All of you women in the comments who are praising Ali's uplifting message, pat yourselves on the back. This sista is trying to make us better wives and mothers for our men. #UpliftUs
Although I was 16 years old when this book was published,I have never new about it until now...But as a man I’ve been rejected by many women because I wasn’t the man they need it in their lives because I wasn’t making enough money and I didn’t had the standards that they were looking for.,Also in my past relationships I’ve never been appreciative and thanked for I’ve done in the household,So I have been forced to stay single because we need women to understand us...Also I have kids and always women been selfish because I wanted to raise my kids as a family even though I wasn’t with my kids mom.!But nowadays I don’t know if there is a woman that thinks this way
And while I'm talking to a lady who believes that this lady is talking nonsense and she's not because she's clarifying the bad behavior women have displayed and I salute this lady on TV
Especially when she said these women would do something in our face then claim we didn’t see what we KNOW what we seen/heard….Jedi mind tric…lm going thru that now…
Hey 313, everyday someone discovers something that they've never knew nor understood. So to answer your question - with a very rudimentary and obvious answer: A person who has never heard this information, and/or someone who enjoys repeatedly listening to this information. Hope that helps, 313.
🤷🏾♂️ I’m 37 & getting my life in order. This is my 2nd time watching this video in 2024. I love, cherish, respect, & value my BEAUTIFUL BLACK SISTAS 👩🏽🎓🖤✊🏾🙏🏾
@@sirpoppinchuck yes some of us been programmed ,but in 2019 time out for the programming Thinking,and start thinking for ourselves.The government was made to steak,kill,and destroy so if we know that why get on their level???We should get back on our level and start thinking for ourselves like our ancestors did.Harriet Tubman thought for herself that's why she still being spoken about till this day.
@@kseke25 what makes it garbage? You not agreeing doesn't cut it. How does she peddle in garbage. This sister is a queen, you could learn something from her
@MelaninGoddess Jewels Just because you don’t agree with what she is saying don’t mean it’s garbage. You can disagree of course but to be so disrespectful is saying a lot about you.
MelaninGoddess Jewels yesss Queen 👸🏾 👏🏾 that interviewer is very defensive and lacks intelligence and wisdom !!! She needs to stop acting off of emotion and listen to a sister with more wisdom and experience than her it is like listening to your mother she doesn’t listen .
Im in my mid 30's, married with 3 girls. I must say this is very enlightening and informative. Salute to who ever have watched this and those to come. I love this shit
@@jamesbryant6673 she is trying to get rich off her cult followers. True she is not stupid and knows her audience. That's why alot of her points are fax. But im not dumb enough to follow it.
@@elgeneralxx these people agreeing with her are ridiculous. She is clearly a her-temp. How can you absolve the black man of everything and totally blame the women? The weaker s3x 🥴. If the man is out of the house its because he is useless, abusive, and uninvolved. She is saying black women should just be happy the man is physically there, everything else be dammed.
The young lady interviewing Ms Ali was actually displaying a lot of the characteristics that were being discussed! Constantly playing devil's advocate and deflecting, quite sad.
She was actually being a terrific interviewer and asking questions I was thinking in my head at first! The interviewer asking those questions is what kept me listening. This style of hard ball interview doesn't exist anymore, so you think she's being harsh or deflecting. She did a great job!
The interviewer tried to diminish her work by saying if she would of met her before knowing she wrote the book she would not believe she wrote something like that. This interviewer is what’s called “covert hostile”. Just “ACTING “ nice.
Achoti Ali came with so much realness it surprises me that people pretend that what she has always said is "Contriversal". "It's reality, and the truth" it needs to be and always has to be dealt with... Now 30 years later the negative results of ignoring her warnings have manifested. This message is always relevant!!!!!
It’s interesting you say that. I have been watching Shahrazad Ali since I was 15, when I was having identity issues living in the UK. That was 15 years ago. At the same time I was studying History GCSE (10th grade) when we covered America 1900-1999, it touched on the post slavery society for AA. In 1960s, soon after AA received their civil rights. The government HATED the unity they saw in black communities during the movement, so much so they began ‘Operations’ to create systems, in order to break the b. Family. It only took three things to break the b. Family *Incarceration of the BM (Leaving the BW single, more vulnerable) *Introduce food stamps/ state welfare check (to stop the BW ever getting married -because with marriage comes a new bag of benefits) *Family Planning, which was specifically created for B. Families! (FREE healthcare which enables the BW to become ‘liberated’ by using concentration or aborting her child, less B.P easier to control ) 2021! Look where we are... the ‘operations’ are working the way they wanted it to be.
@Elyse George I was speaking on our collective condition, both the black men and black women. Not much has changed/improved. Our relationship, with our counterparts, make actually be worst. Mrs. Ali was decades ahead, but we were too combative then to do self evaluation. And look at were we are now. You can only grow with self evaluation/reflection first. Start with self improvement. That's all Mrs. Ali was saying.
@Elyse George and yet black women still sleep with (and reproduce with) these men. You're proving my point -- every time the black woman is examined, she's always deflecting towards men. You women want no accountability for anything -- which is why you are the least desired.
@@suave_d "less desired"...I completely disagree. Unfortunately the black woman AND black man or currently out of our natural minds. We are both in a state of degeneration. A black woman is the only true mate for a black man, and vice versa. All this other stuff, society is pushing, will never work. A black woman is a black man true reflection. Without her, he wouldn't know himself. He will be mentally, spiritually, and emotionally depleted (ie. Kanye West...lol) and a lot of others black men who wonder aimlessly. The black man "desire" for someone else, is rooted in self hate. Bc if he hates the black woman he really hates his own mother/himself. Without a black woman, he can never reproduce "myself". Thus, this is the black man's need for self evaluation. We, both, black men and women need to take accountability. Self reflections and evaluation is the only true catalyst for change, in life. We can only change ourselves. 'Im rooting for all black people'.
This is my first time hearing about this astonishing woman, I’m 24 and I’m all for this message🥰. But Man oh man was the interviewer mad though, you can tell she’s the problem. 😂
I listen intently because I was lost knowing who I am as a man but confused on how to truly become an alpha male! After so much trauma from being abused for protecting my sister from a toxic boy my mom had tricked us into accepting him as a so-called customer but it was totally different! That woman allowed a man to infiltrate our home and peace to disrupt our life with his controlling ways because religion has got my mom and sisters spiritually lost and because he was allowed to infiltrate our life my sisters the very women I protected as an 15 year old have both turned their backs on me and my oldest sister knows my trauma and denies what I’m going through because of her and my mom! To this day at 45 that ignorant woman sees me as her slave son giving me what she feels I deserve after she intentionally destroyed my dreams and blinded me from knowing my true self😢
@@ramcesgaston5319 Black people are the only group that doesn't understand the importance of the institution of marriage.....other groups understand the value and importance of being married. It's more than just being with someone forever! It's beneficial spiritually, economically, mentally, emotionally, and psychologically. One Day we (I hope soon) will get it!!!
@OTA She was doing her journalistic duty. If it were not for the questions she asked, the topics of the book she approached, how would you have heard the information? How would you be convinced of Sister Ali's position if she'd never had to defend it? Just change perspectives and think. Raven did her job!
Nonkululeko, wena alone time isn't "solitude" . but we all need room and space to think without outside interference. Her message is good but the complement to her book should be Nanny Burrows's book from the early 1900s. Happy new year .
I like her face...black ppl are completely lost and confused! She is a hustler like most Muslims 12 kids she needs to write books about self love and repairing the damage done by self hate and slavery 12 kids keep your legs closed and open your mind open, 30 years later she saying the same rhetoric, totally destroying the growth process...
who’s morals?, & who’s religion!!? 👍🏿 but🤔....? that slapped the hell out of the host.. bcuz she was off in her approach.. ✌🏿2 Shahrazad Ali for this interview..
@MK912 AND HOW DID SHE DO THAT? BY TELLING BLACK MEN THE TRUTH. SHE IS EXACTLY RIGHT IN WHAT SHE SAYS. YOU MAY NOT LIKE IT, BUT THAT DOES NOT CHANGE THE FACT THAT IS ON POINT.
@@iluvrachellef I do agree with alot that Muslims teach for black people. But I don't really buy into religion. I was raised Baptist but I don't buy into that now that I'm am a adult and can think for myself. But you have to be a Muslim to have a Muslim woman it seems
I ran from this book in my 20s and my circle of women also rejected the book. It was the 90s and we wanted to be in our masculine energy. Once I understood these concepts I got myself together and my husband and children benefited in so many ways. I nearly destroyed my family because of lack of knowledge. When you know better you do better.
Many of our people feast on and crave ignorance and buffoonery unfortunately these days. Our elder scholars have been given us the solutions to our problems. Social media, "memes" etc has shortened the attention span for many, and many won't even sit through a video of this length. We have much work to do, still....smh
this woman is a prophetess with precision, she foreseen our condition today as if she walked , looked, and observed us for her social and behaviour science studies for her phd and professorship. her thesis was beyond the scope given at the time and has the researched to guide those in this field today
No, this was a "BIG DEAL" in the the 90's; she was everywhere. I just think her message is being revived, because the message is more relevant today than it was in the 90's. She foresaw the direction the black community was heading and was making a move to get ahead of it. So NOTHING is or was being hidden, it's been here all along - people are looking for answers.
@@summertime8879 Yeah she holds Black women accountable for their role in the problems in the Black community. If you do that today, it's called "Bashing ".
Ashley Douglas I know lots of women who thought that chastisement from a man, a little hit, like a slap in the mouth is sexy. And then saw those women get with a man who really laid his fist and feet in their ass and they didn’t like it and were in misery. So be careful of your desires for chastisement, bcuz it’s gonna get real ugly.
That was a great conversation. And remember people, you don't have to AGREE WITH EVERY SINGLE THINGS someone says to recognise that their overall message has some value.
Hell yeah listening with the intent to reply instead of listening to understand. She figured it out by the end once she realized the Queen couldn't be baited in.
Notice how you are part of the problem by coming in strong about what black women should have done as if black men need to do/change nothing? How weak are you to feel like it’s only up to the women and not the men? You are pathetic and part of the problem🤮
@@ludacrees 😆🤣 🥶 ...can't o.g. poster simply be a fan of ms. ali's intellectual arguments or it is true that without applied practice, then o.g. poster never truly benefited from her teachings? 🤔
They took the comment she made that black man just need to slap a black woman in the mouth and ran with it and escalated it to the point of sanctioning domestic violence. And that was sad because this sister had a lot of good information
This is proof that the more things change, the more they stay the same. This interview is nearly 30 years old, but we are still facing the same issues in our community.
Based off how they did this interview. I'm sure more cases was dragged to drive us away. And they did a good job 30 years later. Until now my eyes will be reading
Shahrazad Ali nailed it on every point! I did not like the jezebel so-called interviewing. We need this woman in this generation to speak to all women!
As they shouldn't. This type of foolishness would divide us further. What we need is accountability and forgiveness by both Black men and women, not blame.
As a Black Man, I Thank The Most High for Blessing My ears and Mind as I listen to this Black Queen. Hearing her speak so TRUE and eloquently, has made Me Refocus as The Leader of My Family.💯
Thank Allah whom appeared in the Person Of Master Fard Muhammad whom praises are due forver and His Messenger Elijah Muhammad for blessing you with this sister .
It’s 2023 and we still have the same issues. Things like this aren’t pushed or made public. The system is truly set up to fail us in every aspect of our life. So sad. Hope we take heed and wake up and realize what’s really going on. We really hold the power.
True word young sister, we Love and appreciate you eternally ! Stay strong and focused. Walk Humble and Strong! Graceful and right! Check this out and please share if you can see the relevance. Peace and Blessing Black Princess! ruclips.net/video/dqusjclZQwU/видео.html&feature=push-lbss&attr_tag=3spWeB7cw--CmWz2%3A6
Very unprofessional interviewer whom is supposed to be objective. If it were a White women whom was of the Margaret Sangler or Susan B anthony persuasion she'd be a mute puppy. Furthermore, I"m sad to say she represents a great amount of our women in the West in 2020.
@@BoB-yn5vs absolutely not! Worshiping Allah is going into moon worship. That is the so called Arabs religion and it has NOTHING to do the so called Blacks, Hispanics and Native Americans. Our True God/Power is the God of Israel. Shalom.
Exactly! And all these talks shows that attack black men. That's what fuck them up and why all races of men don't want them. And, in 2020 there still blaming it on the black men and society
@@aarondigby5054 Wow, that really shows your twisted mentality. You're the reason why welfare needs to be eliminated. It's crazy that this is the first thing you would even think of to someone adopting children. 🙄
That's the spirit of a Israelite women.and she is telling us that we are Yahawah's chosen PEOPLE THE ISRAELITES according to the Bible and we fit al the curses in Deuteronomy and we are the descendants of Abraham Isaac and Jacob and our Messiah Yahawahshy which we ignorantly calls Jesus.it's time to come back to Yahawah's Commandments statues and laws so we can raise as a nation again.and the are the people of the bible
She just gave the medicine that will heal black relationships. Let go of the emotions and clear your head to truly listen. Smile every time you see him 🙌🏾
🤔 wow did you throw the book at her?? Was her leaving a blessing or does the book unfairly bash black women? Are you married to a black woman now? I have so many questions lol I want to read this book moreso now
I tell black women, "One of the things we can do for our men is just smile when you see him coming." That statement alone is worth the cost of the books.
I'm sorry but smiling is not working. Action works. I get weird ass smiles from many white people when I walk by them. 🤔 Not putting you down in any way my sister but that smiling shit dont work. Married for 13 years here.
Cecil Cash I think this post went over your head...I think you’re thinking a lil too hard. I’m sure it’s more about the sentiment, the energy, the care and reverence we should show to our brothers. No ones trying to get married here lmao and I’m damn sure not worried about the weird energy I have received from white ppl. I have knowledge of self and that automatically puts them in perspective. I’m Mother Earth, I’m Eve, Oshun, Auset, Black Madonna. The human race started with me. But no offense taken. And congrats on your marriage. I hope it continues to grow in peace and love ♥️✊🏾
Yeah that's the kind of woman you can communicate silently with With her all you need to be in is the right situation for the right look to know everything of what she's thinking and communicating.
Didn’t listen then and not listening now. They want to do their own thing and when the outcome turn badly then they want Sympathy. Okay.....good luck with the sympathy game.
Hear❗️Hear❗️Hear‼️ Exemplar ❗️Magnificent❗️Black Woman and God’s Gift To “Black-Man” Kind ......‼️ That host is an “un-explainable” (dumb-Eurocentric) CHICKEN-HEAD ‼️
Either way the point is that man and woman should be there for each other, have one another as a team will make the duo a POWER couple, yes being independent is good in all but as a whole we all need someone to carry us through the weak moments or just simply make sure we good when no one else does.
Not going to lie, I wish I heard this YEARS ago. I will be 40 years old next month, and I'm going to be purchasing her book and studying it. She is still so very relevant.
We cannot heal if we aren’t having realistic conversations. People keep showing up as someone else or who they think they should be or who they were told to be by their broken parents/family members/friends..etc. There are so many layers
Anybody here in 2024? 😅
Yep this is classic 😊
Absolutely
Yep.
Yes. Friday April 12th 2024 7:46AM EST.
Meeeeee the best interview I heard very empowering 🥰😇
She's not telling you what she heard. She's not telling you what she thinks. She's telling you what she knows! She speaks with the authority of truth.
All of you women in the comments who are praising Ali's uplifting message, pat yourselves on the back. This sista is trying to make us better wives and mothers for our men. #UpliftUs
Absolutely.... Us As Blackman we NEED our Blackwomen period....
#PeaceQueen
Awesome! I bought the book after seeing her on Phil Donahue back in the day. Yeah I m a triple OG...LOL
Although I was 16 years old when this book was published,I have never new about it until now...But as a man I’ve been rejected by many women because I wasn’t the man they need it in their lives because I wasn’t making enough money and I didn’t had the standards that they were looking for.,Also in my past relationships I’ve never been appreciative and thanked for I’ve done in the household,So I have been forced to stay single because we need women to understand us...Also I have kids and always women been selfish because I wanted to raise my kids as a family even though I wasn’t with my kids mom.!But nowadays I don’t know if there is a woman that thinks this way
@@djchannels7047 i would of appreciated ypu
Spring of 2021 and we are still going through the fire as black men,,,,,,,
Whole time she was speaking facts to a generation who chose
to ignore and have their children & Grandchildren pay the P R I C E...... 🤦♂️✨
Facts
And while I'm talking to a lady who believes that this lady is talking nonsense and she's not because she's clarifying the bad behavior women have displayed and I salute this lady on TV
My grandparents don't even visit us. :(
💯
I love how articulate she is and how she gets her points across logically.
Especially when she said these women would do something in our face then claim we didn’t see what we KNOW what we seen/heard….Jedi mind tric…lm going thru that now…
Very consise with every response I can't get enough of it
Manners and good manners are in her DNA, she not all baise in any way, what agift from her maker, Safi Sana dada, mola mlezi akuhifadhi,
Amen
She speaks very well❤💪🏾
Who's listening to this for the first time in 2022? 🤦🏿♂️ Zheeesh
Not my first ,probably my thousandth lol but I never get tired lol
@@BlancoToldYou Exactly Sis.
Hey 313, everyday someone discovers something that they've never knew nor understood.
So to answer your question - with a very rudimentary and obvious answer: A person who has never heard this information, and/or someone who enjoys repeatedly listening to this information.
Hope that helps, 313.
@@sekour obviously you're not familiar with RHETORIC 🤷🏿♂️. hope this helps 🤡
Yes🇿🇦❤
"The truth doesn't change just because of the way we feel about it.." Amen!
Where did she say that love to timestamp it
@@remainstainless757 if you dont find it, its probably just a general phrase, which i approve of
Yh and that also goes for the lies in the bible
Black people wake up!!
No but it does change once you acknowledge how you feel and why you feel it
@@remainstainless757 @39:11
🤷🏾♂️ I’m 37 & getting my life in order. This is my 2nd time watching this video in 2024. I love, cherish, respect, & value my BEAUTIFUL BLACK SISTAS
👩🏽🎓🖤✊🏾🙏🏾
This is what a real queen looks, sounds like. This interviewer can’t handle the truth, she’s part of the problem in our community.
SOI Its not who, its whats the problem. If we continue to blame we only create division. She just needs to understand the way we' ve been programmed.
@@sirpoppinchuck time to stop making excuses
@@sirpoppinchuck yes some of us been programmed ,but in 2019 time out for the programming Thinking,and start thinking for ourselves.The government was made to steak,kill,and destroy so if we know that why get on their level???We should get back on our level and start thinking for ourselves like our ancestors did.Harriet Tubman thought for herself that's why she still being spoken about till this day.
BIG AMEN!!!!!!!!! ASANTI SANA FOR YOUR COMMENT!!!!!
@@gwise8095 You said "STEAK"="STAKE"!!! instead Of "STEAL"!!! GOOD WORD I WILL USE THIS WORD FROM THIS DAY FORWARD!!!
This is not only powerful for black African Americans and women, but for all Africans.Thanks.
Yip
True
And for all of human kind…. It can give insight of the “why” on the blk race…may peace be upon to you
The host got checked by Ms Ali whenever she tried to get to smart and slick
I have to say this woman is very good at defending her garbage.
@@kseke25 what makes it garbage? You not agreeing doesn't cut it. How does she peddle in garbage. This sister is a queen, you could learn something from her
@MelaninGoddess Jewels Just because you don’t agree with what she is saying don’t mean it’s garbage. You can disagree of course but to be so disrespectful is saying a lot about you.
MelaninGoddess Jewels what are you even saying?
MelaninGoddess Jewels yesss Queen 👸🏾 👏🏾 that interviewer is very defensive and lacks intelligence and wisdom !!! She needs to stop acting off of emotion and listen to a sister with more wisdom and experience than her it is like listening to your mother she doesn’t listen .
Wow!!!!! She described her husband as “a very beautiful man”. I adore this woman. She is my heroine!
She spent literally the entire time (futilely) trying to get our sister to walk back what she said. I applaud our sister's fortitude
Im in my mid 30's, married with 3 girls. I must say this is very enlightening and informative. Salute to who ever have watched this and those to come. I love this shit
@Matt Newman She may be a snake 🐍, that's not my call. She damn sho ain't lying about alot of this though.
Apparently you guys don't know what the snake means! Check out the signs at hospitals, ambulance. Sign of knowledge
@@jamesbryant6673 she is trying to get rich off her cult followers. True she is not stupid and knows her audience. That's why alot of her points are fax. But im not dumb enough to follow it.
@@elgeneralxx these people agreeing with her are ridiculous. She is clearly a her-temp. How can you absolve the black man of everything and totally blame the women? The weaker s3x 🥴. If the man is out of the house its because he is useless, abusive, and uninvolved. She is saying black women should just be happy the man is physically there, everything else be dammed.
@@kwilliams6707 she clearly said both sides needs to be held accountable. Comprehension is key.
And 30 years later what this woman is saying still stands true… 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
The young lady interviewing Ms Ali was actually displaying a lot of the characteristics that were being discussed! Constantly playing devil's advocate and deflecting, quite sad.
I swear lmao😭😂😂😂😂
I actually enjoyed the interviewer. It helped to prove Sister Ali’s point further
True
Yep. Totally agree
She was actually being a terrific interviewer and asking questions I was thinking in my head at first! The interviewer asking those questions is what kept me listening. This style of hard ball interview doesn't exist anymore, so you think she's being harsh or deflecting. She did a great job!
Thank you. All we need is a little bit of encouragement and appreciation.
2024 This is one of the most powerful interviews I have ever saw.
The interviewer tried to diminish her work by saying if she would of met her before knowing she wrote the book she would not believe she wrote something like that. This interviewer is what’s called “covert hostile”. Just “ACTING “ nice.
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JAY BLAZE you think she is? That’s sad if she is
JAY BLAZE 😭
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Achoti Ali came with so much realness it surprises me that people pretend that what she has always said is "Contriversal". "It's reality, and the truth" it needs to be and always has to be dealt with... Now 30 years later the negative results of ignoring her warnings have manifested. This message is always relevant!!!!!
Everything she said then has came to pass
WAP and THOT worshiping...someone help us please.....!!!!!!
Yes!! Everything has came to pass. The question is how will we change things?
It’s interesting you say that. I have been watching Shahrazad Ali since I was 15, when I was having identity issues living in the UK. That was 15 years ago. At the same time I was studying History GCSE (10th grade) when we covered America 1900-1999, it touched on the post slavery society for AA. In 1960s, soon after AA received their civil rights. The government HATED the unity they saw in black communities during the movement, so much so they began ‘Operations’ to create systems, in order to break the b. Family. It only took three things to break the b. Family
*Incarceration of the BM
(Leaving the BW single, more vulnerable)
*Introduce food stamps/ state welfare check (to stop the BW ever getting married -because with marriage comes a new bag of benefits)
*Family Planning, which was specifically created for B. Families! (FREE healthcare which enables the BW to become ‘liberated’ by using concentration or aborting her child, less B.P easier to control )
2021! Look where we are... the ‘operations’ are working the way they wanted it to be.
@@missqt48 Been looking for this comment. Thank you !
Here in 2024❤
2020...Not much have changed.
And black women are just as combative now as they were back then --- maybe worse.
@@suave_d agree.
@Elyse George I was speaking on our collective condition, both the black men and black women. Not much has changed/improved. Our relationship, with our counterparts, make actually be worst. Mrs. Ali was decades ahead, but we were too combative then to do self evaluation. And look at were we are now.
You can only grow with self evaluation/reflection first. Start with self improvement. That's all Mrs. Ali was saying.
@Elyse George and yet black women still sleep with (and reproduce with) these men.
You're proving my point -- every time the black woman is examined, she's always deflecting towards men. You women want no accountability for anything -- which is why you are the least desired.
@@suave_d "less desired"...I completely disagree. Unfortunately the black woman AND black man or currently out of our natural minds. We are both in a state of degeneration.
A black woman is the only true mate for a black man, and vice versa. All this other stuff, society is pushing, will never work. A black woman is a black man true reflection. Without her, he wouldn't know himself. He will be mentally, spiritually, and emotionally depleted (ie. Kanye West...lol) and a lot of others black men who wonder aimlessly. The black man "desire" for someone else, is rooted in self hate. Bc if he hates the black woman he really hates his own mother/himself.
Without a black woman, he can never reproduce "myself".
Thus, this is the black man's need for self evaluation.
We, both, black men and women need to take accountability. Self reflections and evaluation is the only true catalyst for change, in life. We can only change ourselves.
'Im rooting for all black people'.
You can tell she’s getting irritated because the interviewer isn’t seeing the bigger picture. I would have gotten irritated too🤦🏽♀️
She Is Real And She Is Telling 1000% Truth And Nothing But Truth.
I’m in 2023 🎉🎉and this interviews was the greatest Love Ms.Ali nothing but 💎 💎 in this interview and im a 90s baby salute this woman 👑 👑
This is my first time hearing about this astonishing woman, I’m 24 and I’m all for this message🥰. But Man oh man was the interviewer mad though, you can tell she’s the problem. 😂
Her personal views are very evident here! I love how the interviewer is being read so eloquently though…. A very kind have a seat 😌😂
@@blueribboneffect884 Exactly! :)
Check out Nicky Giovanni and James Baldwin interview...equally amazing
Real talk my fly nubian Queen Octavia, named after my Earth day month. 👏🏿🤜🏿❤🤲🏾
I agree April 2024... my King WILL be Respected
Who’s here in 2024?
I’m revisiting these videos in 2024 but it’s not a new discovery.
Amen 🙏🏽
Me
Who is listening to this for the first time in 2020? 🙂
I am ..
Be a sponge.
✊🏾
Christina Hillard meeeeeeeee🙃
This brother
Who listening to this Queen in 2024? Love her for many years ❤
I listen intently because I was lost knowing who I am as a man but confused on how to truly become an alpha male! After so much trauma from being abused for protecting my sister from a toxic boy my mom had tricked us into accepting him as a so-called customer but it was totally different! That woman allowed a man to infiltrate our home and peace to disrupt our life with his controlling ways because religion has got my mom and sisters spiritually lost and because he was allowed to infiltrate our life my sisters the very women I protected as an 15 year old have both turned their backs on me and my oldest sister knows my trauma and denies what I’m going through because of her and my mom! To this day at 45 that ignorant woman sees me as her slave son giving me what she feels I deserve after she intentionally destroyed my dreams and blinded me from knowing my true self😢
Very powerful, it must've been challenging to decide to share that info. @@AnthonyWest-f1s
Meeeeeeeeee
this is really amazing, I wish every African woman could have the chance to interact with this great woman or her book
She tried to warn the next generation but now....
It is sad most don't want the institution of marriage today in 2020.
@@ramcesgaston5319 Black people are the only group that doesn't understand the importance of the institution of marriage.....other groups understand the value and importance of being married. It's more than just being with someone forever! It's beneficial spiritually, economically, mentally, emotionally, and psychologically. One Day we (I hope soon) will get it!!!
@@summertime8879 did u not watch the video when she said never in history has one Blackman been with one women or did u skip that part
@@summertime8879 It’ll be way too late by then.
@OTA She was doing her journalistic duty. If it were not for the questions she asked, the topics of the book she approached, how would you have heard the information? How would you be convinced of Sister Ali's position if she'd never had to defend it? Just change perspectives and think. Raven did her job!
"whoever brings you the most peace should get the most time."
So stealing this.
@@primordialdarkmatterone7415 than you get the most time, times of solitude are also important
Not true. People do comes with misery.
Nonkululeko, wena alone time isn't "solitude" . but we all need room and space to think without outside interference. Her message is good but the complement to her book should be Nanny Burrows's book from the early 1900s. Happy new year .
Ey brother, God bless
This video is a blessing... We are literally seeing the consequences of everything she warned against 🤦🏾♀️
Yes indeed.
And I mean EVERYTHING
Definitely
Totally true
🤯 💥
I like her face. I also like the way she verbally communicates.
Outta12 verbalizes..
@@BeastmodeBeats Boom.
The Interviewer Is a total Bitch
Absolutely...
I like her face...black ppl are completely lost and confused! She is a hustler like most Muslims 12 kids she needs to write books about self love and repairing the damage done by self hate and slavery 12 kids keep your legs closed and open your mind open, 30 years later she saying the same rhetoric, totally destroying the growth process...
who’s morals?, & who’s religion!!? 👍🏿
but🤔....? that slapped the hell out of the host.. bcuz she was off in her approach.. ✌🏿2 Shahrazad Ali for this interview..
Absolutely 👍
Always looking to criticize and demote...
@Mr Uchiano crackertosis LOL!
sammyo534764 right
Sister sister i love this sister if we can have million more like her.
@MK912 AND HOW DID SHE DO THAT? BY TELLING BLACK MEN THE TRUTH. SHE IS EXACTLY RIGHT IN WHAT SHE SAYS. YOU MAY NOT LIKE IT, BUT THAT DOES NOT CHANGE THE FACT THAT IS ON POINT.
Who is listening to this beautiful message 2023 ❤️❤️🙏🏾 love this women
I always revisit this video just to bring me back to me. ❤❤
Me for the 3rd time
13th February 2023
She’s brilliant! She was decades ahead of her time.
Love her as well
This the kind of Black woman id go to war for anyday
Example of a Queen
I would go to war for black women like this sister....
@@iluvrachellef I do agree with alot that Muslims teach for black people. But I don't really buy into religion. I was raised Baptist but I don't buy into that now that I'm am a adult and can think for myself. But you have to be a Muslim to have a Muslim woman it seems
@@treal4real67 Same. Raised Southern Baptist and agree with some of the Muslim teaching but don't buy into all of it.
For sure my man 👍
Do they still make them like her?
I'm listening in 2024. Who's listening in 2024?
Every thing she is talking about is still going on right now in 2020
@Suicidal Vet waaaay worst
@Suicidal Vet Maybe thats what Tupac was warning blacks about
100 Fold...
nate dime SHOL IS
@@frazier2420able 👍🏼
I ran from this book in my 20s and my circle of women also rejected the book. It was the 90s and we wanted to be in our masculine energy. Once I understood these concepts I got myself together and my husband and children benefited in so many ways. I nearly destroyed my family because of lack of knowledge. When you know better you do better.
Wow, that's deep my fly nubian Queen, thank you for your experience 👏🏿🤜🏿❤🤲🏾
Powerful!
Very humble admission 🙏🏾
Talk ya shit.. it’s hard to even type this truth
Respect
I learn what she is saying after divorce. I should have heard this in 2008
Self examination and personal development
"That Ain't no Secret !! 💘 love her!"😍😙
Reflection is one of the 3 Rs of the sabbath. Few do it
Is a must!!
Yes. It's needed on both sides
Psalm 68:11 period
Listening to this today knowing that it was made from 1991 is powerful!!!
2020 and everything she said is Still Relevant
Janelle Whiskey this is trash
Janelle Whiskey reality doesn’t change. Really is constant.
Janelle Whiskey this let us know that we are not evolving and now it’s 29 years later
If only this were more popular than twerking videos. The world would be ours.
"That Ain't no Secret !!"😯
Many of our people feast on and crave ignorance and buffoonery unfortunately these days. Our elder scholars have been given us the solutions to our problems. Social media, "memes" etc has shortened the attention span for many, and many won't even sit through a video of this length. We have much work to do, still....smh
@@Black____ "That Ain't no Secret !!"😗😯
@@Black____ Indeed
This comment touched my soul
"Whose Religion? Whose Morals?" That was deep.
💯
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I said the same thing, and that being said left the other lady speechless
Frfr
The man has never had 1 women, nowadays women dont have 1 man for a lifetime. How did this flip happen ?
I have 4 of her books. I love her as much as I love Dr. Frances Cress Welsing and Queen Afua. And yes I am a black man with a black Queen
Wats da names of her books and where can i get it
Moor wakanda wats hood king thats a fact but is dat da name of da book
Salute Black King💯✊🏿
@@shawndouglas669 You can find her books online at amazon, most black owned bookstores in your town have copies of it too. Goodluck!
aint no queens in your hood fool.
trust me!
this woman is a prophetess with precision, she foreseen our condition today as if she walked , looked, and observed us for her social and behaviour science studies for her phd and professorship. her thesis was beyond the scope given at the time and has the researched to guide those in this field today
"We have the power to make Heaven or Hell for our man"
I love this SISTA!
K
That goes both ways.
They've tried to hide this woman, and her message for decades. This is my first time looking at length at her videos. She is FFFIIIRRREEE🔥🔥🔥🔥
Roger that!!!
No, this was a "BIG DEAL" in the the 90's; she was everywhere. I just think her message is being revived, because the message is more relevant today than it was in the 90's. She foresaw the direction the black community was heading and was making a move to get ahead of it. So NOTHING is or was being hidden, it's been here all along - people are looking for answers.
@@summertime8879 I see. Thanks for the clarification. I've only seen, or heard of her in the last couple of years. Like I said earlier she is fire.
dgrare100 Yes, she is fire FOR Sure!!!! I still get so much from listening to her.
@@summertime8879 Yeah she holds Black women accountable for their role in the problems in the Black community. If you do that today, it's called "Bashing ".
Listening in 2024. 🔥 interview. Glory to Abba.
Ase king
2024 and counting Lord's Will
The fact that this was covered in depth in 1991 and there are still high prevalence of these issues in 2022 is astounding.
You ain't lied.
Its worse at least it seems
Yes!
@moabite sounds I’ve changed it in my home as the head of the family
Feminism and the sister code attacked on the black community is strong.
30 years later and shit is even worse. 🤦🏿♂️
How a out that!!
Black women want to get rich?
take everything sista shiharizad says and does, and repeat it on RUclips in 2021 like its your own thoughts.
😂😂😂
Facts
That's bc other black voices didn't support her, therefore silenced her from making her message mainstream.
The host was butthurt. She couldn't handle the truth
gman What truth?
Lol
Chris Harris All I’m asking is what truth? And besides, the host isn’t your enemy.
OMG lol to much explaining debating it's 2020 she said slap em in the mouth alot of women would be alive today reality
Ashley Douglas I know lots of women who thought that chastisement from a man, a little hit, like a slap in the mouth is sexy. And then saw those women get with a man who really laid his fist and feet in their ass and they didn’t like it and were in misery. So be careful of your desires for chastisement, bcuz it’s gonna get real ugly.
That was a great conversation. And remember people, you don't have to AGREE WITH EVERY SINGLE THINGS someone says to recognise that their overall message has some value.
This!!!
The HOST has a job to do, however, she wasn't LISTENING. What a shame 🙄🙄
iron2468 I agree
@J- LEETHAL No my brother, I understood. I was just being diplomatic 🙂
Exactly
She did her job. Her job is not to listen. Don't let the skin color distract you.
Hell yeah listening with the intent to reply instead of listening to understand. She figured it out by the end once she realized the Queen couldn't be baited in.
It's 2021.. this is 100% accurate...like time stood still. It's scarrry
Exactly. A book she wrote 30yrs ago still applies today even more than ever is truly scary.
Also black mothers sold their daughters off to d boys getting them pregnant 🤰 at 12 13 and up in 1990 cold game
@@jizzyb1572 what? That has nothing to do with this
@@lnb252 yes it does go research 1990 black girls was getting pregnant by older drug dealers ruined dating all single mothers before 20
@@jizzyb1572 🤡🤡🤡
If the BW had listened, understood, and acknowledged this knowledge our community would be entirely different for the better.
Notice how you are part of the problem by coming in strong about what black women should have done as if black men need to do/change nothing? How weak are you to feel like it’s only up to the women and not the men? You are pathetic and part of the problem🤮
Facts
You mean bm wouldve stopped engaging in criminal activies, creating kids out of wedlock and went to college? Hm
This was a profound interview. I have admired her since I was a teenager. The truth is healing.
Did you read the book in the 1990s?
she was spitting big fax 📠
You are a very wise woman
Hope u married n never a divorced single mother otherwise loving her meant no value 2ur lifestyle
@@ludacrees 😆🤣 🥶
...can't o.g. poster simply be a fan of ms. ali's intellectual arguments or it is true that without applied practice, then o.g. poster never truly benefited from her teachings? 🤔
I’m a Black woman and I stand behind this message 100% A true Queen 👸🏽
Need my name back
Me too sis!💕
Quiet Storm 😏
Beautiful
We love you so much ladies. Showing love all the way from South Africa.
Women should have been listened to Ali NOT Oprah! 🤨
Facts
Agreed
Right and who's audience was 95% White!
They took the comment she made that black man just need to slap a black woman in the mouth and ran with it and escalated it to the point of sanctioning domestic violence. And that was sad because this sister had a lot of good information
You are a wise person!
This is proof that the more things change, the more they stay the same. This interview is nearly 30 years old, but we are still facing the same issues in our community.
Based off how they did this interview. I'm sure more cases was dragged to drive us away. And they did a good job 30 years later. Until now my eyes will be reading
thats cos yall suk.
Because our standards n customs language way of life all we have been robbed of in amerikkka
It’s even worst now ‼️
Actually, it's gotten worse.
Shahrazad Ali nailed it on every point! I did not like the jezebel so-called interviewing. We need this woman in this generation to speak to all women!
They would never air this on National TV in 2020
Where it aired
sure they would. just to create more discord.
Why Not ?
The me-too movement and black feminist, white supremacist tries to prevent it
As they shouldn't. This type of foolishness would divide us further. What we need is accountability and forgiveness by both Black men and women, not blame.
“ We’ ve never had anyone challenge our behavior.” 😲 words of gold
Exactly!
V77 Scorpio I do all the time and that’s why I’m single lol. Oh well I’m not accepting this bullshit out here in these streets 😂😂
Black men, black women and white media have conspired against anyone challenging black female behavior.
Shiiid! I do and stand 10 toes! But I am many times outnumbered by foolish cowards!
@@misterlemar1591 And they say black women are unprotected... shiiiiiiitt... the simp brigade is fierce.
As a Black Man, I Thank The Most High for Blessing My ears and Mind as I listen to this Black Queen. Hearing her speak so TRUE and eloquently, has made Me Refocus as The Leader of My Family.💯
Awesome 👍😎😎
Wish you the best
She speaking of order and that what Yahusha is going to do when he comes back put everything back in order.
Thank Allah whom appeared in the Person Of Master Fard Muhammad whom praises are due forver and His Messenger Elijah Muhammad for blessing you with this sister .
Facts 🤣🤣 wish you the best my boa. These black chickens today are wild. It’s over
It’s 2023 and we still have the same issues. Things like this aren’t pushed or made public. The system is truly set up to fail us in every aspect of our life. So sad. Hope we take heed and wake up and realize what’s really going on. We really hold the power.
Facts
Self examination is sooo important. I appreciate this elder!!
True word young sister, we Love and appreciate you eternally ! Stay strong and focused. Walk Humble and Strong! Graceful and right! Check this out and please share if you can see the relevance. Peace and Blessing Black Princess! ruclips.net/video/dqusjclZQwU/видео.html&feature=push-lbss&attr_tag=3spWeB7cw--CmWz2%3A6
I agree with you 💯% self-examination is important,...But (Application) of what you (Learn) from that self-examination is more (Important).
Raven gets madder the more truth Sharhazad says.
It sure didn't help that she was already self-admittedly "critical" of the book.
@@Ms9mmBeretta & Sharazad stepped on them lil toes like "and what!"😂😂
*no punches pulled
Very unprofessional interviewer whom is supposed to be objective. If it were a White women whom was of the Margaret Sangler or Susan B anthony persuasion she'd be a mute puppy. Furthermore, I"m sad to say she represents a great amount of our women in the West in 2020.
hit dog gone bark
chronwell1 no she don't. She never gets mad one time what are you watching yo?
This is a game changer. We still don't accept it bc we caught up in our feelings. Like teenagers having tantrums.
2021 and we still have these problems. So Called Black Women, we must change.
I.S.L.A.M. 🙏🏽💛🇲🇦
@@BoB-yn5vs absolutely not! Worshiping Allah is going into moon worship. That is the so called Arabs religion and it has NOTHING to do the so called Blacks, Hispanics and Native Americans. Our True God/Power is the God of Israel. Shalom.
@@BoB-yn5vs nah bro not Islam 😂 religions a problem too you sheep
Damn your gonna argue that Israel is right damn your sleep too 😂
It was force that change the black community, so it will be the same that required to fix it.
I've heard and listened to Dr. Ali in the early 90's. Sadly, the sistas were too busy listening to Oprah.
They would rather listen to a woman that hates black men and panders to white women.
@@qman313 You get no argument from me.
@@qman313 Absolutely.
Exactly! And all these talks shows that attack black men. That's what fuck them up and why all races of men don't want them. And, in 2020 there still blaming it on the black men and society
@M Juru Facts! She's been speaking this for a long time. Their ears are always close because of their pride
that woman is beautiful... in EVERY WAY
Very true
For Shahrazad Ali to have 12 kids & still look that fine & to be that well educated 🙌
9 of them are adopted,
@bravefaery135 nine adopted children, wow that's a lot of child tax break credits about $1500-3000 per child.
@@aarondigby5054 Wow, that really shows your twisted mentality. You're the reason why welfare needs to be eliminated. It's crazy that this is the first thing you would even think of to someone adopting children. 🙄
This is a very profound & enlightening interview🙌🏾❤️, who’s listening to this for the first time besides me in 2021??
I listened to it the day you sent it to me.
Yassss and loving it bout to order all 6 from eBay
I'm listening and it is an amazing experience to hear a black woman speaking facts in 1991 that Kevin Samuel is speaking today
Me too
Me first time
She has a beautiful spirit! A revolutionary to the core.
Yes
That's the spirit of a Israelite women.and she is telling us that we are Yahawah's chosen PEOPLE THE ISRAELITES according to the Bible and we fit al the curses in Deuteronomy and we are the descendants of Abraham Isaac and Jacob and our Messiah Yahawahshy which we ignorantly calls Jesus.it's time to come back to Yahawah's Commandments statues and laws so we can raise as a nation again.and the are the people of the bible
Truth
I wasn’t even born when this aired, but I’m forever grateful to this Queen 👸🏿
Respect ✊🏾
I watched n read her book growing up now these days the men go after foolish loose women
Tambora what’s the name of this book. And do you think women like this still exist and if they do how to find them?
You can be Superman with a woman like this!
I am a old school brother 71 years old and I believe that she is the best representative for our lives in the black community. I will always love her.
🏆
This message is more relevant today than ever. I'm glad people are rediscovering sister Sheharazad Ali
Sheharazad Ali
SO TRUE SISTER
I love how she gets the host together every time she opens her doubting mouth.
YES
What's your ig
It’s unbelievable.. But the spirit of Ms.Ali is so elevate she handled her like with such respect and love. Wow we love our sisters 🖤
Correct check n mate.
Facts
She just gave the medicine that will heal black relationships. Let go of the emotions and clear your head to truly listen. Smile every time you see him 🙌🏾
I remember smiling at a black male on the bus in los angels and he cussed me out so bad that I vowed that I would never do it again.
Because of one incident? Weak
JonMwan G how is that weak?? I don’t understand?? Everything is always about you guys. Have many seats.
Lady Bug are you married?
Rick Perez yes, why?
From 1991 and it still resonates today in August 2023
And still...October 2023
26 min!
This queen will checkmate you in EVERY angle on the chessboard.
PERIOD
Big facts
I don't mind calling her a queen she was right . 2021
Bro…the 1st 4-5 mins I realize this.
Good take.
She a goddess
Proud to say after watching her lecture, I purchased all 6 of her books. Got them all for $100!
Hi What site did you purchase her books
Where?
@@chrischip6596 Ebay. They come directly from her site.
You far ahead of the competition
This journalist really think she's crazy.
I read her book when it first came out in 91. My girl at the time left me when she found out. I didn't try to stop her.
Smart and the rest beginning of the update and the rest
You said the key word (GIRL)
She left you because of a book?
Seriously bro?
🤔 wow did you throw the book at her?? Was her leaving a blessing or does the book unfairly bash black women? Are you married to a black woman now?
I have so many questions lol I want to read this book moreso now
This woman is amazing. I wish I would’ve heard her when I was 18. Fortunately, I’m never too old to learn!!
I tell black women, "One of the things we can do for our men is just smile when you see him coming." That statement alone is worth the cost of the books.
YES,YES,YES,,,I DID AND STILL DO,BE THEY YOUNG OR OLD!!!!!! :-D
Ole sKool I felt that ✊🏾
@@TfromTennessee Thx. Its time for us to wake up.
I'm sorry but smiling is not working. Action works. I get weird ass smiles from many white people when I walk by them. 🤔 Not putting you down in any way my sister but that smiling shit dont work. Married for 13 years here.
Cecil Cash I think this post went over your head...I think you’re thinking a lil too hard. I’m sure it’s more about the sentiment, the energy, the care and reverence we should show to our brothers. No ones trying to get married here lmao and I’m damn sure not worried about the weird energy I have received from white ppl. I have knowledge of self and that automatically puts them in perspective. I’m Mother Earth, I’m Eve, Oshun, Auset, Black Madonna. The human race started with me. But no offense taken. And congrats on your marriage. I hope it continues to grow in peace and love ♥️✊🏾
The black community need this woman.
She’s amazing
We need shared philosophies and values. We are what we have been waiting for. (Js)
Yeah that's the kind of woman you can communicate silently with With her all you need to be in is the right situation for the right look to know everything of what she's thinking and communicating.
She is so helpful. Our people need help, and the women not standing behind us can destroy our race for real. It’s a shame
Lol... I don't need her. She's living in the damn 60's.
This lady has inner as well as outer beauty and anyone who listened to her with an open mind will notice a warming heart ànd a tearing of joy ❤
This interview was recorded in 1991. Twenty eight years later, our communities are in chaos. Maybe we should have listened.
They were in chaos then
Debarge revelar información time
Didn’t listen then and not listening now. They want to do their own thing and when the outcome turn badly then they want Sympathy. Okay.....good luck with the sympathy game.
@@SAPHYTYRA Facts
@@dman221 You're probably right. Don't know what it will take for things to change.
Ms.Ali was 37 years old in this footage
Now at 65 she hasn't age a bit
Still a strong, beautiful Queen
SHE "NEVER" WILL BECAUSE SHE IS IN TUNE WITH "TRUTH"!!!!
Hear❗️Hear❗️Hear‼️
Exemplar ❗️Magnificent❗️Black Woman and God’s Gift To “Black-Man” Kind ......‼️
That host is an “un-explainable” (dumb-Eurocentric) CHICKEN-HEAD ‼️
Do u know how many kids she's got,
@William Hudgins 😂😂😂
@@iam9061 She has a total of 12 kids (9 adopted/3 biological).
“If a man has his woman behind him, he will believe he can do anything.” #Jewel
You on point about that brother
Facts! I'm literally willing to die for a women who has my back.
On the side of him not behind him
May I add that she can also be "with" him.
Either way the point is that man and woman should be there for each other, have one another as a team will make the duo a POWER couple, yes being independent is good in all but as a whole we all need someone to carry us through the weak moments or just simply make sure we good when no one else does.
I love this woman as a son to his mother. She spoke up for me and my brethren when we could not speak for ourselves. Love and Respect for Mrs Ali.
She handled herself amazingly against that host, I can't wait to get the book. I'm interested to hear more, I mostly agree
Not going to lie, I wish I heard this YEARS ago. I will be 40 years old next month, and I'm going to be purchasing her book and studying it. She is still so very relevant.
Women learn when it's too late.
I remember seeing Dr Cress Welsing on Donahue back in 1991, she tried to warn us too, now look at us!!
I so happy to hear that you fly nubian Queen sister ❤🤲🏾
@@JoBlakeLisbon it's already to late
I read it in 1999. Can we get married
The sista that's doing the interview is getting a brain inama. She's trying to fight it but the truth and reality is undefeated
💯 She can't handle it because most likely SHE'S one of those women.
Trueeeee
Your So Right...
The sister was fasting and praying for this interview!
The sis was fasting and praying, her replies was all on point!
She raised many points in this interview. Being able to see things in a different perspective helps us broaden our awareness
Facts
I'm at the halfway mark as i post this comment, thus far this women is highly intelligent and articulate.
She is not being biased...she is holding both men and women accountable
She's not taking about your people she's talking about blacks
Absolutely!!
Yep
Lol no she isn’t. But everyone’s perception is their reality❤
It takes a woman to be honest with herself and receive this message. If we heal ourselves we then help our men heal and we heal together #Inshallah
How long does the healing take? Its been 39 years and I still feel like I'm bleeding out!
@Blue Halfmoon 👊🏾💯
We cannot heal if we aren’t having realistic conversations. People keep showing up as someone else or who they think they should be or who they were told to be by their broken parents/family members/friends..etc. There are so many layers
Capeverdeprc AMEN AMEN AMEN
Facts! 💯