The fact he's so happy to get *real* hugs from his own children makes me question this whole family. If it comes out none of them actually being his I'd believe it
How effed is it that this dude has to leave his Family for them to understand and still only after he gets suicidal. And poor guy is happy for REAL HUGS?! I’m very glad he didn’t end it.
She pretty much confessed she was cheating since she was adamant they'd had sex that February. I kinda hope that OP's kids that have wronged him have children that treat them like that one day. You dont just change and treat your SO like that out of nowhere for no reason.
I know the "we did it in February" sounds a bit... Suspicious. But it's possible that it was an honest mistake. (Human memory is imperfect, she could have been imagining an earlier sexual session with the op and just got the date wrong.) What is notable is how the wife thinks it actually helps her case. The IP was complaining about lack of intimacy so saying "we did it months ago" doesn't really help your case
It's heartbreaking how OP's effort and love go unappreciated, especially on Father’s Day and his birthday. No one deserves to feel invisible in their own family.
It depends on who she married in the first place. Some partners are definitely tit-for-tat when it concerns relationships. He could have plausibly escalated things to the point where both of them commit suicide.
I would say there’s no way she didn’t realize it was Father’s Day, except she was surprised when he mentioned it. That doesn’t make it any better, though, as it means she didn’t give him any thought or care because any mentions of Father’s Day should have made her think of him, but they didn’t, at least not enough for her to consider it important. Especially considering they’ve been together for a couple decades, and he’s been a father for 17 years and his birthday is always close to Father’s Day. Even if it wasn’t Father’s Day, the whole family ditching him without warning indicates they don’t value him, just what he does in service of them. She really needs to explain her certainty about sex, because her having had it with someone else is by far the most reasonable explanation, followed by her just not considering it important or significant her life/relationship.
Yep, she was most definitely cheating! I guarantee the 17 year old knows about it, and all the kids took a cue from the mothers disrespect of the father. The wife probably lost respect for him because he showed too much emotional weakness mourning his mother and went to one of her coworker backups. It is incredibly easy for a women to find someone to cheat with, and she definitely covered her tracks and deleted everything after he asked her the first time. His gut is telling him something is wrong for a reason, cause it is. I wouldn't be surprised if the kids no about moms infidelity, in fact I wouldn't be shocked if the kids aren't even his.
@@deadpatriot4437 unfortunately, we men need to be always on high alert. no matter the case, if you suspect, or sees any flaws of disrespect, contact a privater investigators to see if you find any proof.
Would explain why she kept wanting sex as soon as they started therapy together. Never respecting his decisions until her own therapist told her to stop it. Like- that’s sus too….
So story 1 OP was going through an extended and apparently subtle depression after his mom died and his wife and kids just went like "OP is acting distant, fuck him." Very supportive family. Story 2: how that kind of mother afford to and have the mental fortitude earn a masters and be on the way to a phd? Things dont add up.
My gf and i moved into a new house i bought. Along with us came her two daughters. It was funny how quickly I found myself alone in this house of 4. I would try to get the daughters to help out with basic chores or mowing. It was like I was not to be listened to. After 5 years and mult efforts to get them to understand I am not just an atm and fixit guy, I told them all they need to start looking for a place because I was selling it. I still see them and we hang out sometimes, but it is nice to no longer be tied to them with the house. There is nothing harder than the bosum of a woman who does not care about u.
Ok but i dont think they actually forgot about fathers day OP says they are on their phones a lot so like doesn't ads come up like in target there r ads for fathers day with less prices or smth like that with the date of fathers day AND if they went out they would see more ads like on busses and stuff so idk how they could forget I feel like they forgot in the morning and then saw like smth and then didn't wanna come back cause of feeling guilty LIKE HOW DO U FOGET FATHERS DAY
Well said. And as for 1st OP's daughters, karma will catch up to them, before too long; when the oldest daughter marries a guy who cheats on her, the middle daughter marries a guy who abuses her (mentally, emotionally, verbally, and physically, to the point where cops and EMTs show up at the door), and the youngest daughter stays with a boyfriend who uses her as purple ATM, and throws her out on the street, they have children with those toxic men, and having to raise their children alone, they'll come to OP, and beg him for forgiveness, but he'll tell them to pound sand.⚠️
the only thing you have tried to be really good at is being a very good and soft cashmere doormat. when you let your wife treat you like that, the duaghters will follow, and sometimes the son.
@Dustin81 if you were in his shoes, would you not focus on yourself to set boundaries better, or would you ask other people to call out those 3 evil witches.
Acted like a d00rmat for 1.5 years and is surprised they treat him like one. OP, you're in this situation because you were too foolish, too spineless and too weak to walk away from dismissive and disrespectful behaviour.
The fact he's so happy to get *real* hugs from his own children makes me question this whole family. If it comes out none of them actually being his I'd believe it
Simp needs to leave the relationship. What a joke of a man.
Every attempt from the wife and kids to mend things after OP left feels like pointless damage control.
1st - get a dna test done on all kids.
2nd - divorce asap.
How effed is it that this dude has to leave his Family for them to understand and still only after he gets suicidal. And poor guy is happy for REAL HUGS?! I’m very glad he didn’t end it.
She pretty much confessed she was cheating since she was adamant they'd had sex that February.
I kinda hope that OP's kids that have wronged him have children that treat them like that one day.
You dont just change and treat your SO like that out of nowhere for no reason.
I know the "we did it in February" sounds a bit... Suspicious. But it's possible that it was an honest mistake. (Human memory is imperfect, she could have been imagining an earlier sexual session with the op and just got the date wrong.)
What is notable is how the wife thinks it actually helps her case. The IP was complaining about lack of intimacy so saying "we did it months ago" doesn't really help your case
I'd immediately divorce after the "I guess you expect to have sex" line because it's so dismissive and condescending.
It's heartbreaking how OP's effort and love go unappreciated, especially on Father’s Day and his birthday. No one deserves to feel invisible in their own family.
The wife's behavior is intentional. She intended to hurt OP. she wanted him to feel bad. That form of betrayal is unforgivable
It depends on who she married in the first place. Some partners are definitely tit-for-tat when it concerns relationships. He could have plausibly escalated things to the point where both of them commit suicide.
If he had to leave for them to finally take him seriously, it is done. Too little too late
Agreed. The 3-strike rule should be enforced if feeling "stuck" in those relationships.
Seeing how OP has been treated, the wife could've done almost anything and it would have been an improvement.
This OP is a joke for staying. How pathetic is this simp? Cry more you little twat. Should've left at the beginning.
1st story: OP is close to the edge. It's terrible that this boss cares more about his welfare than his family. Hs wife is cold blooded.
She punished him and cut him out because he cracked after his mom died. Weakness in men is severely punished.
So youngest saved opies life with her love.
I would say there’s no way she didn’t realize it was Father’s Day, except she was surprised when he mentioned it. That doesn’t make it any better, though, as it means she didn’t give him any thought or care because any mentions of Father’s Day should have made her think of him, but they didn’t, at least not enough for her to consider it important. Especially considering they’ve been together for a couple decades, and he’s been a father for 17 years and his birthday is always close to Father’s Day.
Even if it wasn’t Father’s Day, the whole family ditching him without warning indicates they don’t value him, just what he does in service of them.
She really needs to explain her certainty about sex, because her having had it with someone else is by far the most reasonable explanation, followed by her just not considering it important or significant her life/relationship.
Yep, she was most definitely cheating! I guarantee the 17 year old knows about it, and all the kids took a cue from the mothers disrespect of the father. The wife probably lost respect for him because he showed too much emotional weakness mourning his mother and went to one of her coworker backups. It is incredibly easy for a women to find someone to cheat with, and she definitely covered her tracks and deleted everything after he asked her the first time. His gut is telling him something is wrong for a reason, cause it is. I wouldn't be surprised if the kids no about moms infidelity, in fact I wouldn't be shocked if the kids aren't even his.
It's an old story heard this one before maybe they were celebrating with there real father😂
@@deadpatriot4437 unfortunately, we men need to be always on high alert. no matter the case, if you suspect, or sees any flaws of disrespect, contact a privater investigators to see if you find any proof.
Would explain why she kept wanting sex as soon as they started therapy together. Never respecting his decisions until her own therapist told her to stop it. Like- that’s sus too….
The trains stopped running on time as they say... that's how they noticed he was gone, that is the only reason they all reached out.
Just LEAVE!!!
They DO NOT care about you...
Protect Your Energy!!!
Protect Your Peace!!!
Selfish a$$holes!!!
Are they even YOUR children?!?!?
So story 1 OP was going through an extended and apparently subtle depression after his mom died and his wife and kids just went like "OP is acting distant, fuck him." Very supportive family.
Story 2: how that kind of mother afford to and have the mental fortitude earn a masters and be on the way to a phd? Things dont add up.
My gf and i moved into a new house i bought. Along with us came her two daughters. It was funny how quickly I found myself alone in this house of 4. I would try to get the daughters to help out with basic chores or mowing. It was like I was not to be listened to. After 5 years and mult efforts to get them to understand I am not just an atm and fixit guy, I told them all they need to start looking for a place because I was selling it. I still see them and we hang out sometimes, but it is nice to no longer be tied to them with the house. There is nothing harder than the bosum of a woman who does not care about u.
Ok but i dont think they actually forgot about fathers day OP says they are on their phones a lot so like doesn't ads come up like in target there r ads for fathers day with less prices or smth like that with the date of fathers day AND if they went out they would see more ads like on busses and stuff so idk how they could forget I feel like they forgot in the morning and then saw like smth and then didn't wanna come back cause of feeling guilty LIKE HOW DO U FOGET FATHERS DAY
the wife making the date for the United States of America is a true patriot i guess
dude instead of updating in the end to talk about he and his wife situation he literally just started updating about some random ass thing
Sad thing is story one will resonate with so many men these days .
"She said she's still working through some things" - translation: she needs time to sort things out with the AP.
😆
The backgrounds on these make me anxious af.
11:21 how many fucking magnets do you need⁉️
I wish we have a updatr from the first story
Poor guy.
Well said. And as for 1st OP's daughters, karma will catch up to them, before too long; when the oldest daughter marries a guy who cheats on her, the middle daughter marries a guy who abuses her (mentally, emotionally, verbally, and physically, to the point where cops and EMTs show up at the door), and the youngest daughter stays with a boyfriend who uses her as purple ATM, and throws her out on the street, they have children with those toxic men, and having to raise their children alone, they'll come to OP, and beg him for forgiveness, but he'll tell them to pound sand.⚠️
ngl id leave and never look back
I think, OP knows better than us about the real problems. He just feels Trapped.
15:30 AHA! Here i see the ai proof! Gender was changed
Fr now I am totally confused
this is were you take her to court sue for being used as a atm you can recover money in small claims
Simptails
Simp
I too go in a date for the United States they deserve to have a good time every now and then xd
They don't like you why it take so long for you to see it
dude she just to close to be caugth hahaha you have no balls
the only thing you have tried to be really good at is being a very good and soft cashmere doormat. when you let your wife treat you like that, the duaghters will follow, and sometimes the son.
Yeah lets focus on him and not what horrible people they are.
@Dustin81 if you were in his shoes, would you not focus on yourself to set boundaries better, or would you ask other people to call out those 3 evil witches.
Oop oop oop
Acted like a d00rmat for 1.5 years and is surprised they treat him like one. OP, you're in this situation because you were too foolish, too spineless and too weak to walk away from dismissive and disrespectful behaviour.