I have always been attracted to thick/amazonian shaped (No disrespect intended) women. Mainly because most of the women in my family were built that way. But it's crazy to me how thin women want big girl features like chest and butts but want to keep the small legs, stomach, and arms. So not attractive.
Authenticity is what people look for in my opinion. Authentic beauty and sex appeal is natural to our DNA so when we give attention to a certain person or act in our community the world takes notice because we always create beautiful things naturally amd it's copied artificially by others after. The world is used to this cycle in America already and that influences world wide trends in my opinion. Also I think that everyone looks to icons for guidance based on beauty and sex appeal but that's not a good sign of character in a person unfortunately. Great video. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💪🏾🙏🏾
It is a good sign of character, but it is not a sign of good character. Do you see the difference? I agreed with your post except on that one point. You placed the word “good” in the wrong spot.
When blaqmen want to look better, they hit the gym, change our diets, drink more water, take vitamins and supplements, hit the barbershop or shave off our hair, and invest in over-the-counter men’s beauty products (face scrub, moisturizer, high-end shaving products, sunblock, eye cream, etc.). They put in the work. When blaqwomen want to look better, too many of them get wigs and weaves, invest in cosmetic surgery (sometimes at their kids’ expense), wear fake eyelashes, and stroke on cake batter for makeup. That’s laziness.
@@nnekaonyilofor : And there may be some validity to that, but WHAT men? Respectable men don’t take Nikki Minaj types to high-end cocktail party. That booty is a distraction there. Those women are to sleep with and to show off in the ‘hood. They’re not cocktail party dates, business dinner companions, travel partners (depending), etc. And this isn’t about body type or size. You can be elegant at any weight or shape. It’s more about the self-selected personas that you see in the women who choose to have these procedures. Feminine, friendly, cooperative, elegant, wifey-material women don’t do it.
I have recently been told that sometimes my thoughts come off as tone deaf. But bearing that in mind why is Buffy the body an inspiration only to women to get butt implants or injections. But not an inspiration for women who are naturally built like her to become video vixens. My high school sweetheart was built like her. In the 90s in the 80s I saw lots of women with small waist and big butts. But these women don't become video vixens.
This is actually a very good question Geno. With the rise of surgery, it was easier for BW to do that. It’s possible that women who are naturally shaped like this were inspired by Buffie, but ppl may assume those women have fake bodies.
I remember that they have a video of a black woman called porsha love who loves her brown skin it seems like it's very positive and not negative I just hope and pray that most black women see who themselves really are and their identity of Christ not of the things of this world because in this world is very dark and backwards they can be set free and turn away from wickedness also I remember that black women are supposed to be loved and also encouraging and very intelligent loyalty standards for black women you do not have to go to the strip club for new rap videos or magazines also in the kingdom of God black women are supposed to be represented Queens
Real Kings of black men needs Queens with Sweetness of black and beautiful loving brown skin with sweet and gentle black women dedication of working really hard or also never gives up on her self but always keep trying of what is actually best for herself by staying in humble also loving on somebody has a family or Church member greeting somebody with welcome arms or even praying like a pray warrior at home or helping somebody by cheering up with joy black women don't have to represent themselves as sexually Sin fornication and lusting images of playboy Bunnie's like bad baddies horny humping Nasty or naughty Chocolate booties hunnie bums with shaking Big booties by twerking showing there cleavage of their breast being naked or nudity in music video also strip clubs on magazines and it's also so sad to see this happen to our beautiful black women and the entertainment and also industry that's in the black community also our neighborhoods
Although I don't agree with the objectification or the over-sexualization of African-American women, Black women can be both seductive and ethical at the same time. What I think happens is that too many times we society places Black women on a pedestal to tear down and that's something that we have to avoid within our community. There is a way for a Black woman to be sensual as well as modest. You can blend The best of both worlds where a Black woman can show her sensuality, as well as her maturity as she understands that she doesn't have to expose all of herself to be beautiful. I'm hoping that in time Black women will find the strength and even develop a curiosity for exploring who they are in all facets not just in the oversexualized ones. 🙏🏾
How did we get here Black people?
The condition of a people is determined by what they place value in.
It is determined buy the condition of your women...
Period!
@@JB-ot9hi: You are also correct. 👍🏾
Dancing around like a minstrel show
Very well spoken.❤️💪🏿✌🏿🗽✝️
Anyone still hanging out at dance clubs is in the wrong headspace anyway.
I have always been attracted to thick/amazonian shaped (No disrespect intended) women. Mainly because most of the women in my family were built that way. But it's crazy to me how thin women want big girl features like chest and butts but want to keep the small legs, stomach, and arms. So not attractive.
Authenticity is what people look for in my opinion. Authentic beauty and sex appeal is natural to our DNA so when we give attention to a certain person or act in our community the world takes notice because we always create beautiful things naturally amd it's copied artificially by others after. The world is used to this cycle in America already and that influences world wide trends in my opinion. Also I think that everyone looks to icons for guidance based on beauty and sex appeal but that's not a good sign of character in a person unfortunately. Great video. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💪🏾🙏🏾
It is a good sign of character, but it is not a sign of good character. Do you see the difference?
I agreed with your post except on that one point. You placed the word “good” in the wrong spot.
I like the nuance that you pointed out! 💎
Very well said! 🎯💯
When blaqmen want to look better, they hit the gym, change our diets, drink more water, take vitamins and supplements, hit the barbershop or shave off our hair, and invest in over-the-counter men’s beauty products (face scrub, moisturizer, high-end shaving products, sunblock, eye cream, etc.). They put in the work.
When blaqwomen want to look better, too many of them get wigs and weaves, invest in cosmetic surgery (sometimes at their kids’ expense), wear fake eyelashes, and stroke on cake batter for makeup. That’s laziness.
True. But women blame men for these beauty standards. Very ironic.
@@nnekaonyilofor : And there may be some validity to that, but WHAT men? Respectable men don’t take Nikki Minaj types to high-end cocktail party. That booty is a distraction there. Those women are to sleep with and to show off in the ‘hood. They’re not cocktail party dates, business dinner companions, travel partners (depending), etc.
And this isn’t about body type or size. You can be elegant at any weight or shape. It’s more about the self-selected personas that you see in the women who choose to have these procedures. Feminine, friendly, cooperative, elegant, wifey-material women don’t do it.
@@nnekaonyiloforbecause women didn’t create those beauty standards 🤷🏾♀️
I have recently been told that sometimes my thoughts come off as tone deaf.
But bearing that in mind why is Buffy the body an inspiration only to women to get butt implants or injections.
But not an inspiration for women who are naturally built like her to become video vixens.
My high school sweetheart was built like her. In the 90s in the 80s I saw lots of women with small waist and big butts.
But these women don't become video vixens.
This is actually a very good question Geno. With the rise of surgery, it was easier for BW to do that. It’s possible that women who are naturally shaped like this were inspired by Buffie, but ppl may assume those women have fake bodies.
I remember that they have a video of a black woman called porsha love who loves her brown skin it seems like it's very positive and not negative I just hope and pray that most black women see who themselves really are and their identity of Christ not of the things of this world because in this world is very dark and backwards they can be set free and turn away from wickedness also I remember that black women are supposed to be loved and also encouraging and very intelligent loyalty standards for black women you do not have to go to the strip club for new rap videos or magazines also in the kingdom of God black women are supposed to be represented Queens
Real Kings of black men needs Queens with Sweetness of black and beautiful loving brown skin with sweet and gentle black women dedication of working really hard or also never gives up on her self but always keep trying of what is actually best for herself by staying in humble also loving on somebody has a family or Church member greeting somebody with welcome arms or even praying like a pray warrior at home or helping somebody by cheering up with joy black women don't have to represent themselves as sexually Sin fornication and lusting images of playboy Bunnie's like bad baddies horny humping Nasty or naughty Chocolate booties hunnie bums with shaking Big booties by twerking showing there cleavage of their breast being naked or nudity in music video also strip clubs on magazines and it's also so sad to see this happen to our beautiful black women and the entertainment and also industry that's in the black community also our neighborhoods
Although I don't agree with the objectification or the over-sexualization of African-American women, Black women can be both seductive and ethical at the same time. What I think happens is that too many times we society places Black women on a pedestal to tear down and that's something that we have to avoid within our community. There is a way for a Black woman to be sensual as well as modest. You can blend The best of both worlds where a Black woman can show her sensuality, as well as her maturity as she understands that she doesn't have to expose all of herself to be beautiful. I'm hoping that in time Black women will find the strength and even develop a curiosity for exploring who they are in all facets not just in the oversexualized ones. 🙏🏾
Very good nuance to point out. I am here for sensual and seductive…just not overtly sexual (esp when it is out of context).