Why Sigma Males Don't Approach Women Anymore

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  • Опубликовано: 7 ноя 2024

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  • @amenshiftwork3826
    @amenshiftwork3826 Год назад +333

    Love these vids! Mostly cause its hilarious to hear the way I am, explained so well. The points in these always trigger moments in time where all these senerios have played out. Until I found this channel I have always had a hard time explaining to someone why I reacted to things the way I do. Now I just point them here. Helps them better understand me when they hear it here, versus me trying to explain my thought process and confusing them because they see things differently. Thanks for putting these out!

    • @pocketsofbattlerap1160
      @pocketsofbattlerap1160 Год назад +3

      Amen!

    • @afghanrocky
      @afghanrocky Год назад +1

      Exactly

    • @guyh.4553
      @guyh.4553 Год назад +8

      😆😆😆😆😆😆
      Ditto!
      The older I get, the more I can relate to these points! I am very much a Sigma and this helps reinforce who I am.

    • @mr.inspextor7354
      @mr.inspextor7354 Год назад +3

      Cap 🧢

    • @junk167
      @junk167 Год назад +8

      I feel the exact same way. I never fit into the beta or alpha categories, but sigma is a bulls eye. Very enlightening.

  • @afroprince5262
    @afroprince5262 Год назад +613

    I don’t even approach anymore, if a woman doesn’t open her mouth and make her interest known, I’m perfectly fine acting like she’s not there.

    • @ovnilab
      @ovnilab Год назад +64

      Same here. Stopped approaching about 6 years ago and never looked back.

    • @afroprince5262
      @afroprince5262 Год назад +17

      @@ovnilab that’s the spirit

    • @5rings16
      @5rings16 Год назад +16

      There are 4 billion woman on earth, how can any of them be worth anything!!

    • @dgmobbdeep
      @dgmobbdeep Год назад +2

      Absolutely

    • @raghibweber2224
      @raghibweber2224 Год назад +1

      👏👏👏

  • @eleveneleven572
    @eleveneleven572 Год назад +735

    If a woman plays hard to get she is establishing a hierarchy in the relationship. She is at the top and you are a supplicant.
    Walk away, because that leads to a toxic relationship.

    • @williamheinsinger7390
      @williamheinsinger7390 Год назад +20

      Boom 💥

    • @kaneinkansas
      @kaneinkansas Год назад

      In East Asia they do the reverse, they will fawn over you, wait for you to become lazy and dependent upon them, then when you are dependent upon you, they withdraw completely, then wait for you to come crawling and begging back to them wanting the old days of her fawning on them. They eventually allow the guy back but they do so on condition, they now control EVERYTHING. This happened to John Lennon and was done by Wendy Deng, who ended up with Murdock until he divorced her.

    • @manfredschmalbach9023
      @manfredschmalbach9023 Год назад +38

      "Hard to get" was yesterday. The nowadays "hard-to-get" impostors are, in real reality, really hard to want.

    • @kohnfutner9637
      @kohnfutner9637 Год назад +18

      Well spoken. I have a girl who attempted this. I did walk away. Thanks for backing that choice with wise reasoning.

    • @nicholasmonsarrat719
      @nicholasmonsarrat719 Год назад

      Noted

  • @littlesoul1519
    @littlesoul1519 Год назад +432

    As a woman, I'm sad for men who are trying to find good women because they're definitely hard to find these days. In general, I blame the way this world has become. Social media, politics, education, entertainment, and culture, is going towards a direction that does not value healthy and honorable relationships the way it should be. If anything the new norms are brainwashing the generation, and instilling values that are self-centered and self-gratifying. I'm sad this generation of women is being deluded into becoming more and more selfish and shallow. I'm glad the sigma male exists, but sad there are not many of them. It's also hard for us women to find honorable men of value as well, who want pure and authentic relationships. The pool has become smaller for both sides, but I'm hopeful that God would help us find that special someone :)

    • @JamesBrown-pp3bn
      @JamesBrown-pp3bn Год назад +35

      Well said. It's sad that more women don't think like you.

    • @ranbymonkeys2384
      @ranbymonkeys2384 Год назад +4

      Little Soul, I doubt it.

    • @420Bigfoot
      @420Bigfoot Год назад +33

      Sounds like one of those based unicorns. There are more of us sigmas than you realize, but most of us are invisible, and have learned to prefer it that way. I absolutely agree with your comments on society.

    • @lancemiller1725
      @lancemiller1725 Год назад +2

      You nailed it 👍💯💯 SO TRUE 👍
      I wish more women had your mindset 👍
      The decline in the US culture is intentional and pushed by the marxists & fake progressives aka leftist authoritarian agendas
      Corporate controlled garbage news mainstream media
      Hollywood
      Watching the Grammy's or anything produced by Hollywood is shocking.. they're so fake and perverted in a way that's obedient to their masters it's like their owned an incapable of thinking on their own.. but to young people in society it's indoctrinating unfortunately...
      Your absolutely right this shapes culture
      hence the decline in men women etc
      It's intense deviance and perversion..
      I was an 80s kid and now I'm 53 im so thankful I was able to grow up then and meet wonderful girls in my hey day.. I feel like it was the last stretch in the age innocence.
      * before the heroin fentanyl hard rugs ravaged this country
      *Before this cultural rot and perversion set in..
      It was easy to meet a nice girl and enjoy ea others company with none of the influences young people experience today.. no social media or cell phones then just a residential phone lol
      Happier people not much stress and a lighter easier world..
      I hope common sense decency and kindness is restored once again... .and we have more people like yourself 👍
      We can always hope 👍

    • @richardostroman8978
      @richardostroman8978 Год назад +20

      A Sigma Male also empowers the people around him. And you ladies are more powerful then us men. Alphas would never tell you that.

  • @phantomvox951
    @phantomvox951 Год назад +229

    I stopped approaching women since I was 30. Im 46 now and today I just ignore them.

    • @buckaroobaizuo25
      @buckaroobaizuo25 Год назад +33

      Lockout game is strong .. give them nothing

    • @rickyking1790
      @rickyking1790 Год назад +16

      Do women approach you??

    • @zzagriff
      @zzagriff Год назад +12

      Stay strong brother

    • @Kobe8DaGreat24
      @Kobe8DaGreat24 Год назад

      They hate a mfer like us with tunnel vision walking right past them and never turning around looking at them. That chit is dead

    • @Kobe8DaGreat24
      @Kobe8DaGreat24 Год назад +4

      @@buckaroobaizuo25 facts major facts 👑

  • @Lexthebarbarian
    @Lexthebarbarian Год назад +321

    Completely stopped it. Among beautiful women and women in general, I try to adopt a stoic Zen attitude. I am calm and polite, but nothing more, then I leave. Today's political correctness and Woke culture have completely destroyed the natural relationship between men and women. Almost all women defend it wholeheartedly. I am not part of this. I jumped off that train a long time ago.

    • @LoneWolf-oe1gc
      @LoneWolf-oe1gc Год назад +28

      Just Pay them by the hour to unload and then go on with your life

    • @neox9369
      @neox9369 Год назад +4

      @@LoneWolf-oe1gc facts

    • @FlipflopSay
      @FlipflopSay Год назад +8

      @@LoneWolf-oe1gc The right hand does wonders too

    • @ChatGPT1111
      @ChatGPT1111 Год назад +1

      Bingo!

    • @leemj8974
      @leemj8974 Год назад

      @@LoneWolf-oe1gc Nah don't pay for sex. They are not worth ur money and time.

  • @tomasjanik7590
    @tomasjanik7590 Год назад +202

    I never knew what is wrong with me my entire life. Now I found out I am a sigma male.
    Thanks a lot.

    • @PcisbetterthanConsol
      @PcisbetterthanConsol Год назад +5

      Facts, i felt the same way lol

    • @MatticusFinch1820
      @MatticusFinch1820 Год назад +12

      Same here brother glad to know we're not crazy we're just elite!

    • @ranbymonkeys2384
      @ranbymonkeys2384 Год назад +5

      Wrong with you? Is it the fact you don't owe anybody anything, you don't steel, you don't intentionally hurt people that don't deserve it? Is it the giving you do or the comments you make to people that make them happy. Maybe it's you have no trouble sleeping at night because you do the right thing. Ya, when they are all going "that" way I'll see you later when you went the correct way my friend. When you can't cut the mustard, lick the jar.

    • @AG-xc9yh
      @AG-xc9yh Год назад +3

      It’s good to know your not the only one that feels this way

    • @MrStoicable
      @MrStoicable Год назад +3

      You're not alone brother man. Exactly the same for me. And I've been on this earth for six decades. This go around. Peace

  • @jcjones1750
    @jcjones1750 Год назад +70

    I wrote women off close to 10 years ago. Sometime around 5 years ago I decided to get back into the game for some insane reason and ended up becoming close to a covert narcissist . I had to start doing research because the strange things that were happening in the relationship was quite bewildering. I had never experienced this kind of behavior before. Once I started realizing what I was dealing with shock is a mild word to use . Once it was over I asked myself WTF was I thinking? For the most part I have always been a lone wolf but I was disillusioned by the whole.....The One ....scenerio. It took me almost 50 years to figure out that I have always been the one and absolutely do not need another person to complete me.

    • @kohnfutner9637
      @kohnfutner9637 Год назад

      I hate to sound mean when I say this but I think it's a misperception to think a woman will complete us, most of them seem to only be interested in devouring our soul and making us suffer. Idk why they hate us so much but nothing is worse than a woman's scorn I've heard, and women have been programmed to devour men. Very very few honestly care to be a good woman. :/

    • @JamesJones-pz9uo
      @JamesJones-pz9uo Год назад

      My name is James Charles Jones.
      Just thought I'd say hello.

    • @nohandle4u2see
      @nohandle4u2see Год назад +1

      Yes but you need another person to carry on your bloodline. If that's something you care about.

    • @smerchly
      @smerchly Год назад +2

      @@nohandle4u2see Your bloodline is cut in half with your first child Many family names disappear after marriages .

    • @richardostroman8978
      @richardostroman8978 Год назад +1

      Sounds like we are all getting the same Karmic lessons my brother. If you get mad you are doing it wrong. ;)

  • @Zalvu
    @Zalvu Год назад +64

    Christ this explains 95% of my personality and why I don't really feel like I fit into these modern times.

    • @MatticusFinch1820
      @MatticusFinch1820 Год назад +3

      Totally man, I always felt like I was made for a world that does not yet exist

    • @jdrex5039
      @jdrex5039 Год назад +1

      Cool story, bro 😎

    • @intelligentmeditations8378
      @intelligentmeditations8378 Год назад +3

      @@MatticusFinch1820 or a world that did once exist, eras of older times. Or parallel realities where such worlds still exist as experiences that are built and lived by all those who believe in the same things. We are creators afterall, or as Tolkien said, subcreators.

    • @milkepic
      @milkepic Год назад

      Same, most interactions with people in my classes are superficial and I just don’t like how they act, and I don’t fit in

  • @robertobravo6834
    @robertobravo6834 Год назад +522

    A real man loves himself so much that he doesn't need the love of anyone else.

  • @michaelsu319
    @michaelsu319 Год назад +86

    Ain't playing the game. There are only two things that can immediately ruin my life... one of those is a woman.

    • @talisikid1618
      @talisikid1618 Год назад +1

      A woman? Or picking the wrong kind?

  • @greenjay8096
    @greenjay8096 Год назад +85

    I've fallen for a girl and this has been like my approach, very rarely do I seek company and I dont get lonely but feel such a strong attraction, I've made it pretty clear to her I think and will see where it goes but I'm not playing the games.

    • @nicholasmonsarrat719
      @nicholasmonsarrat719 Год назад +6

      Lay out the ground rules

    • @miguelitobautista8908
      @miguelitobautista8908 Год назад +3

      I believe that it has to be that way.

    • @eQuariuz
      @eQuariuz Год назад

      What do you mean you "made it pretty clear to her i thnk" ?

    • @greenjay8096
      @greenjay8096 Год назад +4

      @@eQuariuzclear that' I have feelings for her. Expressed an interest.

    • @hanford65
      @hanford65 Год назад +2

      Something I don't understand is why in the past,when I've expressed interest in a woman it's like they can't handle me being upfront about it and they shrink away. Strange.

  • @UCHPodcast
    @UCHPodcast Год назад +33

    Yep! The first 60 seconds is already on point! Thank you for your channel! 🤙🏾

    • @Wise.Thinker
      @Wise.Thinker  Год назад +6

      I am glad you like it!🙏

    • @eduardoperalta4849
      @eduardoperalta4849 Год назад +3

      Finally someone that understands and knows how some women really are ...Right to the point in all sincerity.

  • @clints8731
    @clints8731 Год назад +20

    As a 45 yr old man. I'm so much more comfortable, confident and happy than I was 25 years ago.
    I think men have to be in a good healthy mind set before they go after a lovely lady. If you are living with fears and anxiety, get rid of it. Get help, focus on relationships and career. Don't be someone your not.
    Get a good career path before you start a serious relationship.

    • @dionysosalters6763
      @dionysosalters6763 Год назад +1

      Western societies are the issue. I was a shy and virgin dude with little to no confidence. Three weeks of Thailand changed me more than 5 years of reading self-help book or attempt on approaching random people.

    • @miamitrancemissions6425
      @miamitrancemissions6425 Год назад

      I had similar results in Germany and Costa Rica. Smashed over 100 targets. Felt great until I had to come back to reality in the western world.

  • @nodozhit
    @nodozhit Год назад +24

    That is pretty much my sentiments in a nutshell about everyone. Sometimes I feel like I am just too mature for my age, and I just can't seem to understand the logic and inadequacies of some people who act out childishly- but put on airs like they are deserving of the respect which is earned by dutiful people.

  • @Guh_roomer_Gravedigger
    @Guh_roomer_Gravedigger Год назад +12

    Honesty, humility, intelligence, loyalty and kindness are traits that make a woman truly attractive.

  • @nunoalexandre6408
    @nunoalexandre6408 Год назад +50

    We Have our own values...

    • @buckaroobonzai2909
      @buckaroobonzai2909 Год назад +2

      Maybe you do, but mine are more my own than every other sigma male's. I'm such a sigma that I don't follow the rules of sigma males.

    • @MrGchiasson
      @MrGchiasson Год назад +2

      Values, standards, priorities, goals and character. The femdroid games are over.

    • @buckaroobaizuo25
      @buckaroobaizuo25 Год назад +1

      You resemble someone .. can’t quite put my finger on it

    • @buckaroobonzai2909
      @buckaroobonzai2909 Год назад +1

      @@buckaroobaizuo25 Lets be friends and troll Undead Chronic's Channel as the Buckaroo Boys.
      "Buckaroo Boys raiding the chat!" we will say.

  • @kohnfutner9637
    @kohnfutner9637 Год назад +28

    I fit most descriptions of sigma male. I approach women I appreciate and I am direct with them. I like them, I tell them why, and I tell them when I start feeling attracted to them it is time either they reciprocate or I leave. I don't do friend zone or being rejected as a man and staying friends. I don't need "friends" especially female ones. I'll take a companion or nothing and this is by invitation only.

    • @nicholasmonsarrat719
      @nicholasmonsarrat719 Год назад +2

      Yes !!

    • @djomadoto6921
      @djomadoto6921 Год назад +3

      Spot on, man!

    • @talisikid1618
      @talisikid1618 Год назад +2

      Female friends are a good thing but must be managed differently. They are a different breed from the guys. And they can be dangerous if you don’t choose wisely. It’s always a good thing to get different perspectives. In business and in life. Always choose quality over quantity.

  • @Wise.Thinker
    @Wise.Thinker  Год назад +21

    If you enjoyed this video, hit the like button and make sure to subscribe! I really do appreciate your support. 🙏

  • @danrich4912
    @danrich4912 Год назад +15

    Absolutely spot on, truly the words of a wise thinker.😏

  • @wayneanderson8034
    @wayneanderson8034 Год назад +14

    Monk mode for 29 years here. There isn't a single man I have met in the last 20 years in a relationship who I would want to trade places with. Married men my age are so miserable, they are financially anchored to their hen pecking shirt testing wives, they can't afford the divorce & alimony. They wanted out, decades ago. But they never built the nerve to rip the band aid off. There is one advantage to having a gf/wife, restaurants give the best service to couples. Solo men are put in the dark corner.

    • @vipeton.8927
      @vipeton.8927 Год назад +2

      Restaurants are overrated, expecially in America.

    • @FischerFan
      @FischerFan Год назад +1

      LOL, if this doesn't ring an all-too-familiar bell! When I was in my mid-20s, my longtime friend had just parted ways with his girlfriend and then, barely over a month later, he was engaged to another woman. Yeah, uh-oh.
      I was sitting with them in a lounge and I explained to them that I had no plans to take their road in life. At that point, my friend's fiance asked me, 'What are you gonna DO with your life? You're gonna be a monk!'. As the years went on, every time I phoned him, he sounded miserable.
      Well, just over a decade and three kids later, not only were they divorced, but they both declared bankruptcy! It shows what happens when you get carried away with your credit cards.
      It has been 30 years since that witch told me that I was doomed to a life of misery. Well, I now work full-time as a senior accountant, making more money than I ever have. I also lead a balanced, active life that includes being a member of a folk dance troupe, being on curling teams, heading out to the woods to hunt upland game birds, playing a little bit of billiards with friends, or playing solo certain classic video games on my computer.
      Oh, and no drugs or porn allowed!

  • @BrandonCRFC
    @BrandonCRFC Год назад +17

    I always struggled to understand why I was so confident in my understanding of my personality, yet, it met nothing but resistance from those around me. I always tried to fake my way as an Alpha as being a Beta represents weakness (in my eyes). overall, it never fed my soul. Is it possible that a Sigma personality, over time, breeds a new spectrum between Alpha, Sigma and Betas.

    • @tramlink8544
      @tramlink8544 Год назад +1

      In many ways its believed that sigmas are the true alphas which i can absolutely See. An alpha commands a pack, a sigma leads it

    • @talisikid1618
      @talisikid1618 Год назад +2

      Alphas demand respect. Sigmas merely live it out by respecting others. It’s only natural they get some back in return.

  • @ActionJaxonH
    @ActionJaxonH Год назад +6

    This fits me to a tee. I wasn't always like this though. Growing up was more beta, then high school did a 180 to alpha. After a marriage, divorce, 10 yr drug addition and 12 yrs sobriety, now finally in my late 30's as a metrology engineer, I've reached a point where these descriptions are me verbatem. Girl always on her phone, loud mouthed, confused why every other guy tried flirting with her but I was completely disinterested. I don't feel the need to flirt with every woman I see. If they're not my type I'd rather just not waste the time.

  • @speedibusrex
    @speedibusrex Год назад +15

    Quality over quantity. For everything.

  • @RameshBaburbabu
    @RameshBaburbabu Год назад +12

    Society do not like , Sigma man. ( for sure , my wife don't, if she sees, she will uproot it off, make me guilty. it is painful) . They try to kill it, by showing Alpha and Beta, to suppress Sigma. after watching Sigma after Sigma clips , now I started pulling all the loosen strings , looks like every thread I pull I see strains of Sigma with blood. As CS.Lewis said , You do no know the power of wind until you stand against it . Good Luck Sigma and Thanks to @WiseThinker for your hard work to clips like this .. good job, keep up the good work and keep posting

  • @endienigh2247
    @endienigh2247 Год назад +45

    FUN FACT: I've never flirted & Technically sort of never asked a woman out but somehow always wind up w/ an extremely beautiful high value woman that all men want. Video is on point

    • @kevinpineda4606
      @kevinpineda4606 Год назад +12

      Sure thing buddy

    • @TeutobergForestryService
      @TeutobergForestryService Год назад +5

      Lol this guy

    • @aliestuti6782
      @aliestuti6782 Год назад

      @@TeutobergForestryService it’s not about looks or money I have witness first hand a guy who has no job no car no money no nothing and yet he has more hoes than iceberg slim. There’s a code you have to crack to seek this sort of…I don’t know what word to use for this

    • @Justin-zj7lr
      @Justin-zj7lr Год назад +4

      Yeah, I highly doubt that 🤣

    • @ViperXSS2
      @ViperXSS2 Год назад +1

      He’s right, the other 4 replies must be beta males.

  • @s7062
    @s7062 Год назад +1

    Because of few videos of Wise Thinker about Sigma males, I finally found out who the hell I am! Thank you it is pretty impressive insights. 99% I'd say matches my persona. Great video!

  • @TN-es7ei
    @TN-es7ei Год назад +4

    Then I'm a Sigma and never realized it (infact I've never heard of Sigmas before). I've been developing these traits more strongly as the years have passed, and my understanding of women and the pressures society place on them has increased.

  • @stevemiller4494
    @stevemiller4494 Год назад +55

    This is me 100%. I've been like this ever since I was a young boy I don't chase I don't put up with drama I don't like small talk I don't like nonsense I don't like a woman trying to control me... I don't like fake women I don't like high maintenance women I like real women unique women I don't like high emotional women I don't like biotches if you're rude crude and crass and call yourself a biatch then you're nothing to me but a mosquito....
    I'm pretty sure that I read somewhere at some point that the sigma male is actually a true alpha male....
    But I've always viewed myself as a prince or Duke or King and I'm not going to put up with anything less than a real decent unique intelligent loving caring honest woman....
    I tend to scare most women off because of how real I am and being a strong independent real man that cannot be controlled most women stay the hell away from a guy like me...
    Just wanted to also state that not looking into people's eyes is not necessarily a sign of deception.... Some personality types don't like looking into people's eyes until they get to know them better additionally a lot of cultures teach that looking into someone's eyes is disrespectful I know a lot of native Americans are like this and also many Asians as well.... I've had so many liars look straight into my eyes and lie the entire time including my own Ex-Wives and my own daughter so that's not an indicator of anything.So I think that's the only thing that is wrong in this video everything else is dead on

    • @ChatGPT1111
      @ChatGPT1111 Год назад +2

      Yep, I was thinking the exact same thing

    • @miguelitobautista8908
      @miguelitobautista8908 Год назад +1

      I relate to this.

    • @sasapetroski981
      @sasapetroski981 Год назад +1

      Me too think on same way

    • @daMoonSon
      @daMoonSon Год назад

      If you would be alpha women would chase you to have sex with you

    • @seadragon1456
      @seadragon1456 Год назад +2

      The way this dude says “sigma male” makes me think he’s narrating their natural environment. Like he’s watching wild animals.
      And then you said alpha male. 😂 Is that even a thing? Are men really calling themselves alphas and betas?

  • @bedientvondeutschland1779
    @bedientvondeutschland1779 Год назад +12

    My wife do not understand that I love her most in the morning when she is the way she is. It's nice to see beautiful dressed women with nice make up but they never attracted me. My major interest in selecting a women was to figure out in "discussion battles" the way she think. That made the difference to all of the other women. To get a wife with a high IQ and strength to deal with life. In my opinion it's required to have a wife which is able also to survive when the man is absence. In my case I was most times absence as men where in stone age. I had to "hunt" and be sure that she will be where I expect her, that my childs are my childs and that she will do everything required to educate the children. Chapeau. She did it. I supported as best as possible.

  • @geob8172
    @geob8172 Год назад +2

    As a Sigma male I found this extremely accurate.
    Well Done !
    Ps. I am a " SIGMA INFJ EMPATH " so I do have some experience and knowledge on this subject.

  • @scribblybear
    @scribblybear Год назад +5

    As far as the whole eye contact thing goes... I can't stand it when people who need unbroken eye contact at all times in a conversation.
    I also don't completely hate small talk (but there is somewhat of a time limit to it). It can help to break the ice or lead into deeper conversations.

  • @allankazoom
    @allankazoom Год назад +1

    Love your videos. They allow me to know myself better and helps to understand my life choices. Cheers!

  • @dkinetik
    @dkinetik Год назад +5

    Wow this is me all over .. I see drama, fakeness and superficial people a mile off .. It is really hard to find someone thought ..

  • @RomVlad
    @RomVlad Год назад +9

    This video has summed up perfectly how I feel about dating and/or a partner. But not every Sigma male wears a suit or looks like he came from a GQ photoshoot lol.

  • @PcisbetterthanConsol
    @PcisbetterthanConsol Год назад +6

    This video was 99.7% accurate in regards to describing my self, thought i was the only person that felt this way.

    • @tramlink8544
      @tramlink8544 Год назад

      Same

    • @talisikid1618
      @talisikid1618 Год назад

      Nope. You have company. If we make up 10% of the population, that’s 400 million guys. Another 400 million of the female variety. Not the most common but definitely not alone.

  • @miguelitobautista8908
    @miguelitobautista8908 Год назад +2

    Hi, new here and I relate to this video very much. I hope to see more videos relating to my personality. For years I heard about alpha, beta and omega personalities. This is the first time to hear more about other personality types. Hope to see more videos soon. 👍

  • @Lichfeldian--Suttonian
    @Lichfeldian--Suttonian Год назад +14

    This is me all over! I have stopped trying to sell something on dates: castle, annual salary, status, etc. I am just not interested. I have before felt that I _must_ have a talking ‘falsified and grossly exaggerated masculine resumé/curriculum vitae’, especially on first dates, just to try and win her over, only to find that she will hold me to ‘game-playing account’ for the rest of our time together! Talk about competitive plastic dating and manufactured relationships! It’s all surface, ‘do as the Romans do’ nonsense at the ‘circus’! No. Not for me. Authenticity with deeper meaning is for me. It’s my reality. I am prepared to live my life to the full whilst I ‘wait’.

  • @konstantine_c
    @konstantine_c Год назад +1

    Great video! Some of the points helped me understand myself better. Only just realized that there's actually a name for this type of personality.

  • @DareToBeDeviant
    @DareToBeDeviant Год назад +3

    My way of distancing from women (even my mother) who flip their sh!t over trivial nonsense has been giving them a 'timeout'. I was ghosting before it 'was cool', like 15 years ago. I'd take off really quick and let them defuse as would a parent locking a kid in their room, then make contact when I believe things have calmed down. In my case it'd be no less than 24 hours. Without a phone or social media, it was and still is very hard to get ahold of me. Still living like a 90s kid ~ if someone's not home then it's tough sh!t. Try again later or not at all.
    We have better things to do with our time than to listen to emotionally driven banter. It's one thing to listen about how someone's day went, but it's another when it's a direct verbal (or even mild physical) assault on us. Take that elsewhere or I'm getting out.

  • @inrctyg
    @inrctyg Год назад +19

    A sigma is too modest to shout out “that’s me” explained so well in these videos. If you did, you’re a fake sigma!

  • @Son-of-Krypton
    @Son-of-Krypton Год назад +15

    Sigma don’t chase 😎

  • @rustybogans2508
    @rustybogans2508 Год назад +20

    Because you like the idea of being a sigma does not mean you are one. Most sigma men don’t even know there’s a title for their behaviour and character because it’s not something they invest time in

    • @thebluejay3145
      @thebluejay3145 Год назад +3

      I disagree, they're usually very well informed and reach self actualization very early in life.

    • @dragasinbrankovic
      @dragasinbrankovic Год назад

      @@thebluejay3145 what kind of self realization?
      Spiritual awakening, kundalini stuff or what?

  • @ordinaryguy696
    @ordinaryguy696 Год назад +4

    Another reason I don't its cause I have anxiety, and I over think even the smallest thing possible, but I'm happy I over think since it makes me solve things faster.

  • @cryptidian3530
    @cryptidian3530 Год назад +4

    Women play hard to get because they are taught that from a young age. Just look at what parents tell their daughters: "you're a princess", "you only deserve the best", "you're gonna find someone who will give you everything you need". Their expectations are sky high.

    • @littlesoul1519
      @littlesoul1519 Год назад +1

      I believe, although some women use this tactic without tact, I think it's more so to ward off the men who aren't good. It wouldn't be logical to let just any man have you, if you were a father, would you let your daughter be with just any man that comes her way? I definitely know men who want to take advantage of women, this isn't a perfect world, and I'm sure you know that scummy men exist too. However, I do understand that there are women who 'play around' too much which is immature, but I think it can work as a safety mechanism, because just giving in to any man who may have ulterior motives can be dangerous. I think men should always have a sigma mindset in mind, because quality and authenticity is more important than all the games people play, it goes both ways.

  • @MatticusFinch1820
    @MatticusFinch1820 Год назад +9

    I never knew about this concept but I've been looking at more of these sigma male videos and they literally describe me 100% perfectly. Glad to know I'm not crazy!

    • @dirkdiggler2379
      @dirkdiggler2379 Год назад +2

      wow crazy! this describes me as well. LOL. Don't need time wasters in my life. Just genuine people.

    • @SleekMouse
      @SleekMouse Год назад

      beta

  • @joelmenezes1797
    @joelmenezes1797 Год назад +11

    That's me!! A Sigma Man!! 👍🏻😄

    • @tsholodivi4001
      @tsholodivi4001 Год назад

      Same here bro

    • @joelmenezes1797
      @joelmenezes1797 Год назад

      @@tsholodivi4001 😄✌🏻

    • @samueljones621
      @samueljones621 Год назад +1

      o.o Are u reaaaaaaally? Pressin X for Doubt -.-
      Sigma is like a Tiger. Rare. But here even the Vegetable seller is Sigma man lol

  • @tekknorat
    @tekknorat Год назад

    I'm most amazed by those clips put together. Are they some kind of stock videos anyone can take and use for their videos? Like, somebody just filmed a bunch of situations for every occasion?

  • @popart7722
    @popart7722 Год назад +5

    The year I decided to become celibate (didn’t last 😅)and the year I put a ring on my finger I was approached by so many woman.
    I realized it was my total autonomy and lack of interest that ironically attracted them.
    Regardless, this can’t be faked. Just pursue the things you love and be happy with yourself. Everything else will follow…if you want it to.

  • @Rogel957
    @Rogel957 Год назад

    Thank you for this video 👍 👌

  • @paulinekimeli7000
    @paulinekimeli7000 Год назад +16

    In a nutshell, sigma males are seeking sigma females. What you've described here, wise thinker, are beta and omega females and they are not attractive to any sigma males. The characteristics of sigma females are exactly those of sigma males. so , if a sigma male wants a partner, he should find those qualities that are already in himself in a woman. For starters, sigma females are lone wolves too. They are not found anywhere and everywhere. They are not on the streets, nor in the market place. They are not actively dating or searching to settle down. They are found only in places where they are adding value to the society. Look for them there.

    • @matthewmcintosh4925
      @matthewmcintosh4925 Год назад +1

      The correct term is sigma, nothing more, just sigma.

    • @eyespyyourspy1328
      @eyespyyourspy1328 Год назад

      Might I point out that it's distasteful to engage in wooing rituals while a person is working. I separate those aspects of life. There is a time and place. A work I am focused on that and thus unless there are emergency situations involved my relationship is on pause until my obligation is done. Being able to turn off those unnecessary cross overs is key

    • @paulinekimeli7000
      @paulinekimeli7000 Год назад +1

      @@eyespyyourspy1328 sigma females are leaders in their world or profession. And they are attracted to visionaries of any field. So of you are a dude without life long vision and/or not actively working on it, forget it!. She is attracted to the vision first, then the man.

    • @eyespyyourspy1328
      @eyespyyourspy1328 Год назад +2

      @@paulinekimeli7000 And in your statement showed why Sia females aren't worth it either. Attracted to a person's potential before the actual human and soul is huge red flag. I don't believe any Sigma male or Female would maintain such a superficial standard. And yes loving a person for their vision and potential before the soul is undeniably 100% superficial. Sigma and Superficiality are never acquainted and thus don't mix. Sigma aren't superficial

    • @paulinekimeli7000
      @paulinekimeli7000 Год назад +1

      @@eyespyyourspy1328 There's nothing superficial with having a life goal and working towards it. sigma females are leaders too and they have a purpose and a direction in life and they are attracted to leaders just as they are ! I hope you get my point.

  • @mikedecey2862
    @mikedecey2862 Год назад

    Fantastic.......... You have renewed my self confidence and given me a feeling of self worth again for being the miserable wretch of a man I am for being so bloody Introverted ha ha
    Bye the way I am 62 years old now, met the One True Love I was Always Searching for my whole Life long 10 years ago now.
    We went through a very 'amicable' divorce after 2 years, have stayed True to each other for the last 8 years and our last year together 2022 our Love for each other has Blossomed into a Paradise state......
    Great video...... Thanks so much
    Mike

  • @mikeg3439
    @mikeg3439 Год назад +6

    The day I said I'd had it and stopped giving admiration and kindness toward women, was the day women actually started constantly flirting with me. Stupidly, that's how it works with them. They require tons of attention. If you give them tons of attention, they won and don't need to do anything. If you won't give it to them, it must be rare and valuable, and they MUST HAVE IT.

    • @nohandle4u2see
      @nohandle4u2see Год назад +1

      And in the mean time, they're riding the carousel 🍆

  • @damoimyers2651
    @damoimyers2651 Год назад +2

    I honestly thought something was wrong with me why I don't seem to go after these women anymore... Absolutely zero interest. I've decided to just observe while moving through life trying to better myself. Girls have been trying to get my attention but after having some conversation with them I know what they're about so I distance myself from them basically. BUT NOW I UNDERSTAND WHY... I AM A PART OF THE SIGMA MALES COMMUNITY. Hoping to find that special lady one day in life though. Stay strong fellas! 😎

  • @zolotozvezda5278
    @zolotozvezda5278 Год назад +5

    I always knew I was the Sigma type. I see a lot of myself in these sets of principals. I was told a couple of times that I was playing hard-to-get. At first, I did not understand the reason why they were saying so, but after watching these videos, I know why. I have always been a '''lone wolf'', You will not find me on any social medias, and have a bunch of friends, the necessity or the need to be in a relationship, and I'm sure not desperate and chase anything that comes by. The overly emotional behavior. Good God! I call them ''Drama Queens''. There's always a calm way to explain or make your point across. I sure don't need someone to call or text me 4-5 times a day just to ask what I'm doing or up to, or when are we going to see each other again. So yes. I guess I am a Sigma Male.

  • @LAD907
    @LAD907 Год назад

    Precisely thanks for clearing this up

  • @captnrobvious47
    @captnrobvious47 Год назад +3

    As a bisexual male, this covers most of how I approach dating in general towards both men and women. None of this is mutually exclusive. I just thought that was an important point to make. The biggest turn-off for me is immaturity, and I'm using this as a blanket term; no self-control, irresponsible, shallow, unintelligent... if someone approaches me exhibiting any of these traits or their like, I don't even give them the time of day.

    • @efandmk3382
      @efandmk3382 Год назад +1

      As a gay Sigma male, I agree completely. Even as a twink, I preferred to date men in their thirties, simply because I wanted someone with some emotional maturity. I'm not into game playing and posing. It's a complete waste of time.

  • @chaosdweller
    @chaosdweller Год назад

    Great stuff! Thx!

  • @briani8785
    @briani8785 Год назад +12

    As a sigma I never realized how amazing I was, as well as how down to earth I really am.

    • @MJA5
      @MJA5 Год назад +3

      Sigma=guys who like watching videos that rationalize their poor showing when interacting with women.

    • @briani8785
      @briani8785 Год назад +1

      @@MJA5 idk man the guys in these comments don’t play games pretty cool.

  • @TheFlatEarthChannelcom
    @TheFlatEarthChannelcom Год назад +2

    This is exactly me. Best way to explain who i am.

  • @bdiddy4287
    @bdiddy4287 Год назад +5

    Love this channel, so happy I found it. Thank you for making this content, extremely helpful in understanding myself and my place in this world. I am curious, where do you find your information?

  • @uckBayNguyen
    @uckBayNguyen Год назад +2

    We gravitate towards matters of relevance. Not that women aren't a necessity, but one who can inspire and challenge me of my time

  • @nunoalexandre6408
    @nunoalexandre6408 Год назад +4

    True..True..and...True...

  • @David-fu4vi
    @David-fu4vi Год назад

    Well... that explains a lot. lol
    Never heard my Desperado (the song) life, so well explained.

  • @jaysegarra
    @jaysegarra Год назад +7

    It's why I stay single 🐺

  • @YanoshDanosh
    @YanoshDanosh Год назад

    Appreciate the video brother!

  • @nunoalexandre6408
    @nunoalexandre6408 Год назад +2

    Perfect description...

  • @aquiladanubiana8752
    @aquiladanubiana8752 Год назад

    It's a real joy to be able to recognize yourself in this description !

  • @worldsexecutioner7774
    @worldsexecutioner7774 Год назад +6

    How can you reject yourself if you're approaching yourself you can't get rejected because the woman is a reflection of you

  • @jonvia
    @jonvia Год назад +8

    Havent met a woman yet thats been worth my time romantically. Time is something you can never get back. I dont waste it or give it away to someone who isnt going to give the same energy back that I give to them. Im very content with living on my own and doing the things I find important in life. If a woman wants that too, great, but Im not gonna stop my life or change my life goals just bc society says I need to be married by 30, have 2 kids, be in debt til im dead, and put on a fake smile. Im genuinely happier on my own bc I control my environment. Some people call that crazy but I think they're crazy bc they cant stand being alone with their own thoughts for more than ten seconds.

  • @jamesnash6101
    @jamesnash6101 Год назад

    Great video.

  • @JoshuaLeggans
    @JoshuaLeggans Год назад +26

    It's funny I don't approach women at all and I seem to see the women who want to get their way, get attention and other things especially when they try to tell me how to do things in the store or what would be more better looking on me and what they try to do is act all stuck up, play games and the other things they do. Whenever they act plain hard to get I just don't waste my time on them and then also them trying to do the same acts they always do I just roll my eyes and go about my business I tend to stay away from those I don't find with common sense especially when they try to talk about things that bores me especially when they are constantly on their phones and that gets old and the dates with women that are so quick to annoy me with asking too many question and it's enough to pay for the meal and take their goofy ass home and not talk to them again.

  • @maximuscomfort
    @maximuscomfort Год назад +2

    Informative video and to the point. Attraction works both ways. Get your act together I.E. career, financials, healthy shape and appearance. If that doesn't give you confidence to approach or be approached MGTOW...

  • @jonatkinson4927
    @jonatkinson4927 Год назад +2

    Spot on!!!

  • @thomaswebb248
    @thomaswebb248 Год назад +2

    I have about 20 seconds of patience for the hard to get game, or any other game. But I judge primarily on looks, doubting that there is much variation in personality or much personality at all.

  • @BioStuff415
    @BioStuff415 Год назад +3

    Once an individual realizes happiness can only arise from mental peace, and mental peace can only arise from the manifestation of virtuous mental and physical actions, the pursuit of a external objects is dwindled or even abandoned. The sigma male sees things with sober examination and does not delude himself. If a woman has self centered shallow values, moral, and ethics, she will be avoided. Sigma males will only bond with the honest, faithful, and disciplined caring female.

  • @KevinCM81
    @KevinCM81 Год назад

    HS. I'm a sigma and didn't know it. Thank you rando video.

  • @VR-gs9hd
    @VR-gs9hd Год назад +4

    Fam, the only one worthy of your attention understands self-sacrifice, gratitude and impulse-control.

  • @tsmith3286
    @tsmith3286 Год назад +1

    I’m very non confrontational but will jump when needed. Short story. Many years ago I was seeing a girl. On about the 4th time together we were sitting watching TV. We suddenly got into a disagreement about something and for the first time I saw a different side of her. So I decided to turn it up just a notch to see where this might go. She turned it up waaaaaay higher to the point I knew immediately what I would do. I shut up. She won in her mind. About 5 minutes later I got up and she asked where I was going. I said to my car to get something be right back . She smiled and said ok. When I got in my car I blocked her number and drove away. Never saw her again. I dodged a bullet thankfully.

  • @samiuddinomer8154
    @samiuddinomer8154 Год назад +4

    Yes 👍

  • @miltonpowelljr9492
    @miltonpowelljr9492 Год назад +1

    Love this video, keep dem coming ♥️👍👍👍

  • @marcp.1752
    @marcp.1752 Год назад +3

    Sigma INFJ's also don't care about women anymore...after being used too many times. It's over. And ok. There are always hobbies, various interests, and animals, would could get all our attention.

  • @kellyjeaularson5786
    @kellyjeaularson5786 Год назад

    Fascinating. I wonder how long this tag has been used (Sigman). 🤔 IMHO it mostly fits me.

  • @nunoalexandre6408
    @nunoalexandre6408 Год назад +2

    True!!!!!!

  • @arvindmohite7034
    @arvindmohite7034 Год назад

    Very perfect and useful. ...video. .

  • @RobertsDigital
    @RobertsDigital Год назад +5

    Men can live happily alone even when they grow older
    Women cannot live alove. It's even worse when they get older. The best they can do is get a dog...

    • @man.i.literally.failed6772
      @man.i.literally.failed6772 Год назад

      Yeah, dogs and cats can't change a lock or fix the car

    • @littlesoul1519
      @littlesoul1519 Год назад

      “The Lord God said, “It is not good that man should be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.” (Genesis 2:18)

  • @Rocknrollstar24
    @Rocknrollstar24 Год назад

    So true, good content, I appreciate👏

  • @2bjjones
    @2bjjones Год назад +4

    Reason 1: A complete waste of time.

  • @sisp21
    @sisp21 Год назад

    Great vid!

  • @mharrtj6350
    @mharrtj6350 Год назад +6

    I am just too high value and I went through my hardest and toughest moment all alone. I function alone. I can’t just put myself on mercy of a woman by approaching her. I just too high value, she should be the one to say hi to me.

  • @MrVladanbajic
    @MrVladanbajic Год назад

    Great content. Sigma males are very aware. Tried to find...

  • @theoutlander9564
    @theoutlander9564 Год назад +4

    All the Gammas in the comment section pretending they're Sigma..."that's me!".🤣

    • @Mr.StanddOnBusiness
      @Mr.StanddOnBusiness Год назад

      Your a beta 🤣

    • @theoutlander9564
      @theoutlander9564 Год назад

      @@Mr.StanddOnBusiness LOL when an idiot hears of an archetype and thinks it's cool and doesn't realize he's the very definition of Dunning Kruger.

  • @madedigital
    @madedigital Год назад +1

    When i was younger i never step to women, i ignored there thirst for attention...I never had issue with getting them...or what i wanted.....to the point i was know as magnet . This was never my focus ....if i went out i just was happy having a good time even on my own ....I am a person on the outside seems very social to the point my wife says do not make eye contact with no one because all sorts of people will want to talk to me, but really i enjoy exploring my thoughts, and studying other people . For a while i never found a word that sums me up ....here i am and i found the word Sigma. Amazing time to be alive. If i was in a realtionship it was because i wanted to be with that person if not in one i was happy win win

  • @erkii
    @erkii Год назад +3

    The only opinion a sigma male cares about is his own. Absolutely couldn't give a sh**t if the whole world disliked them. As long as they live up to their own standards, which are often higher than most.

  • @djomadoto6921
    @djomadoto6921 Год назад +2

    Damn, I'm such a Sigma. Video really is on point!

  • @Salekin59
    @Salekin59 Год назад +11

    Can cosmetics really enhance the beauty of any woman unless the beauty generates from personality? The point is who do a woman want to impress with using make-up or fake appearance with fake eyelashes, fake body parts.
    Are women aware that men notice that high profile prostitutes, too, wear contact lenses, tinted hair, cosmetics, etc. to carelessly show off body parts to attract men that these loose women consider rich and can extract from these loose men some factors that these type of women feel interested in?
    For a truly Sigma man, the trouble free course of life is to STAY ALONE, LIKE A LONE WOLF, be that solitude for 30 years or longer.

    • @RameshBaburbabu
      @RameshBaburbabu Год назад +2

      On the spot . You spilled it out rightly . Thanks @Nikelas

  • @anothergodlessheathen
    @anothergodlessheathen Год назад +2

    You nailed it again. My goodness.

  • @mikequesada6559
    @mikequesada6559 Год назад +4

    we never approach women!

  • @tinodubois3502
    @tinodubois3502 Год назад +1

    The thumbnail was impressive.

  • @misterle7026
    @misterle7026 Год назад +3

    Are Sigma male tend to be more conservative?

    • @88ST3V307
      @88ST3V307 Год назад +2

      I'm a sigma and I would say I'm definitely more Conservative than not