THIS IS WHY YOU ATTRACT THE NARCISSIST!! 👿
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Narcissistic abuse , narcissist, spiritual gifts , chosen ones , narcissistic recovery
Biggest mistake I ever made was thinking I can call them out , forgive them , show them kindness and then they would change and become a better person. It Only Escalated The Abuse !
Above all else, Guard Your Heart For Everything You Do Flows From It.
~ Proverbs 4:23
@@scrabalitesThe Realest get treated the worst
But We WIN In The End
I Promise You That
Amen
To @ scrabalites Your reply creates confusion as we are told that narcs cannot or will not change. To what do you attribute your change?
Yes yeah 👍
@@kaitlynek..To his finding GOD ..the only ONE that can change us..if we ask HIM to do It..
I have sacrificed a lot for many people because I have empathy. These people never appreciated all I done for them. So I stepped away from all of them. Now I take care of me each day.
A cousin and brother of mine tried to use me as a weapon of my own physical strength, stayed away from them and been workin on my mind and each day it’s always the closest ones who hurts you the most but I’m stayin strong peace be upon you brother💪
Its so so so so so Dissapointing. Especially when the tables turn and they have an opportunity to help ypu and they dont. Its shocking and a lil heart breaking. But i get mad at myself for casting my pearls to swine.
That part ❤
... and Jesus is with You!
You should also be aware many narcissists go overboard doing things for people so they can always be the good guy, savior false idealised self. Im not saying thats you, but the narcs i dealt with that were very 'nice' didnt swear etc were the most sadistic. Almost like they empathised, they could feel my pain and fed off it, rather than being indifferent to it. A toxic empath.
I just want to attract a like minded person! No more narcissists please!
Same 🥹
Same here
Amen ❤
I don't deal with anyone anymore. After years with all the narcissists, envious, backstabbers, clout chasers, thieves, manipulators, users.. I spend my free time with my husband and the children in my life. I am truly over it.
Don’t recommend running from them…have to face them and exercise self protection and stop them in their tracks when they try to put you down. the kids grow up and leave eventually.
Same for me and my younger sister. We were raised to treat others with kindness but you can’t be that way in this world full of evil people. I’d rather be by myself in peace and quiet than deal with these nasty toxic people that are literally everywhere.
@@Privatenospyingit’s so painful when the kids grow up and leave if they are your only focus. Especially if you stayed in a relationship to keep yourself balanced for them. So glad you made that comment- gotta put you first and then take care of others. Peace ❤
I feel u
Thats good man, its good that you have a family to kick it with as well😁
Narcissism is multiple demons.
Nah. You might benefit from therapy if these thoughts have entered your mind tho.
No these people are possessed 😬😑
@@sunbeam9222 nobody I trust has ever benefited from modern healthcare
I am one. Read the book of Job (replace 'God' by 'Life' . We are Satan ('obstacle thrown in the way').
@@PWEIcommmm the omeprazole they gave me really helps with the stomach bleeding so idk abt that
I tell people this all the time. Codependency attracts narcissists. I've been through narcissistic abuse. My parents taught me to give everyone the benefit of a doubt. As I got older, I realized both of my parents were narcissists. I have set boundaries and I keep them! And I also went no contact with my parents. Narcissism is the manifestation of evil.
I'm really sorry to hear that. I believe one of the most disturbing things a parent can do is intentionally harm their own child. It's difficult to understand what could lead someone to deliberately disrupt their child's life.
@@baddiezone They do that because they are evil. There's no other reason
Your testimony gives hope to the lost and broken. Also a child (or product) of 2 narcissistic parents who destroyed me on a level I lost my sexual identity and I lived a double life since the age of 11. During the day my family would say, "He's so quiet." But I was trapped. I was screaming on the inside, too scared to say the wrong thing or get the wrong looks from mommy and daddy. So I shut up to protect myself and I can't even trace the very moment this started, but whenever I was alone and late at night in the dark, I would wear feminine clothes and became obsessed with wearing high heels and I would mimic the body language of a girl. I practiced speaking like a girl so much, that I ended up fooling my friends on the phone, where they couldn't tell it's me talking. This made me "transitions" in silence.
36 years later and I'm only breaking away from it now. The porn i had watched also brainwashed me into believing I was a woman "trapped" in a male body and it was so powerful, even my features became feminine and up until today, my feet still looks like a girl and that's why I never wear sandals because I get compliments from men and women and it makes me self destruct behind closed doors. I nearly ended up becoming someone's girlfriend because he bought me things and treated me like I'm the most valuable person on the face of this planet. But I couldn't put my lips on a guy because although I had this pseudo feminine side, I wasn't attracted to men and I've always been and still am only atracted to incredibly hot women who wear dresses and heels and that's what has kept this cycle on loop because those women are hollow soulless beings who just keel the cycle of narcissistic destruction perpetually going.
So pray and please pray for me people because these scars still pull me and tug on me so I'm fighting one way for my life. My heart goes out to anyone raised by narc parents because they destroy you from infancy. In the Name of Jesus I pray for your healing if you're relating to this. Let's keep hoping that one day we'll come out of this and be okay.
Can they become un evil ?
do they have free will?@@Bestsmokeshop
I was a child of 2 narcs and married one...I lost every valuable possesion in this world due to this and now at age 51 I am starting my life over from the beginning...keep the awareness going❤
Same here, 43 & alone w children. Horrible demons.
Same here,lol ❤
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As an empath Ive learned its essential to manage our level of empathy and learn how to switch it off.
To shut off your empathy you have to act cold. Real cold with these narcs. Like you dont care. Its difficult because that doesn't come naturally to us, but with them switch it off.
@@VVWOG-MH-WRATH me too. I have learned tactic/stragedy one is no contact, strategy 2 is minimal contact. Learn that you can ask unstable people about themselves if in conversation but do not share about yourself. Go write your journal, read a book ,write a book ,get a haircut or style it workout... live your life... do not share! Dont share what your next move is, how much your making, who your dating, your strengths, your weekeness, your family secrets.
@@VVWOG-MH-WRATH keep learning and stay safe. Feel better. You are ok. Their behavior is a reflection of them, not you.
It is my devotion to God that prevents me from cutting these individuals out of my life. The closer I remain to God, the greater my understanding of how to effectively handle such individuals.
No such thing as an ‘empath.’ You possess empathy.All people in life an in particular around those with NPD need emotional boundaries.
On god
The more I'm disgusted in narcissistic people the more i run to God. I dont walk, i run. Narcissistic people make me love and appreciate God so much more.
they hold a lot of hate in them
Discernment is an exceptional gift. Use it around people all the time. Do not take people at face value. If you are uncomfortable around someone, walk away. Maintain boundaries even with loved ones. Your life belongs to you. You determine how you spend your time. Take care of yourself.
That’s my wife and I will never abandon her but I have do this from a far. This is the hardest thing of my life. I loved everything about her. It is so awful. Please please pray for me.
You really have to hide your entire world from these people.
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Simply leave them with their jinns..
rebuild your life. Detox
I would always hear the word narcissist but never dealt with one until 2018. It was crazy! I thought God was sending me a partner I prayed for. Nope. It was the most bizarre craziest unhealthy experience I’ve EVER been in. Totally had to cut them off in every way. No contact AT ALL.
Well done for taking your power back . Stay no contact I know it's hard ...but you got this x
Same same. Wolf in sheep’s clothing. First time I let my walls down in over 10 years and the funny thing is I went to jr high and high school with him. Hadn’t seen him in 40 years. Started out really nice. Ended really bad.
I've just gone through the same very recently. I know it's going to hit me hard soon but it is what it is
Me too, I thought God had sent me the one… totally misread the signs, he’s an utter mess and I suspect a NARS… thank God I woke up and God put things in our path to push us apart.
That’s crazy , because I just went through this exact situation, had to go no contact and it wasn’t easy to. I never even heard the terms gaslight and projecting until I came into contact with a narcissist , and it’s crazy because these terms are used to describe a narcissist. You know what’s even crazier?! These people do EVERYTHING by the book , it blows my mind how accurate the descriptions of these people are… it’s like they’re robots
I’m so
Sick of all the evil.
I pray for eyes to see through the masks.
They are toxic, I felt totally empty, but Jesus healed me very fast! 🕊️🙏🏻💟🌞
I was victim of a mother this kind and now I discover that my husband is very selfish and it seems to me that he is even narcissistic. Pls pray for me as, within this church, I made wrong decisions like nurse diploma that didn't help me to get closer to God. Now at 61, I don't know what to do, I have no income, lost my best friend, lost a place I loved, etc
The narcissist is the jezebal spirit I love this message great timing praise the lord Jesus blessed ❤❤❤❤
it's the spirit of Cain. It's murderous.
@@mamabear71234it is. My sister has it. However Jezebel has it too.
Most likely a dark triad including these two and another.
The Jezebel spirt that does make sense xx
it's the spirit of Cain and Jezebel.. it's murderous.@@cassiecampbell9598
It’s been 9 months . We don’t speak because he gets off like that . Sick person. I pray for protection.
I don't think there's anything worse than being emotionally attached to a Narc. That's why I didn't leave sooner. Nothing is what it seems with them, either. You can't believe anything they say. And recently, I realized you can't even believe what they do either, like why they say they do it. They always have an ulterior motive.
AIN'T THAT THE TRUTH?!!
It took God to set me free it changed me sm im still recovering waking up in survival mode mentally gts in survival mode mentally always trying to prove yourself to em walkin on eggshells it took God to save me… God love saved me his grace came at the right time
These ppl outnumber us Empaths. I am convinced. This is a spiritual war.
Broooooooooo, yesssss I literally would have panic attacks like maybe I’m the narcissist. These people really left me traumatized and broken. I gaslit the hell outta myself and started abusing myself and didn’t even realize it
The nightmares too will disappear when you cut them off.
I’ve literally been driven crazy lately, been praying a ton, just connecting to god , putting up boundaries , and wondering if I am the narc
@@KimRope the answer is no you’re not 🤣 Narcs don’t wonder if they are. Some don’t know and find every way to justify their actions, others know good and well they’re narc and weaponize it by mainly targeting empaths. Atleast just from what I know 🤷🏾♀️ when in doubt just keep doing exactly what you’re doing and let God speak/minister to you. Definitely create healthy boundaries and continue to grow your relationship with God. Seen his face and let him restore you, he will 💗 pray pray and pray some more
@@COMC.144 wowwww!!! That really was eye opening hearing you talk about both types of narcs- I may be dealing with one of each. Just keeping distance , staying prayed up and knowing when I stay with God he will answer my prayers and reveal their true faces while I just sit back. I’m reading the word everyday and never miss church so this is one good outcome of all this 😂 Thank you so much for such a long, heartfelt message for a stranger just bc you obviously have a big heart and love for God!!!
I think people underestimate how many narcissists are in the church.
You always looking super relaxed, out there in them Hills.
😌 God is good Fam
Narcissists don't know we can see them.
I've been working on these issues for a long time, talked to many many empaths and I gotta say that Empaths origin stories come from a toxic, abusive household with a narcissist parent. As children up against these giants around us - we won, we survived. However, narcissist people now feel like home to us because that was our day to day as children and we know we can thrive in those conditions.. The biggest hurdle here is that we (as Empaths) have abandoned........ ourselves. We are not in OUR energy or vibrations in any way. We go through life reading everyone else's (understandably so). Empaths need to sit in their energy and see your own inner child. Your inner child isn't looking for anyone else to see it or come in and save the day. He or she is looking for YOU to see it, sit with it, be there for it instead of being in everyone else's energy. Sit in your frame, do NOT come from a place of looking outside of yourself for peace. You need to stop that childhood pattern. You did it to survive - and you did. Now you got to go in your energy with love
Wow I’m screenshoting this thank you
This is so valuable and helpful ❤Thank you
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I will never not listen to God again. Don’t cast your pearls before swine. Abandonment issues will have you doing just that. Whole time you had everything you needed in God.
I’ve come to realize these people have money, good jobs, nice things, access to crazy amounts of alcohol, drugs, and sex. They insist on sympathy as if they lack. They surround themselves with people who don’t have boundaries and people who worship them. Don’t waste your energy on them
They don't live from the soul as theirs is lost, it's lost and repeat after me "you will not try to bring it back to them, it's not your job".
More painful when it’s family and you give them plenty of chances and then they betray you and betray you and so on
My ex would apologize by saying " Im sorry you feel that way " that is the worst reply ever. He was never actually sorry he thought he could do no wrong it was everyone else wrecking his life ...but it was actually himself . You cant change them especially when they cant even admit they have chidhoof trauma and addiction. Best to leave them with NO CONTACT.
Mines said the same thing, I feel like I’ve lost 50 lbs with him out of my life. Best feeling
I didn’t know about narcissists until last year. Ever since I started learning about it everythiiiing started to make sense. What hurt me and irked me the most is the mask always fell off later down the line and I usually end up disgusted. This is family, friends, coworkers and managers all relations. It suuuucks
Found myself apologizing for things I didn’t even do, or worse, things THEY did.
@@COMC.144please don’t!! That is what they want!
@@COMC.144 wow. Same. Crazy
It’s ok, you’re ok… now u can live your life :)
They couldn't all have pathological narcissism, it is too rare to run into that many, you're probably seeing NPD where it doesn't exist. Most people have a couple toxic, narcissistic traits to some degree.
"You gotta have a CUT OFF GAME THAT IS CRUCIAL" 💯🔥🔥🔥 #WORD IS BOND
I kind of feel ashamed and embarrassed because I didn't know what narcissism was until the last year or 2 aswell.
Been so asleep! Just was going through life thinking everyone was like me 🤦♀️
Because we have the benefit of the doubt good intentions and we see people as we r but definitely im wide awake now i smell narcissistic miles away
Don't feel bad you aren't alone! One thing for sure after dealing with these demons; you def will protect whom/what you let enter into your space from that point on. When you are a genuinely good person ; you tend to see the good in everything and want to help, but you can't! Stay encouraged and keep being an amazing person!
Enemy try to make me cry today through them, and I said nope! Not a single tear! Jesus is by my side every bit of the way screw that bastard satan
I don't want narcissists in my life😢
I met my X spouse when I was 21. I was naive and a baby Christian. He was an unbeliever. I didn't pay attention thinking it would be ok. I tried to make it work for 33 years. What a mess. Now I'm sick with autoimmune. You cannot live under that kind of long term stress without it having negative effects on your health. I'm 13 years single now. God is drawing me closer and helping me to heal. I don't date. Just not interested.
You speak facts. ❤💯 They hit up everyone, but like you said, they prey especially on people with weak boundaries. A lesson for me was to stick to my boundaries.
Yes I love to see others blessed and happy. I don't get jealous of others whenever others prosper. Because I know my season will come sooner or later.
I found out my sister was a narcissist when I asked her to stop talking to my ex. She didn't even know him. He contacted her on facebook because he knew she was my sister. My sister just ignored my requests and kept talking to him despite me telling her how dangerous he was. My mom was also talking to him. They were all friends on facebook even though they had never met. They took his side. My sister started talking all crazy to me. A friend of mine sent my sister pictures of my son that I had sent to her in a text. I stopped talking to her too because she was defending my sister. I saw pictures of my son on my exe's fb page because something told me to look at his fb page. I found the pictures I had sent to my friend of my son. It was so creepy. I cut off everyone from my past.
I know exactly where you coming from
Stand in your power beautiful one❤
Same thing with my sister and ex. I asked her multiple times to delete him because he treated me like garbage and she flat out refused. I’m over “family”.
that's a good indication that you can't trust her. even family can be your enemy sometimes.@@Rosie82333
The same thing happened to me with a friend. I had a stalker who messaged her on instagram. I told her to block him but she wouldn’t stop messaging him and never did. They both pissed me off so much when that happened.. Straight up most people have multiple demons
I’m currently in a relationship with a narcissist and currently making moves to leave
These type of people Always want something from me especially my money!
Evil!!! If you have the light of God in you, they are out to destroy you!
The Holy Spirit took over and had me rebuke my now ex husband of 19 yrs in front of the church, HE MAKES A WAY WHERE THERE IS NO WAY!!!
🌈God is Faithful to His Word ❤️🔥💐
#ForeverGrateful
The most evil narcissist I've ever experienced was a pastor I worked with at a christian church.
A wife and child...my wife is a different person but she has actually said she wants soooo bad to be that woman I knew...she is defying several things of a typical narcissist...however I have to let her go...Understand I am someone who never gives up; imagine my hurt to give up on something I love with all my heart and soul. I have changed though into something very powerful and people are noticing.
God is the only way.
You know what I did when I realized I was a starseed and because of this I keep attracting narcissists. I prayed to the Most High with authority to keep all and every narcissists, sociopaths far away from me. Yes its literally pray the narcissist away. Do that and the Most High WILL keep the narcissists away from you. Twice before I've had to pray to the Most High to remove these narcissist out of my life and sure enough either they had died or got up and leave and I never saw them again. And they know you told the Most High to get rid of them because these people are the devil.
17:34 Me too, I cried out to the Lord for him to reveal what was wrong with me and, these videos started coming across my feed...
Yes!! It's a Spirit of rebellion- pride and like Scriptures say, pride comes before the fall..
Try spraying holy water in their space and watch what happens
I'm dealing with all this now from nearly twelve years.... Please pray for me ❤️🙏
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My narc detector is always on high alert now been burned over the years thank you sir,
Narcissists rarely change, they often change their behaviors temporarily to give their victims the ILLUSION they've changed only to look out for themselves-strange I know but that's their mentality in most cases.
Justice my man, great video as with all your videos! You're so genuine and humble and appreciate you and your channel♥️
Romans 16:17-18
“I urge you, brothers and sisters, to watch out for those who cause divisions and put obstacles in your way that are contrary to the teaching you have learned. Keep away from them. 18 For such people are not serving our Lord Christ, but their own appetites. By smooth talk and flattery they deceive the minds of naive people.”
Like you, I started realizing what they were in my later 20s… after some damage was done. I’m towards my later 30s and I was good at sensing them in God’s shadow. I’m getting more discerning everyday regarding them. I can sense them from 5 miles away.
Everyone i know is like that 😢 i stay away keep my distance more pop up
I almost lost my own life before 40 because I wasn't able to identify my behavior as a result if childhood abuse. I made a vow to love myself and set boundaries there and then. I got extremely ill recently and lost almost 30 kilos and when I finally called an ambulance rhey keptnme in intensive care for 3 full days. This was a wakeup call like none other. god and the holy spirit saved me from my broken self and from the offenders. I can live, finally. I don't know you but you are telling the truth.
as Pharaoh was to Moses, as Jezebel was to Elijah, and as the Sadducees and Pharisees were to Jesus our opponents and antagonists only to prove the word of God. Ultimately in the overall grand scheme of things, I personally believe that just as David and Saul were magnetically drawn by the will of God like chess ♟️ pieces, so too, will we attract those who are our counter opposites in order for the will of God to be made manifest and fully displayed.
I was worried that I was narcissistic for a while, but turned out it was borderline. I feel empathy and can be very engaged in the other persons wellbeing. But my actions sometimes are narcissistic. Plus I have very high demands of myself and often perfectionistic. Especially when stressed or under pressure.
Now I'm on dance therapy, lots of supressed anger shame and guilt coming out. Highly recommend
We the only ones that can give them a dose of their own medicine and we should be able to do so with fear of prosecution #letschangethelaws
These narcissist may never wakeup but they will see where those years of following demons lead them right with them in hell burning wishing they would have changed when they were alive. Keep being pure people i know i will
This is exactly what I'm going through right now. I'm staying in the will of God. God had been speaking to me about them, it did end just not the way I expected. God knew the way it needed to end in ordered for me to let go. I'm thankful because God's peace has returned to me.
They are pretending to love as, it is not a real love. I'm learninig from bad things from my past and I pray to never hapens to me again.
Keep doing what you’re doing, bro! Album is 🔥
They are sooo demonic!! I was in shock😮
We also must take responsibility when red flags appear and leave the situation and get perspective,. We give so much love we blindly lose ourselves. YOU MUST STOP!! 🛑 ASSESS THE SITUATION AND PRAY.,(bk of proverbs is a good start to see narc) Its tough to fight them.. but, it will save you time, money and a broke hearts. Stop idolizing ppl...much Love, my tenderhearted, light bearers. God bless 🙏. Thank you brother in Christ.
Proverbs 16:18
King James Version
18 Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.
That's right I like to see people win in life. I dont understand the ones that get jealous or envious. No hater in me. Great message and sure do relate 100!
You don't understand because you haven't experienced it. Being envious isn't always a sign that someone is a narcissist or evil. I'm envious of adults without ADHD being able to do basic things on their own, yet I wouldn't dream of taking it out on them because I understand that it's not their fault. I have empathy, I genuinely care about others, but that doesn't mean I'm not going to experience natural human emotions and feelings such as envy. It's what we do with those feelings that reflect the kind of person we are.
Yes and me too I was so so blown away when God revealed to me that my X Husband was a Narcissist U CANNOT HELP these PEOPLE! Pray for them and let THEM GO! It’s Hard But Pray And SEEK GOD fro HELP!!!! I Struggle to but I know now God Got ME IN ALL WAYS!!!!!
Most narcissists will never acknowledge or admit that they have ANY thing wrong, or that they were ever n the wrong...and just like with any kind of healing: the first step is ACKNOWLEDGING THE ISSUE! As long as someone is willing to acknowledge they have an issue then it can be worked on&healed. If people refuse to acknowledge the issue, then they will never fix/heal the problem...cause they don't see/admit the problem. It's easier for them to simply blame shift💚🙏🏻💚you are exactly right! I have held on to a few for way too long as well...&NEVER will they hold themselves accountable & do the shadow work necessary to heal! Both of my parents & 2 of my ex's are narcissists....its hard to try to heal from...but 6yrs later(almost) i am STILL healing 💚🙏🏻💚
It takes time and first step is to know these things over and over again. Boundaries is godly and so important. Because they pollute our souls.
I’m a empath and dating a narcissist woke me up completely. Also I do shadow work, pray, I have gifts.Lets not forget these jezebels and Danilahs.
Thank you God for this message!! I know I’m the chosen one❤ I didn’t know what a narc was till I met my son’s father, lord protect me and my son!!!!!! I rebuke the devil in the name of JESUS!!!!
“You’ve got to have a cut off game that is crucial.” There is absolutely nothing wrong with communicating to the family member or friend why you no longer will be speaking with them or around them. Dont let this world tell you cutting people off is childish or immature. In some cases, it is extremely necessary 💯
What helped me was a video i saw saying "nobodys home"... so i knew i am feeling sorry and forgiving someone who simply doesnt exist
Definitely i do believe that too i saw the video. I think because they r so into their ego so their soul leaves and devil spirit inters them I remember i see their eyes is so devilish like
Straight facts and right on time, my ex wife just text me this morning saying she misses our trips together, still taking no accountability, she don’t miss me she misses my presence, the wickedness of a man does not compare to the wickedness of a woman.
As a woman, I've had to isolate and stop trying to have women as friends. They're horrible. I have a few female friends I adore, but I find myself not being able to get really close with anyone.
Not all women. I’ve been treated badly by men but I wouldn’t say all men are this way .
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But realize this, that in the last days difficult times will come. 2 For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, boastful, arrogant, slanderers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy, 3 unloving, irreconcilable, malicious gossips, without self-control, brutal, haters of good, 4 treacherous, reckless, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, 5 holding to a form of godliness although they have denied its power; avoid such people as these. 2 Timothy 3:1-5
This is my boss and coworker 100%. I think there's some sociopathic behaviors as well. I always try my best, and I can even take constructive criticism, but even after I acknowledged my mistake, he continues to belittle me. He tries to compare his 20-plus years of experience against my 3 month experience. I've also caught him making a handful of mistakes as well, but he tries to play them off as no big deal with little to no apologies. However, when we make mistakes, it's like getting emotionally beaten. He tries to justify the emotional abuse by telling us he has a lot on his plate. Also, my coworker manipulates me whenever theirs conflict by bringing up past good deeds they've done. Even though I've done many as well. I never use my good deeds against anyone. Saying things like "well I did this for you."
What if narcissistic behaviors are from God hardening these individuals' hearts? Possibly due to all the sinning they've done? It's just an assumption, but it does make me think.
Look for another job. Trust me. Narcissist are demons from hell that are trying to torture and kill you by possessing weak and insecure souls.
Ppl say you attract what you are but that isnt true. Im very kindhearted, selfless and empathetic. I love love. I attract ppl that want to use me. I have ppl hate me for simply being happy, they hate my kids because theyre quiet and well mannered. You dont attract what you are, folks out here are opportunist looking for prey.
You hit every aspect of their psychotic cycles of destruction.
I'm a child (or product) of 2 narcissistic parents who destroyed me on a level I lost my sexual identity and I lived a double life since the age of 11. During the day my family would say, "He's so quiet." But I was trapped. I was screaming on the inside, too scared to say the wrong thing or get the wrong looks from mommy and daddy. So I shut up to protect myself and I can't even trace the very moment this started, but whenever I was alone and late at night in the dark, I would wear feminine clothes and became obsessed with wearing high heels and I would mimic the body language of a girl. I practiced speaking like a girl so much, that I ended up fooling my friends on the phone, where they couldn't tell it's me talking. This made me "transitions" in silence.
36 years later and I'm only breaking away from it now. The porn i had watched also brainwashed me into believing I was a woman "trapped" in a male body and it was so powerful, even my features became feminine and up until today, my feet still looks like a girl and that's why I never wear sandals because I get compliments from men and women and it makes me self destruct behind closed doors. I nearly ended up becoming someone's girlfriend because he bought me things and treated me like I'm the most valuable person on the face of this planet. But I couldn't put my lips on a guy because although I had this pseudo feminine side, I wasn't attracted to men and I've always been and still am only atracted to incredibly hot women who wear dresses and heels and that's what has kept this cycle on loop because those women are hollow soulless beings who just keel the cycle of narcissistic destruction perpetually going.
So pray and please pray for me people because these scars still pull me and tug on me so I'm fighting one way for my life. My heart goes out to anyone raised by narc parents because they destroy you from infancy. In the Name of Jesus I pray for your healing if you're relating to this. Let's keep hoping that one day we'll come out of this and be okay.
I used to say that my narcissistic partner used my words, dreams, hopes, kindness, etc as ammunition against me. I agree with everything u say
I am dealing with the last narcissist, my mother! Whom I love, honor thy mother and thy father, not sure how to deal with her, she has always taken over my life, I got rid of the rest of them from my life. She has no one to help her and getting older with health problems, I'm definitely taken advantage of. Pray for me I feel like a prisoner, and prayers for my mom. God help me. Thx for your video.💜🙏
I’m going to therapy bc of my narcissistic mom. I’m in the same boat you’re in. But therapy is really helping me to set boundaries with her.
You go no contact she don’t love you
I know now, that feeling when you know something is weird or off, trust it and move on. No more second guessing.
I swear you’re an example of God leading someone to preach. I don’t expect anything from you but I like listening to you speak. It never seems overly contrived. I’m sure you write it but as you deliver it, it’s heartfelt like it’s not written which is tough to do. I’m glad you have a roof over your head. I actually do say a prayer for you here and there. Don’t call yourself a wolf or a fraud, it’s not like you’re tricking people. It’s not a trick to give someone a sense of family. Your product is good.
I get in those flow states as well where God will just flow through me effortlessly
Also like he said, if you have or grew up around narcs. You may attract them chemically because your body energy is already accustomed to that type of energy or behavior. I agree as an empath you need to guard your heart. If the mind and the heart don’t align is for a reason. If you have crazy chemistry with a narc, run!
Sad truth for many narcissistic people,they will never change 😢my ex who I thought was good but unfortunately not. I tried to be a light but I couldn’t help change him. I felt sad for him because he said his mom wished he was dead 😢we always point to the narcissistic but we fail to see what actually built the narcissistic. I will admit I had traits from my abuse and I hold accountability to my kids. Healing is a big issue needed in this world 🌎 peace ✌️
I cried and cried , literally lost everything I had worked so hard for , I even lost my son , he was only 19 😢. I prayed , fasted , and couldn’t understand why - how can people think like that ???? A pastor told me that I would never figure it out because I wasn’t created to think like that ❤. I may never understand how someone gets pleasure from someone else’s pain , but I do know that thier day is close at hand 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
That backdrop is so beautiful! Thanks for affirming what God has been teaching me.
IT TOOK ME TO PRAY DAILY FROM MY GUTS TO COME OUT OF THAT ABUSE
Wow. Love your insights about this. Spot on!! I was raised by a malignant narcissist (narcissist with psychopathic traits.) The mind screw was unreal looking back. She took us in after my adoptive mom died when I was 14. She was a nightmare. There's so many things I could say. But when your best friend dies in a car accident and you hear them laughing and asking why you're crying because it's not like your friend was your husband.. you know you aren't dealing with strictly a human. She got us into a cult. Towards the end when I finally escaped after 10 years, she was trying to cancel my insurance to get me not to leave NY. Her pupils were like an upside down teardrop. I thought I was going crazy. Like half a snake eye. It lasted for minutes. I was just staring at her eyes. I had so many dreams and encounters and demonic encounters while God was fighting for me to escape. The pastor hired a cop to follow me in case I left. It was confusing at the time because I was so brainwashed and beat down. I thought i was wrong and the devil was trying to get me to leave the narc and cult. It was WAR. She stole our inheritance and was abusive in so many ways. When we wouldnt let her buy our house without a bank involement, she said i was an accomplice to murder and stealing. I wonder if she did something to my dad, who was ill and in the nursing home.. projection at its finest. Cuz all that time she was stealing from us. I can't go on too long or this will be a novel. But I've cut contact and escaped through the power of God.
Subscribed to your channel. I hope I can grow closer to God.
Walking in to tbeir neighbourhoods or living in them doesnt help either.tense times gives them a jolt from their scarcity minds to Grab
This man speaking the truth right here. I learned the hard way with narcs too, but God brought me into a season of isolation to heal. I can see their ways now and distance myself. When you set a boundary with them, they will abandon you because they can no longer control you. It will hurt, but you will be better off in the end. Resist the hoover when they come back around. Stay blessed!
I hope you see this . After 7!yrs I'm still healing from my daughter father . I would love for you to make a video or just talk to me about it. Pour that love in me so o can finish fighting him in court an not feel pitty for him . My 7 year old goes frist.
Plus I want a hoodie l! Tell me where to go. ❤️❤️
Hi Blake - first I just wanted to say I like your sweater, it looks cozy. 😊
Secondly it amazes me how some narcissists can be Christians but yet their heart is pure evil. That blows my mind. The stuff they do & how they treat people it's unreal. Like seriously if I get fussy or grumpy at someone I always feel really bad & I try apologize. I'm the bunny 🐰 🐇. I hate confrontation, & try to seek peace throughout life if I can.
Thanks Blake, I hope you have a 'hoppy' day. 😊😅
There is no better place for evil to hide, than behind the good.
That's why narcissist "like" Christians.
the rocking chair is an amazing effect
thank you for this message
❤ May God continue to bring revelation, visitation and habitation to you in the Mighty name of Jesus
Bonjour ☺️
So true. My mom is a narcissist and she has been so cruel to me i have wanted to leave this world because of the torture and aggravation she puts me through on a daily basis. She took me away from where I lived and isolated me and after a few years she is discarding me because i set boundaries
It's really hard to let go of the narsacist in my life, I for some reason have the habit to show them that compassion is a lot easier in life then envy.... Being loyal is title that friends and family gave me. I am now learning that If I continue to give my energy out it's slowly hurting me inside
Can you talk to me? I feel so scared and lonely and like I’m really losing it. Being isolated, kept from jobs, gangstalked all over the place. They know that as long as I’m financially dependent on the government they have at least a bit of grips on me and whatever I do. So they keep me from that. god knows this very well. All of it. How am I supposed to trust in God that he loves me or whatever if he puts me through 21 years of this. Why would a savior also be the torturer. Why torture why save. GET ME OUT.
Thank you, Brother Justice! This message was exactly what I needed to hear today. After nearly two years of experiencing the pain and confusion that come with this especially sinister form of abuse, watching countless videos on narcissism and other cluster b personality disorders, and gradually withdrawing from my former "community," this video today really summed up everything perfectly. Thank you so much 🙌 and praise God bc it's obviously inspired! I have been slowly weaning from watching so many videos, and I feel like this could be the last one I needed. I plan to watch it again tomorrow instead of watching a series of other videos that will just feel like the same video over and over. I prefer this one and then just reading my Bible-- that's something the other videos aren't recommending! That's how I know this message was indeed inspired by God 🙌
I am 55 1/2 yrs old and jst learned that I am the scapegoat in a family of narcissist w/ the exception of my Mom who is like me. I had no idea that all my life I have only had narcissist relationships. I am so ready to move forward with the small amount of time I have left but I am struggling bcuz of so much abuse and it's really hard bcuz I have no support system and I have disability and I can't make enough money to survive on. I am feeling so defeated, but I won't give up bcuz God can do anything. I pray for every person that has been erased like me.. God save us all..
I don't know you, but I'm so blessed to come across your channel. I'm sitting in my bed listening, taking in all this fresh air! I don't need to speak on my experiences. Just know I. "Thank you!"