I am a human/physical organism, I need to effect an action in the physical world in order to acquire something, I exist in time (aka: the past exists), I can die, I need someone else's love (thanks to Byron Katie for this one). There's loads. They just keep falling away. Its very nice, especially now that I'm not scared of it happening anymore.
This is why I don't tell people that I only work two days a week and have five days off people get so mad 😡. Blessings to all good luck in your life journey ❤👍🤓
@adammorra3813 I make enough to live. I did take a pay cut going from full time to part time, working three days a week. But then I got a different job and went to occasional one day a week and then five ago they asked me to work one more day a week and I was fine with that so now it's two days a week. But with the new job working just one day a week I was making as much as working three days at my old job 👍 I guess I'm lucky. But I hope you get lucky too ❤️ blessings to you 👋
I feel Bob Dylan summed all of this up best. "What's money? A man is a success it he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do."
@@rudimerm7686 thank YOU! 💗 This is what I'm talking about... People think we just wouldn't have anyone to fill these positions if everyone did what they wanted to do. But what people don't understand is that, there are actually many people who are deeply fulfilled by all of the different jobs that need doing.
I feel that she is truly love driven and wants to help others but her heart breaks when people are so stuck in their egos that they cańt see that. I feel the same way. We are all creating the world together and it´s frustrating that we cańt have peace simply because people choose to be fear driven and staunchly defend that position even though that is what is creating the fear in the first place.
Thanks for this 2 videos! I think hate in your videos just reflects the fear when someone, that is used to the system, meets the idea of another way of living so they feel frustrated, because they are the only owners of their life, and maybe they'd rather be doing something else. I wish that instead of focusing on the kitchen people just listen, because you have a great message, or at least gets to my heart and mind so thanks again for this!
Insanity is doing the same thing day after day and expecting a different result. It’s not going to happen. If you want change bad enough, you have to take calculated risks when they present themselves. I had a better paying job before the one I have now but I was ALWAYS at work, dealing with assholes bell to bell and I was miserable. Started positioning myself to change my life and accepted the risks to make it happen. I’m happier now than I’ve ever been with more stability.
girl, tell them! Mindset is a real thing! Comments let you know where people's mindsets are. Keep shining and inspiring. No more energy to the naysayers. You're beautiful and made the decision to live a life you love. More power to you. When the student is ready the teacher will appear. Until then, the lesson will just go over their heads. Much love!
@@McLynnBanks haha, preach! Thank you so much for your comment. You're so right. Really great reminder to hear these things from someone else, so thank you 🙏🏼💗
I work hard as a carpenter. I build homes for ppl and pay my tax. If we don't play by their rules, then nothing would thrive in this world. Everybody would just be home and nothing was build. If we want to change it, then we should go into politics and try to change it.
100%. I left my 70 hour a week job after 10 years, I'm was 55 yrs old May 2023. Everyone said " You're to young to retire". I don't consider myself retired because I have a few rental properties and a small hobby business. I was tired of trading time for money. If you live within your means and stop having every gadget and a new car with high payments, tags and insurance.... You can do it too. Never give up and keep pushing forward. Good luck everyone!
I've got friends who have been complaining for years but they haven't DONE anything to change it. I always tell them that life has no remote; get up and change it yourself. Like you, everything I own will fit in my van (not all at once though). I enjoyed (most) of my 27 years in the military but didn't like the office job I had afterward. Now I'm more free than when I retired because I'm also free of a spouse who never wanted to go do anything other than drink and party. I love travelling solo and meeting people from all over the world!
You know what? The more I attempt to get involved with people, the more I LOVE my dogs. Man, I'm so tired of having to explain myself and what I meant because many people can't listen. Anyway, again, love this channel. I just thought, she has a nice clean kitchen. That is all. F that. haha. perfect. FINALLY someone who is normal and real.
@@RotterStudios Haha, thank you for saying that! Yeah, we really need more people like me, if I do say so myself 😂 Although, I wouldn't say I'm normal 😅
You have videos telling people it's all their fault but when they judge you back you don't like it? You're right no one knows what you've been thru but you don't know what others been thru. It's good to read a few books and examine your beliefs but a curious minded person might notice that all these "the secret" people happen to live very comfortably in the 1st world.
ahh. I just found your channel and its such a breath of fresh air. Thank you for taking the time to put these out here for us. I've long felt these ideas on the inside, but it is so refreshing to hear someone else reflect them back at me. Very validating.
Sheep! Most people think small, you just so happen to be able to see the big picture than many people never get the chance to see! Don’t let these people bring you down, you’re doing so wonderful I keep seeing your YT grow! I knew it would get big fast! And yesss you do have a nice kitchen! 😉 Happy New Year from Dallas, Texas! ❤️🎊
Thank you, Nick! I really appreciate you. You're one of the OGs! 💗 And yes, my messages isn't meant for everyone. Only those who are open enough to receive it 😉
Folks will always come for you in the comments. I’m glad to hear your response to the doubters and naysayers. I’ll suggest this book for a shift in mindset: “You’ll SEE it when you BELIEVE it.” By Wayne Dyer It’s true that when you change the way you look at things the things you look at change. Not saying this is an easy shift for everyone but it is possible.
Also disagree; not trying to argue. For me, relaxing and doing nothing at home sounds like hell. I love moving my body, being in nature, cleaning up the streets with gloves and a trash bag. I make my money with a remote accounting job that I just despise now. I’m sure most would love the job, but it’s not for me. I’d rather train people, clean the planet, and move my body freely. I don’t want my car, I don’t want a house over 1k square feet. I just want to be alive, ya know?
What is the old saying? If you enjoy what you do, you never work a day in your life. Pretty obvious she is trying to help people change their mindset and progress to a better future.
I enjoyed your video. I was in Corp America for almost 30 years. I now work for myself and find it extremely more rewarding. In today's world, the concept of "work" is increasingly seen as flawed, primarily due to its origins, the structure of the modern corporate environment, and its impact on personal fulfillment and societal well-being. The traditional work model, which emphasizes long hours, rigid structures, and a focus on productivity over creativity, has roots in historical systems designed to produce compliant workers rather than independent thinkers. This framework is deeply entrenched in the educational and corporate sectors, leading to widespread dissatisfaction and a sense of entrapment. The American school system, for instance, was significantly influenced by industrial magnates like John D. Rockefeller. The system was designed during the Industrial Revolution to prepare young individuals for factory work, emphasizing punctuality, obedience, and repetitive tasks over critical thinking and creativity. This model was intended to create a reliable workforce for burgeoning industries, but it inadvertently stifled the potential for innovation and personal growth. Schools prioritized rote learning and standardized testing, which limited the development of independent thought and problem-solving skills, thus conditioning students to fit into a pre-defined corporate mold. As these students transition into the workforce, they often enter corporate environments that perpetuate a similar ethos. Corporations have long used the illusion of job security to maintain a steady workforce, promising stable careers in exchange for loyalty and hard work. However, the reality is that layoffs and economic downturns are common, leaving many employees vulnerable. This sense of insecurity is compounded by the fact that employees are often seen as replaceable resources rather than valued contributors. The corporate promise of security is frequently undermined by market fluctuations, cost-cutting measures, and automation, which have led to a growing mistrust in the traditional employment model. In contrast, pursuing one's passions is increasingly recognized as a pathway to a healthier, more fulfilling life. Studies have shown that individuals who engage in work aligned with their personal interests and values report higher levels of satisfaction and mental well-being. Passion-driven work fosters creativity, innovation, and a sense of purpose, which are often missing in conventional jobs. The pursuit of passion allows individuals to leverage their unique talents and cultivate a sense of autonomy, contributing to a more balanced and meaningful life. Additionally, passion-driven individuals often exhibit greater resilience and adaptability, as they are motivated by intrinsic rewards rather than external pressures. Despite these benefits, many people remain trapped in the conventional work system due to materialism and financial obligations. The modern consumer culture emphasizes the acquisition of goods and status symbols, which necessitates a steady income. This pursuit of material wealth often leads individuals to prioritize high-paying, secure jobs over fulfilling, passion-driven careers. As a result, many people find themselves locked into a cycle of work that prioritizes financial stability over personal happiness and well-being. The pressure to maintain a certain lifestyle can make it difficult to break free from the traditional work model, perpetuating a cycle of dissatisfaction and disconnection from one's true aspirations. In conclusion, the concept of work in today's world is flawed due to its historical roots in industrialism, the deceptive security offered by corporations, and the societal emphasis on materialism. The education system's focus on producing compliant workers rather than independent thinkers has led to a workforce that is often ill-equipped to navigate the modern job market's uncertainties. Moreover, the pursuit of material wealth has trapped many individuals in unfulfilling careers, preventing them from pursuing their passions and achieving personal fulfillment. To address these flaws, a paradigm shift is needed that values creativity, critical thinking, and passion over conformity and material success.
@@wessenechal Good Lord this was so well said 💗😂 Thank you for taking the time to share it. You are exactly right, on every account. The paradigm shift is coming 😉
I resonate with your message and have myself gave everything away to live in a van for several years, living out of 10 000$/year for 2 ppl. We lived mostly on the beach and nature and barefoot. I questioned all this as you do. However, the kitchen also jumped into my eyes at first minute of your video. And it does feel like a big dissonance. You have to also see it from the audience perspective. We're bombarded with information and ideas from everyone. And we have to sort out through all that information what feels like trash or valuable. Between all that click-baity content that is often empty of value. So people are hungry for the truth. What makes it possible for somebody to ditch the work slavery but at the same time sit in a wonderful kitchen that only some people can afford? I think a lot of people would love to use the key of such mystery to improve their life. Otherwise this message will rather appear like another fraud to ditch.
_I believe_ I can be an Astronaut and live on the International Space Station. I'm 43 years old and weight 237 lbs with no college degree but I read a book and now I know that as long as I believe I can be an astronaut, then I can. I'll update you on how that works out!
I share the experience of having complete strangers click on my most popular video then make Olympic level mental gymnastics to project absolutely ridiculous projections about me without even listening to what I'm saying. They were too random for me to invest the time to make a video response to them, but I really resonate a lot with the energy you're putting out here.
@@busybecomingmyself In the future I'm sure I'll lose the motivation to respond 😂 I'm realizing this is only going to get worse as time goes on and the channel grows. It is comforting to know that it's a shared experience, though 😉❤️
Love the comeback video. You’re so right. Personally I battle severe depression. Change is what I need and figuring what that change is when you feel like this in my mind seems impossible. I know it’s not but it just seems that way. Love your videos. Thanks for the motivation. O and I love the kitchen🤣. 💪💪💪
To those of us that see the limitation of beliefs, it’s hard to unsee it in practically everyone including ourselves but a little self awareness goes a hell of a long way. Keep doing what you’re doing. You have a knack for explaining this hard to explain subject so obviously the world could use you. Bump these negative comments. It’s a version of people heads in their own asses lol
Also wtg on the monetization. Step two complete! Some people can’t take someone talking animatedly and call it negative. lol is all you can do sometimes haha
This video makes me want to watch all of your videos love your passion and your ability to not give a F to cuss and say what you feel. I just found your channel and now I want binge watch all of your content
Your conviction in itself gave me the same energy as a best selling novel or an action movie. I've been thinking the same way as you for over a decade now, don't stop, keep getting the word out
I'll take the conversation the a different way. As creator on youtube (different channel, I just comment on this one). This was the best plan I have seen to get 2 videos to really hit back to back and niche down to your core audience. Good work and well thought out. It helps that this is the way you really feel. And yes, the more money you make the less you work. Money is just a way of controlling your time.
@ you have a natural ability to story tell and a message that will draw an audience. You will do well on RUclips. I have heard said another which is find your tribe. It’s raw and authentic. Vs the other edited content that has ruled RUclips for several years.
@@planetalkaboutcyber That is high praise. It really means a lot to me 🥲 This channel is a dream I've had for many years. It has been a long time comin'... Thank you again for taking the time to comment 🙏
people love to judge anything that they do not understand. It requires too much energy to use one's commonsense and even to have an empathy for others.
Your channel randomly popped up in my feed, so i have listened to 2 videos now. There will always be haters, and although i understand the desire to, you dont need to defend yourself or your life to anyone. From what i see, you are attempting to be real, sharing personal experience and it is refreshing. If it were not thought provoking or relatable in some form, myself and others wouldnt be here. So far, pretty awesome, be you, screw the haters. Being you, is more than enough. Kind regards.
Cringe 😬 You don't like passive so let me give it to you straight. As soon as I saw your title I thought "no, please no" and then you proceeded to do what I feared. You are overestimating your qualifications and ability to give advice. It would be better for society if you just gave more massages (that you hate to tell people you do) and talk to people one on one. RUclips platforms aren't for everyone!
Everything she says is pretty accurate and true to my own experience... I'm not particularly comfortable with the intensity of expression, but it's all very true. I have heard all the same objections to living a life that feels worth living rather than wasting my time doing things I don't want to do. I've chosen to go ahead anyway and I'm so glad I did! 🙏🏼
Life isn't always about materialistic things, what you create is what you put out there, one thing I have learnt fear will kill you.. happy New year thank you for the great content...
LOL. A couple years ago, I opened my house to my wife's friend who discovered she wasn't self-actualized enough to continue her job as a hair stylist. She stayed for six months, rent free, stress free, but not drama free. She wanted to create music. No income. She wanted to do art. No income. She would run up utility bills without any contribution. It was inconsiderate and driving me crazy. But hey, at least she didn't let the larger society brainwash her or pigeonhole her into an unfulfilling job, right? Aspirations have a price, and I'll never let anyone try to manifest their hopes and dreams on my dime again. I think I'm gonna quit my job to be an astronaut. I am going to break free from this cult of responsibility and sacrifice to live my best life! That's goodthink!
It’s funny. I thought “wow she has a nice kitchen”. I’m not a person to think it must be nice of what other people have. I’ve been broke before and I dug myself out of being in $30k in CC debt. I just recently moved after selling all my semi trucks and haven’t worked in 3 months so far. I thought about getting a job but really despise the thought about clocking in everyday.
@@Stealthschannel Haha. I'm glad you have this perspective. It's comforting 😁 Good for you.. I'd say, if you're feeling resistance maybe hold off, until the way forward becomes more clear 💗
Happy Holidays! Having personally renovated several houses (myself, I didn't bring a contractor or anything), I have a pretty good idea of what it takes to put together a kitchen like that. It's a lot less than a lot of people think, that's why people can get away with charging crazy amounts of money to do it. It's all stagecraft. Your minimalist style helps keep it looking elegant instead of overloaded and cluttered like many kitchesns I've seen. Again, stagecraft. As far as WE know, that kitchen is about all there is to that house. Maybe you just have a cot in the corner. I really don't pay much attention to what other people have, except maybe to say it looks nice. It's all just part of the show, but people are often distracted by the razzle-dazzle. I could easily believe that that "kitchen" is just an image placed behind you Except for that candle you often have lit, it could easily be all fake. ANYTHING to avoid what it is you're trying to say. It's so much easier and more satisfying to criticize the messenger than to listen to the message. Yes, you too can have a kitchen like that with a little bit of money and a goodly amount of work. IF that's what's really important to you.
People want to see themselves as passive participants in life, their existence controlled by powers beyond them…. To admit that they have personal accountability and personal agency is to admit they been neglecting Wisdom.
I agree on freedom with you, I worked everywhere and everything and now there's nothing left but to do what I love doing and fight. But I also see now there's another freedom that doesn't depend whether you work in factory or having dream life.. Freedom to be happy no matter what, being happy in midst of worst suffering.. And I'll take that kind of freedom over any other.
I understand your frustration here friend. People (including myself not too long ago) will cop out of change in so many ways just to reaffirm the limiting beliefs in their own mind. That’s self-sabotage at its finest. Ladies and gentlemen, I don’t think you’re understanding the point this lovely woman is trying to say: she’s not saying “DON’T WORK, BE A BUM”. That’s what your fearful CONDITIONED MIND is programmed to believe. What she saying is, getting up and going to a job you hate every day isn’t doing you or anyone else any favors. It’s keeping you (us all) trapped in a cycle of misery believing we need to slave for hours a day working for some asshole and/or cut throat industry. She’s saying take the freedom. Embrace the agency that you exercise. Stop taking shit from a World that wasn’t designed for your success. Be human. The nature of us is innately free.
I have been a cart wrangler and a delivery driver. Heat, cold, it was fun. So I got to be outside, be appreciated like crazy, and get paid. That wasn't work - it was playing hard.
"AMEN!" I just stumbled on your channel tonight watching your "dating profiles" video...I guess I was curious about a woman in a bath tub doing a video... Anyway, you have some great stuff here too...I relate to so much of what you are saying about "doing what you love, and it doesn't become "work"!" I'm 70 years old, retired for 11 years now....wishing I could have a "do-over". I have no regrets, but it would have been a much different story. I'm a new subscriber now, and I look forward to catching up on more of your insights about life! Happy New Year to all of us!
@@paulfrederiksen5411 Wow, thank you so much! I really appreciate you watching my videos 🙏🏼 I hope I continue to deliver valuable content that you enjoy! 💗
Tell that to a man who's sitting here for weeks on end without any money and am bored out of his gourd. I feel pretty damn stuck without a job, to be honest.
In part it starts with many people's school experience, where not enough kids are encouraged in the direction of working for themselves as an ambition. Instead, lots of energy and time is expended upon learning things that don't connect with who they are, and that becomes a mental template for their employment lives in the future. This can get reinforced in the home and by the attitudes of most people around them who've been through the education (state school) system. It takes being a bit of a maverick or rebel, and very focused with it to bypass that programming.
She is right guys, she is on the way to freedom talking to you about stuff she read in the books and sales to you aspirations(transformatiom.etc)..its easy and manipulative method to grow a channel/income like thousands of "life couches" already are. They all have this i wanna help you theme, but instead they growing their own "authority" . Mindset is everything., her midnset is to speak about subjects and people situations like she knows what she is talking about.
Why the rage? What limiting belief is allowing anyone's comments to elicit such anger? Hint: It is not out here but an inside job. Sit anywhere you choose. Just, go within.♥ Edited to add: Your video popped up in my feed. I am not a subscriber or have ever seen your channel. I just recognized the emotions that kept me back from realizing WHO we truly are. Wishing you peace on your journey.
You got the right idea you have to be childlike, filled with unreasonable Joy. I walked into the Walmart one day feeling particularly joyful. Just for context im a 54-year-old straight white male. So I walk in and the Whitney Houston song The Greatest Love of All was playing and I started singing it because I know the truth of those words. The next thing I know a bunch of women are giving me dirty looks over their shoulder. I looked right at them and said what I'm joyful are you afraid to be joyful. These looks are what keep most people from being joyful in public. It is fear of public opinion and nothing more. I absolutely refuse to be an angry jaded adult like everybody else I am going to do what Yeshua said and become like a little child so that I can see the face of God. And no disrespect intended but these people do have a point you don't want to work yet you live in an awful nice house somebody's paying the bills
I used to work in a clothes shop and often I would spot a little child dancing away to the music playing in the shop in front of the mirror. A pure joy to watch and occassionally I would join in. I just needed an excuse :) Sadly, some of them would get a bit self-conscious and stop and go all shy.
angry or passionate? because people think it's ok to tell a stranger who they think they are it's insulting.. My friends look like they have it all they are over 100k in debt. Stop comparing you don't know shit that person could have a nice kitchen and the love of their life just died at 42 fuck the kitchen. Mine looks this nice it's from IKEA my car is paid off and over 10 yrs old. Can't you people do this evaluation on your own?
I like your kitchen haha. Yup, love the delivery, totally concur. Crazy, im aware of what you say and have lived it but i have been in a stuck place and it has had an effect on my health. Love the vids, they are rekindling my fire, ty 😊
Okay lets just get this out of the way - Nobody *loves* picking up someone else's trash and smelling like trash. Let's address that. The system is designed to make you do what you don't necessarly want to do, but what the system needs you to do.
Living in a million dollar house is more difficult than being homeless in many regards... These people have no concept of the unbelievable amount of work it takes to make & keep a place like this nice, clean & cozy.. No concept of hard physical labor... Awesome video thanks 👏👏👏💯💯💯💯
@InfinityCurve Also when one is homeless, one typically doesn't have any possessions to be concerned with at all or very little possessions, that can be a very nice luxury... That alone is a special kind of freedoms. Of course pros & cons to both. But home owner ship & maintenance is no joke, especially for just one person who's music is his passion... Not for the faint of heart!!! Deadly even... But yes respect to both struggles 🙏
@makelifemedicine Yes I agree!! And thorough property maintenance is no joke as you know & it literally almost killed me several times, thousands of hours of work... But I came out on top 💪💪 Glad some one gets this, thanks for your response!! 🙏
I want to be able to do this. I’ve been unable to shift my mindset no matter how many books I read. I can’t seem to find whatever it is that will get me to actually change my life. Love the kitchen
Hi! Although books may inspire or point you in a good direction… the only thing any of us can do is start where we are and take one next, however little, step… I find breathwork (aka checking in with how my body feels and how I’m breathing and being sure I’m breathing through my nose/mouth closed and deep in my abdomen) to be the easiest, most accessible practices that helps me connect with myself. Once you’ve practiced it a little bit, you have a switch to your nervous system and you can self regulate up or down. Checking out a few videos about vagus nerve reset exercises and also body flossing could be super helpful. They’re low entry threshold and don’t require daily repetition to have a positive accumulative impact. Good luck!
Caitlin, this is the most entertainment I've had in a while, so thanks for this video! lol You're 100% right about everything and when knuckleheads show up to rain on the party, it's more of a confession of their narrowmindedness than anything else. Argue for your limitations and they're yours.
@@seangregory2734 Welp, I always say that I aim to entertain! 😅 I'm very happy to provide some comedic relief. You are so right. These people are....also entertaining. In a different way 😂 Thank you so much for watching and for your comment 💗
I think a lot of people mistake appearances with wealth. It doesn't matter if someone has a huge amount of debt as long as they have all the flashy things. 🤔 My biggest issue is feeling worthy in a world that worships money.
It seems like you might be underestimating some of the intrinsic talent, skill, and tenacity that help in finding success. That's not to take away from anything as it still takes effort, guts, and a little luck. Having seen my path as something of an outlier's journey, I have to ask did I chose it or did it choose me? Thank you for the inspiration. Also, nice kitchen. :)
It goes back to an old photo I saw that said "Who wants change?" Everyone raises their hand. Then the question "Who wants to change?" Only a few people raise their hand. It also doesn't help that for years that many people have posted financial success videos on RUclips and usually said people come from rich backgrounds. As a result they view self improvement and self actualization as a scam. It's better for the average person or normie to have a comfortable job than take risks. By the way, you do have a lovely kitchen ;)!
In contrast, I can't stand the swearing, I find it very aggressive. Why not choose a more gentler approach? We are all different. I prefer watching more gentle, relaxing videos. I've downsized and totally agree with what she is saying. Work/Invest to have enough money to pay the bills, then I try to find free ways to enjoy my leisure time - that I call "my life". As kids we didn't need to spend money to have fun, we made our own entertainment.
The first video I watched of yours was PT1 last week, in which my partner suggested a bit of concern over its "hoity-toity" appearance🤣! I'm sorry that you were basically performing a public service and getting heckled for it by a portion of the audience. I grok that, as well as the frustration over people making various excuses for not wanting to change their mindset. I had to leave a marriage of 20+ years (about 3yrs ago) because a near-death experience changed my heavily pessimistic perspective. I asked my wife a few times to change with me, but she just wasn't ready to stop judging others and wallowing in her trauma. Please don't fret about it too much, those who criticized ultimately are at another point in their evolution. Some wise folks have nice kitchens, what can I say😸🎩✨️?
@@Cheshire_Alchemist Haha, I appreciate you! Yeah, I mean I don't know what to say... It's true that I live in a nice house... But I promise you I am so far from hoity-toity. I am a ragamuffin 😂 Also, I want to say that you are extremely courageous for changing your life in the way that you did. I admire that 💗 Thank you for watching and for the support 🙏🏼
I watch your videos because I appreciate the energy you bring when sharing your thought processes. I subscribed because I hope to look at my life through different lenses - gain through perspectives if possible. I watch other channels for kitchen remodels, or income opportunities, or pretty faces. Stay true to your cause. Some of us will stick with you because you come across as genuine and insightful. Some of us enjoy delightful, tasteful applications of choice profanities. Trolls are just passing through.
I watched your last video, my very first of yours, and enjoyed it, I'm only 3 minutes in, as I leave this comment, and am LOVING this one even more 😂😊😊 So many FLOGS these day's, IGNORE the haters who have no life, and keep doing what your doing 😊👍 Now to watch the rest of your vid. HAPPY NEW YEAR to you 🎉🎉 Cheers Rob from Tasmania AUSTRALIA 🇦🇺
You do have wisdom. Come down on material wants go up on the non material things in life. Being concerned with other people's opinions will hold you back. I can't express all my thoughts but I value your advice. & have a plan
What limiting beliefs have you had to challenge to create the life you want? I’m here for the real talk. 👇
People shouldn't take what others do, personally.
@ghanna7787 agree 💗
@makelifemedicine caring too much what "friends" think. Or people in public while vlogging
Beliefs & Limits are Illusions.
P.S Don't be limited by the haters. Let their lead fuel your golden fire.
Keep up the Great Work 🙏 ❤
I am a human/physical organism, I need to effect an action in the physical world in order to acquire something, I exist in time (aka: the past exists), I can die, I need someone else's love (thanks to Byron Katie for this one). There's loads. They just keep falling away. Its very nice, especially now that I'm not scared of it happening anymore.
This is why I don't tell people that I only work two days a week and have five days off people get so mad 😡. Blessings to all good luck in your life journey ❤👍🤓
Yeah but how much are you making?
@adammorra3813 I make enough to live. I did take a pay cut going from full time to part time, working three days a week. But then I got a different job and went to occasional one day a week and then five ago they asked me to work one more day a week and I was fine with that so now it's two days a week. But with the new job working just one day a week I was making as much as working three days at my old job 👍 I guess I'm lucky. But I hope you get lucky too ❤️ blessings to you 👋
@@VRplay86 thats great to hear. Blessings upon you
What do you do for work??? I need something I can have that kind of schedule with and take care of myself
Shoot, when someone tells me stuff like that, or if they work from home or whatever, I get super happy for them and let them know it.
I feel Bob Dylan summed all of this up best.
"What's money? A man is a success it he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do."
@@bigdaz7272 That's right 💗
Teacher here who lives paycheck to paycheck, but I am fulfilled making a positive impact in the lives of my students.
@@rudimerm7686 thank YOU! 💗 This is what I'm talking about... People think we just wouldn't have anyone to fill these positions if everyone did what they wanted to do. But what people don't understand is that, there are actually many people who are deeply fulfilled by all of the different jobs that need doing.
@@makelifemedicine 💯
BANG!!! 🎉💯💥
Love it! Such a breath of fresh air. Stay your path ❤
@@sandingovations8405 Wow, thank you! I certainly will 😉💗
A truly happy person wouldn't let the ignorance of others upset them so much
I feel that she is truly love driven and wants to help others but her heart breaks when people are so stuck in their egos that they cańt see that. I feel the same way. We are all creating the world together and it´s frustrating that we cańt have peace simply because people choose to be fear driven and staunchly defend that position even though that is what is creating the fear in the first place.
Thanks for this 2 videos! I think hate in your videos just reflects the fear when someone, that is used to the system, meets the idea of another way of living so they feel frustrated, because they are the only owners of their life, and maybe they'd rather be doing something else. I wish that instead of focusing on the kitchen people just listen, because you have a great message, or at least gets to my heart and mind so thanks again for this!
Insanity is doing the same thing day after day and expecting a different result. It’s not going to happen. If you want change bad enough, you have to take calculated risks when they present themselves. I had a better paying job before the one I have now but I was ALWAYS at work, dealing with assholes bell to bell and I was miserable. Started positioning myself to change my life and accepted the risks to make it happen. I’m happier now than I’ve ever been with more stability.
@@geoffarcuri7877 You did what 99% refuse to do good for you 💗
girl, tell them! Mindset is a real thing! Comments let you know where people's mindsets are. Keep shining and inspiring. No more energy to the naysayers. You're beautiful and made the decision to live a life you love. More power to you. When the student is ready the teacher will appear. Until then, the lesson will just go over their heads. Much love!
@@McLynnBanks haha, preach! Thank you so much for your comment. You're so right. Really great reminder to hear these things from someone else, so thank you 🙏🏼💗
I work hard as a carpenter. I build homes for ppl and pay my tax. If we don't play by their rules, then nothing would thrive in this world. Everybody would just be home and nothing was build. If we want to change it, then we should go into politics and try to change it.
100%. I left my 70 hour a week job after 10 years, I'm was 55 yrs old May 2023. Everyone said " You're to young to retire". I don't consider myself retired because I have a few rental properties and a small hobby business. I was tired of trading time for money. If you live within your means and stop having every gadget and a new car with high payments, tags and insurance.... You can do it too. Never give up and keep pushing forward. Good luck everyone!
@@user-ru3lw1xu4u Good for you 🙌🏼
I've got friends who have been complaining for years but they haven't DONE anything to change it. I always tell them that life has no remote; get up and change it yourself. Like you, everything I own will fit in my van (not all at once though). I enjoyed (most) of my 27 years in the military but didn't like the office job I had afterward. Now I'm more free than when I retired because I'm also free of a spouse who never wanted to go do anything other than drink and party. I love travelling solo and meeting people from all over the world!
That's amazing! Your life sounds incredible. I'm really happy for you, that you are now FREEEEE.
I also like the "life has no remote"
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You know what? The more I attempt to get involved with people, the more I LOVE my dogs. Man, I'm so tired of having to explain myself and what I meant because many people can't listen. Anyway, again, love this channel. I just thought, she has a nice clean kitchen. That is all. F that. haha. perfect. FINALLY someone who is normal and real.
@@RotterStudios Haha, thank you for saying that! Yeah, we really need more people like me, if I do say so myself 😂 Although, I wouldn't say I'm normal 😅
Me too , people are mostly negativly brainwashed
I was thinking it had to be a green screen. That kitchen is far too clean to be real. 😀
@michaelpoczynek it's real 🫣
@@makelifemedicine Pretty Pretty Nice!
You have videos telling people it's all their fault but when they judge you back you don't like it?
You're right no one knows what you've been thru but you don't know what others been thru.
It's good to read a few books and examine your beliefs but a curious minded person might notice that all these "the secret" people happen to live very comfortably in the 1st world.
How dare you criticize her! She has read several books and now knows everything.
Yep, the small hat secret people
ahh. I just found your channel and its such a breath of fresh air. Thank you for taking the time to put these out here for us. I've long felt these ideas on the inside, but it is so refreshing to hear someone else reflect them back at me. Very validating.
I never imagined that I'd hear this said so clearly by an average American. Beautifully articulated rap!
Erich Fromm, fear of freedom...and other books...from 70s...❤❤
Dont waste time on people completely unaware ignorant...saludos del Ecuador...❤
@@rnunezc.4575 Absolutely. I will check out that book..sounds like one I'd like 😉 Thank you 💗
Sheep! Most people think small, you just so happen to be able to see the big picture than many people never get the chance to see! Don’t let these people bring you down, you’re doing so wonderful I keep seeing your YT grow! I knew it would get big fast! And yesss you do have a nice kitchen! 😉 Happy New Year from Dallas, Texas! ❤️🎊
Thank you, Nick! I really appreciate you. You're one of the OGs! 💗
And yes, my messages isn't meant for everyone. Only those who are open enough to receive it 😉
Folks will always come for you in the comments. I’m glad to hear your response to the doubters and naysayers.
I’ll suggest this book for a shift in mindset:
“You’ll SEE it when you BELIEVE it.” By Wayne Dyer
It’s true that when you change the way you look at things the things you look at change. Not saying this is an easy shift for everyone but it is possible.
@@eyekelly1530 100%. Wayne Dyer is an OG 💖
The point is, work is work. Even people who “love” what they do for work probably would choose to relax at home instead. That don’t pay.
I disagree. Very few people who are truly connected with their heart and soul would choose to relax at home. For example, I am one of those people 😂
Also disagree; not trying to argue. For me, relaxing and doing nothing at home sounds like hell. I love moving my body, being in nature, cleaning up the streets with gloves and a trash bag. I make my money with a remote accounting job that I just despise now. I’m sure most would love the job, but it’s not for me. I’d rather train people, clean the planet, and move my body freely. I don’t want my car, I don’t want a house over 1k square feet. I just want to be alive, ya know?
@alexconstas9634 Amen 💗
Holy spaztime batman, maybe frame it as "change your job to something you enjoy" rather than "you don't have to work"
Yeah clickbait titles are a cancer on here. So many times I fall for it and what’s mentioned in the title is absent from the video.
@colasrtney 100% agreed. ❤️🍕
It's a response to a video with the same title. It's not clickbait, it's so that people who watched the first video can easily find this one.
What is the old saying? If you enjoy what you do, you never work a day in your life. Pretty obvious she is trying to help people change their mindset and progress to a better future.
@jamesthedog7783 spazing out isn't in any of the books on persuasion.
You are such a breath of fresh air ! Love sent
@@sylvainw.w.1344 You're amazing! Sending love to you too 💕
I enjoyed your video. I was in Corp America for almost 30 years. I now work for myself and find it extremely more rewarding. In today's world, the concept of "work" is increasingly seen as flawed, primarily due to its origins, the structure of the modern corporate environment, and its impact on personal fulfillment and societal well-being. The traditional work model, which emphasizes long hours, rigid structures, and a focus on productivity over creativity, has roots in historical systems designed to produce compliant workers rather than independent thinkers. This framework is deeply entrenched in the educational and corporate sectors, leading to widespread dissatisfaction and a sense of entrapment.
The American school system, for instance, was significantly influenced by industrial magnates like John D. Rockefeller. The system was designed during the Industrial Revolution to prepare young individuals for factory work, emphasizing punctuality, obedience, and repetitive tasks over critical thinking and creativity. This model was intended to create a reliable workforce for burgeoning industries, but it inadvertently stifled the potential for innovation and personal growth. Schools prioritized rote learning and standardized testing, which limited the development of independent thought and problem-solving skills, thus conditioning students to fit into a pre-defined corporate mold.
As these students transition into the workforce, they often enter corporate environments that perpetuate a similar ethos. Corporations have long used the illusion of job security to maintain a steady workforce, promising stable careers in exchange for loyalty and hard work. However, the reality is that layoffs and economic downturns are common, leaving many employees vulnerable. This sense of insecurity is compounded by the fact that employees are often seen as replaceable resources rather than valued contributors. The corporate promise of security is frequently undermined by market fluctuations, cost-cutting measures, and automation, which have led to a growing mistrust in the traditional employment model.
In contrast, pursuing one's passions is increasingly recognized as a pathway to a healthier, more fulfilling life. Studies have shown that individuals who engage in work aligned with their personal interests and values report higher levels of satisfaction and mental well-being. Passion-driven work fosters creativity, innovation, and a sense of purpose, which are often missing in conventional jobs. The pursuit of passion allows individuals to leverage their unique talents and cultivate a sense of autonomy, contributing to a more balanced and meaningful life. Additionally, passion-driven individuals often exhibit greater resilience and adaptability, as they are motivated by intrinsic rewards rather than external pressures.
Despite these benefits, many people remain trapped in the conventional work system due to materialism and financial obligations. The modern consumer culture emphasizes the acquisition of goods and status symbols, which necessitates a steady income. This pursuit of material wealth often leads individuals to prioritize high-paying, secure jobs over fulfilling, passion-driven careers. As a result, many people find themselves locked into a cycle of work that prioritizes financial stability over personal happiness and well-being. The pressure to maintain a certain lifestyle can make it difficult to break free from the traditional work model, perpetuating a cycle of dissatisfaction and disconnection from one's true aspirations.
In conclusion, the concept of work in today's world is flawed due to its historical roots in industrialism, the deceptive security offered by corporations, and the societal emphasis on materialism. The education system's focus on producing compliant workers rather than independent thinkers has led to a workforce that is often ill-equipped to navigate the modern job market's uncertainties. Moreover, the pursuit of material wealth has trapped many individuals in unfulfilling careers, preventing them from pursuing their passions and achieving personal fulfillment. To address these flaws, a paradigm shift is needed that values creativity, critical thinking, and passion over conformity and material success.
@@wessenechal Good Lord this was so well said 💗😂
Thank you for taking the time to share it. You are exactly right, on every account. The paradigm shift is coming 😉
Hey, you dont have to explain anything to anyone.Its your life and you do you. Greetings from Amsterdam,The Netherlands ❤😊
@@sharonloveschocolate Thank you, Sharon! I appreciate that ☺️💗
Its interesting how hard people will fight for their supposed limitations.
I resonate with your message and have myself gave everything away to live in a van for several years, living out of 10 000$/year for 2 ppl. We lived mostly on the beach and nature and barefoot. I questioned all this as you do.
However, the kitchen also jumped into my eyes at first minute of your video. And it does feel like a big dissonance. You have to also see it from the audience perspective. We're bombarded with information and ideas from everyone. And we have to sort out through all that information what feels like trash or valuable. Between all that click-baity content that is often empty of value.
So people are hungry for the truth. What makes it possible for somebody to ditch the work slavery but at the same time sit in a wonderful kitchen that only some people can afford?
I think a lot of people would love to use the key of such mystery to improve their life. Otherwise this message will rather appear like another fraud to ditch.
_I believe_ I can be an Astronaut and live on the International Space Station.
I'm 43 years old and weight 237 lbs with no college degree but I read a book and now I know that as long as I believe I can be an astronaut, then I can.
I'll update you on how that works out!
For the record, it is nice to have an awesome house and be rich. When people say, "it must be nice" I say yes it is.
@@chariotsoffire2714 I love that 😂 Own it. There is no shame in it, whatsoever.
I share the experience of having complete strangers click on my most popular video then make Olympic level mental gymnastics to project absolutely ridiculous projections about me without even listening to what I'm saying. They were too random for me to invest the time to make a video response to them, but I really resonate a lot with the energy you're putting out here.
@@busybecomingmyself In the future I'm sure I'll lose the motivation to respond 😂 I'm realizing this is only going to get worse as time goes on and the channel grows.
It is comforting to know that it's a shared experience, though 😉❤️
Love the comeback video. You’re so right. Personally I battle severe depression. Change is what I need and figuring what that change is when you feel like this in my mind seems impossible. I know it’s not but it just seems that way. Love your videos. Thanks for the motivation. O and I love the kitchen🤣. 💪💪💪
To those of us that see the limitation of beliefs, it’s hard to unsee it in practically everyone including ourselves but a little self awareness goes a hell of a long way. Keep doing what you’re doing. You have a knack for explaining this hard to explain subject so obviously the world could use you. Bump these negative comments. It’s a version of people heads in their own asses lol
Also wtg on the monetization. Step two complete! Some people can’t take someone talking animatedly and call it negative. lol is all you can do sometimes haha
This video makes me want to watch all of your videos love your passion and your ability to not give a F to cuss and say what you feel. I just found your channel and now I want binge watch all of your content
Haha, why thank you! I'm very happy to have you here, and I hope you enjoy my other vids 😉💗
Your conviction in itself gave me the same energy as a best selling novel or an action movie. I've been thinking the same way as you for over a decade now, don't stop, keep getting the word out
Wow, thank you so much. That is high praise 💗
⭐️⭐️⭐️ So good! Following you now…
@@stefan-w7s8y Wow, thank you! I appreciate it very much 🙏🏼💗
Love your channel! Just recently found it. Thank you for all of the helpful content! 👍
@@petromusic23 wow thank you! I'm so glad you are here with me 🥰
You are so right!!! I have been living this way for a long time, and I am perfectly happy. It is truly a mindset that we can choose.
@@BurtonEubank 100% and good on you for figuring it out, and for honoring yourself! 🙌🏼💗
I'll take the conversation the a different way. As creator on youtube (different channel, I just comment on this one). This was the best plan I have seen to get 2 videos to really hit back to back and niche down to your core audience. Good work and well thought out. It helps that this is the way you really feel.
And yes, the more money you make the less you work. Money is just a way of controlling your time.
100% you get it. And thank you for the feedback! I appreciate you 💕
@ you have a natural ability to story tell and a message that will draw an audience. You will do well on RUclips. I have heard said another which is find your tribe. It’s raw and authentic. Vs the other edited content that has ruled RUclips for several years.
@@planetalkaboutcyber That is high praise. It really means a lot to me 🥲
This channel is a dream I've had for many years. It has been a long time comin'...
Thank you again for taking the time to comment 🙏
Love hearing somone finally rant about this. It's like yelling at sheep.
Haters gonna hate. Preach what you want!
@@rockinrodlittle They really will 😂 Thank you, I appreciate you!
@ most welcome. I appreciate you putting yourself out there.
people love to judge anything that they do not understand. It requires too much energy to use one's commonsense and even to have an empathy for others.
100%. It's tiring. Haha.
Your channel randomly popped up in my feed, so i have listened to 2 videos now. There will always be haters, and although i understand the desire to, you dont need to defend yourself or your life to anyone. From what i see, you are attempting to be real, sharing personal experience and it is refreshing. If it were not thought provoking or relatable in some form, myself and others wouldnt be here. So far, pretty awesome, be you, screw the haters. Being you, is more than enough. Kind regards.
Cringe 😬 You don't like passive so let me give it to you straight. As soon as I saw your title I thought "no, please no" and then you proceeded to do what I feared.
You are overestimating your qualifications and ability to give advice. It would be better for society if you just gave more massages (that you hate to tell people you do) and talk to people one on one. RUclips platforms aren't for everyone!
Everything she says is pretty accurate and true to my own experience... I'm not particularly comfortable with the intensity of expression, but it's all very true.
I have heard all the same objections to living a life that feels worth living rather than wasting my time doing things I don't want to do. I've chosen to go ahead anyway and I'm so glad I did! 🙏🏼
@@christopherlamott9351likewise. Freedom is beautiful.
Life isn't always about materialistic things, what you create is what you put out there, one thing I have learnt fear will kill you.. happy New year thank you for the great content...
@@gamingmaverick11 100% agree with you! Thanks for watching 💗
Pleasure take care.. 💙
LOL. A couple years ago, I opened my house to my wife's friend who discovered she wasn't self-actualized enough to continue her job as a hair stylist. She stayed for six months, rent free, stress free, but not drama free. She wanted to create music. No income. She wanted to do art. No income. She would run up utility bills without any contribution. It was inconsiderate and driving me crazy. But hey, at least she didn't let the larger society brainwash her or pigeonhole her into an unfulfilling job, right? Aspirations have a price, and I'll never let anyone try to manifest their hopes and dreams on my dime again. I think I'm gonna quit my job to be an astronaut. I am going to break free from this cult of responsibility and sacrifice to live my best life! That's goodthink!
It’s funny. I thought “wow she has a nice kitchen”. I’m not a person to think it must be nice of what other people have. I’ve been broke before and I dug myself out of being in $30k in CC debt. I just recently moved after selling all my semi trucks and haven’t worked in 3 months so far. I thought about getting a job but really despise the thought about clocking in everyday.
@@Stealthschannel Haha. I'm glad you have this perspective. It's comforting 😁
Good for you.. I'd say, if you're feeling resistance maybe hold off, until the way forward becomes more clear 💗
Happy Holidays!
Having personally renovated several houses (myself, I didn't bring a contractor or anything), I have a pretty good idea of what it takes to put together a kitchen like that. It's a lot less than a lot of people think, that's why people can get away with charging crazy amounts of money to do it. It's all stagecraft.
Your minimalist style helps keep it looking elegant instead of overloaded and cluttered like many kitchesns I've seen.
Again, stagecraft. As far as WE know, that kitchen is about all there is to that house. Maybe you just have a cot in the corner.
I really don't pay much attention to what other people have, except maybe to say it looks nice.
It's all just part of the show, but people are often distracted by the razzle-dazzle.
I could easily believe that that "kitchen" is just an image placed behind you Except for that candle you often have lit, it could easily be all fake.
ANYTHING to avoid what it is you're trying to say.
It's so much easier and more satisfying to criticize the messenger than to listen to the message.
Yes, you too can have a kitchen like that with a little bit of money and a goodly amount of work. IF that's what's really important to you.
People want to see themselves as passive participants in life, their existence controlled by powers beyond them…. To admit that they have personal accountability and personal agency is to admit they been neglecting Wisdom.
@@adonaiel-rohi2460 could not agree with you more 💗
I agree on freedom with you, I worked everywhere and everything and now there's nothing left but to do what I love doing and fight.
But I also see now there's another freedom that doesn't depend whether you work in factory or having dream life..
Freedom to be happy no matter what, being happy in midst of worst suffering.. And I'll take that kind of freedom over any other.
LOVE your energy and philosophy!!! Subscribed ❤
@@gratefulforawareness Thank you so much! I appreciate that ☺️💗
I understand your frustration here friend. People (including myself not too long ago) will cop out of change in so many ways just to reaffirm the limiting beliefs in their own mind. That’s self-sabotage at its finest. Ladies and gentlemen, I don’t think you’re understanding the point this lovely woman is trying to say: she’s not saying “DON’T WORK, BE A BUM”. That’s what your fearful CONDITIONED MIND is programmed to believe. What she saying is, getting up and going to a job you hate every day isn’t doing you or anyone else any favors. It’s keeping you (us all) trapped in a cycle of misery believing we need to slave for hours a day working for some asshole and/or cut throat industry.
She’s saying take the freedom. Embrace the agency that you exercise. Stop taking shit from a World that wasn’t designed for your success.
Be human. The nature of us is innately free.
I have been a cart wrangler and a delivery driver. Heat, cold, it was fun. So I got to be outside, be appreciated like crazy, and get paid. That wasn't work - it was playing hard.
Omg I could not agree more! I LOVE "working" hard. I did construction for awhile...so rewarding, so fun!
Preach
I really enjoyed what you had to say..
@@jameshill7959 Thank you! 💗💗
Great message!
Love this, keep speaking truth. Love your first video, this is amazing!
@@darthjedi99 Wow, thanks for watching! I appreciate the support 🙏🏼💗
"AMEN!" I just stumbled on your channel tonight watching your "dating profiles" video...I guess I was curious about a woman in a bath tub doing a video... Anyway, you have some great stuff here too...I relate to so much of what you are saying about "doing what you love, and it doesn't become "work"!" I'm 70 years old, retired for 11 years now....wishing I could have a "do-over". I have no regrets, but it would have been a much different story. I'm a new subscriber now, and I look forward to catching up on more of your insights about life! Happy New Year to all of us!
@@paulfrederiksen5411 Wow, thank you so much! I really appreciate you watching my videos 🙏🏼
I hope I continue to deliver valuable content that you enjoy! 💗
You're a tiger. I love it. Great message. I fully understand what your saying.
@@paulbiscaro578 Thank you! That is of the highest compliments 💗💗
And I'm glad it resonated with you 😉
Tell that to a man who's sitting here for weeks on end without any money and am bored out of his gourd. I feel pretty damn stuck without a job, to be honest.
@@Emulous79 gotta get your mind right 😉
@@makelifemedicine Good advice. Whatever "right" may be.
@@Emulous79 You'll know. When it feels GOOD to believe the things you believe...then it's right 😁
In part it starts with many people's school experience, where not enough kids are encouraged in the direction of working for themselves as an ambition. Instead, lots of energy and time is expended upon learning things that don't connect with who they are, and that becomes a mental template for their employment lives in the future. This can get reinforced in the home and by the attitudes of most people around them who've been through the education (state school) system. It takes being a bit of a maverick or rebel, and very focused with it to bypass that programming.
Facts - I like the way you think.
@@mtgoxwall Thank you! 💗
She is right guys, she is on the way to freedom talking to you about stuff she read in the books and sales to you aspirations(transformatiom.etc)..its easy and manipulative method to grow a channel/income like thousands of "life couches" already are. They all have this i wanna help you theme, but instead they growing their own "authority" . Mindset is everything., her midnset is to speak about subjects and people situations like she knows what she is talking about.
She's pissed! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Loved it!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏
They will forever stay stuck in the matrix . My family included
Why the rage?
What limiting belief is allowing anyone's comments to elicit such anger?
Hint: It is not out here but an inside job. Sit anywhere you choose. Just, go within.♥
Edited to add: Your video popped up in my feed. I am not a subscriber or have ever seen your channel. I just recognized the emotions that kept me back from realizing WHO we truly are.
Wishing you peace on your journey.
This is epic!
I can't stand victim consciousness within people, it infuriates me!
@@AdzHealth-q9w Same 😅💗
People don't want to change. they want to complain.
@@fossilfuelenthusiast Mostly, yes
You got the right idea you have to be childlike, filled with unreasonable Joy. I walked into the Walmart one day feeling particularly joyful. Just for context im a 54-year-old straight white male. So I walk in and the Whitney Houston song The Greatest Love of All was playing and I started singing it because I know the truth of those words. The next thing I know a bunch of women are giving me dirty looks over their shoulder. I looked right at them and said what I'm joyful are you afraid to be joyful. These looks are what keep most people from being joyful in public. It is fear of public opinion and nothing more. I absolutely refuse to be an angry jaded adult like everybody else I am going to do what Yeshua said and become like a little child so that I can see the face of God.
And no disrespect intended but these people do have a point you don't want to work yet you live in an awful nice house somebody's paying the bills
I used to work in a clothes shop and often I would spot a little child dancing away to the music playing in the shop in front of the mirror. A pure joy to watch and occassionally I would join in. I just needed an excuse :) Sadly, some of them would get a bit self-conscious and stop and go all shy.
I think you're a beautiful lady. You have good energy. Keep speaking the truth. Thanks.
Great video ❤! Love the kitchen!!!
Thank you! 😉
Fully agree! This is totally Neville Goddard and it's also my process. Please read his books and start applying them.
I have Dr.Bruce H Lipton’s Book and I just got Dr. Joe Dispenzas Book “Breaking The Habit of Being You”
Oof. I like the overall message and i liked the first video alot, but the unhinged rant is sort of unsufferable. I couldn't make it through the video.
It's ok to be angry once in a while, it's just one of the many emotions that grow us. Care required on how long to be a angry and how you feel it x
Maybe not for every video, but, given the whole context here, I like how the emotion boosts the energy of the message.
angry or passionate? because people think it's ok to tell a stranger who they think they are it's insulting.. My friends look like they have it all they are over 100k in debt. Stop comparing you don't know shit that person could have a nice kitchen and the love of their life just died at 42 fuck the kitchen. Mine looks this nice it's from IKEA my car is paid off and over 10 yrs old. Can't you people do this evaluation on your own?
@@mv-223 Thank you! I'm a passionate person 😁💗
@@LC-Coast Exactly this 💗🙌🏼
Bet it felt good to get that out! 😊
@@desperatefortuneproduction3296 💯😉💗
I like your kitchen haha. Yup, love the delivery, totally concur. Crazy, im aware of what you say and have lived it but i have been in a stuck place and it has had an effect on my health. Love the vids, they are rekindling my fire, ty 😊
@@jonm3388 haha, thank you for watching! I'm honored to contribute to the rekindling 🔥
Well said!!
@@jeremytorgersen Thanks for watching! 💗
You aren't a kitchen, therefore I don't care what the kitchen looks like as long as it gets the job done!☕
Haha 🤣 Thank you for that!
I love this girl 🫶 Great video and advice! Thanks
@@mathew3268 omg I love you, too! 💗 Thank you so much 😉
Jobs can also make you feel Hollow, while you are working them you know you are missing out on Real Life. Jobs can also destroy your physical health.
Absolutely true in both cases 💯
Okay lets just get this out of the way - Nobody *loves* picking up someone else's trash and smelling like trash. Let's address that. The system is designed to make you do what you don't necessarly want to do, but what the system needs you to do.
Living in a million dollar house is more difficult than being homeless in many regards... These people have no concept of the unbelievable amount of work it takes to make & keep a place like this nice, clean & cozy.. No concept of hard physical labor... Awesome video thanks 👏👏👏💯💯💯💯
@@chey7773 People tend to struggle to see things from an opposing point of view 🙌🏼
Cleaning a million dollar house easier than being homeless? I assume you've experienced both?
@InfinityCurve Not much but yeah. It can be more difficult rather, yes absolutely. Not to say homelessness is easy typically.
@InfinityCurve Also when one is homeless, one typically doesn't have any possessions to be concerned with at all or very little possessions, that can be a very nice luxury... That alone is a special kind of freedoms. Of course pros & cons to both. But home owner ship & maintenance is no joke, especially for just one person who's music is his passion... Not for the faint of heart!!! Deadly even... But yes respect to both struggles 🙏
@makelifemedicine Yes I agree!! And thorough property maintenance is no joke as you know & it literally almost killed me several times, thousands of hours of work... But I came out on top 💪💪 Glad some one gets this, thanks for your response!! 🙏
I love this energy it's the vibe that comes with people needing to wake up from the matrix or as I like to call it boomerville
@@Yoda12329 Thank you! Appreciate that 💗
Cool. Thanks for clarifying 👍
I want to be able to do this. I’ve been unable to shift my mindset no matter how many books I read. I can’t seem to find whatever it is that will get me to actually change my life. Love the kitchen
Hi! Although books may inspire or point you in a good direction… the only thing any of us can do is start where we are and take one next, however little, step… I find breathwork (aka checking in with how my body feels and how I’m breathing and being sure I’m breathing through my nose/mouth closed and deep in my abdomen) to be the easiest, most accessible practices that helps me connect with myself. Once you’ve practiced it a little bit, you have a switch to your nervous system and you can self regulate up or down.
Checking out a few videos about vagus nerve reset exercises and also body flossing could be super helpful. They’re low entry threshold and don’t require daily repetition to have a positive accumulative impact.
Good luck!
Caitlin, this is the most entertainment I've had in a while, so thanks for this video! lol You're 100% right about everything and when knuckleheads show up to rain on the party, it's more of a confession of their narrowmindedness than anything else. Argue for your limitations and they're yours.
@@seangregory2734 Welp, I always say that I aim to entertain! 😅
I'm very happy to provide some comedic relief. You are so right. These people are....also entertaining. In a different way 😂
Thank you so much for watching and for your comment 💗
Thanks ........I needed this message
I think a lot of people mistake appearances with wealth. It doesn't matter if someone has a huge amount of debt as long as they have all the flashy things. 🤔
My biggest issue is feeling worthy in a world that worships money.
100% it's wild
*'Got that feeling of being content, not needning a dollar or a cent'* ~ Dilated Peoples 🎶 🎵 💜
It seems like you might be underestimating some of the intrinsic talent, skill, and tenacity that help in finding success. That's not to take away from anything as it still takes effort, guts, and a little luck. Having seen my path as something of an outlier's journey, I have to ask did I chose it or did it choose me? Thank you for the inspiration. Also, nice kitchen. :)
Haha, thanks 😉. And no no, I'm not at all underestimating intrinsic talent and skill! It all contributes, of course 💗
Could be a green screen kitchen too.
It goes back to an old photo I saw that said "Who wants change?" Everyone raises their hand. Then the question "Who wants to change?" Only a few people raise their hand.
It also doesn't help that for years that many people have posted financial success videos on RUclips and usually said people come from rich backgrounds. As a result they view self improvement and self actualization as a scam. It's better for the average person or normie to have a comfortable job than take risks.
By the way, you do have a lovely kitchen ;)!
When you drop F BOMBS, it makes your videos exponentially more fun to watch. Thanks for the content and the emotions.
In contrast, I can't stand the swearing, I find it very aggressive. Why not choose a more gentler approach? We are all different. I prefer watching more gentle, relaxing videos.
I've downsized and totally agree with what she is saying. Work/Invest to have enough money to pay the bills, then I try to find free ways to enjoy my leisure time - that I call "my life". As kids we didn't need to spend money to have fun, we made our own entertainment.
You didn't address how do you afford to own a house like that? I find you a little vulgar, give some practical advise.
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Totally agree
My advice to you would be to find someone else to listen to if you don't like my delivery 💕
well said, and it is true, the many people think there is only one way of doing things, when there are more ways then one. thanks for sharing
100% Thank you so much for watching, and for getting it 😉
I deal with people like this all the time. Keep up the good work.
People shut out what they are afraid of.
100% 🙌
The first video I watched of yours was PT1 last week, in which my partner suggested a bit of concern over its "hoity-toity" appearance🤣!
I'm sorry that you were basically performing a public service and getting heckled for it by a portion of the audience. I grok that, as well as the frustration over people making various excuses for not wanting to change their mindset. I had to leave a marriage of 20+ years (about 3yrs ago) because a near-death experience changed my heavily pessimistic perspective. I asked my wife a few times to change with me, but she just wasn't ready to stop judging others and wallowing in her trauma.
Please don't fret about it too much, those who criticized ultimately are at another point in their evolution.
Some wise folks have nice kitchens, what can I say😸🎩✨️?
@@Cheshire_Alchemist Haha, I appreciate you! Yeah, I mean I don't know what to say... It's true that I live in a nice house... But I promise you I am so far from hoity-toity. I am a ragamuffin 😂
Also, I want to say that you are extremely courageous for changing your life in the way that you did. I admire that 💗
Thank you for watching and for the support 🙏🏼
I watch your videos because I appreciate the energy you bring when sharing your thought processes. I subscribed because I hope to look at my life through different lenses - gain through perspectives if possible.
I watch other channels for kitchen remodels, or income opportunities, or pretty faces.
Stay true to your cause. Some of us will stick with you because you come across as genuine and insightful. Some of us enjoy delightful, tasteful applications of choice profanities.
Trolls are just passing through.
I watched your last video, my very first of yours, and enjoyed it, I'm only 3 minutes in, as I leave this comment, and am LOVING this one even more 😂😊😊
So many FLOGS these day's, IGNORE the haters who have no life, and keep doing what your doing 😊👍
Now to watch the rest of your vid.
HAPPY NEW YEAR to you 🎉🎉
Cheers Rob from Tasmania AUSTRALIA 🇦🇺
You do have wisdom. Come down on material wants go up on the non material things in life. Being concerned with other people's opinions will hold you back. I can't express all my thoughts but I value your advice. & have a plan
@@ronaldwinfield307 I'm already there 😉 Thanks for watching!
I liked it! Also she worked to get her house. She’s saying society is set up in a certain way so we have to work too much.