I LITerally haven't even started it yet and you just got me TWICE as fucking hype, love you, fammm (also that user is SO utterly BREATHtakingly wonderful rn, LOVEIT) 💎💚🌶⚡💜🍒💎💚💪👁👄👁🤘💜💎🌶💚⚡🍒💜💎
35:40-39:00 Natasha is literally talking about being validated in a number of ways: emotionally, psychologically, intellectually and how great that feels after spending her childhood , teens, and young adults yrs feeling invalidated. This is something that isn’t discussed but a huge part of what we need as people to live fully and be present.
Unless I misunderstood, I disagree. The desire for validation is an outgrowth of the ego and generally destructive. It’s understandable and almost universal human preoccupation at least at some stage in life, but many often fail to recognize it and course correct. External validation in and of itself is a “block” People do better to realize that internal self confidence and acceptance is the only healthy mindset. Too often in modern western culture, people conflate confidence with arrogance. The mind-bending effects of social media addiction influences many to toil in the endless quest for external validation and acceptance from others. Ok I’ll shut up now I just have strong opinions on this subject. Sorry I wasn’t trying to rain on your parade but I believe this stuff is worth thinking about if you want to reach an equilibrium of peace & happiness in the realm of mental health. If someone reads this and has a minute to reply, let me know if you disagree I’m working on a mini-doc on this topic and am interested in different angles from others.
I think you're going a bit too extreme in the counter cultural direction. Yes seeking external validation can be an unhealthy preoccupation, but it also can be balancing. Autonomy is one valid drive within self development but can turn into hyper individualism. Seeking connection and exploring who the self is in reference to others is also a valid drive
Easily the best episode yet. That was really great. I love the part about “OD corner” and experiencing time disorientation. Didn’t realize that was something other people felt outside déjà vu and general nostalgia.
"It;s OK to not be a resolved human being". Thank you to Natasha Lyonne and Neal Brennan for that insite and the invitation to be who I've always been.
Her love language is the film of the 70s and her hairstyle is the 2020s Mary Hartman; sounds like the 3rd place is describing external circumstances combining with a very intense dopamine release. Such a great episode. Thanks Neil, Natasha and crew (who does the editing? fun & clever moments following dialogue esp. the weird loop!). The Roky Erickson reference and application of the lyric resonated huge for me.
"I don't wanna be an advertisement for anything, I just think that life is so tricky that you never know" True and wise words Natasha, I feel that way too, I can absolutely identify with that!!
Natasha has always been an incredible actress but I have to say her hair style is incredible!!! So cool to see this personal side of her as well... Keep it up Neil 🙏🙌
she is quite possibly the coolest person alive. big s/o to neal cause the champs is my favorite podcast ever and he has another great one on his hands here.
Sometimes I can’t believe that’s her real voice 😆 it’s so distinct and for a whole I wasn’t sure if it was just part of characters. Kinda fun how it’s evolved, I love watching stuff from when she was younger and hearing basically a whole different voice
"The turn is out there right now doing pushups"... Lines like this are a big part of why I listen to this podcast... Neal's throwaway jokes that are better than what most people can write
~ I so appreciate and relate to Natasha’s story, regarding “the dark night of the soul” period of her life. Dare I say, I’m coming out of that stage … myself. That meta experience of addiction is spot on. It’s comforting to hear someone articulate this perspective; it’s a unique point of view I haven’t heard explored, before. The narc in too deep metaphor - yadda yadda, perfect. 👌
It's amazing that you have a podcast with a ton of episodes for the sole purpose of plugging your netflix special. jk much love, great show and guests.
I know that having to add "not in a creepy way" to a comment means that you should probably not post the comment but ... I could listen to Natasha talk forever.
i legit didnt recconize her at first bcuz i was so used to the movie view, hair etc. idk. i was immediately like omg love the red hair, whoa nice voice, very attactive, who is this, then that movie pic came on i stopped the video then i could see after. i hope this was a compliment. it was a pleasurable surprise, shes always been gorgeous. ill be honest i think i didnt know the name well. so that was it. but because of that, my intial first impression was changed, not in any good or bad way. just like seeing someone for first time with out your previous preconceptions of things you've seen them in or maybe you knew in person back in the day, super interesting start. honestly more of a fan cuz i didnt have that "oh its this person (celebrity)" it was just oh heres a human i find really cool. and thats permanent. once i saw, which was pretty quick. and it can never go back. my view of her. that alone shown a side of her i may not of seen cuz i grew up with all the movie personas in my head. again not good bad better or worse it just ADDED to what was already there. ANYWAY! loved the show, Neal. loved you on the show Natasha, related to many things you spoke of. cheers :)
Our young life choices ( philosophy, literature, alternative lifestyle/divergent path) are amazingly parallel...I feel I'm listening to myself...it's quite remarkable. I have never felt that before. Thank you Natasha!
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Damn, Natasha Lyonne! What an absolute gem. Such a creative and intelligent and thoughtful human, amazing!
shut up
She is definitely one of the most literate/articulate actors I've ever seen.
I don’t know if someone who thinks “articulate” and “literate” are synonyms should be in charge of ranking actors on how articulate they are.
I wonder how old you are then...
@@abcdefg2120you don’t understand the connections of words and vocabulary to reading and writing?
"It's OK not to be a resolved human being." That hit hard.
I LITerally haven't even started it yet and you just got me TWICE as fucking hype, love you, fammm (also that user is SO utterly BREATHtakingly wonderful rn, LOVEIT) 💎💚🌶⚡💜🍒💎💚💪👁👄👁🤘💜💎🌶💚⚡🍒💜💎
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can’t believe i found someone else who likes both natasha lyonne and Arsenal… up the gunners🔴
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Every week, I let out an actual cheer when I see the guest
Same. I actually said “yes!” Out loud just now. 😂
Sounds like a fine tradition to maintain
My jaw hit the floor when I saw Natasha’s name. Legend.
Natasha Lyonne talking off the top of her head is like a Spalding Gray monologue. She is going to be an awesome old lady.
35:40-39:00 Natasha is literally talking about being validated in a number of ways: emotionally, psychologically, intellectually and how great that feels after spending her childhood , teens, and young adults yrs feeling invalidated. This is something that isn’t discussed but a huge part of what we need as people to live fully and be present.
Unless I misunderstood, I disagree. The desire for validation is an outgrowth of the ego and generally destructive. It’s understandable and almost universal human preoccupation at least at some stage in life, but many often fail to recognize it and course correct. External validation in and of itself is a “block”
People do better to realize that internal self confidence and acceptance is the only healthy mindset. Too often in modern western culture, people conflate confidence with arrogance.
The mind-bending effects of social media addiction influences many to toil in the endless quest for external validation and acceptance from others.
Ok I’ll shut up now I just have strong opinions on this subject.
Sorry I wasn’t trying to rain on your parade but I believe this stuff is worth thinking about if you want to reach an equilibrium of peace & happiness in the realm of mental health.
If someone reads this and has a minute to reply, let me know if you disagree I’m working on a mini-doc on this topic and am interested in different angles from others.
I think you're going a bit too extreme in the counter cultural direction. Yes seeking external validation can be an unhealthy preoccupation, but it also can be balancing. Autonomy is one valid drive within self development but can turn into hyper individualism. Seeking connection and exploring who the self is in reference to others is also a valid drive
@@chasedwards9626 If you don't get validation in your formative years, you may learn to self-validate. Or you may not and just be miserable.
I really liked what you said and agree!
Easily the best episode yet. That was really great. I love the part about “OD corner” and experiencing time disorientation. Didn’t realize that was something other people felt outside déjà vu and general nostalgia.
"It;s OK to not be a resolved human being". Thank you to Natasha Lyonne and Neal Brennan for that insite and the invitation to be who I've always been.
She's a fking poet ❤ What a beautiful soul.
This was my favorite episode so far. What a worthwhile conversation. THANK YOU!!!!
Her love language is the film of the 70s and her hairstyle is the 2020s Mary Hartman; sounds like the 3rd place is describing external circumstances combining with a very intense dopamine release. Such a great episode. Thanks Neil, Natasha and crew (who does the editing? fun & clever moments following dialogue esp. the weird loop!). The Roky Erickson reference and application of the lyric resonated huge for me.
never seen Natasha on a pod, loved Russian Doll amongst other things she's done.
wow loved this conversation and love her so much
Normally not the commenting type but you can tell this is someone whose spent a lot of time thinking and being creative.
man she's so cool, and right about that whole "pause" thing. getting old only sucks because we can extrapolate where it leads
This is the show I've been looking for.
Poker Face is deffo one of the best 5 things I've seen this past year. Great fun.
The game show ding at the mention of a block is so hilarious to me. I fully love it!
This was Brilliant and extremely relatable. Thank you for this.
girl can talk! she seems like the coolest friend that none of us hav
"...Because I'm 22..."
*Neil laughs* 🤣💀
How do you not love Natasha Lyonne. This personality type is difficult to manage or live with, but as a friend... endless love, joy and inspiration.
Few things are more gratifying than making someone you respect laugh.
"I don't wanna be an advertisement for anything, I just think that life is so tricky that you never know"
True and wise words Natasha, I feel that way too, I can absolutely identify with that!!
Don’t worry because there’s been enough ads jammed into the ep you don’t have to Natasha
@@cmluka2081 Hahaha okay!! 😂😂😅
What an amazing conversation.
What an awesome episode. Needed to hear a lot of this at this point in my life. Thank you for doing this pod 💫🙏
Natasha has always been an incredible actress but I have to say her hair style is incredible!!! So cool to see this personal side of her as well... Keep it up Neil 🙏🙌
This was one of the best podcast episode i’ve ever listened.
Thank you very much!!
“It’s okay to not be a fully resolved human being.” Gold
Poker Face turned out to be a very pleasant surprise. Binge watched it in two nights.
this was a fantastic conversation! wow! Thanks!
INCREDIBLE!
Natasha is one of the absolute best. I loved this episode so much.
'this... trouble-spot of personhood' so good. what more needs to be said
I remember her from *Everyone Says I Love You.* I am thrilled to see her continue to reap the rewards of her hard work.
Favorite one so far from. Blocks. Love her spirit
she is quite possibly the coolest person alive.
big s/o to neal cause the champs is my favorite podcast ever and he has another great one on his hands here.
I have always loved Natasha. So happy to see her still doing great. What an amazing person!
Wish this was twice as long! Great episode and Natasha is FASCINATING ❤
Sometimes I can’t believe that’s her real voice 😆 it’s so distinct and for a whole I wasn’t sure if it was just part of characters. Kinda fun how it’s evolved, I love watching stuff from when she was younger and hearing basically a whole different voice
love already. thank you for this today. been having a tiring time with ailing parents. but look forward to some of these for a moments respite
Can't express enough how much I love her ❤️. Her energy is very lovely and positive. She's so intelligent en open minded. 😍
Three episodes into Poker Face and loving it.
Can relate. I checked out a copy of naked lunch at the university in 2001 and started making decisions like this. Long road back from that path
Wow. While this is not what I expect (nor maybe want?) from a comedy podcast; man I'm glad this turned out deep and insightful like it did.
She is such a fiery force of nature and I love the hell out of her. 😃❤️
Look at this. Two of some of my favorite people ❤
"The turn is out there right now doing pushups"... Lines like this are a big part of why I listen to this podcast... Neal's throwaway jokes that are better than what most people can write
"the turn has a large coffee. its got time"
Never realised natasha was so interesting. Blown away by her.
Every week I love this podcast more and more :’)
Excellent
This may be one of the greatest conversations I’ve been able to be a fly on the wall for ❤
Great perspective, great episode.
~ I so appreciate and relate to Natasha’s story, regarding “the dark night of the soul” period of her life. Dare I say, I’m coming out of that stage … myself.
That meta experience of addiction is spot on. It’s comforting to hear someone articulate this perspective; it’s a unique point of view I haven’t heard explored, before.
The narc in too deep metaphor - yadda yadda, perfect. 👌
Laughed way too hard at the PEACOCK bit lol😅😂😂
The peacock bit lives rent free in my mind now.
Loved this interview
What a fantastic guest
Omg ❤ never have been more excited to see your podcast than when I saw my girl crush’s name pop up❤️🔥
Best one yet.
I love her voice! The tone, but also the substance ❤
But I am a cheerleader as well; an inimitable film that only Natasha could have made as good as it is.
Awesome Neal! Just keep doing it.
What a crazy duo, never thought I'd see Natasha here but I'm extremely happy about this. Thank you Neal!
She is such a powerful bright light of presence fr fr
Please keep bringing the claw back
I love that she is natural looking, no lip fillers etc.
Excited for this episode!❤
If Neal goes any farther center with that side part it’s going to officially be on the other side.
I saw The Slums of Beverly Hills in the theater too.
Natasha you're amazing!
I’m so excited to watch this!
It's amazing that you have a podcast with a ton of episodes for the sole purpose of plugging your netflix special. jk much love, great show and guests.
Every episode a banger so far
Second time listening cause I love this one
Been crushing on this girl for like 20 years. Sharp and stupid hot.
Omg is this at WTF Media Studios?!
Love she's not scared of the word
She’s amazing and smart, such an inspiration. And funny! I think she should have played Elizabeth Wurtzel
I have always loved natasha.❤
She’s amazing
I absolutely love Natasha!
I feel like I'm in a K hole listening to this. So deep.
my favorite snd only actress in the entire world
"We shame shame!" Love it!
This one was relatable in a not totally uncomfortable but still kinda uncomfortable way.
I know that having to add "not in a creepy way" to a comment means that you should probably not post the comment but ... I could listen to Natasha talk forever.
i legit didnt recconize her at first bcuz i was so used to the movie view, hair etc. idk. i was immediately like omg love the red hair, whoa nice voice, very attactive, who is this, then that movie pic came on i stopped the video then i could see after. i hope this was a compliment. it was a pleasurable surprise, shes always been gorgeous. ill be honest i think i didnt know the name well. so that was it. but because of that, my intial first impression was changed, not in any good or bad way. just like seeing someone for first time with out your previous preconceptions of things you've seen them in or maybe you knew in person back in the day, super interesting start. honestly more of a fan cuz i didnt have that "oh its this person (celebrity)" it was just oh heres a human i find really cool. and thats permanent. once i saw, which was pretty quick. and it can never go back. my view of her. that alone shown a side of her i may not of seen cuz i grew up with all the movie personas in my head. again not good bad better or worse it just ADDED to what was already there. ANYWAY!
loved the show, Neal. loved you on the show Natasha, related to many things you spoke of. cheers :)
I feel heard. Thank you. ❤
Thanks Neal love Natasha and Poker Face.
Natasha has such a Louise Lasser doppelgänger vibe in this interview.
I need a version of Curb Your Enthusiasm with her where she’s a grouch to everything
This is the most visually Beetlejuice episode I've seen yet.
Good stuff.
She is so phenomenal - all the way back to "Slums..."
16:55 exactly what I always say! Finally I feel comfortable in my mind and body and now it has to start aging(slightly). 😮
I’ve see her act in a lot of stuff I don’t remember her voice being that 1920s mobster voice before.
Finally someone highlights the dangers of workahol.
Bring back HOW NEAL FEEL!!!!!!!! I miss binky and comedy!!!!
Our young life choices ( philosophy, literature, alternative lifestyle/divergent path) are amazingly parallel...I feel I'm listening to myself...it's quite remarkable. I have never felt that before. Thank you Natasha!
Way to make it about you kid
Her voice. She sounds like a cartoon, and I love it. WEIRDOS UNITE!