Psychiatrist Breaks Down Psychopaths From Movies & TV | GQ

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  • Forensic psychiatrist Eric Bender breaks down psychopaths from movies and TV, including 'American Psycho,' 'Star Wars Ep III: Revenge of the Sith,' 'Silence of the Lambs,' 'You,' 'Blue Velvet' and 'Misery.'
    00:00 Intro
    00:34 'American Psycho'
    02:40 'Star Wars Ep III: Revenge of the Sith'
    08:43 'Silence of the Lambs'
    13:03 'You'
    15:51 'Blue Velvet'
    17:50 'Misery'
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  • @RogueJyn
    @RogueJyn 2 года назад +19873

    Anakin: *kills younglings*
    Eric: "that's a major red flag"

  • @emmamix
    @emmamix 2 года назад +21177

    Describing a psychopath's routine as something you might see in GQ _while doing a video for GQ_ has to be the greatest power move I've ever seen.

    • @wediddy1624
      @wediddy1624 2 года назад +593

      Yes this was like a low key diss to gq lol

    • @OriginalPiMan
      @OriginalPiMan 2 года назад +492

      And then GQ was not so insulted by it, so they were willing to keep that defacto advertising in the final edit.

    • @tapiocaweasel
      @tapiocaweasel 2 года назад +35

      Under rated comment

    • @GoblinxChild
      @GoblinxChild 2 года назад +189

      You could feel the GQ producer cringing behind the camera.

    • @CordaroBlu
      @CordaroBlu 2 года назад +154

      Also whole dressed like a stereotypical movie villain

  • @christopherpadilla715
    @christopherpadilla715 Год назад +860

    Eric’s analysis on Joe Goldberg in You was actually insightful. “Serial killers can have relationships with other people but ultimately it’s about them and what they can get out of it.” Joe was always trying to find someone to fill that hole of abandonment placed by his mother.

    • @orangewarm1
      @orangewarm1 6 дней назад +1

      no $hit - he's a psychologist.

    • @r0ckmom
      @r0ckmom 8 часов назад

      The abandonment fears and lack of self is a borderline symptom, the sinking your teeth into others and refusing to let go because you can’t be alone is too. I really like that people are looking into Joe’s psyche, and it’s cool because there’s a lot of layers to dissect there.

  • @McGriddle69
    @McGriddle69 Год назад +436

    I'm glad he said Anakin was not a psychopath. I think his explanation that he has more BPD symptoms makes much more sense. Part of the reason Anakin even turned to the dark side is because he had this love for padme which made him do anything he could to make sure his vision of her death didn't come true. His fear blinded him so much that he essentially did the opposite of his goal which was that he ended up having some responsibility in her death.

    • @vanyadolly
      @vanyadolly 3 месяца назад +5

      Yep, the dude's problem is that he's too emotional, not the other way around.

    • @user-np9dv2yi2k
      @user-np9dv2yi2k Месяц назад +1

      ​@vanyadolly and because of the jedis fesr of it, could not teach him how to deal with jt

    • @rykehuss3435
      @rykehuss3435 19 дней назад +1

      The main reason he turned to the dark side is because his mother got murdered, and then Palpatine manipulated him using that.

  • @jimmyispromo
    @jimmyispromo 2 года назад +16781

    Shoot, Clark Kent went into psychology

    • @michaeloftaoism
      @michaeloftaoism 2 года назад +177

      yeah we know who he really is

    • @SeleneC.
      @SeleneC. 2 года назад +320

      *Psychiatry (the difference is that in order to become a Psychiatrist you have to finish Med School first, also a Psychiatrist can do things a psychologist can’t such as prescribe medication.)

    • @bradleypalmer7980
      @bradleypalmer7980 2 года назад +39

      Doctor banner huh… 🤔🤔🤔

    • @canadianeh4792
      @canadianeh4792 2 года назад +43

      He would have to go to the gym and gain about 50lbs but I can see it.

    • @DesdemonaDeCay
      @DesdemonaDeCay 2 года назад +97

      What are you talking about? It's the eleventh Doctor, not Clark Kent.

  • @L.C.Sweeney
    @L.C.Sweeney 2 года назад +16885

    I love how he knows everything about Star Wars

    • @Vic-Vega
      @Vic-Vega 2 года назад +275

      At this point, who doesn't?

    • @seppyq3672
      @seppyq3672 2 года назад +106

      @@Vic-Vega whose aniken?

    • @Vic-Vega
      @Vic-Vega 2 года назад +69

      @@seppyq3672 That's not how you spell that.

    • @slim6476
      @slim6476 2 года назад +39

      @@Vic-Vega me

    • @Jaydogg222
      @Jaydogg222 2 года назад +216

      @@Vic-Vega Kathleen Kennedy

  • @Magnulus76
    @Magnulus76 Год назад +116

    Anakin being borderline makes sense. He's not really cold and unfeeling (if anything he's overly passionate). He's a control freak that can't fix his world, and the more he tries the worse things get, which just digs him deeper into crossing moral boundaries. That's the big shift in the Star Wars series prequels. Vader is revealed to be just a tragic henchman, who has resigned himself to doing evil because he feels trapped by his own predicament.

  • @mastod0n1
    @mastod0n1 2 года назад +304

    I love his insights into how psychopathy isn't necessarily a black or white diagnosis or classification.

    • @lindboknifeandtool
      @lindboknifeandtool 13 дней назад +2

      I wouldn’t doubt it becoming a spectrum. It is already. Only when we say “psychopath” we mean full blown fully formed self defining psychopath

    • @orangewarm1
      @orangewarm1 6 дней назад +2

      that's what any psychologist should say

  • @th1rte3n62
    @th1rte3n62 2 года назад +11249

    Can we have a “Graphic Designer Breaks Down Paul Allan’s Business Card” ?

    • @emoxvx
      @emoxvx 2 года назад +469

      I actually think there's already one video on that here on YT.

    • @lumilikha
      @lumilikha 2 года назад +92

      There is!

    • @d00ks
      @d00ks 2 года назад +63

      Dorsia

    • @andmicbro1
      @andmicbro1 2 года назад +132

      Yeah someone already did that. Basically it's all bogus. But still a great scene.

    • @crazypyrotev
      @crazypyrotev 2 года назад +84

      ruclips.net/video/QKc54z5SsEs/видео.html here it is

  • @elgatocapibara
    @elgatocapibara 2 года назад +5555

    Titlte should be:
    "Psychiatrist analizes Star Wars' Anakin Skywaker, and explains why he became a Sith Lord, but does not grant him the rank of psychopath"

    • @Locke19901
      @Locke19901 2 года назад +250

      This is outrageous

    • @diegorivera5291
      @diegorivera5291 2 года назад +187

      @@Locke19901It's Unfair

    • @whothefcares2687
      @whothefcares2687 2 года назад +188

      @@diegorivera5291 How can you be in a Video about the breakdown of Psychopaths and not be a Psychopath

    • @susrainn7455
      @susrainn7455 2 года назад +12

      @@whothefcares2687 then why are you here

    • @whothefcares2687
      @whothefcares2687 2 года назад +79

      @@susrainn7455 you ruined it

  • @xAlbinopiratex
    @xAlbinopiratex 2 года назад +133

    "Mental Illness is very rarely associated with violence"
    THANK YOU! 🙌

  • @sagescorner256
    @sagescorner256 Год назад +25

    “it’s very important to note that people with mental illness are not inherently dangerous” thanks eric i think this is important too

  • @ZergrushEddie
    @ZergrushEddie 2 года назад +8059

    "Granted, killing younglings is never acceptable so that raises a red flag in my head."
    Thank you, doctor, for that brilliant analysis. :)

    • @Yoko4797
      @Yoko4797 2 года назад +173

      I think his point was that juvenile offenders might not have psychopathic traits but will still do crazy stuff simply because their brain hasn't developed fully.

    • @paulwingert9993
      @paulwingert9993 2 года назад +4

      pSycHoloGy

    • @jasperclydeinsd592
      @jasperclydeinsd592 2 года назад +9

      Even if they’re naughty?

    • @lyzziekelly
      @lyzziekelly 2 года назад +5

      Lol

    • @BlackMrBlack
      @BlackMrBlack 2 года назад

      Killing 'younglins' is acceptable as since it was War.

  • @katieheys8564
    @katieheys8564 2 года назад +2517

    I'm more impressed he got a facial mask off in one go as I thought that was impossible

    • @Deadpool784
      @Deadpool784 2 года назад +157

      Yeah I wonder how many times they had to film that shot

    • @coal2710
      @coal2710 2 года назад +41

      @@Deadpool784 1.

    • @rubenolguin727
      @rubenolguin727 2 года назад +165

      It’s only possible for psychopaths lol

    • @thisIsFunnyLolz
      @thisIsFunnyLolz 2 года назад +214

      Let’s see Paul Allen’s face mask removal

    • @danialyousaf6456
      @danialyousaf6456 2 года назад +3

      @@thisIsFunnyLolz just watch suicide squad.

  • @kingcutler953
    @kingcutler953 8 месяцев назад +10

    They dropped the ball not letting him do "The Talented Mr. Ripley" or "Primal Fear".

  • @jeremiahmcanally6916
    @jeremiahmcanally6916 2 года назад +135

    Misery is an excellent movie and Kathy Bates' performance as the definitely-not-ok "rescuer" is seriously unnerving. Good to see it brought to the attention of those who may not have been aware of it.

    • @harlemraider3347
      @harlemraider3347 5 месяцев назад

      I mean she did win the Oscar for Best Actress for it so obviously

    • @le_th_
      @le_th_ 5 месяцев назад

      She is quietly terrifying...excellent acting.

    • @raeraebadfingers
      @raeraebadfingers 4 месяца назад

      HE DIDN'T GET OUT OF THE COCKADOODIE CAR

    • @felixdom9693
      @felixdom9693 Месяц назад

      I watch that movie and it scares me send chill down my spine bro but yeah the actress acting skill is incredible

    • @user-ol8do2yr5o
      @user-ol8do2yr5o 2 дня назад

      I love that movie. Everyone was awesome in it. I'm your number one fan still gets me!

  • @crystalfajman3732
    @crystalfajman3732 2 года назад +3253

    The Jedi also taught Anakin that ALL emotions were bad. And the only way to not fall to the Dark side was to suppress or avoid all emotion. That was a dangerous line of thinking for someone with Anakin's personality traits

    • @TheDarkSidePoet
      @TheDarkSidePoet 2 года назад +217

      This is incorrect. Jedi train as to not allow emotions to cloud their judgement but rather use logic & reason. It's about not letting their emotions get the better of them, for the exact reason above wherein Anakin turns into a mass murderer over his personal attachments. "Control, control, you must learn control!" - Yoda

    • @SirBigWater
      @SirBigWater 2 года назад +99

      Which is why they said he was too old for training at first. Because if he was younger they could better mold him with their views

    • @corruptangel6793
      @corruptangel6793 2 года назад +24

      @@ar-yj8lb what was Anakin gonna do if he could go see her? She's a slave outside of the Republic's borders in what is essentially a foreign nation. Buy her? Maybe, but there's no guarantee Watto would sell, especially when she was his only slave after Anakin was freed.

    • @cthklh1458
      @cthklh1458 2 года назад +11

      yeah. i think some part of his acting out had to do with the council not making him a master.

    • @lordofentropy
      @lordofentropy 2 года назад +150

      Reading too much into it, what caused Anakin's down fall was the sand, it's coarse and rough and irritating, it gets everywhere.

  • @danabarakat1816
    @danabarakat1816 2 года назад +2581

    What I really liked is him pointing out something that people forget is true: people with a mental illness are far more likely to be victims of violence than committing violence themselves.

    • @turkicnomad5632
      @turkicnomad5632 2 года назад +137

      And people with personality disorders *were* traumatized in such a way that they developed that disorder.

    • @danabarakat1816
      @danabarakat1816 2 года назад +27

      @@turkicnomad5632 Yeah, definitely. Good point.

    • @tomas_nehyba
      @tomas_nehyba 2 года назад +31

      @@turkicnomad5632 in Some cases the personality disorder is genetic, though.

    • @rumi1970dg
      @rumi1970dg 2 года назад +19

      @@tomas_nehyba yeah..as its said, psychopaths are born, sociopaths are made

    • @MiotaLee
      @MiotaLee Год назад +12

      I have a friend who was taken advantage of because of her disability. She didn't fully comprehend what was happening to her until it was too late. It's an unfortunate strategy that R-words use, they pick out people who either can't or won't defend themselves. It's disgusting.

  • @Rowan9132
    @Rowan9132 2 года назад +130

    I have borderline personality disorder; I am in no shape or form to hurt others on purpose. When I do (emotionally) I do feel guilt. I hate it. But i do also have narcasstic trait too but I do feel remorse. Thank you for bringing the light into this.

    • @Stitchwitchstitch
      @Stitchwitchstitch 2 года назад +12

      What I like is how this guy does share and educate that people have TRAITS of mental health disorders, but it doesn’t mean they’ve got the whole thing- like, I have abandonment issues thanks to mentally ill fam and abuse, but having that one aspect doesn’t make me like that lady in Misery!

    • @CATDHD
      @CATDHD Год назад

      Narcasstic trait, I heard, can be very advantageous, since the body of someone with those traits can produce its own methamphetamine and even LSD.
      jk
      P.S. I have BPD.

    • @sadhu7191
      @sadhu7191 Год назад

      Have u ever been punched in face

    • @rickross9829
      @rickross9829 Год назад +1

      stop hurting people

    • @CATDHD
      @CATDHD Год назад +11

      @@rickross9829 clearly, you are a healthy shoe. Easier said than done to bpd people. But, yeah, not hurting people is a solid advice

  • @SK22000
    @SK22000 2 года назад +41

    I had a commanding officer who was a forensic psychiatrist, he was the most terrifying person I have ever met. Not quite Hannibal but equally terrifying

    • @le_th_
      @le_th_ 5 месяцев назад +4

      It's a sign of weakness to me when someone has to you terror to lead their direct reports, like they have no other skill set.

  • @daniellesolari6995
    @daniellesolari6995 2 года назад +6437

    I'm so glad to see Eric back, he's fantastic and breaks everything down in such a concise and non-judgmental way

    • @islabee94
      @islabee94 2 года назад +28

      He's so good! I'm pleasantly surprised

    • @DJG_Studios
      @DJG_Studios 2 года назад +34

      As a nerd, I like how much he resembles Matt Smith

    • @wendyl5279
      @wendyl5279 2 года назад +14

      I vacillate between seeing him as Clark Kent and the Scarecrow.

    • @graceartsy4414
      @graceartsy4414 2 года назад +8

      that's what I feel like Psychology, Psychiatry, etc. is supposed to be carried out, going about the research/patients in an unbiased way even if what the evidence shows or what patients might reveal about themselves

    • @mikehawkheir5554
      @mikehawkheir5554 2 года назад +3

      Dont fall for the man, fall for the lecture.

  • @deathraygonzo6339
    @deathraygonzo6339 2 года назад +803

    Force strangling gf: "He seems to be more towards the Sith world."

    • @quackaddict2203
      @quackaddict2203 2 года назад +12

      That's because there was no discussion and consent beforehand lol

    • @garyjones2561
      @garyjones2561 2 года назад +14

      *Wife, noob.

    • @XanderFenikkusu
      @XanderFenikkusu 2 года назад +2

      I somehow don't think that's nearly as bad as killing multiple children

  • @PeanutStrawberry
    @PeanutStrawberry 2 года назад +25

    Cinema Therapy did a video on Anakin, and they said, as Dr Bender said himself, he would qualify for BPD, Borderline Personality Disorder. Some of the symptoms include (but are not limited to): fear of abandonment; unstable relationships; unclear or shifting self-image; impulsive, self-destructive behaviors; extreme emotional swings; chronic feelings of emptiness; and explosive anger.

    • @SlapstickGenius23
      @SlapstickGenius23 2 года назад +2

      In other words, poor Darth Vader has complex ptsd.

  • @thedankswordsmantm
    @thedankswordsmantm 2 года назад +29

    I always loved the Clone Wars series because it brought more context to who Anakin was and why he turned. The guy was a child they turned into the face/hope of an entire organization. By his teenage years his "peacekeeping" cult is leading a war and he's relied on by the Jedi and the Republic as one of their best commanders and the best pilot. He's leading tens of thousands of lives, training a padawan (who leaves because she doesn't agree with how the Jedi act anymore), and has to hide what's important to him everyday. All this while growing up and is still a young man. Makes him seem less like a sniveling brat and more like a man who breaks.

  • @taylorcroft6757
    @taylorcroft6757 2 года назад +7437

    As someone with Borderline Personality Disorder, I always appreciate when the expert makes a special point during the interview to explicitly clarify that people with mental illnesses, especially those with the frequently criminalized ones like psychopathy and BPD, are not likely to be dangerous. We’re human just like everyone else, and we’re a million times more likely to be a threat to ourselves than to another soul. It gives me hope that the stigma against mental illness is starting to wane.

    • @sijmen4576
      @sijmen4576 2 года назад +23

      @@impact0r mic drop

    • @MsTriangle
      @MsTriangle 2 года назад +20

      PDs are not mental illnesses though

    • @gaminikokawalage7124
      @gaminikokawalage7124 2 года назад +6

      @@MsTriangle what's the difference exactly

    • @gaminikokawalage7124
      @gaminikokawalage7124 2 года назад +20

      @@brianbarber9218 ohh. Good explanation. Thanks for clarifying

    • @sonyblank1487
      @sonyblank1487 2 года назад +13

      "Taylor" of course it's a name like that.

  • @oldman6386
    @oldman6386 2 года назад +3242

    Now let's see Paul Allen's break down.

  • @plumtiara
    @plumtiara 2 года назад +33

    4:31 Amen to that. Reason I never ever shared the fact that I have bipolar disorder with anyone is, people think we are crazy and also believes other stereotypical things they found in shows or movies.

    • @jennistone8740
      @jennistone8740 2 года назад +5

      Same here! I’ve been diagnosed with bipolar and borderline traits quite a while ago and opened up to my family and partner about it, they have often times used it to belittle me or point out ALL of my emotions as disproportionate and crazy. You make yourself vulnerable and an easy target, because people thing they understand you and that they’re always a step ahead. So many times people with personality disorders are mirrors of their surrounding and can’t regulate emotions OTHERS have projected on to them. But somehow it always gets turned around to you being the toxic one, the hostile one, the aggressive one. Because you have the diagnosis.

    • @plumtiara
      @plumtiara 2 года назад +3

      @@jennistone8740 indeed. I’m sorry you had to go through that. Then there comes people who doesn’t even consider it as an illness and think we are just pretending for attention.

  • @DuelScreen
    @DuelScreen 2 года назад +60

    10:24 This was eye-opening for me. Could the common thread be that psychopaths cannot break out of the mental loops that they get caught in? That in some sense they cannot learn like other people? Learning in this sense means to apply past knowledge to future situations.

    • @zoli604
      @zoli604 Год назад +4

      No, their prefrontal cortex is shortened which makes them lack empathy, guilt and stuff like that. They just don't care about people because they can't really. They can do learn tho, their cognitive empathy is usually pretty advanced, that's why they can blend in with normal people.

  • @answer1840
    @answer1840 2 года назад +2993

    I grew up with a psychopath brother. Hard to explain to people. Videos like these give me some comfort, because this man explains what a psychopath is and that a psychopath does not form a bond unless there is something to gain. The bond is never really there. Manipulation is everywhere around the corner. For my brother, it became a game. He played with people's trust and then hurt them, either physically or mentally. There is something completely unpredictable about it, because his actions were logical only for him.

    • @chaitanyaghuge540
      @chaitanyaghuge540 2 года назад +61

      did he ever hurt you?

    • @visassess8607
      @visassess8607 2 года назад +11

      How did you figure out he was a psychopath and didn't have another personality disorder?

    • @CP-ir3ft
      @CP-ir3ft 2 года назад +18

      @@visassess8607 probably diagnosed

    • @oceaneo4603
      @oceaneo4603 2 года назад +19

      Wow ! I hope your folks tried to do something so you would feel protected in some way.

    • @BunnyFoooFoo
      @BunnyFoooFoo 2 года назад +184

      I understand you so much. Grew up with dad diagnosed as psyco then as bpd but how who refused any treatment since he was always "fine". He still only talks to me if he gains something and would hurt us in really twisted way as punishment (never hit me directly but he would destroy our toys and then hide them in our clothings so we find them later and more stuff) it's hard and took a lot of therapy to see him as a human who's sick more than my dad. Hang in there

  • @Extrophobic
    @Extrophobic 2 года назад +718

    Now I just want him to analyse the whole You series

    • @valeriacardona7142
      @valeriacardona7142 2 года назад +13

      Need

    • @dannyhotemo
      @dannyhotemo 2 года назад +30

      I know right? Including Joe's past and his relationship with Love. And Love herself lol

  • @ronhithamandal5192
    @ronhithamandal5192 2 года назад +11

    I love these videos and how you talk about personality disorders not as the measure of a person but as a part of their lives. Thank you for destigmatizing these things.

  • @villainoir
    @villainoir 2 года назад +7

    This video has been on my watch later since forever as I'm afraid of the judgment (yes psychiatrist does that too) but I LOVE this man. Very appreciative and try his best to be educational.

  • @Lunartcy
    @Lunartcy 2 года назад +2650

    I wish he has his own podcast about mental health or talks about the mental health of fictional characters.

    • @faj4335
      @faj4335 2 года назад +44

      Or just star wars

    • @g33xzi11a
      @g33xzi11a 2 года назад +46

      Psychology in Seattle does a lot of fictional character analysis with more nuance and accuracy than a lot of these kinds of things have, usually with a deep dive on a single character. Just know the RUclips channel and the podcast are very different content wise. The show is more of a reaction channel to relationship-based reality television, the podcast is more academic in nature with fictional character and hot topic psychological analyses, episodes or even a series of episodes committed to exploring a single disorder in-depth, and listener Mail. There are also a few episodes that are miscellaneous entertainment and don’t have a particular appeal to psychology.

    • @electriksheep1508
      @electriksheep1508 2 года назад +6

      @@g33xzi11a i love psychology in seattle

    • @Grace-op6yf
      @Grace-op6yf 2 года назад +13

      u should watch cinema therapy

    • @visassess8607
      @visassess8607 2 года назад +1

      @@g33xzi11a Where can I find his podcast?

  • @canadianeh4792
    @canadianeh4792 2 года назад +3632

    I'd love to see him do "Dexter"
    Dex talks throughout the series about how he's a psychopath but exhibits a lot of traits that really don't fit with psychopathy, sociopathy or narcissism. Late in the series, as his relationships progressed (particularly with Rita and his sister), I started wondering if it was his adoptive father who really made Dex a serial killer by training him for murder instead of getting him treatment for his obvious PTSD. It's a great series for such an analysis because you get the internal monologue.

    • @Yoko4797
      @Yoko4797 2 года назад +35

      I always wanted to start that series but my friends keep saying it has a bad ending and hence not worth it??

    • @canadianeh4792
      @canadianeh4792 2 года назад +217

      @@Yoko4797 it's really good. As with most shows it does go downhill towards the end but it's definitely worth watching.

    • @psychovoice3827
      @psychovoice3827 2 года назад +85

      That would be intresting. I have read a analysis where they mentioned that Dexter has schizophrenia and his father and also brian was never realy how we saw it in the series.Just imagine that his father never told him how to kill and that was all part of his schyzophrenia. Dont forget that he saw hallucinations of Brian and his father.

    • @myahgloom4717
      @myahgloom4717 2 года назад +83

      @@Yoko4797 Dexter is one of my favorite series of all time it’s 100 percent worth watching it. Yes the ending is awful which is why they are coming back years later to make a limited series to correct the awful ending. Just like the last season of Game of Thrones was horrible it’s still the greatest series of all time. Watch Dexter!!

    • @ToomanyFrancis
      @ToomanyFrancis 2 года назад +38

      @@myahgloom4717 It's not coming back to correct the awful ending, the ending was never the ending. The show writers have always said that they planned to bring the show back, that's why he didn't die at the end of the last season.

  • @mjb4983
    @mjb4983 2 года назад +2

    Thank you. Very informative

  • @toobasaurus23
    @toobasaurus23 Год назад +2

    I watch evey video Dr Bender gives his insights. A very skilled psychologist and a joy to listen to.

  • @marissamoreno3124
    @marissamoreno3124 2 года назад +418

    I love how no matter the person when you mention star wars to a fan they try to hold back all their star wars knowledge but it just starts to vomit out uncontrollably. Relatable content.

  • @Beauvoir
    @Beauvoir 2 года назад +769

    I like how he describes Darth Vader’s change of heart as “Hollywoodized”, as opposed to the way a Sith Lord would operate in real life.
    I’d love a full video of him talking about Star Wars.

    • @craigrussell3062
      @craigrussell3062 2 года назад +12

      I thought the same thing! Love to see the non-Hollywood version of the lightning fight on the Death Star observation deck

    • @meia1855
      @meia1855 Год назад

      "in real life"???

  • @adamant4107
    @adamant4107 2 месяца назад

    Amazing Video!
    This guy really knows how to share difficult information is a way that easily digestible.
    Enjoyed this thoroughly.

  • @cd.NekOwareLGBT
    @cd.NekOwareLGBT 2 года назад

    Off to a great start with your asmr dude, real nice. I can really feel my right ear right now man. Real good.

  • @cringemuch1243
    @cringemuch1243 2 года назад +663

    10/10 best Jonathan Crane cosplay I've seen. He's so dedicated that he actually got a degree!

    • @yammymy
      @yammymy 2 года назад +12

      lmaooo yes

    • @juliekim4498
      @juliekim4498 2 года назад +20

      Now that you pointed it out I cant stop seeing it lol

    • @mirceadraculov6515
      @mirceadraculov6515 2 года назад +6

      Best comment.

    • @elhopper3735
      @elhopper3735 2 года назад +12

      He does look a lot like Crane omg

    • @realslimshady6998
      @realslimshady6998 2 года назад +9

      I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS I WAS HOPING HE'D REVIEW HIM. I love Jonathan lmao

  • @anttikettunen8601
    @anttikettunen8601 2 года назад +952

    If he played the Riddler, it would be spot on.

  • @RaymondLago
    @RaymondLago 11 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you for such a professional and very well put video. And your look here gives me some serious Clark Kent vibes, Eric, which is really cool. I am definitely eager to watch other parts of this series.

  • @factanonverba7547
    @factanonverba7547 Год назад +8

    Thank you, Dr. Ichabad Crane.

  • @TheScumAlsoRises
    @TheScumAlsoRises 2 года назад +1087

    Interesting to hear him repeatedly describe the path these people take to become monsters. You might call it a psycho...path.

    • @ssrbwarwolf
      @ssrbwarwolf 2 года назад +5

      I call it misinformation

    • @philswiftdestroyerofworlds1988
      @philswiftdestroyerofworlds1988 2 года назад +23

      @@ssrbwarwolf
      I call it "he's literally qualified for this in everyway possible, stop being a twitter using 14 year old white girl"
      The man knows what he's talking about, it's his job, he's been trained for this for a large portion of his life

    • @rajmaity1393
      @rajmaity1393 2 года назад +74

      @@ssrbwarwolf looks like you missed the joke

    • @basedcat2349
      @basedcat2349 2 года назад +2

      Lolololol

    • @princessazulaofthefirenati5870
      @princessazulaofthefirenati5870 2 года назад +4

      😂😂😂

  • @SoCloseToToast
    @SoCloseToToast 2 года назад +821

    The remote on the arm rest is giving me anxiety!

    • @itdobelikedattho8112
      @itdobelikedattho8112 2 года назад +10

      You mean in his hand

    • @ohjordyn8312
      @ohjordyn8312 2 года назад +30

      His tie/vest/jacket being so off center is driving me absolutely nuts.

    • @Pavia1525
      @Pavia1525 2 года назад +8

      It’s going to fall!

    • @emirkugic
      @emirkugic 2 года назад +34

      TikTok: that's a trauma response

    • @useraccount2507
      @useraccount2507 2 года назад +4

      @@emirkugic 😂

  • @persocomz
    @persocomz Год назад +79

    as someone with both bpd and npd it makes me genuinely happy and safe knowing there are psychiatrists and other people out there that are working to destigmatize personality disorders and the more "dangerous" mental illnesses overall. thank you

  • @jikesbadoodle3580
    @jikesbadoodle3580 2 года назад

    This man is just perfect for these videos, equal love for both psychology and movies! He’s so awsome!

  • @GetOutsideYourself
    @GetOutsideYourself 2 года назад +1115

    American Psycho is really a masterpiece of storytelling.

    • @GunsGoldGlory
      @GunsGoldGlory 2 года назад +33

      Was it all in his head or did he actually commit all of the murders?

    • @abbiemills2047
      @abbiemills2047 2 года назад +14

      No it's a stupid waste of film that makes NO sense and has no value

    • @evant3520
      @evant3520 2 года назад +326

      @@abbiemills2047 average riverdale enjoyer

    • @jaroddavid5933
      @jaroddavid5933 2 года назад +42

      @@GunsGoldGlory both... he actually did kill a lot of those people but the film tried to show that in Wall Street nobody cares and he could get away with all of it and then he started to imagine much worse things like the scene with blowing up the cop car that was just in his head but that expands on his actual murders

    • @barker505
      @barker505 2 года назад +52

      @@GunsGoldGlory it depends. In the movie I think they leave it ambiguous - maybe he made it all up, we have no external confirmation of his kills and we know he imagines things- but in the book he definitely killed a lot of people.

  • @Jogyot3260
    @Jogyot3260 2 года назад +486

    Him explaining about Anakin is surprisingly very complex and interesting.. give me a goosebump how he manage to make analysis about him perfectly and show how complex Anakin psychology actually are

    • @sit-insforsithis1568
      @sit-insforsithis1568 Год назад +6

      Not that complex really, just an adolescent on a bad path. But make it deeper if you want that

    • @rickross9829
      @rickross9829 Год назад +15

      @@sit-insforsithis1568 The depth they give is far more accurate than what you purport. L nerd

    • @sit-insforsithis1568
      @sit-insforsithis1568 Год назад

      @@rickross9829 got any argument for that ? I’ll wait

    • @dabtican4953
      @dabtican4953 Год назад +9

      @@sit-insforsithis1568 U still waiting?

    • @rickross9829
      @rickross9829 Год назад +2

      @@sit-insforsithis1568 "just an adolescent on a bad path" 🤣 Not going to waste my time with you

  • @johnmcdonald5998
    @johnmcdonald5998 2 года назад +1

    Quite enjoyed it, well done!

  • @shaeVettori
    @shaeVettori Год назад +2

    This guy is fantastic at vocalizing and explaining complex things in a very simple manner.

  • @Amy-yc8lq
    @Amy-yc8lq 2 года назад +325

    Wow he explained borderline and psychopathy so well. Thank you for explaining the difference between psychopath and mental illness. How not all people with bpd are dangerous psychopaths.

    • @jdhfSD63gH
      @jdhfSD63gH 2 года назад +26

      yeah as someone with bpd it made me really happy to see it talked about reasonably and not painted in a bad light

    • @shubhisharma4261
      @shubhisharma4261 2 года назад +4

      Bpd r psychopaths

    • @jdhfSD63gH
      @jdhfSD63gH 2 года назад +43

      @@shubhisharma4261 im sorry you've obviously been hurt or know someone whos been hurt by someone with bpd but educate yourself. and by definition thats not even what a psychopath is lol. you can choose to be ignorant and paint us as crazy or you can choose to be a good person and do some actual research. up 2 u

    • @abijahdixon2771
      @abijahdixon2771 2 года назад +21

      @@shubhisharma4261 psychopaths don't feel remorse, people with bpd do, and very deeply.

    • @DisorientedWanderer
      @DisorientedWanderer Год назад

      @@shubhisharma4261 people like you are the reason others don't seek help when they need it.

  • @Ward1971man
    @Ward1971man 2 года назад +450

    I loved his performance in Batman Begins. Wonder when they let him out of Arkham Asylum.

    • @Kyoto_Ed
      @Kyoto_Ed 2 года назад +16

      Bateman begins? Sounds like an awesome movie.

    • @ragetobe
      @ragetobe 2 года назад +4

      As others have said this guy is more like the joker or riddler!

    • @ion_likeu
      @ion_likeu 2 года назад

      @@Kyoto_Ed LMAOOO

  • @leviuzumaki3903
    @leviuzumaki3903 2 года назад +5

    With anikan not just the loss of his mother but even in his teenage years when he lost the only true father figure he had in qui gon jin that effected him a lot to, and to see someone he thought of as a brother in obi one get all the adoration and success while he never got the rank of master filled him with jealousy and hatred for him.

  • @erin6692
    @erin6692 Год назад +9

    Thank you for saying that about BPD! I get so sick of a woman kills someone, the they point to possible BPD. We’re a mess but we’re not murderers and we CAN get better with therapy and meds. I have. And that harmful stigma meant that I did not get proper treatment for years and years because I had therapists literally tell me, “You don’t want that. It can’t be treated.”

  • @stevenlennie
    @stevenlennie 2 года назад +650

    Would love to hear his thoughts on Mads Mikkelsen portrayal of Hannibal Lecter.

    • @HiroJJ94
      @HiroJJ94 2 года назад +3

      same

    • @eileenmacias7186
      @eileenmacias7186 2 года назад +37

      Yes! Mads was incredible

    • @timothyw98
      @timothyw98 2 года назад +5

      A very jaded portrayal of Lecter we can all agree.

    • @PaolaRL
      @PaolaRL 2 года назад

      Same!

    • @gerbil497
      @gerbil497 2 года назад +1

      same! thats what i clicked on this for

  • @joshmackey5127
    @joshmackey5127 2 года назад +253

    Would love to see a “No Country for Old Men” breakdown. Quality choices though, keep the videos coming.

    • @Theycallmeninj
      @Theycallmeninj 2 года назад +2

      He talked about it in the last video he did although it mightve been for wired but i can’t remember

    • @occultsymbols
      @occultsymbols 2 года назад +14

      The greatest psychopath in movie history is Anton Chigurh.

  • @FOVoid
    @FOVoid Год назад

    This was highly informative.

  • @eatmyskirt
    @eatmyskirt Год назад +6

    It's interesting that he uses the Psychopath Questionnaire in addition to the DSM, which does not contain Psychopathy as a diagnosis. I've never seen this described the way he uses it--like Psychopathy can overlap with any of the personality disorders. It makes sense, but it's certainly novel and was not part of my training when I was learning how to diagnose.

  • @cylondorado4582
    @cylondorado4582 2 года назад +322

    As someone who really enjoyed the the prequels as a kid, I really liked the deep dive into Darth Vader.

    • @bobbyblazini
      @bobbyblazini 2 года назад +5

      Plus Jar Jar was supposed to be a Sith Lord...would have been the greatest thing of our generation

    • @Imamsimuha
      @Imamsimuha 2 года назад +1

      @@bobbyblazini Ityy57uouh887ukjyjihgoihh8u7Uhhuhuihu8i

    • @kendomyers
      @kendomyers 2 года назад +1

      @@bobbyblazini
      The Darth Jar Jar thing would have saved the prequels
      Without it all I can think about is Jar Jar's numb tongue and the honking creature Obiwon rode in the 2nd prequel: a boring kids movie designed to sell toys, utterly lacking cohesion and direction

    • @bobbyblazini
      @bobbyblazini 2 года назад

      @@kendomyers ...yeah, I I it was jar jar the whole time

    • @agent_albert
      @agent_albert 2 года назад +1

      @@kendomyers Nothing could save prequels. Maybe not making prequels.

  • @alexpurol6810
    @alexpurol6810 2 года назад +56

    My wife has borderline personality disorder. Shes the sweetest person ive ever met

    • @jennistone8740
      @jennistone8740 Год назад +2

      As somebody with BPD this really warmed my heart. You thinking she’s the sweetest person just makes me really hopeful someone will think of me like that and see past my disorder.

    • @BeingBetter
      @BeingBetter Год назад

      Same.

  • @lizard3755
    @lizard3755 2 года назад +12

    I appreciate him talking about bipolar and explaining what it's really like vs what people think of when we say someone is bipolar. I have bipolar disorder and while I didn't get diagnosed until I was 15, I've experienced symptoms since childhood and it greatly affected both me and my family, who were stuck in a house with me and my unregulated emotions. While I don't generally take it personally when people use bipolar as an adjective for someone's behavior in a colloquial sense it still sucks how misunderstood bipolar disorder tends to be. I've spent hundreds of dollars on projects that ended up unfinished during manic episodes, and they've all been ones where I'm taking (prescribed) medication regularly and going to therapy appointments each month. Even when I'm aware of the fact that my behavior is being influenced by a manic episode it can be difficult to keep myself in check because when you're in that headspace, consequences don't really matter because you've got all this energy and drive and you have all these plans for the things you're going to do and everything's going to be great. Unfortunately you'll always come crashing back down to earth again after playing Icarus, and usually the higher you've soared during your mania, the lower you'll get during the depressive episode that will likely follow. I'm very blessed to have access to the treatments I need and to have family and friends who support me, but even with all of those things I still struggle with my symptoms at times. If I hadn't finally admitted that I wasn't okay and gotten the help I'd needed I probably wouldn't be here today, so hearing my illness be explained for people who may not be familiar with what it really is like is very validating.

    • @SporthighlightsS1
      @SporthighlightsS1 8 месяцев назад

      My homie got bpd he also has these crazy phases where he turns to a philosoph and acts smart manipulative and confidence but after days he turns depressed introvert and shy

  • @pvtpaulafmj
    @pvtpaulafmj Год назад

    I love GQ, it's so cool to see experts react to movies

  • @imeantloveyou5eva
    @imeantloveyou5eva 2 года назад +90

    really appreciated him saying that people with bpd/personality disorders/mental illnesses aren’t violent, thanks dude 👍

  • @thegunslinger1363
    @thegunslinger1363 2 года назад +68

    Fun fact: When Anthony Hopkins agent sent him the script for Silence of The Lambs. He initially thought it was a children's story. Btw, for those wondering. It was because of the title.

    • @broadway520
      @broadway520 2 года назад +5

      How??

    • @max_blak836
      @max_blak836 2 года назад +1

      ? ... link? or care to share those sources plz? ty

    • @sanna9062
      @sanna9062 2 года назад +11

      That was only because of the name as far as I know.

    • @thegunslinger1363
      @thegunslinger1363 2 года назад

      @@broadway520 It was because of the title.

    • @jibekmechler139
      @jibekmechler139 2 года назад

      Why? The title is clearly a nod to lambs being quiet as they are led to slaughter

  • @rexhazelton6067
    @rexhazelton6067 2 года назад

    Doc you hit it on the button. You know your stuff very well

  • @duckbbich
    @duckbbich Год назад +2

    Very interesting, thanks

  • @nicholasniebuhr7593
    @nicholasniebuhr7593 2 года назад +118

    I would watch a 10 hr video of Eric Bender breaking down "You." Just finished Season 3, I'm sure he'd have a lot to say about Love, too, and their marriage.

  • @otteotte7698
    @otteotte7698 2 года назад +153

    "Where are they now? They are living among us. Average people, average citizens quietly and anonymously making the world a better place."

  • @IonIsFalling7217
    @IonIsFalling7217 2 года назад

    The manic episode that finally got me diagnosed ironically began with the Carpenters song that goes “I’m on top of the world looking down on creation” being stuck in my head to the point of being unable to do anything but listen to and sing that song for nearly an entire day.

  • @frazzlef4601
    @frazzlef4601 Год назад +10

    Would love to have seen the movie Nightstalker mentioned here, such an excellent portrayal of sociopathy

  • @bluezklewz8351
    @bluezklewz8351 2 года назад +107

    This guy, the linguist(?) and Dr Annie Onishi are the best guests on these types of shows. They just have great presence

    • @limcritiques
      @limcritiques 2 года назад +7

      Eric Singer?

    • @bluezklewz8351
      @bluezklewz8351 2 года назад +1

      @@limcritiques yess I forgot his name. Thank you

    • @MattW5932
      @MattW5932 2 года назад +1

      Yep, that would be a fantastic dinner party!

    • @noelcruz2891
      @noelcruz2891 Год назад +4

      wait... no Victor Sweeney? the mortician?

  • @babrdiddle
    @babrdiddle 2 года назад +224

    Please have him do more psychopaths please. I would love to hear insight on Dexter or Norman Bates (movie vs Bates motel) etc. His responses are clear, thought provoking and thorough imo

    • @sarahrosen4985
      @sarahrosen4985 2 года назад +2

      But everything with him is psychopath. Never any acknowledgment of sociopaths. As I learned it, the first is born; the second is made.

    • @connorhall8463
      @connorhall8463 2 года назад +5

      @@sarahrosen4985 psychopath and sociopath are actually not diagnosable but rather both are kinda just layman’s terms for a wide range of emotional and mental disorder, mainly anti social personality disorder. Psychopaths are seen as more violent with no emotions while sociopaths are more of a lighter version of this, but again neither are actual diagnosable disorders.

    • @dabtican4953
      @dabtican4953 Год назад +1

      I think the film title describing Norman Bates as a psycho is short for psychotic not psychopathic.

  • @witchblade100377
    @witchblade100377 10 месяцев назад

    Each time I watch these, I sometimes feel like I'm being diagnosed myself. Makes you think about how you are and things you do without realizing it.

  • @herissonrodrigues6058
    @herissonrodrigues6058 Год назад +2

    There should be an entire episode with Dr. Eric analyzing the series Hannibal! It would be amazing!

  • @Spiderfan85
    @Spiderfan85 2 года назад +33

    Outside of what Annie did to Paul she was also a serial killer. When she was a nurse she killed 11 infants when she worked in a maternity ward and is responsible for many deaths outside that.

    • @AnastasiaR
      @AnastasiaR Год назад +2

      In other words, standard healthcare

  • @BodyBeats242
    @BodyBeats242 2 года назад +106

    Eric looks like he's going to pull out his "Scarecrow" mask right after breaking down these scenes.

  • @teddybexphillips
    @teddybexphillips Год назад +1

    The idea that Anikins frantic efforts to avoid abandonment and loosing everything is what eventually made it in fact happen is somthing i think all people (myself included) with BPD can relate to!

  • @Spilled_Pizza
    @Spilled_Pizza Год назад +3

    His talk of the BTK killer always gets me talking. I’ve lived in Park City Kansas my whole life, and my parents met him a couple times. I met him all of once when I was a wee child, I hardly remember there interaction, just that he was rude.

  • @danielbryan147
    @danielbryan147 2 года назад +178

    Fascinating, would love to see him do one on the Always Sunny in Philadelphia lot :)

    • @chelzchelzz19
      @chelzchelzz19 2 года назад +11

      Yes ! Denis 😂😂

    • @evi4043
      @evi4043 2 года назад +4

      you just took the words right out of my mouth!

    • @stealyomom
      @stealyomom 2 года назад +4

      YES omg

  • @kghhgkgk6322
    @kghhgkgk6322 2 года назад +61

    ...I would watch this guy analyze Star wars characters for hours

    • @Vic-Vega
      @Vic-Vega 2 года назад

      Must have loads of free time, bruh.

    • @kghhgkgk6322
      @kghhgkgk6322 2 года назад +1

      @@Vic-Vega I would spend the free time I have watching this guy analyze Star wars videos, bruh.

  • @bruzanHD
    @bruzanHD 2 года назад

    Thank you for this knowledge Clark Kent.

  • @notthedarkl0rd83
    @notthedarkl0rd83 Год назад

    i love seeing more eric bender

  • @goober9598
    @goober9598 2 года назад +39

    The way he explained Lecter’s psychotic traits and also analyzed the movie’s details really impressed me

    • @casesoutherland4175
      @casesoutherland4175 Год назад

      I would love to see his analysis of Hannibal Lecter played by Brian Cox in Manhunter. It's Lecter's very first appearance and I think Cox's performance is criminally underrated!!

  • @shawn576
    @shawn576 2 года назад +122

    I really like this dude. He's amazingly good at explaining things.

    • @macmcleod1188
      @macmcleod1188 3 месяца назад

      Yes and he never condescends to the source material.

  • @tahliadelamare8315
    @tahliadelamare8315 Год назад +1

    He should look at netflix's now series called 'the sandman' particularly the last episode that is the "cereal" convention, where the corinthian is giving his speech about their goals and motives

  • @unknown-et2vs
    @unknown-et2vs 2 года назад

    Thank you for showing me this. Now I can finally have the confidence to go see a psychiatrist

  • @josepetersen7112
    @josepetersen7112 2 года назад +85

    I STILL want a “serial killer breaks down killers” or “cannibal breaks down cannibal scenes”
    Edit: ..."cannibal breaks down serial killers"

    • @nathanielbrill1523
      @nathanielbrill1523 2 года назад +10

      Destroyer of worlds breaks down Infinity War

    • @anairam22
      @anairam22 2 года назад +5

      you realize the problem in that idea right

    • @josepetersen7112
      @josepetersen7112 2 года назад +17

      @@anairam22 Poor supply of cannibals?

    • @mzschmidt3937
      @mzschmidt3937 2 года назад +3

      serial killer breaks down brands of cereal

  • @Jules-gx7xm
    @Jules-gx7xm 2 года назад +41

    i could listen to this man talk about the mental health of fictional characters for hours

  • @srhbluerain
    @srhbluerain 2 года назад +11

    I'm enthralled by this man. Wish he was my Dr. I've been struggling since 12 to find a decent psychiatrist and therapist. It used to be one in the same but unfortunately if you're not wealthy, a psychiatrist will only see you for 15 minutes a month of med management. The system is broken.

  • @laidman2007
    @laidman2007 Год назад +1

    Fascinating and...what a gorgeous suit!😊

  • @daryelhernandez9472
    @daryelhernandez9472 2 года назад +80

    I want him to watch all of you and give us his analysis of Joe

    • @bignig7223
      @bignig7223 2 года назад

      Who's Joe? 😳

    • @hi-ve1cw
      @hi-ve1cw 2 года назад +11

      @@bignig7223 Joe mama

    • @sanna9062
      @sanna9062 2 года назад +1

      @@bignig7223 The main character in You

  • @joakimlundgren7043
    @joakimlundgren7043 2 года назад +73

    Some socios apparently are "perfect" parents, friends etc, this has to do with that they found something special they like as an extension of themselves. Like a handbag or favourite shoes.

    • @lichking3711
      @lichking3711 2 года назад +44

      Being a good parent, or a good friend, etc can be an achievement they seek, and as a result, they can be good just to fulfill that goal, giving good results despite having narcissistic intentions.

  • @nemaele
    @nemaele 2 года назад +10

    People with personality disorders in the comments:
    "Thank you for clarifying that we're not evil."
    That one person replying:
    "Actually, all of you are evil and I know that because my second best friend twice removed is."

  • @tommyt1971
    @tommyt1971 Год назад +7

    Stephen King very famously said that he wrote Misery because it would be his worst nightmare come to life and Annie would be the absolute worst person he could ever meet.
    Btw, if you ever get the chance to see King speak live, DON’T miss it. He’s one of the funniest celebs I’ve seen give a lecture.

  • @SimoExMachina2
    @SimoExMachina2 2 года назад +36

    In the books, Hannibal eventually seduces Clarice and they become lovers. This happens about the same time as the movie "Hannibal", which is sequel to the Silence of the Lambs. Chronologically the first part should actually be the Red Dragon (third in the film franchise), SotL being the second part and Hannibal being the closing chapter.

    • @kaelalongawa
      @kaelalongawa 2 года назад +1

      Let me tell you I was shook reading the ending of Hannibal lol

  • @JTC161
    @JTC161 2 года назад +57

    Great to see him again. Always happy to see more Psychiatrist Breaks Down , i feel like i can listen for hours, shame that this video is only half as long as the 1st one.

    • @grahammartin5491
      @grahammartin5491 2 года назад

      There's a part two that brings the length up to within 5 minutes!

  • @suzy_sun6260
    @suzy_sun6260 2 года назад

    These are my favorites 🥰

  • @hibiscus752
    @hibiscus752 2 года назад

    I like how the doctor explains things.