I think a lot of men have some type of narcistic behaviors. But the truth is when you heal youre wounds you attract kindhearted people. This is what my life shows me today❤
Ismael your analysis of bad behaviour of men are the best ever I heard… I study such behaviours .. your clear and insightful way of unravelling the complexities of the unbalanced relationship between woman and man is truly exceptional..
Thank you for always spreading awareness! You just described my ex-boyfriend from when I was 18 (and the only boyfriend I’ve ever had in my 20 years of life). Thankfully with the help of my friends and mental health professionals I managed to get out of the relationship.
It takes incredible strength and self-awareness to walk away from a situation like that, especially at such a young age. I’m so glad you had the support of your friends and mental health professionals to help you through it.
100% spot on! Thank you for covering this important topic. I would have avoided so much heartache understanding this years ago. I hope your video saves many women from a similar fate.
There are some bad guys out there. Promises you everything, but in reality they were never planning to stick around, just for the fun! A good man with values and morals won't. Go for this type of man! Most of men don't play games, no BS...Fast majority of men don't play with your heart, only the players and badboys causing drama. So chose wisely.
So Right Ismael, the manipulator gets such an ego boost from all of their manipulative ways and if we women aren’t aware we fall every time, unless we watch you ! So than you for your wonderful words of wisdom.xx
You are so right! Of course. I was not myself when I met my past male three years ago . I was very fragile, as I had just lost my only child, my son, to suicide. He contacted me, was an old time acquaintance that I went to school with. I was a prime target. Found out much later, after I broke up with him abruptly, that he was a "master manipulator!" He was very convincing. He should have received a 🏆 at the Academy Awards. Lesson lesrned, unfortunately . Very painful.💔
Astonishing video as always, at first i wasn't really into watching such relationship experts video, but it turned out to be a blessing in so many ways, 10 years ago i was with a narcissist and i broke things up 4 years ago, found someone who truly cared for me and i messed things up because i was trauma bonded. then i started watching a lot of you tube videos and some Christian videos about relationships and marriages, i learnt a lot, and something actually happened as well, i was able to get my ex back with the help of watching Matthew Hussey and Courtney Ryan videos and reaching out to a spiritual counselor.
Thank you so much for this video! I know a man who is trying to manipulate me like this, but I do not have any proof, since he does it so smoothly. The only person who I can talk to about him, is my husband, who understands me. Every time I see the narcissist I mentioned, I try to grey-rock him, but it's hard, because he is picking on every little detail about me and it is really unpleasant. People love him, because he is always funny and making jokes, but with me he is just mean. Either he likes me and wants to manipulate me or he just simply hates me - it annoys me deeply. Can't wait to get rid of his presence, for as long as I can. But it's hard, cause we have the same friends.
Try a narcissist who is so insecure with himself he accuses you of cheating on him as soon as you walk out the door without him even if I was just going shopping or even work. One who starts a fight with you when you bring friends over so they never want to come over ever again, therefore I never see my friends again. One who sabotages your car so you can't go anywhere on your own unless you want to walk everywhere with two kids in tow....yes, I've been there and it will NEVER happen again. I'm 100% onto them, I see one sign and I'm gone.
Wow, that’s incredibly tough-I’m so sorry you went through that. The level of control and isolation is terrifying, but your strength in recognizing the signs and refusing to go through it again is powerful.
i kept seeing this book pop up in youtube comments and even in random convos with friends. it felt like everyone was talking about it, so i finally gave in and found Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki. it wasn’t easy to get my hands on, but once i did, everything started changing. my dating life finally feels effortless, my finances are improving, and i’m in a better headspace than i’ve been in years. honestly, i’m so glad i listened to all the buzz
everywhere i looked, people were mentioning this book in comments, and even a friend brought it up. i ignored it for a while, but curiosity got the best of me, and i finally tracked it down. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t what i expected-it was so much better. two weeks later, i’m attracting the kind of energy i’ve always wanted. my relationships, health, and even my work have all leveled up. i see now why everyone was raving about it.
Why I felt like you experienced this kind of person. I'm so sorry for saying this way. I just felt it. Whatever it is just cheer up. I think we as humans have all this narcissistic behavior at some point. But not to the extent that you have to control a person's actions at all times that's an extreme. I watched a video somewhere that says all of us have narcissistic behavior at some point.
I came across to a post from a female coach for women about affirmations and self concept. I used to apply it on myself like My energy is so magnetic. I change people's lives for the better with my presence. Does this mean a manipulative tactics? Whereas i see it as affirmations and how you see yourself can also have an impact of how other people see you.For me it's not a manipulation if you have it with a good intentions. I've watched to many different spiritual teachings where coaches have in common that in this world we're all vibrating. How you trewat yourself and perceive yourself has also had a positive impact to other people on how they treat you if you think positively about yourself.Although i also experience being manipulated from the father of my kids and that also i tend to get angry when he's lying to me and not responsible for his obligations. Not for a reason to manipulate him but rather to push him to be responsible enough than prioritizing his peers. But sometimes it's better not to say anything no matter how we soeak our own truth. We can't fully understand unless we've been there on that journey. But it's also about understanding each other, creating boundaries to each other while showing respect to each other's differences.
Good video. I can actually say that in my experience, yes, the control freak/manipulators will have all those attributes. Its not only men btw. Friends can also behave like this. They get cut off
i kept seeing people in youtube comments and even a few friends talking about this book, and i was like, what’s all the hype about? i wasn’t even gonna bother, but after hearing about it so much, i gave in. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t easy to find, but wow, it was worth it. after just two weeks, my dating life completely turned around, money started flowing in ways i never expected, and i feel more confident than ever. i didn’t think a book could actually do that, but here we are
i swear, every time i scrolled through youtube, someone was talking about this book. at first, i thought it was just overhyped, but then even my friend mentioned it, so i had to check it out. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t easy to find, but man, it was worth the search. in just a couple of weeks, i’ve seen huge shifts-people treat me differently, my confidence is on another level, and things in my life finally feel like they’re falling into place
You r really amazing and the bestest one to make me realise that where im wrong even in friendship Today i found ur channel unintentionally and im feeling very blessed thankyou so much ❤❤
Sir, I'm from India and I realy love your videos its realy informative Sir i have a question please tell me how to confront men when he is realy upset Please make a video on this topic
I know some who would literally choose a shy, polite, soft woman with 0 achievements over an arrogant career woman to control her but also some women like to be controlled.
What about the women that do the same exact thing to men? You think you’re marrying the most amazing wonderful woman but when you get married, they change on you. They are now nagging, bossy, manipulative gaslighting and don’t want intimacy after having babies. Explain that one to me please? Women can be just as narcissistic, if not even more.
👍 Super vidéo, utile bien que courte, approche intéressante ! 🙂 C'est très délicat à identifier et à gérer ce genre de personnes toxiques et dangereuses et encore plus de s'en protéger, mais mieux vaut prévenir que guérir : pour faire face aux manipulateurs, au harcèlement, aux personnes dominantes et au manque de respect en tous genres, il existe des solutions, des techniques, afin de préserver sa dignité et d'éviter que ça n'aille trop loin. Personnellement, je conseille le livre "SE FAIRE RESPECTER", de Nathan Stone. Il y a tout ce qu'il faut savoir, c'est le livre le plus complet pour faire face à des situations toxiques, c'est clair, pas de discours superflu, le top. Il cerne bien tous les aspects et ça peut convenir à tout le monde, c'est ça qui est bien ! 👌
Self deceived people justify their actions; it's the whole world's fault they had to suffer. With disorders, their mother is either their saint and priority that no wife can ever match up to; or the villain that appears inside every woman they get involved with.
I think a lot of men have some type of narcistic behaviors. But the truth is when you heal youre wounds you attract kindhearted people. This is what my life shows me today❤
Thanks for all the comments.🙏
Yrr ak ldke ne propose kia ab puri trah se avoid kr rha h
Propose krke ghosting mod p chala gya😂😂
The patriarchy is built on narcissism.
Ismael your analysis of bad behaviour of men are the best ever I heard… I study such behaviours .. your clear and insightful way of unravelling the complexities of the unbalanced relationship between woman and man is truly exceptional..
Thank you so much for your kind words. I truly appreciate your support and interest in understanding these dynamics.
You have just described my ex husband. My Mama said not to marry him, she was a good judge.
Narcissistic men ruined a large part of my life. Knowing their tactics is SO important
Thank you for always spreading awareness! You just described my ex-boyfriend from when I was 18 (and the only boyfriend I’ve ever had in my 20 years of life). Thankfully with the help of my friends and mental health professionals I managed to get out of the relationship.
It takes incredible strength and self-awareness to walk away from a situation like that, especially at such a young age. I’m so glad you had the support of your friends and mental health professionals to help you through it.
watching this with my mom. she liked it and called you interesting! she loved and laughed about how you clapped and said “what a performance” lol
She sounds lovely.
100% spot on! Thank you for covering this important topic. I would have avoided so much heartache understanding this years ago. I hope your video saves many women from a similar fate.
🤯 Wow. Insight. Would love to hear your take on how to avoid falling into codependency.
Thanks you so much for talking about this
There are some bad guys out there. Promises you everything, but in reality they were never planning to stick around, just for the fun! A good man with values and morals won't. Go for this type of man! Most of men don't play games, no BS...Fast majority of men don't play with your heart, only the players and badboys causing drama. So chose wisely.
So Right Ismael, the manipulator gets such an ego boost from all of their manipulative ways and if we women aren’t aware we fall every time, unless we watch you ! So than you for your wonderful words of wisdom.xx
Absolutely. Awareness is everything-once you see the patterns, you can’t unsee them.
You are so right! Of course. I was not myself when I met my past male three years ago . I was very fragile, as I had just lost my only child, my son, to suicide. He contacted me, was an old time acquaintance that I went to school with. I was a prime target.
Found out much later, after I broke up with him abruptly, that he was a "master manipulator!" He was very convincing. He should have received a 🏆 at the Academy Awards. Lesson lesrned, unfortunately . Very painful.💔
So much good information Ismael. I really like the way you explain things.
Glad it was helpful. Thanks for your comment.
Astonishing video as always, at first i wasn't really into watching such relationship experts video, but it turned out to be a blessing in so many ways, 10 years ago i was with a narcissist and i broke things up 4 years ago, found someone who truly cared for me and i messed things up because i was trauma bonded. then i started watching a lot of you tube videos and some Christian videos about relationships and marriages, i learnt a lot, and something actually happened as well, i was able to get my ex back with the help of watching Matthew Hussey and Courtney Ryan videos and reaching out to a spiritual counselor.
THANK YOU!!!
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Thank you so much for this video! I know a man who is trying to manipulate me like this, but I do not have any proof, since he does it so smoothly. The only person who I can talk to about him, is my husband, who understands me.
Every time I see the narcissist I mentioned, I try to grey-rock him, but it's hard, because he is picking on every little detail about me and it is really unpleasant. People love him, because he is always funny and making jokes, but with me he is just mean.
Either he likes me and wants to manipulate me or he just simply hates me - it annoys me deeply. Can't wait to get rid of his presence, for as long as I can. But it's hard, cause we have the same friends.
It sounds like you're in a really tough situation. Trust your instincts, keep setting boundaries, and lean on your husband for support.
@SaveTheMessenger Thank you. I will.
Try a narcissist who is so insecure with himself he accuses you of cheating on him as soon as you walk out the door without him even if I was just going shopping or even work. One who starts a fight with you when you bring friends over so they never want to come over ever again, therefore I never see my friends again. One who sabotages your car so you can't go anywhere on your own unless you want to walk everywhere with two kids in tow....yes, I've been there and it will NEVER happen again. I'm 100% onto them, I see one sign and I'm gone.
Wow, that’s incredibly tough-I’m so sorry you went through that. The level of control and isolation is terrifying, but your strength in recognizing the signs and refusing to go through it again is powerful.
@@SaveTheMessenger Thank you, I appreciate that.
thanks Ismael. many things make me remember and enlightened me. but now i know so many people are manipulative..
Ismaellll!!! Thank u thank thank u! 💯💯💯💛
i kept seeing this book pop up in youtube comments and even in random convos with friends. it felt like everyone was talking about it, so i finally gave in and found Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki. it wasn’t easy to get my hands on, but once i did, everything started changing. my dating life finally feels effortless, my finances are improving, and i’m in a better headspace than i’ve been in years. honestly, i’m so glad i listened to all the buzz
everywhere i looked, people were mentioning this book in comments, and even a friend brought it up. i ignored it for a while, but curiosity got the best of me, and i finally tracked it down. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t what i expected-it was so much better. two weeks later, i’m attracting the kind of energy i’ve always wanted. my relationships, health, and even my work have all leveled up. i see now why everyone was raving about it.
This message was spot on! Keep up the good work!
Wow! So true. Thank you to help us out there.
this one super good and true. Great work! Many women can use this. Thank you.
Why I felt like you experienced this kind of person. I'm so sorry for saying this way. I just felt it. Whatever it is just cheer up. I think we as humans have all this narcissistic behavior at some point. But not to the extent that you have to control a person's actions at all times that's an extreme. I watched a video somewhere that says all of us have narcissistic behavior at some point.
Ismeal this is perfect info, thanks bro
I came across to a post from a female coach for women about affirmations and self concept. I used to apply it on myself like My energy is so magnetic. I change people's lives for the better with my presence. Does this mean a manipulative tactics? Whereas i see it as affirmations and how you see yourself can also have an impact of how other people see you.For me it's not a manipulation if you have it with a good intentions. I've watched to many different spiritual teachings where coaches have in common that in this world we're all vibrating. How you trewat yourself and perceive yourself has also had a positive impact to other people on how they treat you if you think positively about yourself.Although i also experience being manipulated from the father of my kids and that also i tend to get angry when he's lying to me and not responsible for his obligations. Not for a reason to manipulate him but rather to push him to be responsible enough than prioritizing his peers. But sometimes it's better not to say anything no matter how we soeak our own truth. We can't fully understand unless we've been there on that journey. But it's also about understanding each other, creating boundaries to each other while showing respect to each other's differences.
Good video. I can actually say that in my experience, yes, the control freak/manipulators will have all those attributes. Its not only men btw. Friends can also behave like this. They get cut off
true, it's both men and women
i kept seeing people in youtube comments and even a few friends talking about this book, and i was like, what’s all the hype about? i wasn’t even gonna bother, but after hearing about it so much, i gave in. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t easy to find, but wow, it was worth it. after just two weeks, my dating life completely turned around, money started flowing in ways i never expected, and i feel more confident than ever. i didn’t think a book could actually do that, but here we are
i swear, every time i scrolled through youtube, someone was talking about this book. at first, i thought it was just overhyped, but then even my friend mentioned it, so i had to check it out. Magnetic Aura by takeshi mizuki wasn’t easy to find, but man, it was worth the search. in just a couple of weeks, i’ve seen huge shifts-people treat me differently, my confidence is on another level, and things in my life finally feel like they’re falling into place
Thank you Ismael ❤
You r really amazing and the bestest one to make me realise that where im wrong even in friendship
Today i found ur channel unintentionally and im feeling very blessed thankyou so much ❤❤
Waooooo great knowledge u have ❤❤❤❤
Thank you for spreading awareness
Sir, I'm from India and I realy love your videos its realy informative
Sir i have a question please tell me how to confront men when he is realy upset
Please make a video on this topic
I know some who would literally choose a shy, polite, soft woman with 0 achievements over an arrogant career woman to control her but also some women like to be controlled.
'You are not responsible to fix soneone rlse's trauma.'
Tganks
The more I learn about men, the more I'm happy that I've never had one 😅
Yeah, I saw that RUclipsr before. He infuriated me.
What about the women that do the same exact thing to men? You think you’re marrying the most amazing wonderful woman but when you get married, they change on you. They are now nagging, bossy, manipulative gaslighting and don’t want intimacy after having babies. Explain that one to me please? Women can be just as narcissistic, if not even more.
Sounds like big bad mood problems..
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👍 Super vidéo, utile bien que courte, approche intéressante ! 🙂 C'est très délicat à identifier et à gérer ce genre de personnes toxiques et dangereuses et encore plus de s'en protéger, mais mieux vaut prévenir que guérir : pour faire face aux manipulateurs, au harcèlement, aux personnes dominantes et au manque de respect en tous genres, il existe des solutions, des techniques, afin de préserver sa dignité et d'éviter que ça n'aille trop loin. Personnellement, je conseille le livre "SE FAIRE RESPECTER", de Nathan Stone. Il y a tout ce qu'il faut savoir, c'est le livre le plus complet pour faire face à des situations toxiques, c'est clair, pas de discours superflu, le top. Il cerne bien tous les aspects et ça peut convenir à tout le monde, c'est ça qui est bien ! 👌
I don't believe in real relationships no more
Do they believe in God and hell? Do they not have a mother? U dont need a sister or daughter to respect females
Self deceived people justify their actions; it's the whole world's fault they had to suffer. With disorders, their mother is either their saint and priority that no wife can ever match up to; or the villain that appears inside every woman they get involved with.
@ashton1952 yes pretty girl the poor Me attitude which is weak if u take it out on ppl but God will judge soon .. what goes around comes around
Awesome
I get so much from your teaching
I agree that a session re : codependency would be fabulous
Thank you a million times, lsmael