My family has dealt with this for years. My son and his daughter actually had their last reunification session today. She told the therapist that she wants to have her visitation at his home, not the supervised visitation. The therapist asked if she was worried about what her Mom might think about that, and she said "yes". I sure hope that therapist can see what's really going on. We are so excited about her visit next weekend! For the past year, she's been wanting to get to sleep in her bedroom at her Dad's apartment. Thanks for the great video!
That's why babies and kids cry - they have a crisis without a solution. They are desperate. This is why it is so important to provide solutions that build character that will carry them through the challenges of later life.
In my case and I am sure in many cases, children are either sexually, emotionally abused and bare a sence of deep shame and guilt because of this and have no desire to have a relationship with that 'parent'. It takes a lifetime of healing and recovering from those deep routed trauma. In my case, social services stepped in and removed me immediately. No drawn out court dates, no mercy for the offender. My mother did an excellent job in raising me and I saw firsthand what a parent should be. If you have the title PARENT..be one! If you have issues, deal with them, but do not think that your issues will just go away without seeking professional help. It is not your child's fault, it is however, your responsibility to protect, love, educate, nurture your child, who is innocent in all of this. The best interest for any child, is self-explanatory. How on earth can any human being flourish and grow in a toxic environment? They have absolitely no coping skills, no voice, no idea what the solution is. The sane parent needs to be that voice, that hope, that strength for them.
"Abuse" makes Parental Alienation "child-centric;" it is an issue of PARENTAL RIGHTS! Humans tend to want to erase their ex. Read the ORDERS in any standard Divorce Decree, EVOLVED to counter this "instinct" and keep both parents involved. Parental Alienation is KIDNAPPING! Let Police ENFORCE ALL ORDERS to share information, responsibilities, and visitation/possessions. Keep quack therapists and Judges, neither with training nor oversight nor accountability, OUT of our family dynamics! Simply let Police ENFORCE ALL ORDERS, especially the tiny ones, like sharing school and medical info, meant to keep both parents involved. Write tickets, fine, jail, etc.without Court! My teens would not be SEVERELY Alienated now, except for 8 years hiding Drs.' names and school IDs (implies "Dad is subhuman, perhaps dangerous..."), the Covid Lockdown separation, incompetent "therapist" (never talked to me, called Protective Services and gave Personality Disordered Ex an excuse to deny ALL subsequent possession/visitations), and after an Ass. Judgelette admitted I proved Contempt of Court, 15 minutes interviewing SEVERELY Alienated teens, became convinced that I deserved Supervised Visitation (in spite of no previous problems!) and to pay for Family Therapy, but (!!!) diagnosed Bipolar Ex NOT INCLUDED! Her documented perjury forced her to sign a Mediated Settlement to restore ALL my rights per Divorce Decree, but that was just another lie. Now she, and they, wallow in delusions; she reports "The kids don't want to go to therapy." Let Police ENFORCE, with fines and jail, ALL the ORDERS meant to keep both parents involved. Reread this post for comprehension, PLEASE. Illinois, 3rd denied visitation means the obstructing parent goes to Jail, supposedly. And stop thinking this is about "hateful" Exes; they may be sincere in their delusions about the children's safety. DOES NOT MATTER, neither does the children's "abuse," trauma, depression, or gleeful hatred - PROTECT PARENT'S RIGHTS FIRST!! That's what parents are for, to help their children.
Therapy, and psychology/psychiatry, is a dangerous pseudo-sciences that should be kept out of parent-chikd relationships as long as possible! Make Police ENFORCE ALL ORDERS!! Why do we carry the documents in our cars if no one really acts upon those ORDERS?!!??
It’s my case too they been doing this to a few people and they did nothing to help only make this syndrome true to them when it wasn’t there so now your hit with 2 huge trauma evens that breaks the mind and it leaves side efforts. This is against the constitutional law of a natural family bond and rearing that is a natural connection.
That is my case you are my evaluator that kicked me out of that office that day don’t you remember you made me cry. I did not know this was a set up to prove a syndrome and I still get a whole new trauma when I told details to heal not be torture when I came to heal to keep getting hurt so my abuser is the system hurts me again and my mind can’t keep up. My experience is it’s a mind trick. I knew what my real feelings where and it’s just a family Bond that we came for healing in therapy and it was withheld so took my tools away to learn on purpose so I didn’t have tools just shock and awe trauma bombshell that made a new one on top of a old one cause permanent damage. Then to find out I was a lab rat that all the people I was to trust lied to me to pull off this syndrome.
I’m pretty sure I didn’t give you permission to put medical records out there to be looked at scary again by our trauma if you stop putting people in a box and do therapy like the mission statement says help and services to reunite the family’s not put me in a label box I wasn’t but now have all this new trauma that shouldn’t of happened to be explosive this syndrome did this and you still see no abuse happened like you think but your report was out to break my mind and didn’t stop and I pleaded for help.
No because it’s done with lies and deceits from people your to trust and now you want us to make since of doing everything opposite to what I know in my mind but this syndrome it don’t stop once it breaks a mom bond so in turn you break the the women when she came to trust in the help
This was not my choice you knew once the second trauma hits so soon that it did the mind meltdown to core believes that’s protected under the constitutional law that’s why it feels like an attack familiarity’s to family is the law people I was to trust my already trauma symptoms to heal where playing a whole new game on my mind that you know is a permanent death heart break and you guys even called it something like that online the breakup syndrome or some shit like that. You even claim the dose neurological meltdown by confusion.
I can't believe the judge put both parents in jail when the alienator was obviously the mother. I don't think I could keep my composure after that and I would probably sue for judicial misconduct.
My family has dealt with this for years. My son and his daughter actually had their last reunification session today. She told the therapist that she wants to have her visitation at his home, not the supervised visitation. The therapist asked if she was worried about what her Mom might think about that, and she said "yes". I sure hope that therapist can see what's really going on. We are so excited about her visit next weekend! For the past year, she's been wanting to get to sleep in her bedroom at her Dad's apartment. Thanks for the great video!
Dr Childress has it down perfectly. He laid it all out. Problem solved
That's why babies and kids cry - they have a crisis without a solution. They are desperate. This is why it is so important to provide solutions that build character that will carry them through the challenges of later life.
In my case and I am sure in many cases, children are either sexually, emotionally abused and bare a sence of deep shame and guilt because of this and have no desire to have a relationship with that 'parent'. It takes a lifetime of healing and recovering from those deep routed trauma. In my case, social services stepped in and removed me immediately. No drawn out court dates, no mercy for the offender. My mother did an excellent job in raising me and I saw firsthand what a parent should be. If you have the title PARENT..be one! If you have issues, deal with them, but do not think that your issues will just go away without seeking professional help. It is not your child's fault, it is however, your responsibility to protect, love, educate, nurture your child, who is innocent in all of this. The best interest for any child, is self-explanatory. How on earth can any human being flourish and grow in a toxic environment? They have absolitely no coping skills, no voice, no idea what the solution is. The sane parent needs to be that voice, that hope, that strength for them.
"Abuse" makes Parental Alienation "child-centric;" it is an issue of PARENTAL RIGHTS!
Humans tend to want to erase their ex.
Read the ORDERS in any standard Divorce Decree, EVOLVED to counter this "instinct" and keep both parents involved.
Parental Alienation is KIDNAPPING!
Let Police ENFORCE ALL ORDERS to share information, responsibilities, and visitation/possessions.
Keep quack therapists and Judges, neither with training nor oversight nor accountability, OUT of our family dynamics!
Simply let Police ENFORCE ALL ORDERS, especially the tiny ones, like sharing school and medical info, meant to keep both parents involved.
Write tickets, fine, jail, etc.without Court!
My teens would not be SEVERELY Alienated now, except for 8 years hiding Drs.' names and school IDs (implies "Dad is subhuman, perhaps dangerous..."), the Covid Lockdown separation, incompetent "therapist" (never talked to me, called Protective Services and gave Personality Disordered Ex an excuse to deny ALL subsequent possession/visitations), and after an Ass. Judgelette admitted I proved Contempt of Court, 15 minutes interviewing SEVERELY Alienated teens, became convinced that I deserved Supervised Visitation (in spite of no previous problems!) and to pay for Family Therapy, but (!!!) diagnosed Bipolar Ex NOT INCLUDED!
Her documented perjury forced her to sign a Mediated Settlement to restore ALL my rights per Divorce Decree, but that was just another lie.
Now she, and they, wallow in delusions; she reports "The kids don't want to go to therapy."
Let Police ENFORCE, with fines and jail, ALL the ORDERS meant to keep both parents involved.
Reread this post for comprehension, PLEASE.
Illinois, 3rd denied visitation means the obstructing parent goes to Jail, supposedly.
And stop thinking this is about "hateful" Exes; they may be sincere in their delusions about the children's safety. DOES NOT MATTER, neither does the children's "abuse," trauma, depression, or gleeful hatred - PROTECT PARENT'S RIGHTS FIRST!!
That's what parents are for, to help their children.
Just by looking at this man I know he and I understand eachother. I’m sure there are differences but also a common thread
How does one bring about therapeutic crisis?
Therapy, and psychology/psychiatry, is a dangerous pseudo-sciences that should be kept out of parent-chikd relationships as long as possible! Make Police ENFORCE ALL ORDERS!!
Why do we carry the documents in our cars if no one really acts upon those ORDERS?!!??
How do i contact douglas darnell please somebody contact
This has happened to me. Parental alienation . Case-specifically. I'm alienated from my daughter by my NF. Yes.
It’s my case too they been doing this to a few people and they did nothing to help only make this syndrome true to them when it wasn’t there so now your hit with 2 huge trauma evens that breaks the mind and it leaves side efforts. This is against the constitutional law of a natural family bond and rearing that is a natural connection.
That is my case you are my evaluator that kicked me out of that office that day don’t you remember you made me cry. I did not know this was a set up to prove a syndrome and I still get a whole new trauma when I told details to heal not be torture when I came to heal to keep getting hurt so my abuser is the system hurts me again and my mind can’t keep up. My experience is it’s a mind trick. I knew what my real feelings where and it’s just a family Bond that we came for healing in therapy and it was withheld so took my tools away to learn on purpose so I didn’t have tools just shock and awe trauma bombshell that made a new one on top of a old one cause permanent damage. Then to find out I was a lab rat that all the people I was to trust lied to me to pull off this syndrome.
I’m pretty sure I didn’t give you permission to put medical records out there to be looked at scary again by our trauma if you stop putting people in a box and do therapy like the mission statement says help and services to reunite the family’s not put me in a label box I wasn’t but now have all this new trauma that shouldn’t of happened to be explosive this syndrome did this and you still see no abuse happened like you think but your report was out to break my mind and didn’t stop and I pleaded for help.
No because it’s done with lies and deceits from people your to trust and now you want us to make since of doing everything opposite to what I know in my mind but this syndrome it don’t stop once it breaks a mom bond so in turn you break the the women when she came to trust in the help
This was not my choice you knew once the second trauma hits so soon that it did the mind meltdown to core believes that’s protected under the constitutional law that’s why it feels like an attack familiarity’s to family is the law people I was to trust my already trauma symptoms to heal where playing a whole new game on my mind that you know is a permanent death heart break and you guys even called it something like that online the breakup syndrome or some shit like that. You even claim the dose neurological meltdown by confusion.
Those continuance shocked me, 3 months, another 3 months, another...
It feels like it will never end, doesn't it?
I’m on 18 months. Still have not seen my daughter.
@@aurorahiraeth5896 it's crazy worng
I can't believe the judge put both parents in jail when the alienator was obviously the mother. I don't think I could keep my composure after that and I would probably sue for judicial misconduct.
You can’t keep talking about other peoples cases because now I just feel set up.
PA is attacked....I know why and by which powerful movement...but if I say so I'll be attacked too.
If someone is sneaking into your house and everything is locked first get out call police and let them search ur house they would have found that fkr!