Laus Tag Mam Paub. 12/18/203
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It is 2023. You need to take care of yourself and your family first. When you are broke ,don't have a job, become sick no one wants to be associate with you. Spend time with your love ones. Life is short. No one cares about you when they can't use you. Self-care is very important .
Has seen it all and I personally do not want to walk both of my parents shoes. Seen the good and the bad.
But I have to say… Some RELATIVES only care when you have MONEY! Other than that they see nothing else. My dad was out going and all going to relatives but when my dad passed people hardly show up! Just saying. Why try to please them when they are all about using you and your money.
U r absolutely right. That's the hmong community.
I love this story. I am very close to my dad. When he passed, I miss my dad so much. I try to follow my dad's footsteps. I looked. I never found another dad like my Dad. I miss you Dad
Your dad is right!! 💯 the more you support, the more you get support back. There no one support you cause they don't know who are you. That how life is. Anyways, happy for you had a family again.
Some of these comments are so rude. We’re born into this culture. It’s the hard truth, i scratch your back and you scratch mines.
Brother, your dad never given up on you and he had faith that you were his chosen to follow him in his footsteps. He is in heaven now and do know that what he had prepared for had came true. I’m sure he is so proud of you! I miss my dad so much, it wasn’t after he passed, was when I realized that he tried to prepare me for this day and he knew what I needed. I’m glad you realized how much your dad loves you ❤
Hais txog kev sibPab, helping others…. Hmoob tsis siab loj siab dawb os…Hmong are not that generous in helping. They help n give & expect something in return.But Hmong say they are the most loving people. Hmong people will only help others once they first got help. They will never help ones who don’t show up n help.
I’m not sure that thinking like your father is the way to go. At the end of the day, your relatives will only be there for you when you have money, and maybe when you die. They will not be there for you during your pain leading to your death. I can careless how many people show up to my funeral as long as my children are there. People who think like you and your father now are people who will lose their children.
That’s what you get for listening to your dad… and your OG thinking ways. Lol
This is og's thinking....we are now in America.....going forward and the near future...all the new generations will have small family and small funeral....marriage will be settle by the court....
Like I tell my kids when you become parents you will understand why parents are the way they are. You must wear their shoes to see n know why they behave that way. They're older n wiser because they have more experience n it's free knowledge so take it when it's given to you. They love you so much that's why they give you free knowledge until they day they die.
Your dad is very proud of you from heaven. We really don’t know what parents mean to us until they are gone. I feel your sadness.
No matter how good you are to outsider. If you are nothing to your wife and kids than you have no meaning. Don’t try to hard to impress other people. Just focus on being a good husband and father. If you are already good to them and have so much greatness inside you than you can start loving outsiders.
It's good to help the community, but your family comes first. I had an uncle who helped the hmong community every weekend. His wife always wanted to go on vacation with her kids, but he never did anything with them. Sadly, he was only 55 years old and passed away. So please spend time with your family. Yes, the community came and helped, but in the end, the bills went straight to his family.
Niam ntsuab teev thov koj rov sais koj zaj neej neeg tus siab tuag mam yuav paj mu cias tim ntxas os
Every generation has to adjust to fit the next. We have a beautiful culture like no others.
Wow 😢
Your dad can only teach you what he knows and that is to serve the community. Please don’t punish your kids to do the same. Not once you mentions about higher education, work on your self, family devotion and love your spouse. If you want your kids to be happy and live a prosperous life and not be miserable. Don’t get too involved in the Hmong community. Teach them to be independent, encourage them to strive for higher education, be there for them, give them support…etc. I don’t disagree with your dad’s contribution to the community, but you got to get your priorities and goals set first.
tu siab kawg koj txiv tsis pom koj txoj kev coj kwv coj tij ....
Great 👍 story however let me say this. It all depends on who do you serve yourself , God or the devil at the end all be judge weather is good or evil.
Tiam21 no lawm es cas tseem hais tias yuav nrog luag mus txiav plaub txiav ntug. Txhob ua neej rov qab. Hmoob community pab tsis tau dabtsi. Nco ntsoov tias nws muaj nws tus tswj nyob ntawm nyias lub zos. Peb hmoob cov patha thiab tub qaug dej caw coob dhau lawm.
Every couple, every situation is different. There are a few stories, even on this channel, where the man goes out to help friends and relatives too much and end up in divorce and regretted it.
Very good story, especially being told by the greatest storyteller. Thank you!
Lol the people giving excuse to not help. You gotta balance your time with your immediate family and your time when you help your extended family. People be lazy and wondering why no one be attending or wanting to help them out. Of course dont spend so damn much time helping that your kids resent you also.
Don’t worry! You dad is proud of you. Dont be sorry for your past. What makes you a great leader is having to experienced life yourself in order to empathized to thise in similar situations.
Brother txhob tu siab o mog yog koj txiv tseem nyob ntshe koj yuav caum tsis tau koj txiv tus hneev taw thiab o txawm koj txiv ncaim mus lawm los nws tus ntsuj plig nyob txhawb koj txhua2 zaus es koj thiaj li ua tau li koj txiv lawm zoo siab tias koj ua tau li nws ua lawm no o mog
This guy blames his ex-wife using her laziness as an excuse for his cheating.
Yog lawm
What a wonderful story!
In today’s society, time is money..this ain’t the old days, OGs always worrying about when they die who will come omg..the more people the more money is out of your pockets duh..
😂 you are living a life for your dad. You didn’t live your life. Koj yuav kev deb
Yog
A bunch of modern day cynics on here. Yes, your partner and children are priority, but find that balance and give back to the community when you can. And be intentional about it, not always flake out. I get it. We all need weekends to ourselves, but if duty calls, sometimes you should go. It’ll make all the difference in the world. Good day.
Cas raug peb cov nus muag tiag2 li
Our greatest generation is starting to disappear. Somethings our younger generation will continue but definitely will not be able to walk the same footsteps our parents and grandparents did.
Nej cov niag OG uas pheej tib2 cov nyab me2 na, luag txawm me2 los luag ua rau luag noj twb tsis tuaj thov nej noj ne. Nyob lub teb chaws no tsis hais tus loj tus me los yeej tau hauj lwm ib yam xwb txhob tib2 cov me2 tsuav lawv nquag2 xwb ma.
Me nus mloog koj zaj neej neeg no tusiab thiab los kua muag kawg vim kuv nco txog kuv txiv thiab.
Koj txoj kev uas mloog koj txiv cob kom nrauj poj niam pom los thaum koj pluag koj txiv puas muab nyiaj rau koj siv ?
May, koj zoo nkauj heev, ntsim qab tiag tiag.
Yuav ua li ca peb cov hlua nimno thiaj paub thiab xeev txog cov lau li koj ned me kwv ntxawg
This is pretty much a duplicate story of my dad's story. The only difference is both my parents are still alive. Family members talk about him about doing this and when the time my grandparents past, everyone looked at my parents and siblings and say, "I wouldn't have came to be your person if it weren't for you. I came here for you." Both funerals.* I love my parents. I just hope hmoob people stop the drinking part tho. Or limit it.
Nub no koj taug tau koj txiv tus hnev taws lawm tsaus siab rau kij tus kheej. Koj txiv lub yeej koob yeej huam yeej pom koj txoj kev zoo los sawv koj txiv qhov chaw taug koj txiv tus neev taw. Tsi txob rau txim rau koj cov me nyuam. Feem coob cov me nyuam yuav ua tsi tau lis koj ua tabsi yog muaj hmoo koj ib tus me nyuam yuav ua tau lis koj ua taug tau koj tus neev taw. Zoo siab rau qho koj ua tau. Nco thias, Koj tsev neeg thiaj yog cov yuav hlub thiab pab koj kawg pau kawg ntsis xwb.
Vim yus toob nkeeg thiaj muab siab rau hauj lwm qhov ib koj yeej noj hamburger xwb yus thiaj muaj nyiaj.
Truth hurts but some kids don’t understand that all parents want their kids to be better than them. When the kids realize this it’s normally late that the parents are not alive to see it.
Ua neeg nyob ces thaum ntse ces twb laus lawm, hos thaum paub ces twb yuav tuag.
Noj nqaij qab txha. Noj txiv qab plhaub. Ua neej txog ib nta mam paub!
Laus tas mam li paub kev zoo nyob ces twb lig dhau lawm.
Txiv lus nyiaj lus kub yuav tau khaws tseg. Tsawg2 tus thiaj li to taub koj txiv cov lus. Tsis muaj ib leej niam ib leej txiv xav kom nws tej menyuam mus ua lub neej phem. Hmoob lub neej yeej mus li no tiam sis nim no teb chaw vam meej dhau lawm ces feem coob tsis ntshaw thiab tsis paub hmoob tej culture lawm.
Brother, do what makes you happy. If serving the Hmong community brings you joy and contentment then great. However I believe a lot of Hmong men who serves the Hmong community does it out of failure for their own lack of so they need to feel purpose, impactful. Look around and see who you are standing next to at those Hmong events, you are only as good as those around.
Live empty die empty. Live poor then die poor.
Kids now days WONT listen til too late
Kids thinks they smarter than their og
You should have married your father…cause you believe is poor guidance and advisement
poj niam txiv neej sib yuav es tus niam tsis pab los neej tsis zoo tus txiv tsis pab lo lub neej yeej mus tsis tau li os lawv
U need to live your life and not your dad's.
Today and tomorrow is different. This year 10 years after is so different don’t do exactly what your dad did just following the law in your local.
Koj lub neej zoo vim koj txiv tuag lawm yog nws nyob ce ntshe koj niag poj niam poj nrauj no twb mag nrauj lawm thiab vim koj tus hluas nkauj los yog koj txiv tsis pub koj tham hos koj tus poj niam los yog koj txiv kom koj nauj ne
This story got boring. It’s a mentality of traditional Hmong men. All i gotta say is, it sounds like your dad missed out on your childhood and now u are doing the same to ur kids. I agree that relatives are somewhat important, but they shouldn’t be your 100% devotion. There needs to be a balance in everything u do. I would rather spend more time with my children and see them grow up and be a good role model for them vs trying to win face with the relatives, bc at the end of the day, it’s ur own kids that will bury u, not ur relatives.
Cob me nyuam tiag yug hlob tsis tag tseem yug laus thiab thsum kawg yus tsis taus cais kawg tuag xwb !
Build a Time Machine
Kuv yog ib tug hluas nkauj me2 xwb kuv tus hluas nraug lawm tsev neeg twb tsi nyiam kuv,koj zaj no yuav zoo li raug2 kuv😢
U r thinking like OGs & its not all correct. What ur father did may be ok during his time, but remember he wasnt there for u kids, he was a "txiv zej txiv zos". I dont think u want to be like him. Ur family should be ur top priority, not relatives r community.
I agree!
Agreed. 👏🏼 His parent is wrong for judging his short gf that’s why he end up with a big lazy ex wife. Lol 😂
It crazy some ogs still judge people height and look.
Yog kawg li koj hais.
This isn’t back in Laos or early 80-90’s in U.S. This is America. Different time different thinking.
Tim koj xwb koj poj niam tub nkeeg sis pab koj cas koj ho tsis coj mus rau neej tsa ntuas kom pab koj khwv es neb lub neej thiaj nce no ma. Koj tsis txawj cob txawj qhia xwb.
I agreed that your family should be your top priority but you also have to go out to help relatives. Remember that we are hmoob and we will need help when it comes to wedding or funeral, unless u don't mind if anyone doesn't show up when your family needs help.
Hais yog thiab zoo kawg li os tij laug
Zaj no yog zaj may vaj hais cem cov tub tsis mus kwv tij 😅
Tsi yog cem os qhuab ntuas xwb os.
@@winmobile6981 los pab g tau. Tus tuag ces tag li ntawv xwb yeej g muaj mu suav teb li os. Ua kiag tsuag2 ib hnub g tas tua2 10 tus nyuj pub neeg noj yuav ntsej muag li os. Thauv nyab laj caum tua twb g pam twb g ua cas ne.
Thats why i hate this part of hmong culture. It doesn't matter if u are married n have a family or single u should b respected if u help the hmong community n yur clan
Feem coob tsis hais tub los
ntxhais cov neeg zoo nkauj
zoo nraug thiab cov neeg
uas nws keep nws tus keej
nyuag nyuag yeej tsis kam
ua noj ua haus ho nej
sawvdaws paub tsawg os
hmoob.
Koj ntog ib teeg los twb sawv tau rov lawm yeej tsis tau lig metub lig yog cov ntog sawv tsis tau rov es mus ua neeg thovkhov os zoo kawg lawm peb ua neej nyob ces mus khiav kwv khiav tij zoo lawm os txhob ua neej nkaum nkoos hauv tsev 24.7. Li kuv kwvtij los tsis muaj phoojywg los tsis muaj neejtsa los tsis khiav ua neej tusiab twb ywv hnub twg yus tuag ces ntshe dev tuag tseem muaj nqi dua yus vim tau ib tug txiv tsev tsis nyiam neeg nws tsuas nyiam nws xwb
Koj yog tus tau txoj koob moov zoo los ntawm koj txiv.
Mus ib txhia los tseg ib txhia Niaj hnub mus tsis khoom qhuab qhia yus tej me tub me nyuam yog tsis txim txiaj ces yog tim yus tus ua niam ua txiv ntau dua os.
Good story
Txhua yam niam txiv ua niam txiv hais muaj nqi thiab yog tag nrho
No, vov neeg tib nkeeg thiab liam li koj, txawm laus 300 xyoo los yeej tsis paub. Joj cov kwv hluas hluas lawv twb zoo. Yog li tsis yog tim laus thiab hluas. Yog vim neeg tub nkeeg thiab thiab liam xwb.
How can you take care of the community first before your children and family? Your priorities are wrong. Hopefully the community will support you the same you did them.
cas koj yuav hais lus cuag li koj txiv nim ntse tshaj txhua tus na txhob xyaum khav theeb.
Cov tub nim no ces tsis hais txhua tus nawb tab sis ib txhia ces yus ob tug laus yeej mus pab kwv pab tij xwb tej tub ob peb tug los yeej tsis muaj tus mus li nawb, yus ua niam ua txiv hais los lawv yeej tsis quav ntsej li os. Hnub twg tsis muaj yus ces yog tseem coj kev cai qub ces kom muab taw kev tsuag xwb ces coj mus faus xwb os yeej tsis muaj neeg tuaj pab lawv li nawb.
I disagree with what he said about helping the relatives
One case I see.. you go n go help relatives but once you go broke. Everyone hates and are scared of you
Pab koj tu siab os koj tseem coj ruam heev rov mus nyob nlpog teb os thaub ruam
Waste my battery goodbye
😂
What a boring and waste of time story. Sry May, I would’ve toss this story in the trash.
The hmong community is NOT that big. Don't live your life for others. Live for yourself. Relatives only look at you with importance when you have money. When you have nothing, nobody cares about you. Lol
Zoo heev mi nus ❤❤❤❤
What a boring story. Bye 🤪
You listen too much to your dad. Period.
I think majority hmoob ppl have modernized away from this thinking! This kind of thinkings isn’t always Great! Help as u can but worry more about your health n family. Live simple n love complete. Don’t worry too much about other ppl’s life. Worry about your family n your kids future, spending time w them, vacay w them, teach them n they’ll learn to respect n love others. The old fashioned way (our parents) raised us R not the RIGHT way to raise respectful kids. Helping communities too much is NOT good. I see the MOST respectful kids are the ones that had their parents by their side growing up. It’s the parents that were never there for their kids that’s why kids don’t know how to be respectful! Family first! If u see your kids acting like you as a child, maybe u failed as a parent.
Omg blah blah blah lol
Twb tsis hais cov tuaj hlob thiab tuaj yug nyob rau teb chaws USA tsis tawm rooj mus pauv luag dag zog rau kab mob kev tuag los sis puas kev noj haus, cov twb yeej muaj cuab yig nybo rau sab Thailand los yog Laos tuaj rau teb chaws USA no yeej tsis kam tawm rooj pauv luag dag zog tib yam nkaus. Cov zoo li no mas ib pawg kwv tij twg muaj qee tus nyob rau hauv niaj hnub niam no.