Hunnie
A beautiful soul, inside out Millie 💖.
Awwwwwwwwh thankyou
I saw this gal during rhema feast,
And she is also in that song (natamani nikuone by kestin and Israel)
Super proud of you gal @Milly and Kerry
Thankyou Darling
Girl you are healing🫂Your God will make it beautiful
Ameeeeeen ❤❤❤
It's crazy how mother's can sense and predict danger.
I'w watching from Abidjan (Côte d'Ivoire)
I have never been married before, am 31 yrs now but I am a mom of two, sometimes I really miss marriage but this stories scare me alot
Sweety....it is scary but I know God makes things Beautiful in it's time. Let's keep waiting on God while we Become.
Noted...are they twins?
@@Millie_Waithakawhile we become,time whiles away....
It's not a walk in the park, take your time.
Too old to fear marriage and you're already a single mum 🙄
So so so educative!!!
So so glad
This was a timely conversation..I've learned unlearned relearned🎉
Amaaaaaaazing glad you did
It was nice listening to her story
Thankyou so much for listening in.
Am a new subscriber here.
I love this show !!
Love you Milly❤
Awwwwwwwwh Passy. Love you right back. You should consider telling us your story 😊😊😊
@@Millie_Waithaka Mine you de ruuuun😂😂😂😂
I see Kathy Kiuna in her ama am mad?
Ameeeeeen
Same here
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂u hug and make everyone jealous
I wanna share my story too it's therapeutical
Huyu interviewer ananibamba juu ata stori ikue emotional aje Ako zile za yooh Niko mboka😂✅ unaona venye ameshika hio plug ya dating
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 wacha bana