How To Tell If She's Approachable - And Which Girls To Avoid

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  • Опубликовано: 25 окт 2024

Комментарии • 51

  • @IdaBrun
    @IdaBrun 5 лет назад +47

    This guy is the least sexist dating coach for men I’ve come across. Props to you for actually looking at women as people and thus knowing the real facts

    • @rogerdinhelm4671
      @rogerdinhelm4671 5 лет назад +13

      If we would look at girls as people - we would not study tips and tricks to lure them and start up a conversation, because people just meet other people, without requiring specific procedures to hit on, or specific words to say, flaking. This is more like a study of how to hunt an animal, what buttons to push, because that animal will react to it.

    • @Locke350
      @Locke350 5 лет назад +2

      Roger Dinhelm Unfortunately, guys have to learn tricks and cheat codes JUST to get the attention of girls (#notall).

    • @milxasap7412
      @milxasap7412 5 лет назад +2

      @@rogerdinhelm4671 one of the best comments in a long time :)

    • @apolo32984
      @apolo32984 5 лет назад +3

      No sexist at all. He is educated.

    • @mscir
      @mscir 4 года назад +1

      @Roger Dinhelm That's not true for me at all, John Gray's books, "Getting To I Do" by a woman PhD, studying the differences in communication style, biology, and psychology, all of this has been very helpful for me and resulted in much less unnecessary drama and fighting.

  • @crackerjack4u
    @crackerjack4u 4 года назад +6

    Good video. I'm a female, and do question the part about approaching a woman somewhere that is there alone. My husband passed away, all my female friends are married, and don't like to go to clubs and places like that, all my other friends are single, but are males- lol it's kind of hard to get someone you might be interested in to approach you when you're sitting at the table with a male friend. So often times I will go out alone because I like to dance, and would love to meet someone to get to know, and spend time with. So, yeah, scope out the surroundings to make sure her date isn't going to walk up on you trying to hit on his gal, but also be aware there are other reasons why a woman may be out somewhere by herself, and don't hesitate to walk up, and say hi.

  • @kitkat9032
    @kitkat9032 4 года назад +10

    I appreciate all of his tips, they are very thoughtful and considerate for sure, but I gotta throw a curve ball at ya. None of these things will really matter if the chemistry is right. A gentleman once approached me as I was almost to the lady's room door, I stopped and talked to him anyway because I recognize how much courage it takes to approach women these days and I was impressed by his directness and he had a nice smile. We've been married for almost 10 years now.

  • @jeanpaulfelix4095
    @jeanpaulfelix4095 3 года назад +5

    i cold approached 5 chicks at a table once. I am an introvert so this was a big deal at the time. After about 10 mins I said nice to meet you all and went back to the bar. 4 of these girls went home after a while and 1 came to me and gave me her number. Theres your odds in one interaction.

  • @supremelummox6342
    @supremelummox6342 7 лет назад +31

    It's funny how he creepy-smiles at the end of the sentences.

  • @angelicaporro4060
    @angelicaporro4060 4 года назад +3

    just wanted to affirm and say that I think this is pretty good advice from my perspective

  • @donodhis8453
    @donodhis8453 7 лет назад +24

    I like how he's funny and interesting and engaging. keep up bro.

  • @joep6017
    @joep6017 4 года назад +2

    This first part is definitely a good insight for me; not saying this is a breakthrough... one step at a time, please.

  • @linussaurian4000
    @linussaurian4000 5 лет назад +3

    Great content and thanks for the video. Learnt a lot from you. Thanks

  • @nothingmuch44
    @nothingmuch44 5 лет назад +6

    Girls where I live in Germany always looks moody and not approachable.

    • @444mviews9
      @444mviews9 5 лет назад +1

      Only women who arent shy are pretty women

  • @johnloa2009
    @johnloa2009 5 лет назад +22

    hes a White model-looking guy giving us dating tips. MOST OF US ARE NOT WHITE MODEL-LOOKING GUYS !

    • @biffii5568
      @biffii5568 5 лет назад +8

      Model🤔 really?

    • @Lorenzo83579
      @Lorenzo83579 5 лет назад +8

      But anybody can hit the gym. Get a good haircut. Buy clothes that fit well.

    • @dom3225
      @dom3225 5 лет назад +3

      @@Lorenzo83579 if you ugly you ugly even with a nice body. You need a good face, and be somewhat tall and have a nice body and dress well and on and on. So it's not that simple when you have other things to deal with in life.

    • @damienbell7412
      @damienbell7412 5 лет назад +3

      Dom Benini
      I agree. No matter how much of a nice body you have, first thing women notice is your face. Fact.

    • @mashamitchell9574
      @mashamitchell9574 5 лет назад +2

      Model where?

  • @mscir
    @mscir 4 года назад +1

    Great video, thanks.

  • @sniper11n.d.34
    @sniper11n.d.34 7 лет назад +8

    How To Tell If She's Approachable? Be there it's not rocket science. You are different than any other guy that ever talk to her. Believe it and do it.

    • @SchoolOfAttraction
      @SchoolOfAttraction  7 лет назад +11

      Yeah man, so much depends on just believing in yourself and taking the plunge! So many great guys out there selling themselves short..

    • @sniper11n.d.34
      @sniper11n.d.34 7 лет назад +5

      It's all in our head and us men should realise that.

  • @sniper11n.d.34
    @sniper11n.d.34 7 лет назад +3

    Good video.

  • @aronhighgrove4100
    @aronhighgrove4100 4 года назад +1

    Good presentation. Tone of voice is a bit too loud. I feel you might be overcompensating trying to be more extroverted.

  • @hugevibez
    @hugevibez 7 лет назад +4

    waddup with that brace boii

    • @phillipperry7224
      @phillipperry7224 5 лет назад

      Dion Suurmond Man spills his guts on how to improve on approaching a woman and your only concern is the ice. Love it 😂

  • @hut375
    @hut375 2 года назад

    Such a high pitched voice for a man, not sounding very masculine. How attractive would that be to feminine woman ? Aside from that the content is quite interesting.

    • @SchoolOfAttraction
      @SchoolOfAttraction  2 года назад

      And oddly here I am with more than one man's fair share of success ;) But actually jokes aside, my voice isn't particularly high pitched - if you lookat my other videos you'll see - It's just that I'm having to shout a bit in this particular room to ensure everyone can hear me and my voice was sore that particular day.

  • @whynot3052
    @whynot3052 7 лет назад +2

    SchoolOfAttraction hi in the russia its very interesting

  • @ECO473
    @ECO473 5 лет назад +6

    Just assume she's not approachable. It will save you a lot of useless aggravation.

    • @freddytheplatypus826
      @freddytheplatypus826 5 лет назад +5

      easy answer for the do nothing guy. hows your aggravation free life going with no women?

  • @loredelamore
    @loredelamore 7 лет назад +4

    Go MGTOW guys, it is no longer worth it to date.

    • @RobertTwiss51
      @RobertTwiss51 5 лет назад +12

      Mmm, I think this is not the place where many will agree with you. Of course one should avoid toxic feminists like the pest they are, but fortunately, there still are many loving, warmhearted, sexy women out there. I think you're cheating yourself of the utmost bliss if you avoid them and make love with a rubber doll instead ;-)

    • @JonJon-bx1ww
      @JonJon-bx1ww 5 лет назад +4

      @@RobertTwiss51 Except for the fact MGTOW doesn't mean you are celibate. It can also mean you just don't want to be tied down. Pick up is going to get you rejected and after a while, you are going to go your own way, that doesn't mean you are bitter toward women, or can't eventually find a quality woman, this is actually a misconception about MGTOW. I think the majority of single men would actually side with Loredlamor, but I agree with your toxic feminists line 100%.

    • @biffii5568
      @biffii5568 5 лет назад +6

      Seems very incel Turned , now pretending to be a "Voncel". Guys who were scorn and rejected over and over, now rationalizing their cog-dissonance by forming a community.