good newwws! In addition to the physical deck, I’ve just dropped a digital copy of my “i’m listening self-love deck” journal … perfect for anyone outside of the U.S. or anyone who wants to have it on their phone.. find both here: www.tiffanylaibhen.com/shop
I just sat in the shower and UGLY cried listening to this. I’m 24; oldest of 8 siblings and have taken care of my siblings since 12 & I finally have agreed to move to FL with my boyfriend to restart and finally live! I love you and thank you so much ❤
I used to be a heavy people pleaser always putting everyone above my own wellbeing. And that’s a cycle that still continues in my family but I’m breaking it. Its okay to help and be there for others but there has to be a healthy balance and boundaries between that. Another great video Tiffany 🫶🏽❤️
I am 22 years old and I learned this the hard way.I have always wanted the best for all my friends and because I like pulling everyone,I got hurt so bad by the same people. Now,my business is running well and I am moving into a new apartment all by myself in a month.I am so happy that I invested in myself,I need to stop undermining my capabilities
yes mam! other people cannot be the reason you don’t achieve your dreams. + it’s not fault of theirs. you don’t need to be mad at them or anything. just be about the business of making your life what you want it to be because no one else will
At the age 47 years old, I've realised I have over invested in helping others, but sadly when you set fire to yourself to keep others warm they don't realise the sacrifices you have made to give them opportunities. You are 💯 percent.😊 If you a person who is a essential front line worker this is a pivot lesson to learn. Your vision is yours don't share it - protect it.😊
to be fair, it’s not your fault… so many women are raised to put ourselves last… make sure everyone else is good + then mayyyybe find a moment for ourselves. I’ve seen so many women I admire in my life lose who they are in everything + everyone else. it doesn’t have to be this way. as I can help more women recognize the importance of true self love, my heart is more + more content 🤎 sending you lovvve! make time to get to know + pour into YOU
I come from a family that is JUST the OPPOSITE of yours. Everyone is broken, no one is satisfied. It's hard. I've always been a giver and give and give and give. I'm so tired. I found you today and subscribed and I'm super glad that I have....been binging non-stop. Just subscribed today and I do not regret it. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I messed up alot not realizing early on that what I wanted for myself and those around me was NOT what they wanted. When you’re the first to see some sort of success, its difficult to not want to bring along the people you’ve grown up with. However, I learned the hard and painful way that not everyone is happy for you and not everyone truly wants a better situation, they just want help to stay where they are. This video is a gem!
I really needed to hear this! I always thought I was really lucky to have a very supportive family until I started to really make strides in my career. Sometimes to love someone is to let them realize and discover at their pace. I am committed now not to "helping people" but to be an example. Which will always be a more powerful teacher.
I literally put my life on hold for my family cause the guilt just wont let me put myself first and often times others dont second guess putting themselves first. Thank you for this i will watch it as many times as i can to remind myself that it's okay.
✨✨This message needs to be taught to every young person before they even start their first job. As amazing as it is to do things for loved ones, lets also normalise loving each other without any financial expectations or gains ✨✨
This is so important for us empaths, givers, healer, etc. to hear. I can't help others fly if I can't even fly myself. Learning to choose me has been the biggest relief I've experienced yet!
I needed to hear this. I’m an Empath too, and my cultural background has a tendency to make us feel guilty if we don’t help others. But after standing my ground to solidify myself, I think people around me have seen the difference. As I prepare to start my own business, some may be jealous and some are supportive. Nonetheless, we are the cycle breakers where we are called to be the first trailblazers in our families. It’s no easy feat, but there’s a reason why most empaths are called to do this. Blessings to you and many others blazing the path. ⭐️
The get through the door metaphor really clicked with me the way you explained it. I need to get through first and get solid enough to start helping them.
You are hitting on every level! Last month I was upset at something and I was moved to get really quiet. Over the summer I was totally having a great time traveling - enjoying friends and family. But I was hearing way too much from everyone. So when I got so upset in Sept - I said I am getting too cluttered in my head. So I took a two week break from friends and travel (fun and work). And once I did, I felt so more free. I put my focus items as priority and I heard my voice. I started to feel less cluttered. And this has helped my soul so much. thank you for this message!!!
It was a reason I came on this site, I've been watching your videos and LORDDDDDDD let me tell you. This one hit the most, I had to stop it and come back to it because it unpacked a lot for me that I needed to hear. I am currently going through my season of ME but I let others get in the way of ME and it's no one's fault but my own. This needed to be heard loudly too. It hit me to my soul lol. I can't get what I want by keeping the company around especially when I know they don't want me to win, I have to push this ego out of me and stop feeling sorry/pitty for others when no one felt it for me.
The fact that your calling is exactly what I feel my calling is shook me to the core because I have never heard this out loud or have I felt like I can relate with anyone in regards to my purpose! Thank you 🙏🏽
“What if you have to go first”, that hits hard! Bc not seeing it makes you feel like it’s not possible, even though we are more than capable of anything that we desire!
I love this. I 100% agree with you.. Trying to help others will cause more stress and heart break. Hard part of the journey. We live and we learn, biggest lesson learned.
I’ve been on this journey for 62 years I didn’t look for people to cheer me young to walk this path with me. I had a few they were lessons. I learned them, and I remain true to who I am.
This is something I struggle with. I have so much family and a boyfriend that I care and love so much. Whenever they ask me for help, I wanna say yes to everything and while I love helping them, I’m always putting myself on the back burner. I’m trying to apply for medical school as well so that’s already difficult on top of trying to help everyone do everything. I feel so guilty saying no. 😢
Thank you for this message. Every time I leave my parents' house, I leave feeling defeated and feeling that I should do more. I am currently trying to get myself afloat in my financial and personal life and that alone is alot. Then the anger of bad choices made in the past and anxiety for the future creeps in. I feel so heavy at times. I'm really going to work on getting myself settled first and conquering the negative thoughts that try to take over my mind.
Hey girl, I definitely feel inspired to first focus on my inner healing and solidify the outcomes. I am no longer dragging family cost it's really draining.
Something I realized after watching this video is that u cant give enough to others when u don’t give enough to yourself which made feel like i have to fill all the gaps in me to be able to show up to others as they really deserve without me feeling drawn or being taken advantage of I love you Tiffany ❤this really helped
Hey I don't know how you sitting hundreds of mile away can feel what I feel. How your every video solves my issues problems and mental blocks one by one. When people close to me are not able to. Even me myself m not able to. Thanks a million for doing this. It is helping me. Making me feel better and to Live life with less anxiety. ❤. I have a friend in you, who I go to every evening and feel better. Sending you love and light ❤️. May you grow prosper and heal more as you help us all do that.
I only discovered your channel recently and I don't know what it is, your energy makes me want to be better. I respond to this so much better than the more aggressive lifestyle content. Thank you, looking forward to future videos.
I love your energy so much! Been binge watching your videos and it has helped me so much. I’m currently deployed, away from family and friends. I don’t know where I’m going in life but I’m putting energy back into myself after trying to please everyone around me. It’s a lonely journey but I’m at peace with myself at least.
Hi Tiffany, this message couldn't come at a better time because now I'm in that point on focusing on myself 1st doing what i want without worrying about am i not selfish or not since I've always took care of everyone in my family.
Oh My Goodness Tiffany You Are Definitely My Girl! You are on point. You know as I think the majority of my life I have encouraged & poured into family, friends into others via ministry, started a non-profit etc that I left myself empty and I found myself thinking that was the right thing to do as I am passionate about seeing others happy begun to wonder if I would ever rise to the top and succeed. Growing up I had been surrounded by many that stated its not about us it's about others. But, Praise God as we have raised our children, here recently I have started to unapologetically put myself first and know that it's going to be okay and I now understand I am not being selfish or wrong for taking care of me first🙏🙌💗
This is a beautiful message, all of it. Thank you Tiffany for sharing like you received it. I used to pour into others first until my life crashed and almost burned, if not for God. That is my testimony and thank you for the reminder to put me and my dreams first.
I have lately realized all that you said. We cannot bring people with us if they don't want to... and maybe that is absolutely fine. We might want something more for them. But if they are happy being where they are, I guess we should leave it. I believe it comes to us as a guilt that they are not seeing what we see. In the end, we have to accept that we are responsible for creating our own lives and not everybody else's and be completely comfortable and proud of that.
I really needed to see this. I consistently got advice from family or loved ones on elevating when they have never been there before. I realized I had to get answers elsewhere.
This resonates with me(what a timing to be honest because i am in this season). This year,i have lost all my childhood friends,longterm friendships and the last break up with my friend made me realise i need to heal from this disease of trying to help everyone,trying to unite everyone,trying to help others realize their potential of who they are,trying to uplift and bringing people along. I always go back to them,apologizing thinking i did wrong but its just the guilt of didn't I work hard enough 😣. But am glad i realized but it cost me too much,inclusive a child i was carrying(gone to heaven). Now i am just going to be a lone ranger and focus on whats important❤
Not even 5 mins in and soooo much hits exactly the same for me. ESPECIALLY towards the beginning when you spoke on how you no longer call it “curses” bc of the energy implied behind it and instead call it cycles bc that’s exactly what they REALLY are. OH and most definitely the part about ppl you’re trying to or feel obligated to bring along who DIDN’T necessarily ask or desire to come with you or make the changes you are or ones necessary. LOVE this. Women like you are what Eye'm attracting as my tribe. Gratitude love 🦋💪🏽😌
Thank you for this. Ive been crawling on empty for a long while; loosing people in my life because they feel I’m not showing up for them how they wish I would. The guilt and sadness I feel is overwhelming but they don’t know that I have nothing to pour because my cup is empty AND cracked. I recently made my last attempt to show up to please others and it broke me…publicly. Message received . Here’s to laying firm foundations FIRST and pouring into ourselves before anyone else from here on out🥂❤.
whew. got emotional reading this because I re-late. and the tough part is they probably see you as the one who usually “has it all together”. I get itttt. sending you love as you embark on this part of your journey mama. it’s not easy, but it’s worth it. I hope this playlist of videos help you along 🙏🏾 ruclips.net/p/PLlKjsCdwoi5roZ6-Zg50liLl4K28MNHvS&si=L8ypYxQveodXGxuf
Your channel is exactly what I needed at this stage in my life. I’ve been carrying the emotional and financial burdens of my family since 10. Now at 22, feeling stuck and broken your videos give me comfort that nothing is wrong with me wanting to break the cycles of my family and there is hope to achieve my dreams. Thank you 🙏🏻
Sis you’re my confirmation that I’m on the right path. Currently homeless but at the same time I have a home. I have new job and studying to be a personal trainer but at the same time trying to figure my log term path because I want to heal folks like I’m healing myself. Thank you 😊
U convinced me for the 30 day challenge. I made a 5 things to do list. One of them is watching one of your videos for a month straight✨. I’m excited. Grateful that i found u on youtube
This is soo true! 🙌🏽 You have to fill yourself up and get yourself aligned before extending your arm back to help others. I’m going to keep myself full before giving out to other people.
I started watching your videos when I was pregnant and wanted to watch content I could relate to and you were sharing your pregnancy journey, fast forward a year later and your content aligns because I’m on a healing journey! Thank you, for just being you and sharing because you’re helping me. You are AMAZING!!! 💜
Thank you so much for lighting me with this beautiful knowledge.. I just stumbled here, and your words just resonate deep with me and have cried. It's now time to fill my cup ❤
Prioritizing self-care and putting yourself first can indeed have a positive ripple effect on those around you. By setting a strong foundation for your well-being, you're better equipped to support and uplift others. It would be great to hear more about Tiffany Laibhen's insights on this topic.
You are 100% true sometimes is hard to know what you really want because you don't believe you can not do it but when I saw your video you inspired me alot Tiffany ❤
In order to go after goals or dreams sum other just gone have to be hurt and even if u fall short make lasting impressions. The envy and drama comes with it
I am so grateful for your videos... I feel like every time you're talking to me.... I'm on this journey of finding myself, loving myself and growing....you are helping me sooooo much. Thank you Tiffany ❤
Thank you. I love your videos, it is not just about your message but it is also the way you make your videos and how femenine ad beautiful you look. This inspires me to prioritize myself and take care of me in all areas of my life.
Tiffany this video found me I wake up saying thank you every morning and this is Why, Wow gratitude is a magical magnet 🧲 🙏 I love your message it speaks to my heart . I am so grateful 🙏 to get this message for my birthday. Life is so beautiful. AH
this is something ive struggled with for a long time. only do they not expect ti but they often think i cant do it but the way you put this gave me some more mph. thank you for letting god use you to speak in this moment. it means more than i could say rn
Thank you for speaking to my soul, Tiffany.❤ As a fellow empath, boundaries are sometimes a tricky one, but healing and awareness is the key. Being away from my own family and being strong all the time is exhausting, but listening to you somehow gives me the push I needed to pull through. You were like the sister I never had. Thank you for always inspiring me. Sending love and light all the way from the Philippines 🇵🇭🥰
i’ve been watching your videos sm lately and i love love love your energy. your messages are comforting, yet powerful and they speak to me profoundly. thank you for sharing your wisdom with the world. you’re a beautiful soul ❤
I am so glad this came across my feed. I needed to hear this. I am in such a difficult time in my life and I still feel the need to help those around me, and this has helped me understand I need to take care of myself first with out the guilt. Thank you - New Subscriber :)
@TiffanyTV wow. My mom and sister are Del State alum. My son almost went there too. You are beautiful and you have found your calling. I am so empowered by your content. Keep sending blessings our way!
Hi Tiffany, just came across your videos yesterday. Love them! Thanks it's so nice how you do them, so out together and your topics are just awesome. I'm a mum of 4 kids and just recently started a new career in finance. I resonate with most of your topics. Thanks so much. Keep doing what your doing 👏
This video is everything Ive been feeling and going thru. It is confirmation your vibe attracts your tribe. Keep going sis thanks for the motivation and inspiration and sharing your truth🫶🏽
You are a glass of wine for the soul. I truly appreciate you and your wisdom. God KEPT pushing you on my home page and now that I’m finally here. I found a place for grown woman, big sister talks I never knew I needed. Wow. Super emotional right now… thank you Tiff & thank you God ❤
Wow I needed this so much ! I was literally just thinking about this eating my breakfast this morning 😮, I just want to break this gen cycle 🙏🏽 thank you so much Tiffany - it's not about the messenger but the message ❤
This video came at the perfect time! I have been going through this for a while. I always wanted to be successful and help people along the way. Just to hear you say that you have to go through the door first and then reach back hit different. I always knew that, but it felt so bad and just knowing others see it the same way makes me feel so much better. Thank you!!!
Uhhh, it was extremely helpful and DAMN I am not alone. You have just put all my thoughts and personal position regarding family and my goals and dreams into words that I have never expected would come from someone else in SUCH a precise way, UHHH! Love u xx
I can’t tell you what an angelic blessing you are! I meditate on your channel and find your channel you you extremely therapeutic! May god your channel reach over 1M subscribers! ✨💫✨ Showering all the love from India! Monicca
This was an entire word & I’m so grateful to of received it 🤲🏽. Very reaffirming! & yes, I agree that this is a topic not discussed enough. REED’s omg, ginger beer 💛
...and you know what else... When your at that door with everyone else, you know the one that you have to,what I quote ,"get through,to get To".. notice how your at the 🚪 with the others and how you have to strategize,and contour your body to move different ways to fit though...you would have to push ,mind body and soul,,mind you everybody else are still going to be on those same positions stuck because they have a hive mind,you know not thinking outside the box,but see ..you will be the one to get up get out n get sum😅,no but that's real,and that's how you use your power I completely innerstood this❤
good newwws! In addition to the physical deck, I’ve just dropped a digital copy of my “i’m listening self-love deck” journal … perfect for anyone outside of the U.S. or anyone who wants to have it on their phone.. find both here: www.tiffanylaibhen.com/shop
Move in silence that way no one can kill your dream before you get there.
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❤🙏🏾💯amen
outside energy can absolutely throw you off! 🎯
Amen
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I just sat in the shower and UGLY cried listening to this. I’m 24; oldest of 8 siblings and have taken care of my siblings since 12 & I finally have agreed to move to FL with my boyfriend to restart and finally live! I love you and thank you so much ❤
🥹😭 I love this for you!! sending lots of love + a big hug… it’s your time 🫂🤎
Soooo true our growth is dependent on working on you first
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This message couldn’t have came at a better time. Definitely focusing on filling my cup without feeling the guilt.
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I used to be a heavy people pleaser always putting everyone above my own wellbeing. And that’s a cycle that still continues in my family but I’m breaking it. Its okay to help and be there for others but there has to be a healthy balance and boundaries between that. Another great video Tiffany 🫶🏽❤️
I am 22 years old and I learned this the hard way.I have always wanted the best for all my friends and because I like pulling everyone,I got hurt so bad by the same people. Now,my business is running well and I am moving into a new apartment all by myself in a month.I am so happy that I invested in myself,I need to stop undermining my capabilities
yes mam! other people cannot be the reason you don’t achieve your dreams. + it’s not fault of theirs. you don’t need to be mad at them or anything. just be about the business of making your life what you want it to be because no one else will
I have a strong feeling that when I walk through that door, so many will come behind me. As if their blessings are attached to my blessings
Amen!
yes yes yessss claim it 🙌🏾
Amen 🙏🏾
At the age 47 years old, I've realised I have over invested in helping others, but sadly when you set fire to yourself to keep others warm they don't realise the sacrifices you have made to give them opportunities. You are 💯 percent.😊 If you a person who is a essential front line worker this is a pivot lesson to learn. Your vision is yours don't share it - protect it.😊
Because they never asked you to make those sacrifices. I hear you though, and I’ve been there
So true. smh
Taken thanks 😊
to be fair, it’s not your fault… so many women are raised to put ourselves last… make sure everyone else is good + then mayyyybe find a moment for ourselves. I’ve seen so many women I admire in my life lose who they are in everything + everyone else.
it doesn’t have to be this way. as I can help more women recognize the importance of true self love, my heart is more + more content 🤎 sending you lovvve! make time to get to know + pour into YOU
I come from a family that is JUST the OPPOSITE of yours. Everyone is broken, no one is satisfied. It's hard. I've always been a giver and give and give and give. I'm so tired. I found you today and subscribed and I'm super glad that I have....been binging non-stop. Just subscribed today and I do not regret it. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
time to focus on you 🙌🏾 I’m happy you’re here 🤎
@@TiffanyTV thank you so much. 🥹🥹🥹
I am too. My family has put me in debt without my permission and asked for money when I was just starting to earn a salary.
I am in the same boat. You ain’t alone. This video was timely.
I pray God deliver you✊🏽✊🏽 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Been feeling guiltily for not talking care of my self in these 7 years. The only thing i know is be a pleaser to everyone. Thanks for this video
I messed up alot not realizing early on that what I wanted for myself and those around me was NOT what they wanted. When you’re the first to see some sort of success, its difficult to not want to bring along the people you’ve grown up with. However, I learned the hard and painful way that not everyone is happy for you and not everyone truly wants a better situation, they just want help to stay where they are. This video is a gem!
Yessssssss! 💯
This… 💯💎💅🏼
the Lord is so good. I absolutely needed to hear this today! As the eldest daughter of a very broken family, this really helped!
the oldest daughters alwayssss go through it 🤎
I really needed to hear this! I always thought I was really lucky to have a very supportive family until I started to really make strides in my career. Sometimes to love someone is to let them realize and discover at their pace. I am committed now not to "helping people" but to be an example. Which will always be a more powerful teacher.
I literally put my life on hold for my family cause the guilt just wont let me put myself first and often times others dont second guess putting themselves first. Thank you for this i will watch it as many times as i can to remind myself that it's okay.
✨✨This message needs to be taught to every young person before they even start their first job. As amazing as it is to do things for loved ones, lets also normalise loving each other without any financial expectations or gains ✨✨
This is so important for us empaths, givers, healer, etc. to hear. I can't help others fly if I can't even fly myself. Learning to choose me has been the biggest relief I've experienced yet!
whew! THIS! 🎯🙌🏾
@@TiffanyTV So honored to get a heart ❤️ You're inspiring!
I needed to hear this. I’m an Empath too, and my cultural background has a tendency to make us feel guilty if we don’t help others. But after standing my ground to solidify myself, I think people around me have seen the difference. As I prepare to start my own business, some may be jealous and some are supportive. Nonetheless, we are the cycle breakers where we are called to be the first trailblazers in our families. It’s no easy feat, but there’s a reason why most empaths are called to do this. Blessings to you and many others blazing the path. ⭐️
Getting through the door without always seeking to get others there first!!! Yes! ❤🎉❤ it’s me season.! 💕🌸💕💅🏽
The get through the door metaphor really clicked with me the way you explained it. I need to get through first and get solid enough to start helping them.
TIFFANY!! Right on time. Of course.
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You are hitting on every level! Last month I was upset at something and I was moved to get really quiet. Over the summer I was totally having a great time traveling - enjoying friends and family. But I was hearing way too much from everyone. So when I got so upset in Sept - I said I am getting too cluttered in my head. So I took a two week break from friends and travel (fun and work). And once I did, I felt so more free. I put my focus items as priority and I heard my voice. I started to feel less cluttered. And this has helped my soul so much. thank you for this message!!!
you’re so so welcome! that isolation will get you right everytime
Same !
Your calling is your calling Neicy. Preach!
The algorithm brought this video up and I’m so happy it did. I was just explaining this to my younger cousin whose 22yo. You have a new follower 😊
welcome to the family live 😌🤎
It was a reason I came on this site, I've been watching your videos and LORDDDDDDD let me tell you. This one hit the most, I had to stop it and come back to it because it unpacked a lot for me that I needed to hear. I am currently going through my season of ME but I let others get in the way of ME and it's no one's fault but my own. This needed to be heard loudly too. It hit me to my soul lol. I can't get what I want by keeping the company around especially when I know they don't want me to win, I have to push this ego out of me and stop feeling sorry/pitty for others when no one felt it for me.
The fact that your calling is exactly what I feel my calling is shook me to the core because I have never heard this out loud or have I felt like I can relate with anyone in regards to my purpose! Thank you 🙏🏽
This is probably my favorite video yet. Right on time please don’t ever stop what you’re doing.
Sis, I felt like you spoke to me directly. Thank you for making videos like this, I feel seen, heard, identified, thank you.
This video felt like a letter from God, I needed to hear it. Thank you ❤
Ditto!!!
“What if you have to go first”, that hits hard! Bc not seeing it makes you feel like it’s not possible, even though we are more than capable of anything that we desire!
I love this. I 100% agree with you..
Trying to help others will cause more stress and heart break. Hard part of the journey. We live and we learn, biggest lesson learned.
As a fellow empath, 8:35 really brought the message home.❤ 🙏🏽
I’ve been on this journey for 62 years I didn’t look for people to cheer me young to walk this path with me. I had a few they were lessons. I learned them, and I remain true to who I am.
This is something I struggle with. I have so much family and a boyfriend that I care and love so much. Whenever they ask me for help, I wanna say yes to everything and while I love helping them, I’m always putting myself on the back burner. I’m trying to apply for medical school as well so that’s already difficult on top of trying to help everyone do everything. I feel so guilty saying no. 😢
come through generation cycle breaker IM PROUD OF YOU
Thank you for this message. Every time I leave my parents' house, I leave feeling defeated and feeling that I should do more. I am currently trying to get myself afloat in my financial and personal life and that alone is alot. Then the anger of bad choices made in the past and anxiety for the future creeps in. I feel so heavy at times. I'm really going to work on getting myself settled first and conquering the negative thoughts that try to take over my mind.
Hey girl, I definitely feel inspired to first focus on my inner healing and solidify the outcomes. I am no longer dragging family cost it's really draining.
if you ever have to drag, you will ALWAYS be drained. I’m happy you’re choosing to fill your cup love 🙌🏾🤎 you deserve
Something I realized after watching this video is that u cant give enough to others when u don’t give enough to yourself which made feel like i have to fill all the gaps in me to be able to show up to others as they really deserve without me feeling drawn or being taken advantage of
I love you Tiffany ❤this really helped
Hey I don't know how you sitting hundreds of mile away can feel what I feel. How your every video solves my issues problems and mental blocks one by one. When people close to me are not able to. Even me myself m not able to.
Thanks a million for doing this. It is helping me. Making me feel better and to Live life with less anxiety. ❤.
I have a friend in you, who I go to every evening and feel better. Sending you love and light ❤️. May you grow prosper and heal more as you help us all do that.
you don’t know how much this warms my heart 🥹🙏🏾
I only discovered your channel recently and I don't know what it is, your energy makes me want to be better. I respond to this so much better than the more aggressive lifestyle content. Thank you, looking forward to future videos.
I love your energy so much! Been binge watching your videos and it has helped me so much. I’m currently deployed, away from family and friends. I don’t know where I’m going in life but I’m putting energy back into myself after trying to please everyone around me. It’s a lonely journey but I’m at peace with myself at least.
Hi Tiffany, this message couldn't come at a better time because now I'm in that point on focusing on myself 1st doing what i want without worrying about am i not selfish or not since I've always took care of everyone in my family.
Oh My Goodness Tiffany You Are Definitely My Girl! You are on point. You know as I think the majority of my life I have encouraged & poured into family, friends into others via ministry, started a non-profit etc that I left myself empty and I found myself thinking that was the right thing to do as I am passionate about seeing others happy begun to wonder if I would ever rise to the top and succeed. Growing up I had been surrounded by many that stated its not about us it's about others. But, Praise God as we have raised our children, here recently I have started to unapologetically put myself first and know that it's going to be okay and I now understand I am not being selfish or wrong for taking care of me first🙏🙌💗
Your stuff hits my soul at much deeper levels, goodness!! Thank you Universe for me finding you!
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This is a beautiful message, all of it. Thank you Tiffany for sharing like you received it.
I used to pour into others first until my life crashed and almost burned, if not for God. That is my testimony and thank you for the reminder to put me and my dreams first.
you’re so welcome love! I’m glad it spoke to you 🤎🤎
At 35yrs old today, this message was divine. Thank you sooo mich❤
My algorithm has been showing out lately 🙌🏽 This really resonated. I am working on this foundation.
I have lately realized all that you said. We cannot bring people with us if they don't want to... and maybe that is absolutely fine. We might want something more for them. But if they are happy being where they are, I guess we should leave it. I believe it comes to us as a guilt that they are not seeing what we see. In the end, we have to accept that we are responsible for creating our own lives and not everybody else's and be completely comfortable and proud of that.
🎯 … it’s not easy to accept when you love people
I really needed to see this. I consistently got advice from family or loved ones on elevating when they have never been there before. I realized I had to get answers elsewhere.
“Generational cycle breaker” wow…… haven’t thought about this before.
Thank you.
This resonates with me(what a timing to be honest because i am in this season). This year,i have lost all my childhood friends,longterm friendships and the last break up with my friend made me realise i need to heal from this disease of trying to help everyone,trying to unite everyone,trying to help others realize their potential of who they are,trying to uplift and bringing people along. I always go back to them,apologizing thinking i did wrong but its just the guilt of didn't I work hard enough 😣.
But am glad i realized but it cost me too much,inclusive a child i was carrying(gone to heaven).
Now i am just going to be a lone ranger and focus on whats important❤
I started shedding tears the last 10 mins remaining of the video. Thank you for sharing this message ❤ ❤❤ I needed this one.
I appreciate your candidness. You are so on point. Dont let anyone stop from doing what youve been called to do because they dont see what you see.
I just stumbled on this channel and I'm hooked, love your aura. I pray for strength to be able to do everything i need to do to effect change.
Yes this video is spot on!! There is so many of us who are on this path!
Not even 5 mins in and soooo much hits exactly the same for me. ESPECIALLY towards the beginning when you spoke on how you no longer call it “curses” bc of the energy implied behind it and instead call it cycles bc that’s exactly what they REALLY are. OH and most definitely the part about ppl you’re trying to or feel obligated to bring along who DIDN’T necessarily ask or desire to come with you or make the changes you are or ones necessary. LOVE this. Women like you are what Eye'm attracting as my tribe. Gratitude love 🦋💪🏽😌
🥹 I receive this! thank you for being here 🤎
Thank you for this.
Ive been crawling on empty for a long while; loosing people in my life because they feel I’m not showing up for them how they wish I would. The guilt and sadness I feel is overwhelming but they don’t know that I have nothing to pour because my cup is empty AND cracked. I recently made my last attempt to show up to please others and it broke me…publicly. Message received . Here’s to laying firm foundations FIRST and pouring into ourselves before anyone else from here on out🥂❤.
whew. got emotional reading this because I re-late. and the tough part is they probably see you as the one who usually “has it all together”. I get itttt. sending you love as you embark on this part of your journey mama. it’s not easy, but it’s worth it. I hope this playlist of videos help you along 🙏🏾 ruclips.net/p/PLlKjsCdwoi5roZ6-Zg50liLl4K28MNHvS&si=L8ypYxQveodXGxuf
Thank you Empress ❤️🙏🏾
Your channel is exactly what I needed at this stage in my life. I’ve been carrying the emotional and financial burdens of my family since 10. Now at 22, feeling stuck and broken your videos give me comfort that nothing is wrong with me wanting to break the cycles of my family and there is hope to achieve my dreams. Thank you 🙏🏻
Omg. I felt like you read my thoughts. This video was right on. You have truly blessed me. Thank you
your videos always seem to keep finding me at the right times. thank you
Sis you’re my confirmation that I’m on the right path. Currently homeless but at the same time I have a home. I have new job and studying to be a personal trainer but at the same time trying to figure my log term path because I want to heal folks like I’m healing myself. Thank you 😊
U convinced me for the 30 day challenge. I made a 5 things to do list. One of them is watching one of your videos for a month straight✨. I’m excited. Grateful that i found u on youtube
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 and you’re here… doing it!
This is soo true! 🙌🏽 You have to fill yourself up and get yourself aligned before extending your arm back to help others. I’m going to keep myself full before giving out to other people.
i didn’t think i could relate so hard to someone on my goal with cycle breaker financially and passing legacy to generations
I started watching your videos when I was pregnant and wanted to watch content I could relate to and you were sharing your pregnancy journey, fast forward a year later and your content aligns because I’m on a healing journey! Thank you, for just being you and sharing because you’re helping me. You are AMAZING!!! 💜
I’m happy we can grow together love 🥰 hope newborn/infant/toddler life has treated you well. my threenager is a literal sour patch 😂
Thank you so much for lighting me with this beautiful knowledge.. I just stumbled here, and your words just resonate deep with me and have cried. It's now time to fill my cup ❤
Prioritizing self-care and putting yourself first can indeed have a positive ripple effect on those around you. By setting a strong foundation for your well-being, you're better equipped to support and uplift others. It would be great to hear more about Tiffany Laibhen's insights on this topic.
You are 100% true sometimes is hard to know what you really want because you don't believe you can not do it but when I saw your video you inspired me alot Tiffany ❤
In order to go after goals or dreams sum other just gone have to be hurt and even if u fall short make lasting impressions. The envy and drama comes with it
I am so grateful for your videos...
I feel like every time you're talking to me....
I'm on this journey of finding myself, loving myself and growing....you are helping me sooooo much. Thank you Tiffany ❤
this makes my heart smile love 😌🤎
Based on this video I consider this channel my new Community ♥️
Thank you. I love your videos, it is not just about your message but it is also the way you make your videos and how femenine ad beautiful you look. This inspires me to prioritize myself and take care of me in all areas of my life.
Yes! I completely agree! 😊♥️
Tiffany this video found me I wake up saying thank you every morning and this is Why, Wow gratitude is a magical magnet 🧲 🙏 I love your message it speaks to my heart . I am so grateful 🙏 to get this message for my birthday. Life is so beautiful. AH
this is something ive struggled with for a long time. only do they not expect ti but they often think i cant do it but the way you put this gave me some more mph. thank you for letting god use you to speak in this moment. it means more than i could say rn
I found this at the right time. The universe has been working on for so long and I’m glad I found this. ❤
I’m happy you’re here love 🤎
This resonates so deeply with me, thanks for this!
This message was sooo good❤🎉 Let’s get her to 100k subscribers!!
Thank you for speaking to my soul, Tiffany.❤
As a fellow empath, boundaries are sometimes a tricky one, but healing and awareness is the key.
Being away from my own family and being strong all the time is exhausting, but listening to you somehow gives me the push I needed to pull through.
You were like the sister I never had.
Thank you for always inspiring me.
Sending love and light all the way from the Philippines 🇵🇭🥰
i’ve been watching your videos sm lately and i love love love your energy. your messages are comforting, yet powerful and they speak to me profoundly. thank you for sharing your wisdom with the world. you’re a beautiful soul ❤
I am so glad this came across my feed. I needed to hear this. I am in such a difficult time in my life and I still feel the need to help those around me, and this has helped me understand I need to take care of myself first with out the guilt. Thank you - New Subscriber :)
🙏🏾 i’m so happy it spoke to you mama… welcome to the family 😌🤎
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Your videos are so relatable and provide so much. I need a note pad when watching to catch all of the gems! I saw your shirt. I am a Delaware native:)
I’m glad they are speaking to you sis 😌 yesss I went to Del State in Dover🥰💙❤️
@TiffanyTV wow. My mom and sister are Del State alum. My son almost went there too.
You are beautiful and you have found your calling. I am so empowered by your content. Keep sending blessings our way!
Hi Tiffany, just came across your videos yesterday. Love them! Thanks it's so nice how you do them, so out together and your topics are just awesome. I'm a mum of 4 kids and just recently started a new career in finance. I resonate with most of your topics. Thanks so much. Keep doing what your doing 👏
Perfect message at the right time, I needed to hear this, thank you.😢🙏
This video is everything Ive been feeling and going thru. It is confirmation your vibe attracts your tribe. Keep going sis thanks for the motivation and inspiration and sharing your truth🫶🏽
This chat was a mind blowing for me , thanks for that. U helped a lot with this vídeo ❤️
You are a glass of wine for the soul. I truly appreciate you and your wisdom. God KEPT pushing you on my home page and now that I’m finally here. I found a place for grown woman, big sister talks I never knew I needed. Wow. Super emotional right now… thank you Tiff & thank you God ❤
whew 🥹 received! thank you love… I’m happy you’re here 🫂🤎
Me too!! 💕💕💕
Wow I needed this so much ! I was literally just thinking about this eating my breakfast this morning 😮, I just want to break this gen cycle 🙏🏽 thank you so much Tiffany - it's not about the messenger but the message ❤
This video came at the perfect time! I have been going through this for a while. I always wanted to be successful and help people along the way. Just to hear you say that you have to go through the door first and then reach back hit different. I always knew that, but it felt so bad and just knowing others see it the same way makes me feel so much better. Thank you!!!
Thank you so much for making this video when you did. Truly amazing thank you.
you are so welcome 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Can you do a video on moving in silence when it comes to your dreams and goals and ways to kill the urge to tell??❤❤❤I would love your perspective.
Such a fitting message, thanks Tiff.
Uhhh, it was extremely helpful and DAMN I am not alone. You have just put all my thoughts and personal position regarding family and my goals and dreams into words that I have never expected would come from someone else in SUCH a precise way, UHHH! Love u xx
I be feelin like she makes these videos specifically for me personally 😅🥹🥲 Thank you Tiffany, this a whole word 🌹
I truly needed to see this video and hear this message. God always has a way of getting messages we need. Thank you Tiffany!
Definitely needed this reminder today! Thank you beautiful lady! God is good! 🙏🏻💕✨
Wow the timing of this message ✨🙏🏽
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I can’t tell you what an angelic blessing you are! I meditate on your channel and find your channel you you extremely therapeutic!
May god your channel reach over 1M subscribers! ✨💫✨
Showering all the love from India!
Monicca
This was an entire word & I’m so grateful to of received it 🤲🏽. Very reaffirming! & yes, I agree that this is a topic not discussed enough.
REED’s omg, ginger beer 💛
...and you know what else...
When your at that door with everyone else, you know the one that you have to,what I quote ,"get through,to get To".. notice how your at the 🚪 with the others and how you have to strategize,and contour your body to move different ways to fit though...you would have to push ,mind body and soul,,mind you everybody else are still going to be on those same positions stuck because they have a hive mind,you know not thinking outside the box,but see ..you will be the one to get up get out n get sum😅,no but that's real,and that's how you use your power I completely innerstood this❤
I appreciate your words thank you 🤎