How To Dress Well In Your 40s and Beyond | Men's Style Over 40

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  • Опубликовано: 11 ноя 2024

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  • @russellgranruth5949
    @russellgranruth5949 2 года назад +18

    Great advice ; dressing age appropriate and stylish actually makes you feel younger because it demonstrates you pay attention to detail and people notice. Something I didn't pay attention to until my fifties. Always feels good when someone compliments your style. Keep up the great videos. Subscribed.

    • @montazownianr1
      @montazownianr1 6 месяцев назад +1

      Great advice: dress as you like and feel most comfortable. Don't give a shit about people opinion.

  • @pensebete4114
    @pensebete4114 3 года назад +1

    I just purchased a high waist pair of training users. It changed my life. I no longer have to choose between directing it left, right, up, down 🤣 Everything is in place and the package is well kept

  • @GMack224
    @GMack224 5 лет назад +155

    Good advice. I’m 67 and I’m trying to find everyday wear. I’m retired yet when I go out I must be GQ. I’ve started getting high end haircuts, manicures and pedicures just to look fresh. I’m also looking into the minimalist approach for everyday clothing: chinos, tees, and casual walking shoes. Gotten rid of all my old suits. Now I have 3 classic suites for Sunday wear and special occasions.
    I’m trying to look like the “Man of Leisure” without looking like a pimp...lol

    • @franklinsantillan17
      @franklinsantillan17 5 лет назад +8

      G. M. Wear what makes you happy and you’re comfortable with. Don’t worry

    • @alienhatz3265
      @alienhatz3265 5 лет назад +2

      hell yeah, put that work in!

    • @jonjones8029
      @jonjones8029 5 лет назад +2

      Good for you mate. Remember to moisturize and take NMN. Much love.

    • @willisix2554
      @willisix2554 5 лет назад +3

      @G.m. can you explain what a" high-end haircut" is?

    • @justingriffin2546
      @justingriffin2546 4 года назад

      Just cause ur getting 'high',
      You should not 'end' getting haircuts and manicures...

  • @MichaelWVagg
    @MichaelWVagg 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for acknowledging we don't all where suits everyday. It's one of the things that had me give up on seeking styling advice.

  • @gatorcellman
    @gatorcellman 5 лет назад +5

    Great advice and I'd like to add that choosing less items that are of higher quality is better than many items that are subpar. Example, cashmere and silk sweater, high quality wools, etc. While more expensive, if you go toward more classic, they look great, last longer, and will keep you in style. Also, put the time into a fitness routine. Not only will it make you look better, but it will keep you healthier and feel better.

    • @retineshilares2497
      @retineshilares2497 6 месяцев назад

      With climate changes, there is also changes in fashion. No one wearing animal based clothes are in fashion. We shouldn't keep being ignorant. There is some fair trade dess shirts availible that also support seamstress, and second hand clothes that can reduce the garment production pollution.

  • @thenexuscowboy9491
    @thenexuscowboy9491 3 года назад

    I haven't gone through many videos of this topic on this channel here however price is the heaviest concern, not even necessarily the know-how. Just a few items that get recommended get me into the thousands very quickly. A more amateur and affordable guide navigating what these brands or stores that offer the better "cuts" are would give us amateurs a more immediate resonance on the topic. I'm glad to be humbled by anyone's info on this which I'm sure I probably missed. Thanks guys.

  • @captjosemanuel5680
    @captjosemanuel5680 5 лет назад +7

    Been there, done that...at the end of the day, it all comes down to personal preference ie. what makes YOU feel good, comfortable, and confident.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  4 года назад

      The REAL Capt Joe preach

    • @txdang2009
      @txdang2009 7 месяцев назад +1

      yeah, why do i have to look like everybody else to be attractive?

  • @cassierabe2491
    @cassierabe2491 2 года назад +1

    I'm a woman, but I can't stop watching your videos! I love menswear and actually into learning how to sew now and I would want to sew a siut. Great content Mr! From The Philippines.

  • @mandk6089
    @mandk6089 3 года назад +10

    I'm a 57 yearold grandfather. I find joggers to be comfortable and a reasonable price. With the proper fitting clothes and the right colors and footwear even an older guy like me can look good. My wife says I look hot too.... so really who cares what other people think. Joggers and a tee shirt are good for me and comfortable too. Great video.

    • @txdang2009
      @txdang2009 7 месяцев назад +1

      seriously, i wanna be comfortable. who the heck wants to look like everybody else

  • @cgb25
    @cgb25 Год назад

    Great advice! I am 40 now but going back, I remember I've always wanted to wear a suit. I've worn it in the clubs before in my 20's. I also like the dress vest over a dress shirt look with a tie. There was a time in the 2000's (Justin Timberlake, TI, Neyo, Jay-Z) to name a few, rocked suit and tie, even had a song named one too! Lol
    In my 40's though, I appreciate more time to myself, being alone in the movies, I just started doing that and I've been liking it. Back in my teens, 20's and 30's, that was a hard no-no! I also appreciate healthier alternatives to junk foods now, working out, and spending my money and the finer things in life.

  • @michaelwhite2600
    @michaelwhite2600 4 года назад +9

    I hit 51 this week. I think I’m pretty lucky to have my own sense of style. When I hit 40, there was a shift that automatically told me what I couldn’t wear . It just came naturally to me , but one thing I knew is that I didn’t want to become an old stale piece of toast. You can look awesome at any age , but you have to wear something age appropriate. Nothing is worse than seeing someone my age wearing something geared towards college aged kids. You end up looking older ironically by trying to wear something younger. I like designer shoes. I buy one or two pairs a year. I go for basic black or gray sneakers . I just bought a blue pair of Blue suede Prada sneakers . You don’t have to spend a lot on shoes, but those are what adds a punch to my basic classic American wardrobe. Just throw in European shoes ! I love Camper too depending on what they have each season. Those are affordable and comfortable and not boring. I enjoyed this video! Thank you! My imperative too is a sport coat like a navy or black one. I like to travel in those because planes can be cold and it serves as an extra pillow. Ha ha! It looks better than a regular jacket and flight attendants respect me more for putting in the effort. I know they do.

  • @alvinalcantara2009
    @alvinalcantara2009 4 года назад +2

    Thank you for your tips and suggestions although I believe what is more important are the following: comfort, practicality and happiness.

  • @jasons8756
    @jasons8756 5 лет назад +5

    I'm 46, 5" 9" tall and weight 185 lbs. I just spent from March 2019 - July 2019 dropping from 30% to 20% body fat. My goal is to get down to 8-10% and then from there never go above 12-13%. As I'm doing this, I can't help but to want to update my clothing style. The last 10 years I dressed for comfort and became more of a homebody. I can dress nice for a date, but I don't have enough stylish clothing options to wear if the date becomes many dates (a.k.a. relationship), so I'm seeking help. This is the first video I watch and I think it's a good start. But if there are any other videos that can give me more specific clothing ideas, I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks in advance!

  • @waltski4375
    @waltski4375 5 лет назад +7

    Kudos! It was tough, but I had to come to grips with my age/body a while ago (am now 54). Dress shirts, polos, chinos, and sport coats are now my uniform. T-shirts/sweats for a weekend Home Depot run are okay but not for weekday wear.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 лет назад

      Waltski Many Thanks! A uniform is a good thing!

  • @dcjimr1
    @dcjimr1 4 года назад

    I think most men dress for comfort but it's SO much easier these days to dress comfortably and look nice. You can get nice-looking jeans, pants and shirts with spandex now. I have some pants I wear to work that have spandex that I'd rather wear than sweatpants on the weekend because they're like a second skin. You're also spot on that the details and grooming make all the difference. A darker wash on your jeans...comfy sneakers that aren't running shoes...no hair sticking out of your nose...instead of wearing a sweatshirt put on a really comfy sweater over a basic t-shirt. These are all little things that together can greatly improve your appearance. Great video, Brian!

  • @dwbush777
    @dwbush777 4 года назад +3

    Great video. I can wear a suit very well, yet at 62 I could never give up my polos, tshirts, jeans and khakis, and Sperry topsiders. They’re who I am! 😂. No one has ever said to me that I should dress like I’m older, or 62. And, I’m not so sure what that is or if I’d even want to either.

  • @edwardwilson4869
    @edwardwilson4869 9 месяцев назад

    I appreciate your input into helping us to be refined in our dressing as we age. I have always loved to dress well and get compliments from the ladies in my family. What they think is important to me. ✅💜

  • @jvillalaz44
    @jvillalaz44 5 лет назад +6

    Good information. 2 years ago when I turned 40. I decided to upgrade my look and clothes was the first investment I made in myself. I decided to head to Nordstrom and find the best of what's out there. Fitted clothing. Wow what a difference it made.

  • @robb1865
    @robb1865 2 года назад +1

    Glad I live in Florida. I just wear a t-shirt and shorts all the time. Pretty simple.

  • @steampunkvampyre
    @steampunkvampyre 5 лет назад +16

    Brian as usual great advice, it may shock you to know I am 74, have always dressed well and everything I own fits !! its not easy xx

  • @t.oda.nishioka3684
    @t.oda.nishioka3684 3 года назад +1

    I agree with you about silhouette and where to invest. How about colours? I started to think that subdued colours such as navy blue and charcoal grey are safer and better than vivid colours like red, gold and green. A little bit boring but

  • @ManoloVintage
    @ManoloVintage 5 лет назад +17

    I'm on the wrong side of 40 too.
    I've changed my style a lot and now it's more classic minimalist. I prefer a V neck t-shirt over a crew neck. I wear a nice watch in an appropriate mm size. I get all my pants and jeans tailored, and I wear my shorts above the knee now. I dont wear sneakers unless the day or activity calls for it.
    For me it's all about how it fits and achieving a timeless classic style for my middle aged butt.
    I will probably experiment with trying to pull off some type of street wear, because I love it so much:D

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 лет назад +1

      Awesome! Appreciate you chiming in.

  • @Ridz8293
    @Ridz8293 3 года назад +1

    I am 46 and wear track pants and polo or jumpers everyday I am not at work...I always wear scrubs for work...I look fantastic because I really don’t care what others think...but thank you for your thoughts

  • @schonkable
    @schonkable 5 лет назад +7

    Brian, what an excellent video and yes, as many viewers have said you’re an amazing looking almost 42 year old man! (I’m about to turn 43.) I respectfully have to disagree with you on one point. I think that men of almost any age can pull off untucked shirts, but the shirts need to be designed to be worn untucked. This is why I love UNTUCKIT shirts. They aren’t too long at the bottom and they’re available in many fits for many kinds of bodies.

    • @guybeauregard
      @guybeauregard 4 года назад +1

      I agree. The cut of the hem really matters. Guy

  • @raulbeltran03
    @raulbeltran03 3 года назад +1

    My moto is wear what you want if you have a good head on your shoulder meaning fun outgoing humble, etc. She’s gonna like you no matter what you wear and if she’s judging you by what you are wearing, you probably don’t want her.

    • @michaelblazin4093
      @michaelblazin4093 9 месяцев назад

      If she does not know you , clothes are about all that she has to guess what you are. If she knows and loves you, then clothes are large effort that you make so that she looks good for picking you.

  • @andrew1212w
    @andrew1212w 5 лет назад +12

    I agree with most of your comments especially the one about “fit” because your body changes with age also your ears and nose become more hairy so I have bought a trimmer. Keep up the good work you have a nice way of explaining and presenting stuff 👍

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 лет назад +2

      I'm glad you like it. Appreciate that very much.

  • @c.w.9615
    @c.w.9615 5 лет назад +2

    Tee-shirts, shorts and flip flops are worn by a good majority of men of all ages in Portland, OR for most of the year, even in cold weather. I want to say "please! too much information!" and "why are you content to look like a 16 year old." Dressing is all about comfort, and not caring too much about style. My opinions are frowned upon and I wonder if I should move somewhere else. I started dressing better at 39 and I'm 41 now. I'm new to all of this. I sometimes get the feeling I'm hurting my social standing because I want to dress better. Anyway, I love your content - one of my favorite dudes on the youtube!

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 лет назад

      Really appreciate the comment and support. Thanks for chiming in.

    • @treblesix8730
      @treblesix8730 5 лет назад

      I live in a hot climate and will wear t shirts shorts and slip on sandals all year round. It would be nonsense to wear longs, socks and shoes. I dont possess a casual jacket. I have one tailored suit that i have worn once for a wedding. My idea of evening wear is a polo shirt and dress shorts or maybe a pair of chinos. I long for the days when i lived in the UK and had a comprehensive wardrobe of suits, overcoats and scarves. No, forget my last comment, pass me another t shirt........😆

  • @todroyas692
    @todroyas692 5 лет назад +224

    I’m 16 so I’m probably not the target audience for this but nevertheless there is some really good advice here.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 лет назад +26

      Definitely advice that can be applied across all ages. Though you younguns can get away with a lot more than us old guys!

    • @jammin6816
      @jammin6816 5 лет назад +18

      todroyas - did you know that everyone over 16 was, at one time, 16? 😆
      I’m 62 but I remember 16 “like it was yesterday”.

    • @lucky37irish62
      @lucky37irish62 5 лет назад +3

      He Spoke Style please let the old guy’s be the old guys, if I could get back to 41 I would in a New York minute. Not knocking you, but I realize now that I’m almost 60, saying I was old at 40 was ridiculous unless I was hanging out with twenty somethings. Valuable content nonetheless! Cheers!

    • @longtalljay
      @longtalljay 5 лет назад +3

      @@lucky37irish62 Right on. At 42, I was mistaken for 28, and 21 year old gals used to take me back to their place.

    • @longtalljay
      @longtalljay 5 лет назад +1

      Not dressing age-appropriately according to others' notions is essential, to say the least.

  • @tothepoint4080
    @tothepoint4080 3 года назад

    he is wise man , totally speak the truth and not like other channels

  • @edoardogiordano531
    @edoardogiordano531 5 лет назад +36

    I'm 26 and every single advice of this video is appropriate to my age as well. Thanks Brian, keep up the good work!

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 лет назад +1

      Totally agree. Thanks so much for the kind words and support, Edoardo.

  • @jcs3330
    @jcs3330 3 года назад

    If you look at the top designers for men who themselves are 40/50+, yes they design "trendy and sometimes outrageous looks for the catwalk within there collections, but look at the Tom Fords and Dolce and Gabbana's...they all personally dress really classic and look excellent. Smaller wardrobe with timeless classic quality made items - simple.

  • @mrboombastic4664
    @mrboombastic4664 4 года назад +3

    I’m 39 and slim fit jeans with simple plain tee’s or polo shirts with some salt-n-pepper hair seems to work well.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  4 года назад +1

      Nice!

    • @dwbush777
      @dwbush777 4 года назад +1

      Mr. Boombastic I totally agree. I can wear a suit very well, yet at 62 I could never give up my polos, jeans and khakis, and Apery topsides. They’re who I am! 😂. No one has ever said to me that I should dress like I’m older, or 62. And, I’m not so sure what that is or if I’d even want to.

    • @mrboombastic4664
      @mrboombastic4664 4 года назад

      Douglas W. Bush, M.A. Lol... For sure, Brotha’! I believe we can be dapper (as a state-of-mind/like a feeling of perspective), as well as look it. 💯 🤛

  • @carpediem3593
    @carpediem3593 5 лет назад

    New subscriber here. I'm over 50 and a professional in Washington DC that is aware of my style and is often complemented on my style. I have added you to the group which include AlphaM, RMRS, The Style OG, 40 Over Fashion, Carl Murawski and More.

  • @jeonlyxoxo
    @jeonlyxoxo 4 года назад +4

    It’s all great and that. I’m very Lucky to dress pretty much the way I like. Fashion, hipsters, smart, whenever I want. I don’t dress to project an image. I dress to feel comfortable. Btw I’m my own boss. Makes a big difference.

  • @Ebonygem1
    @Ebonygem1 5 лет назад +2

    Thank you for this video! I just hit 50 and I own nothing except tees and polos for work...I've got some shopping to do! My only pain point is size 18 feet...I'm usually forced to go with whatever will work in terms of shoes...selection of casual and affordable shoes is minimal.

  • @estuchedepeluche2212
    @estuchedepeluche2212 4 года назад +6

    After graduating from college, I stopped wearing shorts, athletic shoes and t-shirts, those are for the gym, inside the house or the beach. In my 40, I own fewer jeans than casual or dressy pants.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  4 года назад

      Thanks for chiming in, Cristobal!

  • @CampingNE
    @CampingNE Месяц назад

    A lot of these are way too safe!! I’m a designer now way im going out beige… style and mixing it up is where its at . Agree subtle tones and layering are great!

  • @morganolfursson2560
    @morganolfursson2560 4 года назад +10

    I think what matters is not to give a damn what people think and how they perceive you. Wear whatever you like and if you like how you look, then screw everybody else !
    It is all about confidence, not clothes. Confidence doesn't come from what you put on your back, but from what you put in your brain. When you have that confidence, you could be a man and dress like Marie Antoinette and still be the most charismatic male in the room or on the street. NOTHING is sexier and more attractive than confidence, ask any woman or any gay man.
    Whether you are dressed in tailored clothes, shoes and accessories from head to toe, or dressed in GAP, the only thing that people around you will notice and that will matter to them, is your confidence or lack of it.
    Now all this being said, if you naturally look like a supermodel, you can wear a sack of potato and people will still find you attractive. And vice versa, if you are the doppelganger of Joseph Merrick, you can wear a Bespoke from Kiton or Desmond Merrion, and that won't change a thing. And that's the glitch in the machine.
    So work on your self confidence using your brain not your wallet !

    • @DavidJJJ
      @DavidJJJ Год назад

      I disagree that you shouldn't worry about what other people think. There is a healthy amount I believe that is required to be able to dress appropriately. In my teens I didn't care what people thought of what I wore, and that extended to my personal hygiene. Almost everyone judges other people on what they look and smell like and you should too. In my teens my clothing choices were horrific and make me cringe now. At one point I decided to put my sweat pants away and start wearing jeans because my sister had a wedding coming up and I needed something 'nice' (but to be fair it was what a lot of people were wearing normally). This clothing change extended to normal situations and not just the wedding and I looked nice and it immediately make me more confident because I looked better, I then focused on my personal hygiene etc and it all helped, but it started with my new clothing choices.

  • @tristandoan1169
    @tristandoan1169 3 года назад +1

    I think a back t shirt Some dark jeans and chelsia boots or white sneakers all well fitted is hard to go wrong with at really any age

  • @69thetrota
    @69thetrota 5 лет назад +37

    There are also kids in their 20s who follow you brian.... You are a great inspiration!!! ;)

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 лет назад +2

      Thanks so much, Max. Appreciate the comment and the support.

    • @69thetrota
      @69thetrota 5 лет назад +4

      @daAnder71sorry man it is not my first language... I try to do my best.. Would you prefer to check my italian ? ....

    • @mrsmith8224
      @mrsmith8224 4 года назад +2

      Max Ant good to see not eveyone in their 20s wear Yeezys

    • @69thetrota
      @69thetrota 4 года назад

      @@mrsmith8224 yeah mr smith.. You know ... Good taste is not a matter of age.. ;)

  • @Bigmosbigmos
    @Bigmosbigmos 3 года назад

    Greats sneakers are amazing, minimalist, very durable & stylish. Made in Italy. Thanks for the tips.

  • @deannoble673
    @deannoble673 5 лет назад +4

    Super interesting topic this one. Definitely would like to hear more thoughts and suggestions from you regarding casual wear as this is the area it’s easy for the more mature guy to come unstuck.
    Excellent video as ever Brian. Keep up the good work.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 лет назад

      Good topic for an outfit video. How to dress casually as an adult?

  • @sebs30v
    @sebs30v Год назад

    I'm in my 40s, thank you for the reminder, I need to work on my style!!!

  • @EggShen905
    @EggShen905 4 года назад +3

    I have the same style I did in college because I have the same clothes I had in college and they still fit well. Yes, I'm wearing the same shirts and pants as I did in 1995. Styles come back around, baby! OH YEAH.

  • @krane15
    @krane15 4 года назад

    The single best advice is to consider the occasion and next the environment. Flip flops are fine, for any age -- at the beach, But not something all men regardless of age should not be wearing around town or out shopping. I wholeheartedly agree with dress appropriate to your body type (that something a whole lot more women should recognize). Anyway, with the exception of the most formal occasion, that's the most important.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  4 года назад

      Great advice. Thanks for chiming in.

  • @kiranpersad5709
    @kiranpersad5709 5 лет назад +5

    Great content as usual Brian. Im early 30's and i esp like the emphasis you placed on grooming. Simple tips that make a huge difference. Thx man

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 лет назад

      Kiran Persad Yessir. Thanks for chiming in.

  • @davesychtysz4039
    @davesychtysz4039 3 года назад

    First time viewer. Very good!

  • @TeddyBaldassarre
    @TeddyBaldassarre 5 лет назад +103

    What the hell, you’re 41? You hold it together well Brian! Btw - great tips and congrats on 60k!

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 лет назад +7

      Teddy Baldassarre that’s right, whippersnapper! Thanks for the comment and looking forward to the collab video.

    • @porvoonosho
      @porvoonosho 3 года назад +2

      I'm 40, and he looks like he could be my dad. Honestly. I get asked for my ID when I buy beer.

    • @juny1982
      @juny1982 3 года назад +1

      Seriously 😳 I'm 40 he looks like 47

    • @beefbroth6539
      @beefbroth6539 3 года назад +1

      He looks great no doubt, but I honestly thought he was 45+ 😅

    • @landrymark6427
      @landrymark6427 3 года назад

      Instablaster...

  • @maplehedgehog789
    @maplehedgehog789 4 года назад +2

    I'd love to see an 'instant upgrade essentials" kind of video. Just turned 40 so, i've become very conscious of this all. Wasn't when i turned 30 but.....i just found out that 30's the new 40 now so i'm WAY WAY overdue and would love that Instant Upgrade. Top to bottom. Shoe's to watches. Chinos to Sunglasses.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  4 года назад

      Love that idea! Consider it done. What would you say target price would be for these upgrades?

    • @maplehedgehog789
      @maplehedgehog789 4 года назад

      @@hespokestyle Well a target price is tricky since everyone is in a different position financially but, for me in my situation....to do a complete instant....i'd be able to handle 3 weeks pay. No more than $3000 for something i could get by on instantly while keeping in mind, i could always upgrade in the future. Which is to say, maybe a basic Citizen at first since adding a Rolex to this list would instantly squash the budget.
      I don't know how to rank importance though since i'm not fashion/style conscious. Spend more on shoes and watches? I dunno. Whatta you think?

  • @rst290
    @rst290 5 лет назад +40

    I am 51 and I wear what I am comfortable in.

    • @alienhatz3265
      @alienhatz3265 5 лет назад

      @patrick m crocs and cargo shorts r comfy lol

    • @carlingas666
      @carlingas666 5 лет назад

      1968rjs new balance sneakers with Costco jeans

    • @jonjones8029
      @jonjones8029 5 лет назад +2

      @patrick m in 40 i wear what I like also and I bet i look significantly better than you

    • @jonjones8029
      @jonjones8029 5 лет назад +3

      @patrick m I've just checked your pic and I'm more right than I even thought I was.

    • @mattdawg83686
      @mattdawg83686 5 лет назад +2

      patrick m you’re talking out of your ass. You have no idea what you’re talking about. You have no self confidence or balls, which is why you go around throwing shade at people who do what they want because they’ve earned it and your ass hasn’t.

  • @luisespino4445
    @luisespino4445 2 года назад

    Thanks for these awesome tips!!!

  • @MirandaEspinosa
    @MirandaEspinosa 11 месяцев назад +4

    Easy for you to say, I live in Key west. Locals wear t-shirts, shorts and sandals. If your wearing anything else, you get treated like a tourist. Trust me, you follow those tips here, you stand out, and not in a good way 😂

    • @jayhpaq
      @jayhpaq 2 месяца назад

      Don’t tourists usually wear T shirts, shorts and sandals when visiting Florida?

  • @gsmarkham
    @gsmarkham 5 лет назад +1

    Agree! Even if you stay trim it may not be a good idea to wear something. Just because you can wear it doesn't mean you should.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 лет назад +1

      Good advice, Steve. Thanks, as always, for the comment.

  • @thefonzkiss
    @thefonzkiss 4 года назад +4

    Fashion dates but style is eternal.

  • @THAILANDCANUCK
    @THAILANDCANUCK 4 года назад +1

    I'm 68 and have worn Levi 501 jeans since high school and will wear them til I die. But I do agee with NO socks with sandals!

  • @TundraDad
    @TundraDad 5 лет назад +14

    Maaaaaaann!!! Are you ever right on point! You have such great content and it’s so relevant, tasteful and interesting. I’ve been following you Brian for a very long time and you NEVER disappoint.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 лет назад

      J MB You are very kind. Thank you so much for the continued support.

  • @jesuajavierruizmacias3538
    @jesuajavierruizmacias3538 Год назад

    Hello Brian! I'm in my 40s and I appreciate a lot your tips! Greetings form Aguascalientes, México.
    (Bonus coment) your videos help me to study English ;)

  • @jeromelombardo6053
    @jeromelombardo6053 4 года назад +4

    I am 45 years old. My style has been and always will be my own.

  • @Tanglangfa
    @Tanglangfa 5 лет назад +1

    Thank you for not yelling like a lot of fashion guys do. It gets to be 115 in Texas, but everything I see in fashion vids and mags for guys 40+ is sweaters and jackets. It’s cold for about 3 months. What can we do in HOT weather to avoid the schlub look?

    • @cornstar1253
      @cornstar1253 3 года назад +1

      I would recommend alot of linen. It's breathable and light. Get rid of the shorts and sandals. On hot days I'm in white jeans or linen pants.

  • @q-storm767
    @q-storm767 4 года назад +4

    I'm just a couple years older than you, Brian. With that being declared, I wear jeans and either a sweater, a polo or a button down collared shirt opened. In the summer I wear either plain or cargo shorts with a polo shirt. People to this day think I'm 43 going on 22. Lol 😁

  • @Archer335
    @Archer335 4 года назад

    Most American males do not tuck in their shirt theses days.
    I used to be one of them, but not any more.
    If I wear a t-shirt, I won’t tuck it in, but my button-down shirts get tucked - period.
    Also, lots of men (of all ages) who have been done with college for a long,
    long time, still wear a backpack. It makes these guys look like school kids.
    Dump the backpack once you finish high school. It’s more dignified.
    And women notice these points about you; that’s how a lot of them are.
    Good job, Brian. You’ve given some excellent advice here.

  • @ronnievanderlinden
    @ronnievanderlinden 5 лет назад +7

    We need the basic wardrobe video!!! ASAP :P And also make note of the seasons with that... Looking for a khaki chino now but live in a 4 season country and don't know what to buy!

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 лет назад

      It's going to be quite an undertaking to create. Definitely want it to be a solid reference video. But it is most certainly in the queue.

  • @Oni-One
    @Oni-One 3 года назад

    Found your site recently and really appreciate it. You have excellent presence and delivery. ...Cheers.

  • @shaunleonard3878
    @shaunleonard3878 5 лет назад +8

    Dressing young while in your 50s, yet feeling like you’re still in your 30s, is definitely trying and sometimes difficult! Thanks for the video!

  • @rross5843
    @rross5843 5 лет назад

    You are SPOT ON with this informative vid. Just as accurate as the Rifle man (Chuck Conner). I'm 50. As a younger guy growing up I paid a lot of attention to the older Gents. I took bits and pieces from their style of dress and grooming. Along with taking care of myself physically and mentally. Putting positive thought in one's own appearance ALWAYS pays off! People treat you with more respect because they see that you command respect on site. The right attitude and proper appearance goes along way. It's not about doing what everyone else is doing. It's what makes you feel good about yourself. Proper fit, good quality shoes, a shoe shine, nice jeans that compliment you as well as the shirt. Nice tailored suits and quality over coats and jackets.
    Bottom Line..... GOOD JOB.... KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!

  • @kevins4254
    @kevins4254 5 лет назад +8

    I’m a high school teacher and I’m amazed at how many patents dress like their kids. My biggest pet peeve: the backwards baseball cap.

    • @grahamb5930
      @grahamb5930 5 лет назад +2

      In fairness they look stupid on teenagers as well

    • @GetUpTheMountains
      @GetUpTheMountains 5 лет назад +3

      Maybe they'll file for new patents soon! One can only hope.

    • @edwardgenet164
      @edwardgenet164 4 года назад

      I have an inner still, small voice telling me to " ..put on a suit and tie, get a good fedora. "

    • @cliffcaverley2377
      @cliffcaverley2377 6 месяцев назад

      However, plenty of adults including myself still want to wear decent jeans, t-shirts (in warm weather), hoodies and other comfortable clothes based on our personal tastes regardless of age in places where plenty of others including women are dressed the same which I believe we are entitled to in a free society. I understand the need to dress more modestly in finer places but I am mainly talking about general places

  • @peterdockrill9653
    @peterdockrill9653 4 года назад

    I recently came across an old photo of my late father working in the furniture factory during the 1960s ,he was wearing an overall but also a shirt and tie,he always did.

    • @cliffcaverley2377
      @cliffcaverley2377 6 месяцев назад

      Many men including myself prefer NOT to wear ties which are uncomfortable around the neck

  • @Benjorunner
    @Benjorunner 4 года назад +59

    I'm 53 and can wear whatever I like, as long as it fits the occasion :-)

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  4 года назад +3

      Great!

    • @nicholasgoldsworthy4719
      @nicholasgoldsworthy4719 4 года назад +1

      Its ok to recapture the glory days- but try to look good with age appropriate stuff. Get rid of nose and ear hair sticking out:)))

    • @mrsmith8224
      @mrsmith8224 4 года назад +1

      Ben Bakker I agree
      Just be honest to yourself

    • @jyankowsky
      @jyankowsky 4 года назад +6

      Anyone can wear whatever they like, doesn’t mean you don’t look like a twat

    • @SJCB27
      @SJCB27 4 года назад +1

      jyankowsky HaHa! Quite agree... And you made me laugh!

  • @Alithia451
    @Alithia451 5 лет назад

    I am 49 and wear suits, business shirts, blazers .... AAAAND streetwear, hypebeast brands (Supreme, Bape, Off-White, Palace, Pleasures, Fear of Gid, sneakers (AJ1 x Off-white are my favourite), metal band shirts, Overwatch jerseys, printed shirts with half-naked anime girls, distressed jeans and cargo pants, and now building up my techwear wardrobe!

  • @WasserTipps
    @WasserTipps 5 лет назад +80

    Please do a basic wardrobe video! :) But not only casual, bit more business casual please :P

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 лет назад +36

      Was thinking something like a basic starter wardrobe. 20-25 essential pieces plus outfits.

    • @qarhsi
      @qarhsi 5 лет назад +2

      @@hespokestyle that's a great idea. Look forward to it haha

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 лет назад +1

      @@qarhsi Cheers.

  • @TheKelly1925
    @TheKelly1925 3 года назад

    I think you got a couple of good ideas here but there's also weather to consider. I live in Tucson where it's brutally hot for 7 months a year
    And the other 5 months are pretty warm.
    I'm over 60 and I mostly wear shorts and a t-shirt. And boat shoes.
    I'd like to dress up more,
    but it's too hot

    • @chirasreeroy9018
      @chirasreeroy9018 2 года назад

      I too dress like. Myself hailing from India.

  • @tomaszgajownik9939
    @tomaszgajownik9939 5 лет назад +3

    I'm forty four. Very valuable film. Thanks👍

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 лет назад

      You're quite welcome. Thank you for the comment!

  • @billyfukkint2523
    @billyfukkint2523 5 лет назад +2

    Jordans and Hoodies for life!

  • @fastleopard1
    @fastleopard1 5 лет назад +5

    Good tips on the age old question

  • @EliotHochberg
    @EliotHochberg 2 года назад

    Maybe you addressed this in another video, but I left a comment on a similar video to this, it would be nice to get more details about how to dress appropriately when you’ve got a little bit of a gut. A big gut is one thing, and I’m sure that people want to have that addressed, but having just enough of a gut that tucking in your shirt accentuates it is a real problem. This is one reason why I end up doing an untucked look, because it doesn’t emphasize that, although I’m sure people can see it, it doesn’t create a really obvious gut visual. And I don’t want to change my ways to the middle of my stomach.

  • @darrellfoster5889
    @darrellfoster5889 5 лет назад +3

    Always great advice!!! "Pay attention to textures..." I love that!!! Hadn't done that yet!!!

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 лет назад

      Darrell Foster Thanks, Darrell. Give it a try!!

  • @FranciscoPartidas
    @FranciscoPartidas 3 года назад

    Great video. There are too many people who needs advice on this stuff.

  • @thomash.9930
    @thomash.9930 5 лет назад +5

    You should dress based on your job requirements, the weather and what you do at the weekend.
    If you need to wear a full suit every day you should have about 3-4 and you can wear separates. Navy worsted, mid-grey and a charcoal. Perhaps a flannel too.
    Look at Suit Supply, Spier MacKay, Boggi, Ring Jacket.
    You should get a couple of sports coat: brown tweed plain, navy wool/cashmere plain too.
    Shoes: black cap calf oxford, brown adelaide in calf too, dark brown suede chukkas and maybe a calf derby too. Skoaktiebolaget, Pediwear for instance offer a good selection of quality shoes.
    I would keep the shirts simple at first: plain white poplin or twill, a blue one too, and perhaps a striped blue. Charles Tyrwhitt and TM Lewin have good offers if you don't want to spend a fortune. Try Kamakura Shirts too, Proper Cloth or Shirtonomy.
    Ties: black grenadine grossa, silk navy plain, burgundy polka dot or purple in twill silk and perhaps a paisley madder. Try Poszetka, Granqvist Store, Berg & Berg, Marinella or Charvet.
    A good pair of selvedge jeans would work too, and it would look great with either a white t-shirt or a white oxford shirt. Also get some chinos.
    The wardrobe should be built over time and again, it needs to be based around your own requirements.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 лет назад

      Awesome comment, Thomas! Appreciate you leaving it for the benefit of all!

  • @westhavenor9513
    @westhavenor9513 Год назад

    I'm still a fan of a nice UN-tucked dress shirt in my 50's, perhaps with a nice sweater over it. Problem I have here in Portland is that people dress absolutely awfully (often their cloths smell like they've never been washed too). Anyway, my point is that where I live I have to somehow dress down at bit or I look way out of place. Only place I still see nicely dressed folks is at the symphony or an art galley gala.

  • @montecraig7032
    @montecraig7032 5 лет назад +10

    I’m 57 and literally wear the same clothes that I did when I was 25. I still have them.

    • @LordADNsVlog
      @LordADNsVlog 5 лет назад +3

      And you are single... Right?

    • @montecraig7032
      @montecraig7032 5 лет назад +1

      ThePsychopompos1 Blue jeans and pocket T-Shirts never go out of style in the trucking industry or oil field.

    • @plusbonus1165
      @plusbonus1165 5 лет назад +1

      So long as your still chasing the same gals .

    • @hisnamewasSam
      @hisnamewasSam 5 лет назад +1

      Lmfao..... Awesome! Screw everyone else's opinion... They're not paying your bills.

    • @GreenTeaViewer
      @GreenTeaViewer 4 года назад +1

      Bet the 22yo ladies are all over you with your 1994 clothes

  • @opencurtin
    @opencurtin 5 лет назад

    Nice lambs wool v neck jumper, straight dark blue jeans a nice white shirt and a good pair of Derby style shoes can’t go wrong ..

  • @Over40Squad
    @Over40Squad 4 года назад +9

    Approaching my mid-40's this is something I *really* need to pay attention to! Thanks for the tips :)

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  4 года назад +1

      You're very welcome. Thanks for taking the time to comment.

  • @mdowney14
    @mdowney14 3 года назад

    Great tips!

  • @ghostygallagher
    @ghostygallagher 5 лет назад +3

    Really enjoyed this one Brain, at 60 am at the top end, but all your points are on-point, leather jacket think I will pass, however, think is fine, don't have to wear suits but still, love them... thanks buddy great video

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 лет назад

      Gerry Gallagher Thanks for chiming in, Gerry.

  • @DallasStringQuartet
    @DallasStringQuartet 3 года назад

    Love your channel. Excellent content! A little bit of soft background music could make the rhythm of the video flow better. Thanks for putting this together.

  • @vernonmines6747
    @vernonmines6747 5 лет назад +3

    Brain this is good advice for the youngsters as well! This is the era that younger guys want to look older Times has changed

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 лет назад

      Thanks so much, Vernon. Appreciate the comment.

  • @anthonybarrow1142
    @anthonybarrow1142 4 года назад +58

    I'm 65 and wear Jean's and a tee shirt period.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  4 года назад +5

      Nice

    • @007phokus
      @007phokus 4 года назад +2

      Ditto 🤙

    • @brianmaxon8460
      @brianmaxon8460 4 года назад

      funny t-shirts ftw

    • @anthonybarrow1142
      @anthonybarrow1142 4 года назад +1

      @KnightOfTheKing and you dress like a girl. Lol

    • @mandk6089
      @mandk6089 3 года назад +2

      Anthony, I hear you brother. I'm 57 and dress pretty much the same as the time I did at the Devo concert I went to in 1980. The benefit we have now are jeans being so much more comfortable than back in the day.

  • @VonGreen
    @VonGreen 3 года назад

    I can't stop looking at the photo on his wall of the guy in a black suit. It has to be one of the nicest shots I've ever seen.

  • @brahsumatra
    @brahsumatra 5 лет назад +9

    I’m almost 40 and still rocking Vans.

  • @HelenandLolly
    @HelenandLolly 2 года назад

    I am probably the only woman in your comment section. Watching this to get some styling ideas for my husband. He likes to dress like an overgrown toddler and likes wearing T shirts with the big logo’s!

  • @davidmcnicol5322
    @davidmcnicol5322 5 лет назад +5

    Our personal grooming is crucial to looking good, whatever you’re wearing. Ear/nose hair, stained teeth, bad breath, dry/scaly skin, bad haircut will still detract from a $5,000 bespoke suit!!!

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 лет назад

      Yes, indeed! Oddly, though, some people can get away with the wild eyebrows thing...

  • @allensmith8953
    @allensmith8953 3 года назад

    Good intro. Let's see deeper dives into specifics. Dressing maturely is definitely more about shifting away from prints and more toward textures.

  • @05Rudey
    @05Rudey 5 лет назад +3

    I was about 36 when I just decided to dress a bit more grown up, I went out to get a new pair of Sneakers but something caught my eye in the shoe section, a fantastic looking deep brown pair of Loake Wingback Brogue Boots that looked like a work of art on the shelf, so I got them instead to replace my ageing Adidas classics, then things just started to fall into place, my baggy jeans and Sporty T-Shirt didn't quite go with the boots, So I got a pair of dark blue jeans that fit perfectly as well as moving onto tucked in button down shirts and Polos rather than un-tucked t-Shirts. Then after that, it was the little things that got on my nerves, like my G-Shock that didn't quite fit my new look, so a nice Swiss made Automatic was next on the shopping list, my old 20 year old college bag was the next thing that had to go, so I invested into a classy looking Brown leather shoulder bag. Before I knew it.... I was looking quite dapper.... Just because I bought a nice pair of boots over a new pair of sneakers. I'm glad I did smarten up, people do treat you with more respect.

  • @roryhenderson6236
    @roryhenderson6236 4 года назад +1

    Just be yourself everyone! everyone is different with different styles

  • @shanewright2772
    @shanewright2772 5 лет назад +17

    I'm (well) into my 50's and I aspire to become what Leonard Cohen describes himself as becoming - a lazy bastard living in a suit.

    • @hespokestyle
      @hespokestyle  5 лет назад +3

      Isn't that the dream?!

    • @groovciti
      @groovciti 4 года назад

      What Shane said!!!! I’m a writer and the types with internet channels always interest me. And the style mavericks are the best

  • @N.M.T.K
    @N.M.T.K 4 года назад

    Attention to detail.... This alone is overall a good tip.
    Going to share this video to friends. Thanks again.

  • @Bochanable
    @Bochanable 5 лет назад +8

    B.S. be yourself short of trying to look like the oldest teenager. Self confidence is the best style tip.

  • @charlesmcdermott6139
    @charlesmcdermott6139 2 года назад

    I am 74 and most people seem to think that I am younger. I think that the trick is that I dress in “classic” style. I wear clothes that fit ( not the size I wish I was). I am quite bald but am happy with my white hair (formerly jet black). I watch out for those nose and ear hairs. I trim my eyebrows (why do the white ones always stick out straight?). I swim and try to be only somewhat chubby. So, I guess that I am following successfully your basic rules.

  • @petergrantlloyd6754
    @petergrantlloyd6754 5 лет назад +36

    I've been with my wife for 26 years (49 now) and I just wear what she tells me. Keeps the roof over my head and food in my stomach. NUFF SAID 😂😂

    • @ieltsguy
      @ieltsguy 5 лет назад +1

      Ha ha. Right on, Man. Couldn't agree more.

    • @petergrantlloyd6754
      @petergrantlloyd6754 5 лет назад

      J Donovan
      Yep and happy as a pig in shit with life 🖕🏿

    • @HKashaf
      @HKashaf 2 года назад +5

      WTF!?!?!?!

    • @nutritionislife3054
      @nutritionislife3054 2 года назад

      Hilarious and works for you lol

    • @luyolomify
      @luyolomify Год назад +7

      @@HKashaf how can anyone be proud to say that?

  • @silviataylor92
    @silviataylor92 3 года назад

    Wear what you like that make you feel good with confidence !