Why I Stopped Drinking - Weight Loss, Mental Health & Alcohol | Half of Carla

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  • Why I Stopped Drinking - Weight Loss, Mental Health & Alcohol | Half of Carla
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    This is one of my most requested videos. In this incredibly vulnerable and quite difficult video to film, I talk you through my history and background with alcohol and why I decided to stop drinking. Grab a coffee because this is a real chatty one.
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Комментарии • 132

  • @caroltripptoulouse574
    @caroltripptoulouse574 2 года назад +62

    Thank-you for your transparency, you are a blessing to so many. I quit drinking at age 27 and have been sober for coming up 44 years. I'm 70 now. The best decision I ever made. Thank-you Carol

    • @davinagrace
      @davinagrace 29 дней назад +1

      I'm 28 and decided to quit recently. I admire your decision and wish you all the best!

  • @aliciaglenn473
    @aliciaglenn473 5 месяцев назад +14

    One week sober today 🎉

    • @aliciaglenn473
      @aliciaglenn473 4 месяца назад +3

      Update 39 days

    • @jackiewatson5665
      @jackiewatson5665 Месяц назад

      Well done - hope you’re still doing well. Kudos to you! 🙌😊

  • @barbiec4312
    @barbiec4312 2 года назад +23

    I am tired of a nightly glass of wine before dinner. I feel so sleepy and it effects my food choices. I don’t feel I have a problem per se, but I don’t like how loose my tongue gets after a few drinks at a party. Glad to have this conversation with you.

  • @anassorbestiak
    @anassorbestiak 23 дня назад

    going from "I need a glass after work to decompress + of course I get drunk with friends on fridays" to "I will get 1 cidre because I genuinely love the taste, and then I am happy and satisfied and I don't need to get drunk" has been lovely

  • @lou2830
    @lou2830 2 года назад +14

    I love that; "Is this bringing me closer to, or further from my goal?" Really inspiring, as always. 🐆

  • @maebh1060
    @maebh1060 2 года назад +13

    You are such a breath of fresh air. You're the most relatable RUclipsr I've come across x

  • @susanjaneleitner7670
    @susanjaneleitner7670 Год назад +10

    I get a lot of grief from relatives (Irish) because I choose not to drink. On the once in a while time I decide to enjoy a drink … they cheer. It makes me mad and I still smile. I then fight off food and most often lose my fight with food. However, I believe now, because of you, I will seek mental help!! So there!! ❤️❤️ 🐆

  • @Quasar502
    @Quasar502 2 года назад +8

    So many shattered lives from this. Glad you've found your balance. Soooo important... 💯👍

  • @laura.redfield
    @laura.redfield 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing, Carla! ☀️🐆💋

  • @anyat686
    @anyat686 2 года назад +3

    Thank you for sharing your story. So inspirational! 🥰

  • @StargazerGirlBC
    @StargazerGirlBC 2 года назад +9

    Thank you for sharing such a personal story. I can relate to so much of what you said. I was a blackout binge drinker, making the poorest choices of my life in those moments, but have cut way back on drinking in the last few years. A lot of it had to do with finding the "sober curious" community that's largely based in the UK (Sober Dave's One for the Road Podcast, My Alcohol Free Life Podcast, William Porter who wrote Alcohol Explained etc.) but also the US (Annie Grace who wrote This Naked Mind, Holly Whitaker who wrote Quit like a Woman). Being able to question your relationship with alcohol without having to label yourself an alcoholic is so liberating. 🐆

  • @jessicacarpentier4124
    @jessicacarpentier4124 2 года назад +3

    Great content! Thanks for opening up. 🐆

  • @karenjeansonne5703
    @karenjeansonne5703 Год назад +2

    You always have such amazing content, thank you😊💕

  • @nadinenielsen2047
    @nadinenielsen2047 2 года назад +2

    Awesome Video Carla, Thank you. ❤

  • @HelenaTudgay-cm1fc
    @HelenaTudgay-cm1fc Год назад +2

    Thankyou lovely lady… I needed this 😊

  • @katherineraven6381
    @katherineraven6381 Год назад +3

    🐆 such honesty is very admirable

  • @lindsayobrien7950
    @lindsayobrien7950 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing with us🙏🏻❤️

  • @lindalandig8261
    @lindalandig8261 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for sharing so openly with us. You are appreciated. 🐆 🖤

  • @kathleenkearns2124
    @kathleenkearns2124 2 года назад +4

    This was such a vulnerable and insightful conversation. Thank you once again for sharing ❤️

  • @lovenature7823
    @lovenature7823 2 года назад +7

    Thank you for your honesty. You are an inspiration for weight loss and sobriety, much appreciated.

  • @tanachke
    @tanachke 2 года назад +3

    Super thanks! 🐆💋 I really appreciate you and your videos. Talking about alcohol is not an easy task. You sound like you have come such a long way and that is so awesome! 🎉

  • @sparklesparkle9855
    @sparklesparkle9855 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Carla! 🖤🥰

  • @ursulafobbs9734
    @ursulafobbs9734 11 месяцев назад +2

    🐆 thank you so much for your vulnerability, and awareness of the differences in your coping mechanisms

  • @jmkass
    @jmkass 4 месяца назад +1

    Going through a very stressful year and a half and using alcohol to cope. Watching this helps. Thank you, Carla.

  • @debbiemorrison668
    @debbiemorrison668 11 месяцев назад +1

    Carla ,I admire your honesty, you are an inspiration to many,
    including my self. I love listening to your channel.
    You are beautiful inside and out.I love your alt,style too.keep on with all your wonderful content ,and valuable information.
    Love Deb from Liverpool. ✨️ ❤

  • @kathleenkearns2124
    @kathleenkearns2124 2 года назад +3

    👄You’re a very brave girl ! Bless you!

  • @rebeccamunish6245
    @rebeccamunish6245 2 года назад +5

    Love listening to your life stories. This is exceptional. Just wow.💖

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  2 года назад

      Thank you for always listening Rebecca 🖤

  • @rosiehoy4736
    @rosiehoy4736 Год назад +2

    You are really helping me with this. No one else seems to talk about it. Thanks

  • @KACn5582
    @KACn5582 2 года назад +2

    Love that you make your heath #1. You are right - nothing is more important. Literally nothing!

  • @genabrown8740
    @genabrown8740 2 года назад +2

    🐆🌞💕Carla, you never cease to amaze me with your honesty. It's so refreshing and I always learn something to use in my life. Thank you!

  • @JudithWright5
    @JudithWright5 2 года назад +3

    Thank you for sharing ❤️ I too have used alcohol as a social crutch for way too long in fact most if my adult life. I consider that I have also been in a co dependent partnership with my drinking partner. My health now is the most important thing to me but I can still enjoy a drink. I am off in a cruise soon healthier than I have been in the last 3 years and will definitely be trying a couple of cocktails but the over indulgence no longer appeals J ❤️

  • @patwilliams4174
    @patwilliams4174 2 года назад +2

    Thanks!

  • @jennybelle09
    @jennybelle09 2 года назад +3

    So happy for you that you feel so comfortable in your skin! I'm getting there! 💋

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  2 года назад +1

      I'm so happy for you Jennifer 🖤

  • @jess6512
    @jess6512 2 года назад +2

    🐆👄 great video! Thank you for being so honest!

  • @tamarabailey3193
    @tamarabailey3193 2 года назад +3

    Just wow. You are SO inspiring. 💋

  • @akalfredsson7265
    @akalfredsson7265 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing. Im complete sober since 2016. I used to say that I only had problem with alcohol when I was drinking it. But still there was problem…

  • @Talinellana
    @Talinellana 2 года назад +5

    Thanks for sharing your story. It's so helpful and moving to see your journey with alcohol, mental health and your view of it. As someone who has seen what alcohol addition can do to your mental and physical health I'm so glad you've found a better place and know who you are and don't need it as that social crutch anymore. It makes me very happy to see how comfortable and happy you are with the place you are that you've worked so hard to get to. You inspire me every day! Only 0.4kg away from 20% lost, gonna get there before my holiday 🐆👄🖤

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  2 года назад +1

      Wow Deni!! You’re doing so well 🖤

  • @deirdremcguirk1165
    @deirdremcguirk1165 2 года назад +1

    This is just the best video, thank you.

  • @shannonflanigan6408
    @shannonflanigan6408 2 года назад +4

    Thank you so much for sharing. I can totally relate to using food for numbing and alcohol to lower shame for functioning socially. You're inspiring as always! And I am so happy for you that you don't need those crutches anymore. You're definitely inspiring me to be more grounded and stop numbing out. I think another issue with intentionally numbing out is not only do we numb the pain but we also numb the joy. Really enjoying your maintenance journey as well. Please keep the amazing videos coming! 🖤🌞🐆

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  2 года назад +2

      That's so true Shannon, we also numb the joy, how well put. 🖤

  • @sapn19
    @sapn19 2 года назад +1

    I love how self aware you are and how you work to understand and improve yourself. The world would be a better place if everyone was like you ⭐️

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  2 года назад

      Awe wow thank you, it’s not easy but worth the work 🖤

  • @marianhill5801
    @marianhill5801 2 года назад +1

    Great video Carla 🐆💋

  • @anneb3097
    @anneb3097 Год назад +2

    Fantastic video🐆

  • @cathiehogan1040
    @cathiehogan1040 2 года назад +3

    Carla - real as always

  • @juliannam9521
    @juliannam9521 2 года назад +2

    You are so wise and strong! 💋🐅

  • @simoneclarke5104
    @simoneclarke5104 Год назад +2

    🌞🐆💋thank you for always inspiring me!

  • @a090006
    @a090006 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks ! this is a wizen video!

  • @suigeneris6397
    @suigeneris6397 2 года назад +2

    Thanks so much for this video...I drank heavily pretty much daily for several years until this past January when my mom died of alcohol related issues. I currently still drink every now and then but I've realized I don't need it and don't really want it either. In the past I thought that alcohol was helping me with my social anxiety and depression but it actually made it so much worse. Wonderful content as always, your channel has helped me out a lot! 🐆🐆🐆

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  2 года назад

      Thank you for sharing Sui, I’m so sorry for your loss 🖤🖤🖤

  • @AnitaWalkerBardsley
    @AnitaWalkerBardsley 2 года назад +2

    🐆💋Great and important video!!

  • @cheryl1338
    @cheryl1338 2 года назад +1

    👄 Thank you for sharing this, I always learn something new or a new way of looking at things from your videos.

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  2 года назад +1

      That means so much Cheryl 🖤

  • @Simon-pl2zi
    @Simon-pl2zi 2 месяца назад

    you are authentic

  • @Rebecca-ne9zz
    @Rebecca-ne9zz 2 года назад +1

    🐆 Great topic!

  • @Mersthamgal1
    @Mersthamgal1 Год назад +3

    Love your channel Carla. Have just stopped drinking at 66 and find your insights very helpful. I did have a laugh when you said what the Irish are known for😂. I don't like potatoes at all 😂😂😂😂

  • @crlynhn
    @crlynhn 2 года назад +2

    👄 🐆 Thanks Carla

  • @cathiehogan1040
    @cathiehogan1040 2 года назад +1

    Carla - always so real🐆👄🐆

  • @PeaceLoveNKale
    @PeaceLoveNKale 2 года назад +1

    I can relate to so much of this. Thank you for sharing

  • @lyndafitzgibbon6393
    @lyndafitzgibbon6393 2 года назад +1

    Hi Carla I go out maybe every 4 weeks ...I love a bear or 2.but I know what u mean..I hate a hangover...but drink would give u more confidence...tks for been so honest ur a great person

  • @susanbilawchuk1192
    @susanbilawchuk1192 2 года назад +2

    🐆 thanks for sharing 🖤
    My necklace never stays still either… 😣🤷‍♀️ but I’m sure we all have bigger issues 😆😅😂🤣

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  2 года назад +1

      😂😂😂 we certainly do!

  • @sarathatcher3349
    @sarathatcher3349 2 года назад +4

    🐆👄
    Here is what I got from your video-
    Our health is our #1 priority
    Our bodies are beautiful vessels to live our lives
    Mental health work changes everything
    Thank you!

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  2 года назад

      I really like that round up! 🖤

  • @mallorypike5198
    @mallorypike5198 2 года назад +1

    Excellent video!!! Question for you , I don't know what is "normal" in Ireland. Are you going back to work soon or are you already back at work or is this now your full time job ?

  • @laurennicl94
    @laurennicl94 2 года назад +1

    Lost my father to drink 11 months ago only 4 days before his 60th birthday. (Northern Irish family). As much as it is part of the culture here, it can be devastating for people.
    I never drink now, glad you can live happily without it also. X

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  2 года назад +1

      I'm so sorry to hear that Lauren 🖤🖤🖤

    • @jacquelinemartin9124
      @jacquelinemartin9124 Год назад +1

      I’m so sorry that you lost your dad at such a young age 💔

    • @laurennicl94
      @laurennicl94 Год назад

      @@jacquelinemartin9124 thank you. Yeah was only 26. Sucks.

  • @laurakaye33
    @laurakaye33 2 года назад +1

    🐆💋 Thank you Carla. A question that may be a bit too TMI, but during your weightloss journey did you find that your body odor changed?

  • @geodan3991
    @geodan3991 2 года назад +1

    🐆 🌞

  • @ginasoren
    @ginasoren 2 года назад +1

  • @waleskasteiner7661
    @waleskasteiner7661 Год назад +2

    🐆

  • @liannemary4678
    @liannemary4678 2 года назад +1

    Hello Carla! Can I ask, how many steps do you do in your 1 hour morning walk?
    Thank you for your inspirational chats 🚶‍♀️😊

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  2 года назад

      Between 6 and 9k the faster I go the less steps 🖤

    • @liannemary4678
      @liannemary4678 2 года назад

      @@HalfofCarla Thank you! Shall aim for 6 here on out! Helpful to have a target! 🧑‍🦳

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  2 года назад

      @@liannemary4678 I’d focus more on the length of time you’re out and then your speed 🖤

    • @liannemary4678
      @liannemary4678 2 года назад

      @@HalfofCarla OK! Good idea! Thank you 😊

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    @margaretmoore3915 Год назад +2

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    @yelenairwin1717 11 месяцев назад +1

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    @Fernando-hr9re 2 года назад +2

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    @crimson7572 2 года назад +2

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    @kristinh.1979 10 месяцев назад

    ❤🐆

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  • @dannywholuv
    @dannywholuv 4 месяца назад

    How to socialise in ireland without drink?

    • @michaelpatrickmonahan1873
      @michaelpatrickmonahan1873 4 месяца назад +1

      Damn good question. Order a zero alcohol beer, and hope the lads don’t catch ya!

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  • @vanessab2726
    @vanessab2726 Год назад +2

    Let Jesus Christ take your shame away. He is for you, and NOT against you. Jesus is LORD.

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