The difference between a man who’s perusing you Vs a man who just likes you. Knowing this can save u

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  • Опубликовано: 17 июн 2024

Комментарии • 61

  • @Transformativeone
    @Transformativeone 16 дней назад +30

    Man listen! This helped me so much right now. I am going through this exact situation. Only wants to text, always complimenting me, inviting me to events around other people but never alone time…dates, talking on the phone. I want more than this.

    • @Pacifica74
      @Pacifica74 15 дней назад +2

      He really might be a Dismissive Avoidant. Look up videos on that.

  • @Pacifica74
    @Pacifica74 15 дней назад +16

    It's sad that we even have to learn this as if we are in class. Just now it struck me really sad that we have to try to understand it secondhand. Many of us never experienced being pursued for who we are and not just for sex. We don't know what it's supposed to look like.

    • @user-hd6pm7vd1i
      @user-hd6pm7vd1i 14 дней назад

      Me, I really can tell between a man who likes me and that who wanna pursue me... I take time to tell the difference between the two...

    • @nonhlanhlankosi1786
      @nonhlanhlankosi1786 13 дней назад +1

      I don't even know how to behave in a relationship, it's as if I've never done it before. I'm really confused with the dating thing.

    • @Pacifica74
      @Pacifica74 13 дней назад +1

      @@nonhlanhlankosi1786 I'm not the dating type either! You either come into my life because you are the one or you're not.

  • @dominiquelove1825
    @dominiquelove1825 15 дней назад +10

    Truth, I learned this late in life … wish I had this information as a younger woman…

  • @personallyjojo
    @personallyjojo 15 дней назад +5

    I had a man ask my deepest thoughts and dreams and pretend he wanted them only to leave when he got what he wanted

  • @dona_grace
    @dona_grace 16 дней назад +11

    Thank you my most wise younger brother, much appreciated info. Hope these ladies are listening so no woman can say how much they poured into an empty cup they could never drink from.

  • @tay8677
    @tay8677 13 дней назад +1

    OMG! This man has so much wisdom and insight and I’m grateful to have listened to this! I’ve moved on after 6 days of meeting a guy because I realized he JUST liked me, he WASNT pursuing me. I DESERVE more! Thank you!

  • @user-hm5dm2gx3k
    @user-hm5dm2gx3k 16 дней назад +10

    I one to do all this and after 3weeks of talking he ghost me and now calls actually and I don't know what he wants so I just let that go. Crappy. 😢

  • @debrajones156
    @debrajones156 16 дней назад +10

    Oh no you didn't with that hair!😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Pacifica74
    @Pacifica74 13 дней назад +1

    The ones that keep it shallow & don't pursue know they don't have anything to give unfortunately. That's why they keep it surface level. They know they can't take it to the next level.

  • @babou5694
    @babou5694 10 дней назад

    True. I knew it. Energy doesn’t lie and I felt it too. I knew something wasn’t right. I thought I was exaggerating things or overthinking. Glad I didn’t waste my time.

  • @Forwardnow
    @Forwardnow 16 дней назад +6

    SO on time! Thank you.🙌

  • @annaa6259
    @annaa6259 16 дней назад +3

    So on time. You have a gift❤

  • @shorty130
    @shorty130 15 дней назад +1

    Thank you very much that sounded really good coming from a man's perspective

  • @Sincerity_7
    @Sincerity_7 12 дней назад

    This message was perfect timing for me! Thanks Universe!

  • @LaTrellListens
    @LaTrellListens 9 дней назад

    You are a true blessing. Example are so on point!!! Made it so simple and direct

  • @246Shanti
    @246Shanti 15 дней назад +2

    This helped me a lot thanks much Kirk 😊

  • @francesh1903
    @francesh1903 16 дней назад +6

    Sooooo true ❤

  • @ronicagagum2332
    @ronicagagum2332 16 дней назад +1

    Thank you appreciate the info was well needed

  • @ebony2413
    @ebony2413 16 дней назад

    Amazing insight!! Thank you for sharing

  • @healyourvenus555
    @healyourvenus555 15 дней назад

    Thank you!🌟

  • @lindabutler793
    @lindabutler793 13 дней назад

    Love your wisdom so much! You are appreciated ❤

  • @melanietaylor3735
    @melanietaylor3735 14 дней назад

    Wow. Spot on

  • @mellok6627
    @mellok6627 16 дней назад

    you’re the best ❤️

  • @user-ch3qk9qf5n
    @user-ch3qk9qf5n 16 дней назад +1

    Thank you ❤

  • @RacilleAshley-sf7yv
    @RacilleAshley-sf7yv 16 дней назад +1

    THANKS 🙏

  • @donnajeffreys8252
    @donnajeffreys8252 11 дней назад

    They don't remember too much you've shared with them 👄

  • @user-du9se2xw9f
    @user-du9se2xw9f 16 дней назад

    Hello Kirk. Thank You!
    Your comments are always welcome especially because I can sense that all are honest and encourage self reflection& growth!❤

  • @sharonlewis4228
    @sharonlewis4228 16 дней назад

    Hello Kirk good evening from Miami.

  • @Natasha-in8og
    @Natasha-in8og 16 дней назад +5

    I was in a toxic relationship and he couldn’t have sex prop with me always watch porn I definitely think he didn’t love me

  • @CBReal1290
    @CBReal1290 15 дней назад

    Again, truth spoken this even goes for when you have ““ acquaintance friends you’ll know who is a friend who is just an acquaintance because they won’t ask or you might’ve discussed it once but they won’t ever inquire it again. And often will just talk about themselves… yup

  • @Ruthforme
    @Ruthforme 16 дней назад

    Thanks.

  • @darlenewilson3188
    @darlenewilson3188 15 дней назад +1

    Dr k
    How are u and family?
    What's going on for the topic
    Things are working out i had another death a very dear friend of the family She was a yozng woman life is short and Death is a sure thing live everyday to the fullness and to always please God😊

  • @nesleecharles9059
    @nesleecharles9059 12 дней назад

    And now we know!

  • @mawusivivor5546
    @mawusivivor5546 15 дней назад

    Thank you for sharing
    Some of these men stay on the app, but they text good morning everyday. What i do is ignore the messages for a couple of days and then I text hope you are doing well?still somehow i feel he’s wasting my time. What should i do?

  • @user-sn6cr9ig8p
    @user-sn6cr9ig8p 15 дней назад

    I met a guy in church, we started talking and in the first month he gave me a book waiting and dating by Miles munroe, is that a good sign

  • @cytinachavis9157
    @cytinachavis9157 15 дней назад +1

    Is it different if the man had bad experiences in the past?

  • @RacilleAshley-sf7yv
    @RacilleAshley-sf7yv 16 дней назад

    🙏

  • @user-hm5dm2gx3k
    @user-hm5dm2gx3k 16 дней назад

    Hello kirk good evening

  • @unkolawdio
    @unkolawdio 13 дней назад

    Pursuit is stalking,,is preditor,,,don't speak to Anyone ever

  • @user-ff2oe8sm5v
    @user-ff2oe8sm5v 16 дней назад

    👍🏾

  • @jane-kz8nq
    @jane-kz8nq 15 дней назад +1

    Wow i felf neither

  • @healyourvenus555
    @healyourvenus555 15 дней назад

    What is it when they seem to be in full pursuit...yet they dont want a "relationship" and you then discover they are liking other women's sexual photos online?...while all the while they were also in full pursuit???

    • @healyourvenus555
      @healyourvenus555 15 дней назад

      Oh I just heard that last part...if it was a true pursuit..."he would take the lead, and lead you to a relationship"

  • @user-yk9sk7pg6v
    @user-yk9sk7pg6v 16 дней назад

    *

  • @agray7474
    @agray7474 15 дней назад +1

    I like your content but I’m gonna need you to get your spelling in check before you post these videos…🤔

    • @konsciousKirk
      @konsciousKirk  15 дней назад

      Well pardon me for my misspelled word. Hope I spelled that correctly

  • @sheilahill7333
    @sheilahill7333 15 дней назад +1

    Mr Kirk you be picking me like a banjo funny not funny lol

  • @CierraW-ImReallyHer444
    @CierraW-ImReallyHer444 16 дней назад

    👏❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥💎❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥🌟🫴