Just to add to the discussion: sometimes men won’t approach you because he simply ISN’T interested. That can be because he is already taken (in love), because he isn’t interested in women or he just isn’t into you (also, not because a man looks mean he’s interested). Doesn’t matter what the reason is, if you don’t get the attention of the man you want, move on, there are plenty of guys out there than could be interested in you.
As someone who has never been appr0ached and is trying to get used to the idea that m3n simply don't find me attract!ve, no matter what I do, I agree. If more wom3n would just understand this, they would be much happier.
@@anyamiranda9452 If a woman don't get approached at all , there might be some reason , maybe she's too intimidating, maybe she's shy/introvert or too high maintenance etc. If she's not interested in dating at all , its fine. But if she is and doesn't get approached AT ALL, she needs to be aware and make the necessary upgrade. ❤️ And every woman is pretty , it all depends on grooming, posture, presentation and the inner beauty. With time and constant effort , every woman can reach that level of beauty.
@Sukanya Sona Thank you for this lovely reply 😊 the only intimid@t!ng th!ng about me could be my height (which is very frustr@t!ng, since I don't even car3 that much about m3n's). I already do everything you mentioned, but still no results. All the girls and wom3n in my life admire my beauty, yet m3n treat me as if I'm invisibl3. About the h!gh ma!ntenance thing, why would this be b@d? I really am h!gh ma!ntenance - good-quality makeup, grooming services and clothes are nowhere near ch3ap.
@@anyamiranda9452 you might have to change the environment. Maybe it’s a good thing you’re not be approached right now because your environment is filled with dusties. I’m just speculating though.
@@rachelbegmusic But how would you “upgrade” yourself if you’re an introvert? That’s a personality which you cannot change. The other woman’s comment that you replied to perfectly describes me too. I NEVER get approached no matter how open, soft or anything of these tips mentioned in this video (which I have applied for years now) have never worked in my favor. And I’m not ugly at all. In fact I’ve been told by many men (who have gotten to know me strictly via online dating) how attractive and beautiful I am. Sadly online dating has been the ONLY avenue that I’ve ever had success with in terms of a man approaching me, if I can call it that.
Men always tell me they were afraid to approach me when we finally meet. Every....single...man🤣 Two nights ago at the gym another guy came up to me and said, “excuse me ma’am, my name is Derrick. I’ve spent an entire year thinking about what to say to you. I’ve seen you at this gym for a year and sometimes you’re here and sometimes you’re not. The people at the front desk said you don’t live here so since you’re here now, I have no choice but to tell you I think you are very beautiful and if you will allow me to take you to dinner, it would be my honor.” It hurt my feelings that he waited an entire year. It actually hurts my feelings because every man I’ve met said they have waited and calculated the “right time” to say, “hello.” I know I’m approachable because women/girls/children approach me daily and start a conversation so idk why men are nervous or have to “calculate” to approach.
That happened to me.... 40 years ago, so it must be a thing with men. Here we are, all alone and trying to have perfect hair and makeup and it has the wrong effect :(
But at the same time I've found that the most masculine men are upfront about their interest in you. As long as they're not vulgar or invasive about it, there's nothing more attractive than a man who's not too insecure or passive to be honest with you.
A conceited, hateful, boasting and selfish isn't want anyone wants in a partner. Confidence, positive, being quiet when you should be, and caring it is what attracts a partner. I'm REALLY glad that you address this and more Lisa.
Soooooo true, when I was dating, I may not have been the best-dressed in the room, the most beautiful but I WAS fun and had a light energy and laughed a lot and no matter what, I always found that men gravitated towards this rather than the women that were bitchier or 'sour faced' as you would put it lol!
Lisa, I've began watching your videos about a year ago and I wanted to let you know that you have upgraded your feminine aura. The energy that exudes you is in the air. I can feel and understand everything perfectly. Thank you for putting in a lot of work into your videos the editing, the subtle background music, video clips/pictures. It takes a long time and a lot of effort to make one video and in addition the idea and soft words you put in to this to convey your message. I'm absolutely in love with your channel! Thank you Lisa ❤❤
I am quite shy and I think that I come across as serious and/or awkward. I would love some tips on how to improve my body language and possibly use my shyness to my advantage. I am 40, recently divorced and completely out of practice with dating! Your channel is a wonderful discovery!
When you are harassed in one way or another by mean people it’s hard not to behave very coldly and awkwardly to everyone else even if you are trying not too. So spending time away from people who are being controlling and negative is very important if I want to go out and be in my positive energy. I’m always learning how to limit my interactions with negative or bad people and also fill my time with self care and the things ai have to get done so that I no longer am very much available for that.
I’m so glad I already do half of the points you made because it’s just confirmation I’m doing something right, love you Lisa you have taught me so much 💗💗
6.55 thank you for mentioning this. Honestly I'm getting a bit tired of the rhetoric of some women in the feminine and high value community. Some of them start behaving cocky and pretty arrogant and judgmental especially in regards to more masculine women or third wave feminists. A true lady would never nor say that nor even think like this. If you do, than being elegant is just a facade and your true colours will show pretty soon. The essence of femininity is freedom, caring, nurturing. You cannot possibly do that if you are this judgmental.
I totally agree with appearing softer and smiling more. A lot of men get very nervous when they approach a woman they really like. A lot of times, if they will sense that she appears overly tough, mean and conceited, they will not even take a chance
Wonderful tips!👌 In regards to meeting men in real life versus on dating apps, all I can say is quality over quantity. While it’s true that there is plenty of fish in the sea, what good is a fish that you cannot eat? 😉😂 Seriously, I’m speaking from experience, the better you know yourself and what you want, the harder it is to meet a person who shares your values and with whom you connect on every level. Discouraging? Yes…What can you do? Just keep flowing, not forcing. 🌹❤️
I like your advice. All my friends say I'm unapproachable and guarded, and I am. I'm very tough. I don't like strangers approaching me, and I hate attention from men from I don't know, and I haven't vetted. It is extremely hard for me to flirt and be "approachable " to men I don't know. But I enjoyed your video.
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Great material and advice as always! I’m excited to test everything you advise once gatherings are allowed. I would say this are also very helpful tips for social anxiety issues (my case) I’ve noticed people try to get close to me, but I just don’t know how to handle attention and push people away.
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I love learning from you. I love your glamour, elegance, soft sweet voice, and excitement about life! You always lift me up and increase my self improvement motivation! 💝💖💗 Thank you.
Love your channel. I'm a gay man who is the perfect mix of masculine and feminine energy. Truth be told,if a man is to afraid to talk to you and make the first move,he isn't the man for you ladies.
I am not gonna lie, when I unveiled a part of me that was feminine, I had creeps around me and I felt uncomfortable and was taken advantage of and was seen as inferior. I think that is why I prefer to cover up my femininity.
Ive had this experience also. Some men take femininity as a gesture you are submitting to them and they take advantage and even touch you inappropriately. Its difficult to be too feminine in todays society with all the incels, old perverts and general entitled creeps walking around.
Wow this explains soooonmuch. Men never approach me and then when I meet them they say they were scared to approach me. It’s because I have a super serious face all the time and don’t make eye contact!
My personal experience is that i get approached more when i act all shy and defenseless and cute lol it’s probably bc I’m the opposite like i may look very feminine but my behavior and conversation are very masculine and mature, so trying to act the opposite way balances it out i guess
I find I always attract. But I exude openness and warmth. They also see me acknowledging everyone over the night, then feel very comfortable approaching. If you are standoff they won't do it. I get approached every time I go out, without clock work.
Lisa😍 You're the sister I never had! Can you please make a video of how to be feminine as an introverted woman. I appreciate all of your content pretty lady.
Just my 2 cents as a man. Liza's point on attitude is so important. Don't come me as a man with a "boss babe" attitude. It's a instant turn of for me. It's import for man to have a feminine women around who is an addition to a man's life. We don't want a boss in our lives, a high status man can do that himself. It's oké for you to be open for us and lead you we want to take care of you and protect you. Also the risk for approaching you as a man is extremely risky because of the over the top feminist movement. There has become a great stigma on this. And made it less likely. What is a shame, but In the right environment. It will happen! Again, as I say in my comments for liza and a her feminine viewers. Thank you! Your feminine ways have huge impact in this world.
Lisa you have the ideas 💡 & portray the definition of femininity! My question for you is, have you done a video on feminine & elegant hand gestures like that of those in your videos?
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A funny thing, though it was many years ago. I had very masochistic and abusive parents and was kind of gawky as a teen, though I loved clothes and fashion- so I had zero self esteem. About ten years after I left school a man I had gone to school with told me that they all wanted to know me but were intimidated. So, for you young women, watch you don't get into a cycle where boys don't talk to you so you try harder to be 'perfect' and it has the wrong effect.
It's been very difficult for everyone the last few years, hard to stay optimistic. It's awesome you are reflecting on that and I wish you more happiness starting now 💛
Maybe men simply don't like overdone anything, so too much makeup, overdone exaggerated clothing, an artificial air when speaking - I don't think this appeals to today's man.
It doesn't. This lady in the video looks too high maintenance and a pain in the ass to keep. She looks like she's trying to attract some old, wealthy man. Is she even good in bed because it looks like missionary is all they're getting. RIP to the simp who bags this one.
Mais le resting b*tch face c'est pas volontaire il me semble, Lisa ! Il y a eu une étude à ce sujet et c'est apparement dû à la structure de notre visage, le resting b*tch face n'a rien avoir avec nos émotions Je pense que tu voulais parler des personnes qui montre du dédain (les snobs) qui eux, rejettent leur environnement en se basant sur ce qu'ils ressentent
Lisa, beautifullest darling of us all 💖 thank you so much for your valuable content! I could definitely use my smize much more and in general smile much more. It is an old pattern of protection. Thanks for this great reminder that the simple things often have the highest impact
When I was young cute attractive sweet looking every guy was interested and approached 90% who were not in relationships approached me, so, look like a pretty flower and you’ll get them all if not have to have different ways to get men etc. I’m older and not so attractive now and no guys approach now like that. Even still No guy that approached me no matter how good looking or how many things we have in common did I ever see myself marrying which is why I’m still single I find most men annoying into sports, drinking hard to find a good guy I also used to hang around with mostly men I had a lot of male friendships I don’t do that anymore because obviously they’re all married now and I have respect for the women so I don’t make friendships with married men but they used to basically check out women all the time she’s hot she’s fit unfortunately with men it’s all about how we look that’s the initial thing and then you need to be high value woman to maintain his attraction they are the fundamentals
I could work on being more approachable. I find that sometimes social anxiety causes me to clam up and reserve my shell in public. This can give people the wrong impression. I really am a sweet, loving person. I just need to exude that positivity more.
Thanks for ur personal reply to me Lisa, that ladies of all ages can follow ur awesome tips😊, n that we are the Prize always, ur advice made not just my day, but my entire year! ❤😘, You are truly amazing 🌟💃💯 charming, n changing so many lives, sending lots of love from Mumbai❤❤
I adore Marilyn but her lacking boundaries lead people to control her, that's what scare me the most, I don't think I can take her as an example unfortunately
@@objetcache yeah exactly. She's a great fashion and beauty icon but not the greatest example in terms of boundaries, self respect and emotional stability. She was miserable most of her life.
Wonderful video again! 💕 I have a very stupid thing I’m kind of insecure about. I myself have very dark eyes, I sometimes wear green contact lenses and I noticed I get stared at/approached by men way more often. Usually one of their first phrases are “your eyes caught my attention” naturally this makes me feel confident but insecure at the same time, since its not an actual feature of mine. Whenever I go out without lenses I feel less beautiful, I regret purchasing contacts.. :(
Dark eyes are extremely seductive and mysterious! Try to emphasize them with some make up, eye shadow or eye liner. Personally I have dark eyes and this is THE ultimate thing that hypnotise men. They say I have the most beautiful and intense hypnotic eye contact they have ever seen. Dark eyes are beautiful and intense, you do not need to change your eyes whatsoever on the contrary be proud of it! 😘
@Lisa Hart I do always put on eye makeup, I especially love how the eyeliner in my inner corner makes them appear catlike. Thank you for your kind words, I’ll throw those contacts away ☺️
I'm not approached because I'm not a girly girl. I hardly wear make-up, so I'm not as attractive to men when it comes to being feminine. BUT when I dress up for special occasions I do the dang thang! I look Good!
These are great tips. I do some already but it's nice to have things to work on. Also, I love this dress. We have similar skin tones so I use you as a barometer for certain colors🙂👗💄.
Yet the problem is definitely your body language. You know communication is only 6% verbal, 94% non verbal. I don't know how you look but I have seen pretty average but magnetic women getting approached and drop dead gorgeous but off women who only get half of the attention. You probably hold a set of beliefs that make you subconsciously want to protect yourself from the opposite sex. I hope I'm not being inappropriate, just giving you some clues :)
@Elena Valentina E pe naiba limbajul corpului 🙃 eu am stat in toate posturile si degeaba. Parca efectiv n-as exista pentru baieti/barbati. La ce standarde s-au trezit sa isi creeze, daca n-ai 90-60-90 nici nu te baga in seama.
@Elena Valentina "the problem is *definitely* your body language" "I hope I'm not being inappropriate, just giving you some clues" You *are* being inappr0priate to make such sure statements when you don't know my situation. They ign0red me just as much even when I was 10000000% open to them (which I was for quite a long time). Save me with the eNeRgY bu*lcr@p. I know it's just because I'm pretty tall and don't have what 99% of m3n would consider an attract!ve b0dy. If you're Romanian, you should know as well as me (a fellow Eastern European) how 0bs3ss3d m3n are with wom3n being as short and th!n as possible. So glad I don't want a family of my own, so I don't have to dedicate my lif3 to the impossible missi0n of pl3as!ng them.
I adore ALL of your videos, Lisa!! Thank you so much for sharing your incredible knowledge on romance...and masculine & feminine magnetism!! 💃🕺 I wanted to run this by you.... I don't have a naturally smiley face. Instead, I have more of a resting face. I used to feel like I needed to force a smile, but it never felt natural. Interestingly, my husband of 15 years who truly adores me, has told me numerous times that he loves that I don't smile a lot and has always been magnetized to women who look more serious. Bubbly women turn him off. 🤷♀️ That seems unusual, but I've noticed some men that prefer less smiley women often tend to be more outgoing and bubbly themselves. That is how my husband is. 😄 Maybe it's something to do with opposites attracting (?) I just thought I'd mention that to you and am curious what your thoughts might be. Thank you again for your amazing channel!! God bless you! ❤ Numbers 6:24-26
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Great content, Miss. Lisa! I'm glad you mentioned the bit about the phone; I always find it so off-putting when I see adults with their faces buried in their phones, specifically in public. What is the footage at 10:03, the lady in red is stunning! Also, where are your gorgeous earrings from... Looking elegant as always❤️
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Are you willing to financ!ally prov!de for wom3n and get over your own saf3ty to prot3ct them if they are in dang3r? If your answer is "no" to any of these, you are definitely *not* the kind of strong and masculine m@n that wom3n should go for. And again, the *real* sTrOnG aNd mAsCuLiNe m3n don't spend their time on femininity channels.
What if you meet a man and he makes a sexist or racist comment. Should you keep it feminine and elegant then? I flipped-out on the man. I could not keep in elegant. Of course I was blamed for over reacting.
You could make a comment calmly (« don’t speak to me like this ») and leave the scene. Or even say nothing - you can’t change these guys. Simply leave, and don’t waste your energy on unevolved people, they are not worth it.
Lisa, I’m new to your channel and I absolutely adore you…😘. I do have one question for you, once I realize red flags and things that I don’t like about my suitor, should I ditch him right away? Thanks so much for sharing…💋
Great video! Please could you recommend some movies such as the clips shown where the women exude that femininity. I haven’t watched many old films, thanks
the season 1 of singles inferno in netflix show that jia show it she show it by her actions and gesture just like in this video that explain ...3 guys fall for her and court her ...
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I was recently at a Greek festival- Oh my, the outrageous yet respectful compliments! A woman I was working with advised me to not take it seriously and just enjoy feeling special. As an interesting note, I was also approached several times after that when just going about my day, residual energy I suppose :)
It's so easy to get us. All women have to do is make eye contact and smile at men they're interested in. Literally all you have to do is walk around with a smile on your face and exude openness and friendliness and guys will approach. It seems like only women who are 45+ know how to do this
@@afrofaeriesIf you're looking directly at guys and smiling at them while you're out and they see you doing this and still don't approach, either they have a girlfriend, are married, are homosexual or they're really not confident, in which case you don't want them. If a woman gives a guy an obvious green light and he still won't shoot his shot that probably means there's something wrong with him.
@@JackDanglessmiling is dangerous, most men think they can do everything they want if a womzn smile. Even my brothers told me that. And, a shy man is a turn off. A strong masculine man will approach a woman even if she looks intimidating, busy or scared to be seen. Strong men are unstoppable. Your advices are from shy guys perspective.
@Ellie-i8c If a man approaches a woman who isn't smiling and instead looks angry, upset looking or has a scared uncomfortable look on her face it is very likely she does not want to be bothered. If a woman is making that type of face she either doesn't want to be bothered or she could be very rude and mean or humiliating toward a man who approaches her. No man with a shred of dignity wants to deal with that from women. We're not here to be publicly disrespected by women. If a man continues to talk to a woman when she looks uncomfortable, angry or scared of him then he looks like he is harassing and upsetting her, which is a disgusting thing to do to women. So realistically men should really never approach women who aren't smiling or pleasant looking.
I have the problem that if i look at a guy in the eyes and he isnt ugly i will blush really hard (people have pointed it out). So i walk and domt look at them but when i have they are a,ways staring and sometimes smiling
I attract a lot of men and woman ❤for the men though sometimes I find attraction , I always attract who I want but I am like woah sometimes too many come around at one time. So how do I live a high value life and stay high value while interacting. Im tired of running away and scream like a little girl, over and over now so I feel like.. wait, am I missing something lol …but I do believe also sometimes people just want to be friends in this magnificent life. I don’t want to attract men in a sexual way because I heard they don’t think that’s a friend type. I’m a dream girl but I want to be a friend type too while I figure out what I really want.
Just to add to the discussion: sometimes men won’t approach you because he simply ISN’T interested. That can be because he is already taken (in love), because he isn’t interested in women or he just isn’t into you (also, not because a man looks mean he’s interested). Doesn’t matter what the reason is, if you don’t get the attention of the man you want, move on, there are plenty of guys out there than could be interested in you.
As someone who has never been appr0ached and is trying to get used to the idea that m3n simply don't find me attract!ve, no matter what I do, I agree. If more wom3n would just understand this, they would be much happier.
@@anyamiranda9452 If a woman don't get approached at all , there might be some reason , maybe she's too intimidating, maybe she's shy/introvert or too high maintenance etc. If she's not interested in dating at all , its fine. But if she is and doesn't get approached AT ALL, she needs to be aware and make the necessary upgrade. ❤️ And every woman is pretty , it all depends on grooming, posture, presentation and the inner beauty. With time and constant effort , every woman can reach that level of beauty.
@Sukanya Sona Thank you for this lovely reply 😊 the only intimid@t!ng th!ng about me could be my height (which is very frustr@t!ng, since I don't even car3 that much about m3n's). I already do everything you mentioned, but still no results. All the girls and wom3n in my life admire my beauty, yet m3n treat me as if I'm invisibl3. About the h!gh ma!ntenance thing, why would this be b@d? I really am h!gh ma!ntenance - good-quality makeup, grooming services and clothes are nowhere near ch3ap.
@@anyamiranda9452 you might have to change the environment. Maybe it’s a good thing you’re not be approached right now because your environment is filled with dusties. I’m just speculating though.
@@rachelbegmusic But how would you “upgrade” yourself if you’re an introvert? That’s a personality which you cannot change. The other woman’s comment that you replied to perfectly describes me too. I NEVER get approached no matter how open, soft or anything of these tips mentioned in this video (which I have applied for years now) have never worked in my favor. And I’m not ugly at all. In fact I’ve been told by many men (who have gotten to know me strictly via online dating) how attractive and beautiful I am. Sadly online dating has been the ONLY avenue that I’ve ever had success with in terms of a man approaching me, if I can call it that.
Men always tell me they were afraid to approach me when we finally meet. Every....single...man🤣 Two nights ago at the gym another guy came up to me and said, “excuse me ma’am, my name is Derrick. I’ve spent an entire year thinking about what to say to you. I’ve seen you at this gym for a year and sometimes you’re here and sometimes you’re not. The people at the front desk said you don’t live here so since you’re here now, I have no choice but to tell you I think you are very beautiful and if you will allow me to take you to dinner, it would be my honor.” It hurt my feelings that he waited an entire year. It actually hurts my feelings because every man I’ve met said they have waited and calculated the “right time” to say, “hello.” I know I’m approachable because women/girls/children approach me daily and start a conversation so idk why men are nervous or have to “calculate” to approach.
that’s still a really sweet compliment 😭
That is so adorable!
Because you can ruin their lives with one lie, and they know it.
@@emilycoley9037 Jealous
That happened to me.... 40 years ago, so it must be a thing with men. Here we are, all alone and trying to have perfect hair and makeup and it has the wrong effect :(
Very often, rough guys are more direct. That's so annoying! Fine men seem to be more shy and wait and wait before asking.
True! Kind, generous men are more prudent and polite.
This is where the art of dropping a handkerchief (so to speak) comes in. Drop a hint, then leave them alone.
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But at the same time I've found that the most masculine men are upfront about their interest in you. As long as they're not vulgar or invasive about it, there's nothing more attractive than a man who's not too insecure or passive to be honest with you.
@@ameliam1957 Yes. It should be something in the middle!
A conceited, hateful, boasting and selfish isn't want anyone wants in a partner.
Confidence, positive, being quiet when you should be, and caring it is what attracts a partner.
I'm REALLY glad that you address this and more Lisa.
Soooooo true, when I was dating, I may not have been the best-dressed in the room, the most beautiful but I WAS fun and had a light energy and laughed a lot and no matter what, I always found that men gravitated towards this rather than the women that were bitchier or 'sour faced' as you would put it lol!
Lisa, I've began watching your videos about a year ago and I wanted to let you know that you have upgraded your feminine aura. The energy that exudes you is in the air. I can feel and understand everything perfectly. Thank you for putting in a lot of work into your videos the editing, the subtle background music, video clips/pictures. It takes a long time and a lot of effort to make one video and in addition the idea and soft words you put in to this to convey your message. I'm absolutely in love with your channel!
Thank you Lisa ❤❤
Omg thank you so much it truly makes my heart melt to hear this ❤️ it is such a blessing to have such wonderful ladies like you as subscribers 🥰
I am quite shy and I think that I come across as serious and/or awkward. I would love some tips on how to improve my body language and possibly use my shyness to my advantage. I am 40, recently divorced and completely out of practice with dating! Your channel is a wonderful discovery!
When you are harassed in one way or another by mean people it’s hard not to behave very coldly and awkwardly to everyone else even if you are trying not too. So spending time away from people who are being controlling and negative is very important if I want to go out and be in my positive energy. I’m always learning how to limit my interactions with negative or bad people and also fill my time with self care and the things ai have to get done so that I no longer am very much available for that.
I fully agree
I’m so glad I already do half of the points you made because it’s just confirmation I’m doing something right, love you Lisa you have taught me so much 💗💗
6.55 thank you for mentioning this. Honestly I'm getting a bit tired of the rhetoric of some women in the feminine and high value community. Some of them start behaving cocky and pretty arrogant and judgmental especially in regards to more masculine women or third wave feminists. A true lady would never nor say that nor even think like this.
If you do, than being elegant is just a facade and your true colours will show pretty soon.
The essence of femininity is freedom, caring, nurturing. You cannot possibly do that if you are this judgmental.
this is why I LOVE this channel over all the other femininity channels.
I totally agree with appearing softer and smiling more. A lot of men get very nervous when they approach a woman they really like. A lot of times, if they will sense that she appears overly tough, mean and conceited, they will not even take a chance
Wonderful tips!👌 In regards to meeting men in real life versus on dating apps, all I can say is quality over quantity. While it’s true that there is plenty of fish in the sea, what good is a fish that you cannot eat? 😉😂 Seriously, I’m speaking from experience, the better you know yourself and what you want, the harder it is to meet a person who shares your values and with whom you connect on every level. Discouraging? Yes…What can you do? Just keep flowing, not forcing. 🌹❤️
I like your advice. All my friends say I'm unapproachable and guarded, and I am. I'm very tough. I don't like strangers approaching me, and I hate attention from men from I don't know, and I haven't vetted. It is extremely hard for me to flirt and be "approachable " to men I don't know. But I enjoyed your video.
Lisa these dresses they never stop coming! I am in love, it's so hard to find these type of dresses to buy. ❤❤❤
I have designated you as my go to advisor for femininity and flirting! I've been clueless for over 30 years. You are so knowledgeable and kind.
Since ur married i would love to see u do a video on keeping yourself vibrant and feminine during marriage
She's married?
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Lisa im so thankful to you that nowadays i started acting in a more feminine way and i feel amazing, earlier i works on my masculine energy
Great material and advice as always!
I’m excited to test everything you advise once gatherings are allowed.
I would say this are also very helpful tips for social anxiety issues (my case) I’ve noticed people try to get close to me, but I just don’t know how to handle attention and push people away.
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this is exactly what my problem is😂 ppl say they don’t approach me because i look good lmfaoo
My first impression of you was that you were approachable and then you started to talk about that. So you managed to create that feeling perfectly :)
I love learning from you. I love your glamour, elegance, soft sweet voice, and excitement about life! You always lift me up and increase my self improvement motivation! 💝💖💗 Thank you.
Love your channel. I'm a gay man who is the perfect mix of masculine and feminine energy. Truth be told,if a man is to afraid to talk to you and make the first move,he isn't the man for you ladies.
This is a stupid comment.
No man is obligated to approach a woman dude.
I am not gonna lie, when I unveiled a part of me that was feminine, I had creeps around me and I felt uncomfortable and was taken advantage of and was seen as inferior. I think that is why I prefer to cover up my femininity.
Ive had this experience also. Some men take femininity as a gesture you are submitting to them and they take advantage and even touch you inappropriately. Its difficult to be too feminine in todays society with all the incels, old perverts and general entitled creeps walking around.
Wow this explains soooonmuch. Men never approach me and then when I meet them they say they were scared to approach me. It’s because I have a super serious face all the time and don’t make eye contact!
My personal experience is that i get approached more when i act all shy and defenseless and cute lol it’s probably bc I’m the opposite like i may look very feminine but my behavior and conversation are very masculine and mature, so trying to act the opposite way balances it out i guess
I'm open to being approached now 🥰 thank you for your help, I appreciate it!
Omg! I was just binge watching your other videos and now you uploaded a new one 🎉🎉 love your videos Lisa ❤️🌹
Thank you love you ❤❤
I find I always attract. But I exude openness and warmth. They also see me acknowledging everyone over the night, then feel very comfortable approaching. If you are standoff they won't do it. I get approached every time I go out, without clock work.
Lisa😍 You're the sister I never had! Can you please make a video of how to be feminine as an introverted woman. I appreciate all of your content pretty lady.
Just my 2 cents as a man.
Liza's point on attitude is so important. Don't come me as a man with a "boss babe" attitude. It's a instant turn of for me. It's import for man to have a feminine women around who is an addition to a man's life. We don't want a boss in our lives, a high status man can do that himself. It's oké for you to be open for us and lead you we want to take care of you and protect you.
Also the risk for approaching you as a man is extremely risky because of the over the top feminist movement. There has become a great stigma on this. And made it less likely. What is a shame, but In the right environment. It will happen!
Again, as I say in my comments for liza and a her feminine viewers. Thank you! Your feminine ways have huge impact in this world.
Who cares about u. 😂
You're such a sweetheart 💓 very good advice by the way, everythings begins by leveling up our aura and vibration
Thank you 💕 I agree with you ✨
Lisa you have the ideas 💡 & portray the definition of femininity! My question for you is, have you done a video on feminine & elegant hand gestures like that of those in your videos?
Thank you Lisa ❤️ Super helpful tips, the energy you send is super important and getting it right will change the game 😉
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Luv u so much sis-everytime I watch u I tend to discover a new aspect of my femininity-thanks so much girlie xx
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A funny thing, though it was many years ago. I had very masochistic and abusive parents and was kind of gawky as a teen, though I loved clothes and fashion- so I had zero self esteem. About ten years after I left school a man I had gone to school with told me that they all wanted to know me but were intimidated. So, for you young women, watch you don't get into a cycle where boys don't talk to you so you try harder to be 'perfect' and it has the wrong effect.
Awsome like always😍
I guess i smile much less than before and i find it hard to be optimist lately , i should work on that
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Thank you beautiful I hope I make you smile with my videos 😘🥰
It's been very difficult for everyone the last few years, hard to stay optimistic. It's awesome you are reflecting on that and I wish you more happiness starting now 💛
Valuable tips! Thank you, Lisa! Have a beautiful week!
Been binging on your videos and I really appreciate what you're doing sis. Keep going ❤love and light. Thank you
Maybe men simply don't like overdone anything, so too much makeup, overdone exaggerated clothing, an artificial air when speaking - I don't think this appeals to today's man.
It doesn't. This lady in the video looks too high maintenance and a pain in the ass to keep. She looks like she's trying to attract some old, wealthy man. Is she even good in bed because it looks like missionary is all they're getting. RIP to the simp who bags this one.
Mais le resting b*tch face c'est pas volontaire il me semble, Lisa ! Il y a eu une étude à ce sujet et c'est apparement dû à la structure de notre visage, le resting b*tch face n'a rien avoir avec nos émotions
Je pense que tu voulais parler des personnes qui montre du dédain (les snobs) qui eux, rejettent leur environnement en se basant sur ce qu'ils ressentent
Lisa, beautifullest darling of us all 💖 thank you so much for your valuable content! I could definitely use my smize much more and in general smile much more. It is an old pattern of protection. Thanks for this great reminder that the simple things often have the highest impact
When I was young cute attractive sweet looking every guy was interested and approached 90% who were not in relationships approached me, so, look like a pretty flower and you’ll get them all if not have to have different ways to get men etc. I’m older and not so attractive now and no guys approach now like that. Even still No guy that approached me no matter how good looking or how many things we have in common did I ever see myself marrying which is why I’m still single I find most men annoying into sports, drinking hard to find a good guy
I also used to hang around with mostly men I had a lot of male friendships I don’t do that anymore because obviously they’re all married now and I have respect for the women so I don’t make friendships with married men but they used to basically check out women all the time she’s hot she’s fit unfortunately with men it’s all about how we look that’s the initial thing and then you need to be high value woman to maintain his attraction they are the fundamentals
My eyes is my BIGGEST arme de séduction ! I use it a lot and everytime it works !
I could work on being more approachable. I find that sometimes social anxiety causes me to clam up and reserve my shell in public. This can give people the wrong impression. I really am a sweet, loving person. I just need to exude that positivity more.
Thanks for ur personal reply to me Lisa, that ladies of all ages can follow ur awesome tips😊, n that we are the Prize always, ur advice made not just my day, but my entire year! ❤😘,
You are truly amazing 🌟💃💯 charming, n changing so many lives, sending lots of love from Mumbai❤❤
I use Marilyn Monroe as an example on how to behave
Me too 💗
Me too ♥️😜
Oh yes I love her she is fabulous ❤️
I adore Marilyn but her lacking boundaries lead people to control her, that's what scare me the most, I don't think I can take her as an example unfortunately
@@objetcache yeah exactly. She's a great fashion and beauty icon but not the greatest example in terms of boundaries, self respect and emotional stability. She was miserable most of her life.
Wonderful video again! 💕 I have a very stupid thing I’m kind of insecure about. I myself have very dark eyes, I sometimes wear green contact lenses and I noticed I get stared at/approached by men way more often. Usually one of their first phrases are “your eyes caught my attention” naturally this makes me feel confident but insecure at the same time, since its not an actual feature of mine. Whenever I go out without lenses I feel less beautiful, I regret purchasing contacts.. :(
Dark eyes are extremely seductive and mysterious! Try to emphasize them with some make up, eye shadow or eye liner. Personally I have dark eyes and this is THE ultimate thing that hypnotise men. They say I have the most beautiful and intense hypnotic eye contact they have ever seen. Dark eyes are beautiful and intense, you do not need to change your eyes whatsoever on the contrary be proud of it! 😘
@Lisa Hart I do always put on eye makeup, I especially love how the eyeliner in my inner corner makes them appear catlike. Thank you for your kind words, I’ll throw those contacts away ☺️
I'm not approached because I'm not a girly girl. I hardly wear make-up, so I'm not as attractive to men when it comes to being feminine. BUT when I dress up for special occasions I do the dang thang! I look Good!
Life and being a woman who loves being real and open and happiness it's who i am.
I love you Lisa im happy to be part of this community
Great video as usual, Lisa! Thanks for sharing 😉❤️
Thank you so much 🥰
These are great tips. I do some already but it's nice to have things to work on. Also, I love this dress. We have similar skin tones so I use you as a barometer for certain colors🙂👗💄.
Sidenote: Lisa you body is GORGEOUS!!!
Very inspiring video, thank you, Lisa. That video on seducting with your eyes would be wonderful…🥰
Your so right! I need to adopt everything in this video that you talked about.
Lisa when are you gonna do a video break down about Shakira🥰
As much as I like you, all these tips are pretty basic things that I *always* do, yet *never* get approached.
Yet the problem is definitely your body language. You know communication is only 6% verbal, 94% non verbal. I don't know how you look but I have seen pretty average but magnetic women getting approached and drop dead gorgeous but off women who only get half of the attention.
You probably hold a set of beliefs that make you subconsciously want to protect yourself from the opposite sex. I hope I'm not being inappropriate, just giving you some clues :)
Where do you live? Maybe the men are just more shy in your area?
@I I *wish* they were. They are nowhere near shy. In fact, they feel ent!tled to everything.
@Elena Valentina E pe naiba limbajul corpului 🙃 eu am stat in toate posturile si degeaba. Parca efectiv n-as exista pentru baieti/barbati. La ce standarde s-au trezit sa isi creeze, daca n-ai 90-60-90 nici nu te baga in seama.
@Elena Valentina "the problem is *definitely* your body language"
"I hope I'm not being inappropriate, just giving you some clues"
You *are* being inappr0priate to make such sure statements when you don't know my situation. They ign0red me just as much even when I was 10000000% open to them (which I was for quite a long time). Save me with the eNeRgY bu*lcr@p. I know it's just because I'm pretty tall and don't have what 99% of m3n would consider an attract!ve b0dy. If you're Romanian, you should know as well as me (a fellow Eastern European) how 0bs3ss3d m3n are with wom3n being as short and th!n as possible. So glad I don't want a family of my own, so I don't have to dedicate my lif3 to the impossible missi0n of pl3as!ng them.
I adore ALL of your videos, Lisa!! Thank you so much for sharing your incredible knowledge on romance...and masculine & feminine magnetism!! 💃🕺
I wanted to run this by you....
I don't have a naturally smiley face. Instead, I have more of a resting face.
I used to feel like I needed to force a smile, but it never felt natural.
Interestingly, my husband of 15 years who truly adores me, has told me numerous times that he loves that I don't smile a lot and has always been magnetized to women who look more serious. Bubbly women turn him off. 🤷♀️
That seems unusual, but I've noticed some men that prefer less smiley women often tend to be more outgoing and bubbly themselves.
That is how my husband is. 😄
Maybe it's something to do with opposites attracting (?)
I just thought I'd mention that to you and am curious what your thoughts might be.
Thank you again for your amazing channel!! God bless you! ❤
Numbers 6:24-26
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Lisa, thank you for blessing us with your videos!! I was chasing my lover but I no longer do so.
Hey Lisa l love your content it’s so addictive 💕
I’m not attracting men anymore, but my younger sister attracts them so easily. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong…
Decenter men is the key.
Hi Lisa I’m binge watching your videos and I love your advice and style. I was wondering where your dress is from? 💕
I love it! Thanks hun!
Oh my! Perfectly on time! ♥️
I have been looking for advice on this exact topic, thank you so much!!💕💕💕😚
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you look stunning! thank you for your advice!
How to seduce with eye contact.. can't
wait❤
I needed this video. Thank you, Lisa❤
Don't mistake your blessings for curses
Thanks Lisa !!
your content is so helpful! 💜
Great content, Miss. Lisa! I'm glad you mentioned the bit about the phone; I always find it so off-putting when I see adults with their faces buried in their phones, specifically in public. What is the footage at 10:03, the lady in red is stunning! Also, where are your gorgeous earrings from... Looking elegant as always❤️
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@@damidoedres1885 we are all trying to level up here, i dont think anyone here is trying to attract their ex
I love your dress and your advice. ❤
Hi Lisa !! Love your videos. Can you give us some top recommendations of movies to watch like the clips in your videos? I love them sooo much
Dont be arogant, be pleasant, peaceful and be beautiful
And what do we get in return?
@@anyamiranda9452 strong masculine man
Strong masculine m3n don't watch this type of videos.
@@anyamiranda9452 so what are you saying? That im not strong and masculine?
Are you willing to financ!ally prov!de for wom3n and get over your own saf3ty to prot3ct them if they are in dang3r? If your answer is "no" to any of these, you are definitely *not* the kind of strong and masculine m@n that wom3n should go for. And again, the *real* sTrOnG aNd mAsCuLiNe m3n don't spend their time on femininity channels.
What if you meet a man and he makes a sexist or racist comment. Should you keep it feminine and elegant then? I flipped-out on the man. I could not keep in elegant. Of course I was blamed for over reacting.
You could make a comment calmly (« don’t speak to me like this ») and leave the scene. Or even say nothing - you can’t change these guys. Simply leave, and don’t waste your energy on unevolved people, they are not worth it.
Lisa, I’m new to your channel and I absolutely adore you…😘. I do have one question for you, once I realize red flags and things that I don’t like about my suitor, should I ditch him right away?
Thanks so much for sharing…💋
Great video! Please could you recommend some movies such as the clips shown where the women exude that femininity. I haven’t watched many old films, thanks
the season 1 of singles inferno in netflix show that jia show it she show it by her actions and gesture just like in this video that explain ...3 guys fall for her and court her ...
I can say that I can be quite guarded. I can’t help it :/
First step to ensuring men approach you: Don't live in the USA lol
I heard women approach men there. True?
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@@lavishlovergirl Yes 😭, but it depends where in the U.S.
Or in Eastern Europe 🙃
I was recently at a Greek festival- Oh my, the outrageous yet respectful compliments! A woman I was working with advised me to not take it seriously and just enjoy feeling special. As an interesting note, I was also approached several times after that when just going about my day, residual energy I suppose :)
I really like how this dress looks on you...
love from Jordan , you are so pretty !!! انتِ جميلة وانيقة 💗💗💗💗💗💗
Lovely video🌸! May I ask where your dress is from?
It's so easy to get us. All women have to do is make eye contact and smile at men they're interested in. Literally all you have to do is walk around with a smile on your face and exude openness and friendliness and guys will approach. It seems like only women who are 45+ know how to do this
I’m 19 and I do this + dress modestly and I’m still not approached 😭😭😭
Im 21 and same here
@@afrofaeriesIf you're looking directly at guys and smiling at them while you're out and they see you doing this and still don't approach, either they have a girlfriend, are married, are homosexual or they're really not confident, in which case you don't want them. If a woman gives a guy an obvious green light and he still won't shoot his shot that probably means there's something wrong with him.
@@JackDanglessmiling is dangerous, most men think they can do everything they want if a womzn smile. Even my brothers told me that.
And, a shy man is a turn off. A strong masculine man will approach a woman even if she looks intimidating, busy or scared to be seen. Strong men are unstoppable. Your advices are from shy guys perspective.
@Ellie-i8c If a man approaches a woman who isn't smiling and instead looks angry, upset looking or has a scared uncomfortable look on her face it is very likely she does not want to be bothered. If a woman is making that type of face she either doesn't want to be bothered or she could be very rude and mean or humiliating toward a man who approaches her. No man with a shred of dignity wants to deal with that from women. We're not here to be publicly disrespected by women. If a man continues to talk to a woman when she looks uncomfortable, angry or scared of him then he looks like he is harassing and upsetting her, which is a disgusting thing to do to women. So realistically men should really never approach women who aren't smiling or pleasant looking.
Is there any psychological tricks for attracting any man?Like looking through the left eye directly
Good advice
Você é linda, amei seus vídeos 🥰😘♥️
I don’t know how to make eye contact with men!!! Please in depth video of this
Love your fashion taste, Lisa.🌷Already follow you on Instagram.
Thank you for the amazing video lisa ♥️.
can you please make a video about how to seduce a men with our eyes ?
Thank you very much ! Oh yes I'm preparing that 😉❤
Me always on my phone because my anxieties be having the best of me I can't 😭
🏝🏝Lisa is a jewel🏝congrat🏝
personally i get approached very easily. i am pretty and i am very small (petite and skinny) which makes men be all protective over me
What movie is this at 9:03? You always have nice film clips in your videos it makes me curious to watch them 😀
What if I’m reading a book on my phone 🤣😂
I do look really young. I’ve had guys ask me if I was 17 or 18 years old even though I’m grown.
How do you get the attention of your sp? He used to do all the pursuing but he stopped once I made it clear I wanted a relationship.
I have the problem that if i look at a guy in the eyes and he isnt ugly i will blush really hard (people have pointed it out). So i walk and domt look at them but when i have they are a,ways staring and sometimes smiling
Some men they are very difficult
I attract a lot of men and woman ❤for the men though sometimes I find attraction , I always attract who I want but I am like woah sometimes too many come around at one time. So how do I live a high value life and stay high value while interacting. Im tired of running away and scream like a little girl, over and over now so I feel like.. wait, am I missing something lol …but I do believe also sometimes people just want to be friends in this magnificent life. I don’t want to attract men in a sexual way because I heard they don’t think that’s a friend type. I’m a dream girl but I want to be a friend type too while I figure out what I really want.
You should be in Hollywood 😁