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  • Опубликовано: 29 окт 2024

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  • @brendasorokaty493
    @brendasorokaty493 4 месяца назад +58

    I woke up from sleep found the man I loved dead on the kitchen floor. He suffered a massive heart attack in the night and it killed him immediately. I was retired and didn't have enough money to pay rent and live. I was on my own alone. I sold things and had to go back to work. On June 7th 2015 I would have told you that I wouldn't be standing 9 years later. I pride myself on be a strong woman. My life has changed, but I'm grateful everyday that I have a place to live. I have food to eat and a bed to sleep in. I have cried thousands of tears and at times wanted to give up. I still question why I'm still here. I believe that God has a hand what happens to us. Look for your inner strength. Maybe you are meant to take a new path in life. It's great to have optimism, but not to be naive also. As bad as we feel we are doing, we can always find someone that is doing worse. Find common ground. Start planning a new life without your van and be optimistic you may get it back. I believe that sometimes bad things happen to have to us in order for good things to come to us. What would you weather lose your van or each other. Be strong and stand together.❤

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +11

      Thank you so much for such kind words. We’re so sorry to hear about your loss 🥺 and glad you were able to find a happy place again. This thing called life is so unpredictable and can be difficult but I’ve learned to appreciate it all. The good bad and everything in between. We really appreciate you! Thanks for the love ❤️

    • @gfirstfitness8608
      @gfirstfitness8608 4 месяца назад +3

      Thank you for sharing bless you

    • @BJ2020_
      @BJ2020_ 4 месяца назад +6

      OMG! Same way I lost my husband and what followed. Everything you said is so accurate.

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +3

      @BJ2020_ so sorry for your loss ❤️

    • @DebbieD7777
      @DebbieD7777 4 месяца назад +4

      Beautifully written

  • @anonymousgirl799
    @anonymousgirl799 4 месяца назад +12

    Think on what you WANT and not what you don't want!!! Hard to do, but keep practicing. You KNOW the power of manifesting. Your relationship is too strong to let this tear you apart. Continued prayers to you. It's just a test, Sweethearts. Declare yourself the winners and act accordingly. We control ourselves and our responses, we can't control other people and their responses!!!❤❤❤❤❤

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Absolutely! Thanks for the support

  • @LucysVanAndale
    @LucysVanAndale 4 месяца назад +5

    NOLA - We can't compare what the next person is going through. I can only imagine the frustration, disappointment, and shock of being in this situation. And it is disappointing that you were unable to reward your son on a great year. I believe you will be able to celebrate at some point. Wishing you many blessings 🙏🏽

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +2

      💝NOLA💝 Thank you for the kind words and support ❤️🙏🏽😀

  • @lwoods2110
    @lwoods2110 4 месяца назад +5

    2 things can exist at the same time. At least for myself and those I love. I can have faith that you will get the van back while also being realistic in facts and law. You both will persevere.... I truly believe that. ❤

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Thanks for the support! We really appreciate you ❤️

  • @MartineReed
    @MartineReed 4 месяца назад +10

    I was attacked over the past two years by a very malevolent force. I still don’t know who is actually behind it but it knocked me to my knees and almost destroyed me. I lost my daughter, my home, my sense of security and my reputation. But somehow, by reaching deep inside me to know my truth and my path, I made a miraculous change and landed in my happy place. I found out that my lifetime friends are true hearts who love and supported me even when my own family fell under the evil spell that was cast on me. I always said, it’s darkest before the dawn, and it was true once again. You will come back from this in a spectacular way, because two pure hearts like yourselves can only win. You are not losers like the strangers who tried to destroy my life. Peace. Love. Blessings.

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Thanks for the love and your kind words. We’re sorry for you loss but we’re happy you were able to find your happy place ❤️. Stay strong and thanks again for the support

  • @Transitlady59
    @Transitlady59 4 месяца назад +5

    Life likes to challenges us for some reason . But we call conquer those challenges with faith , love and positivity . One day at a time and you will come out smiling.🌻🥀

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +2

      Thanks for the positive vibes 💕 appreciate your support ❤️

  • @johnniemontgomery6682
    @johnniemontgomery6682 4 месяца назад +4

    Continue to have hope and continue to support each other. You have to laugh and keep smiling. I shared with y’all a medical emergency we had in Peru. We learned a valuable lesson and my husband is still healing from the hip replacement surgery. You will get to the end of this. Keep that light you both share.

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much and we’re still praying for a speedy recovery and healing for your husband ❤️

  • @juliebrinkley4064
    @juliebrinkley4064 4 месяца назад +4

    It’s difficult now, what you’re going through with the van, but you still have each other and your son and your beautiful family. I enjoy watching you and learning about different places to travel. Continue being positive as you are and you’ll get more ideas I’m sure. God bless you and your family ❤🙏🏽😊👍🏽

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Thank you so much! 😊 ❤️

  • @cherryandrews1429
    @cherryandrews1429 4 месяца назад +12

    #NOLA. Actually, I'm loving the content. I agree that you have to take babysteps towards the future. However, that doesn't mean you completely forgot the past. Keep believing but don't stand still ✊🏿💪🏿

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +2

      💝NOLA💝 thanks for the advice and support 💕

  • @anitadecor1544
    @anitadecor1544 4 месяца назад +6

    It's unfortunate that you may have lost your van for good but it is not the end of the world, some people don't have a roof over your head, at the end of the day you have each other, at the end of the day it's a material thing so be grateful for what you do have !!!!

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +2

      You’re right! Thanks for watching. We really appreciate it ❤️

  • @J.V._Nell
    @J.V._Nell 4 месяца назад +7

    Hello Tenaj and Tino,
    I know it's a cliche phrase , "You can make all the plans in the world, but the universe has plans of it's own". Somehing like that. Don't give up on getting NOLA back, until you know for sure. Sometimes things do happen for a reason, a reason that you may never understand. Maybe, protection from something far more sisister.
    Think of it as a reset.
    Y'all are too committed to each other to let this get in the way of your relationship. I knew the title was not serious.
    Since the weather is so hot, think about content around inside special events and historical places in New Orleans, as well as restaurant reviews, as someone mentioned before in the comments.
    Sending prayers and well wishes,
    Stay Up,
    Janet

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +2

      Thanks Janet❤️ we really appreciate you

  • @vmw4444
    @vmw4444 4 месяца назад +8

    It hard for someone or an agency to have something that belongs to you and won't give it back when you ask for it back. However, if the estimated time is 4 months and it has been 2 months, as uncomfortable and unfair as it is you have to make peace with the 4 month deadline. You're leaking out your energy and it's not helping you get the van back. Sister meditate everyday, think it, see yourselves back in your van. Men are linear thinkers so he is going to think differently than you. I wish you all the best in getting your van back.

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Thanks for the support ❤️ and the kids words of encouragement 🙏🏽

  • @LovingAtlanta
    @LovingAtlanta 4 месяца назад +4

    👍🤩💝 I had to watch twice because I’m experiencing a life challenge too. I’m trying to figure out what to do & which way to go. It’s like being in a forest and not able to see the trees. I know it’s important to stay positive, to dream big….energy goes where the thoughts go, ignore reality, think about what you do want and not about what you don’t want. I’m hoping & praying you guys get 💝NOLA💝 back intact. 🙏 You guys designed it & built it. It’s for you guys. It’s yours. Mexico is literally working to return it to you.
    💝Merrily merrily merrily merrily....Life is but a Dream.💝

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      And I believe this to be true! Nola is coming back home to us! ❤️

  • @soniayoung7531
    @soniayoung7531 4 месяца назад +2

    Heyy Tenaj and Tino, praying you get NOLA back keep the faith ,don't give up ❤

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Thanks for the prayers 🙏🏽

  • @LovingAtlanta
    @LovingAtlanta 4 месяца назад +4

    👍🤩💝 Okay, it’s too hot there so outdoor activities are not the options we want. 😃😂 I love seeing you guys laughing. It’s your superpower that’s part of the success of your relationship & marriage.❤️
    💝Merrily merrily merrily merrily....Life is but a Dream.💝
    Wishing you guys greater RUclips success. 🙏💝

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Indoor is definitely better. lol 😂

  • @christinesigler1380
    @christinesigler1380 4 месяца назад +2

    MANIFESTING POSSITIVE VIBES TO GET NOLA BACK! I hope she comes back soon. Tenaj I adore your hair and your positive vibes. You guys are so cute. I just started watching when you guys had Nola taken. So I am a newbie

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Thank you so much!! 😊 positives vibes received Ty love ❤️

  • @goddess9990
    @goddess9990 4 месяца назад +2

    ANGEL NUMBER 11:11 Spiritual Awakening!! Normally it takes something catastrophic to shake you awake to who your souls really are which is a Higher Being Of Light here on earth having a human experience. I've always known who the both of you were all along on your journey. Y'all are highly protected by the Universe and a host of Angels.. Welcome to the Spiritual World.. ALL IS TRULY WELL!! 💫✨🙏🙌

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Thanks for the support and love 💕

  • @MsRotorwings
    @MsRotorwings 4 месяца назад

    Stay strong You’ll work through it and you are helping people by sharing your process.

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Thanks for the support 🤗 we really appreciate it ❤️

  • @christinegarcia369
    @christinegarcia369 4 месяца назад

    The reality is there is pain but dont be them be you grieve but fight your character is being built again even better.

  • @LovingAtlanta
    @LovingAtlanta 4 месяца назад +1

    👍🤩💝😂Y’all had me cracking up @6:58 it’s refreshing that you guys can laugh together. 😂
    ‼️FREE NOLA. I pray your van is returned intact.🙏

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Glad you enjoyed❤️🤗 we really enjoy each other still after all this time ❤️ #blessed

  • @alexaapoe
    @alexaapoe 4 месяца назад +7

    Some advice , if I may? You're in a place most people dream about going to! I still dream of New Orleans. Two of my favorite van lifers live in Vegas, and when they are home, they go out at night and hit all the restaurants to let people know what's the best, affordable restaurants to eat at! And God, you're so beautiful! How about some makeup tutorials and fitness tips. NOLA. AND there's nothing wrong with being a realist and believing in manifestation. Love you both ❤ 🙏

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Thanks for the advice 😀 always appreciated. We have thought of those. It’s just the timing of things of when to do those things amongst other things as well. Thanks for the encouraging words and support. We’re glad 🙂 you enjoyed this weeks video into our lives.

    • @MissyRoc318
      @MissyRoc318 4 месяца назад

      I am totally not trying to be a Debbie downer.. but are we positive the van isn’t looped up in some scam and is now stollen in Mexico? I’ve heard of crazy things happening there..
      Like how can they just keep it and not give it back? How is that legal? And what do they do with it then if they end up not giving it back? Like, what the hell.. 😳🤯
      So sorry yall are going through this… I truly pray and hope you get it back. ❤

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Thanks for the prayers and support, we don’t know what can happen. You could be right about the loop. We will have to wait 2 more months to see what happens next. 😔

    • @Michael-fr2sm
      @Michael-fr2sm 4 месяца назад

      Families have lost their physical homes 🏠 with children and STAY TOGETHER. I’m sorry for being so blunt, but you have traveled the world while most of the world are struggling to to put food on the table. Recognize how blessed you are ❤

    • @nomorebsforme
      @nomorebsforme 4 месяца назад

      Follow your intuition on what's next, if it's time to work for awhile either way you will have money if you get it back or not...I would write letters to the local chief of police and explain that the van is your home. Also to the higher up authorities over the ones who kept the van. Continue to try to get assistance and also contact the media in and around that area to bring attention to the situation. Stay strong be good to one another...❤❤❤

  • @wtm1
    @wtm1 4 месяца назад +1

    Be encouraged and stay strong, you are better together, disagreements and trials come, but stay positive, thank you for sharing and being transparent. I agree to believe in a positive outcome and speaking positively, but also having a plan B is wise. Here if you need to vent! 🙏🏻💪🏻

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      We appreciate that!! Thanks again

    • @minigirl6839
      @minigirl6839 4 месяца назад

      I feel very positive that you'll get your van back. In the beginning. I wasn't very hopeful, but I've changed my mind . You're gonna need some money to pay a " fine". They may want to charge you for Mexico insurance as well as Tip.Just be sure to take some bribe money with you.

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      We will…why the change of mind..just curious what happened?

  • @SisterSherryDoingStuff
    @SisterSherryDoingStuff 4 месяца назад +4

    I'm going to put my RED glasses LOL!!😂 I'm not willing to share my experiences where I've been gutted. With that said, when things go wrong - and wrong in a big way - I have to let go of my expectations, especially when the outcome I want or need is out of my control. As soon as I let go, the anxiety goes away. I was clear headed - and the heavy load flew off of my shoulders. Then and only then could I get back to enjoying my life. Nothing wrong with being positive - nothing wrong with being realistic. Maybe ask yourselves - "What's the worst that could happen, and will we let that hang over us forever?"

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +2

      Thanks for watching. You’re absolutely right. All we can do is let go of our expectations because it’s completely out of our control. Thanks again for the love we really appreciate it ❤️

    • @SisterSherryDoingStuff
      @SisterSherryDoingStuff 4 месяца назад

      @@TenajTino 🤎🤍🖤

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      ❤️💕❤️

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      ❤️💕❤️

  • @sherrig5256
    @sherrig5256 4 месяца назад

    Hang in there during this period! Look at it as a period of rest and reflection! Wishing you peace and a positive outcome! 🙏🏾 I enjoy your RUclips!

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Ty for following our story 🙏🏽❤️

  • @angiewylie1141
    @angiewylie1141 4 месяца назад

    Free Nola!! I am praying that you get your van back soon. I have enjoyed traveling with you on your adventures. I first met you when you traveled Mexico with Antoinette Yvonne and shared your van with us. I know it feels like it's being held hostage, but I'm confident everything will work out for you. Stay strong!

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Thanks for sticking around. Antoinette is one of our dearest friends. We absolutely love her ❤️

  • @blutru1328
    @blutru1328 4 месяца назад

    Thank God you have each other to hold onto and move forward in life ! Hard lessons learned in Mexico , thank God you can laugh and relieve your soul ! I am very sorry that it APPEARS that the guy/lawyer who told you to travel a different direction , may have done it purposely - knowing the consequences of leaving the safe zone area. STAY IN PRAYER Y'ALL AND ENJOY THE LIFE THAT YOU HAVE NOW !!!

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      So true! Thanks for the love. We really appreciate you ❤️

  • @Marty-ek1pw
    @Marty-ek1pw 4 месяца назад

    Wow. Your followers sharing their deep down experiences and feeling vulnerable are awesome people. They resonate with your deep down experience and your lucky you have them. Humans are priceless.❤

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      And we’re grateful for each and everyone ❤️

  • @ryellefrench7114
    @ryellefrench7114 4 месяца назад +1

    I can actually relate to you with angel numbers!!!! Because, I kept telling My husband something going to happen when I was going through it I was seeing so many angel numbers and many months later almost 10 months later we finally got the call we are moving to hawaii from a place we really hate. So, yes sis I agree keep believing!

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      They’re real! It’s the universe trying to talk to you. We just need to listen. Nothing is coincidental

  • @TALAfan11
    @TALAfan11 4 месяца назад

    Hoping for a good outcome with your van...💜💜💜💜

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Us too! Ty 🙏🏽

  • @miaochs7716
    @miaochs7716 4 месяца назад +10

    Sorry but life hard. Been working full time 40 years as a stressed RN. Life is about saving, investing and planning. My mom and dad grew up Great Depression and world war 2. Life is as great and well planned as you possible can but sorry no magic. Been married 40 years. We Plan, save, adjust but let go disappointments and don’t let ruin your futures. Just keep going

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +3

      Thanks for the encouraging words 🙏🏽

    • @kgreen8527
      @kgreen8527 4 месяца назад +1

      In other words get over it is what this person is telling you because her parents went through great depression and world war 2 on stolen land. Those same people created diseases and chaos and confusion which is why you run job is so stressful! Everyone lives differently. The earth was never suppose to be setup this way for people to work until they die! This is what you get when the wicked race bares rule!

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      🙏🏽Ty

  • @Randy-y2b
    @Randy-y2b 4 месяца назад

    IMO, I think one of the biggest leasons others can learn from yalls experience. Is to stay within the confines of this wonderful country that we live in. We are granted freedoms and have the ability to travel freely within the combine 48 states and there is pleanty of things for us to experience without leaving the country.

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Sure that would be great, but the cost of traveling in the US is expensive.

  • @jacquelineroachr5990
    @jacquelineroachr5990 4 месяца назад +1

    Hello to you both. I ran across your video 2 weeks ago, and I had to catch up b4 I could even understand what was going on. I felt so bad for you, and I'm praying that you will recover what was taken from you. When you get your van back, please please please, be very careful that NOTHING illegal has been placed in it b4 you start your journey back home. Question...
    Since you're still making payments on it, can't the leinholder demand it back? Just a question of concern. Anyway, I love you guys and I think you're a very beautiful couple.
    Sending prayers for NOLA's safe return. Miracles still happen, and one can happen for you in this endeavor😇

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +2

      Thanks for the support and commenting. The lien holder did not request it back once we told them. ❤️

  • @jeancapps
    @jeancapps 4 месяца назад +1

    Hi guys! I am sure you have probably considered the following suggestion...but thought I would send it your way, just in case .... Since you are experienced at house-sitting, why not continue house-sitting in the areas you can reach cost-effectively. For example, rent a van and travel to those places until you can reestablish your savings.
    Additionally, focus on thinking about other income streams, do you have any special talents or passions. What about your college degree Tenaj? Can you lean into that? Have you ever considered a real estate license? jean

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Hello 👋🏽 thanks for sharing 💕 your ideas. We have looked at local house sits and none are available at the moment, but we check daily. 🙏🏽

  • @nomorebsforme
    @nomorebsforme 4 месяца назад

    So sorry that you dont have the van back yet. It used to be great to travelmin Mexico, the nicest people ever. Last decade has changed the experience too much to warrant travelnthere until the government gets it together. It used to be like that in Colombia but they took care of business and its much safer there now. Stay strong together this is not your fault and you will get through this...prayers for the resolution soon...❤❤❤❤

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      I would say Colombia could be safer than Mexico at least government wise maybe. 🤔

  • @jenniferalleyne8943
    @jenniferalleyne8943 4 месяца назад

    I empathize with you both. But stay strong, God will work it out for you two. Blessings

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Thanks for the support. We appreciate you ❤️

  • @christinegarcia369
    @christinegarcia369 4 месяца назад

    just keep talking keep talking you guys are champ you lady keep believing start a prayer its not over till its over then you know you have done all you can

  • @hevinamber
    @hevinamber 4 месяца назад +1

    Purple is my favorite color and your hair and lipstick are bomb 💜! You all are such an amazingly beautiful couple!💞 No material possession shall EVER come between you. You are stronger together and praise God you have each other. That's the best possession you all have😊❤😊❤😊❤

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Thanks for the love 💜💜 Purple is one of my favorite colors as well (obviously😂) We really appreciate the support ❤️🤗❤️🤗

    • @hevinamber
      @hevinamber 4 месяца назад +1

      @@TenajTino always sis 😁❣️

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      🙏🏽

  • @gretahoving5743
    @gretahoving5743 4 месяца назад +3

    After 30 years, my husband of 30 years had a massive heart attack while on vacation and passed. Things can be replaced people can't, plans change. Rely on God and each other.

  • @savinggeorgie2100
    @savinggeorgie2100 4 месяца назад

    Hope u get ur van back! Maybe for content,you could go to different LOCAL restaurants, the hole in the wall places that may not be well known, but which have great food!

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Thanks for the support and the feedback we appreciate you ❤️

  • @juliebrinkley4064
    @juliebrinkley4064 4 месяца назад

    It’s horrible when someone takes something from you and something you worked so hard for and all the money, hard work and sweat. For something like this to happen. Anyone, will feel violated. I had similar situation happen to me, I felt like I had no one to turn to. I had to start all over again, but I got through it and so will you. Hopefully, with Nola Love you guy’s…God bless❤ 😊

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Thanks for the support and love 💕

  • @elgringoec
    @elgringoec 4 месяца назад +1

    There's a reason they included "for better or for worse".
    It's easy to be positive when things are going well.
    I get the numbers thing. It's like God showing us he's watching.

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      He’s always watching! Thanks for your feedback. We really appreciate you ❤️

  • @ryellefrench7114
    @ryellefrench7114 4 месяца назад +2

    Dont worry if your husband doesnt believe. ALL YOU NEED TO DO IS BELIEVE & it will work because yall are one!

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @jenniferalleyne8943
    @jenniferalleyne8943 4 месяца назад

    You are most welcome. Viewing from Trinidad and Tobago. Be Bless ❤🙌

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Trinidad is definitely on our list of places to visit ❤️

  • @AdelleRamcharan
    @AdelleRamcharan 4 месяца назад +2

    Ugh Mexico is like that. You just gotta wait sometimes 😓 I hope you all are just trolling with this title lol and stay strong. It’s so hard to meet decent people these days 😓

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Thanks for the love. We really appreciate it ❤️

  • @oscilleoscille
    @oscilleoscille 4 месяца назад +2

    We are still praying that y’all get NOLA back.

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Thanks Friend ❤❤❤

  • @dianam4708
    @dianam4708 4 месяца назад

    I'm still praying you get you van back! I would love to see you two do a cooking video, and a video about Tenaj's hairstyle. I've never seen that before. Is there a story behind why you're wearing that particular hairstyle?

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Great idea!! We would love to put together a cooking video ❤️

  • @GlamGadz
    @GlamGadz 4 месяца назад +1

    While I’m all for LOA and manifesting, the dangerous thing is that it teaches us that we are in control. Same as having all the alternate plans. Thing is, we are not in complete control and God/Universe, knows the plans for us. When we go with the flow, we can get the “message or lesson” sooner. I know the feeling as I just had my car repossessed when I moved to a new city (Houston) of all places where you need a car! I was so angry and bitter and bewildered! but I’ve accepted that maybe God was shielding me from something related to car and that I will soon have another. Funny thing is, I put it out to the God/Universe that I wanted to pay it off this year and in a weird way, it happened. lol. Im learning to go with the flow and be open and ask what God/Universe may want for you doing this time. It’s definitely a test of faith! Keep the faith that either way, all will work out. It’s hard as hell, but I try everyday. Some days are better than others and allow myself to grieve. At least you two have each other. ❤🙏🏽

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Thank you 😊 for sharing your thoughts, experience and prayers The car thing had to be an ordeal especially in Houston. ❤️

  • @LESHAUNWILL
    @LESHAUNWILL 4 месяца назад

    Hey y’all, I had sent you a text message before I even started watching the video, lol but I see that you did reach out to him and I hope he’s able to help you guys get some information if nothing else. And I watch your videos on my TV so I always have to jump onto my phone to leave a comment, but anyway, Nola

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Hey Fam♥️ just left you a text message. Thanks again for putting us in touch with him. As always we’re forever grateful for you 🤗

  • @ryellefrench7114
    @ryellefrench7114 4 месяца назад +1

    Righr now i dont have my car and im so so so so sad and miss it but how I am coping is pretty much knowing i will get a new vehicle by the end of the year or begining of the year

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Hoping you either get your car back or get your car replaced 🙌🏾❤️

  • @josephmitchell-u3r
    @josephmitchell-u3r 4 месяца назад +1

    Hang in there you have each other trust in the lord if its his will you will get your van back this will make you stronger you all love each other and is happy together.

  • @wtm1
    @wtm1 4 месяца назад

    Maybe it is a crazy suggestion, but how about a beach tour down the Southern coast from New Orleans to Florida, including lodging, crazy I know but your unique perspective and personalities might create good content.

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      That’s a great idea! Thanks for the suggestion and the support. We really appreciate you 💜

  • @rhondamastropoalo2237
    @rhondamastropoalo2237 4 месяца назад +1

    NOLA! For now we’d watch DIY’s cooking cleaning organizing and hacks of any kind food reviews or whatever you want to post until you get back to Nola . 🤗✌️

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Ok thanks! 💝NOLA💝 we will see what we can do

  • @jenniferalleyne8943
    @jenniferalleyne8943 4 месяца назад

    You are most welcome ❤

  • @backroadtraveler7911
    @backroadtraveler7911 4 месяца назад +2

    Hey, I just brought my Rv to Mexico 🇲🇽 for body repairs. In Oct 2023, he called me in Dec to pick it up. It was a hot mess. I told him it's not what he originally promised. So I told him he needed to keep his Word. And walked away. I put it back on him. Left it I. GOD'S HANDS. I've moved on my life. Now he's sent me new pictures with work he's doing. So let go let GOD . His time ... How did I move I went to Alaska for a job with housing and enjoying life and not allowing anyone's bad behavior control my Happiness

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Wow 😯 what’s a story thanks for sharing

  • @gfirstfitness8608
    @gfirstfitness8608 4 месяца назад +3

    Thank you for this video. I think this is definitely a time to pour into others, get into nature and make a temporary plan. This is a tough situation and it left a huge vacuum. Remain grateful as you have been and see what you can or who you can pour into. Y’all got this

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Thanks for the support! We really appreciate you ❤️

  • @ChitaChatter
    @ChitaChatter 4 месяца назад

    1) Contact your House or Senate Representative from your District. Tell them your story 2) Contact Mercedes Benz USA. Let them know you are RUclips Creators and you illegally lost your van in Mexico. You want another Mercedes Benz Van, but due to legal reasons its unaffordable. Ask them if they could sponsor you a van. If they do... it would help with Marketing for the company 3) Keep the faith! You are blessed! Greatness is coming to you. You must stay focus and continue with your channel "no matter what!"

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      We’ve contacted all our government officials, Mexico gov officials and even our local news..nothing has changed. We haven’t thought of MB USA though…we will look into that. Ty for the love and support. ❤️

  • @TheVelvetLoungeLife
    @TheVelvetLoungeLife 4 месяца назад

    NOLA🎉🎉🎉🎉
    IDEAS:
    - It's hot as hell in Nola right now so why not concentrate on indoor things that people can do. There are plenty. You can also review food favorites at restaurant
    - Right now create your plan b and C because plan A I apologize for saying this but you better be prepared for the fact that it may not work out at all.
    - Do you two have hobbies besides traveling or gaming?
    - Miss T Your hairstyles are off the hook doing some slice of life day in the life hair journey kind of stuff folks like that. You don't want to concentrate on it just you know what do you do.
    - Southwest had some incredible sales going on. Why not hit the friendly skies and go visit other countries as tourists?
    - Who cooks the food in the family between the two of you? Show us some of your favorite dishes?
    Lastly, and this is very important please stop apologizing. You have apologized enough. You are an incredibly cool ass couple. I hope behind the scenes you don't let this break you. The blame is on both of you - just to clarify that. Now that that's cleared up time to move on and move up.
    If you are ever in Connecticut please reach out to me. I am The uncontested and unanimous nominee for the Senate here and I would really enjoy meeting you. Seeing you two together makes me smile. My husband and I have been married over 30 years.

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Oh wow 🤩 thanks for sharing all your thoughts this was a lot and I don’t even know where to begin! Thanks for the ideas and we are working on other plans with caution of course. We were in Connecticut just last year, maybe we will pass thru again. We so glad you enjoyed our video and we brought you smiles. ❤️🙏🏽

  • @leesureleetrippin7079
    @leesureleetrippin7079 4 месяца назад

    🙏👍 you'll be fine.
    Lord hear your prayers!🙏

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Thanks for the support 💚

  • @bankston11
    @bankston11 4 месяца назад

    I think y'all are in the midst of your plan B. Plan B could be a growing period for your relationship where perhaps traveling was masking. I'm a subscriber who caught yall after the van. That's what made me click on the video. I keep coming back because I like y'all as a couple. I like your vulnerability as well. ❤ your energy It seems like you're both grieving the loss of your van differently. The van was your baby in a sense. It birthed a new chapter in your lives. Hubby is like me in that he's a realist. He protects his feelings and can be surprised otherwise. You're more hopeful. It helps reign each other in. You don't want to be so real that you don't see the beauty in hope and new opportunities and so hopeful that you wait too late to switch gears if needed. It's a good balance. Chanel that into helping to diversify your plan (I personally think you're getting the van OR a van back). You're in a planning period right now. The best is yet to come!

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Oh wow 🤩 thanks for the the different perspective and for the continued support and love for us and our channel. You hit some things on the nose 👃 Ty. Yes, it was a baby to us that we created together. Thanks for following our journey thru this rough time.

  • @Randy-y2b
    @Randy-y2b 4 месяца назад

    I understand that Mexico and other places in the world have beautiful things to experience and see too. However, to me, it's not worth the risks you have to take to experience it in person.

  • @juliebrinkley4064
    @juliebrinkley4064 4 месяца назад

    I was once told always remember how you met and fell in love with. If you haven’t already started, try taking each other out on dates again. If it’s just making or doing a favorite thing or a treat at home . To reflect on what you have. ❤I’ve never been to New Orleans.. ❤ If you could share whether on a websites or show in person some popular restaurants and museums there. Places you would recommend for middle aged and older people to do or go for entertainment in the winter & other months too. Maybe some free places that are inside. Thanks 😊

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Thanks for the kind words and support. We are looking into content like that ❤️

  • @fzl4165
    @fzl4165 4 месяца назад +1

    Nola will come back 🙏🙏🙏

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Thank you 😊 ❤️🤞🏽

  • @pattichambley2779
    @pattichambley2779 4 месяца назад +1

    I might move to Alexandria from Seattle Yay Hang in there

  • @ryellefrench7114
    @ryellefrench7114 4 месяца назад +1

    It's only been two months! You will get it back I belive you will get it !!!

  • @jayajaya788
    @jayajaya788 4 месяца назад

    The question is..how much are you willing to spend to get your van back? Everything is for a reason...I believe that you shouldn't give up!! That's what they're hoping that you do but at the same time don't stress yourself over something that may not ever be...Short story...one day I had a court case and the public defender that was supposed to be defending me told me that I wasn't going to win the case... he also said that nobody had ever won a case like mine...I was not too fond of the negative thoughts he was putting out to the Universe but I told him ...WELL I'M GOING TO BE THE FIRST ONE TO WIN...I'M GOING TO WIN MY CASE and he said that I wasn't and I told him to watch and see!!! WHEN YOU FEEL IT AND KNOW IT IN YOUR HEART...YOU WILL WIN!!! Guess what? I WON MY CASE!!! I was the first person to ever win that case!!! keep fighting but don't let it break you!!! You have to have a Lawyer that believes in you...I wish you luck!!!

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Thanks for sharing your experience and wonderful story ❤️

  • @dorichaandvencevlogs1048
    @dorichaandvencevlogs1048 4 месяца назад +6

    In the meantime, do restaurant reviews

  • @Ladyynonchalant
    @Ladyynonchalant 4 месяца назад

    Don’t be discouraged, set your mind on what you can control, not on what you can leave up to God, and lawyers, 🙏 living in the past is keeping us from future 🙏

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Thanks for the encouraging words. We really appreciate you 💜

  • @LovingAtlanta
    @LovingAtlanta 4 месяца назад +1

    👍🤩💝💡Hi Friends & Fellow Viewers, we can help the channel by watching all of the hundreds of videos T&T have posted while we wait for them to get NOLA back. 🙏💝

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      You're the best! Absolutely the best ❤️

  • @LovingAtlanta
    @LovingAtlanta 4 месяца назад +1

    👍🤩💝💡Of course I have some ideas & suggestions. 😂 BUT I have some calls to make about these ideas I have before I can share them with you. I’ll email you guys in the next couple of days.🤩💝
    🙏Everything is happening for you, not to you. Chin up.🙏
    💝Merrily merrily merrily merrily....Life is but a Dream.💝
    🥂🎉Cheers - On the road to 20K 🎉
    Wishing you guys greater RUclips success. 🙏💝

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Thanks again! We really appreciate you 🙏🏽❤️🤗

  • @ryellefrench7114
    @ryellefrench7114 4 месяца назад

    I think maybe you should do more sitdown food Videos ! #FREENOLA

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      💝NOLA💝 we will do more of the talking kind definitely 💯

  • @christinegarcia369
    @christinegarcia369 4 месяца назад

    get dressed up get your credit card ready and go to the embassy ask advice go to a rich resturant owner get advice look for someone in power you had a merceides oh no theres someone who can help but its gonna cost let that be part of your journey just keep your head your heart strong ...gonna have to believe and come up against beliefs in mexico im believing with you woman these men need our backbone go go .Forgive my grammatical errors

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Thanks for the words of encouragement 🙏🏽❤️

  • @apostlepdwestbrook
    @apostlepdwestbrook 4 месяца назад

    This is so tragic!! Your van was “taken.” Can you report the property stolen since it was confiscated unlawfully, and allow your insurance company and it attorneys deal with this?

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      We tried…no attorney in the US wants our case once we explain Mexico

  • @cathybarela4304
    @cathybarela4304 4 месяца назад

    My advice to both of you is to have patience and trust in God, the world has ways of telling us to stop and listen. This is just a lesson in life, don't change your attitude, just trust. I think you have good instincts.

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts and prayers 🙏🏽❤️

  • @Randy-y2b
    @Randy-y2b 4 месяца назад +1

    Y'all are depressed and sad over a van. Which is a materlistic thing that will eventually break down and could leave you in a position of having to replace it because the repairs could be beyond your means to repair.

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      It’s not just a van…it’s our home and it something we built by hand ourselves. Have you seen how we guilt our van home? If plz do and you will understand why we feel the way we do.

  • @Randy-y2b
    @Randy-y2b 4 месяца назад

    You got an entire 48 states you can travel with minimum legal issues. Plenty of rest areas and truck stops yall can sleep at night without being harass by law enforcement. (Huge money saver)
    If you need a motel, Motel 6 has you cover. They will keep the lights on for you and your dog is able to stay for free.

  • @denisechilds2391
    @denisechilds2391 4 месяца назад

    Be Resilient, dont give up, or give out. Its time to rearrange, and keep moving.
    One foot in front of the other, I'll be down in Nola in September, Hope to meet you❤😊❤, Stay Strong and wirh each other ❤😊❤
    Let Patience have her perfect work. Pray and wait😊, keep the faith regardless of the outcome, when God closes 1 door, he will surely open up another. 1 monkey don't stop no show. Love your content 😊😊😊
    #NOLA

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Thanks for commenting, we will be in Europe in September 😞 hopefully we can meet one day. Thanks for the support❤️

    • @denisechilds2391
      @denisechilds2391 4 месяца назад

      No worries Nola is not going anywhere 😂😂😂❤❤❤😊😊😊😊, Enjoy Europe

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Ty 🙏🏽❤️👍🏽

  • @deniselamb9922
    @deniselamb9922 4 месяца назад

    Bring Nola home ❤

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️

  • @Teenie-mg8xn
    @Teenie-mg8xn 4 месяца назад

    How do you let a van being taken effect your marriage?? Plz make ot make sense to me!

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Our life and decisions won’t always make sense to others and that’s ok. As long as we’re able to get through it is all that really matters at the end of the day ❤️

  • @judyrobinson1080
    @judyrobinson1080 4 месяца назад

    Can your auto insurer do anything about van?

  • @barbstotter7288
    @barbstotter7288 4 месяца назад

    Totally normal for you to feel in limbo.

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Thank you 😊 we really appreciate your support

  • @aliviasattva371
    @aliviasattva371 4 месяца назад +1

    Did they say why? Ive never heard of this for no reason before.

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +2

      Say why about what Hun?

    • @aliviasattva371
      @aliviasattva371 4 месяца назад +1

      @@TenajTino why they took your van.

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Paperwork

    • @aliviasattva371
      @aliviasattva371 4 месяца назад

      @@TenajTino Best of blessings with getting it back this week!🙏🏼💫

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Ty

  • @TempChill
    @TempChill 4 месяца назад

    Mama you gotta ease up on the hubby. ❤ Men have the burden of figuring things out and often can carry the thought of what if? So let his masculine energy do it's thing and have grace on him. You are in a positive place great but that's your job as a woman. His is to provide... and of that van is gone forever, he is going to have to figure out the replacement. Don't blame his realistic thinking for not being able to get the van back lol❤ Meet him where he is.. he is at least trying to get where you are. 😊

    • @TempChill
      @TempChill 4 месяца назад

      Calling hubby super negative is a string to see too... OUCH! Prayers for you both ❤

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Thanks for the feedback! I really appreciate it. However that’s not how things work here. No one person has to provide. We don’t function like your normal relationship. It’s okay for me to feel as if his energy is lacking like it’s ok for him to feel that I’m overly positive. There is no gender roles where the man is responsible for this and the woman is responsible for that. We are both responsible for our feelings and it’s ok to express them❤️.

  • @fernwehchronicle
    @fernwehchronicle 4 месяца назад +1

    I see so many Boondockers go and spend time in Mexico. Really, what is to stop the Policia from making me up a reason and taking someone’s van? In retrospect, do you think that it’s best not to take the chance and travel through Mexico? Even if you have all your papers and order?

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +2

      Tbh..yes that can really happen. Even if you do have the correct paperwork they can just do what they want. It’s their word against yours and they are the government’s

    • @fernwehchronicle
      @fernwehchronicle 4 месяца назад

      @@TenajTino - I agree with you. I see so many, in my opinion, arrogant, posters, write that it’s absolutely safe as long as you have your ducks in order. Don’t be paranoid. Just go. However, as much as I would love to go, I don’t. I myself, many of my and friends and family that have grown up on the border and spent their childhood going over there, don’t don’t cross in our vehicles anymore. Rarely cross on foot.

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      We continue to hear that a lot here in the comments.

  • @earthmother7852
    @earthmother7852 4 месяца назад

    ❤Nola!❤

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      ❤️🤗❤️❤️🤗

  • @sahotamarie71
    @sahotamarie71 4 месяца назад +1

    You will get the van back as you didnt do anything wrong

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Thanks you for your support ❤️ we really appreciate you

    • @sahotamarie71
      @sahotamarie71 4 месяца назад

      @@TenajTino I'll curse them if they dont, I'm a white witch

    • @sahotamarie71
      @sahotamarie71 4 месяца назад

      @@TenajTino ❤

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      👍🏽

  • @dorrishaynes8349
    @dorrishaynes8349 4 месяца назад +1

  • @dorrishaynes8349
    @dorrishaynes8349 4 месяца назад +1

    Continue to be positive but if you can get another van and prepare it for traveling. When you get you other van back sell one . Just found you but I still want to say NOLA. Keep the faith.

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      Ty for finding us and following our journey 💝NOLA💝

  • @JayWin70
    @JayWin70 4 месяца назад +1

    💝NOLA💝

  • @ryellefrench7114
    @ryellefrench7114 4 месяца назад

    Have yall ever thought of movinf internationally?? Its cheaper and you can jusf explore or backpack ....

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      We’ve lived is Asia, Mexico, Costa Rica etc. definitely wouldn’t mind returning to any of those places

  • @miaochs7716
    @miaochs7716 4 месяца назад +2

    How do you make your money. Do you have jobs only posting you tube and blogs or do you have stationary jobs working for employers. How does one live a life of traveling without a trust fund. Or a successful you tube channel. Future travelers would like to know

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад +1

      This is a lot of good personal topics. We will see what we can do. Ty so much. ❤️

  • @chiliman321lb
    @chiliman321lb 4 месяца назад +1

    FREE NOLA!!!!

  • @cynthiacarr2093
    @cynthiacarr2093 4 месяца назад

    ❤❤❤ #.NOLA

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      🤗💝🤗❤️🤗

  • @Randy-y2b
    @Randy-y2b 4 месяца назад +1

    Bottom line get over it and move on. If you eventually get yalls van back. Great. However, dont waste precious time dwelling or being sad about it. S**T happens in life and you just have to deal with it. Use your time wisely, because we all have limited time on this earth.

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts ❤️

  • @Randy-y2b
    @Randy-y2b 4 месяца назад +1

    With all due respect, yall need to get over it and move on. Yes, they told yall 4 months. Reality, that is just an estimate, and it could be much longer. That 4 months could turn into a year or even possibly never.

  • @michiezfair477
    @michiezfair477 4 месяца назад

    NOLA❤

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      ❤️🤗❤️🤗❤️🤗

  • @christinegarcia369
    @christinegarcia369 4 месяца назад

    Hubby knows how Mexican culture is he came out of that belief and now hes gonna find his true belief you found yours help him in his journey its all gonna be good talk to GOD he helps all but we have to ask him not the universe him he made the universe and he will put it in a higher universe soon.......

  • @shalitatorres1958
    @shalitatorres1958 4 месяца назад

    Hello there from Cali 🐕🐩🐕🐩🐕 All is well in Christ Jesus our Lord and savior amen amen and amen

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Amen 🙏🏽. Thank you

  • @peacepharvin7799
    @peacepharvin7799 4 месяца назад

    Free NOLA !

  • @Tealilly1777
    @Tealilly1777 4 месяца назад

    Challenges come to build character and faith. This was a weapon formed against you. However, no weapon formed against you shall prosper. Trust in Yah. Don’t allow the enemy to bring you down. Who is the center of your heart, Yah or the van. Do not let this pull you two apart. Tribulation works patience patience hope and hope makes you unashamed. Pray is important, faith is important. Hold on to one another when you walking in the dark, light will come at the end of the challenge. Bottom line talk to Yahawah in faith, he’s waiting. Realistic is being moved by what you see, you have to believe all things are possible for those who believe.

    • @TenajTino
      @TenajTino  4 месяца назад

      Ty for the prayers and support we appreciate that a lot 💝❤️

  • @marliseisrael3017
    @marliseisrael3017 4 месяца назад

    Isaiah KJV 55:6-10