CeCe Winans: Relearning What Love Means in Marriage | FULL EPISODE | Better Together TV

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  • Опубликовано: 25 ноя 2024

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  • @BetterTogetherTV
    @BetterTogetherTV  3 года назад +17

    Watch more content on our TBN app and online at watch.tbn.org! 💜

    • @renemiller2782
      @renemiller2782 3 года назад +3

      Thank you so much for doing these episodes and honestly sharing your struggles and victories. This is clarifying what God is speaking to me about love and relationships and being a godly women. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

    • @karensaunders485
      @karensaunders485 3 года назад +2

      This was so good. Ms Laurie, love your nuggets of wisdom. Ms Cece, what and awesome topic!

    • @karensaunders485
      @karensaunders485 3 года назад +1

      Thank you all for sharing

    • @JacintaNorfleet
      @JacintaNorfleet 3 года назад

      This was so so good!

    • @anuajihdeYahweh
      @anuajihdeYahweh 2 года назад +1

      4 going on 5 years and 12 years together with my husband, these are words of wisdom ladies. Its wise to consider and learn from those who have gone ahead of us 🙏💙 thanks for the upload Better Together!

  • @candirawlinson6894
    @candirawlinson6894 3 года назад +181

    As a new wife I am struggling tremendously with how to love my husband and to not make it about me. Relationship with God is so real and He spoke directly to me through this video. Thank you❣️

    • @naomit.s7152
      @naomit.s7152 3 года назад +2

      I hope it's going much better for you! 🤎

    • @mamancooper942
      @mamancooper942 3 года назад +3

      Girl me too. And it’s so insane I was just praying yesterday and today for God to help me to be a better wife to my husband just to run into this video today.

    • @lasheasimmonspogge2435
      @lasheasimmonspogge2435 3 года назад +1

      Amen. One thing we can do is simply ask our spouse how can I love you better, how can I be a better spouse for you? ❤️💯

    • @venicewilliams9383
      @venicewilliams9383 3 года назад +1

      I have the same struggles as a new wife as well

    • @rivers_of_eden
      @rivers_of_eden 2 года назад +2

      One of the best things I ever found as a new wife was the book and study guide - the power of a praying wife by stormie omartian. I 1000% recommend it.

  • @pamelagibson2780
    @pamelagibson2780 3 года назад +143

    I married my husband for the wrong reasons. Alot of mistakes were made before and since the marriage. He has turned his life over to God and wants to stay married. In trying to love him beyond all the hurt he caused, I'm constantly going back to who he was prior to giving his life to Christ. It's definitely a work in progress but I'm trying to love him as Christ loved me. Thanks ladies for sharing ❤️

    • @angelicarivera8568
      @angelicarivera8568 3 года назад +8

      I understand this wholeheartedly and am walking this out as well. Praying for you and your marriage. ❤️

    • @steflondon88
      @steflondon88 3 года назад +11

      The Lord's been speaking to me about remembering where He brought me from, and how Jesus loves us regardless of our past. Jesus is the ultimate love and security behind a marriage made and built in Him. He also has been reminding me of how Hosea was told to love someone that wasn't very loveable. We are the wayward backstabbing person that nailed Jesus to the cross. God help us to love others!!! even when they don't deserve it, and know Jesus is the ultimate one carrying us.

    • @ritabrandow1318
      @ritabrandow1318 2 года назад +4

      When Bob and I got married. Neither one of us knew Jesus. After we were married about three years. I accepted Jesus. Bob wanted to stay married. It was really hard but he finally came to the Lord. It has been wonderful. I would do it all over again. It hasn't been easy.

    • @renadajohnson2065
      @renadajohnson2065 2 года назад

      @@steflondon88

    • @annavictoria3103
      @annavictoria3103 2 года назад

      I'd be interested to know how you are getting on now xx have things changed?

  • @Signgmom
    @Signgmom 3 года назад +36

    I have experienced 2 failed marriages and I have realized that I didn't invest in my marriages as much as I believed I did and didn't allow myself to heal in between. So thankful that Abba is a healer🙌🙌

  • @nahndibush1942
    @nahndibush1942 2 года назад +12

    I know this is exactly what I need to hear in my failing 23 year marriage, and I will keep listening to this kind of teaching. I am just tired of the fact that it is always me who is trying to learn how to make our marriage better, and not my husband. I am so tired of the effort.

  • @cogmission180
    @cogmission180 9 месяцев назад +4

    CeCe’s comment about the Pastor and his wife, not only reminded me of Hosea, but the love that God has for us. Most people would be bitter if their spouse, not only left them, but left to sell their bodies but in that moment it was love that compelled them to do whatever it took to win the heart of their spouse back to them. That’s real love. That’s deep, and I want to love my husband like that, the way I am loved by God.😢❤

  • @phyllisrichie8303
    @phyllisrichie8303 3 года назад +34

    I’m getting married soon and I’m so glad to have listened to these great women this will be my first marriage

    • @malaikabanza6094
      @malaikabanza6094 Год назад +6

      And by the Grace of God the only marriage in your life .❤

  • @danelladecoteau4841
    @danelladecoteau4841 3 года назад +10

    As a two years divorced christian woman (my spouse left), I have great respect for not only these women but their utterances and I gotta say they helped re-inforce my decision to remain single and live for CHRIST. Marriage is alottttttttt of work and compromise and after being in a 4 year marriage to a worship leader/deacon who felt unhappy so he decided to move on to someone else, all because he deduced I didn't do enough to make him happy in marriage, I'm soooooooooooo good. But the content shared in this segment is inspiring. GOD bless.

  • @tamarascott3672
    @tamarascott3672 3 года назад +67

    Ladies, thank you for the transparency. This was great! Marriage is work. Learning each other is a process that truly takes time, mainly because we get so stuck on what we want, but it's not always about us. When you said, “ you have to study a person,” CeCe yes! That was good.

  • @distinctivesolutions2593
    @distinctivesolutions2593 3 года назад +15

    This is pre- marital counseling for me right here... So grateful to God for y'all ladies....God bless you!
    I should probably get Dr. Leslie's book.. 'save your marriage before it begins'

  • @makirose517
    @makirose517 2 года назад +10

    I’m a wife waiting to be found. Not married yet but, I’m preparing for what is to come. Listening to this has helped me understand areas of communication that I didn’t think nothing of before thank you ladies.

    • @clue1955
      @clue1955 Год назад

      God bless you...

  • @King_Of_Glory_Music
    @King_Of_Glory_Music 10 месяцев назад +1

    Heard the song for the first time June last year when I was admitted after I lost my pregnancy but in the midst of pain I had a reason to Thank God for my two children. Thank you Lord for being there for my family

  • @keelhe893
    @keelhe893 3 года назад +20

    I will begin to not only love my spouse better but my whole community because these principles weren’t just for marriage

  • @steflondon88
    @steflondon88 3 года назад +20

    I am in the waiting season, and this is so precious and I will definitely learn from these ladies!

  • @phyllisrichie8303
    @phyllisrichie8303 3 года назад +5

    I’m getting married soon and I’m so glad that I listened to these great women

  • @joyofsalvation100
    @joyofsalvation100 3 года назад +26

    Hollywood movies have taught western culture that if you don't feel 'Im in love" feelings in the marriage, automatically they assumed there is something wrong. But feelings are fickle. You won't feel "I'm in love" feelings everyday in the marriage. Marriage is a commitment, choice, faithfulness, honestly and selfless love and care.

  • @maryannngugi3695
    @maryannngugi3695 3 года назад +3

    You truly are a younger version of Jan Crouch. Even the smile. Bless you all

  • @plant-basedmama7366
    @plant-basedmama7366 3 года назад +14

    Taking notes in this single season 🙏🏿

  • @aliciachalk2608
    @aliciachalk2608 3 года назад +10

    This blessed me. I think it’s my second time listening. It’s hard to remember to stay out of my feelings but to hear others acknowledge that they change often so make a choice to love - that thought resonates with me. It’s so easy to get upset but there is greatness in making a decision above all else...I hope that all makes sense.

  • @kiadavis9012
    @kiadavis9012 Год назад +1

    This was so helpful. My boyfriend wants to get married and I have been so nervous and asking God for guidance. I loved this discussion.

  • @jackiecyrus1705
    @jackiecyrus1705 3 года назад +5

    This was a blessing. My husband and myself is the total opposite he is the talker and I’m not. My husband is a Pastor and he loves GOD whole heartedly and I Thank GOD for him and I’ve been learning how to upgrade my communication. Thank GOD for his grace and mercy!!!

    • @GreatestLuv
      @GreatestLuv 2 года назад

      I am happy for you. I love communication and I desire mine communication with me.

  • @seruwaiasorovi7500
    @seruwaiasorovi7500 Год назад +1

    Thankyou so much for sharing. I'm just over 1 year of my marriage and all you have shared is helping me now for my marriage. ❤😭

  • @JamaicanEmpress7
    @JamaicanEmpress7 2 года назад +1

    This is really great ladies. My husband and I have been together for 8 years, married two years May coming and I'm happy I'm seeing this because I struggle at forgetting the past hurts my husband caused me. Even though he's now saved and serving God, at times I reflect on the past. I was reminded today that when God forgives us He forgets our mistakes and cleans the slate and that's how I should forgive my husband and love him the way God loves me.

  • @SandraPerez-pd6ru
    @SandraPerez-pd6ru 3 года назад +4

    Girl CeCe got it right on point simple short to the point yes Lord help us

  • @BecomingIrresistible
    @BecomingIrresistible 3 года назад +6

    Powerful message, sometimes we forget that love is selfless...thanks Cece!

  • @lenganjinachalwe5362
    @lenganjinachalwe5362 3 года назад +9

    Amen. Wonderful prayer CeCe. Ladies thank you for an inspiring presentation God bless.

  • @khandygurl01
    @khandygurl01 Год назад +2

    Omg! I loveeeee Dr. Leslie Parrot!!! When I first found the book “Saving Your Marriage Before it Starts”, I almost didn’t read it because I really only like hearing marriage from Biblicsl perspectives. BUT I’m Mental Health Therapist, and they’re psychologists, so I was like hmmm let’s do it! THEN, I found out they are speaking with Biblical Principles!!! Lol

  • @michellethomas2922
    @michellethomas2922 3 года назад +4

    So good. My husband and I love each other and desire to please each other although we miss the part of loving each other according to the other person's love language consistently and intentionally.

  • @chrisethel7649
    @chrisethel7649 3 года назад +2

    Thank u so much for this I hv learnt a lot, I believe that soon I will be married and my marriage will be beautiful because I have learnt to love my husband the way God loves me wow.

  • @barbsiehoho
    @barbsiehoho 3 года назад +6

    How I wish we can get the full conversation,this was amazing

  • @niccivictorious5594
    @niccivictorious5594 2 года назад +9

    I am praying for a Godly marriage. I am divorced and hurt by my ex spouse who moved on quickly and started another family. I have let him go. However, I desire the Godly man the Lord has for me.

  • @DmarilynB
    @DmarilynB 2 года назад +1

    Good conversation. Sometimes I feel like it is so difficult to love my husband sometimes especially when he is being sarcastic and feels he is talk down to me. I have to remember to love him all the time when he is difficult.

  • @miriamgomez2593
    @miriamgomez2593 3 года назад +6

    Thanks you sisters for all your advice, not remarried yet.

  • @NaturalMonty
    @NaturalMonty 2 года назад +2

    5/3/22: Love this! I'm not married yet, but the information is priceless. "That soul is more important than my flesh"...Thank you Father God~

  • @ambermccutchen8451
    @ambermccutchen8451 2 года назад +1

    I am learning so much listen get wisdom in proverbs 3 verse 5 and verse 6 says trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding hallelujah sincerely yours Mrs Amber McCutchen

  • @alikpally5451
    @alikpally5451 3 года назад +7

    This is beautiful. Does anyone know if there are any similar segments where men/husbands are chatting on the same topic, openly, candidly & honestly & respectfully like these 5 women are? That would be a real blessing. Please share if you know of any. Thank you

    • @TwanaBWare
      @TwanaBWare 3 года назад

      I wish I would have heard this before I married 3 times. But God....if he sends me a Godly man I am ready now. Praise the Lord and if he does I am good with God alone 💜🙏🏾

  • @brynajones8076
    @brynajones8076 2 года назад +2

    I wished I had premarital counseling with the guy before my husband...the relationship would have ended sooner! :) My husband and I had such a great time during the counseling process that our Pastor looked forward to every meeting!

  • @HeatherHotcakes
    @HeatherHotcakes 2 года назад +2

    Every sentence in this video is powerful!!

  • @omgmikeyg9335
    @omgmikeyg9335 3 года назад +22

    S/O to Cici sayin MOST men love language is physical touch. Lol, I was about to say “Not really “ when Laurie said all men love language is physical touch lol mine is definitely spending time together

  • @monicaneal3029
    @monicaneal3029 9 месяцев назад +1

    Ce~Ce Love♥️ How Sweet It Is🥰❣️

  • @tegaedwards
    @tegaedwards 9 месяцев назад +1

    Such a helpful and blessed episode❤

  • @charlottenatumanya4168
    @charlottenatumanya4168 3 года назад +21

    This is soooo good, I have learnt soooo much. God bless you ladies

  • @sebenzilefelicitydlamini9706
    @sebenzilefelicitydlamini9706 9 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Cece❤❤❤🎉🎉

  • @shawj818
    @shawj818 2 года назад +2

    This was an awesome conversation. I'm single but it made me think about things I hadn't. Thank you ladies, I wish this was longer.

  • @mertellatait9050
    @mertellatait9050 3 года назад +2

    Hosannah that is so good. Set them up for success (by communicating)

  • @chanteldixon7841
    @chanteldixon7841 3 года назад +5

    Great words of wisdom. Thank you ladies for another awesome message.

  • @barbaragalindez6296
    @barbaragalindez6296 2 года назад +1

    Amen " This Is So Encouraging For me today " Thank You Jesus That you Lead me and Encourage me to keep viewing Though all around me in the world Talk Marriage Down !"

  • @asiadumas82
    @asiadumas82 3 года назад +2

    yes, knowing a person's love language is important 💜

  • @brendadappa2343
    @brendadappa2343 3 года назад +2

    Thank you so much for this insights in relationships. I'm not married yet currently dating but this is beautiful and wonderful.thank you Ladies

  • @ladyabigurl
    @ladyabigurl 3 года назад +5

    Thank you ladies for sharing your wisdom with me. 🌹

  • @gford7561
    @gford7561 4 месяца назад

    These conversations are good. I’m sharing with friends that are married.

  • @chilalachifwepa4213
    @chilalachifwepa4213 2 года назад +1

    Needed this, my heart is soothed. Marriage can seem so scary - glad I watched this

  • @bluemonterwolf9658
    @bluemonterwolf9658 Год назад +1

    Thank you for this discussion it really help alot of people married or not..

  • @GospelWorship26
    @GospelWorship26 11 месяцев назад +1

    All the good work God has begun in my life must come to pass! I believe and I receive in Jesus' Mighty Name Amen!🙏🙏🙏

  • @miriamgomez2593
    @miriamgomez2593 3 года назад +32

    We have to love Jesus first then you love you’re husband.

    • @sherrywilson572
      @sherrywilson572 3 года назад +1

      God be first, at all times ' marraige to a person' other than the church,. Wow' ' its Much different' Faith makes it better,. Right "" ", you don't want , "your spouse to leave you: ' the bible says God ' will never leave you. nor' forsake you. In John 14: 18

    • @siskristie2113
      @siskristie2113 2 года назад

      Amen! God first, spouse second, children third!

  • @abim9950
    @abim9950 3 года назад +1

    This has been a blessing to me and others that I have shared with

  • @CrossingJordanEntertainment
    @CrossingJordanEntertainment 8 месяцев назад

    Wow! The honesty is really refreshing. Thank you!

  • @christthelord91
    @christthelord91 3 года назад +27

    Are there any positives about marriage? i always hear how forced it is. force yourself to love when you dont feel like it day after day. can you guys do a session also encouraging people about the good aspects of marriage? I'm a millenial wondering, if it's worth it. especially when corinthians calls singlness a gift. thanks in advance.

    • @Jo-lp1px
      @Jo-lp1px 3 года назад +14

      Hey, I’ve been married for almost 3 years. For me I always wanted to share my life with someone so I naturally love it. We overcame big struggles, even before marriage. From overcoming we are even closer. It’s not about feeling forced or obligated to love, it is a choice that nourishes your marriage. It challenges our selfish nature of “ what’s in this for me?” because God says a successful marriage is putting the needs of your partner first for their well-being, and I’ve found that to be true in my short experience.
      So I would say the “good” aspects of marriage would depend on you uniquely and what you value. In my opinion I love the companionship, joy, laughter, healing from childhood wounds together and determining to have a healthier family life than we experienced (we both have rough backgrounds), praying for each other and encouraging each other. Those are a few! God bless you and enjoy being single, I definitely did.

    • @starlight7825
      @starlight7825 3 года назад +2

      From experience don't do it thank me later

    • @robynloverde6992
      @robynloverde6992 3 года назад +35

      I've been married almost 22 years. Yes, there are many many positives! 1) God uses your spouse to perfect His character in you 2) Companionship! A consistent presence who loves you and always has your back (provided you chose wisely) 3) Someone to walk with you through life 4) laughter!!! Someone to laugh with all the time 5) Shared memories! Someone with whom you build a lifetime full of shared experience 6) Someone who knows you inside and out and still chooses every day to love your sinful self 7) Shared burdens. Someone who shares your pain, empathizes with you, and walks with you through it.... There are many many benefits! I would marry my husband over and over and over again. It's worth it!!

    • @kimelywilson8497
      @kimelywilson8497 3 года назад +1

      @@Jo-lp1px well said..you spoke truth..

    • @kimelywilson8497
      @kimelywilson8497 3 года назад

      @@robynloverde6992 amen, I'm with you girl well said

  • @an7119
    @an7119 3 года назад +2

    Knew from day one that I need to love my husband as christ loves us and I do love him. However marriage takes hard work and lots of dedication.

  • @kay22100
    @kay22100 3 года назад

    I can relate to what Jamie said in the beginning ! I was like that my first year of marriage.

  • @lynettelewis7173
    @lynettelewis7173 3 года назад +3

    Thank you HOLY SPIRIT!😇🙏🏾😇

  • @amandakate1247
    @amandakate1247 3 года назад +3

    Set each other up for success 🎯💯

  • @cathyferran7291
    @cathyferran7291 Год назад

    I love you ladies, never stop sharing the stories that is the gold and you all made me laugh so hard I cried!

  • @saundratyler877
    @saundratyler877 3 года назад +2

    This was good and timely Thank GOD

  • @fredajohnson506
    @fredajohnson506 2 года назад

    This was very good topic talk on it's so enlighten to those who are married and engaged or getting married very good advice yes marriage counseling is so important especially if you are young When get together need talk about most important things before get serious involved with anyone thanks all you beautiful woman's on your godly wisdom on love in marriage

  • @keyshianorman6
    @keyshianorman6 Год назад +1

    This is so awesome this is good for me thank you ladies

  • @zaidagonzalez466
    @zaidagonzalez466 3 года назад +4

    Great! Wisdoms advice. I love hearing you ladies. Keep it coming!

    • @martinpalmer2894
      @martinpalmer2894 3 года назад

      Hello ma'am, just wanted to say that you are very very beautiful .

  • @natashamcclellan2707
    @natashamcclellan2707 3 года назад +8

    I love this channel.✝️❤️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @rosemariebarnett3600
    @rosemariebarnett3600 3 года назад +2

    Thanks for sharing, I have learn some new things, Bless you.

  • @cynthiawashington5386
    @cynthiawashington5386 3 года назад +2

    I really enjoy this. Blessing unto you all🙏🏾

  • @darlenegipson6646
    @darlenegipson6646 3 года назад +1

    Great episode! Please do more like this!

  • @speakliferadio8946
    @speakliferadio8946 Год назад +1

    VERY GOOD!

  • @SandraPerez-pd6ru
    @SandraPerez-pd6ru 3 года назад +5

    A lot of people say I was married such and such years but some of those years while you really marry you get my drift maybe I'm saying it because of me I was married lots of years but some of those years it wasn't a marriage lots of them but I'm a widow now

  • @rosekimbeng9365
    @rosekimbeng9365 Год назад +1

    Amen!! No body is perfect it takes the Love and grace of God to be in a successful marriage. We are the clay and Jesus is the porter. Only Jesus can bring the broken pieces together. Thank you Ladies for sharing God bless you all ❤️

  • @TodayBeEmpowered
    @TodayBeEmpowered 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much

  • @RachelChalmers-w5z
    @RachelChalmers-w5z 20 дней назад

    This episode is very helpful. I would love some resources for someone like me who is dating after losing my spouse.

  • @Gloria-b8g
    @Gloria-b8g 7 месяцев назад

    Let's love each other as God entered love and should be in a marriage.

  • @aurelamumbua7844
    @aurelamumbua7844 3 года назад +1

    Oooh thank you @Hosanna for the insight 🙏🙏 God bless

  • @esterfrank318
    @esterfrank318 3 года назад +2

    Am learning a lot from you

  • @Colours-s9k
    @Colours-s9k 2 года назад +1

    Soul is important then body yes 🙌🙌🔥

  • @PushRadio
    @PushRadio 4 месяца назад

    Very good Ep. 🙌🏾

  • @ShineLikeSheen
    @ShineLikeSheen 3 года назад +1

    Loved every moment of this 🥰

  • @simply_nikisha
    @simply_nikisha 4 месяца назад

    Praying that I get it right if it happens for me again

  • @miriamgomez2593
    @miriamgomez2593 3 года назад +4

    I live your last name Cece Love , that’s beautiful

  • @miriamgomez2593
    @miriamgomez2593 3 года назад +1

    Good morning from the sunshine state Miami 🌞, I love your music 🎵.

  • @babiryewinnifred2079
    @babiryewinnifred2079 3 года назад +1

    I have just come to the realisation that expectations were not the same.

  • @sarahjane1750
    @sarahjane1750 3 года назад +4

    Please Pray that God can get through to my husband and restore our marriage and family I love him so much and he is lost and really needs to choose God, for he is living with another woman. I am really struggling with this It's been 10 months since my husband and my daughter's father ("satepfather") walk away from our family and God has been so good he help me get a job and an apartment help my darters gain a lot in of good independence and God is so good he even wake my mum up at 5:00am to pray for my husband and my marriage and God is so good I have been Faithful so Faithful to my husband I love him so much I have not stop thinking about him can't stop thinking of him but want God to do this I know God is good Amen

  • @miriamgomez2593
    @miriamgomez2593 3 года назад +2

    Love you all sisters 💝🙏🏻🥰

  • @MJ-mg6jy
    @MJ-mg6jy 2 года назад

    So many amazing perspectives. The want (desire) is what is most memorable for me.

  • @ritabrandow1318
    @ritabrandow1318 2 года назад +1

    Hi I just got engaged. I never thought I would be in love with different man than my husband when he went to be with Jesus. He wanted me to find someone else. Bob was 20 years older than me. He was sitting right behind me in church. The thing is I am 71 and he is 60. But we both Know it is of God.

  • @FaithLoveDreams
    @FaithLoveDreams 3 года назад +3

    Our premarital counseling featured saving your marriage before it starts video series.

  • @constancejohnson7059
    @constancejohnson7059 3 года назад +3

    My better half he loves to talk sometime I ask may I jump in and speak to tell my feelings

  • @staciestacie3044
    @staciestacie3044 3 года назад +3

    Good Morning 😌

  • @comeuphereandsee
    @comeuphereandsee 2 года назад

    Excellent job with dove awards night you did wonderful

  • @miriamgomez2593
    @miriamgomez2593 3 года назад +1

    That’s awesome Doctor

  • @jacquelineflowers1795
    @jacquelineflowers1795 2 года назад

    How to love an unfaithful spouse. Do you stay, do you leave. How do you trust again

    • @siskristie2113
      @siskristie2113 2 года назад

      My Sister, you have to pray and God will let you know what to do. My Mom wanted to divorce my Dad because of his cheating ways. God told my Mom to wait. I believe it was 22 years before God finally told my Mom to divorce my Father. My Mom then went to my Papa (Pastor) and talk with him about the marriage. My Papa confirmed that she was to go through with the divorce. If you follow what God tells you, you will not go wrong!

  • @marthageorge6971
    @marthageorge6971 Год назад

    This is good ❤

  • @09freshmoney
    @09freshmoney 3 года назад +3

    I wonder if there is a marriage that isn't work, if you wait for the person God has for you is it ever just effortless. Does it ever jjust flow for some ppl? does that exist?

    • @AllThingsTiffanyTV
      @AllThingsTiffanyTV 3 года назад +12

      Life as a whole is not effortless, so marriage won’t be either. Just like everything else, marriage is work. But with the right person, it’s work in well doing. Just like someone who’s going to college to study for their degree and the result is a successful career and great income. The type of work, effort, & dedication is well worth it. Your marriage should be the same. If you’re losing yourself or your relationship with God, then it’s not the right marriage for you! Hope this helps

    • @leandra5248
      @leandra5248 3 года назад +7

      When people say marriage is "work," it can sound like a chore. But that's not really how it is, when people say marriage is work it simply means you have to put in the time, effort, and attention to continue to grow in marriage. With the right person you still have to navigate life together and still ensure you both are growing together and growth takes work. It means you both are working on weak areas and learning in grace how to strengthen in those areas. Work means you're always showing up as best as possible. Anything God gives us requires some sort of work to grow it successfully.

    • @sassyspoiled
      @sassyspoiled 3 года назад +1

      It can flow. But that doesn't relieve either party of making choices that benefit the partnership. It will require compromise and careful considerations. The flow comes when both parties understand this.

  • @babiryewinnifred2079
    @babiryewinnifred2079 3 года назад +2

    Reason and purpose of marriage might be different and it is not discussed at the entry

  • @ShontalaySharp
    @ShontalaySharp Год назад

    the part when it says if god wanst you to saty single hurt me becuase that not what as a women i envison for my life i would like god to have grace upon us all women to be able to marry and love JUST as GOD LOVE US