The other month I lost power for an entire day and it was another reminder that our modern society has warped our reality. The world we live in is only a few seconds away from returning to the 1800s. We still live in the wilderness. Humanity is very disconnected from nature. It doesn't take much to topple what we have today.
Unfortunately, modern women WILL treat you as a creep if you're not significantly above average looking, as far as strange interaction. Of they know you, you have to have significantly above average finances. The women I'm talking about are average to below average looking women.
From my experience, it’s very difficult to find someone who actually appreciates you for who you are; either they have too many expectations of you or they’re not trusting enough.
Unrealistic expectations most definitely. Especially from generations that have used media consumed as a mental map of the the world and reality. The kind that grew up and saw rom-coms as the "healthy and aspirational" standard.
In my experience nobody takes the time to learn who other people are and most people do not show themselves enough to allow other people to know who they are. Nobody knows who I am and that is because nobody takes enough time to listen to me and I don't know anyone because nobody is willing to be around me long enough for me to know them.
Only one person can truly make you happy, and that’s yourself. Irrespective of gender. If you’re looking for someone else to make you happy, you lack self worth.
I’ve rarely found someone with such an immediate and necessary truth to share. You made me feel less alone this morning in the depths of winter Aines the Northeast US. MANY THANKS!!
I have had conversations about this several times . If I don't know a woman well enough I hardly talk now in work environments. It's a minefield out there. I went on a date and my date mentioned her last partner was female . I just commented, " oh you're bi sexual"? she totally destroyed me as if I had called her the worst thing ever.
Feminism and media warped the perception of young women. I will be 26 this year no kids no wife got cheated on constantly, not good enough so bye I am done.
Feminism hasn’t warped anything, it’s a movement to ensure women had the same rights as men. Media has warped the idea of feminism, social media is warping everything
I'll be 30 in a few days. Women have left me over and over with little explanation it hurts my soul too much to keep picking people who care so little for me.
The concept of having a partner has been attacked vociferously. A relationship is a challenge as it is, without all the cultural conceptions/misconceptions attached to it. We have just been inundated with its negative side (abuse, manipulation, etc.) And one of the big questions is "Were we meant to be with somebody?" Is there a necessity for it? (As you point out) As hard as it is for me to believe personally, a lot of people express how glad they are to be single. I'm in my 30s. I've never been in a relationship, yet I want one. I'm not doing well in terms of finding a way of living I can be satisfied in. I doubt who I am and what I am fit for relationally. Singlehood has never really been normalized. For centuries, the cultural idea has been that of a family/legacy. It's really hard to deal with the prospect of a relationship because there is this cultural shift. Everything is changing and being questioned. And the idea of being in a relationship, once lauded as the crown jewel of a fulfilling life, is now being put on trial. It's tough, it's really tough. Because you have to face yourself, no matter what. And you best be happy with whoever you are. Be happy with yourself if you're single because you'll have a lot of time alone. And be happy with yourself if you are with somebody because they need you to be stable
im 33 yr old professional guy. I tried for 15years to date and all I got was rejection and pain from being discarded. I will never date again because I dont trust that women will treat me well. Altho im never likely to have the opportunity anyway because ive always been undatable, I was born that way, I just dont meet the required standards as a human being for women
As a male who was never able to fit into the stereotype of masculine culture, I find this video a little bit confusing to understand in parts. I very much agree that our current worldwide perspectives of masculinity and femininity is most certainly a point of contention, and differences and preferences should be embraced and thought of in a more positive manner. However, claiming that men and women are fundamentally different is an argument that whilst has an intuitive validity, is a little too simplistic. Firstly, our current understanding of gender is not well understood. Ideas such as human gender being either one of two categories are being shown to not be consistent with people’s every day experience. Needless to say, transgendered and non-binary people are evidence to show that gender amongst humans is not as simplistic as was once the accepted opinion. This video really doesn’t make much acknowledgment of people within these marginalised groups, and how the “crisis” applies to them. Secondly, you could make the a similar argument about two different men, or two different women, or any two humans of any gender. Essentially, humans are so diverse and there exists so much variety within our species that classifying it into two discrete categories, and assigning archetypes seems massively over simplistic at the very least, and can come across as somewhat offensive to those individuals who may not conform to the stereotypes of their gender. From personal experience as a male, fitting into stereotypical masculine culture was never natural and any attempt I made to force it was ultimately futile and led to me going through periods of self determent. And finally, I’d say that actually being myself (which is technically masculine since I’m a male) by having dyed hair, wearing jewellery and enjoying cooking (traditionally female attributes), has enchanted my confidence, social skills and sex life. When I was trying to be more stereotypically masculine, I was afraid to be myself. Most females have told me that they have found me more attractive when I was myself, as opposed to when I was trying to come across as more stereotypically masculine. In my opinion I’m becoming glad that gender stereotypes are being redefined, and that it’s changing for the better. Sure, there’s stuff to work through, but isn’t that the case with any relationship?
Unfortunately because of the breakup of marriages that we see as a kid, we see some very negative examples of what having children means, our Mums bear the brunt of caring for the children, coming home tired and stressing about getting money from the Father who refuses to pay for his children unless their is a court order. Seeing this our trust is broken but also this is on the men's side too. People now are miserable bc they are focused on themselves and its sad. But when you have been let down too many times growing up, you dare not allow yourself to be what you have seen has hurt Your Mum or Dad. And then there is the government taxing everything so there is no way your current lifestyle could possibly stay (eat food and have a kid) No one see's it worth while to make any sacrifice even if the possibility is love. Its very Sad but its also the desire to want to be with someone unless they are a certain standard, this generation would rather live in their mind and the internet than rl life, I.E P*** but the families that do have kids makes up for those that dont.
I don't want to be a man or have to take on a man's role, thus I'm grateful every day to be in a traditional marriage where my husband is the man of the house and I can be the woman of the house. ❤
A few of the women I know who are 35+ are like this. Nice enough to chat to, but you have hit the nail on the end. When I chat to them I find them physically attractive but there is something about them I don’t like. It’s that they have masculine energy, very confident. Almost a little brash. I am not a weak man by any means lol but when I talk to them it feels like I have to compete. Who is the most busy, most pysicslly active, most independent etc. It’s exhausting, I don’t think men should be chopping wood or women in the kitchen, it’s more personality then activity if that makes sense . I will say this isn’t most women by any means. I am only commenting because I know a few women like this, like the ones you mention. Really made me think.
I will add that although they are attractive, they only seem to attract pretty unattractive or much older guys. It’s quite weird. You would expect them to attract equally attractive men their age, but I think the truth is those men want a lady, older or younger, who is kind and loving. Being confident and outgoing can come across like oh do they even need a boyfriend, partner etc,
Lack of loyalty and commitment!!! I would never leave or hate the women I love because she doesn't do exactly what I want. That is not love.All I wanted was a wife but that did not work out because I don't want success with a job or fame, I don't want to work my entire life away for things or achievements. I want to spend as much time with those I love enjoying that time. Women don't want that that guy is not good enough. Sorry I am not fueled by greed.
two sides of the same coin - and they often go together because nature seeks balance... Castaneda once said that "self-importance and self-pity are the same thing", and thats true because its an undue and unnecessary amount of focus on the self... in other words, its not a balanced or accurate perspective every victim needs an oppressor and every oppressor needs a victim - thats how the dynamic works, you cant have one without the other
Great video, this needs to be talked about so much more. I'm mid 40's and have never been in a relationship. I have no idea what it means to be a man now. I'm fairly soft as far as men go, chronic illness and abuse tends to do that. But now after years of hearing that all men are trash, are predators along with women saying they want to be independent and don't want to be approached I don't know if it's worth trying to date now. I'm not tall, dark, handsome or rich so I don't feel like I come close to meeting the standards that women talk about.
Both men and women’s expectations are so unrealistic these days. I’m early 50s and eventually became single 7 years ago. Best 7 years of my life to be honest. This is after numerous relationships.
I'm a guy and women look disgusted with me for no real reason. Some woman in this library looked at me for one second then grabbed her daughters hand while walking away. Don't know her. Don't smell bad. Not unclean. Not threatening. Not saying anything.
The risks for men are so high these days, it just isn't worth the risk to pursue a woman these days. No, not all woman are bad, absolutely not, but before we get to the point of knowing what we're dealing with, you've already taken a big risk. And for what? There are all these expectations of men, but as a man you cannot expect anything from a women, because that is apparently sexist.
This is so interesting. Even in strong relationships, it's another dimention to learn about in a relationship. I agree. Yes, you are right it puts pressure on both sides and can leave people questioning the role in a relationship. You can be a modern person and go with the changes in the world for the good. But why. Nice vlog and well said.
What a lot of people aren’t realizing is that men and women both have a masculine and feminine qualities within themselves and therefore we both have masculine and feminine goals and traits regardless of our anatomy. I think the main thing that needs to be addressed is the fear that is bubbling over and influencing each genders perspectives of each other due to media. However, I do think the more time passes, the more complex it’s going to get. Genders are merging by evolution and producing equality. It’s not agenda but a natural process happening.
"Genders are merging by evolution" How did you come up with this thought? Sexual dimorphism is an evolutionary advantage that whil not disapear. Pleade explain.
Actually though most people are still getting in couples, maybe we're just in the sub- set that doesn't manage it because we don't settle like most people. What do I want someone I'm not attractive to for, just friendship, so might as well nust be friends.
Imagine if you had to read a random book and you must start the book where the bookmark is located and it's illegal to backtrack if you can't figure out the story and if you don't figure out the story, you will forever be a loser in society. That's kind of how men are living life right now. There are zero guides for men and it's our own fault.
I'm absolutely capable of understanding the story but the story is trash and there is not a single character I can relate to. And I have that feeling that the author hates the audience, at least part of it.
i think you're seeing a lot of guys being manipulated by identity marketing into thinking this or that or expecting this or that instead of just being. We have life or death issues in the world and i dont think anyone cares if i hold the door open for someone at a gas station..
I'm very left leaning. So I'm not completely into this defined role of what is masculine and feminine. But there is a big dislike and distain by many leftists of guys being guys. Everything gets a labeled of "dude bro" or "gym bro" or various labels thats just kidn of intend on shaming or stigmatizing guy's with stereotypical hobbies or interests. One that comes to mind is the increased popularity in Vikings. It's treated as cringy by many. Its one thing I've gotten insecure about. It used to be an unpopular neurodivergent obsession of mine. But now it's seen as "cringy dude bro" stuff.
I despise the word “cringe,” but that’s the only word that comes to mind when reading your post. Please, stop. Go somewhere, rethink, then come back and try again. If you can’t properly define the difference or differences between men and women, you got problems. I suggest you figure it out.
I noticed when the topic of men comes up with modern day women it seem like only men are suffering..so tell me isn’t there a large scale loneliness for women’s well????? with women able to work now they think they don’t men until they need a man.run around talking about independent they are. Men has been independent since the beginning of time and you don’t hear men running around talking about how independent we are because we know that we have to be.. But for all the independent women that think they don’t need a man but only when they are attacked on the road.or women and children are trapped in a burning building or hid forbid the country get invaded. But funny enough these independent women live in a society that men has created. The internet they use.the house they live in.the road they drive on.the restaurants they eat. Everything in society that’s has been build by a man and the infrastructure is maintained on a day-to-day basis by whom?? I think a lot of you women has consumed too much of that feminist ideology
nahhh we just don´t need to put up with men anymore 😉 you have to understand that women had no choice back in the day, now we can choose and we would rather be alone than suffer on the hands of men
I haven't watched the whole video but what you're talking about in the first couple of minutes of this video is mostly a myth pedalled by conservatives. Men are not more feminine and women are not more masculine now. There has been research done on personality, interests and occupational choices and women in Western countries are more feminine and men are more masculine than in more traditional parts of the world. Basically freedom of choice has made men and women more polarised because they have less in common as they pursue their own interests, but this has nothing to do with blurring gender lines in fact blurring them more might even be helpful.
What the frick on are you on?! Men are becoming more feminine and women are more masculine. It’s disgusting. If you can’t see it, then don’t tell people to wake up your reality if you’re blind yourself.
I have to disagree. You're not wrong that there's a problem. The way you are viewing it is incorrect. By saying Men have checked out you're cutting straight to the end of the story. I've been trying to think how to word this for a while now after watching this, but any other way to word it lacks the correct feelings on the matter, so my apologies for that. This is going to sound a bit harsh because the reality is harsh. There's a world of difference between "F*ck this!" And "F*ck you!" The way you're framing this, like most people do, is we just one day went "F*ck this!" and more or less went on strike. Not even remotely close to what happened. We didn't check out. We were thrown out. As if we were at a bar/club and a bouncer launched us out the door to the street despite having done nothing wrong. Women by and large told us go away. They're STILL telling us to go away. They got what they wanted, but as usual refuse to take accountability for it. So they blame us for it. Which turned it from what it wasn't, which was us saying "F*ck this!" to us not putting up with it and telling women by and large "F*ck you!" And to be blunt we're far better off. Women need to take a long, hard look in the mirror. Even yourself to a degree. You said here "She gets bored and loses all respect for you." as a casual statement like you looked out a window and said "It's raining out." Not even examining how irrationally insane that statement is and who on Earth would ever want to put up with a person like that? Keep them constantly entertained or else? How about no?
She can see it from a female point of view, so her attitude makes sense. She acknowledges her "ho* phase" because of "trauma" in one video and then addresses her only Fans adventures in another. She lacks self-awareness when she talks about these larger societal issues that affect men.
@quokka7555 That makes sense. One point I wish now I had made that is the crux of what is insulting is it's like a boss firing an employee then claiming that employee quit and how dare they do that!
The other month I lost power for an entire day and it was another reminder that our modern society has warped our reality. The world we live in is only a few seconds away from returning to the 1800s. We still live in the wilderness. Humanity is very disconnected from nature. It doesn't take much to topple what we have today.
Media and commercialism are having a major effect on how young men and women act. They have really alienated themselves.
This is actually a very necessary video. Kudos for making it.
Compliment each other instead of complain about each other would be a good start
I am worried to be treated like a creep for talking to someone.
That sounds like a you problem. Harden the fuck up and learn how to talk to people.
same, I'm from Madrid and it's strange seeing strangers talk to each other
Unfortunately, modern women WILL treat you as a creep if you're not significantly above average looking, as far as strange interaction. Of they know you, you have to have significantly above average finances. The women I'm talking about are average to below average looking women.
From my experience, it’s very difficult to find someone who actually appreciates you for who you are; either they have too many expectations of you or they’re not trusting enough.
Unrealistic expectations most definitely. Especially from generations that have used media consumed as a mental map of the the world and reality. The kind that grew up and saw rom-coms as the "healthy and aspirational" standard.
In my experience nobody takes the time to learn who other people are and most people do not show themselves enough to allow other people to know who they are. Nobody knows who I am and that is because nobody takes enough time to listen to me and I don't know anyone because nobody is willing to be around me long enough for me to know them.
The internet screwed up all the generations that grew up with it. I am so glad I am a gen Xer.
I prefer to live by my self .
The answer to most of this divide is social media. We need to get rid of it if we're ever going to move forward as a functioning society again.
Only one person can truly make you happy, and that’s yourself. Irrespective of gender.
If you’re looking for someone else to make you happy, you lack self worth.
In couple days i am gonna be 29.and i am still singlebfor more than 8 years.i value loyalty above everything, which today seems like joke.
I'm impressed with your willingness to understand the male's side of things. We need to protect this woman at all costs!
I just opted out of everything.
I’ve rarely found someone with such an immediate and necessary truth to share. You made me feel less alone this morning in the depths of winter Aines the Northeast US. MANY THANKS!!
I agree with you. It would be to our detriment for sure.
I have had conversations about this several times . If I don't know a woman well enough I hardly talk now in work environments. It's a minefield out there. I went on a date and my date mentioned her last partner was female . I just commented, " oh you're bi sexual"? she totally destroyed me as if I had called her the worst thing ever.
‘Balance’ is one one of the most difficult things in life. It’s a ongoing proces and gone crazy in modern life.
So simple in thought. Applying it day-to-day, we tend to forget until we can remind ourselves.
Feminism and media warped the perception of young women. I will be 26 this year no kids no wife got cheated on constantly, not good enough so bye I am done.
Feminism hasn’t warped anything, it’s a movement to ensure women had the same rights as men. Media has warped the idea of feminism, social media is warping everything
I'll be 30 in a few days. Women have left me over and over with little explanation it hurts my soul too much to keep picking people who care so little for me.
Its not fear it's exhaustion I have been used up.
i hear you!
Society in general has accepted a lot of crap but on the otherhand it's perfectly engineered this way. Chivalry IS dead and women killed it
Its about to get so much worse.
The concept of having a partner has been attacked vociferously. A relationship is a challenge as it is, without all the cultural conceptions/misconceptions attached to it. We have just been inundated with its negative side (abuse, manipulation, etc.)
And one of the big questions is "Were we meant to be with somebody?" Is there a necessity for it? (As you point out) As hard as it is for me to believe personally, a lot of people express how glad they are to be single.
I'm in my 30s. I've never been in a relationship, yet I want one. I'm not doing well in terms of finding a way of living I can be satisfied in. I doubt who I am and what I am fit for relationally.
Singlehood has never really been normalized. For centuries, the cultural idea has been that of a family/legacy.
It's really hard to deal with the prospect of a relationship because there is this cultural shift. Everything is changing and being questioned. And the idea of being in a relationship, once lauded as the crown jewel of a fulfilling life, is now being put on trial. It's tough, it's really tough. Because you have to face yourself, no matter what. And you best be happy with whoever you are. Be happy with yourself if you're single because you'll have a lot of time alone. And be happy with yourself if you are with somebody because they need you to be stable
We're both human and not all treated like that.
im 33 yr old professional guy. I tried for 15years to date and all I got was rejection and pain from being discarded. I will never date again because I dont trust that women will treat me well. Altho im never likely to have the opportunity anyway because ive always been undatable, I was born that way, I just dont meet the required standards as a human being for women
Same
As a male who was never able to fit into the stereotype of masculine culture, I find this video a little bit confusing to understand in parts. I very much agree that our current worldwide perspectives of masculinity and femininity is most certainly a point of contention, and differences and preferences should be embraced and thought of in a more positive manner. However, claiming that men and women are fundamentally different is an argument that whilst has an intuitive validity, is a little too simplistic.
Firstly, our current understanding of gender is not well understood. Ideas such as human gender being either one of two categories are being shown to not be consistent with people’s every day experience. Needless to say, transgendered and non-binary people are evidence to show that gender amongst humans is not as simplistic as was once the accepted opinion. This video really doesn’t make much acknowledgment of people within these marginalised groups, and how the “crisis” applies to them.
Secondly, you could make the a similar argument about two different men, or two different women, or any two humans of any gender. Essentially, humans are so diverse and there exists so much variety within our species that classifying it into two discrete categories, and assigning archetypes seems massively over simplistic at the very least, and can come across as somewhat offensive to those individuals who may not conform to the stereotypes of their gender.
From personal experience as a male, fitting into stereotypical masculine culture was never natural and any attempt I made to force it was ultimately futile and led to me going through periods of self determent.
And finally, I’d say that actually being myself (which is technically masculine since I’m a male) by having dyed hair, wearing jewellery and enjoying cooking (traditionally female attributes), has enchanted my confidence, social skills and sex life. When I was trying to be more stereotypically masculine, I was afraid to be myself. Most females have told me that they have found me more attractive when I was myself, as opposed to when I was trying to come across as more stereotypically masculine.
In my opinion I’m becoming glad that gender stereotypes are being redefined, and that it’s changing for the better. Sure, there’s stuff to work through, but isn’t that the case with any relationship?
Unfortunately because of the breakup of marriages that we see as a kid, we see some very negative examples of what having children means, our Mums bear the brunt of caring for the children, coming home tired and stressing about getting money from the Father who refuses to pay for his children unless their is a court order. Seeing this our trust is broken but also this is on the men's side too. People now are miserable bc they are focused on themselves and its sad. But when you have been let down too many times growing up, you dare not allow yourself to be what you have seen has hurt Your Mum or Dad. And then there is the government taxing everything so there is no way your current lifestyle could possibly stay (eat food and have a kid) No one see's it worth while to make any sacrifice even if the possibility is love. Its very Sad but its also the desire to want to be with someone unless they are a certain standard, this generation would rather live in their mind and the internet than rl life, I.E P*** but the families that do have kids makes up for those that dont.
That's R style Parenting and it's coming back with a vengeance. . . A ring is for a virgin. Marriage is over.
I don't want to be a man or have to take on a man's role, thus I'm grateful every day to be in a traditional marriage where my husband is the man of the house and I can be the woman of the house. ❤
well spoken kitty....but you are a bit of a unicorn in todays modern feminist world! thank goodness there are still a few women like you out there
You're amazing, Gia. Thank you for this. ❤👍
You’re so right! Thank you for the video!
A few of the women I know who are 35+ are like this. Nice enough to chat to, but you have hit the nail on the end. When I chat to them I find them physically attractive but there is something about them I don’t like. It’s that they have masculine energy, very confident. Almost a little brash. I am not a weak man by any means lol but when I talk to them it feels like I have to compete. Who is the most busy, most pysicslly active, most independent etc. It’s exhausting, I don’t think men should be chopping wood or women in the kitchen, it’s more personality then activity if that makes sense . I will say this isn’t most women by any means. I am only commenting because I know a few women like this, like the ones you mention. Really made me think.
I will add that although they are attractive, they only seem to attract pretty unattractive or much older guys. It’s quite weird. You would expect them to attract equally attractive men their age, but I think the truth is those men want a lady, older or younger, who is kind and loving. Being confident and outgoing can come across like oh do they even need a boyfriend, partner etc,
Lack of loyalty and commitment!!! I would never leave or hate the women I love because she doesn't do exactly what I want. That is not love.All I wanted was a wife but that did not work out because I don't want success with a job or fame, I don't want to work my entire life away for things or achievements. I want to spend as much time with those I love enjoying that time. Women don't want that that guy is not good enough. Sorry I am not fueled by greed.
At the end of the day I still can't tell the difference between a inferiority complex and a superiority complex...
two sides of the same coin - and they often go together because nature seeks balance... Castaneda once said that "self-importance and self-pity are the same thing", and thats true because its an undue and unnecessary amount of focus on the self... in other words, its not a balanced or accurate perspective
every victim needs an oppressor and every oppressor needs a victim - thats how the dynamic works, you cant have one without the other
@Osoronnophris thanks for the sophomoric rational of balance and room temperature I.Q as a optimal equation.
And a position of relevance is skewed juxtaposed to dogmatic philosophical servitude, or to be casually modern...hubcap inertia😂
I agree with you its a really weird moment in this new generation im part of it and i don't like it..its cold.
A ring is for a virgin. . . Marriage is over.
Great video, this needs to be talked about so much more. I'm mid 40's and have never been in a relationship. I have no idea what it means to be a man now. I'm fairly soft as far as men go, chronic illness and abuse tends to do that. But now after years of hearing that all men are trash, are predators along with women saying they want to be independent and don't want to be approached I don't know if it's worth trying to date now. I'm not tall, dark, handsome or rich so I don't feel like I come close to meeting the standards that women talk about.
Both men and women’s expectations are so unrealistic these days.
I’m early 50s and eventually became single 7 years ago. Best 7 years of my life to be honest. This is after numerous relationships.
Very good video 👏 👏 👏
If divorces were not to favor one side, divorce rates would go down fast. And people would still be miserable.
This whole video is perfectly worded and explains exactly how I feel as a 30 yo single male
I can relate to everything you just said
I'm a guy and women look disgusted with me for no real reason. Some woman in this library looked at me for one second then grabbed her daughters hand while walking away. Don't know her. Don't smell bad. Not unclean. Not threatening. Not saying anything.
Try smiling more
@SKuLLxKruSHeR that doesn't work.
You are VERY wise.
Gia, you have a wonderful insight and understanding on human behaviour and relationships. Your wisdom is very impressive. I'm curious to your story x
She did mention in one video that she's neurodivergent. That explains a LOT.
Agree completely
The risks for men are so high these days, it just isn't worth the risk to pursue a woman these days. No, not all woman are bad, absolutely not, but before we get to the point of knowing what we're dealing with, you've already taken a big risk. And for what? There are all these expectations of men, but as a man you cannot expect anything from a women, because that is apparently sexist.
This is so interesting. Even in strong relationships, it's another dimention to learn about in a relationship. I agree. Yes, you are right it puts pressure on both sides and can leave people questioning the role in a relationship. You can be a modern person and go with the changes in the world for the good. But why. Nice vlog and well said.
What a lot of people aren’t realizing is that men and women both have a masculine and feminine qualities within themselves and therefore we both have masculine and feminine goals and traits regardless of our anatomy. I think the main thing that needs to be addressed is the fear that is bubbling over and influencing each genders perspectives of each other due to media. However, I do think the more time passes, the more complex it’s going to get. Genders are merging by evolution and producing equality. It’s not agenda but a natural process happening.
"Genders are merging by evolution"
How did you come up with this thought?
Sexual dimorphism is an evolutionary advantage that whil not disapear. Pleade explain.
Please explain "genders are merging by evolution".
I really appreciate you.
Talk to me like lovers do. ~ Eurythmics (1983)
Actually though most people are still getting in couples, maybe we're just in the sub- set that doesn't manage it because we don't settle like most people. What do I want someone I'm not attractive to for, just friendship, so might as well nust be friends.
Good onya.
👏👏👏✌️ 🇭🇲 🙂
Imagine if you had to read a random book and you must start the book where the bookmark is located and it's illegal to backtrack if you can't figure out the story and if you don't figure out the story, you will forever be a loser in society.
That's kind of how men are living life right now. There are zero guides for men and it's our own fault.
I'm absolutely capable of understanding the story but the story is trash and there is not a single character I can relate to. And I have that feeling that the author hates the audience, at least part of it.
Today I would like to talk about tattoos
i think you're seeing a lot of guys being manipulated by identity marketing into thinking this or that or expecting this or that instead of just being. We have life or death issues in the world and i dont think anyone cares if i hold the door open for someone at a gas station..
I'm very left leaning. So I'm not completely into this defined role of what is masculine and feminine. But there is a big dislike and distain by many leftists of guys being guys. Everything gets a labeled of "dude bro" or "gym bro" or various labels thats just kidn of intend on shaming or stigmatizing guy's with stereotypical hobbies or interests.
One that comes to mind is the increased popularity in Vikings. It's treated as cringy by many. Its one thing I've gotten insecure about. It used to be an unpopular neurodivergent obsession of mine. But now it's seen as "cringy dude bro" stuff.
I despise the word “cringe,” but that’s the only word that comes to mind when reading your post. Please, stop. Go somewhere, rethink, then come back and try again. If you can’t properly define the difference or differences between men and women, you got problems. I suggest you figure it out.
Wise observations - confused older guy.
I noticed when the topic of men comes up with modern day women it seem like only men are suffering..so tell me isn’t there a large scale loneliness for women’s well?????
with women able to work now they think they don’t men until they need a man.run around talking about independent they are.
Men has been independent since the beginning of time and you don’t hear men running around talking about how independent we are because we know that we have to be..
But for all the independent women that think they don’t need a man but only when they are attacked on the road.or women and children are trapped in a burning building or hid forbid the country get invaded.
But funny enough these independent women live in a society that men has created. The internet they use.the house they live in.the road they drive on.the restaurants they eat. Everything in society that’s has been build by a man and the infrastructure is maintained on a day-to-day basis by whom??
I think a lot of you women has consumed too much of that feminist ideology
nahhh we just don´t need to put up with men anymore 😉 you have to understand that women had no choice back in the day, now we can choose and we would rather be alone than suffer on the hands of men
I haven't watched the whole video but what you're talking about in the first couple of minutes of this video is mostly a myth pedalled by conservatives. Men are not more feminine and women are not more masculine now. There has been research done on personality, interests and occupational choices and women in Western countries are more feminine and men are more masculine than in more traditional parts of the world.
Basically freedom of choice has made men and women more polarised because they have less in common as they pursue their own interests, but this has nothing to do with blurring gender lines in fact blurring them more might even be helpful.
What the frick on are you on?! Men are becoming more feminine and women are more masculine. It’s disgusting. If you can’t see it, then don’t tell people to wake up your reality if you’re blind yourself.
I have to disagree. You're not wrong that there's a problem. The way you are viewing it is incorrect. By saying Men have checked out you're cutting straight to the end of the story.
I've been trying to think how to word this for a while now after watching this, but any other way to word it lacks the correct feelings on the matter, so my apologies for that. This is going to sound a bit harsh because the reality is harsh.
There's a world of difference between "F*ck this!" And "F*ck you!" The way you're framing this, like most people do, is we just one day went "F*ck this!" and more or less went on strike.
Not even remotely close to what happened. We didn't check out. We were thrown out. As if we were at a bar/club and a bouncer launched us out the door to the street despite having done nothing wrong. Women by and large told us go away. They're STILL telling us to go away. They got what they wanted, but as usual refuse to take accountability for it. So they blame us for it. Which turned it from what it wasn't, which was us saying "F*ck this!" to us not putting up with it and telling women by and large "F*ck you!"
And to be blunt we're far better off. Women need to take a long, hard look in the mirror. Even yourself to a degree. You said here "She gets bored and loses all respect for you." as a casual statement like you looked out a window and said "It's raining out." Not even examining how irrationally insane that statement is and who on Earth would ever want to put up with a person like that? Keep them constantly entertained or else? How about no?
She can see it from a female point of view, so her attitude makes sense. She acknowledges her "ho* phase" because of "trauma" in one video and then addresses her only Fans adventures in another. She lacks self-awareness when she talks about these larger societal issues that affect men.
@quokka7555 That makes sense. One point I wish now I had made that is the crux of what is insulting is it's like a boss firing an employee then claiming that employee quit and how dare they do that!
We could marry for 2 or 3 years coz I need learn English but you need move to Russia then