Should You Stay With Your Relative Or Friend ?

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    • @ektaearth1
      @ektaearth1 3 месяца назад

      14:45 is iconic. 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @ektaearth1
      @ektaearth1 3 месяца назад

      @ 14:45 is iconic ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @YehStreeKulPhirAayegi
    @YehStreeKulPhirAayegi 3 месяца назад +69

    Meri life hell ho hai thi iss situation se , meri shaddi ko 1 saal hua tha mere inlaws ke best friends ka all time mujhe cooking karena hota tha , aur last tak aisa ho gaya tha ki husband ke friend aur uski mummy jo meri motherin law ki best friend thi wo rehne lagi thi delhi me humlogo ke sath flat me hell ho gaya tha jeewan mera . Kisi ko bhi nhi samjh aata tha mera wfh hota tha aur ac sirf bedroom me tha sab ac me baithe the maine 3-4 mahine hall me gujare hai phir last me maine apne office se transfer kara liya tha . In sab ko flat me rehne diya maine phir mere jate hi sab chale gaye ,
    Sir apka content ekdum op hai . Loge samjhate nhi h

    • @wolfgang4429
      @wolfgang4429 3 месяца назад +1

      Bahut acha, mai bhi us stage se gujra tha, chhota tha school padh raha tha. Sikhne ki bahut icha thi nay nayi chije pr pata chala apne hi aapka faayda uthane taiyar baithe hain. Ab mai itna strong bann gya hu ki kya batau. Struggle abhi bhi hai pr life samjh aa rahi hai. Apne raaste acha jee raha. Aap bhi dubara kisi ki gulami mat kariyega unse ladiye mat (asahyog kijye) wo khud ba khud samjh jaynge ki isse faayda nahi nikaal sakte.

    • @magicalworldofkeshvi9701
      @magicalworldofkeshvi9701 Месяц назад

      Totally agree...I too is suffering from same situation

  • @vinu7171
    @vinu7171 3 месяца назад +101

    No, no we should not stay in relatives house, because they take advantage of you.
    My uncle force me to stay in his house though I paid him indirectly as gift now he tells everyone that I have put up in his house & he had lot of work

  • @Nishankjainify
    @Nishankjainify 3 месяца назад +5

    Need a video on parents not taking care of their health. How to deal with it as people who are working away from home. I see this as an issue for lot of people, dietary restrictions are not followed by parents even with medical conditions.

  • @India_indya
    @India_indya 3 месяца назад +22

    Agree with everything but it's mostly the blood relatives and best friends who are the biggest pain! father's brother or mother's brother may not stay for more than a week but their wife or children will stay for months! especially when you live in a big city and they are coming for college or job! and the worse part is even after staying for 6-10 months, they will act like guests to be entertained and catered to everyday, they will not help anyone or do anything in the house! home feels like guest house! Father's friends relatives and friends and their children will come to stay so they can holiday! what about the family! where should they go! they are just thankless parasites! and they won't even keep you nicely for a week if you go to their house!

    • @India_indya
      @India_indya 3 месяца назад +3

      Another problem is no one really knows what your relatives and their children are upto! they come to your home and could badly influence your children! don't keep anyone at home when you have children.

    • @gloomyend1232
      @gloomyend1232 3 месяца назад

      Just say no

  • @sonalsharma5293
    @sonalsharma5293 3 месяца назад +38

    Absolutely agree. My philosophy since forever. I never stay with any friends or relatives when I travel as I want to enjoy my holiday my way n not their way in their home eating n sleeping their way. N I don’t encourage the same at my place. Thankfully most people understand this in my circle.

  • @chotadon4086
    @chotadon4086 3 месяца назад +34

    Oro k relative samjhe na samjhe, aapke relative to jarur samajh gye honge. Aapke waha bhi bhut guest aate honge tabhi aapne dil se explain Kiya. Ab aapka bhi man halka ho gya hoga😅

  • @kraut1982
    @kraut1982 3 месяца назад +17

    Hamare gaon se USA ghumne ate hain to hamse yeh ummid karte hai ke hum unhe airport lene aye, cousins chach mama masi bua ho toh thik hai woh bhi kar lete. Ab toh hum Uber send karte hain. Aao milo khao, raho bhi 2-3 din we enjoy that but don’t expect me to taxi around, kyu ki ghar ane ke bad toh safsafai bhi khud karni hai, grocery aur khana bhi banana hai. Ek bar toh gav ke kisi ki beti graduation complete karke hamare shahar aa rahi thi, khana vana banake mein ready thi usne kalti mari, kisi aur rishtedar ke pass chali gayi, kuch dino bad phir contact karna chaha mein to avoid kar diya sorry not going to waste my time on these long distance acquaintances.

  • @prathmeshsingh9699
    @prathmeshsingh9699 3 месяца назад +215

    For the fear of being judged I don't recommend your channel to everybody

    • @Arunkumar-mt3eh
      @Arunkumar-mt3eh 3 месяца назад +4

      😅

    • @Hetal28
      @Hetal28 3 месяца назад +1

      😂

    • @varshasjain9383
      @varshasjain9383 3 месяца назад +5

      Me too.

    • @schumi93
      @schumi93 3 месяца назад +2

      Yahi toh sir ne change karna hai.

    • @Faujitravels26
      @Faujitravels26 3 месяца назад +6

      हर किसी समझ नहीं है इतनी...
      लोग नहीं समझ पाते है इस ऑर्डर की सोच को

  • @poojamalhotra5093
    @poojamalhotra5093 3 месяца назад +4

    Please take the topic of, when married couple is living in a different city or country as parents. How often should the parents visit. When couple has no baby. And when couple has a baby. I have seen, parents ( one set ) are visiting for 2-3 months esp when there is a baby in the picture. Toh yeh toh joint family sey bhee kharaab ho gaya 😢

  • @konarksharma6524
    @konarksharma6524 3 месяца назад +83

    Sab judge hote hain. Courage chahiye bolane ke liye.

    • @henieljain
      @henieljain 3 месяца назад +3

      True yaar mera to weight hai bhi nahi fir bhi meri healthy body dekh ke mera mazak banaya gaya and I never said anything but I regret now

    • @varshasjain9383
      @varshasjain9383 3 месяца назад +1

      Baat to sahi hai. Abhi to itna courage ni hai. Bahut kode padte hai already.

    • @henieljain
      @henieljain 3 месяца назад

      @@varshasjain9383 i think jab achi income hoti hai aur ham financial independent hote hai tab ham aur ache se courage dikha sakte hai

  • @SamHaris-xp6iy
    @SamHaris-xp6iy 3 месяца назад +3

    Sir, it is very difficult when my own siblings come and stay with me. They act as if they own house are fussy eaters and their children are spoilt brats. I am fed up of them, even though they are my blood relations.

  • @amitap2025
    @amitap2025 3 месяца назад +18

    Please make a video on having to care for difficult , argumentative elderly mother-in-laws who want to stay with you and make your life full of unending drama

    • @doncorleone3901
      @doncorleone3901 3 месяца назад +1

      When you can't avoid, then its best to not engage in their arguments. Why don't you just say ha hum and move on? Why engage?

    • @amitap2025
      @amitap2025 3 месяца назад +1

      @@doncorleone3901 That is exactly what i do . I engage minimum bcoz i want to preserve my peace of mind. But it still irritates having to do this thankless work .

  • @classmateeducare4682
    @classmateeducare4682 3 месяца назад +53

    मैं अपनी पत्नी और बच्चों के साथ आपका चैनल देखते हैं, अगर गुरुजी जैसा कोई मेरे जीवन में 10 साल पहले मिला होता तो मैं बहुत आगे होता।

    • @seemachaudhary4311
      @seemachaudhary4311 3 месяца назад

      I am also feeling same

    • @satyasheel9013
      @satyasheel9013 3 месяца назад

      Amit bhai, all your videos are so practical.

    • @shobhamathur3448
      @shobhamathur3448 3 месяца назад

      मैंने स्वयं बहुत लोगों के लिए किया है और थोड़ी सी भी ( उनके मुताबिक) कमी रह गयी तो बुराई भी झेली है। ये सारी बातें सुन कर लगता है कि मेरी सोच को शब्द मिल गये ( महिला होने के नाते किसी के सामने खुल कर कह नहीं पाती थी, फिर भी अपनी बेटी और पडौसन को लगता है कि आवाज और चेहरा बदल कर मैं फिर से बोलने लगी।

    • @Inndeeun
      @Inndeeun 3 месяца назад

      Phir aap andhbhakt hote 😂😂😂

  • @santanupaul9444
    @santanupaul9444 3 месяца назад +10

    This is a good topic. But please teach how to reject relatives or friends POLITELY when visiting your city or place.

  • @jkumar00
    @jkumar00 3 месяца назад +16

    Sir aapko video banane ki jarurat nhi thi, phone per bhi mna kar sakte the!!😅

  • @vivekrana2003
    @vivekrana2003 3 месяца назад +70

    I don't live with even my close friend even if they insist bcoz I don't want their family to adjust bcoz of me.
    I only live with relatives who are extremely close to me and we visit each other occasionally

    • @bobsinhav
      @bobsinhav 3 месяца назад +2

      Help the hotels grow their business

    • @lawanyaarvind2810
      @lawanyaarvind2810 3 месяца назад

      Well said indeed

    • @lakshmi3744
      @lakshmi3744 3 месяца назад +1

      Please understand this content,it is about relatives house too....even if close close relative

  • @sunitamalhotra8010
    @sunitamalhotra8010 3 месяца назад +12

    Humari saas ki sister ki beti and her sons stay so many times due to her compell. Rukne wale to pahle se tayyar. Hume kahti tum mut karo me kar lungi saara kaam, ab batao sharam bhi toaati he na phir aaj unki bahuein online mangwa deti hein ak baar phir manage karo apne aap. Hum to kher jaate nahi. Pahle ye sub bhi to bahut hita tha apne hi to apno k kaam aayega, and bahar rukne ka budget nahi hota tha. Humare jaise log nahi rukte kisi k bhi. Han friends circle me rukte bhi hein to full co operation k saath home task and visit expenses both. Meri bitiya k yahan bahut badhiya system, always send the relatives in hotel either host pay or guest pay but they never disturd house queen and princess. I like it. Amit ji it is good to stay in hotels. Now adays people aatend any marriage they stay in hotel or some aarengements by host in bararghar or hotels.

  • @Sai-q4d
    @Sai-q4d 3 месяца назад +11

    Sir blood relative ( dono side ke) bhi aajkal bahut judge karte hai.

    • @shubhamjoshi8762
      @shubhamjoshi8762 2 месяца назад +2

      Exactly most kalesh to yeh blood walo ka hi hota dusre to rarely hi aate hai

  • @zahrabjinu
    @zahrabjinu 3 месяца назад +7

    Everyone comes for work for one or two days. Small 1 or 2 bedroom houses with one bathroom in flat sometimes still people come . It’s so much work and disruption of sleep and other routines. Nobody comes to meet the rishtedar it’s always for some work or something. Sometimes even those people who are not even regularly in touch come unannounced.

  • @PRADEEP28199
    @PRADEEP28199 3 месяца назад +6

    Gaon k log to Ghar aate hain to barabar ka kaam karwate hain especially ladies kitchen me.
    What's your opinion in that case.

  • @tsheringlama7984
    @tsheringlama7984 3 месяца назад +7

    So relatable to every wife, I also highly recommend not to entertain unnecessary burden. We had a huge fight on this several times but no means no. We ladies should take a firm stand against these faltu ,jugadu guests or kind of relatives they are kind of energy sucker. Jab hame nai pasand kisike sewa karna toh nai karenge no one should impose their burden on us. THANKS FOR SHARING THIS AMAZING N PRACTICAL VIDEO.

  • @deepikashishodia3063
    @deepikashishodia3063 3 месяца назад +6

    Ek ghar se dusre ghar me ja kar band, ye kounsa holiday picnic hai😂😂😂jana hai dono family city se bahar jao na, ek ki holiday enjoy karne ke liye hai, Bahu ki holiday double kitchen work, double expenses 😂

  • @India_indya
    @India_indya 3 месяца назад +7

    Please talk about relatives who live in the same city and keep coming to your house like bhukkads! you can't even get peace on weekend and holidays!

  • @manojvachhani6305
    @manojvachhani6305 3 месяца назад +3

    delhi ki population kum karo..vote jiad band karo...free ke chakkar me na jana... AAP/congress se dur raho... desh ke liye kuch kaam karo..daru kum karo...education thik karo... Maharashtra me kafi jobs hai , business hai, kheti hai, south me log nahi mil rahe kaam karne ko...yaha ajao

  • @snehalbangre2482
    @snehalbangre2482 3 месяца назад +20

    Kash mere in laws aur husband aapke follower hote😅..

  • @SheelaSharma-b2w
    @SheelaSharma-b2w 3 месяца назад +18

    True baat........I think this channel should have already crossed1 million by now......We wish your channel to explode...

  • @varshasjain9383
    @varshasjain9383 3 месяца назад +9

    Guessing the Video - Chhutiyon me Nani ke ghar 1 Mahine ke liye jana chahiye?

  • @InLovewithLife888
    @InLovewithLife888 3 месяца назад +14

    Mere papa hame jabardasti relatives ke yaha ek do mahine summers me le jate the aur hum 6 members hai.. I hated it bt dad said culture pata hona chahiye kyuki hum dusre state me rehte the.. i cant imagine relatives ki halat.. aur hamari bi kyuki hum introvert hai aur hated going there

    • @Indianajones3083
      @Indianajones3083 3 месяца назад +6

      Mufat ki aadat thi tumhare papa ki😂

    • @aishabavani8789
      @aishabavani8789 3 месяца назад +1

      Mere chacha chachi har saal aate the 1 mahine k liye par hamne kabhi unka ghar nahi dekha vo invite bhi nahi karte the kabhi. Mere ek ainty 2/3 saal mai ek baar aate the par achha khasa rukte the. Jab ham unke ghar ek hi baar gaye unka behavior sahi nahi tha phir hum kabhi nahi gaye. Halaki vo to 15 din rukte the hum 3/4 din mai nikal liye vanha se😂uske baad bhi vo kabhi kabar aate hai 1/2 din k liye hum nahi jaate kabhi bhi. Ek baar kisike ghar jao to pata chale unka behavior. Ese hi gadhamazduri mehmaan navaazi nahi karni chahiye. Mere chacha to sari shopping bhi mere papa k peso se karte the. Aur mere papa kanhi friend se maang k pese late the phir us friend ko salary aane par vapis dete the. Log kitne selfish hote hai.

  • @manjular3678
    @manjular3678 3 месяца назад +12

    Very interesting topic. Living with a relative is a nightmare. I dont invite them in the first place, but there are times when you have to bite the bullet and make the most of it. After all, family comes first, but Atithi Devo Bhava is not applicable in today's times. Thank you, guruji 🙏

  • @alameludevanathan7399
    @alameludevanathan7399 3 месяца назад +7

    True sir. It is like slavery for these people. Haan ek pause humhaare bache ke liye bhi nahi dete. Aake 10 samay ka Khaana bhi banana hai aur thaana bhi sunna hai.. Ek thappad dene ko mann kartha tha. Bas ye kabhi nahi mana karthe hai.. So aaj kal me apne se hi boldeti hun. Ghar me jagah hai magar mann me kisi ke liye nahi hai ab

  • @CheckMater007
    @CheckMater007 3 месяца назад +46

    Ek hack hai... If you stay with your friend who is married, and you're married too, and your friend also wants you as a couple to visit to relive old memories...
    Itna Gift leke jao jitna aap otherwise hotel me stay karte to wahaa kharcha dete (also assuming dhang dhang ke hotel me stay karte ho), usually koi mind nahi karta, especially jab everyone knows you're very old friends...
    That's a sad reality after getting married ye sab hacks karne padte hain apne hi dosto se milne ke liye, but theek hai, usually guys understand... 😅

    • @varshasjain9383
      @varshasjain9383 3 месяца назад +2

      I just want to know your opinion. Is it applied for ladies also? If they will also invite their old friends as a couple to get together... One month wife's friend is coming, then next month husband's friend is coming. Will it be Ok for a family? Then in between family members also visiting.

    • @CheckMater007
      @CheckMater007 3 месяца назад +2

      @@varshasjain9383 Yes it applies to ladies as well in my opinion... But my opinion may differ from someone else's opinion. In my opinion I value my family first, close friends second, relatives third, and other friends last... Everyone values their core family the most (me too), but given a choice between close friends and relatives, I choose close friends...

    • @varshasjain9383
      @varshasjain9383 3 месяца назад

      @@CheckMater007 Bhaut badiya..aapke ghar hamesha aapke aur aapki dharm patni ji ke family members, close friends, relatives, other friends aate jaate rahe.

    • @CheckMater007
      @CheckMater007 3 месяца назад

      @@varshasjain9383 Nope, it's just family and close friends, no relatives... And wo bhi kitna hi aate hain... Kabhi aate hain to accha hi lagta hai... I even take a few days off whenever they come...

    • @varshasjain9383
      @varshasjain9383 3 месяца назад

      @@CheckMater007 If with you, your wife and your family also that much cheerful...then it's great. I hope your wife's family and close friends also keep visiting you. I am happy that you can take leave as well.

  • @reenananwani9054
    @reenananwani9054 3 месяца назад +12

    Hello sir. Pls make video on NRI who travel to India n relatives send list of things to get from foreign country even though everything is avbl in India now a days. Thx.

    • @aishabavani8789
      @aishabavani8789 3 месяца назад +1

      To phir india mai hotels bhi hai NRI ko vanhi rukna chahiye taaki koi list na chipkade.

    • @aestheticheaven9561
      @aestheticheaven9561 3 месяца назад

      Ye hota hai ..really😂

  • @prashantsunariya7986
    @prashantsunariya7986 3 месяца назад +7

    Yeh cheeze abhi recently meri bhua ji aayi thi Ghar pe tab hamne face Kari thii😂😂😂
    Jaise ek ex meri bhua subha aa gyi thi mera exam tha mein exam Dene gya vapis ayaa so gya utha tab mujhe dhyan hii nahi or utne mein bhua ji mujhe 3 baar dekh ke chali gyi ke mein aa rakhi hoon or isko koi kadar hii nahi meri😂😂😂raat ko Tamasha kia unne papa ke saamne in baaton ka

  • @pallavi3594
    @pallavi3594 3 месяца назад +12

    Totally relatable..
    Due to interfere of unwanted guest I have remain deprived my dream .

  • @deepikashishodia3063
    @deepikashishodia3063 3 месяца назад +6

    Achanak guest pahuch jate hai, phir ek ko poori khani, 1 ko khichdi khani hai, adjust nhi karne, ya aane se pahle hi bata de oily,nhi khana, sugar free chahiye, local apne khar se kha kar chalna chahite, taki chai par khub charcha ka time mil sake😂, ghar 2 hi log, 1 kitchen me busy, guest bore hote ragte hai, but welcome full hona chahiye.

  • @Roopendrakumar
    @Roopendrakumar 3 месяца назад +3

    Sir kahi iska ulta bhi ho rha hai, relatives kai baar aram se aake reh pa rhe hai, apne hi mata pita nahi reh pa rhe. Kyuki unka terror jyada ho rakha hai. Parents jyada judge ker rhe hai. Kehte hai paisa barbaad ker rhe hai bache. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @_13456
    @_13456 3 месяца назад +2

    Sir a youtuber named Shwetabh Gangwar is becoming andrew tate of india..uski bhi class laga do. He is brainwashing young boys against women and marriage.

  • @simplesaluja4871
    @simplesaluja4871 3 месяца назад +3

    Aajkal relatives and friends toh pata nhi, blood relations hi aake tantarms karte hai. Guests ki tarah ka treatment chahte hai and 15 din se 6 months ya jyada rahte hai
    Iss topic ko bhi thoda clear karein

  • @vaishalinikale4591
    @vaishalinikale4591 2 месяца назад +1

    Perfect views Sir . N rightly said . I have the same views as yours . Why disturb someone's well settled life by giving out visits .. In today's world we have very good facilities at hotels.

  • @Divine_Connection_2
    @Divine_Connection_2 3 месяца назад +5

    So true sir. I am Genz and I don't allow any relatives to stay at my home. My parents don't consider this concept so i fight with them. Many relatives even Abuse me and my siblings.. so relatives and friends are the worst in this world...

  • @taniadas793
    @taniadas793 3 месяца назад +1

    I have watched ur saash bahu ka videos. Willing to send to my inlaws. Whatever u discussed happened to me.

  • @richie5969
    @richie5969 3 месяца назад +12

    My mama lives in Mumbai my mom always force me to stay or meet them i always denied because i know my mami even they have big house but still i don't want disturb her.

  • @singhS4242
    @singhS4242 3 месяца назад +1

    Oh sir chapal sun ker hasi aa gai hamare nandoi bolte के मेरे लिए New chapal lelo ye purani ho gai or. Saal me एक बार आते है बताओ 2 years मे chapal purani ho gai 😂😂

  • @Dreamer19988
    @Dreamer19988 3 месяца назад +10

    Same prblm…..relative aa jate ha aur mko room shodna ldta ha ….aur dikat hote ha coz sara sman hota ha room me mera personal bathroom ha 😏😏aur 5….5din Rhege fir…..hr mnth koi na koi aa he jata ha

  • @denzel9518
    @denzel9518 3 месяца назад +3

    Dear Amit ji. Your suggestion for people is very easy in these day. Most middle class people earns quite well and they can easily opt staying in guest houses/ hotels instead anchoring at a friend's and relatives place. 👍👍

  • @talhaabbas5832
    @talhaabbas5832 3 месяца назад +2

    When relatives stay at our house, I ask my parents to stop them hence I am being labeled as anti social, disobedient

  • @preetikulkarni5722
    @preetikulkarni5722 3 месяца назад +6

    Superb video, appreciate your efforts Amitji👌👍

  • @Hetal28
    @Hetal28 3 месяца назад +18

    I agree sir. Very good topic. Full life I saw my mom suffering as visitors kept coming and we ended up doing so much work. Hence my parents taught me not to do so.
    I don’t stay in any friend or relative house. I only visit my parents yearly holiday. But relatives keep visiting us and there is no way elders will spare us. Career mein bahut disturbance tha.

  • @rjk7919
    @rjk7919 3 месяца назад +2

    Guruji mere father Government officials they, wo dominate karte hai mujhe, mai private job wala hu , thoda garib hu . Kaise adjustment karu

  • @shuklabhattacharya5568
    @shuklabhattacharya5568 3 месяца назад +3

    Jaise ye video forward karungi, relatives n friends samajh ne lagange ki ye apne gher kisi ko nahi bulana chahti hai,indirect way

  • @shardasonwani2826
    @shardasonwani2826 3 месяца назад +3

    Mere yahan to sas sasur devar nanad sab rahte the aayedin kabhi kisi ka exam hai koi bimar koi ghoomne aaya hai sab thus jate the rishtedar ke alawa sab ke dost bhi mai woking hoon mere bachche rote rahte the aur udhar timardari me lage raho bahut chidh machati thi

  • @vaijoyantakundu9670
    @vaijoyantakundu9670 3 месяца назад +8

    Brilliant ....aise content sirf ek guruji se hi mill sakta hai...must watch for all middle class indians

  • @kavitapareek2793
    @kavitapareek2793 3 месяца назад +2

    मैं और मेरे पति आपके सभी वीडियो देखते हैं बहुत सीखने को मिलता और बच्चो के जरूर ⭐ लगा के भेजती चाहे देखे ना देखे बच्चे बोलते आप के फेवरेट बेटा बेटी तो देखते पर बहु दामाद कम पसंद आते आपके वीडियो पर सहमत ना हो तो हॉट डिक्शन होता

  • @lawanyaarvind2810
    @lawanyaarvind2810 3 месяца назад +3

    Very relevant topic .. Thank you Sir , for taking up this topic.... everyone is aware of this issue but it is very tricky to discuss this

  • @iamworstgamer
    @iamworstgamer 3 месяца назад +26

    isliye shadi shuda or girfriend wale dost ke yahan 1 ghante se jyada nahi rukta hu

    • @tsingh123
      @tsingh123 3 месяца назад +2

      Aise hi mat fekne lag akay kar har jagah

    • @omshjsjs
      @omshjsjs 3 месяца назад +1

      Yes bro even we don't like someone who stays for long..

  • @SACHINKUMAR-jd3ch
    @SACHINKUMAR-jd3ch 3 месяца назад +2

    अमितजी प्रोब्लम ये है की गेस्ट हसबैंड साइड से है या वाइफ साइड से

  • @rupeshghanekar2058
    @rupeshghanekar2058 3 месяца назад +2

    Because of judged by others, I stopped putting status and sharing..of your fabulous videos😮😮

  • @rashmifss2300
    @rashmifss2300 3 месяца назад +3

    I along with my siblings hv suffered a lot due to these guests...

  • @Priya-rf7ov
    @Priya-rf7ov 3 месяца назад +23

    Sango’s wife is a lucky woman.

  • @aestheticheaven9561
    @aestheticheaven9561 3 месяца назад +2

    Hum bhi stay kiya hai...jub chote thee parents ne yhi sikhya tha ...lakin ab samjh aaya ko nhi krna chaiye tha....😢😢 relatives ko disturb...but kuch relatives bhi family ki domination ke liye stay krwalete stay apne ghro me ... unki tareef hogi society me ye soch kr... but ulta hi ho jaata hai...

  • @dsinghr
    @dsinghr 3 месяца назад +3

    Please make a video how kids living abroad can support their old parents. Thanks

  • @YV-2000
    @YV-2000 3 месяца назад +2

    Paresh rawal and Ajay devgan ki movie bhi ispe

  • @Adhyatm_Bhakthi
    @Adhyatm_Bhakthi 3 месяца назад

    Sir mera question aapke is video se related nahin hai fir bhi mujhe yah question puchna hai kyunki main kisi aur se to nahin poochh sakti aap sir batayen bete Bahu ki duties to sab Bata dete Hain SAS sasur ke liye SAS sasur ki kya Farz hota hai Bahu bete ke liye please bataen ye to koi bata hi nahi hai

  • @rekhathakran2169
    @rekhathakran2169 3 месяца назад +2

    Actually aaj kal apne bachono ko bhi kisi relative ke ghar holidays mein na bheje to much better... because no your wards know sharing no other one. There create a comparison too.

  • @yashisingh7995
    @yashisingh7995 3 месяца назад +2

    One of the best things happened in my life is, I found you ❣️

  • @lakshmi3744
    @lakshmi3744 3 месяца назад +1

    I remember,how my husband gave our bedroom to his friend's brother in law and guest room he gave it to friend and his wife.

  • @ankietpatel6033
    @ankietpatel6033 3 месяца назад +2

    Thank you so much for eye opening discussion...
    Plz make a detail video on matrimony sites for marriage

  • @sandeepkumar-st4xu
    @sandeepkumar-st4xu 3 месяца назад +2

    Aaj to relatives khud le jaate hai ...baccho ko ...aur unko demotivational lectures de karke ghar bhege dete hai. Beware of these people they will seed your childs mind....aur aapko pata nahi chalega ..

  • @joyoflearning2124
    @joyoflearning2124 3 месяца назад +1

    Sango has 5 youtube channels I heard, which are they ? I can see only one.

  • @yathinkulal4575
    @yathinkulal4575 3 месяца назад

    SIRJI, Kindly make detailed video on CHILDLESS MARRIAGE LIFE

  • @sushmajuyal2053
    @sushmajuyal2053 3 месяца назад +4

    absolutely correct bahan beti ko bilkul nahi bheja jaa sakta ,koi safe nahi hai ,achche log bhee hoge ,no risk . 2:39

  • @vinu7171
    @vinu7171 3 месяца назад +7

    How to tell ppl don't come & stay in our house plz😢

    • @kshitij__kumar
      @kshitij__kumar 3 месяца назад +3

      by your mouth.

    • @Mahi-kx6ns
      @Mahi-kx6ns 3 месяца назад +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @vinu7171
      @vinu7171 3 месяца назад +1

      @@kshitij__kumar then dushmani shuru

  • @sumitbansal.
    @sumitbansal. 3 месяца назад +4

    We like the topics you pick up. It feels someone is speaking about the issues which no one dares to. All the best.

  • @natssinha
    @natssinha 3 месяца назад +1

    One should avoid living in relatives house and if u have to live, live and find new house asap

  • @Sai-q4d
    @Sai-q4d 3 месяца назад +1

    Videsh me basey log apne relatives ko kyo nahi bulate us par bhi ek video banaye.

  • @nusratlines4947
    @nusratlines4947 3 месяца назад

    Boss I newly joined your channel... And I'm surprised that what a quality content you r giving.. really appreciated.

  • @motivationalvideos1713
    @motivationalvideos1713 3 месяца назад +2

    Excellent, I will share this videio on face book

  • @RajeshAllem8256
    @RajeshAllem8256 3 месяца назад +2

    Totally agree with your thought process and I had similar experiences in my family in my experience. Thanks for opening the Pandora box

  • @nabeelarora
    @nabeelarora 3 месяца назад

    U know u had me at “1 time pe 25 roti and ek mahila 4 din me 25 nai bnati”.. During childhood, in joint family my mum n chachi made 25+ rotis each time for dinner n breakfast and today me and husband live separately and its true, i dont even make 25 rotis in a week! 😅

  • @nishikumari860
    @nishikumari860 3 месяца назад

    You mentioned abt the correct next problem to b discussed. When inlaws come and stay for months at ur home.
    In my case, 13 years of marriage we have not gone to my inlaws place for more than 2nights bcs they never call us but they come n stay with us in 2bhk flat for 2months every year n as per their convenience. My son 8 years old have not gone ever to his grandparents house. They don't bother if we are happy or suffering bcs of them staying here. Even on hinting politely to leave, they never do so.
    I feel my life stops during that period. It is a mental trauma. They just sit n enjoy their vacation

  • @binamahto9875
    @binamahto9875 3 месяца назад +3

    Tusiii great ho sir🫡👍

  • @wolfgang4429
    @wolfgang4429 3 месяца назад +2

    Mujhe bachpan me lagta tha mera khaandaan bahut acha hai. 17 ki umar me hi pata chal gaya mai bilkul akela hu. Ab isi ko apni taakat bana raha hu. Jindagi ko samjhunga aur kuch acha karke jaunga.

    • @roofsat2535
      @roofsat2535 3 месяца назад

      Main aur 10 saal bada hoon aur ab sochta hoon toh baat kaaafi badi hai.

  • @abdullahbashir6652
    @abdullahbashir6652 3 месяца назад

    I am from Pakistan and I am suffering from this very situation in my home but I can't say a word because of my parents ....

  • @hemangiganacharya6936
    @hemangiganacharya6936 3 месяца назад

    Sir could you please talk about big family 4-5 siblings and there problem

  • @foramramwaladesai5911
    @foramramwaladesai5911 2 месяца назад

    You are very true sir, ek episode is per bhi banana k FORIEGN K RELATIVE K SATH APNE TRADITIONAL LOG VACATION KRNE JATE H JAB KI UNKA ROUTINE CHAL RAHA HOTA H AUR FIR RELATION KHARAB HOTE H ZAGDE HOTE H.

  • @madhursharma5049
    @madhursharma5049 3 месяца назад +2

    Bhai aisa hai ham bhi kahi jaate hai ya koi hamare yah aata hai na tab bhi shagan pakda dete hai bacho ko ya koi gift ya kuch toh ek undertone me ye cheez transactional hi hoti hai, the thing is apne cousin ya relative ke saath time spend karna

  • @rajeshsiva6533
    @rajeshsiva6533 3 месяца назад +1

    Staying at a place other than relative is more economical, non stay visit is OK

  • @alkapradhan806
    @alkapradhan806 3 месяца назад

    Absolutely true as I have gone through hell with relatives staying & in that process had miscarriage.

  • @IamRahul_007
    @IamRahul_007 3 месяца назад +6

    Zabardastttttt Mazzaaaaa Aa Gayaaaaa 💫🔥💫

  • @MeRaa081
    @MeRaa081 2 месяца назад

    Apne to man ki bt kehdi...meri maa ki life hell ho gyi . But i believe ki koi humare liye kyu stand lega jb aurate khud bewkuf hai.. perfect example is mother. Office jane se phle 40-50 roti bnati thi aur shm ko bhi wesa . Rishtedaro ke to ghr b bas gye aur paisa b khub bach gya aur jese mauka mila taunt b marte hain aur bht showoff bhi krte hain... Despite been a working woman she allowed my parents relatives and worked for them.. and when it comes to our time . They even don't ask...cherry on the top she gave my fathers relatives daughters 2-3 tola gold. Phle i used to feel proud ki meri mummy itni mahan hai.. lekin now i know.. it was the biggest chutiyapa.. and she also knows ka truth but she is devi ... My father taunts her.. doesnt gave moral support to us .. sara kam nikal lo fr kaho ki tmne kiya hi kya hai...bt still i believe jo jiske sath hora wo uski glti hai because that is allowing someone to interfere and control life...
    Rishtedaro ne pichle 30-32 sal se dharamshala bna rakha hai.. aur waiting room .. just because hum city me rehte hain.

  • @meleens
    @meleens 3 месяца назад +2

    Yes.. rich relatives come to stay and for holidays as we live in a tear 2 city...

  • @graphicpoint4386
    @graphicpoint4386 3 месяца назад

    I am facing it My In laws relatives coming in my home bar bar isse frustrate ho rha h I am facing privacy issues

  • @abhinavyadav8347
    @abhinavyadav8347 3 месяца назад

    Clarify kar dijiye sir ,kon kon aayega rishte me.. chacha,mama consider honge blood relation me?

  • @prisurya1
    @prisurya1 3 месяца назад

    More issues sir...cook aati hai uske yahan...apne se banakar khana nahi khilaya...muslim/ hindu cook hai...non veg nahi khilaya...cab ka payment nahi kiya

  • @singhS4242
    @singhS4242 3 месяца назад

    Sir एक video nanad पर b banao vo b aaker mera gr है मेरा gr है बोल ker situation disturb ker dete hai sare gr k

  • @ABCXYZ-nd3kk
    @ABCXYZ-nd3kk 3 месяца назад

    Make video on dispute between brother and sister property disputes - Brother don't want to give his sister property rights to her on anseter property

  • @gaurank8537
    @gaurank8537 2 месяца назад

    Sir plzzzz make a video on how to tackle the relationship between brothers so that in future there is no problem

  • @saila8020
    @saila8020 3 месяца назад +1

    Nowadays you should not stay with blood relatives (some or almost all),thanks for insightful video

  • @anshuthakur5909
    @anshuthakur5909 3 месяца назад +1

    ❤..