THIS Is Why A Damaged Woman Can Be A Big Problem
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- THIS Is Why A Damaged Woman Can Be A Big Problem
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Leave the 304's in the streets. Do not give them anything.
Why do women like Kim Kardashian get rich men? Because they're very attractive. So really attractive women can pull off having high value men. You just have to be extremely hot. But I'm an average woman.
So many good men have had to pay dearly for what bad men did to women
The problem is there are too many damaged women in this country and that’s a reason why men (like myself) are single.
...Single and content 😁😂😂
Because you ruin those women and dump them
@@dianadepp1864 Ruin them? Hip swiveling, tiktok dancing, scantily clothed, make up applying, store shopping, Kardashian emulating cock teasers can't be ruined by men.They long ago ruined themselves when they stopped learning how to sew and cook.
We'll just come home to our loving, loyal dogs, pop in a ready microwave meal as we clean plates in our dishwasher and run a load in a washing machine. If things get edgy we can stop off at a local strip club, watch a little porn and if technology progresses as promised, soon we'll have robots to smash. Now who ya gonna get to open your jars?
@@dianadepp1864 33% of men by age 30 have either not been with a woman in the past year or are virgins, no you moron, its not us, its the miniscule dating pool women choose from whos got infinite access and zero responsibility. women chose poorly and use those choices to inform how she treats men from completely different circumstances.
@@dianadepp1864way to project. It's not our responsibility to play Captain save a hoe. The price to engage with women has never been higher simultaneously at the same time the value they bring has never been lower. Not all women engaging hookup culture I can acknowledge that but it's more than enough to be a destabilizing force in society. There's a reason so many marriage aged women will be single in coming years as has been projected. Only when women are ready to settle down do they stop to consider what a man may want out of a relationship and by that time its too late and they are too damaged. America is like Gotham city in Batman except I disagree that it's worth saving. When men get their place in society restored they can rebuild as we will surely have to do regardless until then let it burn
This. Of all the crap that I'm sick of in today's dating scene, it's paying for stuff I didn't do that gets me the most. If she even hints that she has the "Men are trash/guys are pigs/etc." mindset, I'm out.
Never ever marry a divorced woman. Automatically she assumes you are guilty of anything he may have done, plus you will have your own faults, which she will add to the list of his. A woman's previous marriage is much more than mere baggage; it is a constantly revolving carousel at baggage claim.
@@garydouglas9413 Plus it shows her own character as well as her definition of marriage. You may share a vocabulary but not a dictionary. For many, marriage is supposed to last the rest of your lives. If she took marriage vows, it means, according to this definition of marriage, that she once vowed to a man, in front of their families friends and/or a legal/religious official that she would love, respect and be with him all her days. A divorced woman has broken this vow. It doesn’t matter why she did it, the point is that it is broken. There is literally no reason to trust her.
@@garydouglas9413you mean only virgin do you ? Let’s go
Anyone fine partners on dating side cheap people you do not know who are they plus lots of people around you if can’t find them of course more worth online
These girls honestly make me happy that I've never gotten richer than working class, because after paying my bills & buying my own drinks I knew not to pay for anything unless it's a date.
The truth is men do want children, really. We just don't want to lose them
Why would my protective and providing and caretaking instincts kick in around someone who has a record of repelling or running from men.
let alone take advantage of or screw over.
I'm bisexual but women are consistently terrible to me. So I might as well be gay.
Amen to this....
We don't want some other guys kids.
Imagine the disaster to the upbringing and building of character of a daughter , if somebody had the bad luck to give birth to a daughter with such an "overused" and damaged woman.
Great comment. The thought of it is enough to not want children.
The sad part is that damaged women end up like their exes.
?... never heard this before
True shit
That’s where parents come in. Teach your child early on about how people use others and how to not fall victim to it and end up damaged goods.
Im not paying freight on baggage she got for some other guy.
Yes brother I second that
I had been in one relationship before my husband that also almost ended up in marriage but thankfully I got out of it. It made me appreciate my husband more and worship him.
Women pick up baggage and they never set it down.
And just dump it onto the new guy
Why do women like Kim Kardashian get rich men? Because they're very attractive. So really attractive women can pull off having high value men. You just have to be extremely hot. But I'm an average woman.
And...
Don't leave out,
The bad "guy" choices she made because she always wants the "bad boy" because he's exciting etc.
So then when y'all get your "bad boy" and he hurts you bad, because, well, he's "bad, then it's "the guy's " fault.
Meanwhile, you passed up how many perfectly good men who would love you, care for you and treat you right...but noooo.
Well said. Thank you.
They start conflict and play the victim
All the time
My ex relationship of 6years
@@TvrkishOutlaw33½ years because 4 kids.... they're F##king MENTAL!!
100%
my ex-marriage in a nutshell.
guys... NEVER pick up someone else's trash.
Why do women like Kim Kardashian or Alex cooper ( podcaster from the raunchy call me daddy) get rich men? Because they're very attractive. So really attractive women with high body counts can still pull off having high value men. You just have to be extremely hot. But I'm an average woman.
Why should I have to carry HER baggage because SHE made bad decisions, that SHE wants to punish a "new" man over?
I don’t know why Men are still giving their precious energy to a group of people who base their entire life on emotions. Emotions are not facts
Nope. I don't have a body count. It just took one ex-husband turning abusive due to latent mental issues to put me off other men.
Men gain experience women gain corruption.
It's literally the opposite effect.
No. Everybody gains experience. The problem is modern men(especially red pill pigs) are cowards and sexual predators
I don't think it's good for either side, but when a guy sleeps with a lot of women, it's a sign of his abilities to attract people/women.
If a woman sleeps with a lot of guys, it implies that she has low standards & ...
So which person should I hire?
Everyone would hire the guy.
One for the books
Its so true what Jed is saying. I'd been nearly ruined for getting involved with a damaged woman.
You are so wise and refreshing. Amen
The damage is usually caused by the choices she makes. Choose to and behave like a lady and you can mend some of the damage and attract the right kind of man.
Why do women like Kim Kardashian or Alex cooper ( podcaster from the raunchy call me daddy) get rich men? Because they're very attractive. So really attractive women with high body counts can still pull off having high value men. You just have to be extremely hot. But I'm an average woman.
I know a girl that I used to go to school with. I'm in my 50s now. She recently divorced. She seems really cool and all, and I'd love to go out with her. But I got to talking to her. She seemed more interested in finding a place for her dog and seven cats! I got to thinking that maybe what she was saying about her ex is true, but I'm pretty sure he most likely got tired of having a big dog and SEVEN cats around. I couldn't do it.
Sounds almost spot on to my ex. Ya dodged a bullet brother.
@mowtivatedmechanic1172 I really like her. In school, we were all close in our class. But it's just the idea of all those animals. I feed the squirrels. That's it. I don't have a place for them, and I'm sure there's a lot more to the story. It sucks because she's cute and really cool. But I think you may be right.
You know how, when you are in a conflict with a woman, she twists everything you say and do into something you didn't say and didn't do, just to be the victim?
You were there, you know exactly what transpired and she's trying to make you believe something else took place.
Now imagine believing such a creature when she's talking about some other guy and what he did.😂
@humanills I know. It's like believing people who are lying to your face now, in the present, and you know it, trying to tell you what happened in the past. You can't trust a thing they say.
Jedediah You're such a wise and beautiful woman. Thanks for speaking THE TRUTH !
I, for one, flat out REFUSE to be assessed as inferior by a woman basing her opinion on all men, filtered through HER inability to make good choices and decisions.
wow she just described 98% of women in one vid and the funny part is you can tell they are ran through and for the streets just off of how damage they be when yuh meet them but the funnier part about it is they think men dnt pick up on that😂
Baggage. As simple as that.
Not only that but their ability to “Pair Bond “,diminishes with each respective partner they are involved with
Everybody carries baggage. It is called experience. Modern men are cowards
@@ozzyolof9209same goes for men😂
@@SilviaLampasad creature.....
@@SilviaLampa Your “Misandry Card” is showing Dearie…🧱🍷🐈😂😂😂
Why I like listening to this lady. She understands her fellow women better then most men. She calls out bad female behavior and makes no apologies for the truth.
Women will make men of their present pay for the men she chose in the past, then wonder why no man wants to settle for them. Im not paying full price for used goods.
Absolutely! I can't fix nor deal with damaged women!
If you meet a woman that wants to call you "Daddy" or says she has an "inner child" , run like hell.
This is a very intelligent woman. She nailed it.
This is all absolutely true. But as a woman I feel the same way about men. They also have had some trauma when they got played used and cheated on etc.. Let’s not say men can’t have baggage.. I wish I could also start with a clean slate however I’ve had only 2 long relationships and I’m 31. I’m also a little scared that all the men left on the market are emotionally damaged too. There’s a reason if they stayed or became single. Maybe their ex was the bad guy..or maybe not. Either way it’s not ideal. I’m single now for 2 years and sometimes I feel it’s easier this way.
When I see that in my fellow guys, it seems to be either his mother did his dad wrong in the divorce, or he thought he would be with his first sweetheart forever and she suddenly "outgrew" him. In both cases, the woman he trusted most wasn't who he thought she was. Instead of gaining wisdom from it, he gains MGTOW bitterness.
It’s called baggage, we don’t want it
Strong fathers used to vet/ find responsible men for their daughters to marry. (Women recieve the gift of youth and beauty at an age when they cannot handle it.)
It is the height of arrogance for us to think we know better than thousands of years of prior civilizations.
You know how, when you are in a conflict with a woman, she twists everything you say and do into something you didn't say and didn't do, just to be the victim?
You were there, you know exactly what transpired and she's trying to make you believe something else took place.
Now imagine believing such a creature when she's talking about some other guy and what he did.😂
My wife told me after 32 years that she did 3 guys in one day once. She said that she felt comfortable to tell me that now that I had grown. 'I'm going out for a pack of cigarettes."
"But you don't smoke.", I heard her say as I slammed the door. Man, I wish I loved me more back then.
This is facts!!! Toxic occurrences seem to trickle from person to person after someone has been wronged in previous relationship. FWB included
This is 100% correct!
They're usually the ones give bad advice to younger women.
We're all damaged. Men and women equally.
Amen,been through it several times,over dating , easier to be single,no headaches
How do you not realize that men with same track record has their own baggage and compares each one of them? Damages when they beleive that both have past that only one is called in for.
She's damaged by all the toxic abusive bad boys she chased.
Is sad that damaged women don’t want to forgive their exes. It’s time to let it go.
Maybe they were part of the problem?
How about this. Maybe their exes weren't the problem
No. When a man suddenly loses his mind and decides he has a right to beat you up, there's no going back.
There is a difference between sex and love. Sex is the act of making love between a man and a woman. Being in love is falling in love or wanting to spend the rest of your life with that person and knowing that it is right for both of you. I find that men and women who have many different sexual partners are trying to find love the only way they know how, through sex. Especially for young women having many sex partners damages you psychologically as well as physically. The sex that you have does affect the mind and the heart. Young women can actually willingly have sex with men that they hate. A lot of them say quietly to themselves, 'Why can't I find love, why can't I find a man or a husband to spend the rest of my life with, why can't I find happiness'. It does affect you psychologically and spiritually over time. I think that this is one reason that so many angry, bitter, spiteful women today who say that all men are s~:t.
@@ShaunHensley maybe they were both the problem?
Have women forgotten that STDs still exist?
Uh, yeah…. Pretty much.
The thought of her gargling every other guy in town certainly doesn’t help either….
This is a VERU VERY TRUTHFUL STATEMENT!!!
insightful words. explains a lot.
Women do men dirty too and leave men damaged too.
Any time a girl has told me I'm just like her ex, her father or whoever, it's a good time to tell her to cut the crap.
They are hard to find. When you got men and women flip flopping around
Women cheat as much as men
One thing I never wanted to tell one of my ex girlfriend but she kept calling me with the bs,I just told her I had her best years😅
A women can have one relationship that damages her more than multiple relationships because it could be a really long one. She could be so broke from ONE relationship and treat men like garbage because of if; it depends on the person and how they learned and grown
Why would any man want to suffer the punishments for other men's actions? KEEP IT!! This is why I don't date!! They're all RAN THROUGH!!!.......
Learned this the hard way, she was 43 and i was 34, my very first relationship, you'll never fulfill a broken person, you cant make them happy, I still love her and I feel sad for her, but I had to walk away for my own sanity so she didn't cause any permanent damage to me too
Smart move mental health is really important
This girl that works out with me and my friends is exactly like this...we all got use to her saying these things so we just laugh and play it off as a joke even though it's very disrespectful to us as guys...one day she's gonna piss off the wrong guy and she'll humble herself
Women use their safety belt in cars every time, but on dates, rarely. It's a players world.
Damage awaits.
A damaged woman will ALWAYS get even with a nice guy, she will do him dirty and screw him over to get back at some guy in her past.
Women will look at the one guy that effed them and all their friends and say "this is how all men are" instead of "this is how all my friends are"
That's because it takes wisdom, discipline and depth of character to not tar everyone with the same brush and evaluate people on a case by case basis. It's easier to emotionally shut yourself off and assume all men/women are bad because it's easier than trusting people and potentially getting hurt again.
Aren't you doing the same thing by starting this comment with "Women will look at the one guy..." Aren't you tarring all women with the same brush? Where is your wisdom, discipline and depth of character?
This goes for both men and women,a damaged person is very hard to deal with.
And soul ties to multiple people show through men and women.
That's why body count matters on both ends.
Amazing mind....your talent in knowing both women and guys is phenomenal.....
My ex wife was only with one other guy before we met. Unfortunately she betrayed me and wanted to be a single parent from the beginning, unknown to me. It's not good out there.
If you don't want broken women, STOP BREAKING THEM. It's not just one guy, it's too many. Women tend to be more compassionate and empathetic. Treat them with the same respect they treat you, and stop breaking them.
It’s entirely their fault. If 80% of women only go for the top 20% of men, then that’s 4 women for every man, so either you are going to get cheated on, rejected, or pumped and dumped. It’s mathematically impossible for all woman to have a top guy for themselves. But since they would rather have a top guy for a night than an average guy for life, this is exactly what they deserve.
@@barfyman-362 define top. In my friend group each of us is attracted by completely different types of people. One thing we all have in common, we ask for basic human decency and respect, which is the bare minimum.
Low-income people get married all the time.
The problem is you cannot know if someone is abusive from the start. They hide the terrible part of their personalities, until the other person falls in love or gets depended on them. Blaming someone for their abuse gets you nowhere. Or thinking you are a better option is delusional, because you were never in the proximity to begin with. If you are a decent and respectful person (see how I didn't ask for anything materialistic here?) people will get attracted to you. The bar is in hell. There are so many shitty men, if you are decent, you will get women.
@@happycookieasa2849 top means most selected.
@@happycookieasa2849 you are factually incorrect. Simply being a good person doesn’t help at all, and actually it makes it more difficult. As a man in a feminist society, treating women like shit is by far the smartest choice. I will literally never get a match on tinder, but if I go to a club or bar and treat women like they’re a bunch of ugly morons I suddenly get laid.
Women control access to sex, and if I am deprived of sex, love, affection, empathy, and respect from all the women in our culture, don’t be surprised when we start manipulating, gaslighting, bullying, and using you like wh*re.
It's sad, an innocent girl became the queen of the nile, now she's got an army and her mentality is damaged.
It's so true
A guy only needs to be burn to a crisp.once or twice to learn relationships and marriages aren't worth the risk
Just ask any man who's gone through a messy divorce and has kids to his x!
Absolutely true.
Story of my life I recently ended things with this girl that only wanted money from me. She even went as far as blowing up my phone with texts to get it and wouldn’t take no for an answer
Stay single men, avoid all the bullshit and drama. You'll be so much happier
I picked up someone else trash when I was too unwise to know better even though it was totally obvious. And I am having a rough time right now. And Im worried about my kid.
I'm with you brother 😢sad
Don't forget the most famous line "You're too good for me"
PREACHHHHH IT 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Either a rusty guy that did them dirty, or a vengeful guy that the girl did dirty…
Some women just don't understand what God has given her.
Hit the nail on the head
Absolutely correct. I've learned about this stuff by better experience!
Exactly ! Spot on comments .
Well said 👏
Ladies!
Good morning ☀️ ! Are you paying attention Sunshine? Good!
Damage women can be repaired honey by good attitude and empathy
Until She Gets Bored With You… Divorces You, Takes the Money And the Kids! Whoo Hoo…Good times😂
@@vmbay2212been with a damaged woman when she feels she is better , she will start playing games with you etc acting like she is better than you 😂
@@vmbay2212yeah boy
@@leocardoroger6270for sure
A woman who has been with a whole bunch of guys can mean that she's mature and knows what she wants.
Women don't get better by having all those extra sex experiences.
Their pairbonding, connection, and deep intimacy wires get damaged. Men, too, in case you are wondering, but nowhere near the same degree.
There is a sweet, nurturing, wholesome vibe that a girl next door has that makes men want to settle down and build a tribe with.
@@villaespesa1No, men get just as messed up. They have no immunity. I know men like to think they have some special resilience, but in pair bonding, and trauma men get hit just as hard. Perhaps they are better at hiding it.
@stellareeber2753 I explained that men do also,but to a degree. Remember: in a sexual exchange, the woman is the recipient of the male DNA.
Women get imprinted.
This is the reason for all those ancient societal rules against female promiscuity, but not so much for males unless there is some religious path he is on.
Is this a double standard?
For sure. No doubt.
But it comes from our nature, our proclivities. The ancients were a lot wiser than us. They understood.
@@villaespesa1 Of course women receive male DNA during sex. That's part of how babies are made. But it doesn't follow that women are "imprinted" by their partner. I could find absolutely no evidence of this. Neither does either of these conditions mean that all you include afterward are true. What you write is just a necklace of suppositions. It would be helpful if you would cite me some research beyond "this is what the ancients did."
Welp that’s all true n also adding the guys that want the ones who don’t have life experiences is cuz they don’t threaten his insecurities aka the women comparing him to others.. that only happens in his head.
@Jedediah, so spot on that l feel like this is the best video I've watched in a while
That's another reason why a guy does not want to be with a woman which has had a whole bunch of guys cuz you have time you go out on a date or out with them any will you got one or two men constantly hitting on her and starting to wanting to push you around for a fight. I know I've been there
Awesome
Damaged, is a great description.
Just for information, I was emotionally, physically and sexually abused by a young man who played at killing me. My next relationship was with my beloved husband, with whom I enjoyed 38 amazing and harmonious years. So reacting against the entire male sex is not the way to go!
And let’s not act like there isn’t men that get their hearts broken in middle school and call all women hoes and never forget that one girl, they are sensitive and then take it out on other women, people in general
Do this to protect themselves it’s normal but needs healing
Interesting how so called “damaged” women blame their behavior on a man while a good man destroyed in family court, living out of his car would be vilified for spitting on the sidewalk.
Wish you were wrong. The truth hurts but also sets you/us free
Why they pass it ? Can not just keep it for themselfs or forget and start new life ?
Wise words.
I was dating a lady who after dating a short time asked me to pay her back taxes to the tune of 35k. I told her to jump in the lacke
not to mention the thought a bunch of other guys have been in her and all that entails. I've only been with one woman, my wife.
Also because men just hate disrespect in their souls
And the biggest disrespect a man could have is knowing that his woman is used by other men
Bless you
Can you imagine how the Dalli Lamma must feel with everyone coming to him with all their problems.. probably just wants to go fishing..
It's more important what they have done to theiir minds, than what they have done with their bodies. Walk away from the social media that you have allowed to do your thinking for you.Go out into the real world. Grow up and learn to think for yourselves, with your mind, instead of your emotions.
Truth!
Are men who sleep around a lot, which is more likely than not, also very damaged? In other words, does it go both ways?
I betcha!
They can't be satisfied
😂😂😂😂I’m 40 and I’ve only been with 1 guy. Guess what? He did me dirty. Sometimes, it doesn’t take a lot of guys to “damage” a woman.