Any cat, if spend time with long enough, will eventually love you as long as you don't abuse it. My cat took 6 months before start showing affection, now he simps for me.
We love our 2 cats dearly, they do whatever they want. Nevertheless they do not love us very much. They never come sleep with us. Still we love them and provide very good environment. We also have 1 homeless cat who just came to live in our garden - he appears to be more loving than our own cats
Not necessarily, a cat can be reluctant to your company even without you being abusive towards him, even if you nag him or disturbing his peace & quiet too much by trying to pet when he isn't in the mood for it, a cat is not a dog, dogs likes to be petted pretty much all the time, a cat doesn't even comes to his owner when he calls him, like dogs do, cats only comes when they want to, also cats really hate being hugged, it feels physically restricting to them & mentally stressful some cats also doesn't like it at all to be held in a person's arms, also for the same reasons they don't like being hugged, and also cuz cats feel safe when they are on something solid, not in the air on a person's arms, I know, I have two cats
@@NirGolan-fc4ffMy cat jumps on the bed every morning to be petted. Impossible to pet her while she’s playing though. She’s an adolescent cat so she’s still quite playful.
I adopted my cat from a shelter when she was 8. She had been at the shelter for months and I couldn’t understand why no one had wanted her. She was the most beautiful animal I had ever seen. I held her once and I knew we had a bond right off the bat, despite never being a cat person, per se (I didn’t think cats liked me). She was scared and underweight when I brought her home. I didn’t force affection or even attention from her. I just spoke to her softly, fed her consistently at the same times everyday, and waited patiently with no expectations. She gradually started approaching me and when my husband was in the room (or anyone else), she would nuzzle herself under my arm and peek out. I was her safe space and that was just fine with me. As weeks went by, she would spend less and less time under the bed. She began nuzzling her head on my face, “talking” to me (her meow legit sounds like “hello” ☺️), running to greet me at the back door when I would get home, and sleeping in her safe space under my arm at night. She is now 13 and my family calls her my shadow because she is always by my side. Luna is healthy, happy, and sleeps on my pillow with her face touching mine every night. She hasn’t needed to hide under my arm for a long time but she knows I will always be her safe place. It’s truly a love like no other and I hope everyone gets to be a cats “person” at least once in their lives. ❤
Happily, it seems both of my cats love me. I get the loving stares, the slow blinks, the head rubs and they jump into my lap for cuddles. Nothing for me to worry about here
That's absolutely fantastic to hear! It sounds like your fur babies are truly smitten with you. Those loving stares, slow blinks, and head rubs are undoubtedly the cat's meow in terms of feline affection! Your experience shows it's indeed possible to build a bond of mutual affection and trust with our feline friends. 😻🐾💕
I'll never forget when my Stormy was a kitten there was one moment where she was sleeping in the kitty bed we got her... I was looking at her and admiring her beautiful, glossy black fur when she opened her eyes, looked up at me and kept the gaze, squinting a little bit but still looking me in the eyes. That was our first deep connection. Now, five years later, we are inseparable. 🥰😘
My cat, who had been a feral kitten, hid in the rafters for 2 months when I first adopted her. Now she walks up a couple of times a day, curls up exactly 2.5 feet from me and purrs for about 10 minutes a few times a day. She only gets closer when she comes up and swats me with her tail when she wants my attention. She'll never be a lap cat, but that's OK. She makes it clear that I'm one of the more important things in her life.
My shy and nervous cat expresses her love by sleeping near me at night, her tail is up in a question mark when she sees me, and she licks me like she’s grooming me .
Oh my God my dad once denied my baby chicken kebab and she just started avoiding him completely we all forgot about the incident until he gave her some a year later and she was nice to him again. Definitely on point about the grudge thing.
I had a cat once that never showed me or anyone any affection ever. I know he (sort of) loved me though cuz when he was afraid or hungry he'd seek me out. He would allow a few pets then. I think he was like that because he was a feral kitten, and not a very young one. He was probably about 4 months old when I found him, He was just always detached and aloof but he was fun to watch and did a lot of silly things. I had him for 14 yrs. All of my other cats I've own have always been super affectionate, including the two I have now.
The grudge part is so true. I remember I helped put a new collar on my fiancee's cat, that cat held a grudge against me for at least 2 months, but now she finally got out of her feelings and comes around me when I visit 🤣😻
Oh, the classic cat grudge! 🙈 It's funny how they have such strong personalities and memories. One little change and they might remember it for weeks. But it's also heartwarming when they finally decide to forgive and come back around. Glad she's warming up to you again! Just goes to show, with a little patience, even the most disgruntled kitty can't resist the charm of a loving human for too long. 🐱❤
I took in a senior cat who hated me. The only time she looked me in the eye was when she climbed into my pants I tossed on the floor earlier and pooped in them. I returned her to her foster mother in better health than when she arrived (mostly because she spent her time hiding and eating so instead of being dangerously scrawny she was just scrawny). Last I checked she was happy and doing well. Sometimes things just don't work out. I adopted another senior cat a while later who follows me around the house and will climb on me to demand cuddles.
Hey there, thanks for sharing your experience! I totally understand how challenging it can be to form a bond with a senior cat, especially if they've had a tough past. It's pretty funny (and frustrating) that she chose your pants as her litter box - definitely a memorable interaction! But kudos to you for returning her in better health and for having the heart to give another senior cat a chance. It's great to hear that your new feline friend is so affectionate. Every cat is unique with its own personality, so it's just about finding the one that vibes with you. Keep up the good work and continue to share your journey with us!
MY boys tail goes straight up its super fluffy so its so dang cute when 8 get up to walk anywhere in the house he loves to follow and the floofy goes up . But if he's starting to get annoyed he absolutely twitches switches his tail to say .. don't bug me right now or I'll tear your fingers off lol
Interesting The three cats ive had (one of whom is still with me) were all very loving, yet im not convinced from that alone nor from people who have presumably had the same experience that if you love them and respect their boundaries they will automatically love you. I think ive been partly lucky. And maybe its a better approach to find them a new home in those circumstances. It would be hard to have a pet that doesnt love you and maybe its not the best thing for the cat too as it might be they can love someone else
I knew someone that moved in with a girl and her damn cat peed all over his stuff. He likes cats, it must have been jealousy. I thought at first maybe marking.
I'm so glad none of my cats have these signs. Blackberry,my very 1st cat,is more independent and doesn't want constant attention but she still loves me thankfully. I do give her more space and love on my other cats more and she's ok with that. She still comes to me for some loving every now and then though.
I had a mentally challenged cat that hated me with a capital "H." I had two cats at the time. Evidently, she found a new home and had a cute little collar on one day. I was like, traitor! Not really, I was thankful she wasn't destroying everything. It saved me a visit to the pet store or shelter. At the time, had a cat who took care or me. Our house cat at the home will protect everyone, even though she's not huge. She sleeps in different rooms and picks people. She knows if someone is really sick.
Wow, that's quite a tale! It sounds like you've had a diverse cast of cat characters in your life. It's fascinating how each cat can have their own unique personality, isn't it? It's like your house cat has appointed herself the guardian of everyone, which is so adorable. It just goes to show that size doesn't always matter when it comes to protecting those you care about. And isn't it amazing how intuitive they can be when someone isn't feeling well? I hope you'll share more of your cat stories, they definitely add a unique perspective to the feline world!
My first kitty is an Oriental Short Hair, I got her at 6 months from a breeder. She is so loved by me and my family. She’s a year old and loves to play, will cuddle, give many licks and purr loudly at us. I think the key is to spend time with our feline friends.
Sounds like you've found a real treasure in your Oriental Short Hair! 😺 They certainly are charming and full of personality. You're spot on, spending quality time with our furry friends truly deepens our bond with them. 🥰
One place I worked at had a cat. I don't know if she loved or liked me, buuuuut she'd come meowing at me to feed her treats in the morning, and she liked sleeping in the deep, padded desk drawer I set aside for her. I don't know if she liked me, but she never seemed to have any problem hanging around me.
Hey there! Thanks for sharing your story. Cats, like people, have their unique ways of showing affection. It sounds like your office buddy developed a sort of routine with you, coming to you for treats and sleeping in the desk drawer you set aside for her. These are definitely signs of trust and comfort. And while cats may not "love" in the way humans understand it, they definitely form attachments and show preferences. It seems like she enjoyed your company, and that's a form of feline affection. Cats often gravitate towards people they feel safe and comfortable with, so I'd say she liked you. Keep those treats coming and enjoy the company! 🐾😸
My cat loves me and she shows it, but whenever I give her a slow blink she looks away. It's as if I say "I love you" and she says "Yeah, yeah, whatever." But she lay against me for three days straight when I had Covid and purred to try to heal me. I think she just has intimacy issues.
Oh, cats and their quirks! Just like people, every cat is unique in how they show and receive love. It sounds like she deeply cares about you, especially considering how she stayed by your side during your illness. The slow blink may not be her way of communicating affection, but her actions certainly speak volumes. I hope you're feeling better now after your bout with Covid. 🐾❤️😺
Not all cats do slow blink. My first two did it all the time but my current one only does it very rarely and on her own terms. When she looks at me and i do it to her she just continues to look at me as if to say wtf are you doing, you are not a cat. Yet she is always sleeping on me and grooming me (evidently she thinks my face is very dirty).
Sometimes it just doesn't work though. I loved my cat, respected her boundaries, fed her will, tried to play with her even though she was never interested...she hated my guts and I know for sure she had never been abused or anything cus I got her since birth. She was a sweet kitten who grew up resentfulbof everyone and just wanted to be by herself. There are antisocial people, so why not cats? My current kitten is a sweetheart and I treat her no different than I did my previous one.
@@pollynlyubenova8365 yes, I think there are cats that are antisocial and simply unfriendly. Its good you have a loving kitty now though!! I also have another tabbi stray and he's super friendly and happy go luck boy. Best wishes!!
I love my two kitty kats I adore them!I pray they love me back as I have had two fires and my living conditions are not the best as I'm single! I do give them ao much love plenty of food and water and as much comfort as I possibly can! They are my life as I couldn't love them any more! Please pray for me to recover from my hardships so they can have their comfy home ! Thanks
I'm so sorry to hear about the challenges you've faced, but it's clear how deeply you love and care for your kitty kats. 🐱❤ The bond you share with them is undeniable, and they surely feel your love. Animals have an intuitive sense, and I'm sure your kitties appreciate every ounce of love and care you provide for them. I genuinely hope and pray that you overcome these hardships soon and find the peace and comfort you and your feline friends deserve. Sending you lots of positive thoughts, love, and strength. 🙏💕🐾
My cat absolutely loves me. I got into a car accident and was injured not long after I got her, and she bonded with me immediately. She'll be 20 years old in January, and has arthritis, which causes her to miss when she tries to use the litter box. The vet and I already have implemented a game plan to treat her and make it easier for her and to make her more comfortable.
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It's heartwarming to hear about the deep bond you share with your cat. Cats have an incredible sense of understanding when their humans are in distress or pain. It's evident that she's been a source of comfort during your challenging times. I'm glad to hear that you and your vet are taking steps to ensure her comfort in her golden years. She's lucky to have such a caring and attentive owner. Wishing her a wonderful 20th birthday in January and many more moments of love and comfort with you. 💕🐾
We just got a couple of female kittens a few months ago. They are now 5 months old and are just now getting spayed. They are so cute and so sweet, and they have very different personalities. Tina is very calm and chill. She loves cuddles and just laying around. Louise is a frisky wild child! She loves pets, but hates being held. And she loves to play fetch.😂 Their favorite toys are bottle caps. So, I guess it's good to know we don't need to spend a bunch of money on toys. 🤣
One of my cats has definitely changed as he’s gotten older, he used to like coming into my room and laying on my lap for a while, he would just come in, curl up there, sleep for a while and then when he was done he would walk over to my door to let me know he wanted to go, it seemed like we had a great relationship, but slowly over time he starting wanting to come into my room not to cuddle, but rather just mess with the stuff in my room, there’s a spot he keeps trying to go to which is the spot near my tv where all the cords are plugged into, and obviously I don’t want him messing with that and so a lot of times I have to pull him away from there, which might’ve soured our relationship because even though he still lets me pet him when I do he arches his body down to the floor, I feel like he’s become a lot less of a people loving cat and mostly prefers to be on his own now, so I’m not sure if that change was because of me or if he just came about it himself
I dunno, is it just the back arching and the preference for cables? My cat sometimes arches her back when i pat her - sticks her bum in the air in a rather absurd fashion - and i dont think this is a red flag, its the other way that is the red flag, arching to the ceiling. If he just loves the cables then perhaps you can cover them with one of those black plastic cable covers. I dont know if this is fair to say but it seems to me he might have been relatively independent from the outset if he came to your room from time to time instead of being there nearly all the time. But regardless i cant see the relationship souring just cos you wouldnt let him play with cables. If its more than the back arching and you really feel his behaviour changed id get him checked out. My first cat - he only ever hid from me twice. Once behind the toilet door for 10min after having half a tooth pulled at the vet after he had been in a fight. And again a couple days later in my cupboard when i came home. The antibiotics they gave me were not effective in preventing an infection that spread to his brain and the next morning i took him to the vet but he never woke up after IV antibiotics and being put under. I will always regret not rushing him to an emergency vet that night. But my point is both times he was in pain, like the video says, they just hide it very well. Maybe your cat feels unwell on a lesser scale
Dw boo, we have the same experience, it’s just naturally how it is when they begin to love their environment and feel safe around you. The more independent they become, the more you know theyre happy. Mine still comes to my lap every and sleep with me every now and then but not like she used to before. It is sad but I have to accept that she’s growing up and it’s a good sign that their independence improve by your side if that makes sense.
My cat grew up with a german sheppard, she wags her tail when playing, plays like a dog. She is a tortie, but everyone knows they are bonkers and share collectivitly one braincell😂
Hey there! Thanks for sharing this interesting insight about your tortie! It's truly fascinating how cats can pick up behaviors from their "siblings," even if they happen to be from another species. 🐶🐱 It just goes to show, our pets may be more adaptable and observant than we often give them credit for. As for the playful tail wagging and dog-like antics, that might just be her unique way of expressing love and engagement, and let's not forget the classic tortie sass. 😂
Same here :-) I have 2 torties who grew up with my Cavalier King Charles Spaniël. They also wag their tails and even go on walkies with the dog. But as you say, torties are bonkers. 🙂 The 3 of them share an unconditional love for each other and their servants 🤣
For the record, the tail twitch is NOT always negative. If your cat is tail twitching but still coming back for more, they LOVE it! However, they ARE starting to get overstimulated so you have a choice... push them for love claws and bites (which will probably hurt because most heavy pet cats are outside cats and don't understand how their bites hurt) or move to passive pets to calm them down. (Slow stroke between eyes and ears works best)
Yeah, my cat does this. She gets intense tail twitches when I scratch he ears and when the time comes she bites strong but then proceeds to liking. And I've thought that is because she gets over estimulated, she does not know how to address the situation if not with violence
My old cat had moments where he jumped on my lap and sat down and twitched his tail in a way that did seem angry. I assumed he was angry, just not with me. Considering he did really want to sit on my lap.
This video is very useful, I have 3 cats, 2 of them being Maine Coons, my other cat is just a tabby, she’s still a little afraid of humans due to her past traumatic life, don’t worry she’s in good hands now! My 2 Maine Coons adore everyone in my family, especially the big boy, he’s very affectionate and I just know for a fact that he loves his owners, but thanks for the info, I’ll keep an eye out if they do any of those!
I'm so happy to hear that you found the video useful! It's really heartwarming to hear about your feline family - Maine Coons are such majestic creatures, aren't they? And your big boy sounds like he's full of love for you all! As for your little tabby, give her time and lots of gentle love - cats can take a while to overcome their past, but when they do, it's incredibly rewarding. Remember, every cat is unique and may show love in their own unique ways. Thank you for sharing your story and for providing such a loving home for your cats. I'm glad to know that you're keeping an eye out for the signs from my video, and I'll be sure to keep sharing more tips and info!
Yes of course! Every time my 10 year old brother gets a bit too loud, I always take control and I shush him so Luna (the tabby) isn’t scared or frightened of his loud screaming, when we adopted Luna, my 2 Maine Coons were so loving and they took her in and immediately befriended her so we didn’t have to worry about them fighting! We were very surprised! Though they sometimes have a little few play fights but it’s Luna that starts them 🙄😂, your channel is very useful and I gave you a subscribe! I’ve been living with cats for my whole life so I definitely know my way around what they like and what they don’t like, but it’s always amazing to find out more info on them! For example, I always close my eyes slowly to them and they’re always doing to back to me! I can tell they have a grumpy face expression when I pick them up for cuddles sometimes 😂 but sorry for this huge paragraph, I can get a little carried away when talking about my favourite animal, it’s good to watch a channel explaining them in good detail, keep up the good work! 👍🏻
My cat only hates me when we are playing , but he knows I love his company and deep down we are soul mates. Everytime we met I get down on the ground to bump heads.
My cat Beatrice, she has been overexesively hiding. We have changed some things around the house, even putting plants on the wall and new paintings. Maybe my cat isn't comfortable with those. All the rest my cat doesn't do. This video was so helpful and I'm glad I watched it. Thank you feline for making this video.
Hi there, I'm so glad to hear you found the video helpful! Changes in the household can indeed affect a cat's behavior, Beatrice may be feeling a bit unsure about the new arrangements. Try giving her some time to adjust. Maybe you can also encourage her by playing with her near the new plants and paintings, making those areas feel safe. If the behavior continues, though, it may be worth discussing with a vet to rule out any health issues. Thanks so much for watching and sharing about Beatrice, it's always great to hear from fellow cat lovers!
Neither of my cats have ever really been affectionate. Now I think I'm conditioned to it so when the younger one DOES, sometimes I have to make him go away bc I CAN'T. And I feel bad.
My senior cat that I got from a shelter, is wary of me for some reason. Every time I try to feed her she sits in the way and always hisses at me when I move in her direction. Otherwise she seems happy and relaxed and I am so frustrated that I cannot figure it out 😢
It's so great that you've adopted a senior cat from the shelter; they often get overlooked for younger kitties. It's possible she's had experiences in her past that make her wary. Building trust with cats, especially older ones with unknown histories, can take time and patience. It sounds like you genuinely care about her well-being, and she will likely pick up on that over time. Maybe try observing her from a distance to understand her better, or use toys and treats to build a connection. Stay patient, and don't be hard on yourself. It's a journey of trust for both of you. 🐾💕
@Feline_Fanatics Thank you so much for your kind words. I really love my cat but to see her amazing progress going out of the window days later is heart wrenching. she did so great! Now we are back to the early days again. She won't play no more with me either. I will observe her and leave her in peace and see what will happen. I hope that we will ve able to build a good relationship in time... I just wished I'd understand what happened ...
@@christianeroll8642 I truly understand how heart-wrenching it can be to witness setbacks, especially when you've seen glimpses of progress. Cats can be very sensitive creatures, and even small changes in their environment or routine can sometimes affect their behavior. It's possible something startled her or made her feel insecure. Giving her space and observing her is a wise approach. Be gentle with both her and yourself during this process. Every cat has their own pace, and with the love and patience you're showing, there's every chance she'll come around. Sometimes, a little bit of time and understanding can work wonders. Keep up the love and patience; your commitment to building that bond is truly commendable. Sending you and your senior kitty all the positive vibes and wishes for a strengthened bond in the future. 🐱❤🌟
my cat proabbly has negative emotions toward me I yelled at him as a kitten because he would pee everywhere(wrong thing I know) now he constantly picks at me for food all day long or meowing at me rubbing on my legs non stop for hours till I get frustrated and get mad then now he’s mad at me over yelling or shooing him away
by definition, love is unconditional. u love ur beloved even if he or she doesnt and this absolutely should not affect the way u love them coz its against the essence of love. my male cat is with us for 5 yrs. he doesnt give a damn. indeed he does not even want us to come close to him thats ok so wat? i just love him. i ve another 4 months insanely naughty male who my wife is sick off he chewed her crocs. but i love him for every thing he destroys coz i know he is innocent. he doesnt realize he ate 100 dollars slippers. i just cant hate him. reason is simple. i love him.
Your comment is so heartwarming and really captures the essence of unconditional love. ❤ You're absolutely right, the love we have for our pets doesn't depend on whether they show us affection in ways we expect or not. Every cat has its unique personality and ways of expressing itself. 🐾😺 Your love and patience for both your reserved elder cat and your mischievous kitten show just how deep your understanding and compassion go. And hey, perhaps those destroyed slippers are just his way of showing affection in his own unique, playful manner! 😹
Unconditional love is awarded to those deserving of it there's no way i would take care of a cat that doesn't want to be around me & destroys my things
Hey, thanks for your comment! 😺 Biting and scratching might be your cat's way of playful communication or expressing discomfort. Try observing when this happens to understand their triggers. But if it's frequent, consider consulting a vet or pet behaviorist to ensure it's not a health issue. Keep showing love and patience. Good luck! 🐾
My cat stole my keys and wallet and haven't heard from him in 2 months. I keep getting outrageous charges to my credit card from petco... what do i do?
I wish I was able to be around my baby more but he’s at my dads house and I don’t see him as much as I want and I feel so bad that I don’t give him constant love and cuddles
My cat doesn't do the slow blink when I do it but stares at me intensely, I don't really think it's a sign of not loving in return because, why would she always ask for a hug or even cuddle when in bed if there's no love ?? Think of it
I have 5 cats ,2 of which father n son, jumpstart off n run when i move but if i wake slowly at night they are both cuddled up on me, i swear the other 3 look at them thinking 'Jeez' whats the problem? Chill you two!'
Haha! It's so fascinating how each cat has its unique personality. Some are brave and chill, while others are a bit more skittish. The nighttime cuddles sound so sweet though. I bet the other three are secretly a bit envious of those special moments! 🐱💤🌙
Hey there, thanks for your comment! It's important to remember that cats' behaviors can be pretty complex, and tail twitching can mean different things in different contexts. While it might be a sign of annoyance or discomfort in some cases, it can also be a normal part of their behavior when they're just observing their surroundings or feeling playful. If you notice that your cat's tail twitching is combined with other signs like avoiding contact, then it might be a sign of discomfort. But if it's just the tail twitching, your cat could just be engrossed in watching something. As always, keep an eye on your furry friend's behavior as a whole. It's their overall behavior and reactions to you that will give you the best clues about how they feel! 🐾
I have a special needs cat who gets sick a lot. This means i have to give him medicine a lot. We used to be inseparable but after all the medicine, he'll frequently show these signs. I don't really know what to do. We've been through so much together but he just doesn't like me anymore.
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My son moved into his own place about a month ago and our kitty Pebbles started pooping in his bedroom and his bathroom. Nowhere else in the house but his spaces. Is there anything I can do to help her?
I'm sorry to hear about the issue you're facing with Pebbles. It seems like she might be experiencing some anxiety or confusion due to your son's absence, as cats can be sensitive to changes in their environment. To help Pebbles adjust thoroughly clean the areas she has been using with an enzymatic cleaner. This will break down the scent markers in her waste that might be encouraging her to return to those spots. Consider using a feline pheromone spray or diffuser in the affected rooms. These synthetic pheromones can help create a calming environment and reduce stress-related behaviors. Spend some extra quality time with Pebbles, especially in your son's former spaces. Playing with her or offering treats there can help create positive associations.
Cats, & dogs, can take weeks to months to settle into a new home. Bear with the cat, do what you can to help them feel safe, acknowledge that this may take a while.
Once you realize that your primary function where your cat is concerned, is only to feed your cat and clean out its litter box, you'll be okay. Anything else is just extra.
My cats both make the twitching tail, but still they come and want me to pet them until they sleep, could it be because of the other one (both of them usually tease the other one continuously, especially when they want to sleep near me)
My cat will come sit by me and twitch her tail. She also gets upset when I eat even if I just fed her but she's definitely my shadow. She follows me everywhere. Weirdo long-haired Calico.
Sounds like you have quite a character on your hands! 😸 Calicos are known for their unique personalities and it sounds like your feline friend is no exception. Her following you around? That's just her way of saying you're her favorite human! As for wanting to eat when you do, she might just enjoy sharing meal times with you. Thanks for sharing these fun quirks about your fluffy Calico. Give her a gentle pet from us! 🐾🐈⬛
I visit my cousins house every day or so I and there’s calico cat but every time I try to get her to trust me she dosent when I get food there I always share it with her and and I always pet her and I also keep my distance and I play with her daily and she still isn’t like trusting me but the only time she does is when she wants to breed
All 3 of my cats love me just fine. I have one who dosen't like thunderstorms. She will hide at the first lightning strike that she sees or thunderclap. That's the only time she hides. She will come out when the storm is over. My other 2 cats couldn't care less about storms. (Jan Griffiths).
Hi Jan! Thanks so much for sharing about your feline friends! It's really fascinating how each cat has their own unique personality, isn't it? Your little storm-wary one is definitely not alone; some cats can be really sensitive to the sounds and vibrations caused by thunderstorms. But as long as she's not too stressed and comes out once the storm is over, it sounds like she's managing okay. And your other two must be such brave explorers, totally unfazed by the rumblings! 😄
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I appreciate the effort, but some of this is incorrect such as the slow blink. The slow blink is a sign of calmness. Do this to a hissing, feral cat and they may do it back, but cat definitely does not love or care about you at all.
please help w any advice I'm so very upset, sad, like i have A 2 year old Tortie adopted at 9 weeks. she was so skidish and anti (there was another kitten, younger and I describe the scene from Annie tap dancing to Warbucks hard knock life, rubbing against me purring and so social) Idc i wanted her from a picture and so. Anyways went w skiddish crazy clawing . Got her for my elementary age girls however that cat is my shadow. well....... she sleeps w me every night.. Goes to front door to get me and no matter who is around she follows me to my room... She's sweet so sweet has hissed twice at a kitten and getting nails done. . never scratch hiss sweet soul kind very wary of everyone .. petrified of outside like won't even go on patio and if you try to she will cry claw to get back inside. she was so young i don't know if any early trauma but she's been good. she was freaked out by my back massager i turned it on and she SPRUNG UP like it was funny - she was literally so mad at me 3 days later she still is. She jumped so crazy and panting i thought she was having panic attack i saw she hooked nail and her paw had to hurt her she was thrashing hissing..I think she's more mad at me w reaction laughing and it scaring her. I see she's been stand offish.. she sleeps at bottom of bed now.. she always sleeps right next to me. she gets up and looks around for the massager like every hour ... she will probably never get over it.... she even still sits at my door and not come in. rather than go w kids she's like nope ill just sit outside your door but i don't like you much so... what can i do ive used vacuum, hair dryers, and reaction was nothing compared to it. I put massager up in closet and she still looks so down days later .. she is like totally not herself. I see she is taking it personal but I don't know how to feel or she can't say how she feels but guess it's clear
Let them go where? Being hit by a car or killed by a dog not on a leash? Wdf are u people rambling here? Animals DO NOT HATE. do not project your misery on others. U people are pathetic. YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THOSE U ADOPTED!!!!!! U can’t just toss them
@@GODsoN_216 There is a stray cat in my area. He always visits me. He loves me....He goes places to places and I love the fact that he has his freedom. I just know that wherever he goes, his heart is always connected to mine. Thus, he IS mine. He loves me and I always respect his freedom. I always pray to The God that my dear cat always be protected from all the dangers. I don't fear losing him because both of us will one day shuffle off our mortal coils....but our souls are connected to each other forever and we WILL reunite....No matter how many times we separate....And thus....We belong to each other.
my cat hides from everyone but me and doesn't let anyone pick her up but she licks me a lot more than she should and she scratches a lot but i don't have money to take her to the vet considering my parents take her but they know nothing about cats. i had to beg my parents for 2 weeks to get them to take her to the vet because i saw change in her behavior and she was hiding alot more unless she was in my room. i honestly don't know what to do and we moved about a month ago but it seemed like she adjusted to the house already but i'm not sure if she has. if someone knows what i can do about what's going on with her that'd help a lot!
You're truly lucky indeed! 😍 Cats are intuitive creatures, and for them to naturally gravitate towards you speaks volumes about your energy and connection with them. We need more cat whisperers in the world! 🐱❤✨
@@Feline_Fanatics Haha, thank you! It can be a difficult when you have three in the house, and they ALL want your attention. ☺️ I often find myself crammed into the top-right quadrant of my bed, with a cat in each of the other three corners.
I love my Moka kitty. I think she tolerates me though lol. Been cat napping her lately and she lies down on the bed. But then after a but starts walking all over my head and body to get out.
I thought this was video for people who have a problem with their cat. Why are comments filled only with people bragging about how much their cat loves them like cough cough some of us ain't that lucky😂
This video is very damaging. Not all cat breeds and individuals are the same. Overstimulating a cat is extremely easy, it will show dislike with twitching tail or aggressive behaviour. But that doesn't mean the cat doesn't love you.
If a person watches the video they would hear what is said and realize the title of the video is click bait. They never say the tail twitch means the cat doesn't love you. What damage is this video doing?
It can be really disheartening to feel like your cat isn’t bonding with you the way you hoped. Cats can be very independent and sometimes show affection in very subtle ways. It might help to spend some quiet time nearby, letting your cat come to you at their own pace. Also, observe what activities they seem to enjoy and try to engage with them during those times, whether it’s playing with a favorite toy or simply sitting beside them while they’re relaxed. Hang in there! 💕🐾
Any cat, if spend time with long enough, will eventually love you as long as you don't abuse it. My cat took 6 months before start showing affection, now he simps for me.
We love our 2 cats dearly, they do whatever they want. Nevertheless they do not love us very much. They never come sleep with us. Still we love them and provide very good environment. We also have 1 homeless cat who just came to live in our garden - he appears to be more loving than our own cats
Not necessarily, a cat can be reluctant to your company even without you being abusive towards him, even if you nag him or disturbing his peace & quiet too much by trying to pet when he isn't in the mood for it, a cat is not a dog, dogs likes to be petted pretty much all the time, a cat doesn't even comes to his owner when he calls him, like dogs do, cats only comes when they want to, also cats really hate being hugged, it feels physically restricting to them & mentally stressful
some cats also doesn't like it at all to be held in a person's arms, also for the same reasons they don't like being hugged, and also cuz cats feel safe when they are on something solid, not in the air on a person's arms, I know, I have two cats
“Now he simps for me” 🤓🤓🤓🤓
Thanks for posting. I just adopted 2 cats 3 days ago I know they don't love me yet...but I really want them to 😊
@@NirGolan-fc4ffMy cat jumps on the bed every morning to be petted. Impossible to pet her while she’s playing though. She’s an adolescent cat so she’s still quite playful.
I adopted my cat from a shelter when she was 8. She had been at the shelter for months and I couldn’t understand why no one had wanted her. She was the most beautiful animal I had ever seen. I held her once and I knew we had a bond right off the bat, despite never being a cat person, per se (I didn’t think cats liked me). She was scared and underweight when I brought her home. I didn’t force affection or even attention from her. I just spoke to her softly, fed her consistently at the same times everyday, and waited patiently with no expectations. She gradually started approaching me and when my husband was in the room (or anyone else), she would nuzzle herself under my arm and peek out. I was her safe space and that was just fine with me. As weeks went by, she would spend less and less time under the bed. She began nuzzling her head on my face, “talking” to me (her meow legit sounds like “hello” ☺️), running to greet me at the back door when I would get home, and sleeping in her safe space under my arm at night. She is now 13 and my family calls her my shadow because she is always by my side. Luna is healthy, happy, and sleeps on my pillow with her face touching mine every night. She hasn’t needed to hide under my arm for a long time but she knows I will always be her safe place. It’s truly a love like no other and I hope everyone gets to be a cats “person” at least once in their lives. ❤
Thank you for adopting that baby and giving her love.
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me: watching this even though my cat is OBSESSED with me and follows me everywhere, giving me slow loving blinks as I watch this
😅😅 my cats are skittish but loving and I'm watching too
Happily, it seems both of my cats love me. I get the loving stares, the slow blinks, the head rubs and they jump into my lap for cuddles. Nothing for me to worry about here
That's absolutely fantastic to hear! It sounds like your fur babies are truly smitten with you. Those loving stares, slow blinks, and head rubs are undoubtedly the cat's meow in terms of feline affection! Your experience shows it's indeed possible to build a bond of mutual affection and trust with our feline friends. 😻🐾💕
😍😍😍🥲🫠mine too!!!
Same with my 3. (Jan Griffiths).
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My cats love me too
"Leave a path of destruction in their wake"
that's my girl Arya for sure!!
I'll never forget when my Stormy was a kitten there was one moment where she was sleeping in the kitty bed we got her... I was looking at her and admiring her beautiful, glossy black fur when she opened her eyes, looked up at me and kept the gaze, squinting a little bit but still looking me in the eyes. That was our first deep connection. Now, five years later, we are inseparable. 🥰😘
Awww my boyfriend rescued a 2 week old kitten 2 weeks ago, we named him Storm :) he’s back and gray and he always does this gaze too. So cute
My cats start to scratch anything when I come home from work. They seem very happy and this is their outlet. So no stress.
My cat, who had been a feral kitten, hid in the rafters for 2 months when I first adopted her. Now she walks up a couple of times a day, curls up exactly 2.5 feet from me and purrs for about 10 minutes a few times a day. She only gets closer when she comes up and swats me with her tail when she wants my attention. She'll never be a lap cat, but that's OK. She makes it clear that I'm one of the more important things in her life.
My shy and nervous cat expresses her love by sleeping near me at night, her tail is up in a question mark when she sees me, and she licks me like she’s grooming me .
Oh my God my dad once denied my baby chicken kebab and she just started avoiding him completely we all forgot about the incident until he gave her some a year later and she was nice to him again. Definitely on point about the grudge thing.
I had a cat once that never showed me or anyone any affection ever. I know he (sort of) loved me though cuz when he was afraid or hungry he'd seek me out. He would allow a few pets then. I think he was like that because he was a feral kitten, and not a very young one. He was probably about 4 months old when I found him, He was just always detached and aloof but he was fun to watch and did a lot of silly things. I had him for 14 yrs. All of my other cats I've own have always been super affectionate, including the two I have now.
The grudge part is so true. I remember I helped put a new collar on my fiancee's cat, that cat held a grudge against me for at least 2 months, but now she finally got out of her feelings and comes around me when I visit 🤣😻
Oh, the classic cat grudge! 🙈 It's funny how they have such strong personalities and memories. One little change and they might remember it for weeks. But it's also heartwarming when they finally decide to forgive and come back around. Glad she's warming up to you again! Just goes to show, with a little patience, even the most disgruntled kitty can't resist the charm of a loving human for too long. 🐱❤
@@Feline_FanaticsSo they can hold a grudge but they can't understand discipline? They're incapable of associating their actions with your reaction?
I get a cold shoulder from my Wiggie and CryBaby for a while after vet visits.
Pro tip, let your fiancee do what might make cat dislikes you and you be the fun and loved guy to around that cat 😅
@GODsoN_216 thats what im saying my cats are smart and know right from work and he does it to irritate me so i yell at his as and discipline him
I had a gray and white cat. Her tail was the exact color of a mouse and she chased it for years. 😂😂❤
I took in a senior cat who hated me. The only time she looked me in the eye was when she climbed into my pants I tossed on the floor earlier and pooped in them. I returned her to her foster mother in better health than when she arrived (mostly because she spent her time hiding and eating so instead of being dangerously scrawny she was just scrawny). Last I checked she was happy and doing well. Sometimes things just don't work out. I adopted another senior cat a while later who follows me around the house and will climb on me to demand cuddles.
Hey there, thanks for sharing your experience! I totally understand how challenging it can be to form a bond with a senior cat, especially if they've had a tough past. It's pretty funny (and frustrating) that she chose your pants as her litter box - definitely a memorable interaction! But kudos to you for returning her in better health and for having the heart to give another senior cat a chance. It's great to hear that your new feline friend is so affectionate. Every cat is unique with its own personality, so it's just about finding the one that vibes with you. Keep up the good work and continue to share your journey with us!
U re a bad person
MY boys tail goes straight up its super fluffy so its so dang cute when 8 get up to walk anywhere in the house he loves to follow and the floofy goes up . But if he's starting to get annoyed he absolutely twitches switches his tail to say .. don't bug me right now or I'll tear your fingers off lol
Interesting
The three cats ive had (one of whom is still with me) were all very loving, yet im not convinced from that alone nor from people who have presumably had the same experience that if you love them and respect their boundaries they will automatically love you. I think ive been partly lucky.
And maybe its a better approach to find them a new home in those circumstances. It would be hard to have a pet that doesnt love you and maybe its not the best thing for the cat too as it might be they can love someone else
I knew someone that moved in with a girl and her damn cat peed all over his stuff. He likes cats, it must have been jealousy. I thought at first maybe marking.
My cat is secretly plotting my demise.
I'm so glad none of my cats have these signs. Blackberry,my very 1st cat,is more independent and doesn't want constant attention but she still loves me thankfully. I do give her more space and love on my other cats more and she's ok with that. She still comes to me for some loving every now and then though.
I had a mentally challenged cat that hated me with a capital "H." I had two cats at the time. Evidently, she found a new home and had a cute little collar on one day. I was like, traitor! Not really, I was thankful she wasn't destroying everything. It saved me a visit to the pet store or shelter. At the time, had a cat who took care or me. Our house cat at the home will protect everyone, even though she's not huge. She sleeps in different rooms and picks people. She knows if someone is really sick.
Wow, that's quite a tale! It sounds like you've had a diverse cast of cat characters in your life. It's fascinating how each cat can have their own unique personality, isn't it? It's like your house cat has appointed herself the guardian of everyone, which is so adorable. It just goes to show that size doesn't always matter when it comes to protecting those you care about. And isn't it amazing how intuitive they can be when someone isn't feeling well? I hope you'll share more of your cat stories, they definitely add a unique perspective to the feline world!
U re mentally challenged if u think an animal hates u
if i had a voice like that i wouldnt expect my cat to love me either
she inhaled helium or so
😹😹😹 great comment 👏👏
My first kitty is an Oriental Short Hair, I got her at 6 months from a breeder. She is so loved by me and my family. She’s a year old and loves to play, will cuddle, give many licks and purr loudly at us. I think the key is to spend time with our feline friends.
Sounds like you've found a real treasure in your Oriental Short Hair! 😺 They certainly are charming and full of personality. You're spot on, spending quality time with our furry friends truly deepens our bond with them. 🥰
My Cat is always Meowing at me and asking for Money….I feed her well so I guess she likes me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
One place I worked at had a cat. I don't know if she loved or liked me, buuuuut she'd come meowing at me to feed her treats in the morning, and she liked sleeping in the deep, padded desk drawer I set aside for her. I don't know if she liked me, but she never seemed to have any problem hanging around me.
Hey there! Thanks for sharing your story. Cats, like people, have their unique ways of showing affection. It sounds like your office buddy developed a sort of routine with you, coming to you for treats and sleeping in the desk drawer you set aside for her. These are definitely signs of trust and comfort. And while cats may not "love" in the way humans understand it, they definitely form attachments and show preferences. It seems like she enjoyed your company, and that's a form of feline affection. Cats often gravitate towards people they feel safe and comfortable with, so I'd say she liked you. Keep those treats coming and enjoy the company! 🐾😸
My cat loves me and she shows it, but whenever I give her a slow blink she looks away. It's as if I say "I love you" and she says "Yeah, yeah, whatever." But she lay against me for three days straight when I had Covid and purred to try to heal me. I think she just has intimacy issues.
Oh, cats and their quirks! Just like people, every cat is unique in how they show and receive love. It sounds like she deeply cares about you, especially considering how she stayed by your side during your illness. The slow blink may not be her way of communicating affection, but her actions certainly speak volumes. I hope you're feeling better now after your bout with Covid. 🐾❤️😺
Not all cats do slow blink. My first two did it all the time but my current one only does it very rarely and on her own terms. When she looks at me and i do it to her she just continues to look at me as if to say wtf are you doing, you are not a cat. Yet she is always sleeping on me and grooming me (evidently she thinks my face is very dirty).
All you need to do is genuinely love them. Animals aren't like humans, their conditions for love are very simple.
Treat them right, respect their boundary's, while providing what they need and they will (9 times out of 10) reciprocate with unconditional love.
While they treat you like trash don’t respect boundaries and provide zero needs lol no thanks I’m so sick of my roommates cat
Sometimes it just doesn't work though. I loved my cat, respected her boundaries, fed her will, tried to play with her even though she was never interested...she hated my guts and I know for sure she had never been abused or anything cus I got her since birth. She was a sweet kitten who grew up resentfulbof everyone and just wanted to be by herself. There are antisocial people, so why not cats? My current kitten is a sweetheart and I treat her no different than I did my previous one.
@@pollynlyubenova8365 yes, I think there are cats that are antisocial and simply unfriendly. Its good you have a loving kitty now though!! I also have another tabbi stray and he's super friendly and happy go luck boy. Best wishes!!
If I went by what was being said on this Thread regarding my cat, I would be in the veterinarians office every day for most of the year.
Aren’t we conflating being unwell or stressed with not loving their “owner”?
Good news everyone my cat loves me
I love my two kitty kats I adore them!I pray they love me back as I have had two fires and my living conditions are not the best as I'm single! I do give them ao much love plenty of food and water and as much comfort as I possibly can! They are my life as I couldn't love them any more! Please pray for me to recover from my hardships so they can have their comfy home ! Thanks
I'm so sorry to hear about the challenges you've faced, but it's clear how deeply you love and care for your kitty kats. 🐱❤ The bond you share with them is undeniable, and they surely feel your love. Animals have an intuitive sense, and I'm sure your kitties appreciate every ounce of love and care you provide for them. I genuinely hope and pray that you overcome these hardships soon and find the peace and comfort you and your feline friends deserve. Sending you lots of positive thoughts, love, and strength. 🙏💕🐾
My cat absolutely loves me. I got into a car accident and was injured not long after I got her, and she bonded with me immediately. She'll be 20 years old in January, and has arthritis, which causes her to miss when she tries to use the litter box. The vet and I already have implemented a game plan to treat her and make it easier for her and to make her more comfortable.
UC-ll undenatured collagen might be worth looking into as an add on for those who don’t know. My cats have been wonderful to in times of Ill health they def know.
My Sebastian,gives me unconditional love and loves me warts and all.😅😅
It's heartwarming to hear about the deep bond you share with your cat. Cats have an incredible sense of understanding when their humans are in distress or pain. It's evident that she's been a source of comfort during your challenging times. I'm glad to hear that you and your vet are taking steps to ensure her comfort in her golden years. She's lucky to have such a caring and attentive owner. Wishing her a wonderful 20th birthday in January and many more moments of love and comfort with you. 💕🐾
This was informative. Never heard of some of these before. I'm grateful my cats look me in the eye 😮
We just got a couple of female kittens a few months ago. They are now 5 months old and are just now getting spayed. They are so cute and so sweet, and they have very different personalities. Tina is very calm and chill. She loves cuddles and just laying around.
Louise is a frisky wild child! She loves pets, but hates being held. And she loves to play fetch.😂
Their favorite toys are bottle caps. So, I guess it's good to know we don't need to spend a bunch of money on toys. 🤣
One of my cats has definitely changed as he’s gotten older, he used to like coming into my room and laying on my lap for a while, he would just come in, curl up there, sleep for a while and then when he was done he would walk over to my door to let me know he wanted to go, it seemed like we had a great relationship, but slowly over time he starting wanting to come into my room not to cuddle, but rather just mess with the stuff in my room, there’s a spot he keeps trying to go to which is the spot near my tv where all the cords are plugged into, and obviously I don’t want him messing with that and so a lot of times I have to pull him away from there, which might’ve soured our relationship because even though he still lets me pet him when I do he arches his body down to the floor, I feel like he’s become a lot less of a people loving cat and mostly prefers to be on his own now, so I’m not sure if that change was because of me or if he just came about it himself
I dunno, is it just the back arching and the preference for cables? My cat sometimes arches her back when i pat her - sticks her bum in the air in a rather absurd fashion - and i dont think this is a red flag, its the other way that is the red flag, arching to the ceiling.
If he just loves the cables then perhaps you can cover them with one of those black plastic cable covers.
I dont know if this is fair to say but it seems to me he might have been relatively independent from the outset if he came to your room from time to time instead of being there nearly all the time. But regardless i cant see the relationship souring just cos you wouldnt let him play with cables.
If its more than the back arching and you really feel his behaviour changed id get him checked out. My first cat - he only ever hid from me twice. Once behind the toilet door for 10min after having half a tooth pulled at the vet after he had been in a fight. And again a couple days later in my cupboard when i came home. The antibiotics they gave me were not effective in preventing an infection that spread to his brain and the next morning i took him to the vet but he never woke up after IV antibiotics and being put under. I will always regret not rushing him to an emergency vet that night. But my point is both times he was in pain, like the video says, they just hide it very well. Maybe your cat feels unwell on a lesser scale
Dw boo, we have the same experience, it’s just naturally how it is when they begin to love their environment and feel safe around you. The more independent they become, the more you know theyre happy. Mine still comes to my lap every and sleep with me every now and then but not like she used to before. It is sad but I have to accept that she’s growing up and it’s a good sign that their independence improve by your side if that makes sense.
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My cat grew up with a german sheppard, she wags her tail when playing, plays like a dog. She is a tortie, but everyone knows they are bonkers and share collectivitly one braincell😂
Hey there! Thanks for sharing this interesting insight about your tortie! It's truly fascinating how cats can pick up behaviors from their "siblings," even if they happen to be from another species. 🐶🐱 It just goes to show, our pets may be more adaptable and observant than we often give them credit for. As for the playful tail wagging and dog-like antics, that might just be her unique way of expressing love and engagement, and let's not forget the classic tortie sass. 😂
Same here :-) I have 2 torties who grew up with my Cavalier King Charles Spaniël. They also wag their tails and even go on walkies with the dog. But as you say, torties are bonkers. 🙂
The 3 of them share an unconditional love for each other and their servants 🤣
Bonkers? Yes. I had a very smart tortie, though!
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Honestly, whenever i am laying down my cat walks on me to get to the other side of the bed
to stare at a cat is the equivalent of threatening them… the rest these signs are more that they are scared or sick.
For the record, the tail twitch is NOT always negative. If your cat is tail twitching but still coming back for more, they LOVE it!
However, they ARE starting to get overstimulated so you have a choice... push them for love claws and bites (which will probably hurt because most heavy pet cats are outside cats and don't understand how their bites hurt) or move to passive pets to calm them down. (Slow stroke between eyes and ears works best)
Yeah, my cat does this. She gets intense tail twitches when I scratch he ears and when the time comes she bites strong but then proceeds to liking. And I've thought that is because she gets over estimulated, she does not know how to address the situation if not with violence
My old cat had moments where he jumped on my lap and sat down and twitched his tail in a way that did seem angry. I assumed he was angry, just not with me. Considering he did really want to sit on my lap.
My cat wags her tail when she is happy
I swear my cat only twitches her tail when I don't pick her and she looks mad at me but when I pick her happy she's happy lmao
Half of these could be signs of health issues and it's doing people a disservice to tell them that these behaviors indicate dislike
The tail twitch could be?
This video is very useful, I have 3 cats, 2 of them being Maine Coons, my other cat is just a tabby, she’s still a little afraid of humans due to her past traumatic life, don’t worry she’s in good hands now! My 2 Maine Coons adore everyone in my family, especially the big boy, he’s very affectionate and I just know for a fact that he loves his owners, but thanks for the info, I’ll keep an eye out if they do any of those!
I'm so happy to hear that you found the video useful! It's really heartwarming to hear about your feline family - Maine Coons are such majestic creatures, aren't they? And your big boy sounds like he's full of love for you all! As for your little tabby, give her time and lots of gentle love - cats can take a while to overcome their past, but when they do, it's incredibly rewarding. Remember, every cat is unique and may show love in their own unique ways. Thank you for sharing your story and for providing such a loving home for your cats. I'm glad to know that you're keeping an eye out for the signs from my video, and I'll be sure to keep sharing more tips and info!
Yes of course! Every time my 10 year old brother gets a bit too loud, I always take control and I shush him so Luna (the tabby) isn’t scared or frightened of his loud screaming, when we adopted Luna, my 2 Maine Coons were so loving and they took her in and immediately befriended her so we didn’t have to worry about them fighting! We were very surprised! Though they sometimes have a little few play fights but it’s Luna that starts them 🙄😂, your channel is very useful and I gave you a subscribe! I’ve been living with cats for my whole life so I definitely know my way around what they like and what they don’t like, but it’s always amazing to find out more info on them! For example, I always close my eyes slowly to them and they’re always doing to back to me! I can tell they have a grumpy face expression when I pick them up for cuddles sometimes 😂 but sorry for this huge paragraph, I can get a little carried away when talking about my favourite animal, it’s good to watch a channel explaining them in good detail, keep up the good work! 👍🏻
Just a tabby???😮😢
My cat only hates me when we are playing , but he knows I love his company and deep down we are soul mates. Everytime we met I get down on the ground to bump heads.
Hi! Can i know how to make them love you back? I have 1 tht somehow keep avoiding me ever since we brought new kittens home. It breaks my heart 😢😢
My car was stuck to me from the time he saw me. Like he just knew I was his 🥹🥰
Why are we not talking about how Natasha had to resort to defending herself, Bobbi and Barbara with vegetables?! 😂
My cat Beatrice, she has been overexesively hiding. We have changed some things around the house, even putting plants on the wall and new paintings. Maybe my cat isn't comfortable with those. All the rest my cat doesn't do. This video was so helpful and I'm glad I watched it. Thank you feline for making this video.
Hi there, I'm so glad to hear you found the video helpful! Changes in the household can indeed affect a cat's behavior, Beatrice may be feeling a bit unsure about the new arrangements. Try giving her some time to adjust. Maybe you can also encourage her by playing with her near the new plants and paintings, making those areas feel safe. If the behavior continues, though, it may be worth discussing with a vet to rule out any health issues. Thanks so much for watching and sharing about Beatrice, it's always great to hear from fellow cat lovers!
Neither of my cats have ever really been affectionate. Now I think I'm conditioned to it so when the younger one DOES, sometimes I have to make him go away bc I CAN'T. And I feel bad.
My senior cat that I got from a shelter, is wary of me for some reason. Every time I try to feed her she sits in the way and always hisses at me when I move in her direction. Otherwise she seems happy and relaxed and I am so frustrated that I cannot figure it out 😢
It's so great that you've adopted a senior cat from the shelter; they often get overlooked for younger kitties. It's possible she's had experiences in her past that make her wary. Building trust with cats, especially older ones with unknown histories, can take time and patience. It sounds like you genuinely care about her well-being, and she will likely pick up on that over time. Maybe try observing her from a distance to understand her better, or use toys and treats to build a connection. Stay patient, and don't be hard on yourself. It's a journey of trust for both of you. 🐾💕
@Feline_Fanatics Thank you so much for your kind words. I really love my cat but to see her amazing progress going out of the window days later is heart wrenching. she did so great!
Now we are back to the early days again. She won't play no more with me either. I will observe her and leave her in peace and see what will happen. I hope that we will ve able to build a good relationship in time... I just wished I'd understand what happened ...
@@christianeroll8642 I truly understand how heart-wrenching it can be to witness setbacks, especially when you've seen glimpses of progress. Cats can be very sensitive creatures, and even small changes in their environment or routine can sometimes affect their behavior. It's possible something startled her or made her feel insecure. Giving her space and observing her is a wise approach. Be gentle with both her and yourself during this process. Every cat has their own pace, and with the love and patience you're showing, there's every chance she'll come around. Sometimes, a little bit of time and understanding can work wonders. Keep up the love and patience; your commitment to building that bond is truly commendable. Sending you and your senior kitty all the positive vibes and wishes for a strengthened bond in the future. 🐱❤🌟
I hope she and you are okay
I feed 3 feral cats , how do I catch them and take them to the vet without them hating me ?
When i slow blink at my cat he walks towards me purring and will lay on my lap or next to me🥰
my cat proabbly has negative emotions toward me I yelled at him as a kitten because he would pee everywhere(wrong thing I know) now he constantly picks at me for food all day long or meowing at me rubbing on my legs non stop for hours till I get frustrated and get mad then now he’s mad at me over yelling or shooing him away
by definition, love is unconditional. u love ur beloved even if he or she doesnt and this absolutely should not affect the way u love them coz its against the essence of love. my male cat is with us for 5 yrs. he doesnt give a damn. indeed he does not even want us to come close to him thats ok so wat? i just love him. i ve another 4 months insanely naughty male who my wife is sick off he chewed her crocs. but i love him for every thing he destroys coz i know he is innocent. he doesnt realize he ate 100 dollars slippers. i just cant hate him. reason is simple. i love him.
Your comment is so heartwarming and really captures the essence of unconditional love. ❤ You're absolutely right, the love we have for our pets doesn't depend on whether they show us affection in ways we expect or not. Every cat has its unique personality and ways of expressing itself. 🐾😺 Your love and patience for both your reserved elder cat and your mischievous kitten show just how deep your understanding and compassion go. And hey, perhaps those destroyed slippers are just his way of showing affection in his own unique, playful manner! 😹
Unconditional love is awarded to those deserving of it there's no way i would take care of a cat that doesn't want to be around me & destroys my things
My cat bites me and draws blood. She scratches too. Other than that she seems to like me. I feed her.
Hey, thanks for your comment! 😺 Biting and scratching might be your cat's way of playful communication or expressing discomfort. Try observing when this happens to understand their triggers. But if it's frequent, consider consulting a vet or pet behaviorist to ensure it's not a health issue. Keep showing love and patience. Good luck! 🐾
Lili gives me nips when I don't get the hint to pet her. I say no and move my hand away for a few seconds. Then go back and pet the head!
My cat stole my keys and wallet and haven't heard from him in 2 months. I keep getting outrageous charges to my credit card from petco... what do i do?
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I wish I was able to be around my baby more but he’s at my dads house and I don’t see him as much as I want and I feel so bad that I don’t give him constant love and cuddles
My cat doesn't do the slow blink when I do it but stares at me intensely, I don't really think it's a sign of not loving in return because, why would she always ask for a hug or even cuddle when in bed if there's no love ?? Think of it
I have 5 cats ,2 of which father n son, jumpstart off n run when i move but if i wake slowly at night they are both cuddled up on me, i swear the other 3 look at them thinking 'Jeez' whats the problem? Chill you two!'
Haha! It's so fascinating how each cat has its unique personality. Some are brave and chill, while others are a bit more skittish. The nighttime cuddles sound so sweet though. I bet the other three are secretly a bit envious of those special moments! 🐱💤🌙
My cat twitches his tail when I'm not touching him.
Hey there, thanks for your comment! It's important to remember that cats' behaviors can be pretty complex, and tail twitching can mean different things in different contexts. While it might be a sign of annoyance or discomfort in some cases, it can also be a normal part of their behavior when they're just observing their surroundings or feeling playful. If you notice that your cat's tail twitching is combined with other signs like avoiding contact, then it might be a sign of discomfort. But if it's just the tail twitching, your cat could just be engrossed in watching something. As always, keep an eye on your furry friend's behavior as a whole. It's their overall behavior and reactions to you that will give you the best clues about how they feel! 🐾
I have a special needs cat who gets sick a lot. This means i have to give him medicine a lot.
We used to be inseparable but after all the medicine, he'll frequently show these signs. I don't really know what to do. We've been through so much together but he just doesn't like me anymore.
Nonprofessional giving bad advise. sorry. you're wrong on most points.
Amazing vid!!❤❤ such an underrated yt channel😢😢
Hi there! Thank you so much for your kind words and support! ❤ It means the world to me. We're just getting started, and comments like yours really motivate us to keep sharing our feline adventures! 😺
My son moved into his own place about a month ago and our kitty Pebbles started pooping in his bedroom and his bathroom. Nowhere else in the house but his spaces. Is there anything I can do to help her?
I'm sorry to hear about the issue you're facing with Pebbles. It seems like she might be experiencing some anxiety or confusion due to your son's absence, as cats can be sensitive to changes in their environment. To help Pebbles adjust thoroughly clean the areas she has been using with an enzymatic cleaner. This will break down the scent markers in her waste that might be encouraging her to return to those spots.
Consider using a feline pheromone spray or diffuser in the affected rooms. These synthetic pheromones can help create a calming environment and reduce stress-related behaviors.
Spend some extra quality time with Pebbles, especially in your son's former spaces. Playing with her or offering treats there can help create positive associations.
Cats, & dogs, can take weeks to months to settle into a new home. Bear with the cat, do what you can to help them feel safe, acknowledge that this may take a while.
Our cat had peeing issues because he simply didn't like the type of litter we were buying. We changed it, no more peeing everywhere
Don't spray, for whatever reason.
Once you realize that your primary function where your cat is concerned, is only to feed your cat and clean out its litter box, you'll be okay. Anything else is just extra.
Yes soulblinking 😻😻and then sweets 😅
Is it normal if kittens dosent mew when they are 3 month ?
My cats both make the twitching tail, but still they come and want me to pet them until they sleep, could it be because of the other one (both of them usually tease the other one continuously, especially when they want to sleep near me)
My cat will come sit by me and twitch her tail. She also gets upset when I eat even if I just fed her but she's definitely my shadow. She follows me everywhere. Weirdo long-haired Calico.
Sounds like you have quite a character on your hands! 😸 Calicos are known for their unique personalities and it sounds like your feline friend is no exception. Her following you around? That's just her way of saying you're her favorite human! As for wanting to eat when you do, she might just enjoy sharing meal times with you. Thanks for sharing these fun quirks about your fluffy Calico. Give her a gentle pet from us! 🐾🐈⬛
I visit my cousins house every day or so I and there’s calico cat but every time I try to get her to trust me she dosent when I get food there I always share it with her and and I always pet her and I also keep my distance and I play with her daily and she still isn’t like trusting me but the only time she does is when she wants to breed
All 3 of my cats love me just fine. I have one who dosen't like thunderstorms. She will hide at the first lightning strike that she sees or thunderclap. That's the only time she hides. She will come out when the storm is over. My other 2 cats couldn't care less about storms. (Jan Griffiths).
Hi Jan! Thanks so much for sharing about your feline friends! It's really fascinating how each cat has their own unique personality, isn't it? Your little storm-wary one is definitely not alone; some cats can be really sensitive to the sounds and vibrations caused by thunderstorms. But as long as she's not too stressed and comes out once the storm is over, it sounds like she's managing okay. And your other two must be such brave explorers, totally unfazed by the rumblings! 😄
I think your voice is delightful and really liked the content of the video. Thank you.
Thank you so much for your kind words and positive feedback. I'm thrilled to hear that you enjoyed my content. Please stay tuned for more cat-related fun, and don't hesitate to share any suggestions or topics you'd like to see in future videos. Thanks again for your support!
Most of these are due to health issues, rather than to whether or not your cat loves you. I'm sorry, but this is silly clickbait.
my cat is not acting the way she should she mean and i have been raising her so well
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A Cats mood changes more often than the weather.
I appreciate the effort, but some of this is incorrect such as the slow blink. The slow blink is a sign of calmness. Do this to a hissing, feral cat and they may do it back, but cat definitely does not love or care about you at all.
please help w any advice I'm so very upset, sad, like i have A 2 year old Tortie adopted at 9 weeks. she was so skidish and anti (there was another kitten, younger and I describe the scene from Annie tap dancing to Warbucks hard knock life, rubbing against me purring and so social) Idc i wanted her from a picture and so. Anyways went w skiddish crazy clawing . Got her for my elementary age girls however that cat is my shadow. well....... she sleeps w me every night.. Goes to front door to get me and no matter who is around she follows me to my room... She's sweet so sweet has hissed twice at a kitten and getting nails done. . never scratch hiss sweet soul kind very wary of everyone .. petrified of outside like won't even go on patio and if you try to she will cry claw to get back inside. she was so young i don't know if any early trauma but she's been good. she was freaked out by my back massager i turned it on and she SPRUNG UP like it was funny - she was literally so mad at me 3 days later she still is. She jumped so crazy and panting i thought she was having panic attack i saw she hooked nail and her paw had to hurt her she was thrashing hissing..I think she's more mad at me w reaction laughing and it scaring her. I see she's been stand offish.. she sleeps at bottom of bed now.. she always sleeps right next to me. she gets up and looks around for the massager like every hour ... she will probably never get over it.... she even still sits at my door and not come in. rather than go w kids she's like nope ill just sit outside your door but i don't like you much so... what can i do ive used vacuum, hair dryers, and reaction was nothing compared to it. I put massager up in closet and she still looks so down days later .. she is like totally not herself. I see she is taking it personal but I don't know how to feel or she can't say how she feels but guess it's clear
If your cat doesn't want to be with you.....let them go....We can't restrain anyone of their freedom.
Let them go where? Being hit by a car or killed by a dog not on a leash? Wdf are u people rambling here? Animals DO NOT HATE. do not project your misery on others. U people are pathetic. YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THOSE U ADOPTED!!!!!! U can’t just toss them
Then u shouldn't have cats in the first place because that's all anyone is doing taking away their freedom
@@GODsoN_216 There is a stray cat in my area. He always visits me. He loves me....He goes places to places and I love the fact that he has his freedom. I just know that wherever he goes, his heart is always connected to mine. Thus, he IS mine. He loves me and I always respect his freedom. I always pray to The God that my dear cat always be protected from all the dangers. I don't fear losing him because both of us will one day shuffle off our mortal coils....but our souls are connected to each other forever and we WILL reunite....No matter how many times we separate....And thus....We belong to each other.
my cat hides from everyone but me and doesn't let anyone pick her up but she licks me a lot more than she should and she scratches a lot but i don't have money to take her to the vet considering my parents take her but they know nothing about cats. i had to beg my parents for 2 weeks to get them to take her to the vet because i saw change in her behavior and she was hiding alot more unless she was in my room. i honestly don't know what to do and we moved about a month ago but it seemed like she adjusted to the house already but i'm not sure if she has. if someone knows what i can do about what's going on with her that'd help a lot!
Starring is impolite! Twitching only the top of the tail is OK.❤
Oh okay :) my cat twitches the tail when i pet her in her nap ill stopp doing it
My cat only come to me when they hungry 😂
I’m a Cat Whisperer, so all cats seem to love me. I’m very lucky. ❤️
You're truly lucky indeed! 😍 Cats are intuitive creatures, and for them to naturally gravitate towards you speaks volumes about your energy and connection with them. We need more cat whisperers in the world! 🐱❤✨
@@Feline_Fanatics Haha, thank you! It can be a difficult when you have three in the house, and they ALL want your attention. ☺️ I often find myself crammed into the top-right quadrant of my bed, with a cat in each of the other three corners.
Is that the voice of Towa from the Trails of Cold Steel series?
My cat hates me she keeps running away and hiding then she touches me and hide again. I think she hates me
My cat taps his tail right before he falls asleep. No because he's annoyed lol my vet he's just off thinking
6:40 That kitty has no business in a plastic bag.
My cat farts next to me and only farts next to me…SHE HATES ME😭
I love my Moka kitty. I think she tolerates me though lol. Been cat napping her lately and she lies down on the bed. But then after a but starts walking all over my head and body to get out.
I guess my cat doesn't like me. Will have to gift her then
Did you make her like u?
Your cat doesn't love you, but he/she loves me because I'm a cat-person. And physics professor, but that's another story.
My cat is soon 1 year and first now it actually comes up while on sofa
I literally annoy my cat just like my siblings and he does the tail thing and claws the couch when I annoy him or maybe he just hates me 🤷♀️😭
I thought this was video for people who have a problem with their cat. Why are comments filled only with people bragging about how much their cat loves them like cough cough some of us ain't that lucky😂
I love you, big kittty cat.
All my cats have done the signs they love me
This video is very damaging. Not all cat breeds and individuals are the same. Overstimulating a cat is extremely easy, it will show dislike with twitching tail or aggressive behaviour. But that doesn't mean the cat doesn't love you.
If a person watches the video they would hear what is said and realize the title of the video is click bait. They never say the tail twitch means the cat doesn't love you. What damage is this video doing?
I love all my humans.
No , I have cat, when I going close giving kiss, she tail twitching, cause of love
Meowzers🐈⬛🐈⬛ glad Mom watched now if she would just give us more kitty kookies life would be very mewy. Dollar and Quarter black fantastic felines🐾🐾
Y’all love the circle trend don’t yall😂😂😂
Is quite easy to see what a cat thinks.
i think my cat doesn't love me.... idk what to do anymore
i do my best.. im feeling helpless 😔😫😭
It can be really disheartening to feel like your cat isn’t bonding with you the way you hoped. Cats can be very independent and sometimes show affection in very subtle ways. It might help to spend some quiet time nearby, letting your cat come to you at their own pace. Also, observe what activities they seem to enjoy and try to engage with them during those times, whether it’s playing with a favorite toy or simply sitting beside them while they’re relaxed. Hang in there! 💕🐾