I'm 41 days clean today an really needed to see this, thank you for sharing. You really never know what someone is going through. Good people get hooked on dope everyday. Please try an help dont put them down I promise they dont want to live that way either. ****Just hit my year clean yesterday ! Didn’t know this existed until the day before the year mark. If that isn’t divine intervention I don’t know what it. Thank you all truly for the kind words I truly appreciate everyone of them. I am a better father and better man. I’m so glad I seen this life. Thanks again.
I love this dude. He Is one of the most REAL DUDES I have ever seen..Not a lot of people invite you into their private world. He is a real G. Real gangsters started out as a means to protect fam n friends. Real men don't corrupt their hood. They raise it up.
Man you are a beast. So many comics have a singular angle. “Be funny”. I love the depth you show here, bring us into your real pain and the tragedy you’ve experienced. Thank you man. Also May is mental health month, so even though you may not realize it, you sharing your story may inspire others to talk about what’s bothering them. Thank you man.
Probably his older brother, because he got caught in a BOLD FACE LIE, saying Gary was never there for his younger brother, what he says in the letter proves it!!
Men crying and feeling pain, loss, love, empathy is what will save us all in the end. Gary is a truly special man to share this with us. My sympathy, compassion and condolences to him and his family.
My sibling is on drugs. We cannot give them money. I wish they knew how it feels to have what they need but we know we cannot give it to them. On the outside we seem cold but they place us in an impossible position. My brother had a stroke 3 weeks ago and I just dropped him off at rehab 6 days ago. Im drained.
I know the feeling. I had gotten to the point of loathing a family member that was hooked on drugs. After an overdose attempt, i flat out told them that if they ever tried that attention seeking behavior again, that I would let them die. We were all tired of that behavior at that point. By the grace of God, after they were released from the hospital they went straight to rehab and has been sober since. I pray that your family member gets the help they need. And I pray that you get help for dealing with all of the damage that they caused you. Pray helps.
I can see how much love Gary had in his heart for his brother. This made me realize how much Ive been neglecting my older brother over the years I need to call him and connect again because you never know what could happen
Gary your brother loved you and appreciated everything you did for him. Tears are because you can still feel that love in his letter. Don't let anyone take thst from you. Its in your heart forever.💜
It's hard to see a family member in trouble you do what you can to help but try as much as you can they have to make them selves happy you cannot control their depression. Your Great brother.
Whew this tore me up!!! You could tell how broken up Gary is on this, thank you for sharing and being so transparent!!!! You are one of my top five favorite comedians and you are so genuine continue being blessed you and your family!
Its ok gary...crying cleanses the soul...alot of thoughts..longing...especially in these times. Reflection prepares you for the future. thank you for sharing this with the world. Continue to be greatest you.
So good. I was gushing the moment you started to read. Went through it myself with loved ones and it rips your heart out. Prayers to great men like you sir.
Don't mind your brother, he is jealous. Probably mad at himself, for not being there for Dallas, maybe mad at himself, because he went and ruined his life and needs a shining sun to block and bring darkness to. Keep doing what you do, because God Bless those who lives for him.
Had some of the same thoughts. The brothers reaction is more about his inadequacy. Based on another interview of Gary's I saw, I'm sure he would still help this brother if he needed it despite what he said about him.
I've got 3 brothers and couldn't imagine losing any of them. Gary, you're my favorite comic because you show your human side all the time. So sorry fir the loss of your brother! I can't imagine! You're awesome brother!! Keep up the great work!!
Mr. Owen, Keep your head up and know that our Heavenly Father has you. He has not brought you this far to leave you now. He will continue to give you the strength that you need to heal and help your heart deal. Thank you so much for sharing your story. Drugs have touched everyone in some kind of way. Know that you are loved and will always be loved!!!
im not even a religious guy, but its this type of kindness that makes me ENDLESSLY respect yall. Having so much faith is a beautiful thing, how do you do it?
@@vinny5638 Its respect and trust. Some of the things I have been through in my life could and does break most people. From being raped as a young child and abused by exhusband I had to know that my Heavenly Father wouldn't does this to me. However now that I am older my story has helped so many young and older women.
Gary you did something so many of us wish we could do to help a loved one who needs help. Take comfort in knowing that he knew how much you loved him because you cared enough to help. I'm so sorry for your loss. Be blessed.
I totally feel you on this.... I'm a recovering addict off meth heroin coke ...etc etc.... I'm lucky and I made through so far to almost 7 years clean... It actually hurt me watching you read that letter .. I cried with you... may God bless you and your family .. I'm so sorry for your loss
Congrats on being clean keep that momentum!!! I know COVID has been crazy and can be hard on ppl and their mental state and progression. Praying for you continued strength and momentum
I'm so sorry for your loss Gary... I was choking up myself. I could tell this was extremely hard for you to share but you did. You are helping others realize this is not an easy addiction to let go of but if they keep fighting the battle within to want they will win...very hard but it can be done. God bless you Gary & your family. You did everything you possibly could for your brother remember that and don't ever feel like you didn't. You have a beautiful heart.
This is my first time seeing this. Thank you Gary for sharing this moment. You didn't have to, but I'm sure I'm not the only one who can appreciate you allowing us to witness such a vulnerable moment. This shines light on how addiction affects so many people in different ways. I will pray that God can continue to give you the fortitude and solace that you need. Blessings.
I lost my brother to a heroin overdose when he was in his early 30s and i understand the pain Gary. Thanks for sharing with us. It helps us all but most importantly it helps you!
Gary Owen ! ! ! You got ppl HERE that watch you and we look up to you TOO And thank you sooo much for helping your brother that really means A lot !!! We Love you Gary !!!! 🧸🧸💟💟💟💟💟💟
You are brave for sharing that. You know he meant those words. Ive been clean for 7years but the most truthful i got with my family were those first letters💜💜💜💜💜 Your doing great by sharing his story
I only recently discovered you. You have been a joy to watch and laugh with. Today you made me cry. It is so hard living with someone with an addiction. You cling to any glimmer of hope to get through. Heart feels like it is being crushed 24/7. You were a great big brother.
I am crying with you Gary...I know it's hard to read that letter. We all Thank you for sharing and for being who you are. Gary, stay strong Our Brother.
You are a great man, and a greater brother. Dallas knows the love you have for him and it sounds like he had as much love for you. Thanks for sharing and stay funny!
Now that’s the brotherly love EVERYBODY should be blessed enough to have. I’m not sure why this made me cry, but you never know what someone has to deal with in their lives. My God. I have a newfound respect for Gary. God bless you.
Thank you for sharing. It takes a lot to be open and talk about your brother. I dealt with the same situation with my brother and he as well lost his battle with the addiction. Thank you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️
I cried along with you... losing a sibling is super Hard and that pain never leaves you... you just learn to live with it being there. I lost my brother in 2008 and it still hurts like it was yesterday. Hope things get better for you (i know ur going through some stuff now too) keep your head up
This just goes to show that you are not just Gary owen the comic you are Gary Owen the human! We all have a story most hide it you are transparent when you feel the need!God bless you
You are by far my favorite comic Gary. Seeing this side of you is something I really respect. I love my brothers very much and would do everything I could just like you did. Also don't listen to negative people, you know where you stand and you don't gotta prove yourself to anyone.
I lost my brother two years ago. He was my little brother as well. I feel your pain brotha. You and your brother know the love between you 2 will be there forever ❤❤❤
ADDICTION RUNS IN MY FAMILY! IT'S A HARD THING TO GET THROUGH! I HAVE BEEN SOBER FOR ALMOST 22 YEARS! YOUR BROTHER PASSED ON MY BIRTHDAY GARY! MY SON IS GETTING CLEAN THEN GOING BACK TO IT! I AM THE FIRST ONE HE CALLS WHEN HE RELAPSES! HE LIVES IN JERSEY I LIVE IN NC..I HAVEN'T HEARD FROM HIM FOR A WHILE!! I PRAY FOR HIM EVERYDAY!! 😢😢😢
I can tell you love him ,a brothers bond is special my respect for you grew so much today when you read that letter you could see into your kind heart wish u the best Gary 🙏
I'm 41 days clean today an really needed to see this, thank you for sharing. You really never know what someone is going through. Good people get hooked on dope everyday. Please try an help dont put them down I promise they dont want to live that way either.
****Just hit my year clean yesterday ! Didn’t know this existed until the day before the year mark. If that isn’t divine intervention I don’t know what it. Thank you all truly for the kind words I truly appreciate everyone of them. I am a better father and better man. I’m so glad I seen this life. Thanks again.
Real Mmatalk I know it is hard. Just get through today. 41 days clean tells me that you can do 42, 43, 44 ...congratulations. Peace and love.
@@Klp_l peace and love thank you so much
Congratulations!! Every hour counts.
Keep going! Day by day, victory by victory. Step by step. Congrats on 41!
Congrats man! You got this
Got me in the car yelling “take ya time Gary!! That’s alright!” Let it out!!!
I'm here say just bawl it out baby.
I'm sitting here saying the same thing man. TAKE YA TIME FAM!!!!
Me too. Let go and let God, Gary
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Dam right ain't nothing wrong with crying, it cleanse the soul.
What a stupid f*** you are!!
I'm sorry for your loss. Sadly sometimes our biggest haters are in our family. Love and prayers sent your way.
Facts
You ain't never lied.
True af..i have family hate me because my personality...my fearlessness..so i always been angry n they hate me more..well what can i do..
I love this dude. He Is
one of the most REAL DUDES I have ever seen..Not a lot of people invite you into their private world. He is a real G. Real gangsters started out as a means to protect fam n friends. Real men don't corrupt their hood. They raise it up.
You ain't NEVA lyin💯 that's why it's best to love them from a distance 🤷♀️
Man you are a beast.
So many comics have a singular angle. “Be funny”.
I love the depth you show here, bring us into your real pain and the tragedy you’ve experienced. Thank you man.
Also May is mental health month, so even though you may not realize it, you sharing your story may inspire others to talk about what’s bothering them.
Thank you man.
alex 99% of comings come from a shit background that’s why they result to comedy.
Great point about the month of May!
@@mattshiznet robin williams said it best- comedy comes from a dark place. He was my idol, and he lost a fight to his darkest demons
That's why we love you
Bro, you are a good person. Sorry for your lost. You made a difference in someone's life, don't you ever forget that.
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"You don't give a heroin addict money"
True talk. Sad, awful, but true.
You also never trust a dope fiend. I'm sorry, man, I sympathize.
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Definitely 1 of my favorite comedians because he keeps it real no matter if it’s funny or emotional he is always 1000. Respect ✊🏽
Exactly. Mine too
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Cry tears are signs of strength! The more you cry the stronger you are!
Who ever gave this a thumbs down needs to be punched in tge face.
God bless you Gary
rs💯
Facts
Came here looking for this comment
Right, like what could possibly be your reasoning to dislike this. It's a human sharing an experience
Probably his older brother, because he got caught in a BOLD FACE LIE, saying Gary was never there for his younger brother, what he says in the letter proves it!!
Thanks for sharing.. I know this will help families.
My aunt died of a drug overdose when I was eight. It always hurts.
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24 years Clean and sober!.
I got tired of Ike whooping
My Azz!.
HEYYYYYY, 24 YEARS BLESSINGSSSSSS
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You Making Your Addiction EAT SUM CAKE YEAH!!(CONGRATULATIONS On Your 24 Years)
Can't make it past the 5:30 mark. It hurts my heart to hear/see men cry. Blessings Gary. May your brother rest in peace.
Men crying and feeling pain, loss, love, empathy is what will save us all in the end. Gary is a truly special man to share this with us. My sympathy, compassion and condolences to him and his family.
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My sibling is on drugs. We cannot give them money. I wish they knew how it feels to have what they need but we know we cannot give it to them. On the outside we seem cold but they place us in an impossible position. My brother had a stroke 3 weeks ago and I just dropped him off at rehab 6 days ago. Im drained.
Damn, i can't even imagine how much that hurts... My prayers are with you and yours....
I wish for you rest and succor you need now. May your path not overwhelm you.
@@alzychoze6591 you dont know how much i needed to reas this at this very moment. Thank you.
I know the feeling. I had gotten to the point of loathing a family member that was hooked on drugs. After an overdose attempt, i flat out told them that if they ever tried that attention seeking behavior again, that I would let them die. We were all tired of that behavior at that point. By the grace of God, after they were released from the hospital they went straight to rehab and has been sober since. I pray that your family member gets the help they need. And I pray that you get help for dealing with all of the damage that they caused you. Pray helps.
I hope your family is doing better...i can definitely understand where you're coming from... its never easy to say no
#GetSome You Got Guts brother! Thank you for sharing.
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Bless up, fam. It's big to show your vulnerable side. Much love from Tampa. Got me crying and shhh... Stay up, G.
Tampa stand up
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Gary...it takes a great man to share their true feelings. Your brother loved you!
I can see how much love Gary had in his heart for his brother. This made me realize how much Ive been neglecting my older brother over the years I need to call him and connect again because you never know what could happen
Damn. This was tough for me to watch without crying but I send all my love to you Gary and your family. #GETSOME
Gary u 1 of my favorite people bro.
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Oh my gosh. That was so moving to watch! 🥺 Nice to see a man express his emotions.
You did your best!! U can't help people that don't want the help no matter what!! God bless u!
Dyanne Rivera i don't even know if he didn't want the help. some people don't know how to receive, you know? it's sad man
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Man I never cry but man this shit was hard to watch. Thanks Gary for sharing the letter!
Gary your brother loved you and appreciated everything you did for him. Tears are because you can still feel that love in his letter. Don't let anyone take thst from you. Its in your heart forever.💜
Up the man always 🥰
My reply is written wrong u are the man always be proud
my baby brother died from HEROIN too, my father also! i am sober myself from alcohol! Life gets better if your reading this do not give up!
Thank you for being so transparent brother God Bless you keep pushing forward
Keeping it real, thanks for sharing Gary...
Gary loves his lil brother man..shit I cried with u Big Bro G..STAY STRONG
Stay strong.
Gary you are so strong for reading your brother's letter..I'm crying
A year later and this hits just as hard as it did then. Gary is a person this world needs right now!
It's hard to see a family member in trouble you do what you can to help but try as much as you can they have to make them selves happy you cannot control their depression. Your Great brother.
Thanks for sharing mr Owen. Sorry for your brother lost. God bless
Whew this tore me up!!! You could tell how broken up Gary is on this, thank you for sharing and being so transparent!!!! You are one of my top five favorite comedians and you are so genuine continue being blessed you and your family!
My guy Gary, love you man...
It never gets easy....I lost my sister 3yrs ago.
Its ok gary...crying cleanses the soul...alot of thoughts..longing...especially in these times.
Reflection prepares you for the future.
thank you for sharing this with the world.
Continue to be greatest you.
So good. I was gushing the moment you started to read. Went through it myself with loved ones and it rips your heart out. Prayers to great men like you sir.
Thank you for sharing, your courage is inspirational, I lost my mother and brother, u know how you feel. Much love Gary
Thank you for being brave enough to share an honestly, touching moment despite it being extremely personal. 🙏🏽
You're a really great person and brother. I cried with you. Peace.
Thanks for being That Big Brother 💪👍 to all of us#here N Mem. TN.
My sister is battling addiction. I feel everything you’re feeling.
BLESSINGS TO YOUR FAMILY
Don't mind your brother, he is jealous. Probably mad at himself, for not being there for Dallas, maybe mad at himself, because he went and ruined his life and needs a shining sun to block and bring darkness to.
Keep doing what you do, because God Bless those who lives for him.
Had some of the same thoughts. The brothers reaction is more about his inadequacy. Based on another interview of Gary's I saw, I'm sure he would still help this brother if he needed it despite what he said about him.
True
In your heart ..you know what u did..no regrets...the other one seems envious..everyone has their own battles..will keep brother Gary O in prayer
I've got 3 brothers and couldn't imagine losing any of them. Gary, you're my favorite comic because you show your human side all the time. So sorry fir the loss of your brother! I can't imagine! You're awesome brother!! Keep up the great work!!
Mr. Owen, Keep your head up and know that our Heavenly Father has you. He has not brought you this far to leave you now. He will continue to give you the strength that you need to heal and help your heart deal. Thank you so much for sharing your story. Drugs have touched everyone in some kind of way. Know that you are loved and will always be loved!!!
im not even a religious guy, but its this type of kindness that makes me ENDLESSLY respect yall. Having so much faith is a beautiful thing, how do you do it?
@@vinny5638 Its respect and trust. Some of the things I have been through in my life could and does break most people. From being raped as a young child and abused by exhusband I had to know that my Heavenly Father wouldn't does this to me. However now that I am older my story has helped so many young and older women.
Gary you did something so many of us wish we could do to help a loved one who needs help. Take comfort in knowing that he knew how much you loved him because you cared enough to help. I'm so sorry for your loss. Be blessed.
I totally feel you on this.... I'm a recovering addict off meth heroin coke ...etc etc.... I'm lucky and I made through so far to almost 7 years clean... It actually hurt me watching you read that letter .. I cried with you... may God bless you and your family .. I'm so sorry for your loss
Congrats on being clean keep that momentum!!! I know COVID has been crazy and can be hard on ppl and their mental state and progression. Praying for you continued strength and momentum
If youre telling the truth bravo. keep it going, and congrats. the hardest thing to do ever. if this is a bullshit post. fuck you!
I have no words. Just feelings. I want to just hug you, with tears rolling down my face.
I'm so sorry for your loss Gary... I was choking up myself. I could tell this was extremely hard for you to share but you did. You are helping others realize this is not an easy addiction to let go of but if they keep fighting the battle within to want they will win...very hard but it can be done. God bless you Gary & your family. You did everything you possibly could for your brother remember that and don't ever feel like you didn't. You have a beautiful heart.
Gary your letter
was everything!
Bless you
sweetheart 😢
Thanks for sharing your brother with us. May he rest! 🙏🏿🙏🏿
Damn bro that had me in tears you is real as they come. Gary hold it down like an anvil and rocks like asphalt. Big Ups bro
Sounds cool & I’m glad your opening up about your families journey.🙏🏽
God Bless you bro! It's always hard to see a loved ones go through this. Your a good man Mr. Owen.
This is my first time seeing this. Thank you Gary for sharing this moment. You didn't have to, but I'm sure I'm not the only one who can appreciate you allowing us to witness such a vulnerable moment. This shines light on how addiction affects so many people in different ways. I will pray that God can continue to give you the fortitude and solace that you need. Blessings.
Your brother loved you Gary., the emotion is real in this vid. Thanks for sharing.
G-man, your a real one bro. Feel your pain! Keep the positive energy up, God Bless man
I got 4 and 1/2 years brother it never gets easier thanks for the video I needed this today
BLESSINGS TO YOU
Man this hurts to watch. Having been in your brother’s position before, this just rips me apart.
That letter made me cry. I’m glad you have it. Sorry for your loss.
I lost my brother to a heroin overdose when he was in his early 30s and i understand the pain Gary. Thanks for sharing with us. It helps us all but most importantly it helps you!
Gary Owen ! ! !
You got ppl HERE that watch you and we look up to you TOO
And thank you sooo much for helping your brother that really means A lot !!!
We Love you Gary !!!!
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You are brave for sharing that. You know he meant those words. Ive been clean for 7years but the most truthful i got with my family were those first letters💜💜💜💜💜 Your doing great by sharing his story
I only recently discovered you. You have been a joy to watch and laugh with. Today you made me cry. It is so hard living with someone with an addiction. You cling to any glimmer of hope to get through. Heart feels like it is being crushed 24/7. You were a great big brother.
I am crying with you Gary...I know it's hard to read that letter. We all Thank you for sharing and for being who you are. Gary, stay strong Our Brother.
That was SO touching Gary! Thanks for sharing that with us. You are an awesome person and a great Big Brother! God bless you
You are a great man, and a greater brother. Dallas knows the love you have for him and it sounds like he had as much love for you. Thanks for sharing and stay funny!
I'm so sorry for your loss! But please know that you are very good person. An awesome big brother. And a PHENOMENAL comedian. God bless you. 🙌
Now that’s the brotherly love EVERYBODY should be blessed enough to have. I’m not sure why this made me cry, but you never know what someone has to deal with in their lives. My God. I have a newfound respect for Gary. God bless you.
You are an awesome brother!! Like my three brothers and one sister that have passed away. God bless you!!
Who’s choppy onions dammmit. 😭
Love u Gary ❤️ and thanks for sharing your story!!!
Bless your heart........that was so sincere and such a sweet letter. May Dallas' spirit continue to live on through you all.
man this guy has a heart of gold... im crying at my PC at work right now
Me too😥
I know it's hard bro. I lost one of my lil brothers 3 months ago. Pain like I can't even imagine. Stay strong man.
Thank you for sharing. It takes a lot to be open and talk about your brother. I dealt with the same situation with my brother and he as well lost his battle with the addiction. Thank you 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️
Powerful! I always been a fan of Gary Owens and Im hooked to the end. What a great person and comedian.
Man, I can't imagine going through what he went through. Had tears listening to this. Thanks for sharing Gary we the fans love you.
I lost my brother three years ago and I'll never forget the last time he looked me in the eyes. Sorry for your loss.
Discovered you some weeks ago. And now this, at one of my very lowest moments in life... Thank you for sharing!
I cried along with you... losing a sibling is super Hard and that pain never leaves you... you just learn to live with it being there. I lost my brother in 2008 and it still hurts like it was yesterday. Hope things get better for you (i know ur going through some stuff now too) keep your head up
Good bless you man , I just lost my mother March 13 omg stay strong
YACKIM25 you stay strong too man. I couldn’t imagine losing my mom
This just goes to show that you are not just Gary owen the comic you are Gary Owen the human! We all have a story most hide it you are transparent when you feel the need!God bless you
I know right!! Just seeing this and he messed me up for the rest of the day! 😢😢😢
Much love gary.. Thank you for sharing brother
I know what you are going through. You are a great man. Thanks for being a great brother. Much love and respect!!!
damn this was heart breaking god bless you gary
Thanks Gary for sharing, it will be 3 years in September for me. From Ohio as well, sorry for your families loss.
Be strong Gary, Much respect goes out to u man...
This took so much strength. I commend you Gary!! You have such a beautiful heart ❤
Omg Gary Thanks for sharing with us. I can hear how much u loved him.God Bless u
I know you had much love and supported your little brother. Sorry for your loss and God Bless you.
You are by far my favorite comic Gary. Seeing this side of you is something I really respect. I love my brothers very much and would do everything I could just like you did. Also don't listen to negative people, you know where you stand and you don't gotta prove yourself to anyone.
Don't let that jealous brother question your worth god knows the truth and we clearly see your beautiful heart keep strong 😊
Thank you for your story; I appreciate you sharing moments of the love you have for Dallas. Tell him hello from Kim. Peace and love.💜
I still cry like a baby watching this. Much hugs on the 20th.
I'm over here crying 😭. You did what you could. Addiction is hard for families 💔🙏
I lost my brother two years ago. He was my little brother as well. I feel your pain brotha. You and your brother know the love between you 2 will be there forever ❤❤❤
ADDICTION RUNS IN MY FAMILY! IT'S A HARD THING TO GET THROUGH! I HAVE BEEN SOBER FOR ALMOST 22 YEARS! YOUR BROTHER PASSED ON MY BIRTHDAY GARY! MY SON IS GETTING CLEAN THEN GOING BACK TO IT! I AM THE FIRST ONE HE CALLS WHEN HE RELAPSES! HE LIVES IN JERSEY I LIVE IN NC..I HAVEN'T HEARD FROM HIM FOR A WHILE!! I PRAY FOR HIM EVERYDAY!! 😢😢😢
Thank you for sharing Gary sorry for your loss. Much love
Respect bro! I can relate
I can tell you love him ,a brothers bond is special my respect for you grew so much today when you read that letter you could see into your kind heart wish u the best Gary 🙏