She dated a man that NEVER existed for 10 years | Kirat Assi Case • Desi Crime
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- Опубликовано: 15 мар 2024
- Kirat Assi was a young 30 year old living in a world where it was becoming more and more common to find love, companionship, and connection online. But also a world where deception, scam, and abuse behind a screen ran rampant. This is the story of a single text received in 2010 that changed Kirat’s life and a decade long romance that never actually existed in reality. This is the story of Kirat Assi and her love, Bobby.
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Hello and Namaste to the A-Team.. Hi guys, I just discovered your channel about 2 weeks ago and I am enjoying all your episodes..I am a huge true crime fan but an even bigger horror fan, so as you can tell, your channel have it all. I must say the two of you are fantastic hosts, very engaging, lots of energy and great chemistry working together. Thank you for the well researched true crime cases. I am even learning some Hindi when you both sometimes speak in Hindi and then translate for the non Hindi viewers….i now have to play catch up on all your videos, which I am looking forward to. Thank you A Team❤️
Why this boys always come like a you tube add while explaining a story,he disturb our excitement to hear a story
@@kamleshpatil4241 yeah I know it kinda annoys me
Why have you shown an incorrect map of India in your video? Are you not aware that it is liable to be punished by law? Rectify it please!!!
The guys is just annoying to say the least.
Insta audience?
Yes
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meeeeeeee
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Simran could have written a whole novel with this talent and profit of it but instead she decides to scam her sister??
Could have been a suspense story, but saw this comment :(
@@rajjoshi7434 I was begging god that I'd forget the comment yaar, mtlb there could have been just such a good suspense if I wasn't an idiot enough to open the comments.
If only I didn't delete my Spotify yesterday 😀
You just gave us a spoiler dude!🫥
@@rajjoshi7434same
I ‘had’ to open and read the comments before finishing the video 😒
My guy JJ really dodged a bullet when he broke up with simran💀
Frfr
Facts
But the fact that he died-💀💀
But the fact that he died-💀💀
He died 💀
if " my whole life was a lie" was a person............. how on earth is this not a punishable crime. that's deceit on so many levels.
I actually don't think its a crime
yes its messed up but
She was just fooled, no money or anything was scammed from her
@@aarambh9788 it's sad that this ain't considered a crime. she clearly has done this shit multiple times
@@alizabeth7590 maybe in the future a law might be made
considering how new social media is to our society it will still take some time to get the govt on board
@@aarambh9788 yep , just like laws for men protecting them from flase sexual assault allegations, there's literally nothing in that either
@@alizabeth7590 nice of you to recognize that, i literally got a scam call 2 days ago on my fathers phone, the scammer was pretending to be a police officer and said i had raped a 13 yo, we sort of knew something was fishy but still it scared us to the core considering you can be put behind bars even on the basis of verbal complaint in cases of rape
it's just a prank bro
The prank:
my life was way worse than this keerat. similar on many levels but my actual family got a girl to honeytrap me to teach a lesson that i shud never love again. then gave false hopes and lies and manipulation
Dude imagine the mental acrobatics Simran had to do. It is one thing making up 60 people, but to keep someone hooked to the facade for 8 years, she had to establish and stick to all the relationship permutations between these 60 people. I am not even mad. Im quite impressed, actually.
she probably had notes 🗒️ and all that stuff this is crazy
Shuuuuttttt uppppppp...
@@ompatil9554 no u
@@ompatil9554are u simran?
@@bubs3995he is fucking impressed with her work he must be sick or he is simran from another account...
I just don't understand how Kirat didn't want to video call or meet any of these people in person in ALL those years.
She wanted multiple times, but there were always excuses from "Bobby" 's side
@@jazzgirl1982i think she’s also very naive
@@jazzgirl1982 Not even video call when they chatted for 13 hours straight? I mean poor girl, but it's insane to think about.
@@Vivenk88 But my question is , What about the voice? Did Simran have a manly voice?
@@ShivaniBasnet Since she only spoke in whispers, it would be easier to disguise the gender of her voice. And if she tried to deepen her voice, it wouldn't sound too fake because Kirat could barely hear her because she was whispering. This is how I'm assuming Simran got away with it.
I've never seen Aryaan go through so many emotions in an episode .
Haha so true this was my thought everytime Aryaan spoke 😂😂
HAHAHAHAHA YES
I feel so bad for the girl😢 but 10 years is crazy? How did she not suspect anything.. poor girl
I don't know the details or conditions of it, but I hope kirat knows you can sue someone for causing emotional distress. Just because Simran thought they were BOTH benefitting from this, she caused her cousin 10 years of manipulation and lies. 10 years of her precious time, this made me so mad, how is catfishing not a serious criminal offence?
If kirat was just used her common sense on day one just by doing video call she would been safe . Anyways that thing was evil
Thanks to AI, you can generate random people and make them say what you want them to. If this case were to unfold now, Simran would probably use these technologies to level up her scheme. Common sense is not it, what she did was beyond evil.
@@mashiatsuha6215video calls and meetings can catch her leave meetings but video calls can catch her It's hard to do video calls with that face changing ai technology...
@@mashiatsuha6215 I'm not defending simran but for 10 years you get kept texting a guy and never met in real insane and before 10 years we didn't have much advanced ai for public use . Simran was aware of mental condition of kirat that's how she got manipulated
@@mashiatsuha6215no need to make more laws, there are already plenty of many stupid laws
Moral of the story: Delulu is not the solulu
so trululu...
that guy is constantly interrupting like bro can’t you first listen?😭
trueeeeeeeee
@@diyasaha2128 omg it’s my first time replying to a girl i feel nervous hello hi yes you’re right
@@diyasaha2128 weird way of asking but yes we can exchange our instagrams
@@rajveerrrsinghhh😂
Exactly he is f annoying
how is this somehow the scariest episode😭😭
Cuz this can happen to anyone
It's not. There was another case like this from England. There a young boy made another young boy kill him. And they chatted through net. And it was found out all over hundred ppl on net were that boy who was murdered
who has the energy to to make 60 fake accounts
simran...
Me
I has 100
@@solitaryagent914*Have
@@solitaryagent914lol
with the evolution of AI, i believe these cases can take a more dangerous turn 💀
People who are traumatised , let's give you some hope . So my cousin ( 27F) was the staying in Kolkata, West Bengal ...fell in love with someone in Bareilly, UP (28M) . Tgey never saw each other in person before . Every one was sceptical, as UP is very infamous . So she met her boyfriend for the first time after 3 months of being together , and she went to Varanasi , without telling anyone in the family or friends. Because everyone was sceptical. They met , and turns out that guy is a real gentleman. Fastforward to now , 3 years after that , They are still together and married , and she is happier than ever . ✌🏼🧿
Omg! If this was made into a film it would be a big hit for sure. Hollywood should get hold of this story because if it’s made in English it will have the widest audience
The 2013 millennial Facebook culture was all about networking. You connected with a friend of a friend of a friend and all 39 of their friends and this is how you grew your network. 😅
Oh dear lord . This whole case gave me a pit in my stomach. I was in a relationship for like 8 months with my dream guy , turned out it was catfish and it’s none other than my ex boyfriend who just wanted me close to him and angry over the breakup. I’m glad that I found out way sooner than others. It did distorted my next 2 years but yeah after hearing this case where I can see at what extent my things could have gone wrong give me some relief and also a little trauma.
Always remember just do video call randomly
Take care dear
I can relate your pain and the 2 years of healing and taking back your life sounds like my situation.
It’s truly the best to look at red flags and I am sure You had sensed something was up.
I could feel it was my ex using a fake account and introducimh himself as a girl that HE told me..
That girl is obessesed with him etc.
I just knew and the style didn’t come off as of a female…He even asked me What my love means…
In my own language, since I’m from EU…he butchered the words , to make it look like it’s a random girl…
Even said He is seeing someone ..
All of this wasn’t said but since it was clear I was speaking to him and he was using a made up person….
People go to any extent to deceive…
Any!!!
I hope you are taking back your true value and Who you really are !
Claim it all back and I try to take this as a learning experience.
Even though the sorrow it brought, cannot be wiped out but I know pain can turn into a testimony and lead to blessings.
I wish you the best and I pray you are whole in out!
I think we all fall victim to emotional manipulation and How coming out of darkness , feels like everthing is a lie .
I felt like I came out of a coma or under water after more than 2 years.
Again, I wish you all the blessings to find you .
God bless you
~
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Simran was a complete psychopath.
This case is an eye opener in this world of technology and mobile usage. But it triggers a relentless question of how far someone, a person you might have known for your entire life turns out to be a spider who has trapped you in a web. A web of lies and pretentiousness
You did a great job in bringing this case to the forefront. Keep up the good work!! Lots of love
Me going "huh?" while listening to this case (every 5 minutes)
The way you narrated this story!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 thank you for keeping it super interesting… poor kirat I hope she’s managed to get on with her life now! Thanks again from a new fan from London 🙌🏽🇬🇧 🇬🇧
Hey, thanks a ton for the sweet feedback!
aryaan was so right to call isha and tell her to cover this case because this is a BANGER. lysm guys keep up the excellent work.
What in the actual F??? This is somehow the scariest story you guys have shared ever! And here's why: In most stories the bad guy/s are strangers/people you know in passing...who do bad things ,no doubt like murdering their victims etc. Their victims go through hell and back but its over for them at some point....
This horror went on for 10+ years with the perpetrator roaming free and being the Victim's own first cousin!???
As long as poor Keerat lives, she'd have to go through reminders of this psychological torture over and over again
Not usually a huge fan of true crime but came here from insta, and I'm so glad. Your production value is insanely good, well put-together, and the storytelling is top notch. Hope you guys blow up
Love it!
As a future psychologist, I just want to know a psychological evaluation and interpretation about why simran did it?any diagnosis? Or a self made theory. Enough answers about her motive weren't given to us. But I'm glad kirat came out with this story publicly and internationally. Simran deserves to be shamed and should be recognised as an evil, characterless and fraud kinda person. She'll pay for this slowly and suffering will go on till her whole lifetime. Karma has its power
The letter should really come out...
(JUST MY THOUGHTS NOT A SERIOUS DIAGNOSIS)
I’m not a psychologist, and this is based off of my own curiosity but it seems that Simran created an entire world of different personalities and was indulging in a fantasy for years, making up scenarios for everything occurring in her characters’ lives. So maybe a personality disorder? Like Antisocial Identity Disorder? Or sociopathy, since its a sociopathic trait using deceit, false identities and manipulation without remorse? My initial thought was maybe she had split personalities (DID) But i’m not sure. (As i said, im not a doctor this is based off my own research and pondering) Its really fascinating though, how obsessive she was. However, her motives could have been different than just having a mental illness. Maybe she was obsessed with her cousin so she started this whole thing? I’m really curious as well.
Probably a very sinister form of maladaptive daydreaming coupled with psychosis
@neenee4614 in my opinion I think Simran did this on purpose to destroy Kir’s happily married life. I suppose Simran did actually break up with JJ and out of jealousy she wanted her sisters life to be spoiled the same way.. you know there are some psychos who thinks in this way “ if i dont have it you also shouldnt have it in your life”. For that she played a series of Game of Thrones which is still a surprise on how can someone plot something to this extent that too by creating more than 50+ social media accounts!
What married life ! She wasnt married @@bhavyavimal9129
Channel= Desi studio
Language= pure English
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You = bhat gavar jisko ye Tak nahi pata hi Hindi hi sirf ek akeli language nahi h India ki
Right
I hope sr pay would cover this story too!
@@Chintu-bm7pz mai bhi sr pay ke bharose betha hu isliye mene yeh dekha nhi
@@gaarasandvillag Maine sun liya thik tha par yeh ladka itna over react kr rha tha 😡
SCU : Simran Catfishing Universe
Simran is def a sadist. Also, kirat is a bit naive it seems
One of the SCARIEST and JAW DROPPING episodes!!!!!!!!!
Kirat 🤝 Reesa Teesa
My trust issues after knowing these 2 cases📈📈📈
Simran 🤝 Ligeon
I think they should meet eachother, they belong together fr💀🎀
This might seem hard to believe but honestly, this feels exactly like something that a South Asian woman abroad would go through, especially elder sister figures. We are disrespected, abused and taken advantage of by our community constantly, expected to cater to people’s emotional needs with virtually zero emotional support in return and have to deal with all kinds of deceit and drama while holding the entire family together. This should be a lesson. Don’t give your love, time and energy to people who don’t deserve it, which is probably at least 80% of your friend circle/network. Half the time, your own family doesn’t even deserve it, especially extended family.
So true
Im still shook that Bobby isnt a Cardiologist
It should be added into crime and one punishment for this scam is if person scam someone about 1 year that person should be in jail in complete darkness about 1 year. So simran should be punished for 8 years in complete darkness of jail
The quality of these videos, the story telling is just awesome!!! How they don't have millions of subscribers yet!!!!!
We also wonder why.
Because of that annoying guy probably
As a milennial who was very active on FB back in 2012 to 2017, it’s just as weird to us.
Why would anyone post pictures of their injured friends. Maximally we could drop a direct message but not a literal post
I actually have seen this in the past, especially from people who didn't have any way to stay in contact with each other without FB. In that period a lot of people didn't have whastapp or snapchat
Aryaan you have been total distraction whole episode 😂, I din knw if I shud feel bad fr Qirat or jus roll laughing seeing those extreme expression and reaction from our Man😂😂
There are many cases around the world -
But in this case particularly I feel that Kirat’s life was made more complicated with playing with her feelings. A serious road crash kills anyone for one time but this kind of abusive act is not allowed without proper motivation. She should be seriously punished.
Just heard the podcast...but will it stop me from watching the video??
ABSOLUTLY NOTTTT
i literally love u guysss❤❤
Your love means the world to us! Thank you for watching!
You'll are just soo good.. there are many documentaries & crime podcasts but the way you guys speak & do it is just mind blowing & amazing
Hey, thanks a ton for the sweet feedback!
Hey!
Recently started following you guys.
Absolutely love your work, the way you'll present the stories, the analysis, the narration.
Everything is amazing. There are few episodes which I have watched on Netflix or in movies, yet I watch episodes because how well you guys put it across. Love it and keep up the amazing work.
Hope to see you guys in the big leagues someday!! Cheers
Hey, thank you for listening ❤️
So excited for this!! Love you guys sm ❤
Great presentation! Gave me chills and had a couple of laughs too!
Glad you enjoyed it!
"It was all me . I'am Bobby,Bobby is me" got me traumatized.
Really impressed with simran . definitely not supporting her but i think Kirat was stupid to believe in those virtual conversations. Like, how come she didn't realised it sooner.
Omg Yes baby
Did you not…listen to the story..?
What was this? Why Keerat? Did she have no relatives of her own to guide her? Someone who was interested in her daily life? To show her how stupid it was to not physically meet her partner for 3 years?
Already know the video is going to be amazing as always. Watching while having lunch. You guys are perfection 🤝👏
You're the best!
i literally wait for these episodes now
Aww! Thank You!
I can't handle Aryaan's reactions!! 😂😂😂He's finding the story as incredulous as I am and we are barely 20mins in.. Goodness👀
It is rather, incredulous!
I am sorry I don't want to laugh but after hearing Aryaan's questions he had me ROFL..the story is a sad story but I am trying hard to feel bad but Aryan my boy😂😂😂 the way Aryan cracked up at Bobby's damaged vocal cord😭😭😂😂
What an evil cousin to have. But Kirat took too long to realize it. You must always see the face of the person online who you are close with. I don't believe in online relationship.
Idk how someone can have that level of patience! It's just straight up dumb to me to chat w someone for 10 years without sharing the same energy by meeting face to face . She should've ended it sooner lol
What she do and why
@@_shreyaa._ikr i feel bad saying this but sis is really naive it’s also her fault
How come soo less subscribers, likes and comments you guyzz are amazing I eagerly wait for Saturday for these amazing amazing true crime documentaries. You guyz are the best in doing these !!!!!!!
Hey, thanks a ton for the sweet feedback!
Just heard it on Spotify....just one thing to say " MAD" USS AARYAN USS😭😭
This is the best episode ever! Aishwarya wow! Your narration is just wow!
Hey, thanks a ton for the sweet feedback!
Very good you guys are doing great job creating awareness among society keep it up nice work love from America to America ❤❤
I was Aryaan the whole time, Aishwarya narrated the story. 😂 Love you guys ❤️
I love your channel. I wish you could post more often.
I listen to ur podcasts at work :) and dont skip tbe intro music! Do i love it yassss!! Awsome
Love your work guys. Been a huge fan and never missed an episode/podcasts. And I just loveeee Aishwarya's nails. 😁
I predicted it was Simran at 31:18 🤭 It just seemed weird that just after she would confide in Simran, someone would come forward and cleared her doubts. Amazing coverage, guys! ❤
I still don’t understand why Simran did all of this. Why Simran??? Why???
I listened to the original podcast wherein it is revealed that simran was going through something in her own life at that point and talking to kirat was like an escape from that life. She thought she was bringing some kind of joy to both their lives by doing that.
Ig she was probably a lesbian madly in love with kirat while she knew it would never happen simce kirat is straight.
Another reason might be due to jealousy kirat who also had a stable job whereas simran was academically brilliant student in British bank and lost her job
@@anonymousmask7140simran was literary her younger cousin. Its literary incest if she liked her 😭
She’s a pathological liar.
Simran is the queen of vellapanti 🤣🤣
But how did simran change her voice to a man's voice?
Voice changer
This is such a cool podcast, it’s relaxing but also so easy to follow
Yay, thank you!
but what about the pictures kirat saw? like the pics of bobby's son wearing clothes she picked out. how the hell did simran do that
The poscast explained this. Simran got the baby pictures from his real axcout, then they went baby clothes shopping together online, guided Kirat into "choosing" the clothes the baby was wearing in the pictures, literally gaslighting in her into believing they choose the clothes together, and then posting the stolen baby picturs on Bobby's fake account
this is so bizarre like its absolutely mad tbh😭
ikr?
There was a show called Catfish and they have cases of people never meeting for x amount of time of speaking online. Some had happy endings , some didn’t. Some were sad, some weren’t. But I don’t think I’ve seen any story remotely close to this. This Simran isn’t the DDLJ we grew up loving in the 90s 👀
First time came across your video. Really good story telly
This should be a movie!! I am shooketh!!
Loved tye content ❤
a very good idea for a good movie!!!! really enjoyed the twist😃😃😃
Who came here from Instagram 😂
Me 😅
@@ReemikyPasyad heheh same
The times I got goosebumps while listening and watching it is insane!
Thank you for watching!
BrAHHHH I KNEW IT !!! Lol some sick funny mind blasting physco LESO crap. Love your channel. Love from melb Aus SJ
Reminds me of the tik tok case, Reesa Teesa 💀
Even crazier 😭
Metaverse❌️
Simranverse✅️😊
I've been binging on your content
Totally agree that evil is right next to us.
Its unbelievable how she could be so oblivious of own surroundings. It's a tight knit community & how she went on for so long without exchanging a word about this man in person to person conversation, especially when she thought everyone knew about their relationship! My first trigger would have been, you didn't recognize almost at the bar (which is humiliating) & then why in earth his ex-wife would be reaching out !?? This is more unbelievable than even wormholes!! 😂
What?!? How psychotic and prudent someone has to be to pull off a masterplan like that!
there are many of us who know only our regional language and english . This pod cast makes it eaxy for prople like me to understand . You both are doing an excellent job . 👍
My mind is blown and I feel I wasted my life’s precious hour on this😂😂 Keep them coming though 😅
Damn you guys are my new favorites❤✨
I'm constantly listening you guys from last 2 days... And I can only say that great work kudos guys🙌✨
Your new fan from Bangalore ❤❤
Imagine Simran being born in Nigeria and had access to a computer. All American senior citizens would be living in SIMRANS world
As a Nigerian I find this very disrespectful and racist. You could have made your point without putting down another country. Hope you work on your narrow mindedness
Well she is indian and everyone is familiar with Indian call centers.
Never heard of a case so crazy!!
ikr?
This gives light yagami and L a run for their money
Aryaan was a big distraction during this episode
what a crazy story!
ikrrrrr
this stry deserves a netflix series😂
This was one terrifying case, enough to give me a sleepless night.
For me simran is a very calculating person and a mastermind, she created all of these different characters and slowly but steadily built trust, she knew what she was doing and was completely aware of what she was doing, it could be just for fun for her or possibility could be she was jealous of kirat. But what she did was completely evil.
great podcast just wanted to point out at 40:09 the saying is gave her (a sick feeling in) the pit of her stomach. not 'gave her a pit in her stomach'
Just one thing to say ,"Toniiiiii" 😂😂
bhahahah
😂😂😂
Listening to you since the 3rd episode of Desi crime love you guys😊😊❤
Hey, thanks a ton for the sweet words!
@@thedesistudios No , all thanks to you but now after listening to all these stories I am not able to see any person without doubting them 😢😢😂
It's criminal that she saw so many red flags and still kept on talking to him(which is her)
Hie
Could you please increase the volume of your podcast.
BTW Wonderful work!
İ am in love with ur chemistry/friendship/camaraderie ❤
enjoyed seeing both of y'all's personalities expressed in this video
I memorized "karthik calling Karthik " 😂😂
Me too lol