Don't Quit Your Job (Until You Watch This Video) ✓
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Before you even consider quitting your job, please watch this video very very carefully... You might be making the biggest mistake of your entire career. If you need to leave your job, just make sure you do it for the right reasons. I am not here to empower your confirmation bias. I won't tell you what you want to hear. I'll tell you what you need to hear before potentially making a very big mistake.
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Deniz
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God bless you Deniz...
Sometime we see we been brought to a right thing on right time by may be a right person...
Your point II in this video - SPOT ON....
Thank you for being an inspiration for million people who are suffering from office politics.... I am one of them..
@@DenizSasal thank you for the tremendous job
This is exactly what my DAD talks to me about career and jobs. Whenever I complain that Dad I am not liking this job, I don't want to do this. He says find your passion on weekends then you can quit. Don't yet quit.
I started my career working for a big branded company for 3 years (bond) through placement and the company decided my roles. I was frequently changed in some operations while I strived to work in Project management. Now I work for a company that is not any top companies but I am a valued resource and I have been working on projects and was able to crack a big brand company because I applied my experience in the PMP topics but I have decided to stay back with my current employer for the respect and the value. May be sometimes we might want to share our talent to companies like mine to help them grow... :-)
I rose to the top of my small company, thought the CEO had my back. But to my horror, he turned tables on me, pitted me against his other employees, undermined my work, never acknowledged my good contribution, and constantly put me down. I have no choice but to think about my emotional and mental well-being. I quit today. The CEO has agreed to give me a reference (I'm getting it in writing). Good riddance to bad rubbish. I know that I'll be successful in finding something good that I deserve. If your CEO /boss is a psychopath or narcissist, quit before it becomes unbearable.
yeah I feel that one
Opportunities opens the door to a better future... so if u feel u have a better job opportunity in comparison to the current one then strive towards that..
I was literally going to quit my PwC (assurance) job this week for some similar reasons mentioned in the video. So glad I found this. Thank you so much Mr. Sasal, you gave the most intelligent and helpful career advice I've ever saw on RUclips.
I listen to this 2 years ago at a time I was going through worst time in my career. I decided to fight back but I decided to fight back by becoming the CEO of my career. I fought back by improving my skillset, improving my professional brand. Result, my salary increased by 100% and my side income (my afterwork job) is thriving and the same workplace that ignored me and treated me like trash is doing all kind of things to keep me because I have become valuable and attractive in the market. I still comeback here to remind myself of these career advice gems.
Congratulations! You're a champ.
Just an update my side job just gave me 100% increase last month and at my current job I have been offered to become the acting VP. Still reaping off your counsel and less than two years.
Agree with all the points apart from leaving a big name. I'm mid 30's and did this 10 years ago to start contracting for more money. A different route than most of my friends, I could not be happier that I did. Whilst they are all ripe to go into higher paying, higher responsibility jobs (just as they are having new family's) I'm in a position to retire and live off investment income. There are more than one ways to skin a cat, but leaving for more earlier is a great option if you do it right and invest wisely. Having the choice to work, not driven by need is a game changer for workplace satisfaction and having the ability to choose what you do with your time is a game changer for life satisfaction.
I watched and listened your words carefully and I felt I was connecting there I've changed my decision of quitting the job thank you deniz u are really helpful man and thanks to the technology which connected us
We need more mentors like you sir. Thanks for what you give. It’s beyond priceless!!!
Best action is to have no job & be your own boss.
Man !!! This video perspective is so great, but I literally am in confusing state now to quit or not with my passionless job. I am single, have financial backup to survive for next 2 years.. But I believe it's individual call based on his/her circumstances to quit or not.. There is no generic rule I guess...
This video is the reason why I did not quit my job. Thank you so much Deniz for toughening me up . I'm going to continue fighting and I'm going to go shake that tree !
You got this!
I get that a lot of these are great points, but the job you are describing isn't the one I'm leaving. I have worked at this company for 9 years and I keep getting pushed back down to cover the entry level(used to be temp) jobs because turnover is so high. I'm not learning anything new because I work 70+ hours a week to do the jobs of 2 people. It doesn't matter that they are a big name if now my resume shows I'm not worth promoting because I've been passed over so many times because they can't afford to lose me. These reasons are why I've been miserable for 9 years and can now afford to quit. I'm going back for my masters and not looking back.
Very good video with some great advice. However, I’ve been fighting against office politics, an inadequately implemented change program and a manager who simply wouldn’t support me. I managed to fight back and stand up for myself over two years and finished the project and process I needed to. Once I’d done this I then decided it was time to move on, but was very pleased I stood up to what was going on. I took a lot from dealing with the situation I was facing. I start my new job next month. I’d highly recommend fighting back, it will benefit you hugely. But equally, recognise if the situation is truly untenable to avoid unneeded ego driven damage.
Thank you Deniz....I really needed this 8:00 😢.. Throughout the years I have silenced myself to get where I have got but I will change today.
“If you are not motivated by compliments you will not be demotivated by criticism”.
Emotionally immune!!
Thank you 🙏
Deniz, I feel that I am being bullied, and feel like is is very difficult for me to go to work. I just force myself to go and stay there up to the end of my shift. I’ve been hearing co workers talking bad behind my back them thinking I can’t hear them. It’s just so sad. I need this job so much to pay my bills i feel embarrassed everyday to be there. I sometimes want to be fired but i have been there only 3 months. I feel sometimes worthless and stupid. I really appreciate you for this video I will try to push myself to keep this job as long as i can.
Hi Wendy, take a look at this video of mine; ruclips.net/video/MSXQcuGRQYI/видео.html It may help.
Hi Wendy. I never comment but I felt compelled to after readying your comment. I was bullied at my previous job along with ageism. It was a very toxic environment and till this day I sometimes struggle. I felt as they were trying to break me. For whatever reason they felt threaten because of the many years of experience I had.
It was so crazy that my hiring manager told me on my first day of work that you will see people who work and others who do not. His predecessor literally left a note on his computer and walked out never to been seen again. They had to call him to figure out he quite. Less than a month my manager quite.
I quite my job without having another job. I’m not saying to do that at all. I had my wife to support me and family....I’d go to work literally crying and feeling like wtf is going to happen today. When people hear about bullying they think elementary or jr. high/high school. The worst part about bullying in a professional work environment is that it’s done covertly and subtle. I feel for you because the kind of stress you should have is work related not people related.
Lastly, it was so bad even after I left my job that I would have melt downs at home. Felt like I let my family down even though I had their backing and even supported me leaving this company. I went to see therapist and went on medication. It helped a lot but every now and then I get flash backs. All I can say is that it gets better but I highly recommend you look for a new job and fight back. It takes courage but I can’t stress enough to fight back. Sorry for the rant...stay strong, be positive, and be proactive in looking for a new job. This is just a moment in time.
Sergio L : I’m going through the same thing for the second time. I quit my toxic job of 9 years and was unemployed for 2 years with a few short term temp positions. I went back to the university in a different department and experiencing the same issue. I’ve only been there for 9 months and I’m ready to quit. I am continuously being set up and harassed by the boss and another coworker. People don’t understand the extent of work place bullying.
rtp1968 going thru covert bullying now ready to quit
Sergio L going thru covert bullying now ready to quit
I just resigned my job because i don't feel interested to work any more for the company. After a month i will be jobless 🤪. I will be on vacation for one month more then i will look for job. So i am quitting job without any new job 💪
Your so lucky you had that choice. I wish i can do it too. How did it go?
I'm starting a new job tomorrow after quitting my job 4 months ago because of all the reasons you mentioned here and I do regret the decision. I think the social media influencers kinda manipulate with your choices. I'm so glad I found your channel. Thanks for putting out this kind of content.
What reason did you give for the break you had in your CV?
I found your channel and I'm listening to this on a bad work day. Your insight gave me a different but positive look on things.
I liked the video the moment you said,
If you are not learning, its not the companie's fault, but your fault
Just like to say thank you. Had my first out of country interview where I had to fly to London to do the interview. Your videos where an excellent help and interview couldn't have went better. Will hear back mid next week if I got the job.
Got the job, got asked the exact questions you covered. Didn't take the job even though money was more work life balance would have not been as good
I made mistake number one. I am in it right now. I am looking to get out. It is tough. I have only been Here for 5 months... it is true. I am not developing and feel dumber now. There is no structure. There is no progress. I am being bullied and facing office politics. I was sold on the idea of change and advancement and now I am metaphorically getting coffee. 😭😭😭
Wanna exchange jobs?
Same
I feel your pain
How you doing now
Is it better now?
Don't quit job- Excellent points covered and explaines realistically helped me to understand it better. I am going through same phase of job change thoughts. Thanks a ton for this video.
i just filed resignation to my job due to family reason I hope i did the right thing, thanks for the vide Sir Deniz
Dear Deniz, this is an absolute classic. The points you mentioned in this video are so pragmatic. Hats off to thee.
I decided to quite my job even in this coronavirus time because of burning out but now I will stay and use this situation to develop my character and fighting back iwant to master saying No
Absolutely million dollar value video.
I should say this: almost every company I have worked for has had spies.
Be very careful what you talk because sometimes they will interpret it as a threat which will fire you from the company.
And yes, never make the mistake of quitting. I worked almost a year on my passion and failed, but still had the job and clients, so it didn't hurt me at all.
Thanks for sharing. I am 2 months away from walking out on my current big brand employer of 20 years for ALL the reasons you cited. I am so glad I came across your video because it made me rethink my decision. Thanks...... just in time. Also I watched your project management video last night which I found to be extremely insightful. You are indeed a star. Thanks!
Great to hear!
I'm at my mid 20's. I almost did everything but follow these advices. I started off in a large cap company engineering firm with a permanent contract and thought I was invincible given all the job new opportunities the large cap company gave me. I quit that job for a no-name brand with promising opportunities, I did this a couple of times. Got fired once, just left out the worksite for dissatisfaction of the management twice.
Finally ended up working as a day labourer on a monthly contract that may or may not get renewed at the end of the month. Resume looks like shit. Currently underpaid, underworked, overqualified. All of this in less than five years.
This is my worst financial decision.
Dude.... I feel it man.... I joined the military after doing half of what you did lol
Man... I think these are some of the most powerful career advices I have ever heard in my entire lifetime. I appreciate you!
This is the first video, I have ever commented on you tube because this has been one of the best videos I ever came across. It takes lot of courage to overcome from your failures. Thanks for taking an initiative on sharing with examples the importance of ongoing income in our lives and covering almost every aspect of a why people should not quit jobs or give up so easily.
This is among the best youtube time spend on my life. There are many points, and require deep thinking. Viewers are suggest to watch few times. These thought will support the best action when in doubts, the doubts that face every day.
On another note, I think HR, wil have easy job, if they share this.
Thank you Deniz...I am glad to see this video, it really make lot of sense. I made one mistake of asking release from project when i completely burnt out, instead of telling No to new tasks which resulted me to go through painful time later on.
I am completly stuck in my career. This video speaks about so many true things that happened to me. Wish I believed them before. I was in the death spiral..still trying to overcome it :))
You know why I like Deniz? Coz he resonates with me. He is unique and not one of them who says quit your job and start your company and all that. Not everyone feels like that. Some people like me want to excel in big brands. That's our vehicle. Can't help.
I remember watching this video before when I thought of resigning... I followed your advice to not Quit but fight... it made a difference in current career now. Thank you!
I fought back and now I am "the big whiney baby to them". 🥺 Nothing got better. My tears or anger didn't matter.
You a exactly what the world of talent needs. I have follow your short videos for 3 years and I’ve seen the results - it works and thank you for your generosity.
Hi Deniz, could you please make video on art of saying 'NO' at work
I fight back all the time and add a target to myself but I don’t care because in a position of leadership you have to stand up for yourself and your team!
My gosh.. you gave me perhaps the best career advice I ever needed to hear. I thank you 1,000 times for that.
Hi Deniz, you talk a lot of sense, I really wish I was able to hear you, meet you, know you when I was in my 20's. Guys.. every word that Deniz is saying is priceless, it's 100% practical truth, this is not one of those bullshit motivational videos.
Thank you!
Thank you for taking your time to make this video, sharing your personal perspective
I am considering looking elsewhere for $, but your video really geared me to stay and fight for more.
Stop listening to social media influencers and listen to this man.
I am currently in a dilemma whether I should quit my job as an auditor. But then I stumbled upon this. Second thoughts.
This is exactly what I needed to hear before me quitting 😊
Good points. Some cases are completely different. One of my friend who worked in a school for more than 2 decades was harassed tremendously. She told that there was inbuilt camera in monitor and IT Dept had full access to her computer. Monitoring is normal and even micromanaging is also not a crime. But she was mentally tortured, as her work (she was good in computers) was tampered with at all times. And the inbuilt camera access to them helped to play well. She was surrounded by players. Few were asking her to do certain task, when she started that, there were few in IT/other rooms to ensure that it is not done on time by continously tampering with it, then boss would come and shout on the top of her voice to announce that the work is not done on time. Also other emotional triggers were played with..Life brings experience, different people face different problems. But thank you Sir for your valuable suggestions.
Finally another video after looooong time of being quiet. i have been watching your videos almost 90% of your videos. was always look up for new videos, finally there it is..my grandpa used to tell us, don't quit fight within. One of my former trainer used to tell us quiter's never win, and winners never quit.
Thank you. Extremely helpful. It's so hard to push through, but starting over is like staying at the bottom over and over. I don't know what motivates managers to treat people poorly, but I know that when it's over I will not quit to suit their selfish agendas.
Glad to heard from you again Deniz! You Still been my favorite mentor in 2019. Now I'm stocked in point #3 (quite my job 2 years ago)so you are definely right about it!
For me make the money that is sufficient for a decent living and leave the job and turn hobby to business though it pay less... in the end it's not how much position we gone into but how happily we are living... for me today is more important than tomorrow...
So trueee
Finally~clarity...after 10 years of confusion, uncertainty, waining confidence, @ 8min in i learned the value of not giving in to the politics and bullying...thank you...been planning backup for years tho, and been downsizing lifestyle (altho pretty small already) for a very long time.
Now i can feel confident in keeping my integrity but being smarter about playing the politics (previous videos). I didn't develop thru management roles, small town respect and mentality, not prepared for the higher stakes game of in office politics. This video~YOU~added so much value to my life. Thank you.
The tips you are giving are extremely pure and out of book speeches but absolute experience. I made the same mistake you did and left my job with multiple reasons you gave within the video. I was facing office politics issues and unfair management. I got angered and left the job for an entrepreneur project. And now trying to repair my career back for a solid-long term life and career plan. I would like to hear from you how to repair those mistakes.
Should we leave a smaller company (A lesser known brand) for a bigger brand which is known to burn out their employees. My friends working in the same branded company suggest not to join that brand because they have high attrition for that role not because they fire employees because employees can't take so much pressure. I already have an offer letter what should I do?
Go for it
It is really very true. Your insight is super but one needs to built resilience and willing to perserve as we normally do what we like and not what we don't like. Thank you your note, it is very enlightening!
ah, that's a great point; "we do what we like and not what we don't like". Love it!
This was a real truthfull video, with very many sound advices. It shows the angry to learn to fish, instead of giving a fish. Highly recommendable advice.
I feel grateful to be one of your subscribers! your tips are very meaningful to me and my future life. Thank you very much.
You are excellent, sir! Everything you mentioned was a pure truth from my perspective. Thank you! Regards from one fighter :)
Sound words from you Sir.Alas if I could listened to your video 2 months ago I could have saved my job.
I made mistake 1 and 2 early in my career so this video speaks to me. Thank you Dennis
Did your career recover easily? How did it turn out? Cheers.
Still struggling to get back up. I’m in my 30’s reporting to managers 5 years younger. I have so many regrets, I wish I someone told me this back then.
I also found myself in that situation a couple of times in the past. Hated reporting to a younger manager. With every fiber of my being, I hated it. I can empathize with you easily. Luckily, it didn't last long for me. Fingers crossed, it won't last long with you either.
I am Really inspired as im am going through the same situation to quit my job. Because my boss never appreciates me.
"Jerry Macguire style". 😂😂😂 love it!!! This definitely would have definitely been me if I had stayed another week. But I probably would be getting unemployment payments instead of feelings of guilt, humiliation, stupidity and being temporarily broke. 🙁😣
thank you for this great advice, this is just in time. was considering to quit but now i realize that i should reconsider the options i have. thank you.
Wow , the Boss is back !!
You r great sir . Welcome back 💐💐💐
Good to be back!
Yes he's amazing
I really appreciate your practical advice. Thank you for uploading this video. I learned a lot.
This was so helpful, especialy point 6. You opened my eyes. Thank you !
Indeed very helpful video and a very hard medicine to swallow. I am at a tough situation where my current even make me suicidal. I am struggle to put on a tough mask and just trying so hard to just hang in there.. I can’t quit because I have financial obligations. And all the points on your video are extremely helpful. I should follow your advice because it’s a right thing to do. But I just don’t know how to hang in there anymore.
Iris Lynn I’m so sorry. Hopefully things improved since then. What helps me is no longer turning things inward but fighting back, also everyday doing something that will improve my life, could be eating better, exercise, and most of all improving skills to increase my self esteem and work related knowledge. Investing in my life and saving money.
Hi, I totally can relate. This speaks volume to me when you mentioned about suicide and the fact that you can’t quit because of financial obligations. Im in the same situation. I feel hopeless and helpless. I dont have much choices because i dnt have any specialties. The demands of my job is unbearable and it gives me anxiety. I can’t sleep, i cant eat, its making me anxious every single minute of my life. It feels like im draining my brain everyday. It’s mentally exhausting. It’s making me sick. Literally. Whenever i think about it, i want to throw up. Dragging myself to even wake up and wrk. I cant explain enough, how mentally exhausting it is. Im miserable. I dont know how to deal with it anymore. No one can help me financially if I quit. 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Great video - I’m going to fight back at work - I’m off for a week and when I go back I’m going to be a whole new person.
Thank you Deniz.. your video have been very helpful and thanks for putting out videos like this..am at that point in my career where I felt like quitting but now I have decided to stay and fight back.
Very pragmatic, very empirical piece of advice. I really needed it. Keep it up.
Thank you so much.
The last few points are wisdom. Thank you!
Deniz Sasal Sir,you should be Professor Emeritus as you have an clear connect with your audiences having dilemma of what next ,as workplace bullying have turned working environment into a living hell ,roasting mental inferno at times encouraged by higher ups in the hierarchy.How to deal with them when higher ups in the hierarchy collude and set you up for failure often complicity of teammates ganging up with insubordination,GASLIGHTING,discounting,and devaluing ones contribution.
Yours is the best presentation helpful for ones like me who have learnt to walk alone in life and never given up in life though rusted in the process.
Thank you,waiting for your next video.🙏👍Your talk made me cheerful again against all odds stacked .
But I have to quit cause, I’m a cleaner,and they always put me outside under the sun...I feel hydrated...and have muscle cramps at night.
Gem of a video, hope I had seen this long back. I can vouch for every point that you mentioned and which I faced during the time I left my job.
I'm so happy that I watch this video in a right time! Thank you Deniz!
Really valuable video for everyone! Thanks for training us to become unbeatable strong individuals.
Just one question remained: if we survived all the 8 points u mentioned, when we should actually ever consider leaving a company?
Your video helped me keep my job until I found another one. Thank you
It happened when I was halfway watching this video.
Thank you for the timely advice!
" Most of people are stuck in their own confirmation bias " I liked that quote
Thank you so much. Listening to your videos are game-changing moments. Gracia!
You are so honest and shrewd! Really appreciated!
Liked this alot. Couple things: my boss wrote me up for a variety of emotional issues that had nothing to do with my work performance. One included me not being emotional and sympathetic enough. I am a low-key person who doesn't show alot of emotion and she is a "cheerleader" pollyanna. I have said "no" to extra tasks and been written up as "insubordinate". I am the dumping ground for every extra task in my department yet when I finish the tasks and request more, she stalls. So, I was written up for refusing but when I ask, she has nothing to give me.... it's a lose-lose situation that I am trying hard to get out of.
Thank so much! You've been the most practical after searching more than a month how to handle my toxic work environment. This stressor is mostly psychological, much better than having no job or a job that stifles your career future. Fight for myself! Situation may change. You are more capable to switching to a better job if you are employed. Being bullied or being jobless unable to meet your ends, the later is definitely worse and at times irreversible!
That was fantastic! I like my job, but I see a lot of people qutting because at least one of the reasons you shared. So at times, I start questioning myslef, but not anymore thanks to you. 🙌
its a mandatory video to be watch by all professionals,Deniz really thankful to you for uploading such a wonderful stuff.
Thank you Deniz! I was about to leave my current job but after watching this video I realized that all that you’ve said was about me. Almost every single word
Same goes with me Roman. I was going to do same. But in 6th point ..of learning ...it opened my eyes.
Are you still at the same job?
Very true! You said it all. As a fresh medical graduate who had just finished her internship, i got a job in a health insurance company. I was initially happy because i had no interest and intentions to practice. I had always wanted to be an entrepreneur specifically in the beauty industry. After working for 1 year i got frustrated due to office politics and i felt i was not learning anything that would help my entrepreneurial goals in future ,…so I Quit!! To start my business…..fast forward after a year I discovered I wasn’t fully prepared to start my own business because I wasn’t so good at committing. I found your page because I’m trying to change career paths into program management full time , (not sure if MBA is necessary ). While writing my cv I realized i was learning program management skills without knowing and that I actually had opportunities i could have grabbed if i wanted to and i had public holidays and weekends to spare to chase passions. In my one year business trial i finished my savings and trying to get a job (not medical). I’m glad I learned this now and I’m getting back on my feet! I was so engulfed with chasing money I forgot to chase impact and value. Your honesty and transparency is refreshing. I will definitely join the LIG
This is a good checklist to use for the decision to quit or not to quit. Listen unbiased very good.
Points are good! Every body may faces or go through those. However, might be unable to think or pick or realize when it happens to him/her on that time. Thanks for summarizing in a point form.
You are right! Thank you for shedding light on my mistakes. I left a huge company with the potential of great professional acceleration for a small company, and I feel I’ve taken myself out of the ballgame. The people are less skilled, less talented, less driven, my boss is nice but a terrible manager who has no understanding of people. The benefit is I don’t have 60 percent travel and I have more fulfilling personal life, but what you’re saying is true. Right now I’m “fighting back” by not becoming like them and trying to go way beyond what is expected until I secure a new job. I think a happy medium exists.
Don't give up the fight MR.
I've never been able to get into a big brand name in my field. I've been stuck in small brands trying to find a way to get into one of the big brand companies.
Your videos definitely helped me get the job I’m starting next week! Thanks for making these.
You are awesomely sincere and honest
Thank you so much for sharing this video. It’s absolutely amazing. I wish that i have watched it earlier. I will save this and keep as my remind whenever i want to quit. Thank Deniz Sasal!
You are soooo right!
I wish i saw this video 10 years ago when I was 28 and all the decisions to make were ahead... getting back on track in your late 30th takes so much more energy... hope it will work out!
Thank you for your video Deniz. That's why I keep following your videos.
im sick of trying to guess whats around the corner whilst being isolated from my family for years six years and counting
Great advice, thanks for posting! Wish I looked at these a few years ago.
Deniz, i loved you video. You really said the right things which I even have faced and currently facing. I learnt lot of things from your video. Thanks so much..Waiting desperately for your next videos...