I love your channel! I have a two year old that is having anger behavior problems, and I wasn't sure what to do. I can't afford the books at the moment, but when I can, I plan to buy them!!
This was an amazing video, the laziness, and anxiety and communication skills sections def hit home as a child As a 20 year old that went through a household where they were yelled at, doctor visits, insurance, schooling, many important documents and stuff were all handled for me, and having a mother that rarely hung out with friends, what should I do to work towards healing those bad behaviors that have been deeply ingrained over decades?
What a wonderful question! I think the biggest thing is making a plan and being determined and deliberate in seeing it through. If you want to change, make it happen! Create a vision of where/who you want to be. Now, make specific goals to achieve that vision. Then, make specific plans to achieve those goals on a daily basis. If you want to know more about visions and goal-setting, here's a link to my TSG Parenting Course: teachingselfgovernment.com/store/tsg-parenting-course/ Also, it sounds like you're not quite sure how to take responsibility for yourself. I just did a podcast all about this, which could be helpful for you. Here's the link to that as well: teachingselfgovernment.com/parenting-blog/podcast/podcast-92-3-ways-to-teach-children-to-take-responsibility-for-themselves/ Hopefully these help!
There is something that has been heavy on my mind that you may be able to guide me in the right direction. I just found your channel, and I love it! I decided to take an inward look at myself a few years ago and make big changes for the sake of my then 3 year old son. He has really grew and had positive change. However- we are very worried about my stepson (15). When he is here he gets some of the structure that children and teens need to thrive. However, he is not here very much. As soon as we get him on a healthy sleep schedule, he goes back home. He says he wants to have a good sleep schedule, but always ends up pulling all nighters. They are overly permissive parents who kind of do their own thing all the time, and the kids are left to their own devices. They even took him out of school to do homeschooling so he has not even get that anymore. He has no drive or ambition to do anything, but I know it's not his fault. We are not sure how to help. If we talk to her about it she's overly agreeable. She will say she's really worried about him too. We will tell her things that would help and she will agree, but the thing is she won't ever take those actions. She will try for a few days and then get back up in all of her own things and then they are left to just play video games and watch videos 24/7. It just makes me feel so sad to see him melting away into the couch. His clothes will get really really dirty because it's his responsibility to wash them. While it's true that kids should take care of their own things when they're old enough, it's our job to remind them and make sure it gets done. There's just absolutely no structure
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I love your channel! I have a two year old that is having anger behavior problems, and I wasn't sure what to do. I can't afford the books at the moment, but when I can, I plan to buy them!!
Really helpful and true Nicholeen. thanks 🙏
Sorry for the late response! You are most welcome! It's my pleasure.
This was an amazing video, the laziness, and anxiety and communication skills sections def hit home as a child
As a 20 year old that went through a household where they were yelled at, doctor visits, insurance, schooling, many important documents and stuff were all handled for me, and having a mother that rarely hung out with friends, what should I do to work towards healing those bad behaviors that have been deeply ingrained over decades?
What a wonderful question! I think the biggest thing is making a plan and being determined and deliberate in seeing it through. If you want to change, make it happen! Create a vision of where/who you want to be. Now, make specific goals to achieve that vision. Then, make specific plans to achieve those goals on a daily basis. If you want to know more about visions and goal-setting, here's a link to my TSG Parenting Course: teachingselfgovernment.com/store/tsg-parenting-course/
Also, it sounds like you're not quite sure how to take responsibility for yourself. I just did a podcast all about this, which could be helpful for you. Here's the link to that as well: teachingselfgovernment.com/parenting-blog/podcast/podcast-92-3-ways-to-teach-children-to-take-responsibility-for-themselves/
Hopefully these help!
There is something that has been heavy on my mind that you may be able to guide me in the right direction. I just found your channel, and I love it! I decided to take an inward look at myself a few years ago and make big changes for the sake of my then 3 year old son. He has really grew and had positive change. However- we are very worried about my stepson (15). When he is here he gets some of the structure that children and teens need to thrive. However, he is not here very much. As soon as we get him on a healthy sleep schedule, he goes back home. He says he wants to have a good sleep schedule, but always ends up pulling all nighters. They are overly permissive parents who kind of do their own thing all the time, and the kids are left to their own devices. They even took him out of school to do homeschooling so he has not even get that anymore. He has no drive or ambition to do anything, but I know it's not his fault. We are not sure how to help. If we talk to her about it she's overly agreeable. She will say she's really worried about him too. We will tell her things that would help and she will agree, but the thing is she won't ever take those actions. She will try for a few days and then get back up in all of her own things and then they are left to just play video games and watch videos 24/7. It just makes me feel so sad to see him melting away into the couch. His clothes will get really really dirty because it's his responsibility to wash them. While it's true that kids should take care of their own things when they're old enough, it's our job to remind them and make sure it gets done. There's just absolutely no structure
Thank you Nicholeen 👍👍 May we all change to become our best ✅✅✅
Excellent
Thank you! Cheers!