100% true. A spouse who doesn’t love you, won’t have the desire to build a life together with you. When he/she finds some he/she loves, any ideas in the world to build a better life, that used to be bum spouse, will have and seek all ways to make them happen.
Men and women.. we all want a partner who has goals and motivations to build a future together.. if a partner dont want to work bcuz they choose not to.. not because they’re incapable.. then best to let them go. They choose their “laziness” over everything and it is not worth it being with them and wasting ur time. Stability is important.. if one has it, the other should be motivated to secure their own bag, not rely solely on just one person’s.
Your husband doesn’t love you. He’s a lazy man…glad that you got rid of this lazy man…find a new man who’ll love you and work to support you… I work to pay all the bills, and my wife is for saving for us and help our kids….this is how a marriage is all about…👍🤠!!!
Viv ncaus koj hais yog tshaj plaws li os kuv ces twb mag lub koj lawm thiab os tu siab tshaj vim tsis muaj tus txiv pab es khwv ces yeej swb luag tej li os viv ncaus 😅😮
She’s suffering from financial difficulties and her husband is taking full advantage of her. She doesn’t have to continue this type of depression because she’s drowning in financial stress. Wishing her the best.
Tu siab tshaj plaws thaum yus tau in tug partner tsis muaj goals, tsis muaj motivation. Tsuav nws txoj sia tsis tu ces nws twb txaus22 siab ua neeg xwb. Yeej tsis kom lub neeg zoo li kuag lwm tus.
Um we complain about men cheating.....I dont agree with cheating while married. You first should havs divorced your husband and then found someone else.
Leej twg tau ib niag txiv quav dev tub nkeeg li ntawd Mas dhuav siab dhuav neeg tshaj plaws...kuv twb mag lub ntawd Los lawm dhuav neeg tshaj plaws li o hmoob aw...
Kuv tau lub neej li ko dhau los lawm tab sis kuv kuj muaj hmoo thiab vim kuv tus txiv ho hlub kuv thiab es nws thiaj rov qab los ua hau lwm los pab kuv dua ua tsaug rau kuv niam uas tau ncaim kuv los faj lus tseg rau nws es nws thiaj hloov siab rov los hlub kuv thiab kuv cov me nyuam dua
That's why im single because I work two jobs to support myself. A lot of guys come to me, but they seem not to be the type of working or willing to support me.
I just don’t know how anyone would want to live poor? My model in life in regard to finances… just a little more! Kids and house hold chores, those are a communal responsibilities. I work full time (remote), I send and pick up the kids to school, cook in between meetings for the kids when they get home, vacuum and laundry when needed. Simple things like that can free up time for the two of you to spend together. And yes! I’m 💯 Hmong!!!!
I personally know someone like that es nwg lub neej yeej poob qaab tshaaj plawg lwm leej lwm tug dlua. Always wait for his wife to lead the way. So sad!
Yog os tau tus txiv tub nkeeg mas txawj nyuaj yus siab tshaj plaws li os ib tsoom viv ncaus kuv yog hmoob nplog xb tab sis kuv tau tus txiv siab phem thiab tseem tub nkeeg thiab kaj ntug los tsis sawv yus mus teb los tsis nrog yus mus yus hais ntau los yus tseem yog tus phem xb
Me viv ncaus aw kuv xum tau tus txiv tub nkeeg nawb mog, kuv tsis xav tau tus txiv ia hauj lwm es muab nyiaj sais tag tseem tham hluas nkauj thiab hluas nkauj tseem pom nws cov nyiaj tshaj nws tus poj niam nawb.
Pua muaj tiag os viv ncaw aw . Txhob dag tsam kuv hom vav siab nawb vim kuv lub neej ce tu siab npaum li Koj hai no twb mu ntau zau lo mu tsi tau vim tej me nyuam 😢😢.
I am not judging, but just voicing my opinion. I wish she could have been a little stronger so she won't have to endure the bad mouthing of others which I know our hmong community is really harsh and evil about anything and everything. Lol 😅 but for me, cheating isn't a solution. I had been cheated on so many times, and when it was enough, I just left. We hmong women got to be stronger. We are not going to die without our husband.
Agreed. We talk about how men don't take accountability when they cheat. We Shouldn't be giving her an excuse because he husband is a bum. Two wrongs don't make it right. She should have left and then moved on. We hear these cheating men make up reasons why they cheat as well. We can't be hypocrites just because she's a woman. If you aren't happy with the loser then leave the loser.
Sister, he's using that ad an excuse to not work because he's lazy. Stop supporting him. Keep a separate account and keep your finances separate. That isn't love what he's doing. Better to divorce him
Your a cheater plain and simple... should divorce him then go date someone else, i understand your husband is a lazy bum but if your not happy just divorce and find someone new.
Woman....u dont need a boyfriend to divorce your husband. I never see a weak woman that need another man to divorce their spouse. This tell me that u cant live without a man. It all about determination. Last..good that u leave.
Nothing last forever, everything is just temporary, if money and a big house is your dreams go for it, if love is what you're searching for than stick to the ones that gives you love... qhov tu siab ces tsuas yog tias yus muaj menyuam uake lawm ces ntshe cov menyuam yuav tsis tau txoj kev hlub uas yog niam thiab txiv nyob uake rau tej menyuam xwb os mog.
Nyob zoo tus muam, kuv nug koj tias kuv muaj ib zaj neej neeg ntawd kuv lub neej xyoo 2013 txog hnub no 2023, es kuv yuav ua Li cas thiaj xa tau tuaj rau koj muab piav tawm pub rau SD hnov thiab tus neeg ua kuv tau hlub nws paub txog thiab hnov, ua tsaug
What a stupid decision! You cheating on your husband is worst than having a lazy husband. Unfaithful is a poison. Ruam ua luaj li os. Yus twb tau cai es yus tsis tuav yus txoj cai.
Koj tus husband tsis yog khib koj os. That’s just his lame excuse to be able to stay home. If he loved u so much, he would go work to help u financially. Don’t be dumb
A real man will protect, provide, and defend his family.
100% true.
A spouse who doesn’t love you, won’t have the desire to build a life together with you. When he/she finds some he/she loves, any ideas in the world to build a better life, that used to be bum spouse, will have and seek all ways to make them happen.
Amen!
Yog kawg
A real man should work to provide for the family. Any man who stays home and depends on the wife is a sign of...get out quick.
Love will not work when you have bills piling and no money to pay. You ex is a lazy dude with excuses and good thing you left him.
Men and women.. we all want a partner who has goals and motivations to build a future together.. if a partner dont want to work bcuz they choose not to.. not because they’re incapable.. then best to let them go. They choose their “laziness” over everything and it is not worth it being with them and wasting ur time. Stability is important.. if one has it, the other should be motivated to secure their own bag, not rely solely on just one person’s.
I agree with u..
Your husband doesn’t love you. He’s a lazy man…glad that you got rid of this lazy man…find a new man who’ll love you and work to support you…
I work to pay all the bills, and my wife is for saving for us and help our kids….this is how a marriage is all about…👍🤠!!!
Damn, I was going to call in sick on Saturday but this story made me feel guilty… guess I’m going in.
😅 👍🏼
Viv ncaus koj hais yog tshaj plaws li os kuv ces twb mag lub koj lawm thiab os tu siab tshaj vim tsis muaj tus txiv pab es khwv ces yeej swb luag tej li os viv ncaus 😅😮
She’s suffering from financial difficulties and her husband is taking full advantage of her. She doesn’t have to continue this type of depression because she’s drowning in financial stress. Wishing her the best.
Tu siab tshaj plaws thaum yus tau in tug partner tsis muaj goals, tsis muaj motivation. Tsuav nws txoj sia tsis tu ces nws twb txaus22 siab ua neeg xwb. Yeej tsis kom lub neeg zoo li kuag lwm tus.
My ex husband was exactly like that, that's why I left him.
Haig tau zoo heev li kuv lub neej tu tu siab ib yam
Um we complain about men cheating.....I dont agree with cheating while married. You first should havs divorced your husband and then found someone else.
Kuv yeej ntseeg ib txhia txiv yeej tsi xav khwv ib txhia niam tsev los yeej tsi xav khwv li thiab i agree with you
Leej twg tau ib niag txiv quav dev tub nkeeg li ntawd Mas dhuav siab dhuav neeg tshaj plaws...kuv twb mag lub ntawd Los lawm dhuav neeg tshaj plaws li o hmoob aw...
Kuv tau lub neej li ko dhau los lawm tab sis kuv kuj muaj hmoo thiab vim kuv tus txiv ho hlub kuv thiab es nws thiaj rov qab los ua hau lwm los pab kuv dua ua tsaug rau kuv niam uas tau ncaim kuv los faj lus tseg rau nws es nws thiaj hloov siab rov los hlub kuv thiab kuv cov me nyuam dua
Kuv mloog txhua zaj kuv nyiam zaj no tshaj plaws li os mi niam ntsuab teev aws❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Koj zaj neej neeg raug Kuv heev lis os niam hlau 😢😢😢😢
Awlawm😢😢😢😢😢
Ib tug txiv neej tub nkeeg li koj tsis tas yuav li os ntxov nrauj ntxov zoo xwb! Nws tsis yog hlub koj nws hlub ntxias koj ua nws qhev xwb os!
That's why im single because I work two jobs to support myself. A lot of guys come to me, but they seem not to be the type of working or willing to support me.
Good for you lady! Txhob tos nws ntxiv, kavtsij hloov yus tus kheej xwb. Ntxov nrauj ces ntxov dim, ntxov tau zoo neej.
Very inspirational real life story for those who need it. Thank you for sharing!
I just don’t know how anyone would want to live poor? My model in life in regard to finances… just a little more!
Kids and house hold chores, those are a communal responsibilities. I work full time (remote), I send and pick up the kids to school, cook in between meetings for the kids when they get home, vacuum and laundry when needed. Simple things like that can free up time for the two of you to spend together. And yes! I’m 💯 Hmong!!!!
Yog lawm
I personally know someone like that es nwg lub neej yeej poob qaab tshaaj plawg lwm leej lwm tug dlua. Always wait for his wife to lead the way. So sad!
Nothing is more turn off than having a lazy spouse! If they love you, they'd work to help out too!
Muaj tseeb tiag, ib txhais tes yeej tsis npaum 10 sab tes. 1 leeg khwv xwb yeej tsis npaum 2 leeg khwv.
Good story and hais tau zoo kawg
Tus niam tsev koj ua yog lawm kuv pom zoo
Yog os tau tus txiv tub nkeeg mas txawj nyuaj yus siab tshaj plaws li os ib tsoom viv ncaus kuv yog hmoob nplog xb tab sis kuv tau tus txiv siab phem thiab tseem tub nkeeg thiab kaj ntug los tsis sawv yus mus teb los tsis nrog yus mus yus hais ntau los yus tseem yog tus phem xb
Me viv ncaus aw kuv xum tau tus txiv tub nkeeg nawb mog, kuv tsis xav tau tus txiv ia hauj lwm es muab nyiaj sais tag tseem tham hluas nkauj thiab hluas nkauj tseem pom nws cov nyiaj tshaj nws tus poj niam nawb.
Eb cas yuav zoo nkaus li kuv lub neej o lawv aw 😭😭😭😭
Tsam yog nws tham hluas nraug ua ntej es nws tus thaub thiaj tsis xav khwv ne. Nws tus thaub thiaj los khoo nws pob!
koj hais yog tshaj lios
Pua muaj tiag os viv ncaw aw . Txhob dag tsam kuv hom vav siab nawb vim kuv lub neej ce tu siab npaum li Koj hai no twb mu ntau zau lo mu tsi tau vim tej me nyuam 😢😢.
True, sis. Too many men are lazy.
Tu tu siab os yus tau tus txiv tsis xav pab yus khwv na😢
Awesome
For u….some times the grass really is greener on the other side……
Yog kawg nawb kuv tus txiv kuj hais li kj hais thiab os
taus txiv tub nkeeg es tus txiv tseem ua ruam tsab ntses pluag tsab muaj thiab thaum yus tu siab txaus lawm ces xum muab nrauj zoo tshaj.
Hey just stay together because he needs something form you yog koj ua ntawv sib yuav ces kob youv lose thing to him . I think he doesn’t love you.
Peb yuav tsum pom thiaj paub ob tog lus ov.
Xav tia kv tu txiv thiaj li tsis xav khwv xwb
Yog kawg yog kuv nyob ze ces kuv twb tuaj coj neb nkawm niam txiv ko mus noj fawm lawm.
I don't think that cheating so u can divorce was not a good idea. U do what u want to do, but cheating is not the answer.
She did what she had to do… find another man, first.
I am not judging, but just voicing my opinion. I wish she could have been a little stronger so she won't have to endure the bad mouthing of others which I know our hmong community is really harsh and evil about anything and everything. Lol 😅 but for me, cheating isn't a solution. I had been cheated on so many times, and when it was enough, I just left. We hmong women got to be stronger. We are not going to die without our husband.
Agreed. We talk about how men don't take accountability when they cheat. We Shouldn't be giving her an excuse because he husband is a bum. Two wrongs don't make it right. She should have left and then moved on. We hear these cheating men make up reasons why they cheat as well. We can't be hypocrites just because she's a woman. If you aren't happy with the loser then leave the loser.
Cas kV nim zoo li kj thiai og niam laus aw😢
That’s something you look at BEFORE marrying someone, not AFTER.
Niam tij aws tij neb tsi mus nrog tij koos loos nkawv ua sis lov
Sister, he's using that ad an excuse to not work because he's lazy. Stop supporting him. Keep a separate account and keep your finances separate. That isn't love what he's doing. Better to divorce him
Your a cheater plain and simple... should divorce him then go date someone else, i understand your husband is a lazy bum but if your not happy just divorce and find someone new.
My husband same too
Too headache can't explain
Woman....u dont need a boyfriend to divorce your husband. I never see a weak woman that need another man to divorce their spouse. This tell me that u cant live without a man. It all about determination. Last..good that u leave.
“MONEY CAN Definitely BUY HLUB”😂😂😂😂
Nothing last forever, everything is just temporary, if money and a big house is your dreams go for it, if love is what you're searching for than stick to the ones that gives you love... qhov tu siab ces tsuas yog tias yus muaj menyuam uake lawm ces ntshe cov menyuam yuav tsis tau txoj kev hlub uas yog niam thiab txiv nyob uake rau tej menyuam xwb os mog.
Yog kawg os
Nyob zoo tus muam, kuv nug koj tias kuv muaj ib zaj neej neeg ntawd kuv lub neej xyoo 2013 txog hnub no 2023, es kuv yuav ua Li cas thiaj xa tau tuaj rau koj muab piav tawm pub rau SD hnov thiab tus neeg ua kuv tau hlub nws paub txog thiab hnov, ua tsaug
What a stupid decision! You cheating on your husband is worst than having a lazy husband. Unfaithful is a poison. Ruam ua luaj li os. Yus twb tau cai es yus tsis tuav yus txoj cai.
All these talking, and in the end, it's just an excuse for your affair.
Such a sad story! Nrog koj zoo siab ua tus sister aw.. uas koj ua tau siab tawv to move on. I am proud of you!!
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This maum dev just came here to justify her cheating way...
Really. U must be her ex husband. Lol😅😅😅😅 justify or not, I've seen people who are like him.
You should dumped him a long time ago…you want him to be that way, why you want to do it now?..
Koj tus husband tsis yog khib koj os. That’s just his lame excuse to be able to stay home. If he loved u so much, he would go work to help u financially. Don’t be dumb
Sooo boring such a waste of
You just wanted to date your husband's brother lol..tell the truth
Every women want stability
I’m sure you would too, if your so called spouse is a bum
@ThePrincessWorrior ok then do you know any women who's spouse is a bum..im a hard working man..hahahaha.
Please let them know
😂
Hloov tswv tshiab? Hais tau tabsi tsi yoojyim rau tibneeg. Tus neeg hloov tswv yooj2yim yog tus neeg xyob txhiaj tsis tsim txiaj.
Hloov tswv tsis yooj yim. Peb mas mus ua tswv tshiab xwb hos 😅
Yooj yim heev tsis nyuab li yog hloov tau tus zoo nas
304!
Koj hais yog tshaj plaws li lawm os tus niam tsev 99% peb cov poj niam yeej ntshaw tus txiv ua hauj lwm pab yus them nuj nqis thiab tiv thaiv yus thaum yus muaj kev nyuaj siab thiab pab ua hauj lwm hauv vaj hauv tsev qho me ntsis thiab.