Flip the Script: How to Outsmart a Narcissist By Turning Their Narcissistic Rage Against Them

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  • Опубликовано: 9 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 35

  • @pamdee8454
    @pamdee8454 Месяц назад +17

    I started to journal childhood memories, school memories, and many adult memories. Each time my father started his violent rapid rage attacks on me. Two years ago, when learning about narcissistic behaviors he had shown all of my life. Not one time was his violent rapid rage attack had anything to do with him or his personal business. It had always been my life, what decisions were being made for me and my new family, my issues. He always made these things his rapid rage attacks on me. I lived in his resentment, spitefulness, 6’4” rage that he called “wait until I light in to them”. I’ve healed from this. I laugh to myself knowing I cut him out of my life and he doesn’t know why in his smear campaigns. They don’t love their children. I can’t fix him. I can not be in the reality of his mental illness. He is 81 yrs old. I’m a 60 yr old happy empath. Sorry to say too much. Journaling helps sometimes in the healing process. Tyvm

  • @Sw22944
    @Sw22944 Месяц назад +3

    Totally!!! I’m using that tactic now and my business narc is loosing their mind. The good news the narc uses email to communicate so I have it all documented. I’m not taking away the shovel they can keep digging a hole just in time for deposition.

  • @Rcp-pi8vo
    @Rcp-pi8vo Месяц назад +6

    Great video, been dealing with this my entire life- my father acts like this all the time- just a couple of years ago I started to realize what was going on! Channels like this have been a breath of fresh air

  • @davidestabrook5367
    @davidestabrook5367 Месяц назад +5

    Totally
    I'm currently dealing with a narcissist problem with my upstairs neighbours.
    I'm following your advice by documenting everything. Also not reacting, staying calm, and not giving them information.
    Thank you for your work in helping people win with their narcissist problem.

    • @Stardustpal25
      @Stardustpal25 Месяц назад +4

      I would only add, do add 'decompressing' time after run in... So reset your brain from surge of emotions... 432 mhz sounds, and others. So helpful for your battle. 🤝🥣🍒

    • @davidestabrook5367
      @davidestabrook5367 Месяц назад +4

      @@Stardustpal25 Thanks for the suggestions. I do allow myself to lay down and rest, and let myself recover after having an unavoidable interaction, or sending off the next email to the housing trust or the child protection services team.
      This is a really emotionally taxing problem, so taking extra time for self-care, and to let my body have the time to recover, that does help.

    • @stevegibbs7811
      @stevegibbs7811 Месяц назад

      @@davidestabrook5367 also you have already start or started stating what is the issue.

  • @TruthandJustice-hz9nv
    @TruthandJustice-hz9nv Месяц назад +3

    This was pure gold Rebecca, Thank you so much for this, All the rage and covert threats because they don't like the truth, When you call them out and expose them, I'm not scared of these two, I know what they are doing, Haters gone hate :-) Peace, love and respect to you and everyone, Thank you universe , All glory and praise , Smiles to the most high :-) The truth is shining the smile is sweet yeah :-)

  • @benniecampbell3973
    @benniecampbell3973 Месяц назад +3

    Totally 💯!!! Totally 💯 right!!!

  • @DawsonDave-YZF-R6
    @DawsonDave-YZF-R6 Месяц назад +5

    TOTALLY ! Just had this happen last week 😎

  • @CookieMonster-hm8hx
    @CookieMonster-hm8hx Месяц назад +3

    🤓👍👍👍 THIS totally makes sense 💜

  • @liliaaaaaaaa
    @liliaaaaaaaa Месяц назад +2

    Thank you ✌️🙏🌹👍

  • @patrickdonnelly9729
    @patrickdonnelly9729 Месяц назад +2

    Totally!

  • @MoonStars-v7q
    @MoonStars-v7q Месяц назад

    I wish I would've found this information 4 years ago . My entire situation I seen the tactics and the signs I just didnt know the realm of a narcissists. I'm so deep into my current relationship I wouldn't even know where to begin on all this . We have a daughter together but being with her mother led me back to using drinking smoking ECT ECT. I should've left but I didn't because this is the love I received from the women in my family . I honestly just wanna be done with the same waking cycle of life .

  • @susiehutson2693
    @susiehutson2693 Месяц назад +5

    Thanks so much Rebecca , it’s a peanut two of our employees one of which is my husband‘s brother who does my accounting and another girl so Friday One is being deposed and in a couple weeks the other one and then I am closing up my divorce hopefully so thank you for all that guidance. I will try. I will not try. I will make sure I am calm.

  • @alexordonez4185
    @alexordonez4185 Месяц назад

    Totally!!!

  • @SherryWilson-dk7bo
    @SherryWilson-dk7bo Месяц назад +1

    Totally ❤

  • @Stardustpal25
    @Stardustpal25 Месяц назад

    Brilliant 😊🤝🌹

  • @meralguzey..ph.d538
    @meralguzey..ph.d538 Месяц назад

    Totally

  • @benverasso4836
    @benverasso4836 Месяц назад +1

    Totally...

  • @N.r.e-v5g
    @N.r.e-v5g Месяц назад +4

    Keeping a cool head

  • @njmauricio4137
    @njmauricio4137 Месяц назад +3

    I AM AFFIRMING IT IN JESUS NAME AMEN 🙏🥰🥰😇

  • @Confessions089
    @Confessions089 Месяц назад +1

    Its not my job to help them get over their rage. That's their job to do that for themselves. 😊

  • @cedrickmarie-jeanne4676
    @cedrickmarie-jeanne4676 Месяц назад +1

    totally

  • @rgboyte
    @rgboyte Месяц назад +1

    Wow 😮!!!

  • @EdwardTorres-ms9vu
    @EdwardTorres-ms9vu Месяц назад

    I want to join please 🙏

  • @linagreco560
    @linagreco560 Месяц назад

    Hey Rebecca my brother is a true narc I CAN’T even avoid him he comes over here plenty too much for me cause of his dog which dad loves and brother makes his dog starve

  • @ronitgilboa8315
    @ronitgilboa8315 Месяц назад

    What and how to respond when it’s on the phone not face to face ?

  • @GloriaWatkins-c2u
    @GloriaWatkins-c2u Месяц назад +1

    Tv typed in narc subject his site came on in 2 video out 25. I tapped in so kind polite me in turn familiar with the usually great.ent kicked cussed at him side of TV I did this 2 days ago he looked real good yep firecracker reaction

  • @MYKEYCARD
    @MYKEYCARD Месяц назад +2

    💜

  • @breakthroughmoment1647
    @breakthroughmoment1647 Месяц назад +3

    They are utterly obnoxious!

  • @ryanthompson1421
    @ryanthompson1421 Месяц назад

    Totally

  • @linagreco560
    @linagreco560 Месяц назад

    Totally