Men Are Tired Of Being Played! - HERE'S Why Men Won't Help A Struggling Female Weightlifter
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- Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024
- Jedediah Bila Live episode 96. In this clip, @JedediahBilaLIVE & @StirlingCooper discuss why men won't help a struggling female weightlifter.
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"Chivalry is dead, and women killed it." - Dave Chappelle.
They want it dead.
They like roughness
Spot on
Fuck nick cannon...
- dave Chappelle
Good riddance
I'm a personal trainer who's been in the business for over a decade and I won't even consider working with women unless there's a lot of people around and cameras pointed at us. Congratulations, ladies, you empowered yourselves right out of being treated like equals.
So empowered they've worked themselves back to second class citizens no one wants to be around
@@TheBrindleBoxer how was it fake?
@@TheBrindleBoxer If he's a good personal trainer, he wouldn't be on tiktok like some dweeby gen z.
@@TickyTack23 lol
@@TheBrindleBoxer What TikTok video isn't fake? I genuinely don't know myself because I don't TikTok, but everything I've seen from TikTok elsewhere is always crap.
It is not up to the men to fix this. It is up to the women to start calling out these women.
it is up to the to become women again not men
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Time for many women to stop being spoiled children in adult bodies.
We literally are and have been but that's not what the algorithms want anyone to see and we also get ostracized from society essentially.
@@gladiammgtow4092 I appreciate u saying many instead of implying it's all. The ones of us who are and have always been against all of this often feel like our voices are drowned out by the mass of ignorant psuedo feminists. It's hard for us to out shout them when their whole lives revolve around attention so they post five million times a day. Respectable ladies aren't driven by attention based currency & we don't have time or the desire to be seeking outside validation & superficial attention, unfortunately the result is the illusion that most women are a modern embodiment of toxic feminity
I once saw a woman struggling to get in an office building front door so I did a horrible thing, I ran to help her with the door as she fought with 3 or 4 office luggage pieces, she turned around and screamed at me do I look like I need help” while she was still fighting with the file rollers I screamed back “yes” the shock on her face was priceless, I grew up in a house full of sisters so I am used to getting yelled at by “strong women”
For some reason some women adopted a toxic distorted model of behavior like it was back then where "A Real Man" does everything by himself, but when he gets help it makes him less of a man. The problem is it has no connection to reality.
If somebody helped me in a similar situation I'd say thank you to them. And I'm a man.
@@xXxLLIaMaHxXx yah, they took the concept of a man being capable of handling things and twisted it in the most childish way possible
@@xXxLLIaMaHxXx They basically create the toxicity that they blame men of doing. They also have the delusion that they don't need men and that they can do everything a man can (Spoiler: they can't) then their indoctrinated brains can't cope with the reality.
A strong woman would have acknowledged she needed help.
@@xXxLLIaMaHxXxhaha, so true. It's like offering a seat on the bus to an older man...some of them take offense to it (implying you're saying they're weak).
I would never insult that woman by assuming she needed help lifting the weight. YOU GO GIRL!
@@jsims1617 Facts Lol
Yep leave her alone.
Exactly, im not mysogenistic or toxic or insecure, a woman can lift just as much as a man can, let that girl help herself out
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You win the internet today!
Women became so strong and independent they constantly told me they didn't need no man. I took that to heart.
Double negative
It's like 'No means No'. Men cannot guess what women mean nor want. they're not mind readers, so they HAVE to take it at face value, otherwise they could be screwed for life, like in prison.
Yeah they say "we don't need men" blah blah blah, until years later they all whine and complain about "why im am single, i should have been married with children/ grandchildren by now"😭😭. Reality check it's there fault why they didn't want to have a man in their life..
Yeah, any woman who says that has an apartment full of cats and dildos in a few years.
@@Slitheringpeanut exactly!
I'm not afraid to be a man.
I refuse to be a simp.
BIG difference.
I'm MGTOW, and I approve of this message.
My chivalry died after two events:
1. Airport, a girl struggling with a clearly heavy bag. When I offered help, she angrily decline "Need no help ". Struggled until a woman offered help.
2. Leaving my building, noticed a girl behind me, held the door open, just to hear "I can open the door myself".
After those, I'll never offer help to a woman I don't know. Being a jerk is still safer than being accused of sexism when you are just trying to kindly help.
Where the hell have you guys been meeting these women???
@@joanamarques4749 everywhere
@@user-fk7sk9ut1t gotta be more specific than that. which city? which country? im guessing USA though
@@pr00009 western countries
Uk usa etc maybe india
@@user-fk7sk9ut1t too bad.
Years ago my son was having swimmer rescue lessons but was warned that when helping a woman to take care or he may be accused of sexual harassment. At this point my son gave up the course and said. "Well if that's what is going to happen they can drown! "
😂
wow💀💀💀💀💀
True enough and very sad since the girl drowning might be your own daughter.
@@vanavatareight5135 I have a Cambodian step daughter who can swim like a fish and would probably be doing the rescuing 😁
Your son deserves all the happiness of the world 😂
Once a guy saw the camera on her and how she was dressed, he might have rationally thought it was a trap to humiliate him on social media for noticing her.
Which it was. That's not what failing on a squat typically looks like. People don't just casually sit there with the weight. Notice how when the woman came to help her, the weight was lifted easily.
It was definitely a thirst trap. Otherwise why even film it? and especially in the atire she was in.
Egg fuckin zachtly
Its like Dave Chappelle says - Gotcha bitch!
Always a trap Dexter...
I am totally with you guys there. Even as a female, I think that feminism went totally "insane". You have girls that tell you "well if a man looks after other women it is cheating but if a girl ends up in bed with someone else it just means she is missing something in their relationship." . Or females have fought against being seen as a piece of meat but nowadays are proudly telling their "Body count" but if you ask them if they would think they act like a ...re they get mad.
Or my favorite is you fight for "equality" but when you ask some feminists "who is superior" they will go like "women are superior" (coming from someone who fights for equality....really?)
OR then when you fight against being seen as a piece of meat which I can understand as a female but what I do NOT understand is when such a person sits there on a Date and tells things like "Men need to have at least so much money, be so huge and many more and the only thing I am bringing in is that I am pretty"... I mean, What the hell?
First you do not want to be seen as a pretty woman only, but then it is you, who sits there and is limiting yourself to exactly that...
Also, it is NOT okay to hate men because it is not "okay" to hate anyone.
Being tall or not, or your gender or skin color or your intelligence are related to DNA, so you have no power over this. People should never be hated or laughed about any of those things. But you DO have control over acting like an ace or not.
I recently asked such a feminist, who was also naming herself as "superior" the same thing. She called me a traitor as I am female.
I asked her, "how can you stand there and fight for equality while your goal is to look down on and disrespect men? How can you ask for respect without being willing to give some? How can you stand there and say that you hate the male gender, but you do not hate all men that make no sense at all... - And Also one last thing: How is it, that when men call themselves superior you name it chauvinism, but if you as a female are standing here and calling yourself superior you call it feminism, and you want to tell me that you are not being delusional?" (She had no comeback but to call me a traitor.).
It seems that "feminist" should now be regarded as a contraction of "female chauvinist".
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Finally, a reasonable one. Good day.
My ex girlfriend was always telling me how she was independent. How she didn’t need a man for anything. Then one day, I pointed out all the men in her life that literally did everything for her. Her dad, brother in law, her neighbor, a friend, me.. that she called upon all of us constantly to do stuff for her. She got upset with me for saying that, and I didn’t understand why at the time because I was just pointing it out. I didn’t think any of us minded until I heard some of them complaining about it over some beers one day. Turns out she’d been giving them them the strong independent schtick for years. They had grown tired of hearing it and just basically wanted some credit and be appreciated. That stuck in my mind for awhile.
Then one day I was over at her place removing a tree stump from her yard for her and she tells me while, referencing her ex husband no less, that she doesn’t need no damn man for anything and I looked at her and said. “Well, remove the damn stump yourself then.” Of course that turned into an argument. But I knew what I was doing. That was the day I decided it was over. After she cooled down a couple days, I told her it was over. She wanted to know why I was breaking up with her and I said, “Because you don’t need a man” and left.
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my hero, well said
Thats a good decision bro leave an amazona in the jungle😂😂😂
You didn't understand that woman's heart, bro---She needed a male donkey, not a man. Great job my dude. You cut lost a viper.
I remember I had a female coworker in her early 30's back in summer of 2020. We were in a construction site, one day another coworker, an unbearable guy in his late 50's started making stupid jokes at lunch time and bullying her to the point the prank got a little bit physical; that's the moment when I stood up for her and stopped the situation before it escalates. I told her "if this guy bothers you again, let me know, I am your witness and we have to report this." Do you know what she told me back??? She said: ""I DIDN'T ASK FOR YOUR HELP, I DON'T NEED A KNIGHT COMING TO MY RESCUE WITH HIS SHINNY SWORD! I KNOW HOW TO HANDLE MY BUSINESS, ALRIGHT?!!"
I just smiled, nodded and said: "Alright.........alright"
In the next coming months she asked me 5 or 6 times for help because she was always behind schedule but I just completely ignored her...she ended up quitting and later I found a better job.
You deserve your crown, King.
Golden rule?
Yup. Never interfere in a woman's business, even if that business is gonna mess her up. Not our problem.
FUCKING RIGHT!
Yeah, they’re a f**king Joy to be around. 🤮
It's not up to men to fix this.
"Toxic masculinity" is not the problem.
I grew up in the 70's and 80's.
My mom got pregnant with me specifically to catch herself a rich man's son.
My Dad did the honorable thing; he gave up his plans, ambitions and dreams to take care of his family. He put a ring on her finger, a roof over her head and food in her belly and did his best to help raise the children she and he brought into the world...
...and she HATED him for it.
Some of my earliest memories are of watching my mom, half in the bag and slurring her words, stand over my dad and scream all the most hateful and emasculating things she could think of at him while kicking him in the shins over and over again. I remember her telling me that men were sexual conquerors and that women had been held down and dominated; that marriage itself was a patriarchal institution for the enslavement of women.
In the end she drove my dad off... although she kept the house and kids along with alimony and child support. After he moved out there was even a new narrative that started floating around about HE had been beating her. It took me decades to see through the lies and make sense of it all.
Ladies: accountability has finally caught up with you. Men are fed up. I certainly am.
if she is still aline tell your mother what a 304 she is and that you will no longer love her for how she treated your father.
I hope you tried your best to get in touch with your father. Im willing to bet that even if you were born as a meal ticket. He still loved you very much.
Like you said. He gave up everything to take care of you. Your mom being a peice of trash aint your fault and he MAY harbour a little resentment but I refuse to believe that you didnt enrich his life in so many more ways when you arrived on this earth.
If he's still alive and kicking and you two havent spoke since he got pushed out. *GO FIND HIM* Dont let the sacrifices he made for you go unappreciated.
I can imagine your relationship with her after that
Exactly that, men get treated like shit and even when they went to get away from it they still can’t get away from rumors that everyone decided to automatically believe that they are the bad guy in the situation.
Your story mimics my childhood. My mother was an acholic that drink up a good portion of my father's income and she would badger him constantly. I used to feel so sorry for him, but he stuck with her God knows why? Oh, and her drinking wreaked our family.
I actually had a woman curse at me because I held the door for her at the bank! Yes, she received a string of curse words immediately, by an old woman behind her who was probably in her 80s. The bitchy younger woman skulked away. The old lady gave me hug and told me I was a nice young man. That made my day. She reminded me of my Granny, whom was a sweet, tough, loving lady. Momma taught me smile at everyone. It is free and makes you and them feel good. I wish more feminists could understand that.
I'm glad for you!
Similar experience, opened a door for a old lady (would hold door for anyone as manners) but she responded with "nice to see there are good men left" sad to hear really.
Women in my family, my girlfriend and her family, and the elderly are the only ones I hold the door open for. Y’all wanna be independent? Then open your own damn door
I've never differentiated between men and women, old or young to be honest.
I was simply taught that it was good manners to keep the door open for others.
It's sad that it's become some stupid politicised thing to have basic manners.
Some women are taught any attention at all given to them by a man is the man hitting on them. That's where these door crazies come from.
I have some advice to ALL women that comes from my Grandmother who passed just shy of her 100th BD 32 years ago. When I was just approaching my teen years she told me something women have forgotten. If you want to be treated like a lady then BEHAVE like a lady. What a novel idea, a novel concept :) Should I patent it :)
Women: "Believe all women."
Women: "We don't need no man!"
Men: "We believe you, enjoy."
Women: "Help!"
they need lifeless dildos.. and im sure the new AI will provide that too sooner :)
😆. She kinda DESERVES IT. You don't NEED a man...drive YOURSELF to the hospital when YOU get injured by another WOMAN who attacked you! F3minism cost you the the man you REALLY want,and actually make you a 304. An ACTUAL "street walker" found in hotels are BETTER than these woke women.
Also:
Insane man who thinks he is a woman puts on a dress and wants to play sports only against women.
Women: *Crickets*
@@zergilli9719 There's a reason for that.
They know that their own little feminism game is wrapped up in the entire LGBTQ thing now so they can't take shots at trans people without drawing fire upon themselves.
I believe that is what they call game, set and match 😂
As a man I would not have helped that woman. Just look how stunning and brave she was to lift all that weight. You slay queen.
Maybe walk by and say her troubles don't mean squat to others.
🤣 gold Feeedom Ring, gold!
@@DexterHaven 🤣 ZING!
💀 😅
Hahaha Yeahh boi!
My mom left my dad when I was young. He did nothing wrong, was a perfect gentleman in every possible sense of the word, a decorated Veteran in WWII. But he wasn't "exciting" enough. He was always working hard. Never took her on world wide trips, never drained the careful savings, needed for emergencies and to have a nice retirement without problems.
Of course mom was the one who took me, and she was nutty as a bag of cats. She moved me out of school to a new town every year or two, constantly making me lose friends and disrupt all my studies, always the new kid. Once, three years in, I thought it would finally be a great year with friends, and poof, off to a new city of course, with zero warning. I went to 9 different schools, in 9 different towns in 12 years! My dad paid for all these moves by the way, along with the monthly pay he never once failed to send. She never worked, and was on welfare as well. She had lots of money to spend on booze and cigarettes and clothes and shoes, though. We ate macaroni for most suppers.
Never once, in all the years did she ever have a kind word to say about dad, never, not one. My dad? At least I got to visit him for 2 weeks on summer holidays, which was the only contact. He always praised mom, made it sound like she was a great person, never even hinted at blame or disrespect. I knew better, and he would tell me that's not right for a man to say anything bad about his mom! I begged him to let me live with him instead, in the calm and stable home he never moved from, and that was the only time I saw him cry.
Women are generally selfish. They live for themselves. Men are always taught that they live to protect and to provide for their family.
cats are not nutty. dogs are nutty. dogs are retarded and stupid, just like women. do not involve cats into this argument. cats are one ofthe best pets you can have. and cats deserve better than women.
sorry to hear but happy you have such a great dad. stick to him
I’ve seen this a lot unfortunately. I came from a broken home also so I do absolutely everything I can to keep my marriage healthy for my kids sake. Some people are so selfish
Ain't that the equality in justice department of this country , nobody talks about these unequal rights by some reason
I usually hold the door for women and men when i'm leaving a building. 15 years back i'd get smiles and "thank you"s from women and "thank you" from men, sometimes a hand on my shoulder followed by a smile and thank you from elders.
Fast forward to post lockdowns, when i suddenly realized i held the door for 2 women and they didn't even look at me or acknowledge me at all, which i only realized when the teen and his mother behind me mentioned how rude those 2 women were for not thanking me. After this i started noticing this type of behavior from younger women so i stopped being a gentleman little by little except for the elder, which always are happy when you are kind to them.
Too dangerous to intervene with a psycho feminist.
how do you know she was a feminist?
@@thecaptain2000 thats the thing, you don't know , is a roulette
@@thecaptain2000 same way women judgement before they know us, deal with it
@@thecaptain2000 when she presses charges after road side assistance.
She had to punish someone for her bad dayz..
@@thecaptain2000 problem is what someone is filming it... and it look a look like thoes video online right now that is shaming men for just look 1 sekund in the gril direktion ... I would have help .. but I understand if someone would fear to do anything because of it... it really sad that people dont help but so are the shaming video also
No woman deserves a door being held for her. You don't deserve anything, and no one owes you anything. Holding a door for you is a politeness we extend to you. And we deserve a thank you!
Guys almost always say thanks when you hold the door, women less often.
Men deserve it more. They do the most dangerous jobs. I don't see women clamoring to clean sewers and hang off high voltage lines.
@@Gr3nadgr3gory I had a woman scoff at me the other day when I held the door open for her. It was not functioning properly and would have been pretty heavy to open for her. Fine. We happened to be also leaving at relatively the same time and she was behind me. I let the door close behind me and heard a thud and low and behold, the door smacked her right in her head. I turned to see her holding it in pain and when I got to my car I had a lonnnngggggg chortle session to myself lol
Myron is that you? Sounds like a page out of his book he's writing ATM lol
All ways have held doors for women its how my mum taught me 60years ago.
So im not going to stop now .
Do I get upset at sarcastic remarks I may get ?
Nope I just say thats what gentlemen do out of respect for ladies nothing to do with patriarchy or any other current in think.
I was a lorry driver in Britain for nearly 50 years, and over those years I stopped dozens of times to help people including women who had problems with their cars ,no petrol, flat tyre etc, they were always grateful, for the help, and i was happy to get them on their way, BUT, last week bearing in mind I'm now in my 70's I was riding my bike in the countryside, and came across a girl with a flat tyre on her car. She had no idea if she had a spare, or a jack. I said, let me look in the boot, and if you've got the kit, i'll change the wheel. She told me to F off and my my own business, and she could manage without men. I carried on with my ride, and an hour later came back along the same road. she was still there, she tried to flag me down, but I thought "sod her" and kept going. She then shouted after me that I was a right b----d can't win it would seem.
What’s a lorry driver? Is that like Uber? Or a taxi?
Good for you, you should have said to her face F off you didn't want my help.
@@theforgottentruth1978Truck driver.
@@rabidsminions2079 ah thank you.
@@theforgottentruth1978 that is a truck driver. Trucks are called lorries in the UK.
I held a door for a woman. She screamed, "i am not f----king hopeless"! So i let go of the door. Then i was amazed when another woman, grabbed the door, and slammed it shut in the first woman's face. She told the woman, "one day you will need help, and no one will come near you". This was 5 years ago, and things have really got bad now. I was raised to be a gentleman with women. Most appreciate it if you help, even young women especially. They seem shocked that someone would help them, pleasantly shocked, and they beam! But some older women, are just ignorant! These girls in the gym, who literally show their privates to men, should be very careful. Don't they realise they are showing the world their private parts? Including perverts? They need to have more self respect, and think hard about being safe. They scream pervert in the gym, because they flaunt their bodies. But there are the real predators watching them. Girls be safe!
I did that about a year ago, while entering a half price books store, I held open the door while inside becasue I knew a woman was just right behind my heels. I was looking down while i held the door but I noticed her just stop right in front of me, when I look up her eyes were shooting daggers at me with pure anger. i just thought, "Oh she;s one of those" so I just pulled the door shut and as I turned to proceed in the store I heard the cashier guy snort and gave me a thumbs up when I looked at him. Oh and while browsing I met her again and still her looks could kill.
Pleasant? Hmm, not sure. IMO, the younger girls are actually scared of you. Their shocked face is genuine. So when you are in age and bulky, the lone girls around you, teens especially, behave extra nice just to not provoke you. When you give attention to them, they are in shock and try hard to express just the right amount of gratitude. Only because you act and talk kindly and soothing they soon feel relaxed and smile with relief as they found themselves in no danger with you.
The only true gratitude you can get is from grannies. Their natural beauty is in the past so they are grateful for any spontaneous piece of attention from a nice mid age gentleman.
She's a strong, fierce, independent woman. Why in the world would she need help from anyone? Girl power!
Welcome to independence where there’s no longer a man to blame for your failures
Spotting is a thing in a gym.
@@Bubbles99718 And that's not how you do it in the video if you were paying attention.
I’m sorry you’re lonely and can’t get laid. If you’d said that shit in front of me, I’d give you good hug and tell you “it’s gonna be ok”
@@Bubbles99718 it is you get your training partner to do it
A few years ago, I was walking into a craft store with my wife. It was very windy out so I stepped in front of my wife to pull open the door. A woman behind us began to berate me as a chavenist for thinking my wife needed me to open the door. So, after my wife stepped through the door I let go of it and let the door hit the woman behind us. I stepped through the other door and the woman, who was now even more mad at me began following me through the store, cussing at me...... eventually the store manager had to step in and asked her to leave.... it was ridiculous. I don't hold the door for anyone but my wife anymore.
You my brother, are the real MVP 👏
How sad, this happened to you
You did the right thing ☝️👏
Used to work at a craft store, and let me tell ya - this type of person is not rare.
same same let the doors slam
I was once on a packed city bus. A very obviously pregnant woman was standing, holding groceries bags and also wearing a back pack. The bus was taking many corners and wasn’t a smooth ride. I said ‘Excuse me Miss, would you like my seat?’ to which she kind of tersely replied ‘It’s fine’. Now, after a few minutes I could see that she was struggling with the weight of the bags and also keeping her balance. So I offered again, gently stating ‘Please, those bags look pretty heavy…’ gesturing to my chair. She gave me a piercing,withering stare and said ‘I SAID I AM FINE!’ in an angry tone. She clearly wasn’t, but I apologized and dropped it. She looked at me like I was some kind of Aplha male predator or something…
The thing is, I’d have offered my seat to a MAN standing and carrying all that weight too. Not anything to do with feminism, but just being (or attempting to be) a decent person.
The world has gone insane.
was it new york? people here are naturally mean, I cant stand them, this why i read papers on my commutes.
Hopefully you learned your lesson about white knighting. Never waste your time or energy helping a woman unless you are banging her or she is related to you.
Wonder if the poor baby even came out alive, being carried by a woman who is so busy acting like her idea of a 'man' that she has probably endangered it time and time again.
This experience should not change you from being a gentleman
@@benjaminmarley1178 it’s hasn’t. Nor will it.
Two times in my life, I've had women try to falsely accuse me. The first one, she tried to extort money from me. She made the mistake of telling her female supervisor, who was a loyal employee of mine. The second time, a woman was pissed because her sister got to me before she did, romantically speaking that is. So she came into my home and pulled out her phone and started to talk to someone. Then suddenly she started screaming "keep your hand off of me, no, don't touch me like that." What she didn't know, but I soon informed her, that God had given me the intuition to record her from the minute she entered my home. When she was informed that I had recorded the whole thing, she said to the person on the other end of the phone, "he recorded it. He recorded the whole damn thing." In both cases I informed the police and they would not charge the women in either case.
So I don't trust most women because of these two evil demons. I now continually carry a body-cam. I stopped dating and stopped helping women in general. If God had not protected me in these two cases, I could have spent 5 or 10 years in jail, due to their lies. When I tell women that I have a body-cam, it is like holding a cross in front of a vampire. The reactions that I have gotten have been over the top. They have immediately started to treat me like I was some sort of dangerous criminal. They berated me and told other women that I have a body-cam, even though I don't actually have it on, and am just carrying it in my pocked in case I need it. Men who trust women today are taking huge risks.
I understand you bro. Stay strong 💪
I was warned way back in 2001 to NEVER pull over and help a woman with a flat tyre unless you have someone with you as a witness,
I’m glad I listened
Large Woman staring at Her Flat Tire stared at Me..( I used to work in a Tire Shop )
I stared at the Tire and walked away.. Silently..
@@finddeniro no one believed her anyway
@@finddeniro that large woman got deflated?
Yoo why’s that? There’s a story behind that? I’m curious af
@@ofekc420 because false allegations were becoming fashionable even back then .
a few days ago a blind guy got yelled at for staring at a woman in the gym. He said "I'm blind" and even the manager told him to stop staring. If you wrote this for a comedy sketch it would get rejected for being too unbelievable even for comedy.
“Believe women” created a situation where a woman can be judge and jury and the public becomes the executioner
THATS WHAT THAT WAS FROM!
I saw joke sketch about that this morning! I just thought it was insulting the general trend, i didn't realize it was parodying an actual scenario!
Bloody hell, I'm not at all surprised though
I remember this, i believe he was banned from the gym even though they knew he was blind.
@@aleksejjovanovic986 I remember this story, but it was much earlier than 4 days ago. I doubt the blind man was banned. The Disabilities Act would allow the blind person to sue the gym owners since they are not allowed to discriminate against people due to their disabilty.
Saw that too - ruclips.net/user/shorts0c9tKlDa4Nw
I helped a benchpressing woman pull a barbell off of her chest that she couldn't move herself. She thanked me by calling me a creep, cursing at me and telling me she had a boyfriend. Never again.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 funny as fck, love it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Holy shit, are you serious? If you didn't help her, I bet her last words would've been "I... have... a boyfriend..."
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😂😂😂😂😂😂
Should have said you’re gay. Shuts them up.
I held a door open for a women and got yelled at for it so i went inside and let the door close behind me. I then got yelled for letting the door close behind me. Damned if you do, Damned if you don't. It's why i stopped helping women. I didn't just open/held a door for just women but for everyone.
The desire to just walk by her, lean in, and say "you don't need no man" before just walking away is palpable
buhaahaha. I had a 70+ year old Boomer say that out loud to me. "I dont need no man" after 6 divorces, alone and single retired. You slay, girl!
I wouldn’t of helped her. Just leave women to rot
I saw the video of the guy stopping to talk to a girl in a sports car. As soon as she sees him she says, "I HAVE A BOYFRIEND!" Very dismissive.
The guy says, "I'm sorry. I just wanted to let you know you have a flat tire."
She immediately asks him to help her change it. He says, "Get your boyfriend to do it."
Lmao gotta whisper it to, right next to her ear. and just moonwalk off.
I once held a door open for a female co-worker (she was straight out of college). She said; "I can do that myself." From that point on I did not interact with her at all unless it was strictly about business. And even then it was short and to the point. It's beginning to be not worth interacting with women at all anymore.
I've been doing this for years at work
not all women are like that of course. I usually take the initiative once or twice with just smalltalk (opening a door for someone you have never met is a pretty big gesture..), if they are not immediately eagerly responding then I do zero effort from then on. It really depends on the environment. I worked as a sales guy in a store with like 60 employees when I was a student, where over 80% of women were pleasant. The I worked as a software engineer where maybe 20% of women were fun to interact with.
You should have treated her like what she is. A bloody kid. And if she ever asked you for any professional advice, help or questions about work, you tell her to fvck off.
This is why I now close doors into People faces who are behind me now
They're over saturated with validation and it makes them terrible people
I like how she says men are scared, and he corrects that to say men are disincentivized to help or be a gentleman
They arent scared to help.
They just recognize it’s not worth helping anymore and it’s actively better for you not to help because all the incentives are to avoid
Exacto, no es miedo, es por precaución para evitar problemas con alguna mujer paranoica
Yeah, she can't resist the put down can she? We're not scared, we're amused when we see women's arrogance back-fire on them.
Ofcourse it’s a women who said that.
Well, she is kinda right. I'm still scared of helping females because one day I could be false accused as a rapist and I don't want that to happen ever.
Fear is the initial instinct, but it can always be overcome. It is overcome by courage when you know whatever you are trying to do is worth the fear. But it can also be overcome by total apathy when you realize it isn't worth it
keep empowering yourselves, you've earned every bit of this.
I opened a door for a woman in Calif some time back and she said I can open my own door! So I closed it and when she opened the door to go through I thanked her and stepped through! You just have to have fun!
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You’re a masterful troll, I like you 😂
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You did it wrong, go in and hold the door close. Make her fight to overcome you in order to enter!
I held a door for a woman because the guy in front of her let go of it in her face. She said that "Chivalry isn't dead after all." I gave her a half smile and said "Woman wanted to be treated as equal." To my surprise, she said, " And to my regret, we got everything we asked for."
Can we fix it? - Yes.
Will men fix it? - NO.
Real talk.
The guy is a simp.
She wasn’t in trouble. She was setting herself up as bait and provoking a reaction, that’s the point of the camera. All the guys could see the camera setup and simply didn’t want to be a part of her game.
Yeah, there's no way she could hold that position for so long if it was a genuine squat fail.
Nobody struggling would have kept that bar that long, just look at her pants and the camera angle, I'd stay away from those thots.
Oh yeah plus people in genuine pain aren't quiet about it
absolutely.....from the see-thru yoga pants to the ridiculously excessive weight on the bar, this was clearly a set-up to trap a guy into a compromising situation....
What I don't get is, if she asks for help and a guy helps her, how could she make him look bad?
I grew up in a strict house, being taught to be respectful of people around me, and polite at all times!! SO I was walking into a store one day a few years back (about 30 years ago), and held the door open for a woman who was DIRECTLY behind me, and SHE began screaming at me that "She was a strong woman and didn't NEED my help!"!!! To say I was taken back IS an understatement, and since then I only hold doors open typically for other men most of the time instead now!!! At least other men DO appreciate a polite person apparently!!
My wife pointed out the the woman that finally did help her came around behind her. Imagine the kind of trouble the man would have been in if he did that?
.....how else is anyone going to help her with that weight...it is either behind her so when she stands up her ass is on your crotch...or you go round the front and your crotch is in her face....
Which is exactly what she was going for, I'm sure!
@@mlb6d9 That creepy perv! He is only 5'11"
thats how u help, cuz from the front u cant really lift , u wont have enough power and u risk a back injury
@@lolozaur13 You're missing his point..
My moment of "why you should never help a woman" was I had just finished up a game night at a local game store, it was kinda late midnight-ish on a weekend. The game store was in a mini-mall type location and one of the other businesses in the area was a bar. There was a young woman, and she was stumbling around the parking lot drunk. I drove over to her in my truck and asked her if she needed help or for me to call her a taxi. She starts screaming "rape." So I called the police and told them there was a young woman outside the bar who was obviously intoxicated and drove home. Next day on the police blotter I saw there was an arrest for public intoxication, disorderly conduct, and assaulting a police officer. Women aren't worth it anymore. Used up roast beef with a bad attitude and no useful life skills.
Haha she got what she deserved, crazy how someone will do that to a person who just wants to help, don't worry about it though, some women got it in their head that all men want to rape them, it means nothing about you.
haha, you so deserved it
Great work, King.
They demanded police run their life, so let them have want they want.
!!! stupid girls are worse than stupid men !!!! WTF
You sound very bitter.
She’s a strong independent woman who don’t need no man. Period.
She's got this !!!
We always get what we want in the end.
I think her wish will be granted. Hope she has a cat.
A monthly period at that. 😁
I remember when I was having my toddler in a stroller and I was heading to the shopping mall. It was myself and my son. Now doors open outward so I was happy when I saw a young lady about my age get ahead of me as she clearly saw me. I thought she would hold the door open for me (how dare I expect that), but no. She went through and let the door close on me.
Now in another instace. I would shop at the local fruit store and the owner being a much older gentleman would make the bag boys carry the bags to the cars for women, no matter what age and even is she was with her grown kids or even her husband. I would grab my own bags and have my son in a stroller with me as well and I was left to my own devices. One day I went to the old man and first I praised him for helping the women out as I do believe in a bit of chivalry manners, but also that he should consider the men who have in my case, have a child in a stroller and that the extra help is appreciated. Especially in winter!
Unfortuantely, the store shut down less tha a year later... Daughter took over and ran everything the old man put in, into the ground. The typical increase in price and decrease in product.
Sorry ladies . We’re done being told we’re toxic. We’re done being told we’re creeps/perverts/rapists. We’re done having to second-guess whether you are actually in need of help or whether you’re just setting-up a Tik-Tok sting because you haven’t had enough attention lately.
Men of my generation were brought up to be relatively chivalrous, but I’m afraid a combination of MeToo, BelieveAllWomen and the blatant misandry that is modern feminism have killed it. Hope you enjoy the world the sisterhood has created for you.
Yup, the best way is, don't even guess, just walk away.
Don't forget what they did with the trans movement, they didn't just shoot themselves in the foot they laid down an anti-tank mine and stomped on it. They pushed and pushed from "women deserve the same rights as men", through "women are as good as men at everything" and ultimately "women and men are the same thing" and now you have men showering in the women's locker room and kicking their ass in women's sports lol
Amen, brother, and amen.
Yep
Went MGTOW years ago because of their shit. Who needs it.
I remember one time I was standing in line at the grocery store with a full cart. A woman, who was older than me, had a few items in her cart. I offered to let her cut in front of me. She started screaming at me and made a scene in the store. I just told her, "Forget I asked." That was about 20 years ago. I have never offered a woman to cut in front of me ever since.
I've done that several times over the years, both men and women. Never had anyone complain. Most asked are you sure. I said yes, that I had several items and they only had a few. So, they said thank you and accepted.
That sounds like you live on a different planet, because where I live, in similar situation peope let other people go first without even thinking of gender. Men let men, women let women, men let women, WOMEN let men. Whoever needs time to put their groceries on the belt, let's the person with just a few things first. It's just the reasonable thing to do.
I happen to let a lady with 4 cartons of milk bare-handed cut in front of me this morning. I woulda done to a dude too.
Never asked anyone to cut in front of me even if they had half an item. I got there before him or her and welcome to planet fn earth and reality.
Ain’t no one is cutting in front of me. The bitch can wait.
I love working with or helping women and I've never had any issues whatsoever.
From my perspective feeble, gutless, clueless men, incels and snooty boors are cringe-making and are the cause of the problem.
They are chicken-feathers, all without one nut scared of Vichy feminists and chicks with dicks.
Francis Aaron - Train harder
I just returned from the gym. There were times when women dropped a phone requiring her to get up off machines, and others were not clear how to adjust the machines. When I noticed it was happening, I looked over at a nearby guy. We both gave a facial expression reading, don’t help her. Plus, as soon as I see her setting up a phone, I know not to give any assistance.
This almost reminds me completely of that Seinfeld episode where Jerry was obligated to console his gf both Jerry and George gestured who should console her it was the funniest thing because she was crying over a hot dog lol
you are a strong and a capable woman!
you can lift those yourself!
just keep it up gurl you got it!
we are rooting for ya!
way to go hun!
yeah! :)
My wife pulled the independent thing on me after 20 years of marriage. She would tell the kids she could do it all without me. It persisted long enough that they started thinking it too. Finally, I sat her down and we went through a budget in which her salary would have to pay for everything--including for plumbers, electricians, yard workers, repairmen, HVAC technician, driveway (gravel) maintenance that I do. Turns out, she wouldn't come close to being able to do it. I told her to announce that in front of the kids and, to her credit, she did. We're still together--25 years total--and much better.
By the way, I've never told her or the kids I could take care of the family without her. I've always noted her amazing contributions to the family. Sometimes, you do have to wake up the other person to the reality of helping we've received.
I hope you make sure to still put her in her place every now and then
@@featuremarkstudios I don't know if you are joking but she doesn't say that any more. She compliments me in front of the kids a lot now and I compliment her too. It's not 100% bliss, but we're working on trying to have a peaceful, positive home.
well done, not everything is paradise in marriage, but it doesn't have to be hell either
@@Freight_Train Give her bum a little squeeze.
@@nelsonhibbert5267 One of the funniest comments i've ever received. Thanks for the laugh.
I dated woman who was a complete boss, I went to open a door for her. She looked at me and said, "I can open my own door."
To which I said " no shit, it's called respect.
That's why I do what I do."
She ended things when she realized, she was not able to just roll over me...
She looked at me and said, "I can open my own door."
At which point I would have turfed the bitch out of the car and driven off, never to see her again.
And she hangs with cats to this day 😄
@christopherhazell420 hummm maybe.
Do lions open the doors for lionesses? Or do you think a lion would open the door for a lioness out of respect? No... Because that would show that she is dominant and he is submissive.... And nature knows Best
Don't take that crap for a second. Ever.
At my gym two cute, friendly girls both held the door for me at the gym. Different times. It was kinda shocking because most just let it slam behind them. So I think some of them recognize this issue and aren't with it. I made sure to say thank you I appreciate that because most people don't care.
People seem to forget that women are people. Just like every man is not the same, neither are women. An asshole is an asshole regardless of their genitals xD.
That's like a unicorn encounter. I don't think I've ever seen a woman hold a door open for me 🤔 but dudes will every day and I will for them.
At the gym I used to go to almost everyone would hold open the door for you or if they saw you didn't have your card then they would go and open it for you 😂. This was regardless of gender and they just did it because it was that sort of gym where everyone was friendly with everyone else 🙂 this was in the UK btw.
You must be very handsome 😂
@@mannyblackstar Not gonna lie that is a thing, if you are ugly HARRASSMENT, if you are good looking "well thank you sir!" XD
I held a door for a pregnant, foreign lady who was a teached at USC, who noted I actually held the door for her, and NONE of her students did. Sha had an accent, so I believe she was from Europe. This is absolutely STUPID!
I learned not to help a woman years ago. Was waiting for my carpool and saw a couple of women moving into the apartment building. Their hands were loaded with boxes so I opened the door for them. They unloaded on me with both barrels. "How dare I think they couldn't open a door for themselves" in a several minute rant. So I just let the door close and walked away. With them now fussing at me because they couldn't get the door open with the boxes they were carrying.
It's like a Freaking loop 🤣🤣
The perfect loop doesn't exi-
Btw pls don't assume all women are pea brained like them, it's hard to find nowadays, but there are women with brains present 😌
There was a guy who stopped to help change a womens car tire and help her get home 2 weeks later she reported him for assault resulting in him getting in jail losing his job and getting divorced even after she said she lied nothing happened to her but he still never recovered. This happened because he changed a tire. Can you imagine if he helped her at the gym on how much worse it could of been for him?
Holy shit. That sounds terrible. How quickly women divorce a man as soon as he's accused of something.
He lost his job and his wife leaves. What about for better or worse
The fact thesee women are held accountable is fucking making me mad
If he got her home 2 weeks later, of course she HAD to report him.
@@eugenebae she got home safely than after waiting 2 weeks she reported him so she waited 2 whole weeks before reporting him for helping her.
I used to go out of my way to help women. It was actually a pleasure. Fast forward.....I'm riding my motorcycle up a mountain pass when I spotted, off in the distance, a couple young ladies beside a car with flat tire. They gave me that look that I know all to well as I passed. No flat tire help for you, sorry.
it's a bit funny that we think this crap is a recent phenomenon. A coworker of mine (1976) passed a women with a flat tire on the way in to work. He pulled over, got out, and walked up behind her car intending to help, then noticed a "women's liberation" bumper sticker. (1976 remember.) He pointed at it and asked "do you believe in that?". She rather belligerently told him "I most certainly do!". He said "I respect your views", got back in his car, and left her there. At least there were no cellphones back then, so she couldn't put him on Tik Tok or RUclips.
@@davewilson4528 This was brilliant! 15/10.
I stopped helping women stranded on the side of the road years ago.
Should have stopped to encourage them to be strong and independent!
I a lways tell them to ask a Femunist for assistance.
I would have giggled my heart out through the next dozen s-turns!
this is true, i was in car in a remote road, 2 women pointed to stop and i speed up, because i was alone and would have no way to prove my innocence, if their mood was to accuse me. Good job guys, stay away, stay woke from women
I'm 50 yrs. old and was raised to be a gentleman and respect women. Last year I was yelled at and humiliated in public for holding a door open for a woman. I was told while being yelled at: " WHAT! DO YOU THINK BECAUSE I'M A WOMAN I CAN'T GET THE DOOR FOR MYSELF!? " CHIVALRY IS DEAD GET USED TO IT!" After that day I now refuse to provide ANY aid or assistance to a woman. My ONLY exception is if it's a dire situation.
Oh my...
Even then the "dire situation" may be an elaborate trap to rob you.
Younger men won't help, so they are targeting older men with more money. Think about it from the criminal's POV.
Not even a dire situation. The more desperate they are, the better their mistake is defined
I have had that type of behaviour from women so many times.
Now I just don't engage with any woman
I would rather die wealthy than share my life with any bitch
I purposely slam the door in women's faces now if they're behind me. And I'll tell them I did it on purpose. I'll hold the door open for a guy but if it's a woman I slam it purposely in her face. Never been yelled at yet fir doing this and I've done it since 2015. I did however get yelled at often before that when I would open the door so I'm not going back.
The touble with being a gentleman in todays world is that there are very few ladies.
Boom. 👍👍
'Ladies' are believed to have gone extinct sometime in the early 21th century, if not earlier. Only harpies left.
Fellas, I’m proud of you all. Stay invisible ✌️
99% of US women don't deserve attention
64 year old guy here, I still hold doors for women and men. I try to always remember to atleast smile when I am walking past others and always express my wish that they 'have a nice day'. I've never had a negative experience doing this. Sometimes a neutral experience where the other person doesn't say anything but never been yelled at. The thing about the weightlifter is that she is calling out to someone. If she were just squating there not saying anything then you could assume she doesn't want any help but she's actually calling out for help. It may also be that prior to the beginning of the clip she had said or done some other thing that had already alienated her from the others there, but from the clip alone I wouldn't have hesitated to go help. Some females may have burned that bridge but I'm not going to just assume that the next female I run into is like that, because I think most women in this country still do appreciate things like that. Besides, who knows what other past experiences a women has had with men that has tainted her view of men. Maybe she's sick of being hit on when she just wants to exercise. Maybe she is a victim of assault that occured at a gym and is just getting the courage to go back out into that environment. It seems to me that men (at least the ones you're talking about) have become like christians, they feel like they're being persecuted because they have to be around others that don't see the world the way they do so they must be bad. They can't just deal with them like other adults so they pout, take their ball and go crying home to mommy.
Women you need to understand something: men are choosing to live their lives under crushing loneliness and going decades without knowing love, over negotiating the minefield of modern dating and that’s entirely your fault. You have even convinced some men that they don’t deserve to be loved, and those men are literally dying from loneliness.
In their push for “equality and empowerment” feminists are making women less equal and less empowered
Not that these heartless ladies even care.
They then call you a incel and insult you more
@@GladDestronger NOPE, they DONT, UNTIL they get older and AREN'T getting ANY attention from men. Then, they are ANGRY that men DONT give them any attention. It's like we are STILL SUPPOSED to want them AFTER they rejected us and TOLD us to leave them alone. That we weren't good enough for them. Suddenly, in their 40's, we ARE good enough for them. SORRY, but NOW they are NOT good enough for me. After 20 years of being rejected, I'M NOT interested anymore. They used to say women mature younger than men. I DON'T think so. Young women think they will be attractive forever. NOPE, we ALL have a best if used by date on us. IF a guy aint good enough in his 20's or 30's, what makes him good enough in his 40's? IS it that he OWNS a HOUSE? OR, is it because now you're DESPERATE? Maybe both?
spoilers: they don't care, just give up like the rest of us...
I saw a girl do squats with awful form and barely finished a set. On her next set, she struggled from the beginning. I thought about running to help her. I was about 40 feet from her. I thought of all the clips I've seen recently so I said "nahhhh". Sure enough, the girl got stuck and stumbled and fell backwards. Ohhh wellll....🤷🏻♂️
Self preservation is key to survival:)
That's what feminists voted for.
I'm lucky I just zone out at the gym and with noise canceling headphones you barely hear a thing.
You're lucky she didn't catch you on video having the AUDACITY to GLANCE in her direction. We could be discussing the shaming video she did on you right now.
@@makatron That's how I lift. Headphones on and loud. Can't get into trouble for that.
I'm 60 and I've been yelled at many times in Australia for opening doors for women. I don't do it any more but I still open doors for men if it's good manners to do so. I actually let doors close on woman now for fear of being abused. I don't do anything to help them now. I was recently admonished by my wife's friend for not washing dishes. Now my wife is old school and we live on a rural property and she dictated the terms when we first met. She said we have pink jobs and blue jobs and that's the way it's going to be. I get in trouble if I go in the kitchen and I actually like cooking. The next day after my wife's friend told me off for not doing the dishes she drives down our very long driveway and as she gets closer I can hear an horrendous noise from her car. She marches in the house looks at me and says can you go and look at my car somethings wrong can you fix it. I was a mechanic grew up on a farm and rebuild outboards for friends and she knows this. I looked up at her and said you can use my tools in the shed just make sure you put them back where you found them. She is stunned she says aren't you going to fix it and I said no I'm going to wash the dishes while you crawl around in the dirt under a hot greasy car and skin your knuckles and burn yourself on the hot engine. I said don't worry as soon as I finish in about five minutes I'll bring you a cool drink.
That's my generations experience. Most young guys I know in Australia don't want relationships with Aussie women. They will go to tourist places and look for foreigners that are less radicalised and still see a nurturing feminine role for women in a relationship. Not dominant or submissive but equal and supportive. I have female family members in their 40s that I don't think will ever be married, they are kind of like a third gender. Like a female with the worst of the male attitudes and attributes that wants to be dominant in a relationship and doesn't respect the man that she dominates. From my perspective all I can say is I treasure my wife and we are equal partners in a relationship. Whether or not young men now will find an abundance of women with similar traits I'm not so sure. I moved state twenty years ago and when I left there where only 3 male schoolteachers in the whole state. I view this as a gigantic social experiment. Let's take a wonderful nurturing persona and attempt to make them aggressive and abusive. Let's take the aggressive abusive personality and make them caring and nurturing. OK now let's have a country full of people with cognitive dissonance living alone, we now have a country where more than 50% of households are single person households. OK let's see how that creates community and discipline and respect amongst our society. Well I hope it works out but I have my doubts.
No worries mate. The Chines and Indonesians are there to take Australia in about 20 more years. White Liberal Women, the ones MOST dependent for their survivaln Western Civilization, are RAPIDLY destroying that Civilization.
I briefly stood up on a train to offer my seat to a heavily pregnant woman only for her to admonish such condescension. I sat back down. The best bit was her friend told her off for being so rude saying that ' he won't offer his seat to a woman ever again'. She was wrong but her point was fair.
Total agreement, both sides of the dance are losing their knowledge of the steps. It will eventually sort itself out. Loneliness can be a great teacher.
Similar here with holding doors open for women. Not one time does one say thank you. Can't tell you the last time a woman held a door for me, contrary they often just let it close when I'm a step and arm length away.
@@MikeHolemar Same here. I've had women just let doors go in my face. Men usually hold doors open for other men and are thanked but women just let them go. I will only hold doors open for other men. Another thing I have noticed is it seems to be men who take shopping trolleys back where they belong after grocery shopping whereas women just leave them in the car park usually next to a nice looking car.
We’re all just tired of being responsible for 100% of the relationship and everything we do is for the woman. It’s never about what makes you both happy, just what she wants.
my friends and i were buying tons at of alcohol for a party. this skinny little 22year old sis from my friend was carrying two heavy bags. when i politely offered to help, she she started yelling at me and lecturing me about “how she can do it her self”..first i was trying to calm her down, but when i saw that she wont stop throwing buzzfeed shit on me, i went full chauvinist mode on purpose, told her some nasty shit, so she went home crying lol
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King
My favorite part in the show Louis is when he calls the girl checking him out "Ma'am" and she goes "I'm not a ma'am!" and he goes "Oh I'm sorry, Cunt".
Now I'm genuinely curious about what u said
She's strong and independent, she can handle it
she got this
I once gave up my seat on a metro to a women. I was informed that “ we don’t do that here”. My reply “ I’m not from here”! And I ll continue to do so hoping my mother would be proud of me. I’m an old dude. I wont change.
Bro, I would have replied “ oh you all don’t deserve it here?”
Keep that up and you’ll be confronted by an angry woman getting into your face
I gave up my seat for a woman on a subway. Another woman who was pregnant holding a 3 year old in arm with groceries. I looked at her as if to say " well, offer her your seat" and she pretended not to notice. I then looked at the pregnant lady and I said " I'd offer you seat but that jerk took it"
If the woman was elderly, on crutches, pregnant, or holding something heavy then you should give up the seat for her. You should also do the same for an elderly, disabled man. However, I never understand why a man should give up a seat for a young healthy woman.
@@smugdarkly Bite me!
I helped a woman colleague after she lost her purse with cash and mobile phone but when I asked her to return the money(after a few months) she literally started blaming me for all the problems she's going through and even went to the lowest level of suicide blackmail and I thought losing ₹20k is better than being harassed by cops and lawyers so I changed my phone number and moved on.
Six and a half years single and celibate. Best decision I've ever made. New house, new car, new dirt bike. My weekends are fishing, riding, golf and laughter. I can work as long as I like. Basically I'm not a step for someone to get where they want to be in life. And 90% of woman use men to get where they want to be in life...... or they divorce and take half for putting in a quarter. They make us jump through hoops for sex. Guys, walk into any sex shop. 90% of the shit in there is for woman. Don't be fooled.
while you're enjoying your dirt bike, alone; the Muslim guy down the street is having 6 kids (on welfare) who will all grow up radicalized to hate America........good for you.
Straight facts man 👍🏾
Bragger 😊
celibate thing is hard pal just rent don't buy
champion!
The moment she decided to turn on the camera, she became the most dangerous person to be around in the gym.
Now this influencer won’t have a story time for her TikTok on how she got approached by a perv at the gym and made her feel uncomfortable
A man in my hometown was at a club, woman dropped her phone so he picked it up and handed it to her. So she stabbed him in the eye with her shoe blinding him. She got very little community service hours and a small fine.
I was attacked on a night out, defended myself, I got fined over £1000 more and over 100 more hours community service. They wanted to put me in prison for over a year with no priors. I lost all 3 of my jobs. What I did would be totally legal in the US but I live in the UK where you can’t defend yourself as a man but women can attack people and be let off.
This is why you don’t help women, you’ll wind up getting hurt and they have no accountability personally, culturally or by law. They hate men. The system hates strong men and men are under attack.
And yet women are oppressed. 🙄 Life on easy mode.
This is why I don't offer to assist Women when I visit the UK and see one trying to get a push chair onto a bus or similar. And yes F*minists have had a go at me for it and I've pointed out that I don't need the potential accusations.
Germany thankfully hasn't quite reached that madness...
If you have a vagina you can do ANYTHING! - If I should ever be walking down the street and see a woman being r*ped, the only thing I'd ever do is sell seats for the show. - You a "strong, independent woman who don't need no man for nothing"? You can handle it? Okay, Handle it.
Theyre penalizing men for helping as if theyre killers and rapists,honestly i can some fed up dude snapping and seriously hurting someone or even worse actually murdering someone
i am european too. If u r a big guy and defend yourself, u r guilty by the second.
@@alexanderk7776 Not a big guy, smaller. Our laws in the UK are fckd and everyone in the UK knows that. I’ve never spoken to a single person here or ever seen or heard about one who doesn’t think so. Our justice system is totally indefencable. If I give examples you’ll definitely agree.
Saw her first time now, i´d say the most healthy mindset i saw in a woman for a long time, thanks for giving me hope again.
I recently opened a door for a female coworker, as any gentleman would have done, and she said, in a nasally, teeth grindingly voice and not her normal voice at all, "Excuse me, I didnt ask for help and I certainly dont need a man's help!" so I said, oh I'm sorry, and slammed the door in her face. Mind you it was a heavy steel door, and she struggled to open it herself.
The next time I saw her coming from the parking lot, I went inside, locked the door, and clocked in for work.. Never did hear what happened there lol
About a week ago, my sister was adjusting the weight to one of the machines (don’t know what the machine is called) her finger got stuck and she kept saying “help” waving a guy down for about 3 maybe 5 minutes, she got help and luckily she was done working out but when she got home she was crying about how no one helped her
I said “make sense” talked about how “wokeness” is kind of causing this rift between the dynamics between men and women and she essentially got a reality check on these situations and my sister isn’t about that woke life but she did experience the repercussions of it (she is fine but she said she had lost feeling to her finger)
So at night alone in her bed she now playing with The Stranger 😂
I couldn't have helped unfortunately. Apparently I would have been showing my toxic masculinity.
Bros look out for their sis always.... feminism has destroyed what's normal & Conservatism .
This will only get worse .. look at Tate brothers. The woke is a poison that shows its fangs ....
So I think that applies to a guy getting trapped, everyone shouldnhelp
@@deathorb are guys criticising other guys for objectifying them at the gym and posting it online as victims? I’d help the dude without fear of being labeled as anything but helpful.
So
1- Don't help women at the gym
2- Don't hold the doors for them
3- Ignore if they need help
Did I get it right?
Yeah
That's about the size of it.
Yes.
And don't waste money on her.
You can take it alot further than that. Dont get married and have kids with any girl... let them get older and desperate
I use to be the guy who would go over and help people with doors, help get your bags in the overhead on airplanes, or offer to spot a heavy lift in the gym. I will still help another man without question but if its a woman and I don't know her, not my problem. You do you strong woman.
Let me "mansplain" my bit of the story of toxic masculinity:
I grew up indoctrinated, heard all this stuff about women held down, treated badly by my ancestors, was made feel guilty to be a man and decided to "be another kind of man" in my life. Married this sweet French girl, university degree historian, teacher. Very cool, very smart, very uncomplicated. I went living in France, we had two children. I reduced my work time (and income) by 50% to do my part in grooming the babies - as a teacher, she did not even have to reduce her working time to do her part - her school director made timetables "on measure" for her....(for gentlemen do this things for women, right?) SOON, very strange things happened. She did the Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde thing to me: I got shamed for earning less money (I mean, I went living in a foreign country for her, reduced my work-time for the kids, - and she considered this as just nothing relevant, I was supposed to be more successful than every french man we knew). I found out she was cheating in the distribution of the work at home though, meaning she had no scruples to make me do more than the agreed 50% despite her constant claims being the only one making things happen at home.
Looking back I realize that the more I forced myself to be a gentleman, making her happy, the more she despised me. There wasn't a thing I could do good enough in her eyes, permanent nagging despite many compliments I got from other mothers I met about my handling of kids and housework.
So, once I felt the kids where old enough to make less work, I went working 100% again. It was a cool job and I was going to work my way up the ladder. Since she had made me feel that my money was more welcome at home than my person, I invested a lot of my time in my career. She very soon started to complain that I neglected her and the kids. Some time later, we found out that one of our children had a health issue. It implied a lot of bringing the poor little thing to different doctors, therapists etc. My wife refused to reduce her time at work, so I completely dropped my job to look after things, I became "father at home". In 5 years, I managed to bring back my son on his feet, he could play in a local Rugby team, had average school results. For me, it was 5 years in HELL. A 100% dependent on her income, she behaved worse than all you can imagine from the bad "macho" guy abusing and humiliating his poor little housewife. It was constant provocation - and I really had to master my emotions 24/7: I am a tall man, used to physical work and been doing some martial arts - she's very petite. I was really AFRAID that I could kill her if ever I lost my temper.......(and I am the kind of man who means it when he says I love you - so killing or harming her was not part of my plan) there where constant provocations and insults. Looking back I truly believe that it was her intent to make me beat her up to get the maximum out of a divorce (there is a house I payed for way more than 70%). Then, something happened in our town. A family father (couple in the middle of a divorce) killed his children and wife, set his house ablaze and killed himself. I didn't know this guy but I really started to fear I could end up like him - I could already feel that her permanent psychological violence started to have an impact on my mental health.
So I ended up leaving my kids and my house. To cut a long divorce procedure short - the tribunal judged me HARD, very HARD for having "abandoned" my family. They never really wanted to know WHY I left my home. In nowadays divorce procedures, they told me, we don't really look into the question of responsibility and who did what anymore....... as long as there is no physical violence, - of course. Looking back I think it is not exaggerated to say that I would have been less punished by justice if I had beaten her up...... RIGHT at this moment, I have to FIGHT just to have the right to send MY CHILDREN a gift for Christmas - isn't it a wonderful New World Order, (finally free of all that violent, toxic masculinity) we are living in?
Today, I learned my lesson. There is no way that a woman (except my daughter) will ever take more emotional importance than a one night stand in my life. I ceased to care for them, for their feelings or comfort.... and noticed a strange phenomena: the more I show them I don't give a sh**, the higher my value on the dating market. -Yep mate, it seems I am still considered a good catch by some of them. You realize that this is the complete opposite of all I was ever told about men-women relationship when I grew up?
Funny enough, there are women trying to "shame" me for refusing to get more involved with them...... (Oh yeah, where might all the good men have gone ;-) So, in my experience: all the stuff they tell us about equal rights is in best case empty words, in worst case blunt lies. BOY'S - don't be the fool I was - IGNORE THEM AND - whatever happens - NEVER EVER GET MARRIED!
Rough story mate. I and two of my closest friends have had run-ins with Euro-feminists too. You definitely took it to an extreme though, glad you got out alive. I had an Italian, one mate was with a Dutch and the other with a Swiss. All three were absolutely mental-to-the-MAX. I'm talking "I am definitely stronger than 50% of men" coming from a 5'8", skinny woman, kinda mental.
Can't trust a woman that says that kind of stuff with your children. She's detached from reality and there's no saying what kind of harm that can lead to.
@@shwngbr shut up and let him share his story. If you dont want to read it, skip it.
thank you for sharing your story. I understand why you feel this way but not all women are like that. There is a woman I know, who had 2 children back to back and her husband is helping her a lot with the children and she is thankful and doesnt want him to go back to work and doesnt nag about less money.
Dang bro... That's rough.
You lost a lot of time and resources there my friend. I would leave that kind of person in a heartbeat and take my children with me. Specially if i have opportunity to go abroad, which i do.
I stopped playing this game in 2012. Im glad people are finally catching up. My experience was a stupid half clothed woman loading up a leg press with too much weight and she got stuck, also didnt know about the safety stops. I help her out with 0 interest in her, Im married, and she acts like Im hitting on her to the point she said something to the effect of "well, you still didnt have o get so close to me". I was instantly done helping women in the gym with anything, EVER. Mind you this was in a higher end gym and a place with a majority middle age-senior customer base. Cant imagine what its like at the jitterbug gyms now.
I don't blame you.
Exactly you’re not scared to help somebody you’re just not incentivized to. It’s just actively better to avoid that headache.
Liar
@@Bubbles99718 say what you want, Im wayyyyy too old for that bs and I was then too
I’ve never been to the gym because it’s lame as fuck, but I stopped “playing the game” so to speak, back in 2012 too.
I've told this story before, but I figured I'd share it again. My time avoiding women came around 2014. Like a lot of the men in this comment section, I was raised to respect women and show chivalry. In my life, the words "sweetheart", "sweetie", "hun" and what not were used frequently. These words flew around my family and even complete strangers and friends of ours. I worked as a prison guard and I would frequently use these same endearing terms everywhere I went. Cut to around September of that year, and I'm called off of my lunch break to the Unit Major's office. It turns out I was accused of sexual harassment by six of these women. Apparently, I offended them by saying such things and even though I wasn't made aware that I offended them, my job and life were on the line. There were talks of taking me to court, forcing me through mandatory counseling (apparently, me being polite made me a sexual deviant) and possibly putting me on the Texas Sex Offender Registry. I was shocked and appalled, and being a 25 year old, that was a huge slap in the face seeing as I'm married and didn't want any other woman. I literally called my wife in tears and told her. When I got home, I had no appetite whatsoever and I barely got two hours of sleep that night.
The next day, I told them that I was about to lawyer up and counter sue them for: Slander, Defamation of Character, Emotional and Mental Anguish and that I was seeking restitution. I also let it be known that I would personally seek out all of the offenders in that unit that were screwed out of parole by these women. They loved to come to work dressed in tight clothing and if an offender made the mistake of looking, they'd write them up for it. Needless to say that their little plan went down in flames after that. Up until the day I left that job, I outright avoided even looking at them. I even made it a point to say that if one of them was on fire and my piss could save them, I'd water the grass first.
Since then, I've become a truck driver and have had only one instance of a woman taking rejection badly. She was a waitress and clearly wanted to flirt. When I refused, she took it badly and gave me the crappiest service I've ever had in a restaurant. She all but threw my check at me when it was time to leave. I paid and tipped her $5.00.
Ladies, realize something. You did this to yourselves. Look in the mirror and you'll see just how messed up you've really made things for yourselves. There are crap men on this planet, but random ones should not have to pay for some other douchebag's mistakes. Gentlemen, realize something. There are still nice ladies out here. However, just be selective because this could make or break you. I learned the hard way as I've stated above. Be blessed everyone.
If that waitress wanted to flirt, she would have to fill out a waiver relinquishing her rights to sue you for sexual harassment
Thank you for sharing. I agree
this is really good advice
@@maximus3159 I just wish I'd heeded my wife's advice.
It all started when when women who craved attention, but didn't get it, started working to stop other women from getting what they crave out of jealousy. "Snow White is the fairest of them all? She must be killed." While they were at it, they killed Prince Charming too.
My first question is: Why are you recording yourself at the gym? I'd think: I'm there to work out, not to make a video. That leads me to believe that maybe she was going to play the, "How DARE he look in my general direction"-game. In addition, a man would be foolish to help her, recording or not.
20 years back I helped women. Not any longer.
I have a lot of female cousins. Some of them complain about getting catcalled. I told them that the only thing that they're going to hate worse than getting catcalled is when it stops happening.
preach it brother. let the tears flow and the cats come home to their miserable 40yo career momma.
@@s0nnyburnett And the boxed wine and anxiety meds
Nah man. Dudes being obnoxious doesn't make anyone feel better about themselves.
@@redclayscholar620 being completely ignored will make them feel worse. I've heard older women say what the o.p. wrote
@@fuq1nutube and I've heard younger women wish to not be bothered by random jackasses. My great grandmother (an old school backwoods baptist woman) would have skinned a man for talking nastiness to her.
I'm 65, I was always taught to respect Women. I'm finding it hard to do so these days. I get screamed and cussed at minding my own business on the bus just for wearing my Navy Cap, or my caps from the 2 ships I served on. I get screamed and cussed at for opening a door for a woman! I get screamed and cussed at for trying to help a woman. I get screamed and cussed at for calling a woman ma'am. I have never raised my hand to a woman. Some of the women nowadays are Damn lucky I was raised that way. Because I am sorely being tried. Any man talked to me that way I would be throwing hands.
thanks for your service. thats sucks man, not even being able to say ma'am
If thats what they will do you gotta throw hands too
Isn't that weird how we, men, are always reminded to respect and never touch women but never the other way ? Like I never heard anyone tell a woman to respect men and to not hit them
Most of them are too Cowardly to actually strike a man. They like to run their mouths and act tough. Very few women actually have the guts to start something. I'm 65, but I'm 6'1", 220, a little on the pudgy side, but there aren't a whole lot of women who would want to tangle with me. Not a lot of men even.
Sorry to hear this man, my mom raised me to respect women and men a like too. I used to try and help women but when some of them started to make weird faces at me I stopped. Now I only help women I know personally and I know they aren't crazy and stopped helping strangers. It's not worth it anymore. I'm more inclined to help other dudes lately.
She had a camera set up. The guys in the vicinity can see that. They know if they come anywhere within the camera's field of view, she'll put them on Tik Tok. If they look in her direction for a second, she'll zoom in and slow down the video to make it look like he's leering at her ass. Examples of exactly that are here on RUclips. How stupid would a guy have to be to get suckered into being her victim for clicks? Hell no. Reap what you sow.
About time someone pointed out that is was a set up.
Any women who videos herself is a Narcissist
He is right on point, Men haft to start making woman accountable for their actions!
Maybe Im old, but I remember boys used to be taught to be Chivalrous , while women were taught to be a Lady. Didnt matter who's house you were at, that was the standard every family held, for all children. Women now a days have no "lady like behaviour". Up and down the age meter, even older women dont behave like Ladies any more. Its no wonder women now a days are lost, they have no role models. Men are confused, cuz they are still expected to be Traditional in their behavior, and things arent working.
Agreed. wo-MEN need to be shamed
American women need to be shamed out the door
That's Feminism for ya! 🤷
Not confused, more of not wanting to waste energy and they wanted to pull that in gyms now when there are gyms for females. They can go there for their sage space bs😂😂😂
There are some men who are confused, but more and more young boys are just not even worried about girls or women. They are just focusing on themselves. And society is going to call them greedy for it.
What people forget is its these young men who do most things. If they are not incentivized to go work the power lines in the middle of the storm, to go pick up garbage at 4am, to work the road crews 24/7 then they wont do those jobs and society will crumble physically. People always thought the incentive for these men was money. It wasnt.
Men did those jobs to support those families they had. No family, there is no reason to kill yourself doing those jobs. And I honestly think we are at a point where a lot of men will never do that type of work again.
Rule 1 of squatting: Wear pants
Rule 2 of squatting: Always squat in a rack
Rule 3: know how to bail if you get stuck
Rule 4: Stop recording in the gym to try to set someone up
The video was a setup.
I was at the gym the other day on the stair-master and a young lady beside me stopped her machine, she looked to be passing out, and was bent over trying to catch her breath. I honestly was afraid to even ask if she was ok but finally after a few minutes decided to ask and not have that on my conscious, if something was really wrong. She lifted her head and looked at me like "why are you bothering me" and said "yes, im ok" I proceeded to just tell her I was just worried and was hoping she was ok. These are the times we are living in, I usually would not hesitate to help someone that would possibly need help.
good job being a simp
You haven't learned the lesson yet dude, don't be bothered or face a false sexual assault allegation
Don’t talk to them directly, if you’re really concerned then tell the gym worker “looks like that lady there might be dead or dying” and let them deal with it. You’re not getting paid, and no good deed goes unpunished
@@chadwells7562 exactly my Chad
Funny you should say that, I was at Lifetime several weeks ago and a woman actually did pass out on the elliptical and an ambulance was on the scene. I never saw it happen in the moment but I did see the ambulance.
Years ago when I was in my prime. I was driving home and stopped at a stop sign. Just in time to see a bloke punch a woman in the face. I ran across the road and punched him as he was going to hit her again. I took the woman to the police station which was down the road. It was her ex husband and they tried to have me done for assault. It never happened but put me off helping in future.
I would NEVER insult that woman by helping her. I’m not even allowed to glance her way to see if she needed help at the risk of being called a creepy pervert. Unless she’s MY lady, I’m refusing to acknowledge her presence. #RiskReward
In other words: Don't piss on her if she's on fire.
Ignore women entirely because you'll get in trouble, and get in trouble anyway with accusations of being a homosexual or a misogynist.
Do we know that _this woman_ has that mindset or are you just doing the equivalent of "all men are pigs (because I met some that are)"?
@@perlundgren7797 - *I* can tell you that its to damned Dangerous for men to find out. - A woman can RUIN you with a word.
@@dokidaddy1056 You can tell me whatever you want to, of course, but I'd prefer someone answering the actual question instead.
I recently held the door at a shop open for a girl to walk through, she gave me a dirty look and muttered something, didn't quite catch it but said, quite loudly, 'You may not be a lady, but I am still a gentleman'.
The solution to this is segregated gyms. Men’s only gym and women’s only gym. If you go to regular gym then everything is on you. But I guaranteed half the BS would stop completely.
Then they would sue for discrimination 😂😂
@@shabba7829 yep, that may be the case but its a start.
We already have women only gyms.
The gym I went to as a young man used to be segregated, men and women days. It was great, come in, do your work, leave. When they stopped that, and allowed women in, it became a hassle, small gym, never the same. The feeling of the place changed, I quit going.
@McSnapples indeed
A couple of decades ago I opened a door for a woman who stopped and snarkily asked me if I thought she was too weak to open her own door. As I said "No," I moved past her, through the door and shut it behind me.
I used to greet women with a good morning or a smile when at a bus stop and the like, I was met with eye rolling, exasperated sighs, and acting like I was a stalker, I quit doing it and started ignoring them, funny thing is, they hate that, and will go to extremes to get my attention. The more you ignore them, the more incensed they become. I have seen them literally clenching their fists, and muttering to themselves as they attempted to attract my attention,it's all very confusing, but fun and I have met some nice ladies too.
Funny thing is, being aloof to their presence will make them try to seduce me.... It's not that they found me attractive, they just want to feel important - even if it means they have sex with me... Talk about having a reprobate mind, these women...
Pre COVID I'd take the bus on my way back from work. One evening I'm feeling exhausted to the point of being light headed, i was struggling hard to keep my grip on the bar so i don't trip over onto others. There's bunch of ladies sitting next to me, laughing at how i looked like a drunkard and probably was one. I was so exhausted i couldn't muster energy to process that immediately. Safe to assume it was a guy who noticed me and offered his seat.
One other time on the same route with better health i see this old lady standing in front of me who's clearly is in pain for standing so long. When i get to a seat i am almost about to sit on it, but i get up and I'm looking for the lady and as I call her over to sit, another working lady same age as me i assume almost forcefully slips past me onto the seat despite listening to me and what was i doing. I politely requested her to vacate the seat and let the old lady sit down. She goes " fuck off creep I'm tired from work."
Yeah I'd rather let a stranger women stay in danger over helping her and putting my family through misery of me being accused of sexual assault. I don't care if it's selfish. They brought this on themselves.
Sadly, I believe it's too late to change this mindset. While there are good women out there who aren't like this. The Trauma that they've done to men over the past few years is impossible to fix. Us women unfortunately are going to find this out the hard way real quick and we'll be the ones struggling within a few years from now. Men are at the breaking point due to the Verbal and physical abuse women have put them through with zero consequences for there actions. Glad I'm happily married already. So this isn't going to affect me.
We are seeing the effects already, 50% of women over 30 in the UK are childless and single.
well congrats to you. the rest of humanity is going to die in hell the body identified mindset has made.
Women refuse to call out other women on their bullshit because 'sisterhood'. You see it all the time. They allow other females to live in their delusions, so nothing ever has consequences for feminazis, and todays gender war is the result.
*last few decades
Men's voices have been ruthlessly suppressed. We are just now beginning to share our experiences.
"Glad I'm happily married already"
Do you have kids? This will affect then, and therefore you.
I was a competitive couples dancer for over 20 years; I taught it and ran the competition circuit for 2 years. It was enough. THe weekend workshops usually command an entire hotel; lots of people. The event staff LOST over 1/3 of the crowd after the MC began to shove "cultural acceptance" at the crowd. We were already doing "our thing" for over 10 years without the tolerance being shoved at us. I don't have any idea if that particular "personality" went under. I hope he did.
I’m a man who rushes to help folks in need but these days I’m so afraid of being accused and possibly losing still in my life. My family depends on me. It’s nerving.
Thats why men need to stand up and say enough is enough and force law makers to make some changes. How is it fair that women have all this power over a guy. Aren't we all "equal"?
@@hashima1600 I thought. It makes life for the true victims hard also.
@@hashima1600
It's not on us, my G, no one's gonna hear our outrage. It's on the normal respectful women to oust these bitches from among them.
You can either "protect" some rando woman who may not want your help and get all SJW on you, or you can protect your family by not getting involved with crazy women.
Pretty clear choice.
When I was 20 I ran into an alley to help a woman being attacked by a couple of guys. That was 2003, it got nasty but I dont regret it, I saved her, she was a stranger. I'm still a good man, still take care of and protect the women in my life. However, in 2023 if you're a strange woman then I'm walking away from whatever need or help you may ever require. You're on your own and I will not believe you or your story. That's how much women and the world have changed, that's the price for your manipulated and manufactured victimhood.
Robbers are known to use 'women in distress' as bait...
@@petesheppard1709 Absolutely. They're targeting very stupid men who still don't get it.
In 2023, being kind is being 'weak' in several different ways-- but when dealing with randos in public. Always. Exercise. Selfishness.
You want a cookie? You got lucky, nobody cares. There comes a point where honor has to be distinguished from stupidity. If I don’t know the person or if there’s a modicum of doubt they’d put themselves in harms way for me, I’m not engaging
and you shouldn't help them, really, they might be robbers using her as bait and you never know if those guys were in fact armed or not
observe it from afar, call 911 and leave, that's all you can do nowadays.
This is one of the reasons I work out at home.
That part
Me too.
I grew up a gentleman. I actually still open doors for women simply as a social experiment. %90 of the time they will not say thank you or even acknowledge my existence. I don’t care anymore it’s just concerning and sad to see society collapse.
It’s true and I never even thought about it much until I read it here but most of the time when I open the door for people the men are almost exclusively the only ones who say thank you