Whoa....you said "lead" and I perked up because I have a DIL who was unknowingly exposed to high levels of lead two years ago and has been having all kinds of weird medical issues, INCLUDING seizures!! PLEASE have this checked thoroughly because Zade may have contracted the lead in utero. I could be totally off base, but I just couldn't let this go unsaid. Praying for you all.
Friends who I grew up with, who married after high school, and their 3 children were driving down a 4 lane street -when a lady had a seizure and came into their lane and killed the dad and 2 of the 3 children in their SUV. So, it is so important to abide by the guidelines - they aren’t perfect - best medical advise available on stats of when seizures can occur. Hang in there. You are doing the right thing by waiting. The mom and son (friend & son) have had such a hard time adjusting. So incredibly sad.
My husband works for a company that sells playgrounds and they just had their warehouse sale. Top quality stuff way less than retail. Since the kids won't be able to play with a swing set much for several months maybe see about getting on list for alerts for sales like that. Then you get best equipment at lowest prices. We have gotten pool table, playground, air hockey, basketball shooting game, and other stuff like this to use or donate. His company is escalade sports probably about 5 hrs away from yall but I would imagine other companies do the same if you have any closer. It is just magical to have little kids at Christmas and I hope this one is extra special for yall. God bless.
Carlin I can empathize with u. I had a vertebral artery that ruptured in my head & caused me to have a stroke & because of it I can't drive. I hate not driving
If you have Warden use 4x4s and make a A frame swing set, it will hold swings and you can add a slide to one end. Much more affordable as well, as you can buy your parts.
Evan and Carlin you are so precious Carlin don't ever say you feel like your complaining sweetheart you have been through a lot , you two are the sweetest and you have two beautiful children ,you and Evan are wonderful parents
My sister and brother-in-law bought a very nice swing set, etc for their grandchildren for Christmas last year. They wrapped an 8x10 picture of the swing set and for them to unwrap. They explained to the kids they would be taking the swing set home that night and it would be out together when weather allowed. The kids loved it.
I can totally relate to your driving ( or rather, non-driving) frustrations, it can be so tough, especially when you have a family! I am legally blind, I have been since I was a kid (and my 37th 😮birthday is next Tuesday), and I have never been allowed to drive. My kids are 8 and almost-7, and it can be so hard to make sure they can do all of the sports and activities they want when only one parent can drive, schedules with work/school/drs/etc get sooo busy. Technology has been a blessing, especially since I live in a small, remote town. I get groceries delivered and everything, but also don’t get to leave the house super often. You have every right to feel the way you feel about it, it takes a lot to have to be dependent on others for yourself and your family, and you are doing wonderful walking through this time with grace! Hang in there girl! (Evan, you as well! I also know how hard it can be on my husband, and the stress that occurs when trying to be everywhere all at once. You both are amazing!) 😊
I’m disabled and when I have my upcoming surgery the doctor requires no driving which means taxis. I will get a prescription for the taxis so I can write off the trips on taxes. One can choose Uber but I feel safer using a Taxi. You can ask your doctor for prescription for Taxi/Uber and save the receipts for taxes. Good luck. Door dash might be a write off because you can’t drive. Just get a prescription from the doctor since you can’t drive. The wheelchair purchase is a write off with a doctors prescription. Anything that is required because of what Carlin is going through is most likely a tax write off with a prescription and receipt. The costs add up quickly. Your contact lens solution is a medical write off and you don’t need a receipt for that. All the supplements you take are a medical write off and that one doesn’t require a prescription just a receipt. All employee team building ( golf, sporting events) is a write off as long as biz is discussed),reward dinners, Xmas dinner or lunch for employees is a tax write off, or the owners going out dinner discussing biz is a write off. Be sure to check with your accountant and always save receipts. If Izzy becomes a medical dog for you her food , vet bills, daycare is a medical writer off. I always get a. Prescription from the doctor for everything. I am unable to use my arm so I got a prescription for pedicure and manicures to write off on taxes. Nobody tells you this when you get sick or have an injury. Good luck Carlin and Stew Crew!
*Helpful Hint* 🤗 That I did when mine were little - Buy a Swing-Set - that has a built in bench with back on it / swing / within the set - that way as the children get older and can swing on their own - y’all can have a place to , not only to sit, but y’all can swing too . Also , my prayers are still with you . 🤍 When someone does not have a car, seems like - if a car is being repaired or in the shop, that’s the time that you want to go somewhere the most!! I can only imagine how that feeling is magnified times 100, if someone is not able to drive at all!! You are a CHAMP, Carlin !! 🥰 Great vlog ! 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍
I had to stop driving in 1995 for medical reasons - permanently. I know it's hard but you're just going to have to make up your mind that you can NOT drive right now. Put the possibility right out of your mind, because you're making it harder on yourself than it needs to be, Carlin. The risk is not worth it, and you know that. How about you just try to accept what is until it can change, however long that might be? Anybody who cares about you should be more than happy to help out, and perhaps if you would look at it as a blessing that you have people to help you, you can set your mind to accepting their generous rides and the privilege of the extra time that will give you with those who care for you and your family. Yes, it is most certainly inconvenient. It's been going on for awhile and you want things to go back to normal. So use the time the best way you can, and try to figure out what you're supposed to be learning from all of this. Because until then, you and I both know nothing will change. Be thankful you have options, and that people love you enough to want to make things as easy as possible for your family. You aren't stranded, and this isn't permanent. You'll get through it, this whole thing will be resolved. Just maybe not today. Don't be in a hurry if you want the RIGHT answers. Unfortunately, medical issues aren't always easy or quick to sort out. I wish you patience and peace and better health.
Try Lowe’s or Home Depot maybe you have an 84 lumber any of those stores have the really great quality swing sets with the eagle nest with the slide attachment they last forever
I have cerebral palsy and seizures and can drive at all! So, I definitely get the feeling!! Love you guys so much!!! ❤ You should have Warren and some of your other brothers build one for you it will last.
You guys are so lucky. Your kids are at a perfect age to really be into the holidays this year. And they have the best responses to stuff. Watching Layla is great because you never know what she will say and she comes up with some good stuff. And Zade is just apleasure to watch and see his answer to any question be the yes nod. I'd like to wish you and your family a very merry holiday season.
Carlin, im dealing with the same thing and im glad to know im not the only one who is experiencing all of this. Thanks for helping me stay positive. Love you.
Haha...I noticed that too! As a mom and gram...definitely pick up on those things. Love seeing him in Bates videos. Wish he'd come down to Dade City. FL...got just the cutest/sweetest girl for him! 😂
I understand the frustration but also please don’t don’t drive before you have things figured out with your DRs and you don’t have anymore issues. I know the outright seizure situation has lightened w meds and I’m so glad. But the brief moments of confusion - could be so so dangerous in the car if driving. And even if you have an episode and it means you have to ‘reset’ the clock … please reset it as frustrating as it feels. Because people WANT TO HELP and YOU safe too important and the kids are too important for any avoidable risks to be taken. We are all rooting for you and also really glad that things seem to be controlled by your meds! ☮️
those leaves in the background of your back yard are gorgeous!! and carlin, i've been meaning to tell you since your haircut, your hair looks so healthy and fits your face perfectly.
Please don’t get a cheap swing set, like those from Lowe’s (and other hardware stores). Even though they are hundreds of dollars they tip over easily and don’t last. Also, things like whole grains are great for iron. My two year old daughter likes peanut butter sandwiches on whole grain bread. You can also make pastas that are whole grain.
So has been known to help diagnose people who have mystery illness according to the news sources I’ve read. But I am a Christian. I know God is healing and protecting amen. God bless your family. ❤🙏🏾
How did Zade get exposed to lead? I am praying for your little man. Your kids are growing up fast. Oh my goodness the singing in the background is so wonderful.
Keep a notepad and pen next to your bed. When your mind begins to race with the things you need to do or remember, pull out the pad and start listing them. This really helps me put my thoughts “to sleep” so my body can follow.
I listen to music to block out all the thoughts floating around my mind. Luckily when my husband takes out his hearing aids he can’t hear it. Also drowns out his snoring 🤣🤣
Thank you for sharing the very sad story in a kind way! These things can happen. Sad but true and we should never hide from the truth. Yeah hang in there Carlin! Love you and your sweet family. No regrets!
I have them too. I go through periods I can’t sleep, and periods all I want to do is sleep. Then normal. They have me sleeping with oxygen now at night because of my episodes, etc. Y’all have a safe week.
When my daughter was 4 she wanted the Barbie Airplane. I told her I would never be able to afford it. (Broke single Mom in nursing school ) I went to Target the day before Christmas Eve. (BTW that is when Target does major markdowns on the toys!) It was 75% off!!!!! So Santa 🎅 was sealed!!!! Cutest story. Too much to type here.
Just an idea.. you could get something smaller now and then something bigger as the kids get bigger. We have 5 kids and started out with a metal swingset. Since they are getting older and bigger, we wanted something "bigger". So, we actually made 2 wooden ones with treated lumber. The one has 3 swings on it (big enough for adults too!) The other one has 2 different swings and is attached to a "tree fort" with a sandbox underneath. Big hit with the kids!
I understand the frustration of not being able to drive. I don’t have a license and it can get frustrating at times when I need to do something and my husband is busy. So glad Zades bloodwork was good. My son had to be on iron for several yrs but has been good the last few yrs
Check out this RUclipsr Rocky Kanaka sitting with dogs, he looks like a bit older Evan, and has his same infectious energy and smile. I seriously thought they had to be related!
Layla is so smart & animated, a joyful spirit, and Zade, Zade is absolutely the happiest 29 month old thus from the beginning he’s always smiling. You four are blessed!!!!!!!!!!
I understand. I have health difficulties. I have always been able to work etc. but , not now I am like you too. ❤❤❤ I admire you wanting to go and get to places. And , also glad you’re starting to feel better. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Carlin, try a crock pot. You’ll have a homemade dinner waiting for you when you get home if you start it in the morning before you leave for work. You can order groceries on line and do a pick up or delivery if you don’t have time or can’t get to the store. I don’t drive either and that’s how I make it work.
Honey I know y'all have busy lives and you are feeling better. But you haven't been feeling better for that long and you should wait for a while just to make sure for yours and yiur families safety.
Hello Stewart Fam!🎉 I am a fan of the Bates and your channel. I love the show so much.❤ You guys are an Incredible family. I really hope you guys see this message 💞 I hope you an awesome day 💗. God bless you, Stewart fam.❤🎉😊✨️🤗💗🎀
I saw Jinger Duggar Vuolo had bought a really solid looking swing set in a recent video. I think the brand was tagged on her video so may be worth looking into 🤷
Just love you guys…these kiddos are too adorable…so happy you have Mama Bates and Warden to help out. Must be so frustrating not to be able to drive but better to be cautious with you and your precious family ♥️♥️♥️
I think if you want a really good quality outdoor set for the kids get get Warden to design and build it - buy in the slide and swings etc - but make it so it can be expanded over time as the kids get older - the ones you purchase and put together only last 5 years max
Carlin, girl, you aren't complaining about not being able to drive- you are venting! Venting is absolutely a healthy and okay thing to do. I would be super frustrated if I were in your shoes!
Lifetime swing or play sets are sturdy and will last longer than the less expensive ones. When our boys were little we went less expensive and the set lasted about one year. 😩
Carlin it was a pleasure to meet you at church yesterday! What a wonderful service. I will continue to keep you and your families in my prayers. Thank you, for your testimonies for the Lord. Debbie, Hendersonville, NC
Hi Evan and Carlin, its so fun watching your videos. God bless you and your lovely Kids! Layla is such a princess 😊 and Zade has such a lovely smile. Thank you for taking off your busy time to up date us all .. Christine (from Switzerland) ❤❤❤❤
Hi Carlin! Love ya so much! Been watching you since United Bates of America! So since I care about you, just wondering what your Doctor has said about driving? What are the boundaries from when you've had a " seizure" last? God's Love & protection! ✝️💕
Rainbow swing sets are one of the best out there. We got one of the biggest for our grandkids (14 total, but 10 use it) and 3 great grandkids. They are ok on prices, but ya can add on to them as well. Evern my adult kids love to go and swing and go down the slides. The best part is they will install it for ya. I love this part. We have had ours for 7 years and still going strong with nothing wrong with it. Layla is so cute picking out her presents and Zade is growing up so fast. Thanks for sharing with all of us. 💖💖💖
Hi, Carlin. Have you been tested for lead poisoning? Strangely, Zade had randomly high levels of lead in his system, but I don't think it's a fluke. Best wishes to you & your beautiful family.
Thanks for the update. I'm in the mood for Christmas!! 🎅🤶. Its my favorite time of year!!🎄. Thanks for sharing your vlog this week. Just love them. Your family is awesome, your kiddos are so precious. Layla gets so excited, love her & zades reactions, Priceless💖
Carlin and Evan, I think a good vlog would be of you two baby sitting for Zach and Whitney's kids, all of them for their upcoming anniversary. Wouldn't that be fun! And a great gift for them.
Can't wait to see the new vlog and hope you guys have a great Saturday afternoon and evening with the kids and hope everything goes well at the bouquet and enjoy the nice weather outside with the kids and with Izzy.
Until you are able to drive, why not avail yourselves of the wonderful people of your church. I am sure that if you were to give schedule of assistance required a couple of weeks in advance there would be a plethora of individuals ready willing and able to assist your family, which would not be a hardship for anyone who volunteers their help. Just an option. ❤
Zade is looking more like Layla they are the cutest God Bless them. The best part of Christmas is seeing how happy the kids get and there excitement when opening there presents.
In georgia whe we wefe there theh had a noahs ark and it was the cutest thing your brothers are great at building things carlin and they love their neice and newphew
I looked at the beam you are advertising and don't know how anyone could afford that. All the little bells and whistles that get advertised seem a bit much.
Just something to think about. We never know our circumstances in life nor the future, might not ask what they want for Christmas but ask them to just look through what they like for fun with no promises of getting it. So they can learn not to expect a gift but be thankful they got something they were dreaming about if you can purchase it. If you couldn't buy it for any reason your children will still have a thankful Christmas as they weren't expecting a particular item. When my kids were young I could count on my hand things I promised. I would usually say. Lord willingbwe will do this or that To teach them that things might not happen like you plan and it's okay and God is still good and I didn't have to take the chance of breaking a promise to them. Love yall praying for yall and learning to depend is a good thing as it helps to learn to depend on the Lord more. Getting things we ask for has the potential to be an expectation instead of a gift
Unfortunately I have not had a car in the last 8 weeks so I can relate with you relying on rides and people helping you out. I had to use uber the last few weeks to get to work which is only a 6 min drive. It has been a savior and the price wasn't too bad. I also used instacart and doordash, when I needed things. I am glad these things are available. They were not when I was your age so this has been new to me. Thanks for sharing. Your kids are so precious.
Carlin you should check with your church, sometimes they have people who will volunteer to drive people who can't drive themselves. People at church like to help others out as you would if someone needed help.
Have you guys thought of having a n Aupair? Not sure if you have a spare room available but it could be an option and great if they have their license to drive the kiddies.
Whoa....you said "lead" and I perked up because I have a DIL who was unknowingly exposed to high levels of lead two years ago and has been having all kinds of weird medical issues, INCLUDING seizures!! PLEASE have this checked thoroughly because Zade may have contracted the lead in utero.
I could be totally off base, but I just couldn't let this go unsaid. Praying for you all.
Y’all are so fortunate to have family close by to help… it is really hard when you don’t 😢
Friends who I grew up with, who married after high school, and their 3 children were driving down a 4 lane street -when a lady had a seizure and came into their lane and killed the dad and 2 of the 3 children in their SUV. So, it is so important to abide by the guidelines - they aren’t perfect - best medical advise available on stats of when seizures can occur. Hang in there. You are doing the right thing by waiting. The mom and son (friend & son) have had such a hard time adjusting. So incredibly sad.
Mmsnbc9118, I'm so sorry. That's terrible!!
@@SweetPea6348 Such a lovely family.
Incredibly sad. And I’m sorry to say, a story to be remembered when someone is anxious to drive but should not. 💔💔💔💔💔
So sad to hear this
WOW, that's so sad all the way around....😢
My husband works for a company that sells playgrounds and they just had their warehouse sale. Top quality stuff way less than retail. Since the kids won't be able to play with a swing set much for several months maybe see about getting on list for alerts for sales like that. Then you get best equipment at lowest prices. We have gotten pool table, playground, air hockey, basketball shooting game, and other stuff like this to use or donate. His company is escalade sports probably about 5 hrs away from yall but I would imagine other companies do the same if you have any closer. It is just magical to have little kids at Christmas and I hope this one is extra special for yall. God bless.
I really can relate. I am disabled and dependant on rides. I've just tried to surrender it to the Lord that he directs my steps
Carlin I can empathize with u. I had a vertebral artery that ruptured in my head & caused me to have a stroke & because of it I can't drive. I hate not driving
Laylas giggles ❤ oh my word the sweetest sound.
Oh my Layla is baking. She has grown so big. I was so excited to see how excited she was to make those cookies.
If you have Warden use 4x4s and make a A frame swing set, it will hold swings and you can add a slide to one end. Much more affordable as well, as you can buy your parts.
Evan and Carlin you are so precious Carlin don't ever say you feel like your complaining sweetheart you have been through a lot , you two are the sweetest and you have two beautiful children ,you and Evan are wonderful parents
My sister and brother-in-law bought a very nice swing set, etc for their grandchildren for Christmas last year. They wrapped an 8x10 picture of the swing set and for them to unwrap. They explained to the kids they would be taking the swing set home that night and it would be out together when weather allowed. The kids loved it.
I can totally relate to your driving ( or rather, non-driving) frustrations, it can be so tough, especially when you have a family! I am legally blind, I have been since I was a kid (and my 37th 😮birthday is next Tuesday), and I have never been allowed to drive. My kids are 8 and almost-7, and it can be so hard to make sure they can do all of the sports and activities they want when only one parent can drive, schedules with work/school/drs/etc get sooo busy. Technology has been a blessing, especially since I live in a small, remote town. I get groceries delivered and everything, but also don’t get to leave the house super often. You have every right to feel the way you feel about it, it takes a lot to have to be dependent on others for yourself and your family, and you are doing wonderful walking through this time with grace! Hang in there girl! (Evan, you as well! I also know how hard it can be on my husband, and the stress that occurs when trying to be everywhere all at once. You both are amazing!) 😊
I’m disabled and when I have my upcoming surgery the doctor requires no driving which means taxis.
I will get a prescription for the taxis so I can write off the trips on taxes. One can choose Uber but I feel safer using a Taxi. You can ask your doctor for prescription for Taxi/Uber and save the receipts for taxes.
Good luck. Door dash might be a write off because you can’t drive. Just get a prescription from the doctor since you can’t drive. The wheelchair purchase is a write off with a doctors prescription. Anything that is required because of what Carlin is going through is most likely a tax write off with a prescription and receipt. The costs add up quickly. Your contact lens solution is a medical write off and you don’t need a receipt for that. All the supplements you take are a medical write off and that one doesn’t require a prescription just a receipt.
All employee team building ( golf, sporting events) is a write off as long as biz is discussed),reward dinners, Xmas dinner or lunch for employees is a tax write off, or the owners going out dinner discussing biz is a write off. Be sure to check with your accountant and always save receipts. If Izzy becomes a medical dog for you her food , vet bills, daycare is a medical writer off.
I always get a. Prescription from the doctor for everything. I am unable to use my arm so I got a prescription for pedicure and manicures to write off on taxes. Nobody tells you this when you get sick or have an injury.
Good luck Carlin and Stew Crew!
*Helpful Hint* 🤗
That I did when mine were little - Buy a
Swing-Set - that has a
built in bench with back on it / swing /
within the set - that way as the children get older and can swing on their own - y’all can have a place to , not only to sit, but y’all can swing too .
Also , my prayers are still with you . 🤍
When someone does not have a car, seems like - if a car is being repaired or in the shop, that’s the time that you want to go somewhere the most!!
I can only imagine how that feeling is magnified times 100, if someone is not able to drive at all!!
You are a CHAMP, Carlin !! 🥰
Great vlog !
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I had to stop driving in 1995 for medical reasons - permanently. I know it's hard but you're just going to have to make up your mind that you can NOT drive right now. Put the possibility right out of your mind, because you're making it harder on yourself than it needs to be, Carlin. The risk is not worth it, and you know that. How about you just try to accept what is until it can change, however long that might be? Anybody who cares about you should be more than happy to help out, and perhaps if you would look at it as a blessing that you have people to help you, you can set your mind to accepting their generous rides and the privilege of the extra time that will give you with those who care for you and your family. Yes, it is most certainly inconvenient. It's been going on for awhile and you want things to go back to normal. So use the time the best way you can, and try to figure out what you're supposed to be learning from all of this. Because until then, you and I both know nothing will change. Be thankful you have options, and that people love you enough to want to make things as easy as possible for your family. You aren't stranded, and this isn't permanent. You'll get through it, this whole thing will be resolved. Just maybe not today. Don't be in a hurry if you want the RIGHT answers. Unfortunately, medical issues aren't always easy or quick to sort out. I wish you patience and peace and better health.
I love Layla's sweet voice and giggles. Beautiful family!!
Try Lowe’s or Home Depot maybe you have an 84 lumber any of those stores have the really great quality swing sets with the eagle nest with the slide attachment they last forever
I have cerebral palsy and seizures and can drive at all! So, I definitely get the feeling!! Love you guys so much!!! ❤
You should have Warren and some of your other brothers build one for you it will last.
You guys are so lucky. Your kids are at a perfect age to really be into the holidays this year. And they have the best responses to stuff. Watching Layla is great because you never know what she will say and she comes up with some good stuff. And Zade is just apleasure to watch and see his answer to any question be the yes nod.
I'd like to wish you and your family a very merry holiday season.
Carlin, im dealing with the same thing and im glad to know im not the only one who is experiencing all of this. Thanks for helping me stay positive. Love you.
Lifetime from Walmart is a great Swing set brand. We replaced our Grands' wooden set that was falling down after only 3 years.
❤ when Zade nods his head yes. So cute!
@13:44, I like how Warden walked by & helped the baby with his bottle that was sweet.
Always love seeing Warden!!! He pops up at different places and always a welcome surprise!
Haha...I noticed that too! As a mom and gram...definitely pick up on those things. Love seeing him in Bates videos. Wish he'd come down to Dade City. FL...got just the cutest/sweetest girl for him! 😂
I understand the frustration but also please don’t don’t drive before you have things figured out with your DRs and you don’t have anymore issues. I know the outright seizure situation has lightened w meds and I’m so glad. But the brief moments of confusion - could be so so dangerous in the car if driving. And even if you have an episode and it means you have to ‘reset’ the clock … please reset it as frustrating as it feels. Because people WANT TO HELP and YOU safe too important and the kids are too important for any avoidable risks to be taken. We are all rooting for you and also really glad that things seem to be controlled by your meds!
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Oh please Layla, don’t ever grow up! You’re precious!
those leaves in the background of your back yard are gorgeous!!
and carlin, i've been meaning to tell you since your haircut, your hair looks so healthy and fits your face perfectly.
Please don’t get a cheap swing set, like those from Lowe’s (and other hardware stores). Even though they are hundreds of dollars they tip over easily and don’t last.
Also, things like whole grains are great for iron. My two year old daughter likes peanut butter sandwiches on whole grain bread. You can also make pastas that are whole grain.
It's difficult to not be able to drive when the kids start outside activities. I'm glad your family has been able to help when Evan is out.
So has been known to help diagnose people who have mystery illness according to the news sources I’ve read. But I am a Christian. I know God is healing and protecting amen. God bless your family. ❤🙏🏾
How did Zade get exposed to lead? I am praying for your little man. Your kids are growing up fast. Oh my goodness the singing in the background is so wonderful.
It’s nice to see Carlin doing so well y’all look really happy ❤
I just love you two and your little ones. I continue to pray for Carlin. 🤗
Keep a notepad and pen next to your bed. When your mind begins to race with the things you need to do or remember, pull out the pad and start listing them. This really helps me put my thoughts “to sleep” so my body can follow.
@MaryMartinez8047, That's what I do and it works!! Sometimes, I listen to my music too. 😊
I listen to music to block out all the thoughts floating around my mind. Luckily when my husband takes out his hearing aids he can’t hear it. Also drowns out his snoring 🤣🤣
Layla "holy spiriting " touched my heart so much. I love seeing children praising Jesus. Zade is a chunk of adorable. Love your videos. God bless
Thank you for sharing the very sad story in a kind way! These things can happen. Sad but true and we should never hide from the truth.
Yeah hang in there Carlin!
Love you and your sweet family. No regrets!
Oh my goodness Layla and Zade are precious. Layla has the best personality. Thanks for sharing. Blessings
I have them too. I go through periods I can’t sleep, and periods all I want to do is sleep. Then normal. They have me sleeping with oxygen now at night because of my episodes, etc. Y’all have a safe week.
When my daughter was 4 she wanted the Barbie Airplane. I told her I would never be able to afford it. (Broke single Mom in nursing school ) I went to Target the day before Christmas Eve. (BTW that is when Target does major markdowns on the toys!) It was 75% off!!!!! So Santa 🎅 was sealed!!!! Cutest story. Too much to type here.
Just an idea.. you could get something smaller now and then something bigger as the kids get bigger. We have 5 kids and started out with a metal swingset. Since they are getting older and bigger, we wanted something "bigger". So, we actually made 2 wooden ones with treated lumber. The one has 3 swings on it (big enough for adults too!) The other one has 2 different swings and is attached to a "tree fort" with a sandbox underneath. Big hit with the kids!
Hey, as long as the adults can be kids, that's the right idea!!
So glad you are feeling better Carlin.
Wow what a beautiful back yard with the colors!!
I don’t drive anymore .for my safety and everyone else safety.I can’t see well anymore
I understand the frustration of not being able to drive. I don’t have a license and it can get frustrating at times when I need to do something and my husband is busy. So glad Zades bloodwork was good. My son had to be on iron for several yrs but has been good the last few yrs
maybe a pergoda on your back yard or on the patio slab would make it more comfy & prettier there & enjoyable.
Check out this RUclipsr Rocky Kanaka sitting with dogs, he looks like a bit older Evan, and has his same infectious energy and smile. I seriously thought they had to be related!
Yes, it is so frustrating, the driving part. Keep sharing. Glad your sister can come for awhile to help. Praying
Layla is so smart & animated, a joyful spirit, and Zade, Zade is absolutely the happiest 29 month old thus from the beginning he’s always smiling. You four are blessed!!!!!!!!!!
29 month old? 🥴🤣🤣🤣
How about he just be called 2 and a half. 🤪
@@hziebart I meant 19 mos. Not sure he will be 2 in March
Love your page ! We have moved to Sevierville and would love to check out your store . Address please ! ❤
I understand. I have health difficulties. I have always been able to work etc. but , not now I am like you too. ❤❤❤ I admire you wanting to go and get to places. And , also glad you’re starting to feel better. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Layla is an absolute RUclips star...her personality is so engaging and captivating!! Totally enjoy watching her!
That was uncalled for and it's not true
Love your whole family. Thanks for sharing your life every week. Your kids are just too adorably cute!!💖. You & Evan have an amazing family.
Carlin, try a crock pot. You’ll have a homemade dinner waiting for you when you get home if you start it in the morning before you leave for work. You can order groceries on line and do a pick up or delivery if you don’t have time or can’t get to the store. I don’t drive either and that’s how I make it work.
I have epilepsy and can’t sleep. I listen to rain videos on RUclips and it helps a lot. Sometimes melatonin
Honey I know y'all have busy lives and you are feeling better. But you haven't been feeling better for that long and you should wait for a while just to make sure for yours and yiur families safety.
Hello Stewart Fam!🎉 I am a fan of the Bates and your channel. I love the show so much.❤ You guys are an Incredible family. I really hope you guys see this message 💞 I hope you an awesome day 💗. God bless you, Stewart fam.❤🎉😊✨️🤗💗🎀
Layla picking her Christmas presents was adorable!!
I saw Jinger Duggar Vuolo had bought a really solid looking swing set in a recent video. I think the brand was tagged on her video so may be worth looking into 🤷
Y'all are a very precious family!! That of course includes that Sweet, Precious Izzy!! She is just fabulous! 🩷🫶🩷
Mama Bates with Layla, please so much more.
Just love you guys…these kiddos are too adorable…so happy you have Mama Bates and Warden to help out. Must be so frustrating not to be able to drive but better to be cautious with you and your precious family ♥️♥️♥️
I think if you want a really good quality outdoor set for the kids get get Warden to design and build it - buy in the slide and swings etc - but make it so it can be expanded over time as the kids get older - the ones you purchase and put together only last 5 years max
I could watch your kids forever!❤❤
Carlin, girl, you aren't complaining about not being able to drive- you are venting! Venting is absolutely a healthy and okay thing to do. I would be super frustrated if I were in your shoes!
Lifetime swing or play sets are sturdy and will last longer than the less expensive ones. When our boys were little we went less expensive and the set lasted about one year. 😩
It seems hard now but you have to be careful and safe ! Main thing you are a wonderful mom being responsible! Love you all ❤
Carlin it was a pleasure to meet you at church yesterday! What a wonderful service. I will continue to keep you and your families in my prayers. Thank you, for your testimonies for the Lord. Debbie, Hendersonville, NC
Layla is so adorable!!
Hi Evan and Carlin, its so fun watching your videos. God bless you and your lovely Kids!
Layla is such a princess 😊
and Zade has such a lovely smile.
Thank you for taking off your busy time to up date us all ..
Christine (from Switzerland) ❤❤❤❤
Hi Carlin! Love ya so much! Been watching you since United Bates of America! So since I care about you, just wondering what your Doctor has said about driving? What are the boundaries from when you've had a
" seizure" last? God's Love & protection! ✝️💕
Thanks for the tips on free shipping and the sales at the Boutique. It’s beginning to look a lot like Christmas 🎶
Rainbow swing sets are one of the best out there. We got one of the biggest for our grandkids (14 total, but 10 use it) and 3 great grandkids. They are ok on prices, but ya can add on to them as well. Evern my adult kids love to go and swing and go down the slides. The best part is they will install it for ya. I love this part. We have had ours for 7 years and still going strong with nothing wrong with it. Layla is so cute picking out her presents and Zade is growing up so fast. Thanks for sharing with all of us. 💖💖💖
Love y’all!!!! The kids are so precious and adorable!!!! Have a great weekend and week!!!! Y’all bring joy to my Saturdays!!!! ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Y’all are so sweet! I hope Carlin can drive soon! ❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻
Hi, Carlin. Have you been tested for lead poisoning? Strangely, Zade had randomly high levels of lead in his system, but I don't think it's a fluke.
Best wishes to you & your beautiful family.
Get ahold of Jessa Duggar Seawald. She ans Jana just put together a huge swing/ fort set!!!! Its in the video she posted yesterday.
Big Brutus metal swingset it's heavy duty and will last a lot longer than wood ones.
Tart cherry juice and magnesium glycinate helps with sleep!
Hey guys aways love seeking y'all. Don't pay any attention to the mean comments.
I am not able to drive either.. I agree it’s really hard.. Glad you can Lord willing in 6 months!❤
Thanks, Carlin and Evan. I ordered the subscription since I’m on Keto and look forward to a 1-carb treat before bed every night. 💜
Cook in a cast iron and it will put iron in your food
Thanks for the update. I'm in the mood for Christmas!! 🎅🤶. Its my favorite time of year!!🎄. Thanks for sharing your vlog this week. Just love them. Your family is awesome, your kiddos are so precious. Layla gets so excited, love her & zades reactions, Priceless💖
Carlin and Evan, I think a good vlog would be of you two baby sitting for Zach and Whitney's kids, all of them for their upcoming anniversary. Wouldn't that be fun! And a great gift for them.
Should you take melatonin with your medication
Can't wait to see the new vlog and hope you guys have a great Saturday afternoon and evening with the kids and hope everything goes well at the bouquet and enjoy the nice weather outside with the kids and with Izzy.
Until you are able to drive, why not avail yourselves of the wonderful people of your church. I am sure that if you were to give schedule of assistance required a couple of weeks in advance there would be a plethora of individuals ready willing and able to assist your family, which would not be a hardship for anyone who volunteers their help. Just an option. ❤
What is the link to your online store?
Love Layla she is so adorable! Love Y’all! Love and Prayers Always
Zade is looking more like Layla they are the cutest God Bless them. The best part of Christmas is seeing how happy the kids get and there excitement when opening there presents.
In georgia whe we wefe there theh had a noahs ark and it was the cutest thing your brothers are great at building things carlin and they love their neice and newphew
Warden laughing know darn well he'll be there putting up the swing set with a little help lol
I looked at the beam you are advertising and don't know how anyone could afford that. All the little bells and whistles that get advertised seem a bit much.
I like how Evan lets Carlin talk he listens & doesn’t interrupt & her the same. Great couple 👍🏻
I think all of the husbands in their family are pretty great!!! They are all super supportive and very patient :).
I agree I watch other RUclipsrs and the man does not let the woman talk and talks over her when she does have the chance. It’s rude!😊
Just something to think about.
We never know our circumstances in life nor the future, might not ask what they want for Christmas but ask them to just look through what they like for fun with no promises of getting it. So they can learn not to expect a gift but be thankful they got something they were dreaming about if you can purchase it. If you couldn't buy it for any reason your children will still have a thankful Christmas as they weren't expecting a particular item.
When my kids were young I could count on my hand things I promised. I would usually say. Lord willingbwe will do this or that To teach them that things might not happen like you plan and it's okay and God is still good and I didn't have to take the chance of breaking a promise to them.
Love yall praying for yall and learning to depend is a good thing as it helps to learn to depend on the Lord more.
Getting things we ask for has the potential to be an expectation instead of a gift
Unfortunately I have not had a car in the last 8 weeks so I can relate with you relying on rides and people helping you out. I had to use uber the last few weeks to get to work which is only a 6 min drive. It has been a savior and the price wasn't too bad. I also used instacart and doordash, when I needed things. I am glad these things are available. They were not when I was your age so this has been new to me. Thanks for sharing. Your kids are so precious.
Carlin your so beautiful your whole family is tho.
Don’t you have Uber in Tennessee for when you don’t have a ride.
Not driving has got to be challenging, have you looked into carpooling options for dance and work?
What is the name of your shop??
Carlin you should check with your church, sometimes they have people who will volunteer to drive people who can't drive themselves. People at church like to help others out as you would if someone needed help.
Have you guys thought of having a n Aupair? Not sure if you have a spare room available but it could be an option and great if they have their license to drive the kiddies.