What I find interesting is that, all over the internet, I only see women talking about getting married and some seemingly so desperate. Conversely, I don't see men doing the same thing. There's nothing wrong with desiring marriage but, many women have made getting married an idol. Yet, the divorce rate among "Christians" is as high as non-Christians. So, getting married isn't fixing the fix that's so desperately needed.
My husband found me on Christian Mingle. We talked on the phone one time about what we believe, church, worship. All our foundation beliefs, what we stand on, etc. After that 3 hour phone call, He took me to get breakfast, to a museum, and to dinner. My husband knew on the 1st date he wanted to marry me. It took me a little longer. We got married in the pastors office 3 months later (after premarital counseling of course). Then because my father wanted to walk me down the isle. We had a wedding 5 month later. All this happen in 2017. God is so good.
I love this! What bothers me though, is when women get shamed for being on online dating websites. I keep getting the same message from the Lord that everyone's journey or dating season will look different. Holy Spirit is in the business of helping us. We just need to trust God during the process.
I met my husband serving in a homeless ministry, we served together 9 months before we went on a date & even then we really didn't call it a date. But 6 months later we were engaged & married 3 months after that. May 2 will be 5 yrs, God is good!!
And women we must stop saying, how are we going to find a husband? God did not intend us to find him. That man will find us when the time us right. In the meantime you focus on the purpose and will that God have for you. Focus on seeking therapy/counseling. So that you can heal. Start a new career, travel if you are able to, read books, learn how to play an instrument, start a new career, and so on and so forth. There is a time and season for everything.
@ladennayoung Thank you so much for saying this. I agree 100% Ppl keep saying my husband isnt going to fall from the sky, i need to work to get him. Im not a very forward person, i believe in a man taking that role. The Lord works in mysterious ways. I know He can make the impossible possible!!! I just keep working on myself and keep believing and keep building a stronger relationship with the Lord.
Stay in prayer while being content & single & patiently wait on GOD for him. Women ARE NOT to look for a man. Prov 18:22, when a man finds a wife etc. We as believers know this. GOD knows when you're ready & HIS timing is Best. GOD BLESS
God is the same yesterday, today, and forever more. Amen. If God was able to bring two people together before television, telephones, dating sites, the internet, and so on and so forth. He can still unite/connect us to one that He have for us in His time. We have to work on being patient and presentable. When I say presentable, I'm not just saying in our physical appearance. We must let God continue to work on our soul and spirit in Jesus name. Amen.
I am christian but this talk is rubbing me the wrong way. It’s not that simple and it’s not the same “recipe” for everyone. Some do all the “right” things and it just doesn’t happen. You should have included someone like Lisa Harper to give your talk more variety and depth.
Not if it’s a desire God put in their heart! Another lie pastors tell women who want to get married “maybe you meant to be single” that’s only if you want to be single..To keep us submissive to them by being at church 24/7 and serving their needs for their church (Cant do that if you have a covering by a spouse and submissive to him, trick of the enemy) I Allowed that foolish paradigm make me stay single for decades..I Removed those paradigms and God sent me my Boaz at 45 years young..it’s all about what a man think in his heart but if others are brainwashing them with “maybe you meant to be single” that is what will manifest Its about speaking and wholeheartedly believing with unwavering faith is the key..I do this with every part of my life I do not allow another mans words tell me what my destination will be Please stop telling women who desire to get married this phrase..Paul only said this because he WANTED to be single..Marriage is honorable and that’s the holy word
I totally agree let’s be realistic check the stats... how many men are in church? How many men are ready, what about their own desires etc. She has boundaries and that worked for her but there are sooo many that cannot testify to this? Let’s be honest this needs to be an honest talk
When it comes to God only look up and surrender, don't look at what happened to other people .. refuse the double minded mindset. Are u Lisa Harper? NO! YOUR JOURNEY WON'T BE THE SAME. erase the word BUT when u put your trust in God, we ask God to do things for us that we know that we cannot do them our selves.
I think this is just so good! I always tell ladies: focus on the calling on your life so God can develop you not just for His mission in your life but also so you can be equipped to assist your partner. When its time the right man will find you: the how is not up to you God will do it. Also love how Heather described submission-getting under the right man's mission-love it!
Long story short my cousin suggested to try POF, (I don’t do online dating but gave it try), only gave 24hours on app. Last 30mins. A gentleMAN challenged me (vice versa) ... 1year later. Joyfully married! Ps. Born and raised Pastors daughter in loving Christian (born again) home. God is so good!
Thank You Jesus!! I was meant to watch this. I have been with online dating for a few years .Recently God has told me that I am not to make my search an idol but to leave it in His hands. I have made myself out there and truly believe if God has my husband online, God will send him my way. Thank you ladies for confirming and words of encouragement.
I’m 61! And have asked GOD forever for my Boaz. At some point frustration sets in. Faith is knowing that has provided. A posture of waiting and staying busy in GOD will keep me steady until GOD sends my mate to me.
I've been praying for a wife since I was 15 years old. I've read many Christian books about relationship and was always involved in church. Now I am 57, still single and with no friends. Because my family was not Christian, I always prayed for a woman that had a good Christian family that could embrace me. I've met a few Christian women in my life, but I never had a good connection with them. I went to church so many times hoping that that day I would meet someone. It has been 42 years of a constant search, prayer, and even fasting. I even made a vision board with a photoshop of me getting married and I bought a ring that I wear when I am praying as a sign of faith. I really don't know what else I can do.
The most perverted man I ever met online on Christian mingle. He was a so called Christians motivational speaker, singer writer and singer with a popular worship song on RUclips. I won't name names but, I will say he sent me a video without any printing from me, of something highly inappropriate. I was shocked and never spoke to him again. While a teenager my pastor slipped his hand in my shirt. Some of the worst men are in church , I wish it weren't true but it's been my expireriance . I have sworn off men for the past 11 yrs bc of my daughter, I just can't trust it and chance her childhood. Men don't realize the damage they do to us with these actions it's hard not to be resentful
yaya mama I don’t understand. Sworn off men, yet you have a daughter with a man I assume or is she adopted? I’m so sorry about the experience with certain men in church. But not everyone are born again or renewed, they just do church attendance and church work. Let God’s love & grace melt your heart as he guides you to trust again.
ShayBear Peter my daughter is from a previous marriage. I swore to remain shingle at least until she is grown then perhaps marry for companionship in my older yrs. Thanks for the kind words.
@@lifeonwheels5756 Wow Sis, that's really, really unfortunate. I pray this experience hasn't caused you to cast doubt on all men, and on behalf on all those men, I apologize for the terrible experience you had. I pray that you continue to work on yourself and develop yourself as a mother and woman so that the presence of God will radiate from you. 👍😊👏
God is able to restore.So sorry you had these experiences.I pray God heals and recovers your heart,mind and soul.I pray you never encounter men like that again,christan or otherwise in Jesus' name
God knows who you need in your life and the make sure the person is from God he knows what you need. He will give you the desires of your heart ❤💖🙌🏾🙌🏾 . Yes Amen 🙌🏾🙌🏾.
Wow this was a incredible word on this topic because I agree the frist young lady that spoke about if you be about God business he definitely will bring the right on in your path You can't seem desperate and lonely because that's when the devil send you what flesh wants. then their be major consequences behind that. Don't let devil put crazy thoughts in your mind making you feel God don't love you because you're single. God knows exactly right time in our life to send that suitable mate to us no matter how old you are because age have nothing to do with it need learn be content in your singleness knowing how love yourself asking God make you healthy and heal and at the right moment in your life that's exactly when it will happen because God is the best Matchmaker
I use to be on online dating site for years it seem. Met a total of three men. I had to be honest with myself cause I was so suspicious of people online. Had to build my courage up each time before meeting the three I did meet. One is still in my life...we're just friends and I feel like there's a connection deeper than the eye see. We live in different states so nothing ever came of it. He's in military and was stationed in my town, that's when I met him. So yeah no more online dating for me.
@Dye Dye I know exactly what you mean. The ones I did meet...two didn't want a relationship and one wanted to marry me right off. But I wasn't on the same page as him. As in I want love, but I'm not jumping into marriage with any man. I hope for both of us that someone who our souls love will be in our lives. I'm remaining hopeful, but it do get hard at times.
@Dye Dye oh I don't mind you asking🙂. I was on plentyoffish. I did notice on there that men lie about their age and about what they're looking for. There were also some nice guys to chat with on there. But it ended there with me cause once again we just didn't want the same things. I also signed up for eharmony or either match (free version). I couldn't bring myself to pay for membership cause I was too scared to meet anyone anyway. So that's when I realized online wasn't for me.
🙏“Dear Heavenly Father, I know that I have broken your laws and my sins have separated me from you. I am truly sorry, and now I want to turn away from my past sinful life toward you. Please forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that your son, Jesus Christ died for my sins, was resurrected from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to become the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please send your Holy Spirit to help me obey You, and to do Your will for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen
Welcome home! Congratulations for receiving Jesus Christ. Everything that is in God and Jesus and all God says he has given us pertaining to life and goodliness is all yours in Jesus' matchless name! I am proud of you! God bless you indeed!
Nicole C Mullen is looking so beautiful there. We thank God for you lady, don't feel bad Nicole you might have had two failed marriages but you are still clothed with one awesome never failing God.
Eye on Jesus. Walk in his purpose for your life. Hell find you. When its time. Michael Todds relationship goals series was a big part in me realising what God means for us during all seasons of our life. Intentionally being single, not looking , and focusing on God and seeking him is enough in my opinion. I dont even pray about it much unless im already praying about stuff and the Holy Spirit leads me there. And even then I find myself praying for my future husband, but mostly his ministry and our friendship. Everyone has a different how we met. The best how we met for you is God's timing. "When it is time, I the Lord will make it happen. "
LOVE LOVE LOVE!!!! Sis said she had a gecko eye!! LOL LOVE Heather's point of submission- if he has a mission you can't submit to, or isn't aware of his mission- he probably isn't it! God is so awesome! I agree with the other lady; I'm waiting on God, he's pruning me- but I'm ready to Sparkle!!!!
We exercise our dominion. That power will cause a salvation work system, it will cause things to inspire, hold and reoccur in our lives for the purpose of our salvation
I love travelling and seeing all the different cultures and how some cultures are still focused on core family values. There is a channel Filipina Destiny that interviews ladies from the Philippines that are looking to meet friends that could develop into long term relationships. Neat concepts, I'm wondering how it will do.
What is the name of the woman from Ney York?!😍 Her testimony is really what I believe for myself!! I don't need to try waking up every Jimmy and John 👏😭👏😭
Have an AWESOME WEEK NO WEAPON FORMED AGAINST YOU WILL PROSPER this will be a WEEK of REVELATIONS and CLARITY for that which is your VISION and PURPOSE that using the TOOLS and RESOURCES to REFLECT on life to continue to live in TRUTH and REALITY that will bring forth PEACE during this time of VULNERABILITY is going to be EMOTIONAL but if/when you ENDURE through the LABOR PAINS from SPIRITUAL GROWTH can seem unbearable as the INVISIBLE barrier of EMOTIONS is a REALITY of HURT and PAIN THAT IS SOMETHING WE MUST AND SHALL ENDURE THOUGHT OUT LIFE IS HURT AND PAIN ALONG WITH JOY AND PAIN THAT TOGETHER IS LOVE WHICH CONNECTS EACH PERSON continue to press forward with that same FAITH that has been there from the beginning of the start of YOUR life over the years FAITH looks different nonetheless it is still FAITH. I PRAY THAT YOU HAVE PEACE AND CLARITY FOR YOU AS IF YOU DON'T HAVE PEACE AND CLARITY FOR SELF IT WILL FOREVER KEEP YOU IN SOME TYPE OF BONDAGE TO SOMETHING THAT THE CHAIN WAS BROKE DAY YOU WERE BORN IN JESUS NAME I PRAY. AMEN
beloved God bless you,I don't know you in person but God know you well, children are suffering from (Leukemian). Lord minister to me in a revelation when I was praying concerning things about you, I saw blessing concerning you but the wicked spirit monitoring you and with motive to destroy your destiny are fighting you, But as I speak to you now her time is up,the motherless babies orphanage home needs your financial help to tackle the problem of leukemia for the children Suffering from it lord reveal to me and instruct you to sow a seed to motherless babies who is suffering from (Leukemia)(saviour motherless foundation) located in Nigeria before 2days with faith, as I join you in prayer My heavenly father will bless you as you sow a seed to these orphanages children today, you will testify to the glory of God after you have done it if only you believe in him, Proverb (3: 27,21: 26: 22: 9 ), Deu 28: 1 '5 Contact the MD of the orphanage Foundation on WhatsApp No +2348137411949 Or Email: (saviourfoundation96@gmail.com) send your donation to them God bless you.,,..,,,..,,..,...
Yes and no-A missionary called to serve in Mozambique and a Christian NBA basketball player based in CA has the same general mission but would have a lot of difficulty fulfilling their unique calls in a marriage union. It’s essential to make sure both purposes are aligned & that their mission-fields are at least compatible.
True everyone is called to spread the gospel but we all have different purposes, visions, gifts, and callings. We are the body of christ and they are different things we do (1 corn 12:12-31). Some people are called to specific areas of influence, there are 7 mountains of influence (family, education, religion, media, entertainment, government, and business). Whoever you marry you both should be working under the same mission God has for your life. For me I am called to be a counselor and preacher (youth pastor or pastors wife). I know the guy I'm suppose to marry has a calling on his life to preach and be a pastor. I wouldn't be with someone who is called to be in government. This would be contradictory to what God wants me to do. A guy whose called to government might find a wife that is passionate about it. Moreover, I'm not saying you and your husband will do the same thing, they could be similar yet different areas but God is still bringing you together to impact the world in a certain way. Yes we are all called to spread the gospel wherever we go but we all have different callings on our lives in different areas. That's why it's good to seek God and get clarity to know your purpose so when you met your husband I'll know cause your purposes align. But also asking God if this is the one you're suppose to marry because the devil will send counterfeits. A good book about purpose is "The principality and power of vision" by Myles Munroe. I also love the book and sermon series "Relationship goals" by Michael Todd. If your looking for more advice on singleness and relationships I love listening to Allison Rowe and The Greens. Another good book is "Waiting and Dating" by Myles Munroe.
beloved God bless you,I don't know you in person but God know you well, children are suffering from (Leukemian). Lord minister to me in a revelation when I was praying concerning things about you, I saw blessing concerning you but the wicked spirit monitoring you and with motive to destroy your destiny are fighting you, But as I speak to you now her time is up,the motherless babies orphanage home needs your financial help to tackle the problem of leukemia for the children Suffering from it lord reveal to me and instruct you to sow a seed to motherless babies who is suffering from (Leukemia)(saviour motherless foundation) located in Nigeria before 2days with faith, as I join you in prayer My heavenly father will bless you as you sow a seed to these orphanages children today, you will testify to the glory of God after you have done it if only you believe in him, Proverb (3: 27,21: 26: 22: 9 ), Deu 28: 1 '5 Contact the MD of the orphanage Foundation on WhatsApp No +2348137411949 Or Email: (saviourfoundation96@gmail.com) send your donation to them God bless you.,,..,,,..,,..,...
I have a best friend. We do everything couples do. He doesn’t talk to other females. We’re far from perfect, but we know God. We know what God doesn’t like and what he expects from us. Every time we’re together it’s like he’ll say something about a business plan and I’m like hmmm I had that thought two weeks ago. It’s so confusing. Idk what we are or if we’ll ever be. I do know whoever his future wife is, he will be an amazing husband. He shows me he likes me and cares alot about me. He never really says much though. He literally breaks his neck for me. But it confuses me because he doesn’t say hey I like you.
1)First have your own tv show 2) be very attractive 3) run in the upper crust of your ministry and make a lot of money 4) and if you don't have any real good advice give the pat answer, PRAY MORE
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First of all, we know the Bible clearly states that He that findeth a wife. Therefore, single ladies do not search. Men are the hunters by nature. You don't have to go looking. You just have to make sure that you are ready to be found! So many of us want the wedding. However, are you ready for the marriage. The wedding is just a one day maybe two (depending upon culture) event. After the wedding, comes work. You have to work at sustaining the marriage. You have to pray, you have to fast (in agreement with spouse), you have to sacrifice your needs/wants for his. You have to be willing to support God's plan/vision for your lives. You are going to have to submit even though you don't see things his way. You are going to have to put in the work. Too many people have a misconception (I did too) of what a Godly marriage is and looks like. When I did the research around 20s, I was like "Oh no, I am so not ready for all that". It is not all glitz and glamor. Your body is no longer your own. So it's not like " oh, I am tired or have a headache excuse" every night or every other night or day whatever. That is not going to work. The children come, then you have to factor all that in. God, hubby, children, church, job (maybe), cleaning the home, cooking, etc. All that is work. And you can not bombard him as soon as he steps in the door. I don't know why some of you all do that. Just like you need some me time, he does too especially after he has gotten off work. You don't know what he had to deal with on the job. Think of it as decompressing time. Some men needs half hour or hour. Let him have his man time to switch it off. Then when he is ready, you all can eat and talk about the events of the day. Some of us do too much because you don't know. That's why teaching is so important. You have to know how to run your household. And please stop trying to run your household like your best friend. Her husband is NOT your husband. Each man is different, has different needs, etc. Don't have people in your business. Don't have your girlfriend at your house with your husband when you are not there. If you have to run to the store, she is going with you or you stay yourself at home and go another day. Know where your husband is especially when female company is around. If she us taking too long in the bathroom, go check on her and see if she is alright. It's not that you don't trust him or her, you don't want anyone to be lead (led) into temptation. Don't even give the devil a slither of a chance to think he can weasel in. You're on the same team, so don't hoard the ball. You cover so he can take the shot. If he can't and you are open, then he'll pass the ball to you. Usually God gives the man the vision, we are to figure or help figure out how to make it work. We are to support. Now, I am not saying that we don't have dreams and things but everything has its place and time. And if your husband tells you something in private time, Do Not Go BLABBING Your Mouth to your girlfriends. Some of you all talk way too much about the wrong thing. Your girlfriends have no business knowing anything about your husband business that he has shared with you. If he wanted her to know, I am pretty sure he would have called her himself and told her what he has told you. I don't know why I am writing all this stuff. I am not teaching a class. Sorry... I guess I just had to let it out. Feel free not to read! Sorry for the overkill! Just a few pet peeves that may save a marriage or help at least. I'm just saying..... Love ya!! Take a marriage counseling class before you all go getting married. Talk to the couples that has been married for 30, 40, 50 years. Your girlfriends are having their own problems and neither do they need to know your business. That's it... let me shut up! Sorry... 🥰 love ya!!
The Gospel of salvation:💜💕💜💖💞💜💕For what I received I passed on to you as of [first importance]: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures, and that he appeared to Peter, and then to the Twelve. After that, he appeared to more than five hundred of the brothers and sisters at the same time,
@@s.w2934 my sister it is getting ridiculous! I cannot get my head around this.Once you say something ofcourse they will call us haters.Seek God people not Heather. Wow this is beyond me the idolatry!
Jesus someone is talking about god!!! Bless our land of America...mm married men or weman"relationship is ment to be all inclusive why else would we use gods name.
Ladies please be single don’t rush . Also just because someone goes to church doesn’t mean that they are your boaz .
True statement!👍👏
This!!
Exactly
What I find interesting is that, all over the internet, I only see women talking about getting married and some seemingly so desperate. Conversely, I don't see men doing the same thing. There's nothing wrong with desiring marriage but, many women have made getting married an idol. Yet, the divorce rate among "Christians" is as high as non-Christians. So, getting married isn't fixing the fix that's so desperately needed.
@@cherylriley8 true
You pray and believe God for a mate . But you make sure you’re ready for your mate be patience God knows who’s right for you
Yes
I want to hear all of their processes. And I want to hear the second lady talk more without being interrupted.
Exactly Sis!!
Thanks for this
Pray to be the right one
My husband found me on Christian Mingle. We talked on the phone one time about what we believe, church, worship. All our foundation beliefs, what we stand on, etc. After that 3 hour phone call, He took me to get breakfast, to a museum, and to dinner. My husband knew on the 1st date he wanted to marry me. It took me a little longer. We got married in the pastors office 3 months later (after premarital counseling of course). Then because my father wanted to walk me down the isle. We had a wedding 5 month later. All this happen in 2017. God is so good.
Beautiful!!!
You made yourself available. Sort of like Ruth...
I love your story
I love this! What bothers me though, is when women get shamed for being on online dating websites. I keep getting the same message from the Lord that everyone's journey or dating season will look different. Holy Spirit is in the business of helping us. We just need to trust God during the process.
Is he a genuinely godly man?
“Are you really lead by the Lord or are you trying to fill the void?”
Was looking for this comment!!
I met my husband serving in a homeless ministry, we served together 9 months before we went on a date & even then we really didn't call it a date. But 6 months later we were engaged & married 3 months after that. May 2 will be 5 yrs, God is good!!
That is a beautiful story! Thank you for sharing how God brought you and your husband together. 💜
Amen
Every story is different..I’m still believing God! #LordImWaiting
Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there if you haven’t.
Are some of you women so desperate to find a husband , so you can have sex?
I've said the same thing to other women!
And women we must stop saying, how are we going to find a husband? God did not intend us to find him. That man will find us when the time us right. In the meantime you focus on the purpose and will that God have for you. Focus on seeking therapy/counseling. So that you can heal. Start a new career, travel if you are able to, read books, learn how to play an instrument, start a new career, and so on and so forth. There is a time and season for everything.
Totally agree!💪😇
👍👍 I agree sister..
Amen!
@ladennayoung Thank you so much for saying this. I agree 100% Ppl keep saying my husband isnt going to fall from the sky, i need to work to get him. Im not a very forward person, i believe in a man taking that role. The Lord works in mysterious ways. I know He can make the impossible possible!!! I just keep working on myself and keep believing and keep building a stronger relationship with the Lord.
Yes there is a season for everything. Ecclesiastes 3:1
Stay in prayer while being content & single & patiently wait on GOD for him. Women ARE NOT to look for a man. Prov 18:22, when a man finds a wife etc. We as believers know this. GOD knows when you're ready & HIS timing is Best. GOD BLESS
I love how real the second lady was about making yourself available.
God is the same yesterday, today, and forever more. Amen. If God was able to bring two people together before television, telephones, dating sites, the internet, and so on and so forth. He can still unite/connect us to one that He have for us in His time. We have to work on being patient and presentable. When I say presentable, I'm not just saying in our physical appearance. We must let God continue to work on our soul and spirit in Jesus name. Amen.
Amen
Amen! Patient and presentable! 💝
Amen. I love that
Amen. ❤
I am christian but this talk is rubbing me the wrong way. It’s not that simple and it’s not the same “recipe” for everyone. Some do all the “right” things and it just doesn’t happen. You should have included someone like Lisa Harper to give your talk more variety and depth.
Some are not suppose to be Maried
Not if it’s a desire God put in their heart! Another lie pastors tell women who want to get married “maybe you meant to be single” that’s only if you want to be single..To keep us submissive to them by being at church 24/7 and serving their needs for their church (Cant do that if you have a covering by a spouse and submissive to him, trick of the enemy) I Allowed that foolish paradigm make me stay single for decades..I Removed those paradigms and God sent me my Boaz at 45 years young..it’s all about what a man think in his heart but if others are brainwashing them with “maybe you meant to be single” that is what will manifest Its about speaking and wholeheartedly believing with unwavering faith is the key..I do this with every part of my life I do not allow another mans words tell me what my destination will be Please stop telling women who desire to get married this phrase..Paul only said this because he WANTED to be single..Marriage is honorable and that’s the holy word
I totally agree let’s be realistic check the stats... how many men are in church? How many men are ready, what about their own desires etc. She has boundaries and that worked for her but there are sooo many that cannot testify to this? Let’s be honest this needs to be an honest talk
@@kingdomfirst4541 kingdom of god truth will make you free..."first things first"to and fro" then your finally gathered into the net.
When it comes to God only look up and surrender, don't look at what happened to other people .. refuse the double minded mindset. Are u Lisa Harper? NO! YOUR JOURNEY WON'T BE THE SAME. erase the word BUT when u put your trust in God, we ask God to do things for us that we know that we cannot do them our selves.
I think this is just so good! I always tell ladies: focus on the calling on your life so God can develop you not just for His mission in your life but also so you can be equipped to assist your partner. When its time the right man will find you: the how is not up to you God will do it. Also love how Heather described submission-getting under the right man's mission-love it!
Louder for those in the back!! We are not made to hunt for a husband !! Thank YOU LORD !
Long story short my cousin suggested to try POF, (I don’t do online dating but gave it try), only gave 24hours on app. Last 30mins. A gentleMAN challenged me (vice versa) ... 1year later. Joyfully married! Ps. Born and raised Pastors daughter in loving Christian (born again) home. God is so good!
Seek the KINGDOM OF GOD above all else, and LIVE RIGHTEOUSLY, and HE will GIVE you EVERYTHING you NEED.
Matthew 6:33
Have you found the Kingdom of God yet?
Thank You Jesus!! I was meant to watch this. I have been with online dating for a few years .Recently God has told me that I am not to make my search an idol but to leave it in His hands. I have made myself out there and truly believe if God has my husband online, God will send him my way. Thank you ladies for confirming and words of encouragement.
Yes! His plans and purpose for our lives are far better than we could imagine. Keep trusting God! 💜
May God speedly grant you your desires of your heart in Jesus' mighty name!
God bless you
I’m 61! And have asked GOD forever for my Boaz. At some point frustration sets in. Faith is knowing that has provided. A posture of waiting and staying busy in GOD will keep me steady until GOD sends my mate to me.
I totally agree and understand with the other girl. Eyes on both Jesus and that Godly man God has for us (me)😂
Can you make these longer. Nothing like being in the conversation and it switches to another topic
Hi Maribell, You can watch full episodes of Better Together on our website here: bit.ly/2GkaOo6 God bless you 💜
WOW God gave me that same revelation about submission. That is so helpful in finding your mate
I've been praying for a wife since I was 15 years old. I've read many Christian books about relationship and was always involved in church. Now I am 57, still single and with no friends. Because my family was not Christian, I always prayed for a woman that had a good Christian family that could embrace me. I've met a few Christian women in my life, but I never had a good connection with them. I went to church so many times hoping that that day I would meet someone. It has been 42 years of a constant search, prayer, and even fasting. I even made a vision board with a photoshop of me getting married and I bought a ring that I wear when I am praying as a sign of faith. I really don't know what else I can do.
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@@rebeccapatrick8985 Thank You !!!
The most perverted man I ever met online on Christian mingle. He was a so called Christians motivational speaker, singer writer and singer with a popular worship song on RUclips. I won't name names but, I will say he sent me a video without any printing from me, of something highly inappropriate. I was shocked and never spoke to him again. While a teenager my pastor slipped his hand in my shirt. Some of the worst men are in church , I wish it weren't true but it's been my expireriance . I have sworn off men for the past 11 yrs bc of my daughter, I just can't trust it and chance her childhood. Men don't realize the damage they do to us with these actions it's hard not to be resentful
yaya mama I don’t understand. Sworn off men, yet you have a daughter with a man I assume or is she adopted? I’m so sorry about the experience with certain men in church. But not everyone are born again or renewed, they just do church attendance and church work. Let God’s love & grace melt your heart as he guides you to trust again.
ShayBear Peter my daughter is from a previous marriage. I swore to remain shingle at least until she is grown then perhaps marry for companionship in my older yrs. Thanks for the kind words.
@@lifeonwheels5756 Wow Sis, that's really, really unfortunate. I pray this experience hasn't caused you to cast doubt on all men, and on behalf on all those men, I apologize for the terrible experience you had.
I pray that you continue to work on yourself and develop yourself as a mother and woman so that the presence of God will radiate from you.
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@@womanofgod2948 thank you for the kind words.
God is able to restore.So sorry you had these experiences.I pray God heals and recovers your heart,mind and soul.I pray you never encounter men like that again,christan or otherwise in Jesus' name
God knows who you need in your life and the make sure the person is from God he knows what you need. He will give you the desires of your heart ❤💖🙌🏾🙌🏾 . Yes Amen 🙌🏾🙌🏾.
Please add the names of the panelists, (along with their webpages, etc) in the description of each episode. Please.
Yes, because I don't know who any of these ladies are, so names would be appreciated.
the second woman speaking is Bianca Olthoff she and her husband pastor The Father's House-Orange County.
@@pamelaflynn1129 the woman in the pink jacket is Heather Lindsey, she has a RUclips channel
Wow this was a incredible word on this topic because I agree the frist young lady that spoke about if you be about God business he definitely will bring the right on in your path You can't seem desperate and lonely because that's when the devil send you what flesh wants. then their be major consequences behind that. Don't let devil put crazy thoughts in your mind making you feel God don't love you because you're single. God knows exactly right time in our life to send that suitable mate to us no matter how old you are because age have nothing to do with it need learn be content in your singleness knowing how love yourself asking God make you healthy and heal and at the right moment in your life that's exactly when it will happen because God is the best Matchmaker
I pray that God prepares me to meet my Godly husband. Until then, i stay strong and live life to the fullest😁
Yes let’s not fill no voided people God see us “ SINGLE PEOPLE” in due time
I use to be on online dating site for years it seem. Met a total of three men. I had to be honest with myself cause I was so suspicious of people online. Had to build my courage up each time before meeting the three I did meet. One is still in my life...we're just friends and I feel like there's a connection deeper than the eye see. We live in different states so nothing ever came of it. He's in military and was stationed in my town, that's when I met him. So yeah no more online dating for me.
@Dye Dye I know exactly what you mean. The ones I did meet...two didn't want a relationship and one wanted to marry me right off. But I wasn't on the same page as him. As in I want love, but I'm not jumping into marriage with any man. I hope for both of us that someone who our souls love will be in our lives. I'm remaining hopeful, but it do get hard at times.
Thanks for sharing! I hope you find your guy
@Dye Dye oh I don't mind you asking🙂. I was on plentyoffish. I did notice on there that men lie about their age and about what they're looking for. There were also some nice guys to chat with on there. But it ended there with me cause once again we just didn't want the same things. I also signed up for eharmony or either match (free version). I couldn't bring myself to pay for membership cause I was too scared to meet anyone anyway. So that's when I realized online wasn't for me.
@Dye Dye I'm not trying to speak so negatively about men. Some of the guys I met were fine just not right for me 🙂 and I'm okay with that.
I definitely enjoyed watching this...
Ama keep on serving till he drops literally 🥰
🙏“Dear Heavenly Father, I know that I have broken your laws and my sins have separated me from you. I am truly sorry, and now I want to turn away from my past sinful life toward you. Please forgive me, and help me avoid sinning again. I believe that your son, Jesus Christ died for my sins, was resurrected from the dead, is alive, and hears my prayer. I invite Jesus to become the Lord of my life, to rule and reign in my heart from this day forward. Please send your Holy Spirit to help me obey You, and to do Your will for the rest of my life. In Jesus' name I pray, Amen
Welcome home! Congratulations for receiving Jesus Christ. Everything that is in God and Jesus and all God says he has given us pertaining to life and goodliness is all yours in Jesus' matchless name! I am proud of you! God bless you indeed!
Nicole C Mullen is looking so beautiful there. We thank God for you
lady, don't feel bad Nicole you might have had two failed marriages but
you are still clothed with one awesome never failing God.
Beautiful, blessed message!
Eye on Jesus. Walk in his purpose for your life.
Hell find you. When its time.
Michael Todds relationship goals series was a big part in me realising what God means for us during all seasons of our life. Intentionally being single, not looking , and focusing on God and seeking him is enough in my opinion. I dont even pray about it much unless im already praying about stuff and the Holy Spirit leads me there. And even then I find myself praying for my future husband, but mostly his ministry and our friendship.
Everyone has a different how we met. The best how we met for you is God's timing. "When it is time, I the Lord will make it happen. "
LOVE LOVE LOVE!!!! Sis said she had a gecko eye!! LOL
LOVE Heather's point of submission- if he has a mission you can't submit to, or isn't aware of his mission- he probably isn't it!
God is so awesome! I agree with the other lady; I'm waiting on God, he's pruning me- but I'm ready to Sparkle!!!!
PREACHHHHHH HEATHER!!! MY GOD!!!!😁
Hi Angel girl, here I am!!!! God bless you and your family too
Mission of a man that’s good
We exercise our dominion. That power will cause a salvation work system, it will cause things to inspire, hold and reoccur in our lives for the purpose of our salvation
Didn’t you just have a singles slide in DM post? Why didn’t you suggest this?
I love travelling and seeing all the different cultures and how some cultures are still focused on core family values. There is a channel Filipina Destiny that interviews ladies from the Philippines that are looking to meet friends that could develop into long term relationships. Neat concepts, I'm wondering how it will do.
I needed this😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Did Heather say there are 6 to 7 billion people in NYC???
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That’s what I’m wondering too. I had to rewind 2-3 times. 😳
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It’s an exaggeration of course...
Ya I’ve been thinking 🤔 twice about online Dating as a Christian cause I don’t know 🤷🏽♀️
Focus on the assignment first. Please ladies DO IT RIGHT.
Im available for call casting for finding a new love husband
What is the name of the woman from Ney York?!😍
Her testimony is really what I believe for myself!! I don't need to try waking up every Jimmy and John 👏😭👏😭
This is a great convo
Have an AWESOME WEEK NO WEAPON FORMED AGAINST YOU WILL PROSPER this will be a WEEK of REVELATIONS and CLARITY for that which is your VISION and PURPOSE that using the TOOLS and RESOURCES to REFLECT on life to continue to live in TRUTH and REALITY that will bring forth PEACE during this time of VULNERABILITY is going to be EMOTIONAL but if/when you ENDURE through the LABOR PAINS from SPIRITUAL GROWTH can seem unbearable as the INVISIBLE barrier of EMOTIONS is a REALITY of HURT and PAIN THAT IS SOMETHING WE MUST AND SHALL ENDURE THOUGHT OUT LIFE IS HURT AND PAIN ALONG WITH JOY AND PAIN THAT TOGETHER IS LOVE WHICH CONNECTS EACH PERSON continue to press forward with that same FAITH that has been there from the beginning of the start of YOUR life over the years FAITH looks different nonetheless it is still FAITH. I PRAY THAT YOU HAVE PEACE AND CLARITY FOR YOU AS IF YOU DON'T HAVE PEACE AND CLARITY FOR SELF IT WILL FOREVER KEEP YOU IN SOME TYPE OF BONDAGE TO SOMETHING THAT THE CHAIN WAS BROKE DAY YOU WERE BORN IN JESUS NAME I PRAY. AMEN
Thanks for a profound words 🙏 🙌
beloved God bless you,I don't know you in person but God know you well, children are suffering from
(Leukemian).
Lord minister to me in a revelation when I was praying concerning things about you, I saw blessing concerning you but the wicked spirit monitoring you and with motive to destroy your destiny are fighting you,
But as I speak to you now her time is up,the motherless babies orphanage home needs your financial help to tackle the problem of leukemia for the children Suffering from it lord reveal to me and instruct you to sow a seed to motherless babies who is suffering from (Leukemia)(saviour motherless foundation) located in Nigeria before 2days with faith, as I join you in prayer
My heavenly father will bless you as you sow a seed to these orphanages children today, you will testify to the glory of God after you have done it if only you believe in him, Proverb (3: 27,21: 26: 22: 9 ), Deu 28: 1 '5
Contact the MD of the orphanage Foundation on WhatsApp No +2348137411949 Or Email: (saviourfoundation96@gmail.com) send your donation to them God bless you.,,..,,,..,,..,...
"Are your really lead by the Lord? Or are you trying to fill a void?" 🔥
But heather, every Christian has the same mission... to spread the gospel of Jesus Christ ...
Exactly!
I think what she meant is different ministries
Yes and no-A missionary called to serve in Mozambique and a Christian NBA basketball player based in CA has the same general mission but would have a lot of difficulty fulfilling their unique calls in a marriage union. It’s essential to make sure both purposes are aligned & that their mission-fields are at least compatible.
The Body of Christ has different responsibilities. The eyes see, legs walk etc.
True everyone is called to spread the gospel but we all have different purposes, visions, gifts, and callings. We are the body of christ and they are different things we do (1 corn 12:12-31). Some people are called to specific areas of influence, there are 7 mountains of influence (family, education, religion, media, entertainment, government, and business). Whoever you marry you both should be working under the same mission God has for your life. For me I am called to be a counselor and preacher (youth pastor or pastors wife). I know the guy I'm suppose to marry has a calling on his life to preach and be a pastor. I wouldn't be with someone who is called to be in government. This would be contradictory to what God wants me to do. A guy whose called to government might find a wife that is passionate about it. Moreover, I'm not saying you and your husband will do the same thing, they could be similar yet different areas but God is still bringing you together to impact the world in a certain way. Yes we are all called to spread the gospel wherever we go but we all have different callings on our lives in different areas. That's why it's good to seek God and get clarity to know your purpose so when you met your husband I'll know cause your purposes align. But also asking God if this is the one you're suppose to marry because the devil will send counterfeits. A good book about purpose is "The principality and power of vision" by Myles Munroe. I also love the book and sermon series "Relationship goals" by Michael Todd. If your looking for more advice on singleness and relationships I love listening to Allison Rowe and The Greens. Another good book is "Waiting and Dating" by Myles Munroe.
Ladies this was good.
beloved God bless you,I don't know you in person but God know you well, children are suffering from
(Leukemian).
Lord minister to me in a revelation when I was praying concerning things about you, I saw blessing concerning you but the wicked spirit monitoring you and with motive to destroy your destiny are fighting you,
But as I speak to you now her time is up,the motherless babies orphanage home needs your financial help to tackle the problem of leukemia for the children Suffering from it lord reveal to me and instruct you to sow a seed to motherless babies who is suffering from (Leukemia)(saviour motherless foundation) located in Nigeria before 2days with faith, as I join you in prayer
My heavenly father will bless you as you sow a seed to these orphanages children today, you will testify to the glory of God after you have done it if only you believe in him, Proverb (3: 27,21: 26: 22: 9 ), Deu 28: 1 '5
Contact the MD of the orphanage Foundation on WhatsApp No +2348137411949 Or Email: (saviourfoundation96@gmail.com) send your donation to them God bless you.,,..,,,..,,..,...
I have a best friend. We do everything couples do. He doesn’t talk to other females. We’re far from perfect, but we know God. We know what God doesn’t like and what he expects from us. Every time we’re together it’s like he’ll say something about a business plan and I’m like hmmm I had that thought two weeks ago. It’s so confusing. Idk what we are or if we’ll ever be. I do know whoever his future wife is, he will be an amazing husband. He shows me he likes me and cares alot about me. He never really says much though. He literally breaks his neck for me. But it confuses me because he doesn’t say hey I like you.
Stop playing. Tell him you like him. Idk your age but I wouldn’t waste my time..... someone’s gonna get hurt....all that emotional investment. Js.
Murphy’s law School Thank you will do!
1)First have your own tv show 2) be very attractive 3) run in the upper crust of your ministry and make a lot of money 4) and if you don't have any real good advice give the pat answer, PRAY MORE
Here is some advice that will help you meet your future husband faster and explains why your prayers aren't working: ruclips.net/video/uQa2UhFm2lM/видео.html
Yess love this
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Please pray for me and my children and family and friends to
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Is that Jasmine Stars twin sister? 🧐
It is, her name is Bianca! She's awesome!
Lol import my husband that’s a good one
I personally don't believe that I will meet my husband through online dating
That’s good
Jan 29? 2020 is that the date of this video? what?
First of all, we know the Bible clearly states that He that findeth a wife. Therefore, single ladies do not search. Men are the hunters by nature. You don't have to go looking. You just have to make sure that you are ready to be found! So many of us want the wedding. However, are you ready for the marriage. The wedding is just a one day maybe two (depending upon culture) event. After the wedding, comes work. You have to work at sustaining the marriage. You have to pray, you have to fast (in agreement with spouse), you have to sacrifice your needs/wants for his. You have to be willing to support God's plan/vision for your lives. You are going to have to submit even though you don't see things his way. You are going to have to put in the work. Too many people have a misconception (I did too) of what a Godly marriage is and looks like. When I did the research around 20s, I was like "Oh no, I am so not ready for all that". It is not all glitz and glamor. Your body is no longer your own. So it's not like " oh, I am tired or have a headache excuse" every night or every other night or day whatever. That is not going to work. The children come, then you have to factor all that in. God, hubby, children, church, job (maybe), cleaning the home, cooking, etc. All that is work. And you can not bombard him as soon as he steps in the door. I don't know why some of you all do that. Just like you need some me time, he does too especially after he has gotten off work. You don't know what he had to deal with on the job. Think of it as decompressing time. Some men needs half hour or hour. Let him have his man time to switch it off. Then when he is ready, you all can eat and talk about the events of the day. Some of us do too much because you don't know. That's why teaching is so important. You have to know how to run your household. And please stop trying to run your household like your best friend. Her husband is NOT your husband. Each man is different, has different needs, etc. Don't have people in your business. Don't have your girlfriend at your house with your husband when you are not there. If you have to run to the store, she is going with you or you stay yourself at home and go another day. Know where your husband is especially when female company is around. If she us taking too long in the bathroom, go check on her and see if she is alright. It's not that you don't trust him or her, you don't want anyone to be lead (led) into temptation. Don't even give the devil a slither of a chance to think he can weasel in. You're on the same team, so don't hoard the ball. You cover so he can take the shot. If he can't and you are open, then he'll pass the ball to you. Usually God gives the man the vision, we are to figure or help figure out how to make it work. We are to support. Now, I am not saying that we don't have dreams and things but everything has its place and time. And if your husband tells you something in private time, Do Not Go BLABBING Your Mouth to your girlfriends. Some of you all talk way too much about the wrong thing. Your girlfriends have no business knowing anything about your husband business that he has shared with you. If he wanted her to know, I am pretty sure he would have called her himself and told her what he has told you. I don't know why I am writing all this stuff. I am not teaching a class. Sorry... I guess I just had to let it out. Feel free not to read! Sorry for the overkill! Just a few pet peeves that may save a marriage or help at least. I'm just saying..... Love ya!! Take a marriage counseling class before you all go getting married. Talk to the couples that has been married for 30, 40, 50 years. Your girlfriends are having their own problems and neither do they need to know your business. That's it... let me shut up! Sorry... 🥰 love ya!!
God is exposing them 😂😂😂😂😂
Hi lovelies.
I love Heather but she be ready to talk lol
The Gospel of salvation:💜💕💜💖💞💜💕For what I received I passed on to you as of [first importance]: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures, and that he appeared to Peter, and then to the Twelve. After that, he appeared to more than five hundred of the brothers and sisters at the same time,
"Are you really led by the Lord or are you just trying to fill a void"?
There are 6 7 billion people in New York City??? Whaaaaat?.?
Wow
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My Heather rocks 🙌🙌🙌🙌
Your Heather is dangerous to all things biblical, she's a heretic, and she's a scammer.
@@alittlesickducksucks yeahh i just found this out sad
Your Heather? Heather worshipper!
The idol worship is real
@@s.w2934 my sister it is getting ridiculous! I cannot get my head around this.Once you say something ofcourse they will call us haters.Seek God people not Heather. Wow this is beyond me the idolatry!
This the worst advice ... pray and search
Jesus someone is talking about god!!! Bless our land of America...mm married men or weman"relationship is ment to be all inclusive why else would we use gods name.
Has heather answered the scandal questions? Asking for a friebd
No she has not.
What’s wrong with the UPS man? Y’all need to be MGTOW’d
i love it when 2 men fight it drives me crazy it makes me wanna scream