Keep your head up sis! I lived in the ATL area for 14 years. To answer the following.... Fake women: I got to know so many women in the area that I thought were genuine, but they ended up hanging out with me to get a man. I used to be very social and I knew a lot of people and attended business mixers and my so called friends would hang out with me just to get a man, then I would not hear from them anymore. SMH Competitive women: They often questioned my style choice, especially my natural hair. One told me that my hair always looked unkempt. That was before the Natural movement got popular. I dress humbly and I like ethnic clothes with a lot of color when I dress up. I got a lot of side eye looks from other women. They were also crabs in a barrel. They tried to use me to Social Climb, but when they got an opportunity that I was not privy to, the claws came out. I was waaaay too free hearted with people that only wanted to use me. Lesson learned. Materialistic women: They were always bragging about the money they made at work or through a side hustle. In the end we were all paid well under 70k. Its was plenty to live on if one was modest and did not waste money on unnecessary things. I have always been practical. I don't buy clothes and shoes with high price tags like they did. Double tongue: A lot of the people in the ATL area (not all) said one thing and meant another. I spent a majority of the time trying to interpret what they were saying and they were speaking ENGLISH! For example, "We got to got to get together" was just a figure of speech. they really didn't want to hang out, it was just a saying, but I took it at face value. I thought they actually wanted to hang out, so I would follow up with them and they would not return my calls, emails, or texts. It tool a while, but i eventually learned. A bunch of the men were also double tongued. They would say they were not interested in you, but when you move on with another guy, they will double back and say that they have always wanted to be with you....etc. Very confusing. The married men are Single/Married due to all of the options and the thirsty women available. I was with a man that had a chronic cheating problem. He would apologize, then get caught with 3 other side relationships (or I was the side perhaps). It was such a confusing roller coaster ride. Lazy married men (and predators): A lot of the men in the ATL area look for stable women to prey upon so that they don't have to work, or work hard. Some say that a women with her own car and house does not need anything, but other men look for those women to move in with and use. It is hard to know until they get into your house, quit their job, then they sit at home for years while their woman/wife is out working. The majority of the time the men are at home chatting with women online or setting up lunch and dinner dates. The wife or woman they they live with is only their sponsor. I moved away going on 2 years ago and am happy to be away from all of that foolishness. There were good parts of Georgia, but not enough to make me want to move back ever!
Love the curtains, I just gave mine away a few years ago because I sold my house. I am sorry that you see this as a mistake. Maybe things will start looking up soon! I know a lot of mature people I know have found love on those mature dating sites. I met my husband almost twenty years ago on a dating site which was in the newspaper. Yes, a lot of women are fake but I find this almost everywhere. Keep the conversation going. I think I am going to make another update video on Atlanta. Thanks for sharing.
"You look like you don't need anything" is a statement based on comparison to the other women in the population that HE IS use dating or has the belief that materialistic things makes for a good women. You know those same women, you describe in your video. Those that are super concerned about opulence. It doesn't mean anything is wrong with you, when statements like these are made it says more about the individual and less about you. Keep your head up. Who wants to be with someone that believes that anyway:)
A matter of fact your hair suits your face. Go to the barbie shop and have those men to shape up your edges around the sides and back of your head. That wouldn't cost much. Have them to go cut it into a style. Those brothers could hook you up for a small price. Not all men are down with the weave thing. You can add some highlights to it. Give it some reddish color. I think it will match your complexion. You can wear some eyeshadow and some brown-red lipstick or dark red. Long earrings or hoop, shouldn't cost much. A necklace, shouldn't cost much. I see that you do get your eyebrows plucked. You can trace it over with an eyeliner pencil. You can buy mascara, bring out your eyelashes a little. You can wear powder makeup or liquid. Smooth it on with your hands and even it out. You can buy all these things at the dollar store, believe it. It doesn't take much to stand out, not for you anyway. You can buy some nice jeans at Walmart and some nice heels. I brought a dress for five dollars at the dollar store and the young girls were raving over how I looked. The dollar store and Walmart have nice things. Try it! Guarantee you like it.
IT MEANS YOU LOOK COMFORTABLE-----THEY WON'T HAVE TO GIVE YOU NOTHING---NO REQUIREMENTS--YOU MIGHT SETTLE FOR ANYBODY......IT'S INSULTING IN A NICE NASTY WAY.
I'd guess it has to do with the choice by some people to pursue relationships with others that they identify as having an 'external locus of identity' a relationship that would be reinforced with constant approval, and in the absence of that approval causes a disastrous loss of identity one of the genders has this external locus conditioned by cultural norms in a very roundabout way, it's a compliment to not be the woman this man is looking for
I think it's probably a compliment. You look nurturing and welcoming the way you were with your ex and they can probably sense that so they think you're married and taken.
When they say you look like you don't need anything or you look like you're marry, it pretty much means that they view you as a very well put together woman who they can't get over on, they view you as a goddess, they see you as a woman who respects herself and others, you seem to take care of yourself without the help of a man, independent, you don't need a man to feel validated, or beautiful, the no good men want a woman to want them, you're too much of hard work if you know what I mean.
Why are u discouraging people from moving to Atlanta. Yet u live there. All u who came here . From you'll place of residence. But yet still here majority rules. Atlanta is Atlanta. That's what makes Atlanta Atlanta.
A SIMPLE GIRL IS ONE WHO IS HAPPY WITH THEMSELVES, ONE WHO LIVES BY A BUDGET. You look like you don't need nothing: that is because you are able to think! People who need something will fall for the Okie doke and allow someone to convince them to give away their money and their integrity. I am proud of my simplicity (which is every so complex). I take good care of myself that is why i am able to do whatever I want to do. Just as you do what you want to do. It may not be what the other nurses in Atlanta want to do but whatever it is you don't need permission to enjoy yourself. You are part of a tribe that is independent and those who make those stabbing comments are not able to do what you do and they are frustrated. Enjoy your life and don't concern yourself with such empty frivolous conversations. Enjoy yourself!
When a guy says you look like you need nothing means they think you have it all money wise so they coming to moucch of you...I am not spending no money for no man ..when they say you look married it means you look comfortable ,like looks like its going well for you ..you dont look stressed like alot of these single women..the std rate in Atlanta is thru the roof best not to date anyone there
CUZ YOU WALK IN THE LIGHT OF GOD THATS WHY..PLUS YOU LOOK LIKE YOU DONT PLAY NO GAMES.....(STORE IT UP IN IN HIM LET IT HIM THAT GIVES YOU YOUR PRIZE...FR FR..)..THATS WHY..NO CAPS
To peaceful!! Men like to rescue Women!! But not to many women need that!! That is why if you are a crack head!! They feel needed. Some men!! Like to just belittle women,, They have no Respect for women!! They want one thing!!! Nice women are last!! They think ,,,we are Boring!! always say No to him!! it is a turn on!! don't answer his calls, be busy sometimes. watch how he asks,,, he will want you#! always. No one says No to him!! his head is Big! and the bottle Head to....
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Keep your head up sis!
I lived in the ATL area for 14 years. To answer the following....
Fake women: I got to know so many women in the area that I thought were genuine, but they ended up hanging out with me to get a man. I used to be very social and I knew a lot of people and attended business mixers and my so called friends would hang out with me just to get a man, then I would not hear from them anymore. SMH
Competitive women: They often questioned my style choice, especially my natural hair. One told me that my hair always looked unkempt. That was before the Natural movement got popular. I dress humbly and I like ethnic clothes with a lot of color when I dress up. I got a lot of side eye looks from other women. They were also crabs in a barrel. They tried to use me to Social Climb, but when they got an opportunity that I was not privy to, the claws came out. I was waaaay too free hearted with people that only wanted to use me. Lesson learned.
Materialistic women: They were always bragging about the money they made at work or through a side hustle. In the end we were all paid well under 70k. Its was plenty to live on if one was modest and did not waste money on unnecessary things. I have always been practical. I don't buy clothes and shoes with high price tags like they did.
Double tongue: A lot of the people in the ATL area (not all) said one thing and meant another. I spent a majority of the time trying to interpret what they were saying and they were speaking ENGLISH! For example, "We got to got to get together" was just a figure of speech. they really didn't want to hang out, it was just a saying, but I took it at face value. I thought they actually wanted to hang out, so I would follow up with them and they would not return my calls, emails, or texts. It tool a while, but i eventually learned. A bunch of the men were also double tongued. They would say they were not interested in you, but when you move on with another guy, they will double back and say that they have always wanted to be with you....etc. Very confusing. The married men are Single/Married due to all of the options and the thirsty women available. I was with a man that had a chronic cheating problem. He would apologize, then get caught with 3 other side relationships (or I was the side perhaps). It was such a confusing roller coaster ride.
Lazy married men (and predators): A lot of the men in the ATL area look for stable women to prey upon so that they don't have to work, or work hard. Some say that a women with her own car and house does not need anything, but other men look for those women to move in with and use. It is hard to know until they get into your house, quit their job, then they sit at home for years while their woman/wife is out working. The majority of the time the men are at home chatting with women online or setting up lunch and dinner dates. The wife or woman they they live with is only their sponsor.
I moved away going on 2 years ago and am happy to be away from all of that foolishness. There were good parts of Georgia, but not enough to make me want to move back ever!
True to the point.
You not begging them for anything and you are independent and that a great thing.
You have Value!! That’s why ! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Those women are worldly women!!! You more of the Proverbs 31 woman!!! ❤️❤️❤️
It means you look put together and off the market which is a good thing
Love the curtains, I just gave mine away a few years ago because I sold my house. I am sorry that you see this as a mistake. Maybe things will start looking up soon! I know a lot of mature people I know have found love on those mature dating sites. I met my husband almost twenty years ago on a dating site which was in the newspaper. Yes, a lot of women are fake but I find this almost everywhere. Keep the conversation going. I think I am going to make another update video on Atlanta. Thanks for sharing.
A smile.is.all a man needs!! if that is not enough for him!! message!!
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Any comments Ladies!! you know the DL life is real!!!
Means you got your mind right
"You look like you don't need anything" is a statement based on comparison to the other women in the population that HE IS use dating or has the belief that materialistic things makes for a good women. You know those same women, you describe in your video. Those that are super concerned about opulence. It doesn't mean anything is wrong with you, when statements like these are made it says more about the individual and less about you. Keep your head up. Who wants to be with someone that believes that anyway:)
Too many narcissists here. Almost single man I've met is a narcissist.
I believe you🙏
Means easy to please
I noticed my little brother has become very materialistic since being down there in 2005 . It’s sickening .
A matter of fact your hair suits your face. Go to the barbie shop and have those men to shape up your edges around the sides and back of your head. That wouldn't cost much. Have them to go cut it into a style. Those brothers could hook you up for a small price. Not all men are down with the weave thing. You can add some highlights to it. Give it some reddish color. I think it will match your complexion. You can wear some eyeshadow and some brown-red lipstick or dark red. Long earrings or hoop, shouldn't cost much. A necklace, shouldn't cost much. I see that you do get your eyebrows plucked. You can trace it over with an eyeliner pencil. You can buy mascara, bring out your eyelashes a little. You can wear powder makeup or liquid. Smooth it on with your hands and even it out. You can buy all these things at the dollar store, believe it. It doesn't take much to stand out, not for you anyway. You can buy some nice jeans at Walmart and some nice heels. I brought a dress for five dollars at the dollar store and the young girls were raving over how I looked. The dollar store and Walmart have nice things. Try it! Guarantee you like it.
You gave her the hook up
I enjoyed reading your advice
It sounded good lol.
IT MEANS YOU LOOK COMFORTABLE-----THEY WON'T HAVE TO GIVE YOU NOTHING---NO REQUIREMENTS--YOU MIGHT SETTLE FOR ANYBODY......IT'S INSULTING IN A NICE NASTY WAY.
LINDA B no that’s not what that means lol
That's everywhere now! No harm intended, but that's the world we live in now. All the real people I used to know, are dead.
I'm moving to Georgia in December I'm gonna just be me
I'd guess it has to do with the choice by some people to pursue relationships with others that they identify as having an 'external locus of identity'
a relationship that would be reinforced with constant approval, and in the absence of that approval causes a disastrous loss of identity
one of the genders has this external locus conditioned by cultural norms
in a very roundabout way, it's a compliment to not be the woman this man is looking for
I think it's probably a compliment. You look nurturing and welcoming the way you were with your ex and they can probably sense that so they think you're married and taken.
When they say you look like you don't need anything or you look like you're marry, it pretty much means that they view you as a very well put together woman who they can't get over on, they view you as a goddess, they see you as a woman who respects herself and others, you seem to take care of yourself without the help of a man, independent, you don't need a man to feel validated, or beautiful, the no good men want a woman to want them, you're too much of hard work if you know what I mean.
Why are u discouraging people from moving to Atlanta. Yet u live there. All u who came here . From you'll place of residence. But yet still here majority rules. Atlanta is Atlanta. That's what makes Atlanta Atlanta.
Sis demonic spirits cant hang with Angels. ok???
kafilarosa Exactly!!! Them demons will flee...
Girl l know the feeling about your question how come???
Did that make you Laugh😀💜
The fact is Women are saying Hi! one minute,, taking there clothes the next!! and 2018 this is what they expect!!
A SIMPLE GIRL IS ONE WHO IS HAPPY WITH THEMSELVES, ONE WHO LIVES BY A BUDGET. You look like you don't need nothing: that is because you are able to think! People who need something will fall for the Okie doke and allow someone to convince them to give away their money and their integrity. I am proud of my simplicity (which is every so complex). I take good care of myself that is why i am able to do whatever I want to do. Just as you do what you want to do. It may not be what the other nurses in Atlanta want to do but whatever it is you don't need permission to enjoy yourself. You are part of a tribe that is independent and those who make those stabbing comments are not able to do what you do and they are frustrated. Enjoy your life and don't concern yourself with such empty frivolous conversations. Enjoy yourself!
Sheree Victorian, I get it now. "Simple girl" it's ok this is me. Lol!
When a guy says you look like you need nothing means they think you have it all money wise so they coming to moucch of you...I am not spending no money for no man ..when they say you look married it means you look comfortable ,like looks like its going well for you ..you dont look stressed like alot of these single women..the std rate in Atlanta is thru the roof best not to date anyone there
CUZ YOU WALK IN THE LIGHT OF GOD THATS WHY..PLUS YOU LOOK LIKE YOU DONT PLAY NO GAMES.....(STORE IT UP IN IN HIM LET IT HIM THAT GIVES YOU YOUR PRIZE...FR FR..)..THATS WHY..NO CAPS
To peaceful!! Men like to rescue Women!! But not to many women need that!! That is why if you are a crack head!! They feel needed. Some men!! Like to just belittle women,, They have no Respect for women!! They want one thing!!! Nice women are last!! They think ,,,we are Boring!! always say No to him!! it is a turn on!! don't answer his calls, be busy sometimes. watch how he asks,,, he will want you#! always. No one says No to him!! his head is Big! and the bottle Head to....
I was born and raised in hot Atlanta it's beautiful here we HV all four seasons and women and men are fake every where
sad
They don't want to marry! So they want to pay and go#! No see you later,
Yes Very Very Fake!