Holding On, Letting Go: Inside The Children's ICU
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At 3, she's been in and out of hospital 15 times. How do you decide when to let your child go, and when to hold on to the slightest hope? Hard decisions like this are faced by parents and doctors inside the Children's ICU at KK Women's and Children's Hospital in Singapore.
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Unprecedented access was given to Channel NewsAsia inside the Children’s ICU at KK Women’s and Children’s Hospital.
This five-part series documents life inside the Children’s ICU - the daily struggle of children as young as three years old who have to fight for their right to live; the emotional turmoil this elicits in their parents; and the men and women in white who stoically wage wars against life-threatening diseases so that these children can grow up.
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“Maybe we should stop being so selfish and let her go” my heart broke
As cruel as it is to say, it would've been the better option. She died not long after this, and why let her suffer that long, expend so many resources, if it's just prolonging the inevitable?
I guess, my experience is my first dog. I got her when I was 9, and 10 years later she got cancer, and we took her in to get her treated and it kept her alive for so long, but she wasn't happy. A lot of her hair fell out, and she was weak and slept a lot. I guess, what is the use of living if there's no happiness? Joy? Fun? Why live in pain? If I could go back, I would've saved the money I spent on treatment, and given her a much happier, healthier ending instead. One last good week for her, rather than months of gradual decline until she wasn't the same.
Flashbacks when I was still little and stupid and very selfish. I didn’t understand death but now I do, it honestly haunts me. My grandma was really sick and in the hospital for a while. My dad had to make the hard decision to let her go. She was suffering and we were going on the fantasy of her being able to leave her room so she could sit outside. I didn’t understand and didn’t like the hospital and would rather stay home. But I regret it so much and just wish to say goodbye. It scared me knowing just a month or so after, I was diagnosed with the same lung infection that killed her and my dad’s closet friend not too long ago. I lived, but have a high risk of getting it now.
@@Korijenkins1414 but I guess the parents have hope that some how there child will pull through miraculously and live for longer happily ...they can never know how long the child will survive for sure it's a really difficult decision to make
Kori Jenkins you’re not in their position.
It must be a painful decision for any parent to make in their lives if it ever came to it. I remember my grandma was very sick with cancer, and her treatment wasn’t really helping. So my grandad had to decide to keep her on it longer so he could spend more time with her, but her quality of life would’ve worsened and worsened, so the only thing we could do was make her comfortable in her final days. RIP Gran❤️
What breaks me is that she doesn’t understand why this is happening to her. She just wants to get up and play.
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She probably doesnt know any better
"Leave the sadness to the last and just enjoy what we have now." well said Dad.
Her father is a good man.
when i was 15yrs old, i tried committing suicide. i took 20 pills. i was so close to death. my whole body swelled up. i got bumps all over my body. my throat was startin to close up and i could barely even breathe. i knew i was seconds away from death. i was gasping for air. i got scared and regretted it right away. i wished ive never done it. for the first time in my life, i cried out to God and told him i dont wanna die. i jus need help. plz help me. plz help me. i wept. within seconds, i felt this warmth, love and peace surround me. i knew for a fact it was God. within seconds, he healed my whole body. i could breathe. swelling was gone. he instantly delivered me from suicidal thoughts and depression after strugglin with it for 6yrs. psychiatrists and psychologists and takin their medicine never helped. the only thing that WORKED was when i cried out to God and asked him for help. he instantly saved me and delivered me and performed miracles on me. he gave me a new outlook on life. for once in my life i actually wanted to live and not die. that was something odd for me cuz for 6yrs i wanted to die so bad. my mom had cancer and shes the reason why i tried taking my life cuz i didnt wanna lose her. i lost her at 16yrs old and lost my dad at 17yrs old. i didnt kno Jesus until i was 24 n a half yrs old. im 25 now n my relationship with Jesus is so strong. hes helped me change into a whole diff person. ppl actually see the miraculous change in me. if it wasnt for Jesus, id be dead right now. The only healer u need is Jesus. hes our healer. Go to Jesus for healing. im living proof 😊💖 Jesus loves u😊💖 he wants u to repent and forsake ur sins, be born again and place ur faith n trust in him. start havin a personal relationship with Jesus and obey him 😊💖.
@@vanessabunnie9262 Awesome Testimony! 👑
why can't I have my child's father like this? My child is same. Amidst all this Covid 19 craziness. My anxiety is through the roof and he Turned his Back on us and LEFT US to date and start a New Life with a 25year old Girl. ☹️😭😭😭 My HEART is BEYOND BROKEN.
@@vanessabunnie9262 glad you are sharing good news to them. We need Jesus in our life. Please take time to know Him 🙏🏼. Revelation 21:4 And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; (B)there shall be no more death, (C)nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away.”
This reminds me of my son. Born with fatal disease. We let him go following doctor's advice. Sometimes we wondered if we should, but looking at the needles and the feeding tubes and ventilator, he would be in much discomfort. I still remember he was so happy when I breast fed him, how he longed for our cuddle which makes it difficult because of all the equipment. My daughter till this days still cried her eyes out whenever she thought of him. We miss you Rafy.
…God bless you in every way- and God bless rafy too- im so sorry 😞 ❤️
Foo why u gotta make me tear up
Rip Rafy sorry for you loss I’m sure he’s in a better place 🕊
I'm so deeply sorry.
So sorry for your loss!
A children's ICU is one of the saddest most depressing places in the world.
I could not do it. God bless those who can work there to care for these precious babies, but I do not have the strength.
I work in a neonatal ICU and thought that one day I would not feel pain anymore seeing these cute little ones pass away
But it never does ;(
i cant believe this is even in my recommended
I would cry everyday and probably be a ball of depression. God bless those with the strength to carry such a heavy burden.
@@iam19970625 Bless you and the work you do. 🤗
You could tell the dad is trying so hard to be strong... so sad.
his voice is shaking when he speaks
when i was 15yrs old, i tried committing suicide. i took 20 pills. i was so close to death. my whole body swelled up. i got bumps all over my body. my throat was startin to close up and i could barely even breathe. i knew i was seconds away from death. i was gasping for air. i got scared and regretted it right away. i wished ive never done it. for the first time in my life, i cried out to God and told him i dont wanna die. i jus need help. plz help me. plz help me. i wept. within seconds, i felt this warmth, love and peace surround me. i knew for a fact it was God. within seconds, he healed my whole body. i could breathe. swelling was gone. he instantly delivered me from suicidal thoughts and depression after strugglin with it for 6yrs. psychiatrists and psychologists and takin their medicine never helped. the only thing that WORKED was when i cried out to God and asked him for help. he instantly saved me and delivered me and performed miracles on me. he gave me a new outlook on life. for once in my life i actually wanted to live and not die. that was something odd for me cuz for 6yrs i wanted to die so bad. my mom had cancer and shes the reason why i tried taking my life cuz i didnt wanna lose her. i lost her at 16yrs old and lost my dad at 17yrs old. i didnt kno Jesus until i was 24 n a half yrs old. im 25 now n my relationship with Jesus is so strong. hes helped me change into a whole diff person. ppl actually see the miraculous change in me. if it wasnt for Jesus, id be dead right now. The only healer u need is Jesus. hes our healer. Go to Jesus for healing. im living proof 😊💖 Jesus loves u😊💖 he wants u to repent and forsake ur sins, be born again and place ur faith n trust in him. start havin a personal relationship with Jesus and obey him 😊💖.
God bless you
@@vanessabunnie9262 God Bless you! I'm glad that you're still here❤
@@vanessabunnie9262 Amazing. Praise the lord.
When her tear dropped, my heart broke. She looks like she’s in so much pain but you can see that she’s a fighter too!
Paeng Keov Sadly she passed away 😞 but she’s not in pain anymore
Me too 😢
Paeng Keov omg me too i cried after seeing the teardrops. very sad. I feel the pain for both parents.
👩👩👧 people wjdjdjuduwuwkdkdkdsjsusjwujwwjwjjshssjshshhshshshsudsuussjdjdhdydhdyhd I don't have a great day and I will be there at least at the r I have to go
I am eating pizza and chicken nighets while watching this. Is that disrespectful?
Whenever I feel stressed or hopeless about my studies (I'm in med school) I watch these kinds of videos and remember what I'm studying for and what I want to do in life: help save people or at least help them suffer as little as possible. Much respect for all healthcare workers out there!
Edit: Thank you so much for all the replies guys 😭❤
Foarte frumos spus Antonia. Succes!
@@lorebringers Multumesc mult!
Thank you for choosing this tough profession.
I hope you do very well. You're in it for the right reasons. I look up to that
DOn't forget to take care of your mental health along the way brother. Be the difference you want to see.
Sadly, she passed away on the 5/6/18. Bless her soul and let her rip.
at least she’s not suffering anymore..
She's no longer suffering
Ah this is so sad! At least she's not suffering any longer :(
Mhm.
May i ask how did you find this information out
I started crying when her sister was told she wasn’t going to be with her anymore :c
*that hurts*
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i kno2 :(
same that was when i started tearing up.
Me too :(
The old man is stupid and insenstive for saying that to the sister in front of the patient. Utter stupidity.
her dad is the most strongest person i have ever seen
it is a her what the
@@kylie.734 There's a mother and a father
I needed his strength once
@@kylie.734 Don’t have that attitude if you’ve never experienced it lol... Sometimes it hurts more seeing a loved one going through pain then the one who’s going through the pain. And even if it’s not the same well never know, it still extremely hard.
appreciation for the parents
“Maybe we should not be so selfish and…let her go.” This killed me
5:20 this dad is phenomenal, I’m glad that he understands it
They shouldn’t be so selfish
@@jennynott3841 and they weren't
I TOTALLY AGREE 😭😭😭
@@jennynott3841and they weren’t, they were willing to let her rest in peace
@@jennynott3841 they said if she crashed they would put her on morphine until she passed peacefully. she wasn't done fighting to live yet. and you dont have any right to judge a family for how they say goodbye to their child. watch the video and understand the decision before commenting something rude
It breaks my heart when her older sister came in and told her “come on you can do it little sister cmon”
Yes I know chinese
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I heard "keep going sister. You're doing good"
Yeah right ....
yes i was looking for this comment! it broke my heart as well :’(
@Molly McConnell I was never being rude. I was agreeing but my other comments was deleted along with someone else's comment. It is heart breaking to watch this but we know that this is a cycle of life. It just hurts so much more when we see children go through this...
It must be so heartbreaking being an employee at a childrens' hospital, seeing young children suffer like that.
moonxiu subliminals I Pray for ALL Care givers. They’re a Very Special breed of People Whom are Very Strong, Courageous ,Humans. God Bless Them ALL. Huge Hugs 🤗. Thank Y’all! So much.
The nurses and doctors like it when they see a kid who isnt dying or seriously messed up like this. I was a patient of the hematology/ oncology clinic for our local children's hospital. I was one of the few kids who didnt have cancer so dealing with me wasn't as heartbreaking as a small bald kid who looks like death
I know someone who wanted to become a pediatrician, but then decided against it b/c they didn’t want to see children dying, or become desensitized to it. Don’t blame them. It takes a special kind of dedication, focus and passion to go into the medical field.
@@runway5338 it must wear on you after a while and make them question god for allowing terrible things to happen to innocent children
God is good all the time. God Bless 💕
I feel so bad for the dad saying “lets stop being selfish” its so sad because he loves her but understands the pain shes going through 😢
@Maria Gomez Did you have a stroke when you typed this??
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This is true. When you have a relative with a prolonged incurable illness, you want their suffering to end. My grandmother suffered for 23 years with meningeoma and we watched her suffer immensely. 😢 She went from being very independent (able to walk, talk, run the household, care for grandpa, etc) to being dependent on nurses for 24hr care after 3 major surgeries. The last of which she barely survived. She finally passed in June 2021 from complications of meningeoma and a bacterial infection she had contracted.
We, as a family, had had mixed feelings. We didn't want her to die. But we also knew she was suffering immensely with no cure. The doctors had to tell my aunt, who was power of attorney, that there was nothing they could do as the problem was genetic. When she did pass on, we felt relief that she was now in Paradise and had gone home. It's a very difficult situation to deal with. I feel for this family.
Sorry to disturb but, is there any timestamp-?
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“Leave the sadness for later”, such strong parents and that tear rolling down that baby girls face was so poignant and touching.
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That one tear from her eye broke my heart to a gazillion pieces!!
Well a heart isn't hard soooo....
I just wanted to take the time to say I'm on my wife's RUclips account 1st lol but I have two girls one 4 the other is not mine or my wife's by blood kid my wife's half sister
My wife's dad passed away three years ago and leah 9 has been in are life from the time she was 6 so in my heart she is my second child my dalter calls her sister but all I won't to say is yes seeing the little girl cry broke my heart and I live in the us and from the time we are born into this world we are well most of us are talt a religion mine was the holy bible
But to me no matter your religion we all pray to the same God in the end and I will pray for there little ones for the rest of my life for the people who do not know me when I say stuff like that I will do as I say jesus in my eyes is the way and the truth I'm not trying to offend anyone with what I'm saying so Im sorry if saying I'm a Christian and I my belief is not what some else worships that your choice but in the end weather I'm right or wrong and hinido Muslim and any other is right all I'm saying is pray how ever u plz but pray that this kids get better and that in my life love is all so out of all I said I love you two sho ever might read this and two the children all over the world that are sick.
Ps just remember do on to others as u would do onto your self and that evil begets evil love and prayer conquers all
Sneha Sakharkar I am honestly crying and praying to God
F Paydaş allah is just human God is Real
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My heart broke. She didn't want to die . You could see her clear mind in her eyes . They didn't look glazed. She looked so much like she wanted to survive . My heart aches so much from this
I'm pretty sure in the end they say she lived until she couldn't fight anymore. Either way sometimes it's not so easy to survive. If she caught another infection it would probably be her last :(.
@ONLY FUTURE SUMMER 2!! bestie what
@ONLY FUTURE SUMMER 2!! your the idiot here
@ONLY FUTURE SUMMER 2!! what did u say?😀
@ONLY FUTURE SUMMER 2!! stfu dumbass
Breaks my heart because she have to suffer so much. Wish all children were born healthy.
So grateful to doctors and the healthcare professionals when I watch something like this- our society needs to treat them better. What would we do without them? 👩⚕️👨⚕️💕🙏
Genetically engineer their DNA so they won't have to experience that. Only works before they are born.
I cried
but the population would go up and we would over populate
@@iyami9083 You're absolutely right.
when i saw the sister crying bc she was told that next time will/might not see her sister anymore, my heart dropped and my thoughts drifted to my sister immediately. i can feel her pain.
the dad's perspective is really something. "leave the sadness to the last" that is very brave for someone to see his daughter in that condition. may God bless his family
Living Well With TJ lol aren’t you just a ray of sunshine
I agree, that was a very profound statement that touched me
@Living Well With TJ god doesn't put this on people you know that right? It's just what happens to people.
@Living Well With TJ dude we are all born with sins.... we have to praise God so we can follow right beside him. If your a kid then you go to heaven already even if you didnt know about God since your at a young age and haven't been able to live your life
@Living Well With TJ your clearly going to hell if you dknt repent. Your fault for eternal pain. I'll pray for you
them making a hand mold of her hand as a keepsake actually killed my heart omg
Thats the bit that broke me
Me too😭😭 she did pass away in 2018😭🙏
It's a common practice, too. Social services and religious care make the family keepsakes when there is no/little hope. Cook Children's did it for my brother
@@ladygrace7585 if you dont mind me asking, you dont have to answer obviously, but how your brother doing?
@@alyssawitt14 well uhhh.... he's dead 😷 we got him a nice little headstone and funeral dw 😊
İ used to work in pediatric İCU, there was a time we had a two year old girl who died suddenly from meningitis and i knew the parents were never ready to let go yet they did. İ was crying so hard while doing a post mortem care. İ spent the rest of my day crying in the locker room. No matter how tough you are, moments like this with little angels will break you. 😢
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Ta Tan i cant imagine being a nurse and seeing all of the pain.
Whatever afterlife she believes in, she is at peace now, doing what she loves. God bless her
It takes special people to work with the dying, especially children. I admire your strength.
Y0Q
The bravest doctors and nurses can be found in children's critical care unit. I worked in a pediatric cardiovascular icu that specialize congenital heart problems for children, I only lasted for a year because this kind of scenarios I had to deal with was unbearable, so I move on with adult critical care instead. May God spare all the children from suffering 🙏
Bless your heart rjmc your a good person 🙏❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️❤️
Amen
“ maybe we should not be so selfish, and let her go. ” broke my heart that these parents had to consider letting go of their daughter
You always hope for a miracle , they do happen but she knew how much she was loved. RIP SWEET ANGEL. ❤🙏
when i was 15yrs old, i tried committing suicide. i took 20 pills. i was so close to death. my whole body swelled up. i got bumps all over my body. my throat was startin to close up and i could barely even breathe. i knew i was seconds away from death. i was gasping for air. i got scared and regretted it right away. i wished ive never done it. for the first time in my life, i cried out to God and told him i dont wanna die. i jus need help. plz help me. plz help me. i wept. within seconds, i felt this warmth, love and peace surround me. i knew for a fact it was God. within seconds, he healed my whole body. i could breathe. swelling was gone. he instantly delivered me from suicidal thoughts and depression after strugglin with it for 6yrs. psychiatrists and psychologists and takin their medicine never helped. the only thing that WORKED was when i cried out to God and asked him for help. he instantly saved me and delivered me and performed miracles on me. he gave me a new outlook on life. for once in my life i actually wanted to live and not die. that was something odd for me cuz for 6yrs i wanted to die so bad. my mom had cancer and shes the reason why i tried taking my life cuz i didnt wanna lose her. i lost her at 16yrs old and lost my dad at 17yrs old. i didnt kno Jesus until i was 24 n a half yrs old. im 25 now n my relationship with Jesus is so strong. hes helped me change into a whole diff person. ppl actually see the miraculous change in me. if it wasnt for Jesus, id be dead right now. The only healer u need is Jesus. hes our healer. Go to Jesus for healing. im living proof 😊💖 Jesus loves u😊💖 he wants u to repent and forsake ur sins, be born again and place ur faith n trust in him. start havin a personal relationship with Jesus and obey him 😊💖.
@@vanessabunnie9262 Baby, im so sorry that happened, hope you're doing well, dear
@@vanessabunnie9262 I'm so happy for you that you found His uncontional love ❤️hope you continue to grow stronger in Him.
@vanessabunnie my story was kinda complicated I died and came back for a minute and it was because of one antibiotic that continue to slowly kill me.. beforehand I got really really sick 4 years ago and that’s how things got worse as I go along. I almost did see Jesus but knew I wasn’t afraid because I know he will help me through my struggles and my pain I grew up in a Christian family and also a Christian as well but when I finally almost met the Lord he spoke to me and said it wasn’t my time snd he said he has big plans for me. So I kept on believing in him ever since. I was born with a heart defect at birth and had to go 6 open heart surgeries and 7 cather.
I started crying when she shed a tear. You can see how much pain she’s in, poor baby.
Me too
She passed away. She is not suffering anymore.
@@haleypierce82793 oh no.. do you have a link for where you saw it?
Same ❤
@@meimeiHeyy ! I’m rlly late and u have been wondering for a year… but ! It was on the news.
“Next time you won’t have mei mei beside your side” I swear to god.
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that sent me
I think that was said to the baby's sister, to prepare her for her sister dying.
That’s when I lost it dude I cried 😭
Army😭😭😭
My heart just broke. She clearly isn't ready to die. She looks like such a fighter. I'm crying so much rn
What broke my heart most was seeing the tears from little Xin Lin’s eyes while she was lying helplessly in bed with all the tubes. 😢
😢😢😢
Poor little girl
Stella Yong that broke me too xx
You're absolutely right. It tore my heart out.
I cried when I saw her tear fall 😢
May little Xin, Get well. 💖
No parent should ever be faced with this decision. No child should suffer from illness. It breaks my heart.
Your are delusional... The whole human existence is a journey that includes suffering... Not one human being is exempt
@@endofanage223 Shame on you.
No parent should EVER bury their child. Come visit the children we at Children's hospital and say that again. Say it to their parents. Life is hard, painful. But no child deserves this.
@@cw9986 shame one for what? You act as if she are deserving of death and others aren't. I have buried and been witness of many children passing and adults. Death comes to us all... There are no age requirements. It's just the facts snowflake... None of us want to see babies or anyone die. I have had to say it to the parents.i have also had to be the person taking them off life support. So don't give me that self righteous bull. It's horrible but it is the cycle of life. We should just pray they the King has a place for them in His kingdom. You should be ashamed of yourself for being delusional and thinking your feelings on death is the gospel.
@@cw9986 by the way... I work with children on hospice. So hush... You are not that special my friend. There are plenty of men and women that have had to and will bury their children. As heartbreaking as it is all you can do is be there if they need you and pray.
@@endofanage223No matter how common something is doesn't make it any less heartbreaking. It's rather dangerous to load apathy into a gun like that because it's the same as numbing yourself to empathy.
This physician is amazing. So kind and gentle.
Agreed
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Hope they donated organs
My heart broke into a million pieces when I saw tears coming down her face. What a precious little girl.
That's a lesson to learn for all humanity. The father saying that he's sad "but let's put the sadness aside and enjoy every moment with her". So touching and inspiring.
…amen 😞❤️
I started knitting hats for babies in nicu, with covid I can't go in to pass them out anymore, but seeing parents faces light up when their babies have the cutest hat in the hospital, its like some sort of magic.
My friend just lost her newborn, her and all these parents keep me going everyday. Angels absolutely exist, life carries on in such a beautiful way.
The world needs more ppl like you may God bless you
Your an angel, may you and your family be blessed ❤
@@wintergirl2104 thx so much (^･ｪ･^)
I'd love to do this ❤️ how do they let you in?
How did they let you in?
2:57
That part got me. The tear that rolled down her cheek showed that she knew what was going on. What a poor little soul. I love her so much. I wish all children were born as healthy as possible.
i was born healthy but my life turned a corner when i was 3
Summer Hill i'm happy you're still here today:)
Summer hill you are lucky
:- )
when i was 15yrs old, i tried committing suicide. i took 20 pills. i was so close to death. my whole body swelled up. i got bumps all over my body. my throat was startin to close up and i could barely even breathe. i knew i was seconds away from death. i was gasping for air. i got scared and regretted it right away. i wished ive never done it. for the first time in my life, i cried out to God and told him i dont wanna die. i jus need help. plz help me. plz help me. i wept. within seconds, i felt this warmth, love and peace surround me. i knew for a fact it was God. within seconds, he healed my whole body. i could breathe. swelling was gone. he instantly delivered me from suicidal thoughts and depression after strugglin with it for 6yrs. psychiatrists and psychologists and takin their medicine never helped. the only thing that WORKED was when i cried out to God and asked him for help. he instantly saved me and delivered me and performed miracles on me. he gave me a new outlook on life. for once in my life i actually wanted to live and not die. that was something odd for me cuz for 6yrs i wanted to die so bad. my mom had cancer and shes the reason why i tried taking my life cuz i didnt wanna lose her. i lost her at 16yrs old and lost my dad at 17yrs old. i didnt kno Jesus until i was 24 n a half yrs old. im 25 now n my relationship with Jesus is so strong. hes helped me change into a whole diff person. ppl actually see the miraculous change in me. if it wasnt for Jesus, id be dead right now. The only healer u need is Jesus. hes our healer. Go to Jesus for healing. im living proof 😊💖 Jesus loves u😊💖 he wants u to repent and forsake ur sins, be born again and place ur faith n trust in him. start havin a personal relationship with Jesus and obey him 😊💖.
I can’t imagine how scary life must be for these families now that Covid exists. Any virus could be deadly to their child, let alone a virus that attacks the respiratory system.
seriously. meanwhile you have so many anti-masker covid deniers who claim "my rights, my freedom" smh.
Well that’s just the stupid Karen’s am I right? Force them with fines and prison time and we should be good. But I don’t know lol
@@ilikeudonnoodles due to a majority of those karen anti maskers in our _senate_ those things cannot be enforced.
@@craearagon masks don't protect anyone from respiratory viruses :) Also, significantly more deadly respiratory viruses already existed, and are more common in that part of the world. You are brainwashed and uninformed. As pedocrats in congress and our fake news propaganda media have been caught saying multiple times, masks are "political theater."
@@xthatwhiteguyx masks absolutely do protect ppl. They greatly reduce the spread of the virus, since the masks protect ppl from being exposed to other ppl's droplets, which may potentially have covid. Yes, there are more dangerous things, however, that doesn't make corona not dangerous, especially for someone like her who has a respiratory illness. The difference between covid and other illnesses is that it is less researched, more contagious, and has a lot more ppl infected than these other illnesses. Literally every doctor has said that masks are beneficial. The consensus is that covid is dangerous, we should lock down, and wear masks. Trying to claim anything else is ridiculous.
“Don’t be scared mommy and daddy are right there” damn. These babies are so strong. Stronger than anything else. God let her Rest In Peace and rejoice. She is no longer scared or hurting. Stay strong
She is learning all about what she can do up there! Imagine when she reunites with her parents! But in the meantime, Jesus, and God, are keeping her safe
when i was 15yrs old, i tried committing suicide. i took 20 pills. i was so close to death. my whole body swelled up. i got bumps all over my body. my throat was startin to close up and i could barely even breathe. i knew i was seconds away from death. i was gasping for air. i got scared and regretted it right away. i wished ive never done it. for the first time in my life, i cried out to God and told him i dont wanna die. i jus need help. plz help me. plz help me. i wept. within seconds, i felt this warmth, love and peace surround me. i knew for a fact it was God. within seconds, he healed my whole body. i could breathe. swelling was gone. he instantly delivered me from suicidal thoughts and depression after strugglin with it for 6yrs. psychiatrists and psychologists and takin their medicine never helped. the only thing that WORKED was when i cried out to God and asked him for help. he instantly saved me and delivered me and performed miracles on me. he gave me a new outlook on life. for once in my life i actually wanted to live and not die. that was something odd for me cuz for 6yrs i wanted to die so bad. my mom had cancer and shes the reason why i tried taking my life cuz i didnt wanna lose her. i lost her at 16yrs old and lost my dad at 17yrs old. i didnt kno Jesus until i was 24 n a half yrs old. im 25 now n my relationship with Jesus is so strong. hes helped me change into a whole diff person. ppl actually see the miraculous change in me. if it wasnt for Jesus, id be dead right now. The only healer u need is Jesus. hes our healer. Go to Jesus for healing. im living proof 😊💖 Jesus loves u😊💖 he wants u to repent and forsake ur sins, be born again and place ur faith n trust in him. start havin a personal relationship with Jesus and obey him 😊💖.
@@vanessabunnie9262 so many things I wanna say but I don’t even know where to begin wow Godbless u beautiful 💕✨
Omg! So beautiful❤️
Shes not dead....
when i saw the tear fall from her eye, i started to bawl. this poor little girl😔💛
Me too. It was so devastating. My son developed leukemia at four years old and they pumped him so full of drugs that his face swelled so much and he could not even speak and I was sure he would die but he pulled through but the chemo affected his brain and he is not able to work or take proper care of himself but he survived. It is the worst feeling in the world to know that you can do nothing to help them. God bless this little girl and her family for having to go through this. There will be a happy reunion one day in heaven.
I know, thats about the part that I broke down. She didn't want to die, but in the end she didn't get to decide her fate
When I saw her sister be told that she was going to die i cried
When my father was dying I also saw a tear drop from his eye. It must be that they know what's happening.
@@robr.7283 Sorry, about your son.😥
This was the hospital which saved my son, with Dr. Karen Mok as the leader. We were very lucky, our son beat the odds of 10% survival rate. Even the nurse looks familiar. I just want to say thanks to those medical heroes, you made our time unforgettable while waiting our son recovered.
I'm glad to hear that you're doing well! All the best to you and your son. May God bless you.
"next time you won't have a mei mei beside your side"
I AM CRYING 😭😭😭😭
Same its so sad no child or parent should go through that but sadly it happens.....😭 at least shes not suffering anymore
😭😢😭😢
jesus christ this comment section had me thinking that they legit showed this little girl DIED. but she got to go home and theyre focused on making happy memories
Omg here I am crying mid video too, thank you for this I feel better she could have her rest with parents
Yea but she passed away in 2020
@Kristeena HJ yep..
Same
@@bananaminion1030 why do you have to say this? I am the saddest woman in the world right now. 😭
I honestly thought she wasn't going to make it. I am now sobbing because I am so happy that she stayed alive.
She died on the 22nd February 2018
@@oscarcookies4870 Aww :(
@@isaiahmorrison3753 people are saying she died 2020 who is lying
@@oscarcookies4870 that’s when this was uploaded
@@oscarcookies4870 may her beautiful soul rest in peace :(
As a father with a boy her age, tears just fall down watching this. I can't imagine what I would do or how I would react if my child was like this. Looking at her one can imagine the pain she endures.
Her tears broke me God poor baby .
Gina love me too
Same. Seeing her shed that one tear broke my heart.
me too. broke my heart
Me too! Broke down
I wondered what she may have been thinking when she shed that tear...😢
Imagine having to pick the best way for your child to die ;-; thats just so sad man
@Alexia Seton unfortunately...
when i was 15yrs old, i tried committing suicide. i took 20 pills. i was so close to death. my whole body swelled up. i got bumps all over my body. my throat was startin to close up and i could barely even breathe. i knew i was seconds away from death. i was gasping for air. i got scared and regretted it right away. i wished ive never done it. for the first time in my life, i cried out to God and told him i dont wanna die. i jus need help. plz help me. plz help me. i wept. within seconds, i felt this warmth, love and peace surround me. i knew for a fact it was God. within seconds, he healed my whole body. i could breathe. swelling was gone. he instantly delivered me from suicidal thoughts and depression after strugglin with it for 6yrs. psychiatrists and psychologists and takin their medicine never helped. the only thing that WORKED was when i cried out to God and asked him for help. he instantly saved me and delivered me and performed miracles on me. he gave me a new outlook on life. for once in my life i actually wanted to live and not die. that was something odd for me cuz for 6yrs i wanted to die so bad. my mom had cancer and shes the reason why i tried taking my life cuz i didnt wanna lose her. i lost her at 16yrs old and lost my dad at 17yrs old. i didnt kno Jesus until i was 24 n a half yrs old. im 25 now n my relationship with Jesus is so strong. hes helped me change into a whole diff person. ppl actually see the miraculous change in me. if it wasnt for Jesus, id be dead right now. The only healer u need is Jesus. hes our healer. Go to Jesus for healing. im living proof 😊💖 Jesus loves u😊💖 he wants u to repent and forsake ur sins, be born again and place ur faith n trust in him. start havin a personal relationship with Jesus and obey him 😊💖.
@@vanessabunnie9262 That’s so nice, God has sure blessed you. I hope you never go through it again!
Imagine too when you have no choice.
@@vanessabunnie9262 oh dear me.............
This killed me 3:50 "Next time you won't have your mei mei beside you already okay? understand?" Mei mei = younger sister. Just seeing her face breaks me.
This broke my heart. Coming from a mom who had to make that heart wrenching decision twice before, i felt his pain. She is a blessing and i am so glad she pulled through. My daughters who were born a year and a half apart both had the same genetic defect which ultimately lead to them passing away. I had to make the decision to take them off of oxygen and just watch them take their last breath. I felt the same way this father felt about being selfish wanting to keep them on oxygen, knowing they wont improve, but at the same time, knowing taking them off of it is better for THEM. I wanted to keep my girls forever but i didn't want them to suffer anymore
Omg that is so sad I'm sorry that happened to you😭
I cried to this video
The east Asian people are the strongest, beautiful and smartest people in the world. My partner of almost two years always does stuff that confirms it for me. He is the sweetest person I've ever met and I'm so lucky that I have him in my life.
@@melm6138 I am so sorry you had to go through that twice. What heartbreak. I cannot imagine. My thoughts and best wishes to you. I lost my newborn baby girl recently and I cannot imagine having to go through the pain of losing a child twice.
I am not even a parent yet and this is so heartbreaking. This family is strong specially this little baby.
Her tears running down her face broke my heart into a million pieces! How terrible! Im crying like a baby
Agreeeee! this part broke me too wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :,( :,( :,(
Me too 😭😭😭💔😔
:(
When she cried. God.. it breaks me
Galadreana Lopez they can speak how they want to. You don’t get to say how they speak
@Galadreana Lopez read the room.
@Galadreana Lopez what are you even talking about?
@Galadreana Lopez go f-ck yourself
when i was 15yrs old, i tried committing suicide. i took 20 pills. i was so close to death. my whole body swelled up. i got bumps all over my body. my throat was startin to close up and i could barely even breathe. i knew i was seconds away from death. i was gasping for air. i got scared and regretted it right away. i wished ive never done it. for the first time in my life, i cried out to God and told him i dont wanna die. i jus need help. plz help me. plz help me. i wept. within seconds, i felt this warmth, love and peace surround me. i knew for a fact it was God. within seconds, he healed my whole body. i could breathe. swelling was gone. he instantly delivered me from suicidal thoughts and depression after strugglin with it for 6yrs. psychiatrists and psychologists and takin their medicine never helped. the only thing that WORKED was when i cried out to God and asked him for help. he instantly saved me and delivered me and performed miracles on me. he gave me a new outlook on life. for once in my life i actually wanted to live and not die. that was something odd for me cuz for 6yrs i wanted to die so bad. my mom had cancer and shes the reason why i tried taking my life cuz i didnt wanna lose her. i lost her at 16yrs old and lost my dad at 17yrs old. i didnt kno Jesus until i was 24 n a half yrs old. im 25 now n my relationship with Jesus is so strong. hes helped me change into a whole diff person. ppl actually see the miraculous change in me. if it wasnt for Jesus, id be dead right now. The only healer u need is Jesus. hes our healer. Go to Jesus for healing. im living proof 😊💖 Jesus loves u😊💖 he wants u to repent and forsake ur sins, be born again and place ur faith n trust in him. start havin a personal relationship with Jesus and obey him 😊💖.
One day when I am rich enough I swear on my life I'll give my all to help people like them.
REMEMBER MY PROMISE
when i was 15yrs old, i tried committing suicide. i took 20 pills. i was so close to death. my whole body swelled up. i got bumps all over my body. my throat was startin to close up and i could barely even breathe. i knew i was seconds away from death. i was gasping for air. i got scared and regretted it right away. i wished ive never done it. for the first time in my life, i cried out to God and told him i dont wanna die. i jus need help. plz help me. plz help me. i wept. within seconds, i felt this warmth, love and peace surround me. i knew for a fact it was God. within seconds, he healed my whole body. i could breathe. swelling was gone. he instantly delivered me from suicidal thoughts and depression after strugglin with it for 6yrs. psychiatrists and psychologists and takin their medicine never helped. the only thing that WORKED was when i cried out to God and asked him for help. he instantly saved me and delivered me and performed miracles on me. he gave me a new outlook on life. for once in my life i actually wanted to live and not die. that was something odd for me cuz for 6yrs i wanted to die so bad. my mom had cancer and shes the reason why i tried taking my life cuz i didnt wanna lose her. i lost her at 16yrs old and lost my dad at 17yrs old. i didnt kno Jesus until i was 24 n a half yrs old. im 25 now n my relationship with Jesus is so strong. hes helped me change into a whole diff person. ppl actually see the miraculous change in me. if it wasnt for Jesus, id be dead right now. The only healer u need is Jesus. hes our healer. Go to Jesus for healing. im living proof 😊💖 Jesus loves u😊💖 he wants u to repent and forsake ur sins, be born again and place ur faith n trust in him. start havin a personal relationship with Jesus and obey him 😊💖.
Yes!
@@vanessabunnie9262 stop using the same comment its rude for other ppl
@@vanessabunnie9262 hey Vanessa hope u r doing good .....I read ur story it was really heart touching and I think u should Know more about Islam ... the real answer is there ! wish u the best
Me too
With all the crap going on in our world and all of the STUPID things that people obsess over ... this family's journey with their little girl, puts everything into perspective. There are no words to offer .... ❤️
Yeah, thats why we should seek God and follow his way and word, to be cleansed and to be seek God and follow His way and word, to be cleansed and be saved. But the world doesn't want to understand that and that's why we are the way we are!
@@justabicerrado.5362 go fakk yourself. This isn't the place for your preaching and indoctrination, on the comments of such a video. Keep your delusions to yourself.
@@justabicerrado.5362 bruh
I cried when the ah gong told the older sister that this might be the last time that they will see her alive,imagine if my younger sister had died from her umbilical cord would be devastating. All the best to the family and the strong brave girl!
MiNaRi yeah :(
What's "ah gong"?
MiNaRi dd7
ah gong (read: ah cong) means grandpa in teochew language
Pan De Coco grandpa
Made me cry. I'm moved @ how Big SiSTER loves her Baby SiSTER.
@F1ForFun i think that he/she are just fucking stupid
I believe that's her little sister. Just to be clear tho which sister are you referring to? The able bodied little girl Is the youngest even tho she's bigger. Sad video tho😞
@F1ForFun lol
@@alexlaxson3261 lool
Type normally
I'm a nurse and have been assigned to Pediatric ICU before. And there's no way of getting used to seeing children suffer from illnesses. Will pray for this little kid. ❤️🙏❤️
what's happened for this girl
@@Icyxl I don't really know. Since the video was from three years ago.
@@Icyxl she died sadly 😞 💔
@@hxfsaa why
@@Icyxl She died from the illness that she had
I am 17 turning 18 this year and i have spinal muscular atrophy type 2 and i just wanted to give some context about SMA or Spinal Muscular Atrophy, there are 5 types (lower the number the worse) this little girl obviously has type 1 because children with SMA type 1 don’t live for very long however im slightly luckier if i can put it that way because I have type 2 so I have the exact same muscular condition and am wheelchair bound however im grateful to be alive, and SMA is not a mental condition at all it is 100% only physical and I know exactly how this little girl feels laying in those uncomfortable hospital beds for days on end because im in and out of hospitals all the time. However there is some hope for SMA kids because a new treatment has come out called spinraza which is a spinal injection I have had it multiple times already personally but it has seen most benefits in type 1 kids where some of them are even walking for the first time! Which is honestly just extraordinary! I started watching this video not knowing it was about SMA but i am pleasantly surprised because SMA almost never gets talked about.
Thank you so much for this information :)
You’re right. I’m old as dirt and I never heard of it before this video. You sound like a very bright young man. Perhaps you can sponsor this disease, provide a place on line for patients to help each other, maybe support parents with children that are affected. I have a rare autoimmune disease myself, so rare that it actually appeared on “House” twice! A kid in the UK started a Facebook page for us and it’s been a lifesaver and huge comfort for sufferers all over the world. Bringing attention to SMA also means more donations for research and improvements in patients’ lives, who knows maybe even a cure. I wish you all the very best.
This physician is so gentle and compassionate.
Omg she started crying at 2:53 and I completely lost my shit. Accidentally woke my husband up and everything.
I had a good friend with SMA, he DID survive to adulthood. He was in his late 30s (in fact he might have reached 40 I think) when he passed away from respiratory failure. He struggled a lot, but he was a lovely person and so inspirational to me. His life was hard, and yet if I had a bad day, he'd send me a bag of lollipops in the post. He had loads of adaptions so he could use computers with a single finger and his mouth, and he designed websites. We could talk for ages online (he would struggle to speak a lot in person).We even went out a few times with some friends, in his "chariot" (his wheelchair was adapted for his reclined position).
Some SMA patients can live to adulthood, and I will never forget my friend. He had a huge impact on my life, and I think of him often. I think he was lucky to live as long as he did, and this film does remind me of that. I'm just so glad I got to know him. It's been nearly 12 years since he passed away, it was cold winter weather that finally took him. I don't know what my point is of posting this, I'm just glad to have known him...
Words will fail me. You are a noble friend. Thank you for sharing.
I feel sorry for him. But life has a limited time for us. There is time when people we love will be in the sky looking down at us, and there is time where we will be in the sky looking down at our love once.
faerieevenstar i hope your friend is in a better place now and thank you for sharing your story about someone else.
Some do. My aunt is currently 55 with MS, cant move, wheelchair bound since childhood, and has to now use an oxygen mask.
Soul2Thee 🙏🙏💕💕
The little girl was surrounded by so much love.. her dad saying "maybe we should stop being so selfish and maybe we should just let her go" was absolutely heartbreaking..
Gosh I started crying so hard when the father said there’s no time for sadness, we need more dads like him in the world
There is nothing wrong with sadness. It like telling people not to cry. its wrong. Crying and sadness are natural and both emotional and psychological necessary
He is obviously sad but he just wants happiness for his daughter
I wish i could have a dad like him, exept i don't have a dad
There are millions of Dad's like him. They go unnoticed because we thrive on bad things.
@@k8lynmae Yep, nothing wrong with sadness. But he's trying not to show it to his daughter so she won't be scared and they could enjoy her final months together.
I know I just commented but oh my gosh I remember the day we had to sign the DNR. I knew it wasn’t right all the different times they asked us. I just felt it wasn’t the time. But something changed in the summer of 2014 and both my husband and I felt that she fought so hard and we promised ourselves that we will always always look at the big picture and her quality of life and make sure we weren’t being selfish. Signing those papers......I can’t explain.
However, we were not in the hospital when the time came. We had a hospice nurse and my daughter was not hooked up to wires and tubes. She was not gasping for breath and covered with medical tape. She was in her cute little ice cream pajamas and she just went to sleep.....just....went to sleep.
My heart is broken
I'm so, so sorry. Cannot imagine, as a mother... Heartbreaking. Sending prayers
I can not even imagine . I wanted yo aknowledge your post, my options were thumbs up or thumbs down. NEITHER seemed appropriate . My heart is with you all the way .♡
I'm so sorry💔
Absolutely devastating. Heartbreaking, she went on her own time.
Nothing hurts more than a child suffering. That tear had me.
when i was 15yrs old, i tried committing suicide. i took 20 pills. i was so close to death. my whole body swelled up. i got bumps all over my body. my throat was startin to close up and i could barely even breathe. i knew i was seconds away from death. i was gasping for air. i got scared and regretted it right away. i wished ive never done it. for the first time in my life, i cried out to God and told him i dont wanna die. i jus need help. plz help me. plz help me. i wept. within seconds, i felt this warmth, love and peace surround me. i knew for a fact it was God. within seconds, he healed my whole body. i could breathe. swelling was gone. he instantly delivered me from suicidal thoughts and depression after strugglin with it for 6yrs. psychiatrists and psychologists and takin their medicine never helped. the only thing that WORKED was when i cried out to God and asked him for help. he instantly saved me and delivered me and performed miracles on me. he gave me a new outlook on life. for once in my life i actually wanted to live and not die. that was something odd for me cuz for 6yrs i wanted to die so bad. my mom had cancer and shes the reason why i tried taking my life cuz i didnt wanna lose her. i lost her at 16yrs old and lost my dad at 17yrs old. i didnt kno Jesus until i was 24 n a half yrs old. im 25 now n my relationship with Jesus is so strong. hes helped me change into a whole diff person. ppl actually see the miraculous change in me. if it wasnt for Jesus, id be dead right now. The only healer u need is Jesus. hes our healer. Go to Jesus for healing. im living proof 😊💖 Jesus loves u😊💖 he wants u to repent and forsake ur sins, be born again and place ur faith n trust in him. start havin a personal relationship with Jesus and obey him 😊💖.
Omg
@@vanessabunnie9262 stop
This is so heart wrenching to watch, especially the part when tears were rolling down the child's face. I cant imagine the fear and uncertainty that was going on inside her. Little angels they all are.
omg :( i feel so upset watching this....made me cry :( i cannot imagine how her parents and her sister feel. but they are so brave
Kay I
the parents are brave...and what about the little girl?...her body is failing ..not her brain...so she understand what is about to happen...terrible...for everyone around....
They’re all brave
Kay I started crying when her sister started crying I was like awww
Kay w
We take for granted so much when others have so little. God keep helping this little angel.
He could have healed ger from that desease but he doesnt a good gid is he
Peter Wolf No, when the time comes, she will go to be with Him, and never again have to suffer like she has on Earth.
@@AgdaFingers yeah but why steal her life and let her suffer first what sico dies that why not give her a long life .If god is such a nice man than he wouldnot allow such things .
@@AgdaFingers she is not living right now. she will suffer until she dies. you are disgusting.
Exactly
It's hard. We had to make this choice for my mom. She went down one day, and then did good the next. It was up and down for her over there week. We were told that if she does get better, she'll have had brain damage. We knew she wouldn't have wanted that. We fought the fact we would lose her. It was difficult. We've never had anything happen like that before. While they did CPR for sixth time, we had to let her go. We couldn't stand to see her suffer any longer. We knew what she wanted, and that was to save her life, but when we knew her brain damage may not have given her one, and that her heart kept stopping after six times, we knew we had to let her go. Typing this makes me cry. I literally lost one of the most important people in my life that day. I have no one who can talk to me like her, no one to give the best advice like her, nothing can ease my pain but to see her again. But myself am a mom and a wife. I know she would want me to take care of mine family like she did us. I live for my mother like she did us.
You're not selfish for wanting her to stay. You're not. You're in pain, you're confused. And it's hard to let go. Don't let anyone tell you that you're being selfish. It's just hard and I understand. My mom is in a better place. She's at rest although I am restless. You're good parents. Be strong and you do what you think is right 💓
I am sorry for the loss of your mother it is such a hard thing especially as her daughter. You did do the right thing. I used to do hospice homecare and some patients could have had treatment. They would maybe live a bit longer but would have to deal with the side effects. The patients choose quality of life over quantity of life. We all did what we could do to control symptoms and side effects so that they could live the rest of lives, short time, with so could get quality of time for them.
Slenderman same happened with my grandmother, we where actually satisfied that she passed quickly instead of suffering for long, she would have never liked it.
Squidward Tentacles is that a joke? Like really?
Omg... I’m so sorry for your loss... This must probably be one of the hardest thing a child can go through....
Aww that's sad
My daughter was in nicu when she was first born. I cried so much . Knowing your child is dead, dying or at risk of dying is the scariest and saddest feeling .
4:05 the worry in her eyes terrified me. Just imagine that many people around her fiddling with things that she didn’t understand. RIP 😭
when i was 15yrs old, i tried committing suicide. i took 20 pills. i was so close to death. my whole body swelled up. i got bumps all over my body. my throat was startin to close up and i could barely even breathe. i knew i was seconds away from death. i was gasping for air. i got scared and regretted it right away. i wished ive never done it. for the first time in my life, i cried out to God and told him i dont wanna die. i jus need help. plz help me. plz help me. i wept. within seconds, i felt this warmth, love and peace surround me. i knew for a fact it was God. within seconds, he healed my whole body. i could breathe. swelling was gone. he instantly delivered me from suicidal thoughts and depression after strugglin with it for 6yrs. psychiatrists and psychologists and takin their medicine never helped. the only thing that WORKED was when i cried out to God and asked him for help. he instantly saved me and delivered me and performed miracles on me. he gave me a new outlook on life. for once in my life i actually wanted to live and not die. that was something odd for me cuz for 6yrs i wanted to die so bad. my mom had cancer and shes the reason why i tried taking my life cuz i didnt wanna lose her. i lost her at 16yrs old and lost my dad at 17yrs old. i didnt kno Jesus until i was 24 n a half yrs old. im 25 now n my relationship with Jesus is so strong. hes helped me change into a whole diff person. ppl actually see the miraculous change in me. if it wasnt for Jesus, id be dead right now. The only healer u need is Jesus. hes our healer. Go to Jesus for healing. im living proof 😊💖 Jesus loves u😊💖 he wants u to repent and forsake ur sins, be born again and place ur faith n trust in him. start havin a personal relationship with Jesus and obey him 😊💖.
@@vanessabunnie9262 that truly is incredible!
@@vanessabunnie9262 if i was you i would have taken 20 more to die cuz i hate my parents and my grandparents i hate god that he chose me as the person to be hated and be scolded
@@lvziive5046 are you okay buddy?
@@cssbr3191 nope i aint i just wanna die its just a long story...
"let's leave the sadness to the last and just enjoy what we have now." I admire her dad for being so brave. very encouraging words to live by. ❤
I cannot even start to think how her parents felt when they were faced with the dilemma of letting their child die because she wasn't getting better and her levels were getting lower...and the jiejie was so kind to her Meimei and so understanding...unfair that someone so young is like this...
I don't think putting their child down was what you meant. They will have to make the decision for nature to take her course and let her go peacefully. I think it might of been some of the animal stories about loss of pets. I don't think she could have a better family.
“We should stop being so selfish and let her go” and then she’s head a tear. That hurt my heart.
I'm a mom of a 19 month old boy. Watching this breaks my heart to pieces. No children deserve to feel pain this early in life. Heard she passed away. At least she's now happy & not feeling pain anymore. May God give strengths to the family left behind.
No.... She passed away?
@@keepgoing335 yes😥
@@aggyliciouslov3 such a little girl.. Gone too soon. Why. Omg. Sigh.
Where is the page?
Imagine having to do your 8hours+ job with the thought of your child might be at their last breath. This parents is really something! Stay strong! I hope miracles do happens! I have the same age sister as her. I wish every kid would be healthy and live their childhood life with happiness.
Gwen Nakagawa thankfully in other countries parents are allowed paid time off if their child is sick
Thoss tears running down her face😢breaks my heart she just wants to get up and play and enjoy life
The second I saw her sibling about to cry I bursted in. I hope she’s in a better place
"Maybe we shouldnt be so selfish"
Gah- my god i cant even see anymore so much tears
I was in an ICU when i was 7 years old. My nanny abused me, she pushed from 2nd floor and makes my head bleeding so bad, she slap me and kick me... i remember when i feel " this is my last breath " bcs i felt sooo sleepy and its hard to breath but then the doctor sing my fav song... and when i woke up i was already in my room
J.hO a
That's why my parents never got a babysitter for us, she couldn't trust people she didn't know to look after her girls
Oh my god, that's so traumatic. I'm sorry you had such a horrible person in your life.
Wow that is just too much .-.
that's horrible!
This makes me feel so selfish because I've been struggling with really bad depression for my whole life. I'm only 17, but I've been in and out of the children's ICU multiple times because I tried to kill myself by overdosing. So many innocent children are in the ICU are suffering not by choice, unlike me. I took life for granted, and I just want to say that I'm sorry.
bllushing you dont have to be sorry. its not your fault to suffer from depression too! :)
When something doesn't happen according to our desire, wish or want v suffer. But God has best plan for u. U will understand his plan if u survive n c what is in it life. Whenever there is a bad phase in it life... Just say... This is temporary n nothing is permanent nor good nor bad. The follow back to back. Embrace everything with a smile. Try to live for others b an example n inspiration to other children. B strong n b positive even in struggle time. U r the bravest girl on this earth n born for a reason
I just wanted to say don't put yourself down or call yourself selfish, depression is an illness like any other from a cold to cancer it can't be helped and you shouldn't feel the need to apologise x i hope you're condition is being monitored and treated appropriately, bless you and your family.
Hey i know this post is old but I wanted to tell you that you are not selfish for what you did. Depression is real and is not your choice, it's not all in your head, and it doesn't matter whether someone's life is better or worse off than yours. Just because you chose to attempt suicide doesn't mean you chose to have depression. And just like you chose to do that you can also choose to try to get help. Therapy, medication, or whatever you feel will work best for your situation, just know that depression is a real disease that takes many lives every day. Don't write off your disease as something you can just get over, take it seriously and get the help you need ❤
You are so young at only 17 years of age. You have got your Whole life ahead of you. Everyday new and better meds are being created to successfully treat clinical depression. You have a wonderful chance at a very long and awesome life!!....(Seems like it was only a few years ago when I was 17 years old,... In reality it's been many decades!😉) Life is a precious, magical Gift. But this is not a dress-rehersal...you Only get One shot at it. Keep seeking help for your depression... and keep looking forward to your awesome future!!!
"We should not be so selfish and let her go"
her dad is so..wise he doesn't enjoy watching his daughter suffer, even if it means...letting her go. He wants his daughter to not feel so much pain. Their dad is the strongest person I've ever met. He knows that if you spend the time being sad...you won't have the time to spend with your daughter and that its best we leave the sadness for later.
The nurses and doctors are so kind, I'm very grateful for everyone who works in a medical industry. You all save thousands of lives every day, improve a lot of people's lives.
i prey for anybody who is suffering with this horrible condition / disease, Again, i am very very grateful for everyone who works to help inprove people's lives.
Stay strong Xie Ding Shan , Xinlin , Xinlin's sister and Xinlin's mother.
Why did I click on this, why.... I can't bear to imagine what this child's parents are going through
Yuki Ying I was feeling the same way... now I can’t sleep because I keep blowing my nose from crying!
Nobody:
RUclips: Lets emotionally destroy people
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@@michaelkearney1262 i meant like youtube likes to recommend me sad videos and make me sad :/
I was using the question mark for katja
I'm a cancer survivor of astrocytoma stage two the only other time I've been in icu was July 17th 2018 after back surgery for 5 days. Nothing compares to that girls story
Everyone has their own journey, this child's disease and struggle takes nothing away from yours as yours doesn't take anything of hers.Grief comes in many forms. I am glad you're still here
My best friend had cancer twice. Both stage 3 and four, and one was leukemia. We were so young that I barely remember. I think a lot of things compare though. Your story could be as worse as her’s, so could my friends story. It just depends on the way you take things. She is a fighter, my friend is, and so are you 😊
@@roseboudelair3729 I agree! In the past 3 years, I've experienced a whole lot more than the years previous and leading up to this comment. I've had 3 surgeries, one of which resulted in hardware failure, which causes me to twist my vertebrae on multiple occasions, it was the worst year of my life towards the last month before the 2 surgeries to fix it, I couldn't even sit at my desk, all I could do was go to the bathroom, and get food and drink because every movement includinf breathing was excruciating. And even worse for me then was I was flat out refused any form of pain management, and I had to take a whole lot of Tylenol just to be able to sleep. With that came some changes of opinion, one being that how bad something is, is all up to how somebody feels. If it's causing you distress or pain, you shouldn't compare that to something someone else is going through, since it's kind of just invalidating your experience.
Now that I look back, thinking that way honestly just made me feel bad for not being a 'champ' 100% of the time.
And my family constantly compares how they feel with what I went through and I'm going through and it honestly makes me extremely uncomfortable.
But good news for me is I'm *finally* getting referred to pain management. It honestly sucks how it takes some people who are genuinely suffering years to even get the lowest grade medication, while a drug addict can stroll in an ER and leave with a prescription of opioids.
Heart breaking to watch….but as a father I also understand what they’re feeling and the pain of making those decisions…..stay strong!
I was breaking down when I thought that I might have to put my cat down; I cannot even imagine what her parents must be going through !
No they are saying that being upset about a small thing like a cat cannot compare to having a severely ill child (cats are amazing btw so I would be upset if I had to put mine down)
Madame Poovie I did say that I cannot even imagine what the parents must be going through because what I went through, although kind of similar, cannot compare to the bond between a parent and a child.
Madame Poovie no sweat ! Have a nice day!!!
Madame Poovie they are the same level, they’re living this like us.
NIPUTIN
“Let them fight even if they suffer harshly”
I understand your spirit of not wanting to give up but what if they end up dying? In the end? They suffer for nothing?
Yes, we can give our pets hope but why be selfish and let them suffer for a pain that could be irreversible?
Its so difficult to watch Children suffered. Thank God for medical workers and supportive and caring parents.
Genetic diseases often have no cure. Clinical testings can take years and if a gene theraoy is available, theres a high chance of failure too. This is how nature lives by 'survival of the fittest'
Thank God... the creator of these horrors... I think not. Thank the brilliant doctors that spent many years going to school to dedicate their lives to saving others.
Donna Kirton i
I think she means the saying of thank god like when we use it in a sentence
Theres no such thing as god, its nature, random gene mutations and meiosis gives rise to variation from which nature selects upon the best for survival. Tbh most of the time doctors dont save people, they just alleviate the symptoms to make you go through less pain. If you have an underlying disease, they cant really help with it, u need your immune system and yourself to cure it. You are your best doctor.
The people that should be thanked are scientists and researchers, for they are the ones that create a cure/medicine out of nothing.
It's not being selfish that you don't want to let your child go...it's completely human to want to keep things for yourself. I hope that the parents understand that, they are very strong people and I hope that their child gets better.
It's selfish, you want them to stay alive and suffer. It doesn't matter if it's your child it's still selfish. It's not your life.
We all suffer to live. Think about it. We go to school, we work, we have to do things we don't want to do to live.
Holo Bacon It is selfish but it is also very human-like.
They don’t want her to keep suffering if that’s why
She’s not a thing, and she’s suffering, her dad is a selfless person who knows that even through it’s hurtful for him and the whole family they have to think of her first
In tears watching this as a 49 year old father….for such a beautiful young life to only know so much suffering…
2:50 - see that tear? That poor baby is suffering so badly. My god
Xinlin spent her whole life surrounded by so much love. That’s beautiful. I wish her family healing and peace ❤️
Did you hear that she'd passed away somewhere?
I just realized how lucky I am
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wow..what just now..
@@user-zm9yc2kb8x at least this person did, cause some never.
Not Lucky, Blessed
At the 2:53 mark - her tear just made me break down. I pray this family is doing well and may God bless them. If the little angel is living, i hope she is happy wherever she is. If she went to heaven, i pray she is resting with the angels. This video touched my heart like none other.
“Any conversation talking to parents about how you want your child to die is never an easy one.” 💔🥺
I didn’t cry until she cries at 2:52 it destroyed me ):
Shit. Me too😓😔
Me too. At that moment I paused the video and looked to my little sister sleeping next to me, it broke my heart.
Same...this videos teaches us ro be greatful of what we have and how lucky and fortunate we are.
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I watched my dad go through the intubation and Morphin and then death. Watching a child go through this is hard as well...
Julia Shatzer I’m so sorry ❤️
My husband went through the same. He passed away from Cirrhosis of the liver. His organs began to fail and his body started turning purple. The reason for that was the blood was leaving his limbs and going to his organs to try and save them. He was declared brain dead 1 day after he was life flighted to another hospital.
Trolololol Bish How did that happen?
I’m so sorry 🥺 rip ❤️🕊
This was so moving, it makes you realise no matter what position we are in life, a lot of us are so lucky, although we may think we are not. I am pleased they were able to give her some quality of life 💚
my heart torn into pieces when I saw her tears😢😢😭😭😭
“Maybe we should stop being so selfish, and let her go” lest just say my heart just shattered and I can’t stop crying 🥺
Watching the little girls tear go down broke me down 😓 prayers for this little angle
Leslie Gutierrez why would you pray when ‘God’ gave her this in the first place??
-Atheist
You have to understand that by "prayers" they wish the best for the little girl, it's like they want something to happen and they wish (pray) with all their heart to happen. I wish with all my heart that something (tecnology, doctors, a miracle, however you want to call it) saves this little baby.
-Agnostic
Navire Leiton guess what? You’re still praying to “God” to make it happen. Why the hell would he do anything to help when he gave it to her, huh?
-Atheists who know how religion works.
@@hmhm9857 if he doesn't exist for you then why in the first place you say that he gave the sickness to the baby girl, lol, something is not right in your argument
@@hmhm9857 the people that believe in God thinks that he "gives" sickness because of the sins (not the sins of the baby or of the parents) but because of the sin itself, it's related to the Adam and Eve story, other religious people think that in some cases Satan is the one who gives sickness. Whatever, the thing is: is their business if they want to pray to the one who is "causing" something, you are just playing cool and wanting to be polemic "look at me, I don't respect your religion, I'm so atheist and I know a lot about religions, you don't have to pray" dude, if she wants to pray to a f potatoe is her business at least she is wishing something good to the little baby while you are just criticizing her beliefs.
No child deserves this pain. I have a two year old daughter, this video crushed me. I almost could not bare watching it. Be grateful everyday for our lives and our babies lives. Pray for these children.
😭😭😭 that poor baby, she hears the conversations.. she knows what's gonna happen. My heart, I couldnt imagine having to make this choice ever.