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I was also born and raised in lagos Nigeria and moved to the US when i was 9 and he is right. All the "tough" guys in America would not last a week in Lagos I promise you. power goes out randomly, having to fetch water, less resources unless you are part of the extremely wealthy class which is less than 5% there is no middle class. the worst slums in America look like resorts compared to real slums in Nigeria. So i completely understand where Bismarck is coming from and it adds to my drive and determination because just like him I am extremely blessed to have been able to move to the US due to the opportunities.
That's the problem with black countries. It's not they don't have money. Its the corruption and mis-use of that money. Is the reason the standard of living never rises for the vast majority. It is the same with Zimbabwe.
@@blackzilian83 bruh wym the middle class is pretty much non existent compared to back in the day. Things have gotten worse not better with inflation. Hyper inflation
My life got sabotaged severely by bullying in secondary school and military, thus I have not much money now at 34 years old. I will try my best to earn money now.
Of course, because money is very important, only behind time and oxygen. If you have no money it is really miserable trust me. Not only that, people talk down to you.
Born in Benin city Nigeria brother I know all the struggle. I live in NYC now our mentality just different. I’m 30 with two multi family homes. I can’t stop I want more! MONEY IS EVERYTHING!!
Wow this is so inspiring to hear. I'm a Real Estate Agent here in Nigeria If you're ever thinking of making Real Estate Investments here in Nigeria I'm at your service
My life got sabotaged severely by bullying in secondary school and military, thus I have not much money now at 34 years old. I will try my best to earn money now.
Yea it s crazy to me they re telling me having the freedom to live the life you like doesn t make you happy. What are they even saying? You can do more you can be more literally
it's cause some people dont have money and dont want to work for it, so they try and make it seem that money doesnt matter. its like how fat people say that being in shape doesnt matter
It isn't , because I got money and it's worse because nothing changes with women if you rich or broke. Except if you are richer than 90% of dudes and women still turn you down.. how would that make you feel ? Only poor people believe money will make it all better xD.
I grew up in a bad neighborhood in New York City, where there’s drug addicts on every corner, shootings every night, and the best restaurants were McDonald’s the chances of dying were high, and everyone’s goal is who scams the best, visiting my parents country in Mexico 🇲🇽 horrible with cartels running everything, and me visiting nice spots in New York City i said i want to live in that rich luxury neighborhood, I’m now working double jobs and investing at 19 idec, I need generation wealth and to retire my parents 💪 thanks fitz for helping me realize mediocre isn’t good enough
Money only brings you true happiness when USED RIGHT, the ones who say it doesn’t are the ones who lack purpose in life and aren’t wise with their money.
I truly thank you for sharing this fit. This video made me realize that I haven’t been grinding enough, haven’t really been through as much as I thought I had, and to think I was poor was crazy. Thanks bro.
I'm from Lagos Nigeria and i can relate to exact what you've been tru. Money is the most important thing after God, if you've experienced suffring like i have, you will know that money is important.
Probably one of the most direct and all-around video on how the mindset that produces wealth, forces you to produce wealth in your life in general, and not in the strictly economical sense. Wealth in terms of money is the by-product that follows the wealth mindset. On point, G.
I also come to America when i was 9 and am from Lagos Nigeria as well! My accent was gone by the time i was 13-14. Its natural if you move anywhere at a young age
I almost cried in the first seconds. But I’m a man ! Congratulations to you bro. I’m coming from Benin and I really understand you ! Let’s go further. 🔥
Please more videos like this! I really appreciate hearing your story and as a Nigerian like you who grew up in a similar fashion, I totally relate to the water, toilet, light scenarios...Also immigrated to the US and I'm constantly thinking of how to be an exceptional man in finances and other aspects of my life.
Dude actually spoke to us DIRECTLY, literally THERE IS NO excuses guys at this point, you either want it or you DON'T, the ending what he said about him helping his mom really hit me internally, cuz I am in the SAME position
Thanks for continuing updates. I'd rather trade the stock market as it's more profitable. I make an average of $30,100 per week even though I barely trade myself.
Hearing that you're from Lagos, Nigeria boosted my morale a 100 times. If you could make it, I too will make it, I must. I really appreciate what you do bro I really do. Keep it up❤.
Money does buy happiness if you use it correctly if you use it to satisfy other people, you’re obviously not gonna be happy with your money I promise you be smart with you’re money & you will live a great life!
That will depend on the persons definition of happiness. To you being comfortable and being able to pay your bills. And having your time for yourself might be happiness. To another they can only find happiness through being wanted and loved by the person THEY WANT. And no money in the world can buy that. It can buy SEX all day long. But it cannot make someone love you. Unless they do...
Being an african-American from America, it has been an enlightening experience to hear your stories of struggle in Nigeria and made me realize my problems were never really that bad i was just not inspired enough.
You sound silly as shit saying that. So you telling me that every American got it like that? Go to Austin, Philly, Chicago, Cali. You aint been to the States so dont speak on stuff you dont know. Theres more poverty now here than you know.
Man this guy deserves so much more and i’m just so inspired and glad to see a guy becoming this successful from all the things he said in the first minutes of the video. Bismarck, It got me so inspired. You are the MAN.
Spot on People don’t realize money also give you anxieties at some point when you only chase it though I personally knew someone who’s rich in my city he died a stroke at 70… His doctor said the man wasn’t loosing up at all All he ever put his mind on was getting more money later on he diagnosed with dementia
@@NashBenzotv I'm 19 and for most of my life I always thought money buys happiness but I now just preach content and just be blessed with what you have but always strive to be better
This is really inspirational,it tells me to use my resources and stop being lazy when everything is given easily ❤❤I’ll forever thank god for what I currently have in life and be humble ❤thank you so much for this reminder
I am Nigerian and stayed there for a few years. FitX is not cappin' at all those first few minutes talking about his experience growing up in Lagos, Nigeria.
I’m glad you made this. I like women, but they always slow me down bc I can’t control myself. This stuff here is a reminder of what’s more important. And believe me I am focusing up. I grew up poor from debt so nothing came free. Now that I am an adult at 25 there’s no excuse. I’m currently talking with an Air Force recruiter, and will hopefully be serving this country soon. I want this opportunity to take me further, and to be the first on my moms side of the Family to graduate with a BA.
Everything he's saying is right,the dating market here in Nigeria is all about money and literally everything life here is money and its harder to get here cause of alot of factors. Alot of you guys abroad dont know how lucky you are to be born in a first world country,get money guys now.
Money is important, but I believe it’s a bit overblown. It will certainly cover materialistic problems such as school, family, etc, but it doesn’t truly solve the tricky part of life: the mind. See, it is probably better to be sad with money, but the way I look at it, it’s abt gratitude. We have water, roof, food, people, etc. We don’t necessarily need mansions, nice cars, etc. Ultimately, the meaning of life is different for everybody, and money is important. But don’t sell your soul to the fucking devil for it. A lot of times, money solves problems, but then we end up creating even more problems without realizing it. So yea Edit: for reference, I grew up in Central America, Nicaragua to be specific, and I’ve lived through poverty. That’s why I laughed when he mentioned the water bucket shower 😂. But yea, don’t make money your fucking god
Well the truth is you dont need anything you don t need to live a good life either. But you want it and you like it and that s what makes the difference between a good life and a compromised chance at life. How I see greatfulness is you got this chance you re blessed to be able to live the life you like to live all of that want. You need to be greatful and do what it takes to live that life you like cuz you got this chance and others didn t! That s how I see it
@@JorgeTorres_777yeah it’s all philosophical coolaid until until either you or someone you love falls sick and needs an expensive treatment to survive, or you’re trapped in a dangerous neighbourhood because you can’t afford better. Money in the end is security, which brings stability and freedom.
There is much truth here. I grew up partly in the south in .U.S. and let me tell you I remember no washing machine, no heaters or gas and we had an icebox-Not a refrigerator. The roads were dirt clay and phones were a luxury. We had no shower but finally got a bath tub and then a refrigerator and they put in heaters eventually. They also finally paved the roads. And we got washing machine. Relatives who lived a little out of town had the "hole for a bathroom, no heat but dangerous fireplaces and no electricity. We kids fetched water everyday we visited and we also picked dinner from the garden. Life was very very tough. As an added bonus we here had to deal with oppressive racism that pervaded everything. I fought very very hard and strong but leaving the mental shackles was very difficult. Also leaving behind those who gave up or stayed stuck or chose to stay "down was challenging and heartbreaking. Due to circumstances I was forced to go it alone and it took many many years and twists and turns. But I got a top notch education, stayed fit and most importantly learned to save and invest. The most important word said here was FREEDOM. That's what money does best. Gives more freedom of choice. I remember the day a manager at work berated and yelled at me just because he could. The more he yelled the calmer I got. When he left for lunch I cleared out my desk, left a note on his desk and a copy of my bank investment statement. The note said kiss my rich black ass and no one like you will ever speak to me like that again. I haven't won't anybody else's job since. This was 15 years ago and five years later saw him at a high end restaurant downtown. I smiled a conceited little grin that said I WON while he turned beet red. Great video!!!
I rather have money than be famous because if people know you have money before famous you not as a target then being well known. So hopefully one day i can have money without anyone knowing who I am
"For the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil" (1 Timothy 6:10, NIV). That said, I understand the message you're conveying, and I hope men focus on the heart of it, leaving the superficial aspects behind. Regarding what famous men get away with, Trump is a prime example. He was recorded saying he could grab women by the you-know-what, and they let him because of who he is. It's true, but it's no different than a panhandler kissing up for a dollar-they're not doing it because you suddenly became attractive. They want something from you. The Me2oo movement brought plenty of horror stories to light, largely because of men who believe they're untouchable due to their money and status. So yes, there are both good and bad takeaways from your message. But to your earlier point, most men aren't trying to move to Miami and date women with plastic surgery and high-maintenance lifestyles. Not every man needs to be a millionaire to thrive. However, having some extra money is definitely beneficial. I just wouldn't advise men to go out of their way to create lifestyles that demand more than they need, just to impress others or attract women. Furthermore, if money, looks, status, and charisma were everything (combined), you'd never hear about Bezos, Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, Channing Tatum, Usher, Chris Brown or Lil Wayne getting heartbroken. Life goes on. And if a certain type of woman can get you, she can get another. She either likes you and you're compatible or she doesn't and you're not. Plus, it's been shown that people are more likely to stay together when they're on the same level. "Leverage" is good and well until you find yourself constantly leveling up girls who are using you to get to the men above you. Forget leverage. Level up so you can get women on your level and willing to grow with you.
0:35 you're so real for this bro, I ain't like this poor I got stuff other people don't have but money has been a struggle for sure and people talk about it so f much and they always talk about some bs
Its just a piece of paper, and people don’t live forever, i just wanna live comfortably. Money anf success is too over rated, its nice but some people focus on getting rich too much
Yea trying hard to get rich can make you anxious which later get you depression Most likely those people deep down are depressed I wish everybody could buy lifespan with money Money can buy you comforts not happiness
@@NashBenzotvmoney can literally save your life and buy you life. You could get sick and need a procedure that is not covered by your health insurance, that’s if you even have one to begin with. Money can take you out of situations where you could literally lose your life otherwise.
I got sent to Nigeria for six years and I can testify everything you said is true . USA is a blessing. I was washing with my hands in Nigeria. Thank you for sharing your story brought back memories and also motivation
No such thing as an ugly millionaire. He can buy good looks! Give a regular Joe 5 million dollars, a Lamborghini, a Bentley, a blue check with a lit Insta with 100k followers, and a penthouse downtown, he'll have more options for both dating and friends that day more than he ever imagined!
Having friends or women ain't a flex if they not real friends or women with actual interest you'll be used or people who disappear if you did somehow fall off in money
If you were born poor, it’s not your fault. If you die poor, it’s your fault. I’m only 22 and I live in Canada and right now it’s kinda tough to find a job. Our stupid prime minister doesn’t know what he’s doing but hey, I’m trying to grind and get that bag.
I wanna get away from Nigeria , there's no opportunity for here to utilise my abilities over here your mom did you a great deal by bringing you to the US for real.
legit hungry frl,like the stress of it all i welcome it cause ik that the stress implies im trying to do something that my family as never seen happen in its bloodline
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Love the vids bro it changed my mindset
Do a video collab with Austin Dunham and Please Go back on Fresh and fit , you have evolved so much.
bro you a black tony montana just without the drugs
A immigrant from where africa?
@@razorsharplifestyle101hard9 Nigeria
Money is not everything but everything needs money. Money does fix a lot of problems! Get to it guys !
“some people are so poor, all they have is money.” - Bob Marley
So basically money is essentially everything.
@TheVillageBeast money can't buy happiness but it's a damn good down payment! It can sure buy fame, a good IG, and a successful business.
That’s why you still in Africa bum 😂
You Fits #1 fan
“Women are not going to respect you when you’re broke.”💯
Society in general will not treat you right because you’re broke 😢
they respected Jeremy Meeks
Yep it's really messed up how people treat when you don't have
Because he is above average in looks @@awemanyfit
@@awemanyfit 😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣
Proud to be an African, the struggle keeps you humble but resilient! Can’t be explained. We don’t complain, we just keep going!!
Immigrant mentality for the win
True bro, No time to waste time 😂
You see opportunities when speaking of the United States 🇺🇸 that’s why the world 🌎 wants to come to the greatest place on earth (America!)
@@The-Right-is-RightActually my ancestors brought them on boats and enslaved them so yea
@@The-Right-is-Right Get colonized
hearing this story and knowing we had similar starts legit shows i have no excuse
But not everyone can be a RUclipsr like him
@@andyng5321why not?
@@andyng5321 that mindset is poor, CHANGE IT. You can do ANYTHING real talk
@@andyng5321 but why not you?
@@andyng5321shut up 😂
This is the most vulnerable we've seen Fit X. Most respect to this man. He deserves all the success 🙌 👑
I was also born and raised in lagos Nigeria and moved to the US when i was 9 and he is right. All the "tough" guys in America would not last a week in Lagos I promise you. power goes out randomly, having to fetch water, less resources unless you are part of the extremely wealthy class which is less than 5% there is no middle class. the worst slums in America look like resorts compared to real slums in Nigeria. So i completely understand where Bismarck is coming from and it adds to my drive and determination because just like him I am extremely blessed to have been able to move to the US due to the opportunities.
That's the problem with black countries. It's not they don't have money. Its the corruption and mis-use of that money. Is the reason the standard of living never rises for the vast majority.
It is the same with Zimbabwe.
Wassup my naija🇳🇬 brother see yall at the top💪🏿
In 2024 yes there is a middle class in Nigeria , back then no
@@blackzilian83 bruh wym the middle class is pretty much non existent compared to back in the day. Things have gotten worse not better with inflation. Hyper inflation
@@Tobechukwu34Yh gas is 1k now
Money might not bring you happiness, but it's better to be sad with money than sad without it
It does
Money allows you to do the things that make you happy, if you are extremely successful and sad there’s a way deeper issue and yea money can’t fix that
My life got sabotaged severely by bullying in secondary school and military, thus I have not much money now at 34 years old. I will try my best to earn money now.
@@JoaoPedro-pi4mv it is better to cry on a Lamborghini than to cry without one :)
Money does bring you happiness have you seen anyone cry on a cruise ship to Fiji ?
No background music kinds of makes the videos more deep💯
Facts
Of course, because money is very important, only behind time and oxygen. If you have no money it is really miserable trust me. Not only that, people talk down to you.
Born in Benin city Nigeria brother I know all the struggle. I live in NYC now our mentality just different. I’m 30 with two multi family homes. I can’t stop I want more! MONEY IS EVERYTHING!!
osas money 🔥
Wow this is so inspiring to hear.
I'm a Real Estate Agent here in Nigeria
If you're ever thinking of making Real Estate Investments here in Nigeria I'm at your service
I watch your content from Nigeria and its motivates me alot to work my way to the to the top .
You can do it brother. Apply yourself and get your money
Same but this guy never really stuffer he go america at age 9
@@masculinityorientation790omo suffer no be competition ...make we comot for here na the goal be that
@@Geralddd966 sure but the way him take talk am like say him suffer too much.
@@masculinityorientation790 lmao ...people suffer pass am by far
That is facts bro salute to you for the straight gems and game
My life got sabotaged severely by bullying in secondary school and military, thus I have not much money now at 34 years old. I will try my best to earn money now.
Isn't it very obvious that money is very important?
Money is important I don't know why people pretend like it isn't........
Yea it s crazy to me they re telling me having the freedom to live the life you like doesn t make you happy. What are they even saying? You can do more you can be more literally
it's cause some people dont have money and dont want to work for it, so they try and make it seem that money doesnt matter. its like how fat people say that being in shape doesnt matter
Facts! You need it for freedom.. only those that never had money say dumb shit like that . I love the rich life
Truth
It isn't , because I got money and it's worse because nothing changes with women if you rich or broke. Except if you are richer than 90% of dudes and women still turn you down.. how would that make you feel ? Only poor people believe money will make it all better xD.
I grew up in a bad neighborhood in New York City, where there’s drug addicts on every corner, shootings every night, and the best restaurants were McDonald’s the chances of dying were high, and everyone’s goal is who scams the best, visiting my parents country in Mexico 🇲🇽 horrible with cartels running everything, and me visiting nice spots in New York City i said i want to live in that rich luxury neighborhood, I’m now working double jobs and investing at 19 idec, I need generation wealth and to retire my parents 💪 thanks fitz for helping me realize mediocre isn’t good enough
I grew up in Flatbush Brooklyn. It wasn’t Nigeria for sure but it wasn’t easy.
@@everythingbyjohn still better than Nigeria 😅
@@everythingbyjohn I grew up in alphabet city moved to Spanish Harlem seen the poverty and seen Mexico poverty I know and I want better 🔥💯
@@59_xgx all facts salute
A rough place is a rough place, yes there’s levels but it’s still a form of struggle.
You know this video is serious when it doesn’t have the background music the other videos usually have…
Yes, much thanks for pointing that out. He doesn't use distracting music like other people with video editors trying to look busy.
Was thinking the same when watched it ✌️
Yeah no background music this shit be exhausting
first thing i’ve realized to
Just tell those who say money does not bring you happiness to give you their money, question easily done :)
Money only brings you true happiness when USED RIGHT, the ones who say it doesn’t are the ones who lack purpose in life and aren’t wise with their money.
I truly thank you for sharing this fit. This video made me realize that I haven’t been grinding enough, haven’t really been through as much as I thought I had, and to think I was poor was crazy. Thanks bro.
I'm from Lagos Nigeria and i can relate to exact what you've been tru. Money is the most important thing after God, if you've experienced suffring like i have, you will know that money is important.
Probably one of the most direct and all-around video on how the mindset that produces wealth, forces you to produce wealth in your life in general, and not in the strictly economical sense. Wealth in terms of money is the by-product that follows the wealth mindset.
On point, G.
My brother how far now i remember the struggle we nor dey carry last 💪🏿🇳🇬
Damn this story is just the same as me! Grew up in Kenya slums, came here at 9 just like you! 💯💯 this whole story hit hard home man
Ahhh this guy knows the struggle mannn😭😭 no showers just a wooden box and pouring that water on yourself with a cup fam
Not gonna lie everything you've said in this video is spot on keep up these type of videos🔥📈
FitX is a master at assimilation. Zero African accent. For the longest time I thought he was Afro-American
I can still hear his African accent it is just mixed with some Ebonics.
He moved at 9 so…
He came to America at 9 that's why.
When you move at elementary school age you will develop a new accent
I also come to America when i was 9 and am from Lagos Nigeria as well! My accent was gone by the time i was 13-14. Its natural if you move anywhere at a young age
The moment you said you grew up in Lagos, NG. I knew you could relate to our struggle. I feel proud and happy for you gee
“ I don’t know many people who wanna be great “ I felt that😂 I’m not gonna waste my time doin nothing with people
Facts, alot of people i talk to don't wanna be great which was shocking
I almost cried in the first seconds. But I’m a man ! Congratulations to you bro. I’m coming from Benin and I really understand you ! Let’s go further. 🔥
As a Nigerian in the UK myself its been great to witness your journey to success bro. Much Respect
Proud of u and you have an insane work ethic
Fitx has been releasing great videos, respect
Please more videos like this! I really appreciate hearing your story and as a Nigerian like you who grew up in a similar fashion, I totally relate to the water, toilet, light scenarios...Also immigrated to the US and I'm constantly thinking of how to be an exceptional man in finances and other aspects of my life.
This probably one of your best videos EVER
Dude actually spoke to us DIRECTLY, literally THERE IS NO excuses guys at this point, you either want it or you DON'T, the ending what he said about him helping his mom really hit me internally, cuz I am in the SAME position
"You wana get some bread because we know each other" This hit me so much
Bro this whole time I thought you were from the islands, glad to see a fellow Nigerian make it. Bless up brother
Thanks for continuing updates. I'd rather trade the stock market as it's more profitable. I make an average of $30,100 per week even though I barely trade myself.
🥲 I'm in a similar situation where should I look to increase income? Do you have any advice? What did you do? Thank you
What is the best way to make money from crypto trading?
Appreciations to Mrs Charlotte Junko Walsh
She's a licensed broker here in the states.
Sounds familiar, I have heard her names on several occasions.. And both her success stories on wall street journey!
Lagos, Nigeria. 🇳🇬
From Edo Nigeria but currently in Lagos Nigeria.
Ibadan, nigeria🙂
Imo
Akwa Ibom, Nigeria
Bro this is one of the best videos I ever seen in my life, your videos are a blessing to my life thank you ❤️💪🙏
THE GREATEST VIDEO OF ALL TIME… THANK YOU FITX
Hearing that you're from Lagos, Nigeria boosted my morale a 100 times. If you could make it, I too will make it, I must. I really appreciate what you do bro I really do. Keep it up❤.
I appreciate you so much for your content!
extremely motivational video especially that last point.
Money does buy happiness if you use it correctly if you use it to satisfy other people, you’re obviously not gonna be happy with your money I promise you be smart with you’re money & you will live a great life!
That will depend on the persons definition of happiness. To you being comfortable and being able to pay your bills. And having your time for yourself might be happiness. To another they can only find happiness through being wanted and loved by the person THEY WANT. And no money in the world can buy that. It can buy SEX all day long. But it cannot make someone love you. Unless they do...
@@stevemann1299 facts
I need a video like this, time to grind even harder. Thanks Fitx
The Beatles said money can't buy you love. P Diddy said mo money mo problems. At the end of the day I still want the money.
We know what the “P” stands for…..
Have * . Wanting is a frequency where you a are laking money
@@OzzyHamid-cl2fifree diddy
Facts ...this Broo really knows what he is saying....if you don't have money to eat all you do is think about food .....
The new Kevin Samuel!!! Bro is speaking facts.
Fam you're so right. I don't even argue with anyone who doesn't respect money.
I'm also born and raised in Lagos Nigeria
Money does makes you happy tbh
Americans will never know what true poverty is
Being an african-American from America, it has been an enlightening experience to hear your stories of struggle in Nigeria and made me realize my problems were never really that bad i was just not inspired enough.
Yeah same here
@@afro__g5217trust me, a lizard in America is an alligator in Africa 😅
@@dekev7503What about Florida?
You sound silly as shit saying that. So you telling me that every American got it like that? Go to Austin, Philly, Chicago, Cali. You aint been to the States so dont speak on stuff you dont know. Theres more poverty now here than you know.
Man this guy deserves so much more and i’m just so inspired and glad to see a guy becoming this successful from all the things he said in the first minutes of the video.
Bismarck, It got me so inspired.
You are the MAN.
Sure money matters a lot but at some point you have to stop chasing more and just be content and happy with what you got
You mean maintain what you have
Spot on
People don’t realize money also give you anxieties at some point when you only chase it though
I personally knew someone who’s rich in my city he died a stroke at 70… His doctor said the man wasn’t loosing up at all All he ever put his mind on was getting more money later on he diagnosed with dementia
@@NashBenzotv I'm 19 and for most of my life I always thought money buys happiness but I now just preach content and just be blessed with what you have but always strive to be better
@@Michael-kv5ffyou’re 19… you’ve barely been an adult to talk about content was vs drive. Get out there and get it youngster
@@MomoAfterDark nah I've been chasing money since I was 14 I'm passed that and more happy now that I realised what I have
As long as you’re humble. Help bring people up with you.
One of the realest and deepest videos I’ve heard from you Fit 😎💯
This is really inspirational,it tells me to use my resources and stop being lazy when everything is given easily ❤❤I’ll forever thank god for what I currently have in life and be humble ❤thank you so much for this reminder
The first point is very true bro 👊 I relate
I love you bro! You are a warrior! You Won🎉
I am Nigerian and stayed there for a few years. FitX is not cappin' at all those first few minutes talking about his experience growing up in Lagos, Nigeria.
Bismarck I respect what you do for men in the community
I grew up in the Pacific Islands in a developing country. I relate alot to this story. Many people in the West take things for granted.
You and me bro 💪🏼🫡
The West sucks tho
I’m glad you made this. I like women, but they always slow me down bc I can’t control myself. This stuff here is a reminder of what’s more important.
And believe me I am focusing up. I grew up poor from debt so nothing came free. Now that I am an adult at 25 there’s no excuse. I’m currently talking with an Air Force recruiter, and will hopefully be serving this country soon. I want this opportunity to take me further, and to be the first on my moms side of the Family to graduate with a BA.
Everything he's saying is right,the dating market here in Nigeria is all about money and literally everything life here is money and its harder to get here cause of alot of factors.
Alot of you guys abroad dont know how lucky you are to be born in a first world country,get money guys now.
I’m Nigerian too and I totally agree to his points, it’s crazy because even when you start making money you still be very humble
No Nigerian will go to America to count Towers... It's the grind, bro... Big time grind and hustle. Money is a defense
This type of transparency, the world needs to hear.
u deserve it all g
What does G stands for?
@@andyng5321 it stands for GUY
Money solves 90 % of your problems
Man this story hit hard. Even tho god bless i always had food my plate my parents are immigrants and they lived a lot like u back in 🇪🇹
Your an inspiration, man. From Nigeria as well. You represent us well.
Money is important, but I believe it’s a bit overblown. It will certainly cover materialistic problems such as school, family, etc, but it doesn’t truly solve the tricky part of life: the mind.
See, it is probably better to be sad with money, but the way I look at it, it’s abt gratitude. We have water, roof, food, people, etc. We don’t necessarily need mansions, nice cars, etc.
Ultimately, the meaning of life is different for everybody, and money is important. But don’t sell your soul to the fucking devil for it. A lot of times, money solves problems, but then we end up creating even more problems without realizing it. So yea
Edit: for reference, I grew up in Central America, Nicaragua to be specific, and I’ve lived through poverty. That’s why I laughed when he mentioned the water bucket shower 😂. But yea, don’t make money your fucking god
Well the truth is you dont need anything you don t need to live a good life either. But you want it and you like it and that s what makes the difference between a good life and a compromised chance at life. How I see greatfulness is you got this chance you re blessed to be able to live the life you like to live all of that want. You need to be greatful and do what it takes to live that life you like cuz you got this chance and others didn t! That s how I see it
@@David_99778 I like that perspective actually
@@JorgeTorres_777yeah it’s all philosophical coolaid until until either you or someone you love falls sick and needs an expensive treatment to survive, or you’re trapped in a dangerous neighbourhood because you can’t afford better. Money in the end is security, which brings stability and freedom.
@@dekev7503leave them ,let them be talking rubbish
Fit I got alot of respect for you hearing you story is inspiring wish your nothing but the best.
The problem is, when people prioritize money over everything, they will end up doing desperate things.
There is much truth here. I grew up partly in the south in .U.S. and let me tell you I remember no washing machine, no heaters or gas and we had an icebox-Not a refrigerator. The roads were dirt clay and phones were a luxury. We had no shower but finally got a bath tub and then a refrigerator and they put in heaters eventually.
They also finally paved the roads. And we got washing machine.
Relatives who lived a little out of town had the "hole for a bathroom, no heat but dangerous fireplaces and no electricity. We kids fetched water everyday we visited and we also picked dinner from the garden. Life was very very tough. As an added bonus we here had to deal with oppressive racism that pervaded everything.
I fought very very hard and strong but leaving the mental shackles was very difficult. Also leaving behind those who gave up or stayed stuck or chose to stay "down was challenging and heartbreaking.
Due to circumstances I was forced to go it alone and it took many many years and twists and turns. But I got a top notch education, stayed fit and most importantly learned to save and invest.
The most important word said here was FREEDOM. That's what money does best. Gives more freedom of choice.
I remember the day a manager at work berated and yelled at me just because he could. The more he yelled the calmer I got.
When he left for lunch I cleared out my desk, left a note on his desk and a copy of my bank investment statement. The note said kiss my rich black ass and no one like you will ever speak to me like that again. I haven't won't anybody else's job since.
This was 15 years ago and five years later saw him at a high end restaurant downtown. I smiled a conceited little grin that said I WON while he turned beet red.
Great video!!!
I rather have money than be famous because if people know you have money before famous you not as a target then being well known. So hopefully one day i can have money without anyone knowing who I am
Nah bro being famous with money gets you ton of girls and other benefits.
Love from Nigeria
And congratulations on your 500k followers fit. 🔥
Why having financial freedom changes EVERYTHING
Good Job Bismarck, you won in life man, there’s more to come, and cheers to all the guys that are looking to elevate everyday
No music in the background is amazing, I can hear you better and understand deeper.
Money isn't everything but when need it for our daily live
"For the love of money is the root of all kinds of evil" (1 Timothy 6:10, NIV).
That said, I understand the message you're conveying, and I hope men focus on the heart of it, leaving the superficial aspects behind. Regarding what famous men get away with, Trump is a prime example. He was recorded saying he could grab women by the you-know-what, and they let him because of who he is. It's true, but it's no different than a panhandler kissing up for a dollar-they're not doing it because you suddenly became attractive. They want something from you.
The Me2oo movement brought plenty of horror stories to light, largely because of men who believe they're untouchable due to their money and status. So yes, there are both good and bad takeaways from your message.
But to your earlier point, most men aren't trying to move to Miami and date women with plastic surgery and high-maintenance lifestyles. Not every man needs to be a millionaire to thrive. However, having some extra money is definitely beneficial. I just wouldn't advise men to go out of their way to create lifestyles that demand more than they need, just to impress others or attract women.
Furthermore, if money, looks, status, and charisma were everything (combined), you'd never hear about Bezos, Brad Pitt, Johnny Depp, Channing Tatum, Usher, Chris Brown or Lil Wayne getting heartbroken. Life goes on. And if a certain type of woman can get you, she can get another. She either likes you and you're compatible or she doesn't and you're not.
Plus, it's been shown that people are more likely to stay together when they're on the same level. "Leverage" is good and well until you find yourself constantly leveling up girls who are using you to get to the men above you. Forget leverage. Level up so you can get women on your level and willing to grow with you.
Respect brother, true shit for those whoever didnt grew poor, they dont know how important getting that bag id
0:35 you're so real for this bro, I ain't like this poor I got stuff other people don't have but money has been a struggle for sure and people talk about it so f much and they always talk about some bs
Bro, this is your best video u ever made. Finally some deep motivation
Its just a piece of paper, and people don’t live forever, i just wanna live comfortably. Money anf success is too over rated, its nice but some people focus on getting rich too much
Comfortable is one accident or sickness away from homeless. I can guarantee you that if lebron james gets sick or injured, he’ll still be good
“Piece of pape r” yea that literally dictates everything. What you wrote after that makes your statement redundant
6:00
Yea trying hard to get rich can make you anxious which later get you depression
Most likely those people deep down are depressed
I wish everybody could buy lifespan with money
Money can buy you comforts not happiness
@@NashBenzotvmoney can literally save your life and buy you life. You could get sick and need a procedure that is not covered by your health insurance, that’s if you even have one to begin with. Money can take you out of situations where you could literally lose your life otherwise.
I just want a family and for money to not be a problem for me♾️
This brother should totally write a book on his life. Its movie worthy aswell.
My life also
Everyone has stories to tell, and nobody cares
@@Abc1234cht not everyone has stories to tell
@@andyng5321 cus you don’t want to tell it, it’s as simple as that
@@Abc1234cht I meant not everyone has stories worth sharing, most of them lead life without much obstacles or challenges
I got sent to Nigeria for six years and I can testify everything you said is true . USA is a blessing. I was washing with my hands in Nigeria. Thank you for sharing your story brought back memories and also motivation
17:53 "ohhh" sounds so Nigerian like 😂😂😂
Congrats on 500k fit🎉
No such thing as an ugly millionaire. He can buy good looks! Give a regular Joe 5 million dollars, a Lamborghini, a Bentley, a blue check with a lit Insta with 100k followers, and a penthouse downtown, he'll have more options for both dating and friends that day more than he ever imagined!
50M. It takes much more for an out of shape guy boring guy to be attractive
@@LeadLeftLeonwrong. It takes way less then even 5 million.
Having friends or women ain't a flex if they not real friends or women with actual interest you'll be used or people who disappear if you did somehow fall off in money
@@chrisdawarlordtriggacollie that's true like that song goes friends how many of us have them friends 🎼🎵🎶
This the realist Fitxfearless video thus far this year
If you were born poor, it’s not your fault. If you die poor, it’s your fault. I’m only 22 and I live in Canada and right now it’s kinda tough to find a job. Our stupid prime minister doesn’t know what he’s doing but hey, I’m trying to grind and get that bag.
man you are so correct, the amount of things people give for granted in the west is insane
Man you inspired me to get back right with myself. I wanna be very successful and I’m in the works to being great.
I wanna get away from Nigeria , there's no opportunity for here to utilise my abilities over here your mom did you a great deal by bringing you to the US for real.
bro you woke up and decided to drop fact after fact after fact it’s crazy!!!! Much love from nigeria
legit hungry frl,like the stress of it all i welcome it cause ik that the stress implies im trying to do something that my family as never seen happen in its bloodline
FINALLY back with an original video and not a clip from a livestream
People just dont understand the struggle alot of people deal with
Dang my brother, this video hit hard! It's the video that you made that should open men's eyes!
Money can't buy happiness is an anthem for people in first world countries 💯💯💯