I love this lady. But I'm very disappointed that in 2023 she is still blaming the white man f or the blk man's failure to his woman an his c ommunity. Miss me with this. Itz nonsense at this point. I'm so disappointed. Stop making excuses for blk men loving fuck shit over blk women, children and his community.
❤❤❤ S Ali is on another level . I must get Ur books coz av never heard of U. Everything Ir saying is true. Ali S. Ur a HEBREW & IS TRUE THE PERSECUTION ON HEBREWS ( WHITE SUPREMACY) IS REAL BUH WE R THEM WINNERS. AND IS TRUE 2, WE GOT REAL GOD FORM" FEEL" BUH THEM 🤨🤔,PURE BEASTS THAT'S WHY THE $=× TREND IS 2
That wasn’t even the question and y’all are so blind you don’t even realize that she completely ignored what was asked just so she could throw some shade on this man smh
This woman brings out the child in me as a Black Man. She reminds me of a friend's mother who would make breakfast Saturday morning, ask you about your schooling, and treat you better than family. She is such a sweet woman, she makes you wanna disarm yourself with her kind nature.
This is what's wrong with black people, and why Kevin's message was so useless. It was based on "convincing" and "teaching" black women to act right, which is only the job of black women, not men. A black man rules with strength. A black man should never even talk to a western woman, until he has a foothold in this country's system, which the black population is more than large enough to achieve.
@Sex view Are porn bothering you not sex trafficking not puberty blockers not child marriage not sexual transmitted diseases etc regardless of conservative or liberal view needs awareness not judgement in personal development and healthy relationship.
we will win for sure, the only thing we need to do, is to keep the commandments of God, I left with these verses from the Bible, Isaiah 14:1 For the LORD will have mercy on Jacob, and will yet choose Israel, and set them in their own land: and the strangers shall be joined with them, and they shall cleave to the house of Jacob. Isaiah 14:2 And the people shall take them, and bring them to their place: and the house of Israel shall possess them in the land of the LORD for servants and handmaids: and they shall take them captives, whose captives they were; and they shall rule over their oppressors. 2 Thessalonians 1:6 Seeing it is a righteous thing with God to recompense tribulation to them that trouble you; Revelation 13:10 He that leadeth into captivity shall go into captivity: he that killeth with the sword must be killed with the sword. Here is the patience and the faith of the saints.
I was listening to QueenMother as a young wife, and I respected and took in EVERY word, not just the words that benefited me. I just wish that I had heard her as a teen because I would have established a more positive attitude toward the adversities I was facing as a black teen in the south trying to further my education, etc
And also tell her to stop appropriating history of ancient Egypt by wearing a pharaonic hat. Her ancestors were from SUBSAHARAN Africa and despite fabricated fairytales she tells all the time , there was NO black civilization anywhere outside of subsaharan Africa.
@@st3019Mr. Imhotep here on RUclips is your worst enemy. Go spew that nonsense over there so you can look bewildered by the truth. You won't do that though because 🐄 wards are afraid of the truth.
I love this woman. ❤❤❤ I wish she would get her own platform and speak to us using modern technology instead of just through books. She is greatly needed.
She's an old woman in a funny hat, and it makes sense she coached the feminist Kevin Samuel's. These people are about trying to get you to work within the system of slavery. They will NEVER preach some 1776 speech that gets you to turn on your slave owners. A bunch of useless buffoonery that makes you feel good 🙄
We have been blessed to have this Queen in our midst, publicly, for nearly 35 years. We should NOT take that for granted. It’s a shame that we didn’t get a chance to see This Queen and the godfather work to, get as they had planned on doing.
@@Yay-hovah Kevin was spreading useless nonsense. Whenever you have to "convince" your women to act right, it means your race is dead. He seemed like a nice guy, but his 1st wave feminist views and ignorance, only helped the extremely small percent of black women who think with logic rather than emotions, and even they leave logic eventually for their natural ways
I definitely appreciate her positive and uplifting message. Sadly,this abominational sexual dysfunctional behavior is not going too pass,as a matter of fact, it's only going to get worse. We are truly living in the last days.🧐🙏🏽
Christ said when he comes back he’s treading the wine press meaning there will be lots of bloodshed. Christ a black man is gangstah, Christians destroy the scriptures but when you read what God will do when he sends his son to destroy the nations and save us which is ultimately the gospel. Isaiah 61:1 The Spirit of the Lord GOD is upon me; because the LORD hath anointed me to preach good tidings unto the meek; he hath sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives, and the opening of the prison to them that are bound. We are the captives and the nations profit off our misery but Christ will come back and destroy all of them. Isaiah 63:3 “I have trodden the winepress alone; from the nations no one was with me. I trampled them in my anger and trod them down in my wrath; their blood spattered my garments, and I stained all my clothing.
This waiting for God is the reason we will never be truly free. Bible is given to blacks for them to buy time. It’s working, because you are waisting time doing nothing @@nashambenyisrael7689
I've been listening to this sister for decades, and her words of wisdom still resonate with me as a proud middle-aged Haitian-American man! May God bless her. We need to hear more from her. She's a woman of class, wisdom, strength, substance, and compassion! Although, I will say that her laughing at brother Kevin Samuel's passing was disgusting! I think that she sounds envious of the impact that he had on society.
You should disapprove of men who groom women to allow intimate abuse of children and a man who promotes domestic violence. Only a desperate mammy would follow him.
Her delivery will unspire you to change. Kevin Samuels will shame and berate you to do something different. It all depends on how you feel about yourself. What you telling yourself and what you believe about yourself. Wimen that start with extremely low self-esteem feel validated by Kevins words. The put down id familiar to what we see hear and have been shown by others and our selves.
I love listening to her She’s phenomenal makes you understand your true value & worth as a Black Man & woman she been speaking the message for decades ✊🏿✊🏿
"We are living in trends." This is so true. I enjoy listening to my elder because I don't hear any of my close elders speak on these matters that edify, elevate and enlighten my awareness of self and who i am.
The same goes for women!!! You'll never see an attractive "high value" man with an ugly woman!!! We men also need to start accepting accountability for certain narratives as well.... There are plenty of good women out there that get overlooked, and as Kevin said... "will die alone" because they aren't attractive enough. Oh, but as men we will sleep around irresponsibly with those types of women, and potentially create broken families just because we're horny and it was easy... and then blame them for our lack of self control!!!
That was pressure right there. Heavy. I luv that sister. The OG in the diagnosis of the broken social contract between ABW and FBA men. Much respect to our beloved sister Sharazad Ali. RIP to our dear brother KS 🙏🏿
What is brilliant about anything she said? Sounds like a lot of pseudo scientific stuff that rooted in Black people being damaged because of past degradation.
Just to be clear. I'm only aware of her teachings and I'm only watching this video because of Kevin Samuel's. In case she wasn't aware he did introduce her work to a new audience. Respect to her and KS rest in peace!
Thank you for informing those of us who didn't know. I'm very familiar with Shahrazad Ali and I came to know Kevin Samuels before his murder. They were/are both correct and had/have love for us.
@thatsbrujaafrikana KS offended certain women and the men who love them, and they set him up with his "preference". Assassination by a sex worker is a tactic as old as time.
I would definitely say he was successful. At minimum, he made this a conversation in the community and world at large, where prior it wasnt even something you could talk about with being canceled. In truth i had no idea who ms. Ali was till Kevin.
It's being too soft and civilized that has led to the breakdown of the discourse between men and women. As K-Sam used to say, and I'll paraphrase, "The tone police will never acknowledge that style or delivery make practically no difference when the message is 'too true' to be received. Whether you're soft as cotton or as hard as nails, folks will fight with facts and data." K-Sam told no lies about that.
Ive spent 1 yeat straight listening to KS as he transformed my life live but i somehow missed this qoute. Damn it so true, i snapped it and saved it on my phone. Thank you.
Exactly! I was thrown off on what she said because she did the exact same thing he was doing too back then. This goes back to one of Kevin Samuels viral clip him talking to that male simp with the white shirt…Kevin told him that gentle approach never work & name a male figure that use that approach and was successful talking to BW
@@thegodblogger3812 I love shahrazad Ali, but she was being disingenuous about KS & me think I wish KS would never give people credit if they was gonna downplay him or his work.
@@mikeawesome6979 Him giving credit is fine. He couldn't know up front who would be genuine or not. This Ali person, like many, many people criticized K-Sams's delivery. I repeat: hard or soft, fools will reject solid advice.
@eboniemm1 - This conversation had been going on since the 70's. Just because it wasn't seen on national television shows and Black R&B radio stations, does not mean it did not exist. It was unpopular, and many programs, to include PBS dared not to insult Black female viewers and donors. The difference with RUclips, there was too much money on the line for RUclips's executives to get involve in censorship of the material due to the possible backlash and lost ad revenue.
Many Black women say, "I'm just being real!" Or "Get real" or something similar and it's often just used as an opportunity to trash someone or something. Well, this is real; real talk, real wisdom, real understanding. This woman clearly explains the damage done to Black people and how we operate and perpetuate this on a daily basis. I wish more would see the truth in what she speaks, to understand, and to do better!
Thank you sis . It's not affection. I get looked at funny and pressed.. I don't like spit on me nor nothing near my butthole but soap, water, rag, and tissue 😂
@@zakariyyamccullin1005 it truly is! And it’s to the point where you don’t even want to share your traditional values or practices because folks will “you’re a pick me” or “this is 2023” you to death! It’s ok the, the over population of the world is gonna right itself... wether you believe The Word (The Rapture) or science (running joke of convergent evolution that were all going to evolve into crabs anyway), it’ll all be over sooner than we think.
Kevin was very successful. His platform was not for the women. It was to make men aware of how women think, how to avoid those type of women and how to take pride in oneself by living up to our fullest potential. In that sense he was very very very successful. The Queen definitely inspired him but he inspired men like she could never do. Kevin also influenced women who are willing to listen and hear his point of view. The problem is that most women who did catch the bull by the horns were the types of women who don’t respect nor recognize a real man or who would double down on their ignorance, and no matter how you speak to them and tell them they would not listen. Most of Kevin‘s conversation started off quite tame, but due to women, lying, redirecting, and trying to place blame on men with zero accountability Kevin often called bullshit. And rightfully so.
100% spot on. He inspired me to go to therapy which helped me get over a lot of my childhood "trauma". He inspired me to want to dress better. Most surprising of all, he inspired me to not totally give up on black women when I had all but done so in the past. Most of my life I've been called an "Uncle Tom" by black people because I hung out with white people and didn't buy into the victim mentality that most blacks have. The majority of my interactions with black women (especially my own mother and sister) have been largely negative and parasitic. The best treatment I ever got from a woman was from a white woman in medical school. She would cook for me, drive 100+ miles to see me, send me my favorite snacks, and anticipate my needs. The best treatment I ever got from a black woman was one who was considerate enough to share her leftover food with me. Seeing Kevin speak with the few black women who were receptive to what he had to say gave me a little more patience when dealing with black women. And him mentioning that most men want to see their son share their on reflection made me wonder "What if?"
he was more successful than she ever was.. he was the greatest of all time she could never touch that in a million years.. when he said he was gonna take over as the male version of Oprah he wasn't lying.
I absolutely love her speaking nothing but facts I remember my mom and dad used to follow her as a kid this is a great show we need to have more people like that speaking out to try to save the black race most of all to save the black family unit
generalizing is the trait of weak men, deflecting their problems on others.. i am the absolutely leader of my entire family, i am at the forefront of all my families battles, i have even surpassed my father and he calls me, my grandmothers see me as the leader, my siblings and my mother.. my children and the community i live in.. its 100 your fault if your not lviing this kind of life.. stop projecting.. i cannot relate to niggas like you.. get on my level..
We do need these conversations. But I'm tired b of hearing about blk men choosing to be slaves back in tha day. Can we please have a conversation bm about blk men from year 1990 an up?? Why are they doing the fuck shit they are doing are doing today??? From what I have learned. The last time the bm acted like he had some sense was when the white man had his foot on his neck an was kicking that ass. Once he allowed the bm to be men. Took his foot off your neck. And what did the blk man do??? Proved to the wht man that he was a BOY 1/3rd of a man like they said you were.
It’s taken me some 10 years after her interview on Donahue to full appreciate most or all of her powerful messages and truth this sistah has put out! Take heed!
I appreciate how Iyanla stood up to her and condemned this woman's words for the damage that they have caused. One size does not fit all with Black women and her rhetoric is dangerous for those women who are God fearing, respectable Black queens. She didn't delineate much in her book at all and this rhetoric allows a man who is hurt from childhood or has other valid issues with women to potentially become a dominating abuser. Her message is not a complete and healing msg though some parts are applicable to some or even many women. Every tree has a root. She didn't speak to the roots, she spoke to the symptoms in a castigating way. I mean you peace, sister..no harm with my comment. This is more of a vent and redirection. But as we all know, we all have a right to choose what and who we entertain. Be well. 👁️Peace.
Great interview thats needed today, much love to Elder Ali, one of our Master teachers for her life long dedication to us blacks with proven solution for most of our ills in Black America in a white supremacist world.
I watched Kevin's videos. There was nothing wrong with his approach. All he did was be honest. Ppl was mad at the truth. Society likes to be sugar-coated sweet candy
I find it intresting people like you criticize Kevin's approach but have zero issues with the misandry and disrespect from the woman's end that warranted what you call a "harsh" response in the first place. Give it a rest they are grown disrespectful woman not babies
I HONESTLY BOUGHT THIS QUEENS BOOK PRIOR TO KEVIN SAMUELS. SHE IS THE BLUE PRINT. - A Black Woman's Guide To Understanding The Black Man. 🌟👑💫 #Queen #123 🦋✨
Its ironic how she dances around the question but the RUclips algorithms introduced me to her through Kevin Samuel's channel. Nothing wrong with that and it doesnt detract from her work and contributions. We understand that her work is on a different level but there is no denying the algorithms 😊
Sharazads appearances on Donahue, Geraldo, and Montell Williams have been going viral since the beginning of RUclips. She didn't dance around anything. She's been viral since the 90s selling millions of books hand to hand.
@@georgehoustonofficial Two things can be true at the same time. I speak for myself. "I Never Knew" of her until I started watching Kevin Samuels on RUclips and then her Donahue interview popped up in my recommendations. That doesnt dimiinish her impact nor does it change the fact that her videos were doing the rounds before KS.
To her credit she admitted something positive about the late Kevin Samuels I was becoming concerned . But her admittance that it helped black men learn they had worth is an important step for our race . The powers that be prefer the women of our race continue to be looked at as our leaders and now it's finally changing back thanks to the late Godfather Kevin Samuels
No it's not. Black men are NOT leaders. Black women are the leaders and the whole world knows this. Black men will never get credit for the work that Black women do. Making multiple kids by different women, disrespecting women, cheatinh on women, committing crimes, going to prison, being down low, not paying 100% of the bills, not working, living off of a woman, having bad credit, etc., will never make a man a leader. Never.
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Brother, what is the name of that song you play in the background of this channel?
Preach 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
I love this lady. But I'm very disappointed that in 2023 she is still blaming the white man f or the blk man's failure to his woman an his c ommunity. Miss me with this. Itz nonsense at this point. I'm so disappointed. Stop making excuses for blk men loving fuck shit over blk women, children and his community.
❤❤❤ S Ali is on another level . I must get Ur books coz av never heard of U. Everything Ir saying is true. Ali S. Ur a HEBREW & IS TRUE THE PERSECUTION ON HEBREWS ( WHITE SUPREMACY) IS REAL BUH WE R THEM WINNERS. AND IS TRUE 2, WE GOT REAL GOD FORM" FEEL" BUH THEM 🤨🤔,PURE BEASTS THAT'S WHY THE $=× TREND IS 2
@@INEVERKNEWTV ok sure.
"No, I didnt agree with Kevin Samuels, he agreed with me . " Facts.
And SHE agreed with the honorable Elijah Muhammad and that of the will of Allah
I love when she said that too! 🙌🏾
That wasn’t even the question and y’all are so blind you don’t even realize that she completely ignored what was asked just so she could throw some shade on this man smh
@@Bodybagbartexactly
Says she didn’t agree with Kevin Samuels then continued to agree with Kevin Samuels.
This woman brings out the child in me as a Black Man. She reminds me of a friend's mother who would make breakfast Saturday morning, ask you about your schooling, and treat you better than family. She is such a sweet woman, she makes you wanna disarm yourself with her kind nature.
Ik what you mean Bro
I said the same thing the very first time I visited her at her home.
It’s called true femininity. The woman’s true power
I’ve been listening to the queen mother for years and I couldn’t have put it any better.
Man you said exactly what I was thinking. Fact 🎯
Hearing a women speak like this is powerful
This is what's wrong with black people, and why Kevin's message was so useless.
It was based on "convincing" and "teaching" black women to act right, which is only the job of black women, not men.
A black man rules with strength. A black man should never even talk to a western woman, until he has a foothold in this country's system, which the black population is more than large enough to achieve.
That's not a woman....that's an EMPRESS ❤
My Thoughts Exactly!!
Legend
Just rare , relax
Porn is slowly destroying people’s minds billions of people watch porn that’s why you’re seeing all these sex trends she’s speaking about 🤷🏿♂️
No, BW are watching porn and copying what they see..
@Sex view Are porn bothering you not sex trafficking not puberty blockers not child marriage not sexual transmitted diseases etc regardless of conservative or liberal view needs awareness not judgement in personal development and healthy relationship.
Watching porn isn't the problem, and not everyone who engages in watching porn has a "messed up mind".
@@FreedomBiafrayes they do, you just trynna justify
It don't influence me. People just be watching the categories that are way far outfield.
Her comments about sexual perversion are so very true. I'm glad someone is saying it!
we will win for sure, the only thing we need to do, is to keep the commandments of God, I left with these verses from the Bible, Isaiah 14:1 For the LORD will have mercy on Jacob, and will yet choose Israel, and set them in their own land: and the strangers shall be joined with them, and they shall cleave to the house of Jacob.
Isaiah 14:2 And the people shall take them, and bring them to their place: and the house of Israel shall possess them in the land of the LORD for servants and handmaids: and they shall take them captives, whose captives they were; and they shall rule over their oppressors. 2 Thessalonians 1:6 Seeing it is a righteous thing with God to recompense tribulation to them that trouble you; Revelation 13:10 He that leadeth into captivity shall go into captivity: he that killeth with the sword must be killed with the sword. Here is the patience and the faith of the saints.
I’m glad she’s still around to tell the truth 🌹
I was listening to QueenMother as a young wife, and I respected and took in EVERY word, not just the words that benefited me. I just wish that I had heard her as a teen because I would have established a more positive attitude toward the adversities I was facing as a black teen in the south trying to further my education, etc
Protect this woman at all costs! Nuff respect to Sister Sharazad Ali.
Big facts ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽
And also tell her to stop appropriating history of ancient Egypt by wearing a pharaonic hat. Her ancestors were from SUBSAHARAN Africa and despite fabricated fairytales she tells all the time , there was NO black civilization anywhere outside of subsaharan Africa.
@@st3019Mr. Imhotep here on RUclips is your worst enemy. Go spew that nonsense over there so you can look bewildered by the truth. You won't do that though because 🐄 wards are afraid of the truth.
@@st3019😅😂😅 Arabic invasion 639 A.D.
@@st3019how do you know where her ancestors are from? Furthermore, why don't you reach out to her and tell her yourself?
I love this woman. ❤❤❤ I wish she would get her own platform and speak to us using modern technology instead of just through books. She is greatly needed.
need to hide knowledge from a negro, put it in a book
She's an old woman in a funny hat, and it makes sense she coached the feminist Kevin Samuel's. These people are about trying to get you to work within the system of slavery.
They will NEVER preach some 1776 speech that gets you to turn on your slave owners. A bunch of useless buffoonery that makes you feel good 🙄
She moves in God's time.
modern technology is the beast life she's talking about. Books are Golden.
She’s been here for 25 yrs plus
U can always spread her information in ur gentle sweet voice
Powerful Queen speaking truth for over 30 plus years! We better pay attention!
She’s amazing! 💯💯💯
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😂😂😂
We have been blessed to have this Queen in our midst, publicly, for nearly 35 years. We should NOT take that for granted.
It’s a shame that we didn’t get a chance to see This Queen and the godfather work to, get as they had planned on doing.
The devil didn’t want that to happen because it would’ve been too powerful.
@@Yay-hovah Kevin was spreading useless nonsense. Whenever you have to "convince" your women to act right, it means your race is dead.
He seemed like a nice guy, but his 1st wave feminist views and ignorance, only helped the extremely small percent of black women who think with logic rather than emotions, and even they leave logic eventually for their natural ways
Every women is not a queen. Why yall say that?
@@jemilsense3972every one ain’t this one is
@@jemilsense3972 It’s a term of reverence that Black men used to address Black women they respect.
I definitely appreciate her positive and uplifting message. Sadly,this abominational sexual dysfunctional behavior is not going too pass,as a matter of fact, it's only going to get worse. We are truly living in the last days.🧐🙏🏽
She's still correct even if it gets worse, as the word confirms that the last days too will end at some point.
We have to Stop embracing it and and accepting it
True Indeed
Exactly!!
Last days of what??? The end of time??😂
She said because everything that they stand for is designed to destroy us . BARS ! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Everything? Sounds like some accountability issues there
Very Accurate!!
She doesn't seem to like Kevin Samuels personally 😒 but was willing to work with him. This would have been interesting 🤔🔥
A woman for you
@@BigMan1012-kp9lp💯
That last part where she said who will pay the enemy back for what he has done to us, is something i wait patiently for each day
I believe she said "GOD" would payback the enemy!!!!!
Christ said when he comes back he’s treading the wine press meaning there will be lots of bloodshed. Christ a black man is gangstah, Christians destroy the scriptures but when you read what God will do when he sends his son to destroy the nations and save us which is ultimately the gospel.
Isaiah 61:1
The Spirit of the Lord GOD is upon me; because the LORD hath anointed me to preach good tidings unto the meek; he hath sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim liberty to the captives, and the opening of the prison to them that are bound.
We are the captives and the nations profit off our misery but Christ will come back and destroy all of them.
Isaiah 63:3
“I have trodden the winepress alone; from the nations no one was with me. I trampled them in my anger and trod them down in my wrath; their blood spattered my garments, and I stained all my clothing.
you have to be the one to do it
@@HarVeyOnyTayLorThese 'males' are scared so they hide behind scriptures and religion to tuck away their cowardice.
This waiting for God is the reason we will never be truly free. Bible is given to blacks for them to buy time. It’s working, because you are waisting time doing nothing @@nashambenyisrael7689
We have to hear more. Please keep spreading her message. We have to end this cycle of ignorance and oppression now
I've been listening to this sister for decades, and her words of wisdom still resonate with me as a proud middle-aged Haitian-American man! May God bless her. We need to hear more from her.
She's a woman of class, wisdom, strength, substance, and compassion!
Although, I will say that her laughing at brother Kevin Samuel's passing was disgusting! I think that she sounds envious of the impact that he had on society.
There not Alot of young carbon women to show us young men class, and wisdom.
@@garrettcole2251 Carbon women? What is that? Please tell me it doesn't mean melanin?
@@jayd2856 bruh Carbon means coal colored in kemetry, chemistry
@@garrettcole2251 oh ok, it's not just the dark skinned ones not showing class
I sure wish she Would have A podcast or a you tube channel to really drill her message
Protect this woman at all cost.
How?
She Is Such A Jewel!
Wise, Classy & Always On Point 👏!
My sister still speaking nothing but truth GOD BLESS HER 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿💯💯💯💯
I grew up on this lady. Thank you for showcasing her.
As a woman Kevin Samuels has changed my life. I had to reflect on my innner self and improve. Not all black women hate Kevin 💕
👍👍👏👏👏
I agree but I also agree with this Mother - his delivery was unnecessary.
You should disapprove of men who groom women to allow intimate abuse of children and a man who promotes domestic violence. Only a desperate mammy would follow him.
Her delivery will unspire you to change. Kevin Samuels will shame and berate you to do something different. It all depends on how you feel about yourself. What you telling yourself and what you believe about yourself. Wimen that start with extremely low self-esteem feel validated by Kevins words. The put down id familiar to what we see hear and have been shown by others and our selves.
@@mattieballard6587 That is absolutely right.
I love listening to her She’s phenomenal makes you understand your true value & worth as a Black Man & woman she been speaking the message for decades ✊🏿✊🏿
Mannnnn, it is so cool seeing this woman still out here dropping knowledge and helping Black people. We love you, Queen♥️💯👍
I LOVE HOW WHEN ASKED A QUESTION SHE ANSWERS WITH WHAT SHE THINKS NOT HOW SHE FEELS!!! SALUTE QUEEN!!! 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
"We are living in trends." This is so true. I enjoy listening to my elder because I don't hear any of my close elders speak on these matters that edify, elevate and enlighten my awareness of self and who i am.
What are young black women minds today. Please spill the beans
Me either. But I do, them. And most everyone I come across. Most minds are closed to this type of conversation
You tube finally recommended something with substance ❤
I liked her when I was a teenager. Scientific in her approach.
Very strong sister. Been studying her for decades.
Sister Sharazad👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿 Can't help but love her!!!!!! Thank Allah for the Sister!!!!!!
Man this just gave me chills and energy at the same time.
I wish she knew how much love and respect I have for her!
She is still here blessing us with wisdom. Real men who arent the most attractive arent being appreciated.
Ugly features doesn’t go far in this world sorry
The same goes for women!!! You'll never see an attractive "high value" man with an ugly woman!!! We men also need to start accepting accountability for certain narratives as well.... There are plenty of good women out there that get overlooked, and as Kevin said... "will die alone" because they aren't attractive enough. Oh, but as men we will sleep around irresponsibly with those types of women, and potentially create broken families just because we're horny and it was easy... and then blame them for our lack of self control!!!
That was pressure right there. Heavy. I luv that sister. The OG in the diagnosis of the broken social contract between ABW and FBA men. Much respect to our beloved sister Sharazad Ali. RIP to our dear brother KS 🙏🏿
I be saying the same thing. When did these trends became acceptable and "normal"?
Im glad i wasnt the only one that thought that way
Love the elder. Disagree with a number of things she said/says, but she has a great deal of respect from me
Same here. Much respect to Elder Ali, though.
I do not always agree with her commentary, but this interview shows her brilliance!
What is brilliant about anything she said? Sounds like a lot of pseudo scientific stuff that rooted in Black people being damaged because of past degradation.
I don’t agree with any of it. But she’s eloquent.
Well Jezebel wouldn't agree with it either
Just to be clear. I'm only aware of her teachings and I'm only watching this video because of Kevin Samuel's. In case she wasn't aware he did introduce her work to a new audience.
Respect to her and KS rest in peace!
Thank you for informing those of us who didn't know.
I'm very familiar with Shahrazad Ali and I came to know Kevin Samuels before his murder.
They were/are both correct and had/have love for us.
@@twitterblackdoveSo glad you called his death what it is .... a murder.
R I P K S..
@thatsbrujaafrikana
KS offended certain women and the men who love them, and they set him up with his "preference".
Assassination by a sex worker is a tactic as old as time.
@@twitterblackdoveLMAO I'm so tired of black men kevin set his self up with his lies and energy drinks
@@charlene6044He was the most popular out of many. The truth hurts. It’s ok
🎯🎯💯💯 I 100% ❤ this woman!
Great Queen full of wisdom!! I have learned so much from her!!! Thanks Queen!
She speaking 🗣️ some TRUTH.
I love hearing her speak, it reminds me of my Grandma 👵🏽. 💯
She is sooooo wise! I can listen to her speak all day. Very inspiring.
I would definitely say he was successful. At minimum, he made this a conversation in the community and world at large, where prior it wasnt even something you could talk about with being canceled. In truth i had no idea who ms. Ali was till Kevin.
She talked about amazing topics. I love her speaking
She is a treasure if only people can actually listen they can hear the message
I’ve always liked her messages and i liked Kevin Samuel’s and i like how she expressed her disagreement of his approach without disrespecting him
It's being too soft and civilized that has led to the breakdown of the discourse between men and women. As K-Sam used to say, and I'll paraphrase, "The tone police will never acknowledge that style or delivery make practically no difference when the message is 'too true' to be received. Whether you're soft as cotton or as hard as nails, folks will fight with facts and data." K-Sam told no lies about that.
Ive spent 1 yeat straight listening to KS as he transformed my life live but i somehow missed this qoute. Damn it so true, i snapped it and saved it on my phone. Thank you.
Exactly! I was thrown off on what she said because she did the exact same thing he was doing too back then. This goes back to one of Kevin Samuels viral clip him talking to that male simp with the white shirt…Kevin told him that gentle approach never work & name a male figure that use that approach and was successful talking to BW
@@mikeawesome6979 You tell no lies!
@@thegodblogger3812 I love shahrazad Ali, but she was being disingenuous about KS & me think I wish KS would never give people credit if they was gonna downplay him or his work.
@@mikeawesome6979 Him giving credit is fine. He couldn't know up front who would be genuine or not. This Ali person, like many, many people criticized K-Sams's delivery. I repeat: hard or soft, fools will reject solid advice.
I believed KS sparked having the conversation about how men think. He definitely have impacted the community
@eboniemm1 -
This conversation had been going on since the 70's. Just because it wasn't seen on national television shows and Black R&B radio stations, does not mean it did not exist. It was unpopular, and many programs, to include PBS dared not to insult Black female viewers and donors. The difference with RUclips, there was too much money on the line for RUclips's executives to get involve in censorship of the material due to the possible backlash and lost ad revenue.
I get what you were trying to say, and I agree.
Many Black women say, "I'm just being real!" Or "Get real" or something similar and it's often just used as an opportunity to trash someone or something. Well, this is real; real talk, real wisdom, real understanding. This woman clearly explains the damage done to Black people and how we operate and perpetuate this on a daily basis. I wish more would see the truth in what she speaks, to understand, and to do better!
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Exactly
Thank you sis . It's not affection. I get looked at funny and pressed.. I don't like spit on me nor nothing near my butthole but soap, water, rag, and tissue 😂
I never understood that fetish. That has to be the nastiest shit ever.
Yes ma’am! You don’t even see real affection these days. I don’t even see PDA anymore between couples.
@kitcowool It’s a damn shame things have come to this.
@@zakariyyamccullin1005 it truly is! And it’s to the point where you don’t even want to share your traditional values or practices because folks will “you’re a pick me” or “this is 2023” you to death! It’s ok the, the over population of the world is gonna right itself... wether you believe The Word (The Rapture) or science (running joke of convergent evolution that were all going to evolve into crabs anyway), it’ll all be over sooner than we think.
Queen,
Love is real, i don't know her personally, thou I can say that "i love Shahrazad Ali" ❤
The sad thing is everything she said years ago was so right about the black women
Lol the hood black women you deal with.
I’m so glad she knows her impact on society! 🎉🎉
Kevin was very successful. His platform was not for the women. It was to make men aware of how women think, how to avoid those type of women and how to take pride in oneself by living up to our fullest potential. In that sense he was very very very successful. The Queen definitely inspired him but he inspired men like she could never do.
Kevin also influenced women who are willing to listen and hear his point of view. The problem is that most women who did catch the bull by the horns were the types of women who don’t respect nor recognize a real man or who would double down on their ignorance, and no matter how you speak to them and tell them they would not listen. Most of Kevin‘s conversation started off quite tame, but due to women, lying, redirecting, and trying to place blame on men with zero accountability Kevin often called bullshit. And rightfully so.
Comment of the week. Very accurate observation of his message.
Exactly she tripping
She was hating on Kevin Samual he was very successful in every way not just his platform
100% spot on. He inspired me to go to therapy which helped me get over a lot of my childhood "trauma". He inspired me to want to dress better. Most surprising of all, he inspired me to not totally give up on black women when I had all but done so in the past. Most of my life I've been called an "Uncle Tom" by black people because I hung out with white people and didn't buy into the victim mentality that most blacks have. The majority of my interactions with black women (especially my own mother and sister) have been largely negative and parasitic. The best treatment I ever got from a woman was from a white woman in medical school. She would cook for me, drive 100+ miles to see me, send me my favorite snacks, and anticipate my needs. The best treatment I ever got from a black woman was one who was considerate enough to share her leftover food with me. Seeing Kevin speak with the few black women who were receptive to what he had to say gave me a little more patience when dealing with black women. And him mentioning that most men want to see their son share their on reflection made me wonder "What if?"
he was more successful than she ever was.. he was the greatest of all time she could never touch that in a million years.. when he said he was gonna take over as the male version of Oprah he wasn't lying.
I absolutely love her speaking nothing but facts I remember my mom and dad used to follow her as a kid this is a great show we need to have more people like that speaking out to try to save the black race most of all to save the black family unit
Sister still spitting facts. Al-Hamdullilah
THIS is the type of woman a man will literally kill for to protect. She speaks the truth in the fashion of the Grandmothers I knew growing up. 🙏🏾🌷
We are the only race of men who want our women to fight our battles!!!! Smgdh Stand up brothers and take your rightful place on the planet!!!💯✊💪❤️
generalizing is the trait of weak men, deflecting their problems on others.. i am the absolutely leader of my entire family, i am at the forefront of all my families battles, i have even surpassed my father and he calls me, my grandmothers see me as the leader, my siblings and my mother.. my children and the community i live in.. its 100 your fault if your not lviing this kind of life.. stop projecting.. i cannot relate to niggas like you.. get on my level..
Speak for yourself...BRENTON
This Queen Sistah Right HERE! She been blessing me for years!
“How long then will generations think that that’s affection?” 💎
as long as black men and women dont show tender love to eachother and base existence off money
Shahrazad Ali - A real one, respect.
I bought her book about a Blackman guide to knowing the Black woman. A lot of what she said in there are true.
With every type of woman.
The best part about the book was a woman standing up
@@TevinC814 I got the understanding a little from how you figured it out.
where you buy this from??
@@Unospeedit’s on Amazon last time I checked.
We need these conversations everyday... I want my people to win so badly!!!
We do need these conversations. But I'm tired b of hearing about blk men choosing to be slaves back in tha day. Can we please have a conversation bm about blk men from year 1990 an up?? Why are they doing the fuck shit they are doing are doing today??? From what I have learned. The last time the bm acted like he had some sense was when the white man had his foot on his neck an was kicking that ass. Once he allowed the bm to be men. Took his foot off your neck. And what did the blk man do??? Proved to the wht man that he was a BOY 1/3rd of a man like they said you were.
It’s taken me some 10 years after her interview on Donahue to full appreciate most or all of her powerful messages and truth this sistah has put out! Take heed!
I appreciate how Iyanla stood up to her and condemned this woman's words for the damage that they have caused. One size does not fit all with Black women and her rhetoric is dangerous for those women who are God fearing, respectable Black queens. She didn't delineate much in her book at all and this rhetoric allows a man who is hurt from childhood or has other valid issues with women to potentially become a dominating abuser. Her message is not a complete and healing msg though some parts are applicable to some or even many women. Every tree has a root. She didn't speak to the roots, she spoke to the symptoms in a castigating way. I mean you peace, sister..no harm with my comment. This is more of a vent and redirection. But as we all know, we all have a right to choose what and who we entertain. Be well. 👁️Peace.
“GOD Didnt make everybody then HE Made You” Talk That Truth Elder Ali ❤️💯🫡
As she spoke my convictions spoke louder 💯
I knew of her before KS, but he definitely made her more popular whether she admits to it or not.
I bought her book due to Kevin Samuels but not happy how she spoke about Kevin.
Peace and Blessings and Love and Glory to this channel, Dr. Shaharazad Ali, and Black Men all over the nation ✊🏿🙏🏿🙌🏿
Great interview thats needed today, much love to Elder Ali, one of our Master teachers for her life long dedication to us blacks with proven solution for most of our ills in Black America in a white supremacist world.
Love Sister Sharazard Ali..she always speak the truth. Sisters listen to what she is saying.
And once again.......She is 100% Correct!
APTTMH for Auntie Ali teaching the truth
I watched Kevin's videos. There was nothing wrong with his approach. All he did was be honest. Ppl was mad at the truth. Society likes to be sugar-coated sweet candy
Advised all men to not take women with children. Not at all thoughtful.
Real ones felt the fire of this elder at 10:14. As a black man, I love the fire of a black woman. So I married one...❤🔥🔥🔥❤🔥🔥🔥❤🔥
Damn I really wish her and Kevin Samuels could have did that project together. That would've been legendary. 😔
It would have been interesting
Im so glad at 28 I’m still & always respect love this woman thank you universe for her 💫✨💛
God Bless that Sister for all of her efforts.
The high exalted. Always read her works and held her in the highest of esteem.
She looks great!
Thankful that she is still amongst us.
I approved of Kevin’s overall message and assessment. I didn’t approve of how harsh he was. This woman is golden.
Kevin was harsh???
@user-vg9eh4gr9j he wasn't a true follower if he's saying that.
I find it intresting people like you criticize Kevin's approach but have zero issues with the misandry and disrespect from the woman's end that warranted what you call a "harsh" response in the first place. Give it a rest they are grown disrespectful woman not babies
Let's please give our Queen Mother Shahrazad Ali her flowers and respect!
Finally someone speaking truths she is so honorable ❤that isn't intimacy out all . 🙏
Everything she said 20 years became reality.
it was a reality then as well. The internet just made it more visible.
She all talk... Kevin did the actual work💯💪
I HONESTLY BOUGHT THIS QUEENS BOOK PRIOR TO KEVIN SAMUELS. SHE IS THE BLUE PRINT. - A Black Woman's Guide To Understanding The Black Man. 🌟👑💫 #Queen #123 🦋✨
she ain't no blueprint because men have always passed this knowledge down as a remnant
I love her I’m ordering her books today she is the wisdom that we will forever need
Its ironic how she dances around the question but the RUclips algorithms introduced me to her through Kevin Samuel's channel. Nothing wrong with that and it doesnt detract from her work and contributions. We understand that her work is on a different level but there is no denying the algorithms 😊
Sharazads appearances on Donahue, Geraldo, and Montell Williams have been going viral since the beginning of RUclips. She didn't dance around anything. She's been viral since the 90s selling millions of books hand to hand.
@@georgehoustonofficial Two things can be true at the same time. I speak for myself. "I Never Knew" of her until I started watching Kevin Samuels on RUclips and then her Donahue interview popped up in my recommendations. That doesnt dimiinish her impact nor does it change the fact that her videos were doing the rounds before KS.
Alhamdulillah! All praise be to Allah (swt) for this wise sister. I’m adding her book to my library.
Now this is what we needed. Thank you 🙏🏾
Love this hood sister, she’s been telling facts for decades ✊🏾
"hood sister?"🤦🏿♂
To her credit she admitted something positive about the late Kevin Samuels I was becoming concerned . But her admittance that it helped black men learn they had worth is an important step for our race . The powers that be prefer the women of our race continue to be looked at as our leaders and now it's finally changing back thanks to the late Godfather Kevin Samuels
No it's not. Black men are NOT leaders. Black women are the leaders and the whole world knows this. Black men will never get credit for the work that Black women do. Making multiple kids by different women, disrespecting women, cheatinh on women, committing crimes, going to prison, being down low, not paying 100% of the bills, not working, living off of a woman, having bad credit, etc., will never make a man a leader. Never.
Blessings and Honor to Mother Shahrazad Ali
This was🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Dress Size? Weight? How many Kids? You're outta Here! Somebody Call her a Cab!.
After all these years she’s more brilliant
Much respect to the Queen Mother!❤
Her and Kevin doing a collaboration. Our lost 💔
I would have liked seeing that.
This almost made me cry, it spoke to my spirit
I have always loved and respected this Sister, because she is real and speaks the Truth. That makes Her Beautiful in so many ways.