This video has me in tears. I wish I could talk to you and tell you my story, Rob. We are so similar in a lot of ways. I was a nervous and very sheltered child. I ended up not going away to college because of family pressure and fear of leaving my parents. I’ve never had a date and am still a virgin. I didn’t take care of my health and lost my looks and my hair. Like you, now I will always be bald, never have a relationship with a young woman, never go to a college party, never make friends as a young man, and all because I was too frightened. Then I lost 6 years with a chronic illness. I don’t even know what to do at this point in life. I pray every day that I could go back in time. The last time I was happy was 2010.
Start living now my friend, don't look back, do yourself a favor and go have sex even, unblock that, don't matter if you are tall, small, fat, life is there to be lived, what happened in the past stays there its the now that matters
Hey there, i hope things improve in your life... anyway thought you might find some of the videos on the playlist on my channel titled 'Purpose of Life?' interesting or maybe even life-changing!
You're a good looking guy. Identify goals you want to meet, or a type of lifestyle you want to adapt, or habits you want to create. Do those, become confident that you will do what you say you will do, and I believe that will help you have a strong foundation and an idea of where you want to go. You can't change the past. I also can't change the fact that I'm a virgin, I was also sheltered, I also identified my life as "I was only happy back in 20xx"... with thanks to God, I was able to find a path, go down the path, and am now happy with where I am. If you have a good path to go down, are happy with how you practice your life, and have goals for the future. that's the basis for attracting friends who admire and respect you, and some of those friends may eventually be single women who want to have a relationship. I understand depression and anxiety is a tough thing - I've gone thru it myself, and I just finished my nursing degree a few months ago and now work in the ER with mental health crisis patients. There is a path forward tho.
I don't regret on opportunities I didn't take with people but actually opportunities that would have led to me taking a different path that would lead to growth in my life.
Hi there, you might find the videos on the playlist on my channel titled 'Purpose of Life?' interesting or maybe even life-changing! Anyway all the best to you!
You talk about those stories causing you pain, and I believe it because it caused me second hand pain and embarrassment just hearing you talk about it. Everyone has stories like that but it takes some courage to talk about it openly to a bunch of online strangers
So relatable. I've had multiple experiences like this In life I passed up on (mostly sex) due to lack of experience or getting out of my comfort zone. I'm 29 and I'm barely just starting to take more risks and love life a little more to the fullest capacity but I've got so much farther to go. Your videos have helped me out a lot, much appreciated
You create the past today. You create the future today. The only thing is that we live only now. All things happened are either lessons or weights we put on ourselfes. The decision is also now.
I never had a feeling of going back to change any of my decision. We learn on our mistakes, this is exactly what is life about. Your thinking is wrong.
No not learning how to think correctly is the problem do not go the path of bot thinking I have done that for alot of time as a guy who was seeking moksha and now Iam here after self relization long story short learn how to think 👌🏻🔥
What a wicked story.. where can I find a girl THIS thirsty for a specific kinda guy instead of the guy being thirsty? Nah, don't think you've missed an opportunity, rather, you were lucky enough to have dodged a bullet because your "teen brain" was working correctly being insecure about s*x at that age. A girl so thirsty at 16 back in your days (probably 90's) was not very common and she was probably acting like this towards other guys as well, you were just "on her list" so to speak. I get the message of this video, but the story of that girl? You have definitely dodged a bullet.
Dodged a bullet for sure. This is from someone who experienced exactly this at house party once leading to a friend falling out with me when I had no clue that the girl I was hooking up with was also hooking up with him on the same night. They even had a shower together!! Then to top it all off she then ditched both of us to go and be picked up by another guy ON THE SAME EVENING. Someone of these girls are seriously messed up
I've got your point, but you lived your life to the fullest. You were a different person back then and did the things, which considered best in the exact moment. Now you're a different person with other views and priorities, don't blame your younger version for the choices, you made.
Hi Rob Mulder, I wanted to say that the ego is making this whole story about living and makes u chase things that you think are making u live life to the fullest. I have a problem too but i know that to be present is the most important to really live. It's not about what you do, it's about the quality of how you do it. Merge with what are you doing. Be here and now. Don't follow social norms. But it is easier said than done. Start meditating. Quiet your mind. The mind makes u chase things like social norms and adventures, but it can never be pleased. I'm depressed right now, but i say take my advice into consideration, i'm looking for the same things : love and peace of mind.
I can totally relate to this. That panic thing is rea. I went back to some ladies house after a night out, and I honestly didn't expect her to want to get laid. Ended up having a really embarrassing drunk bumbling experience. Won't go into too much detail, but it was a night I'd rather forget lol. 😳
A very good message! But what really is meant by “live life to the fullest” and “opportunities”? This is what has always perplexed me!! After all, one man’s trash can be another man’s treasure and vice versa, but society doesn’t seem to recognize this, and it’s like everyone HAS to ALWAYS work towards the same “good” things as decided by society Would like to have a video on how Society decided things for the individual Rob!
Don’t be distracted by outward things. Someone sitting in deep meditation might be way more fullfilled than someone who is in constant action and reward seeking
It can work very short term as well. E.g. I crypto trade you missed 2 weeks ago might cause you to miss out on one today, because your mind is not open to the immediate possibilities and you have not processed the previous lesson and filed away that pattern for future use.
We cannot live in the past, we cannot live in the future, we literally can only be in the present moment;it is impossible to be anywhere else - Alan Watts.
You know humans blow my mind like its a good job im an introvert becauae i hate humans apart from couple good ones like my mrs. But most people are just vile, i have my house, job, mrs and dog and im so happy with just that, i exercise everyday and eat healthy, the simple things are the best i live so peaceful no drama enjoy guys
Just remember the story of Josef the prophet of God to Israeli tribes of his generation. You surely succeded that evening, my bro. I would have regretted it also, but more due to peer pressure rather than wrong actions.
Had something like that happen. I didnt take that opportunity with the girl as I was a virgin at the time. I guess she felt really bad afterwards tho, as she ended up sleeping with everyone at the party (16 guys) didnt matter all others were watching. I was the only one who didnt do the deed...
You did inspired me! Can I ask you what Astrological Sun sign are you ? you are a proper thinker :) make me think that You from air element ; Gemini , Libra or Aquarius. thanks
Thank you Rob, and please do not be so hard on yourself. Your younger self did the best thing it could at the moment with what it knew, there were always unconscious cues that it felt to make the best outcome. Much love and blessings to you 💖
05:55: Replace "the opportunity to f-k in a forest" with "the opportunity to drive a plane". What if you really not competent enough? Should you drive a plane, or a 50+ hp motorcycle in a city? Or may be start a war with dr-g dealers in your district or town? If you not ready, you don't do it, and there is nothing wrong.
I’ve def taken more risks now than before.. but now I’m like a stand still trying more things to keep moving Forward any other suggestions? Early gym, doing nf. Single trying to just keep moving I always was used to being in relationships and cling not anymore. It gets lonely but I’m trying to fix my sh1t
Don’t worry mate. In an alternate universe, you did take that opportunity and then you made a RUclips video years later about how much you regretted having sex with her.
In this universe, the girl is probably making a video how she is thankful for getting rejected since it opened up some new opportunity or she learned something important.
*feel like the more l learn about country's low income, the more my anger grows,"imagine investing $1,500 and receiving $9,300 profits in 5 days, 😇 Thanks you for the lady you recommended here sometime ago is the best 🇺🇲*
Wow! Nice meeting people who also work with Peggy dawsons , she's the only one I trust, she got me proflts of 11,OOO with a little start up of 2,5OO and ever since she's been good
I think Ms Peggy’s strategy is the best at the moment, I recommend it for beginners because it is perfect for now and it is known so you don't lose your money.Ok
Is this a joke or is my mind playing some sort of strange game? How many times is this person retelling the same stuff. I don't regret anything btw,. sort to say
Lol, you just dodged a bullet, that's too much promiscuity for a 16 year old. And you were probably gonna fall in love eventually getting your heart broken
The best time to plant a tree was 10 years ago
The second best time is to plant it today
This
Surely the second best time was 9 years ago.
@@SimonQuig Well maybe. I guess the point is any previous opportunities are gone. Kaput. All you have is what can do today.
Who needs a tree anyway?
@@SgtSlapmaster Yeah I know. I was just being a smartass. I appreciated the sentiment. 👍🏼
The third best is tomorrow
This video has me in tears. I wish I could talk to you and tell you my story, Rob. We are so similar in a lot of ways. I was a nervous and very sheltered child. I ended up not going away to college because of family pressure and fear of leaving my parents. I’ve never had a date and am still a virgin. I didn’t take care of my health and lost my looks and my hair. Like you, now I will always be bald, never have a relationship with a young woman, never go to a college party, never make friends as a young man, and all because I was too frightened. Then I lost 6 years with a chronic illness. I don’t even know what to do at this point in life. I pray every day that I could go back in time. The last time I was happy was 2010.
Start living now my friend, don't look back, do yourself a favor and go have sex even, unblock that, don't matter if you are tall, small, fat, life is there to be lived, what happened in the past stays there its the now that matters
Hey there, i hope things improve in your life... anyway thought you might find some of the videos on the playlist on my channel titled 'Purpose of Life?' interesting or maybe even life-changing!
You're a good looking guy. Identify goals you want to meet, or a type of lifestyle you want to adapt, or habits you want to create. Do those, become confident that you will do what you say you will do, and I believe that will help you have a strong foundation and an idea of where you want to go. You can't change the past. I also can't change the fact that I'm a virgin, I was also sheltered, I also identified my life as "I was only happy back in 20xx"... with thanks to God, I was able to find a path, go down the path, and am now happy with where I am. If you have a good path to go down, are happy with how you practice your life, and have goals for the future. that's the basis for attracting friends who admire and respect you, and some of those friends may eventually be single women who want to have a relationship. I understand depression and anxiety is a tough thing - I've gone thru it myself, and I just finished my nursing degree a few months ago and now work in the ER with mental health crisis patients. There is a path forward tho.
I don't regret on opportunities I didn't take with people but actually opportunities that would have led to me taking a different path that would lead to growth in my life.
For sure
✅👍🏻
Every path comes with a form of growth! If you didn't notice it, that's on you.
Hi there, you might find the videos on the playlist on my channel titled 'Purpose of Life?' interesting or maybe even life-changing! Anyway all the best to you!
"A smooth sea has never made a skilled sailor."
Funny thing about regret is that it is better to regret something you have done, than to regret something you didn't do.
Facts bro, thats why I said f*k it and started posting videos
I haven't tried drugs.. hmm.. should I regret?
@@Daveighna that’s the spirit bro
You talk about those stories causing you pain, and I believe it because it caused me second hand pain and embarrassment just hearing you talk about it. Everyone has stories like that but it takes some courage to talk about it openly to a bunch of online strangers
This is what I learned: Dig deep, go the extra mile, TAKE SOME RISKS!
So relatable. I've had multiple experiences like this In life I passed up on (mostly sex) due to lack of experience or getting out of my comfort zone. I'm 29 and I'm barely just starting to take more risks and love life a little more to the fullest capacity but I've got so much farther to go. Your videos have helped me out a lot, much appreciated
You create the past today. You create the future today. The only thing is that we live only now. All things happened are either lessons or weights we put on ourselfes. The decision is also now.
Life is already full... thinking that we do not live it to the fullest is just another way of scarcity mindset.
You're right bro but with Jesus Christ in my life I have been set free
I never had a feeling of going back to change any of my decision. We learn on our mistakes, this is exactly what is life about. Your thinking is wrong.
Definitely one of your better videos. Such a relatable story of regret, too. Thanks for this one!
Great video. Genuinely have helped me during my own bad phase
thinking is the problem
No not learning how to think correctly is the problem do not go the path of bot thinking I have done that for alot of time as a guy who was seeking moksha and now Iam here after self relization long story short learn how to think 👌🏻🔥
Man, powerful message.
What a wicked story.. where can I find a girl THIS thirsty for a specific kinda guy instead of the guy being thirsty? Nah, don't think you've missed an opportunity, rather, you were lucky enough to have dodged a bullet because your "teen brain" was working correctly being insecure about s*x at that age. A girl so thirsty at 16 back in your days (probably 90's) was not very common and she was probably acting like this towards other guys as well, you were just "on her list" so to speak. I get the message of this video, but the story of that girl? You have definitely dodged a bullet.
I was thinking the same thing. The OP gave a life lesson using one of the worst examples.possible. 😂
Dodged a bullet for sure. This is from someone who experienced exactly this at house party once leading to a friend falling out with me when I had no clue that the girl I was hooking up with was also hooking up with him on the same night. They even had a shower together!! Then to top it all off she then ditched both of us to go and be picked up by another guy ON THE SAME EVENING. Someone of these girls are seriously messed up
I've got your point, but you lived your life to the fullest. You were a different person back then and did the things, which considered best in the exact moment. Now you're a different person with other views and priorities, don't blame your younger version for the choices, you made.
love you bro
Thank you.
I have been thinking these kind of thoughts so many time, but find myself not doing enough about it. Thanks for saying them out loud 🙏
Your gut feeling saved you. Think of it as something to be proud over.
Hi Rob Mulder, I wanted to say that the ego is making this whole story about living and makes u chase things that you think are making u live life to the fullest. I have a problem too but i know that to be present is the most important to really live. It's not about what you do, it's about the quality of how you do it. Merge with what are you doing. Be here and now. Don't follow social norms. But it is easier said than done. Start meditating. Quiet your mind. The mind makes u chase things like social norms and adventures, but it can never be pleased. I'm depressed right now, but i say take my advice into consideration, i'm looking for the same things : love and peace of mind.
I can totally relate to this. That panic thing is rea. I went back to some ladies house after a night out, and I honestly didn't expect her to want to get laid. Ended up having a really embarrassing drunk bumbling experience. Won't go into too much detail, but it was a night I'd rather forget lol. 😳
What do u mean? I don't get it
36 years old learned one think and changed my life : just show up you never know what will happen just show up.
A very good message! But what really is meant by “live life to the fullest” and “opportunities”? This is what has always perplexed me!!
After all, one man’s trash can be another man’s treasure and vice versa, but society doesn’t seem
to recognize this, and it’s like everyone HAS to ALWAYS work towards the same “good” things as decided by society
Would like to have a video on how Society decided things for the individual Rob!
Don’t be distracted by outward things. Someone sitting in deep meditation might be way more fullfilled than someone who is in constant action and reward seeking
Thanks man
Yeah I feel you. I remember a Japanese exchange student back in highschool a long time ago I didn't talk to.
Fantastic video. It's come at the right time for me, as I'm sure it has for other people. ❤
Shout out from London!! I remember Dr Wayne Dyer talking about time & how it doesn't exist & it's an illusion!! Very deep!! Peace From London!! 🙏🙏
Dont regret your past, learn from it and change the present
this story brings you new subscriber :) keep up mate
Always a great content and great advices and positive mindset. Thank you very mutch Rob.
It can work very short term as well. E.g. I crypto trade you missed 2 weeks ago might cause you to miss out on one today, because your mind is not open to the immediate possibilities and you have not processed the previous lesson and filed away that pattern for future use.
Thank you brother
Thank you for sharing the wisdom 🙏👏
The fear of regret or the fear of failure which one is more dangerous?
FEAR OF REGRET IS WORSE
Yessir I have the exact same epiphany a couple months ago at 35
it's so relatable...
We cannot live in the past, we cannot live in the future, we literally can only be in the present moment;it is impossible to be anywhere else - Alan Watts.
Thanks Rob
Good advice ty
‘The future belongs to those who prepare for it today’ - Malcolm X
You know humans blow my mind like its a good job im an introvert becauae i hate humans apart from couple good ones like my mrs. But most people are just vile, i have my house, job, mrs and dog and im so happy with just that, i exercise everyday and eat healthy, the simple things are the best i live so peaceful no drama enjoy guys
I'm 37 and i don't have regrets.
Oui c'est vrais on ne peux jamais changer le passe mais le present determine notre future
Just remember the story of Josef the prophet of God to Israeli tribes of his generation. You surely succeded that evening, my bro. I would have regretted it also, but more due to peer pressure rather than wrong actions.
La hawla la kouat illa bel leh
amazing video
Dude, this hurts... 😅🙈
I got this now to buy apple stock, all in 25k usd, because i think it will go up 10x
Had something like that happen. I didnt take that opportunity with the girl as I was a virgin at the time. I guess she felt really bad afterwards tho, as she ended up sleeping with everyone at the party (16 guys) didnt matter all others were watching. I was the only one who didnt do the deed...
You did inspired me! Can I ask you what Astrological Sun sign are you ? you are a proper thinker :) make me think that You from air element ; Gemini , Libra or Aquarius. thanks
Thank you Rob, and please do not be so hard on yourself. Your younger self did the best thing it could at the moment with what it knew, there were always unconscious cues that it felt to make the best outcome. Much love and blessings to you 💖
05:55: Replace "the opportunity to f-k in a forest" with "the opportunity to drive a plane". What if you really not competent enough? Should you drive a plane, or a 50+ hp motorcycle in a city? Or may be start a war with dr-g dealers in your district or town? If you not ready, you don't do it, and there is nothing wrong.
you're never truly ready for any anything
Inti ken tokhrej min darek temchi taamel tahwissa ala echatte wella fi jnina taoua tertah bech tehbel rak
I’ve def taken more risks now than before.. but now I’m like a stand still trying more things to keep moving
Forward any other suggestions? Early gym, doing nf. Single trying to just keep moving I always was used to being in relationships and cling not anymore. It gets lonely but I’m trying to fix my sh1t
Try out Exodus 90.
Donc il ne faut pas louper le present
what do you think about film? Awaken the world part 1 and 2
film by Daniel Schmidt.
Thanks in advance,
What an apportunity 😋
Yepp
We chaarek kifeh tah? Taberakallah haou ken twill Ti echbik wellit asslaay ismellah?
this... sort of happend with me...
👍♥be authentic/real/true to yourself♥follow your heart/soul♥be brave ♥and you will not regret it♥
🌻
Don’t worry mate. In an alternate universe, you did take that opportunity and then you made a RUclips video years later about how much you regretted having sex with her.
In this universe, the girl is probably making a video how she is thankful for getting rejected since it opened up some new opportunity or she learned something important.
If you see this comment, I'm non existent to some people... I'm dead 😢
Nice
*feel like the more l learn about country's low income, the more my anger grows,"imagine investing $1,500 and receiving $9,300 profits in 5 days, 😇 Thanks you for the lady you recommended here sometime ago is the best 🇺🇲*
l started my investment with $2,000, a week later , we had grown to $10,500. this man!! absolute genius.
Wow! Nice meeting people who also work with Peggy dawsons , she's the only one I trust, she got me proflts of 11,OOO with a little start up of 2,5OO and ever since she's been good
I think Ms Peggy’s strategy is the best at the moment, I recommend it for beginners because it is perfect for now and it is known so you don't lose your money.Ok
Same here though l started with as Low as $1,000 actually because it was my first time and it was successful she's a great personality in the state
"If you are homeless just buy a house lmao"
lmao my dad is home but he dont mind ROFL
🙏🙏🙏
La wallah touka kolli khouya chouft un psychologue? Un psychiatre? Ti hata katteb elmouhem chouf had ahki maah non oumerek ma taajebech
Is this a joke or is my mind playing some sort of strange game? How many times is this person retelling the same stuff. I don't regret anything btw,. sort to say
Wella yothorli déjas toukitte
Lol, you just dodged a bullet, that's too much promiscuity for a 16 year old. And you were probably gonna fall in love eventually getting your heart broken
u know thinking this way make ppl poor rught, cuz fomo