ISTJs and their damn budgets

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  • Опубликовано: 11 ноя 2024

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  • @dew3968
    @dew3968 2 года назад +58

    That's exactly what I've been seeing consistently from Si. "Hey, there's a better, bigger, more appealing Sensory thing I could give you. Do you want it?" "No, I think I should climb the latter step by step, I'm not ready yet. I prefer MY things". At first I thought it was a blast-last thing, but I've figured, with time, this is related to Si. As a guy who has Se, I cannot comprehend it. How in the world can someone get so attached to sensory, and make it so personal, as to prefer, for example, an old house in the countryside, where one's family has lived for years, instead of a big and modern one in a good, busy and full-of-resources urban area. But when I look at myself with my Ni-Ti systems, I totally get it. Afterall, I'm Oi too. But even though it's the same human need, per say, it's still so weird to see how Si-Fi processes it. Outerworldly, to say the least. They don't wanna update their surroundings, they can't stand more than expected coming in, EVEN IF IT'S BETTER (spectrally speaking).
    I oftentimes get the picture of old Hershel, from The Walking Dead, leaving his farm at the last second because it took it being attracked, burned down and destroyed by zombies for him to finally decide to leave.

  • @jerlinej3516
    @jerlinej3516 2 года назад +42

    It looks like Sleep last turns into a therapy session. There's lots of "Oh, I never thought about that (for myself)."

    • @aubreys1675
      @aubreys1675 2 года назад +6

      i can totally see this. I have a couple EJ sleep last friends and they have both made comments about our conversations being unintentionally therapeutic

    • @LemonMeIon
      @LemonMeIon 2 года назад +3

      Sucks for a sleep kid with sleep last parents... Lots of thinking and questions without any answers.

    • @hirsch4155
      @hirsch4155 2 года назад +3

      @@LemonMeIon Yeah that would suck. It’s tough when we don’t get some affirmation within the family unit , for the way we function.

    • @johnniedilangcruz9287
      @johnniedilangcruz9287 2 года назад +1

      @@LemonMeIon oh Boy, this comment just saw me. Damn. I'm stíll struggling to put sense into my parent's head.

  • @IndieAuthorX
    @IndieAuthorX 2 года назад +16

    Yeah, I think I got caught up in thinking I was a decider because of all the back and forth decider drama conversations I had in my head. Meanwhile, the observer crises in my life were (and are) so bad that I just sweep them under the rug.

  • @kimmi9697
    @kimmi9697 2 года назад +13

    this is a great example for me of how ppl can understand words differently. when he says vision, i was thinking of a future ideal state. at which point, i would works backwards to decide the sensory things that would need to come to fruition. for me, vision is seeing as far ahead as you are capable of and seeing the branching possible realities and then, according to Fi, choosing the one or more that you would like to guide towards. it's sort of like, always having at least a hazy idea of what you would do when confronted by a what if scenario. the precise sensory steps you would take can always be worked out at any time and are unpredictable but moveable

  • @fernandesadrienne28
    @fernandesadrienne28 2 года назад +4

    Omg i LOVE this budget guy! My ISTJ bf and i (infj) are so frugal with spending even before knowing one another. We are big on saving and investing. We have even decided to NOT have a reception for our wedding (coz we feel it's a waste to throw money away just coz of one day). I remember getting anxiety planning the wedding (since 3 years). Actually we decided first to not have a celebration (all thanks to covid for making that idea possible). But our parents were and still are like "ur the only child. He's the youngest son. How can u not celebrate". So we began planning, i got anxiety and then i said i cannot do this. So we canned the whole reception. And now we are firm with our folks about it. I used to also make a budget when my folks wud go out of town (when i was younger) and leave cash. I made sure to not spend more than half of what they left with me. And fast forward to now.. my ISTJ bf makes the budget for every month too. But obviously his is more detailed and i have planned to do that once we get married.

  • @TheRealSly14Cat
    @TheRealSly14Cat Год назад +2

    I stepped away from the community for a while, but WOW it's nice to finally see a male type cousin. One of the only things that upset me about getting typed by Shan and Dave is that I didn't have any male type twins, and so I couldn't really see how I come off to other people. Also I swear to god, he kinda looks like me... I don't like it.
    P.S. Yes I do talk about budgets a lot. And yes they are important.
    FF-Si/Te-BP/C(S)

  • @diyak2182
    @diyak2182 2 года назад +3

    I love Shan so much! 😂 I relate so much to feeling annoyed/overwhelmed by the sleep lasts sometimes haha

  • @dougscience6361
    @dougscience6361 2 года назад +9

    I resonate with his mind set!!!

  • @LauraLouLou
    @LauraLouLou Год назад

    Dave was talking about me with the laundry list of sensory defending Ni. Hahaha!

  • @morningstarhomestead
    @morningstarhomestead 2 года назад +6

    Enfj. I hate budgets. And planners.

    • @BrockMak
      @BrockMak 2 года назад +1

      INTP. I hate budgets and planners, yet I grew up in a family of accountants.

    • @morningstarhomestead
      @morningstarhomestead 2 года назад

      @@BrockMak same here. An uncle, a grandfather, brother and Mom all studied accounting. The gene skipped me I guess

    • @wisamrohilina3006
      @wisamrohilina3006 2 года назад +1

      Sharing the same feelings as an INTP who doesnt like to be limited.. but i am married to an ISTJ and i let the budgeting for him, he's way better at it than me

    • @BrockMak
      @BrockMak 2 года назад +1

      @@morningstarhomestead I did the courses, but I just find that work WAY to restrictive.

  • @tsnevtbl
    @tsnevtbl 2 года назад +4

    Is this a roundabout way, INTJ scheme of telling us to like and subscribe?

  • @MaheshKommareddi
    @MaheshKommareddi 2 года назад +2

    I hit the bell button! LOL

  • @jennieanddavis
    @jennieanddavis 2 года назад +6

    Lol so where is the subscribe button supposed to go, if not immediately after the valuable parts of the video? 😅😅

    • @tsnevtbl
      @tsnevtbl 2 года назад +4

      It wasn't after, it was placed right in the middle as the guy is having a vulnerable moment.

  • @felipedelfino1353
    @felipedelfino1353 19 дней назад

    My dads an ISTJ consume last accountant, I’m starting a clothing line and he just don’t get it

  • @infernal..
    @infernal.. Год назад

    Why do i relate

  • @ya-...
    @ya-... 2 года назад +5

    So I have the fear that there is no meaning to any of the paths which I can pick in life. That life most likely was better before civilization because back then we atleast had an objective of surviving and expanding. Nowadays it doesn’t matter which way I choose and there is no path that is already set for me. It’s hard to decide what to do when nothing you do has meaning.
    Would this be demon intuiton?

    • @dianadias3
      @dianadias3 2 года назад +2

      I don't think so.. I think it is Neas a second function..
      You can see all the possibilities, just find it hard to choose and be satisfied with one cause, there are so many possibilities

    • @yes7855
      @yes7855 2 года назад +2

      I don’t think it has no meaning but that’s up to you to decide. What do you wanna do? It doesn’t have to be the typical kind of “meaningful”.
      That’s not much of an answer but I think it’s really a process you‘ll just go through. Maybe you’re still young? You’ll know what you like to do with time and experience.

    • @yes7855
      @yes7855 2 года назад +3

      If it helps I try not to think about what meaning my life will have in terms of the whole grand scale of the world and instead just the scale I live in, my life and surroundings. How can I possibly see the whole world through my measly eyes? It’s all just imagination. You could think that when you zoom out you see there’s not much meaningful for you in the grand scheme, but that’s imagination. You don’t really *know* what the world is like on that large a scale… you just imagine it. Through your experience.
      If you didn’t “know” about the size of the Earth and the cosmos, you’d think the whole world of your vicinities. Just like the olden times. And that’s still how we are now, we just have more science and technology to fuel our imagination of the world, imo. You don’t know what you don’t know.

    • @dianadias3
      @dianadias3 2 года назад +2

      Meaning being validation from outsource??

    • @ya-...
      @ya-... 2 года назад +1

      @@yes7855 Very true. It might just be because I haven’t found what I really want to do everyday and what to spend all my time on.
      I feel like I have found out that I want to be apart of something bigger and something that changes other peoples perspective. However I haven’t found exactly what kind of thing that is.
      I think the perspective you have is very good, but it’s really hard to implement. It is kind of the same as seeing yourself, you are born to think that you can see yourself but you can’t see yourself.
      Maybe I should just try to wait and get experience and not stress about finding what I want to do.

  • @sincere91005
    @sincere91005 2 года назад +2

    Devils?🤔

  • @zora4610
    @zora4610 2 года назад +2

    I think it's funny that you should befriend the demons and betray your saviors. It sound like you should join the dark side

  • @KKajmak
    @KKajmak 2 года назад +2

    Damn Shannon is so hot lmao

  • @motivationstream4075
    @motivationstream4075 2 года назад +1

    What type of personality is the most comfortable in their surroundings?

  • @zulikkowalski3547
    @zulikkowalski3547 2 года назад +3

    I'm not a fan of the people as well

  • @Hanginthere31
    @Hanginthere31 2 года назад +1

    Right now we need to know how to work together with myers briggs n ennegram strengths... we all have weaknesses n strength... how do we come together
    help others thru our strengths thru this hurricane ian🙏
    How our stress 😩 is causing 😲 thru myers briggs n ennegram
    Ur videos r an inspiration to others n bring hope thru awareness... we can't change others though we can change ourselves...
    Fav quote as of right now... I can only think of... in ian mess...
    do what u can right where u are... do what u can with what u have...
    Ty ❣️

  • @muhsinashardow998
    @muhsinashardow998 2 года назад

    6:47

  • @AnkaeLah
    @AnkaeLah 2 года назад +1

    Anthony looks more like a mature ENFP to me.

  • @Enigma96969
    @Enigma96969 2 года назад +1

    👍🏻

  • @David9660523
    @David9660523 Год назад +2

    This guy is so clearly an ENTJ. I have an ISTJ cousin that I'm very close to, and he does not talk/act like him at all. Also, no ISTJ would be trepidatious about earning more money...

    • @orangeziggy348
      @orangeziggy348 Год назад

      yeah its really hard for me to see him as an ISTJ.

    • @TheRealSly14Cat
      @TheRealSly14Cat Год назад +1

      @@orangeziggy348 I got typed by Shan and Dave as 1 coin off from him (I'm FF) and he does very much talk like me.

  • @LittleMew133
    @LittleMew133 2 года назад +6

    ISTJs need to learn that to raise their income significantly is superior to budgeting for the small expenses.

    • @StanTheWoz
      @StanTheWoz 2 года назад +2

      this one hits close to home, haha. Reminds me of someone I know

  • @Samira-rj4ke
    @Samira-rj4ke 2 года назад

    AOoooooooo🎉

  • @shmlanda
    @shmlanda 2 года назад +1

    :)

  • @wefweqr3434
    @wefweqr3434 2 года назад +4

    His Body language is just not like ISTJs, He seems to be high on openness, ISTJs are stiff , they try to mimik people but not at this level of acting, Mute video and watch ""NO WAY.

  • @ACrazedPerson
    @ACrazedPerson 2 года назад +1

    What is the sleep last / sleep energy discussed at around 5:30-6:00?