@@sereneamani1713 Nah...just real. Dads can just show up, do the fun stuff and get acknowledged while the day to day pressures Mom endures aren't even an honorable mention until adulthood.
This case resonated through my mind deeply, I’m 50+..my dad now deceased, came here from Trinidad many, many years ago. He was in search of the American Dream..he was the worst “father figure”, he hated me based on the fact I resembled my mom now deceased, he did nothing for me..mentally, emotionally nor financially. When he passed several years ago, I was the only person who put foot forward and buried him dignified. Back then, women had to resort to “state benefits” to survive and put the basic staples on the table for their children. The fathers, just as mine did ran from child support and would work on the neighborhood cars to “supplement” their income under the table. Thank God he’s still standing considering the injury he suffered from the explosion, he’s a sixty year old man now, be there for your daughter, she needs you and you will soon need her, trust me.Believe, had he been diligently employed throughout his years he would be entitled to “Disability State funds” for his for his lack of eye vision. She’s in a stable relationship, she needs her father there for that emotional moment and secure shoulder. Stop with the excuses.
Sorry you went through that, but sadly your mother made the decision to lay up with some deadbeat and get pregnant. It is about time the mothers start taking accountability in these cases.
He resembles my father in a good way. My dad had never ever smiled at me except when he had beaten me up and I end up crying. But this guy, with all that beautiful fatherly smile, just made me cry this time with love. Let him get all the help from JM and live as long as possible.
Get a Tracfone and keep more money in your pocket. Oh, and NEVER, NEVER put a phone in your name or share lines for anybody; 99.5% of the time, it ends badly when you do.
Right!! The judge is tryna hold on to his youth buy hiding those grays. Meanwhile, this man is embracing his, cuz he's been through so much, just like the judge lol
I must say I’ve never experienced having grandparents myself; they were all deceased by the time I was born, all except my grandmother on dad’s side. Still never got to meet her. She died a few years ago at the age of 92. I do have my dad though. I’m sorry you haven’t had your father.
Some men (and women) were never taught to show their emotions or how to be empathetic. It's sad. Sometimes parents try to make up for their errors with their grandchildren. Perhaps you can be the catalyst to help your father. It's never too late while one is still alive and kicking.
So no ones going to talk about how JM made it seem normal for a daughter to not come to HER father about the the ups and downs that she has in a relationship involving men?!! SMH lowkey disheartening.🤦🏽♀️ Looks like there’s a need for better father-daughter relationships in the community.
I’m a daddy’s girl and I taught me what is acceptable and unacceptable from a man, but I never go to him about ups and downs in my relationship. I don’t see what’s wrong with that, a lot of girls/women dont whether it’s for privacy, it’s awkward, anything
Awwww. He' s a sweet guy. Glad she asked for help for her dad. Not for nothing but on the real with all the bad luck he's had he need some prays and to NOT acknowledge or keep saying that he is " unlucky" or has " bad luck" " Life and Death lies in the power of the tongue. He or they need to speak nothing but positivity over his life and seek Jesus Christ. All in All great episode... Thanks Judge Mathis🙏
So he claimed to be disabled, worked under the table to avoid child support, but used that money for drugs and alcohol. He would have been left where he was if i was her.
It's a damn shame .. I would never ask my parents for a dime about a damn phone bill.. SMH thank God for my parents they raised 4 of us the correct way. Till this day my 2 sisters pays mom car note, brother pay her light bill, I pay her car insurance, ans phone for the pass 7 years . Our parents deserve better y'all 😤 they deserve to be cater like they catered us
That's good and your family is admirable. However, different strokes for different folks. I don't want my children or grandchildren to pay my bills. I hope I never get to the point where I would need them to do so. However, if I do need it, I will gladly accept and I'm sure they would. Not arguing with you at all, but what I wanted (want) is for my children to care for their families the way they were cared for.
Clearly it was deeper than a phone bill. You have to learn to meet people where they are and my reasoning for this was to get him help. The phone bill was the gateway that got us there
JM rushed through her words "I've been with the same man for 20 years". I kinda think her father may have had some bearing on the kind of man she chose, even if in an opposite way. Perhaps preparing her to know what negative qualities to avoid.
Same to you Bajan, see, that’s what makes this uncertainty of everyday life….positive energy and encouraging words. Enjoy Good Friday, perhaps some nice fresh fish, it’s brain food. Bajan, keep smiling.
Bajan, I’m pleased you asked…I’m “vegan” yet I eat fish as a Source of protein, I know this is not the platform but make sure it’s a fresh red snapper head on, rinse cold water in out..three half inch cuts both sides..olive oil fresh lemon grass fresh ginger fresh scallion hint of five spice two tablespoons olive butter/not margarine watch your flame..we want to achieve golden brown sauté together set aside brown snapper both sides place in baking pan add all ingredients atop place in oven on 350..for 15min..prepare your side dish..perhaps some steamed broccoli or sauté some asparagus. Don’t forget the Frexinet Gold..Bajan, enjoy!
@@daphneharper5287 lol Ms Daph I kept it plain and simple some nice all seasoning and Cajun seasoning. I'm from The Bahamas so we usually get fresh fish for good Friday and we have it with hot cross buns.
What did she want from this man? He was present but wasn’t there emotionally. Many men aren’t good with their emotions. What she wanted him to sit and cry with her?
He seems like a nice guy, but not the best dad. He knows he could have done more for her than what he did..or even just been present. I’m just glad his daughter is present and wants him to be better, not to make him look like a bad guy. He definitely did look drunk (kinda like one of my uncles) and the spiral can be real. I’m glad Judge Mathis said yes and the guy is willing too. #HappyEnding
JM NEEDS TO RETIRE. THE FATHER STATED THAT HE DIDN'T WORK IN MECHANIC SHOP AND THE JOBS WERE PERSONAL. MEANING THAT HE MAY HAVE BEEN WORKING ON FRIENDS OR RELATIVES CARS. JM WENT WAY LEFT WITH IT. SMH
@@gigiarchie3208 "he was never a shoulder to cry on for me" "I could never ask him for financial advice" she's an adult she can gain some financial literacy just like the next person. Also, if her dad wasn't there to comfort emotionally but he was present for her throughout her life she should count her blessings. Sounds ungrateful to me.
Not everyone has a good relationship with their children. You hope for the best but sometimes it's just not in the cards. About the best thing you can possibly do is to try your best, do what's right and then let the chips fall where they may.
Uhmm because some fathers being doing too much and some even trust their daughter's decison or even respect it without getting involved. It's called personal space
Adults have to realize a lot went on when they were kids that they knew nothing about. Both parties mom and dad were people before they had the kid, all you know is what you are told. Don’t walk around harboring ill feelings
He always makes sure to keep stereotypes going about what men and women can act like or talk about. It’s a choice to keep old mindsets, and they’re not always right
@@sereneamani1713 I meant JM because he definitely keeps things going instead of encouraging a growth mindset, for example gender roles and parent roles. That’s obviously an individual couples or person’s decision to make, it’s also 2022 and many boxes society created have been broken finally, and he’s also not a therapist or relationship counselor, or many other things, but injects his personal home opinion and experience, which is based off a toxic masculine environment he grew up in. I respect so much about him, but there are things everyone needs held accountable for, and women would still be in the kitchen if men didn’t adjust and women didn’t finally stop agreeing with men. Again, I respect much about him, and I see wrong, as I can point out in myself and grow from.
Yeah he's likable but a good man??? 🤔...yeah idk about that Judge Mathis. Fact is he was a financial & emotional deadbeat. Glad he accepted the help. Wish him/them well
Kudos to the father for accepting the help and the daughter for going hard for her father.
I admire the daughter for speaking up for her father at the end & the father even more for admitting his bad habits and accepting help 💯💙🙌🏾
Being there for your children emotionally, mentally, and physically makes a huge difference. Kids need more than food and finances.
Well he didn't even do the basics money 3 dollars per month 😢
This case was funny and heartwarming at the same time... Loved the end
This case was very heartwarming glad judge Mathis agreed to help the defendant out 🙏🏾
so if he wasn't there for her emotionally and financially, how could he be a good father? being present isn't enough.
Some people are appreciative for that. Others don't have anything.
@@SamuelsReview Sad truth. It's always praise for the bare minimum fathers do too
@@Bih1stOfAll Rather harsh!
@@sereneamani1713 Nah...just real. Dads can just show up, do the fun stuff and get acknowledged while the day to day pressures Mom endures aren't even an honorable mention until adulthood.
My kids father pays child support but won’t see him at all and calls seldom. I’d rather have his presence in his life than the $$$ any day.
I wish my dad would've asked for help, before it paralyzed him. I pray everyone gets the help they truly need to heal 🙏🏾
I pray that the Lord will heal your dad, because He’s a healer!🙏🏽🔑🦋👣💝
@@RadforHim231 Genuinely appreciate that. Thank You Queen 🙏🏾
This case resonated through my mind deeply, I’m 50+..my dad now deceased, came here from Trinidad many, many years ago. He was in search of the American Dream..he was the worst “father figure”, he hated me based on the fact I resembled my mom now deceased, he did nothing for me..mentally, emotionally nor financially. When he passed several years ago, I was the only person who put foot forward and buried him dignified. Back then, women had to resort to “state benefits” to survive and put the basic staples on the table for their children. The fathers, just as mine did ran from child support and would work on the neighborhood cars to “supplement” their income under the table. Thank God he’s still standing considering the injury he suffered from the explosion, he’s a sixty year old man now, be there for your daughter, she needs you and you will soon need her, trust me.Believe, had he been diligently employed throughout his years he would be entitled to “Disability State funds” for his for his lack of eye vision. She’s in a stable relationship, she needs her father there for that emotional moment and secure shoulder. Stop with the excuses.
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Sorry you went through that, but sadly your mother made the decision to lay up with some deadbeat and get pregnant.
It is about time the mothers start taking accountability in these cases.
@@benjimanmwilliams4922 ..how kind of you. Thank you B.
They both are such sweet people. I wish them so much happiness and health in their lives!!
"Don't you trip in here."
Mathis is a fool
"Don't fall in here with yo unlucky self!!"
Beautiful!
Love to see it!
Very heart warming! Judge Mathis cracked me up at the end.. Be careful, don't trip in here with your unlucky self. lol
Very Heart warming!! Best show EVER!! I hope he gets the help he needs !!
Lol JM couldn't resist that last comment "don't you trip in here"
Lol the older JM gets the joking increases 😂😂😂😂😂
I wonder if it has anything to do with Steve Harvey having a judge show now
I SOOOoo LOVE the Ending 🥺🥲😇🥲 Life Is VERY Short! Love your family! Don't wait till it's too late‼️💯💯💯 NO MATTER WHAT
He resembles my father in a good way. My dad had never ever smiled at me except when he had beaten me up and I end up crying. But this guy, with all that beautiful fatherly smile, just made me cry this time with love. Let him get all the help from JM and live as long as possible.
🙏🏽 Sorry you had to go through that
Make sure u hug ur kids every chance u get. When they are at their best and their worse.
Sorry to hear that, we can only be better for our kids and not repeat the cycle ❤️
He is so adorable. And she is so beautiful. Both are charming.
Hope both of them grow together and find happiness and stay healthy 🖤 God is with them
Judge said be careful dont you trip in here lol
60?? I’m 60!😂😂
Get a Tracfone and keep more money in your pocket.
Oh, and NEVER, NEVER put a phone in your name or share lines for anybody; 99.5% of the time, it ends badly when you do.
I thought this was about to be a commercial.
Judge Mathis: "He can't do much now... he can't even swing right, SWING!" Bwahahaa!
That man don't look bad for 60. He looks his age. In a good way!
Right!! The judge is tryna hold on to his youth buy hiding those grays. Meanwhile, this man is embracing his, cuz he's been through so much, just like the judge lol
Naw he looks 70 atleast
@@theredwhoop9372 I was thinking 80
He looks nice however, looks 70.
Judge was funny as hell. He said don't you trip in here! Unlucky! 😂
Don’t trip In here “ judge Mathis so funny 😂
Not don't trip in here. 😂🤣😂🤣
Don't u trip in here took me out lol. Jm be killing me
Mannn he is too funny. He really stayed back to make sure 😂😂😂
man why they puttin the recaps of the shit we JUST seen lmao edit that shit out 😂🤦🏿♂️
I never had a father. Shit I never had grand parents smh
I must say I’ve never experienced having grandparents myself; they were all deceased by the time I was born, all except my grandmother on dad’s side. Still never got to meet her. She died a few years ago at the age of 92. I do have my dad though. I’m sorry you haven’t had your father.
Nursing homes have people that are neglected. Adopt a grandparent.
my father only have superficial conversations. I never go to him for a shoulder to cry on or for advice. We don’t have that type of relationship
Some men (and women) were never taught to show their emotions or how to be empathetic. It's sad. Sometimes parents try to make up for their errors with their grandchildren. Perhaps you can be the catalyst to help your father. It's never too late while one is still alive and kicking.
13:59...something about the way he asks "You do?" He loves to help.
So no ones going to talk about how JM made it seem normal for a daughter to not come to HER father about the the ups and downs that she has in a relationship involving men?!! SMH lowkey disheartening.🤦🏽♀️ Looks like there’s a need for better father-daughter relationships in the community.
Possibly because everyone doesn't completely agree with you.
I’m a daddy’s girl and I taught me what is acceptable and unacceptable from a man, but I never go to him about ups and downs in my relationship. I don’t see what’s wrong with that, a lot of girls/women dont whether it’s for privacy, it’s awkward, anything
I did go to my father about our relationship. I didn’t have issues with men growing up either
Exactly my point, i'm glad you were able to go to him.@@agood3672
I’m glad he accepted the help he knew he would of let his daughter down if he didn’t
At the end, both parties won
That is why you need to be careful, who you lay with and have kids with
I also thought he was older than 60 years old
More wholesome content like this please!!!🥰
Poor man is nearly blind. Why doesn't she just let him live.
My cousin is a good person who has gone through some very hard knocks.
Gregory stay strong.
I hope the help works for him
He’s adorable! I hope he gets help!
Judge is funny. Glad the dad is gonna get help
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The way judge Mathis can read someone is phenomenal. Hope to be that wise one day
It's inaccurate and demeaning. He thinks he knows it all.
this case had me crying laughing & smiling all at the same time
This show almost made me start crying.
💕💕
Judge Mathis is cracking me up LOL
Judge Mathis got jokes. Lol
Love the ending.
Hope he get the help he needed and get well soon.
Awwww. He' s a sweet guy. Glad she asked for help for her dad. Not for nothing but on the real with all the bad luck he's had he need some prays and to NOT acknowledge or keep saying that he is " unlucky" or has " bad luck" " Life and Death lies in the power of the tongue. He or they need to speak nothing but positivity over his life and seek Jesus Christ. All in All great episode... Thanks Judge Mathis🙏
So he claimed to be disabled, worked under the table to avoid child support, but used that money for drugs and alcohol. He would have been left where he was if i was her.
Pops is in the wrong for not paying that bill, he look guilty.
It's a damn shame .. I would never ask my parents for a dime about a damn phone bill.. SMH thank God for my parents they raised 4 of us the correct way. Till this day my 2 sisters pays mom car note, brother pay her light bill, I pay her car insurance, ans phone for the pass 7 years . Our parents deserve better y'all 😤 they deserve to be cater like they catered us
Thank goodness for your wonderful parents. Other people are not as fortunate.
He didn’t cater to her tho lmao
That's good and your family is admirable. However, different strokes for different folks. I don't want my children or grandchildren to pay my bills. I hope I never get to the point where I would need them to do so. However, if I do need it, I will gladly accept and I'm sure they would. Not arguing with you at all, but what I wanted (want) is for my children to care for their families the way they were cared for.
Clearly it was deeper than a phone bill. You have to learn to meet people where they are and my reasoning for this was to get him help. The phone bill was the gateway that got us there
Damn 3 dollars for child support 😕 😪
Exactly, why even take anything from someone’s check at that point.
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Lol their faces when he said he was 60 😭😂
Amazing judge help people
JM rushed through her words "I've been with the same man for 20 years". I kinda think her father may have had some bearing on the kind of man she chose, even if in an opposite way. Perhaps preparing her to know what negative qualities to avoid.
No disrespect but her pops can definitely do a voice over for uncle ruckus on the boondocks (if by a stroke of luck, the ever came back)
First time I've seen JM wait to go in his chambers and see the results of a family... he's definitely become more caring in his older years
I love this Judge.
He is always fair .
He not always fair, this episode he was
I hate when judge Mathis say crazy stuff to fathers . I hope he never go throw stuff like that .
Exactly
I love me some Judge Mathis...he is so hilarious 😂
Hello beautiful people ❣️
He could have gotten a free phone. Smh
I really dislike when parents look for money from the children instead of the other way around.
"personal jobs" 😆
That's how alot of us gonna be in 30yrs standing next to people who look 20 yrs older then us but be the same age
He's a handsome 60yr ol guy I need him in my life🤣😛😍.... I'm glad he accepted the help and hopefully they'll give it another try and become closer...
I’m pretty sure that the perceived ‘handsome swagger’ was at the core of 90% of his initial problems #streetcode
Im sure he has good intentions, BUT Cynthia G, is right again 😒🤦🏾♀️
Dude just said, personal money when he's not financially supporting his children.
First... Happy Good Friday yal 😊😊
Same to you Bajan, see, that’s what makes this uncertainty of everyday life….positive energy and encouraging words. Enjoy Good Friday, perhaps some nice fresh fish, it’s brain food. Bajan, keep smiling.
@@daphneharper5287 I most certainly will Ms Daph! What kind of fish are you frying today? I'm having some snapper
Bajan, I’m pleased you asked…I’m “vegan” yet I eat fish as a Source of protein, I know this is not the platform but make sure it’s a fresh red snapper head on, rinse cold water in out..three half inch cuts both sides..olive oil fresh lemon grass fresh ginger fresh scallion hint of five spice two tablespoons olive butter/not margarine watch your flame..we want to achieve golden brown sauté together set aside brown snapper both sides place in baking pan add all ingredients atop place in oven on 350..for 15min..prepare your side dish..perhaps some steamed broccoli or sauté some asparagus. Don’t forget the Frexinet Gold..Bajan, enjoy!
@@daphneharper5287 lol Ms Daph I kept it plain and simple some nice all seasoning and Cajun seasoning. I'm from The Bahamas so we usually get fresh fish for good Friday and we have it with hot cross buns.
What did she want from this man? He was present but wasn’t there emotionally. Many men aren’t good with their emotions. What she wanted him to sit and cry with her?
He seems like a nice guy, but not the best dad. He knows he could have done more for her than what he did..or even just been present.
I’m just glad his daughter is present and wants him to be better, not to make him look like a bad guy. He definitely did look drunk (kinda like one of my uncles) and the spiral can be real. I’m glad Judge Mathis said yes and the guy is willing too. #HappyEnding
JM NEEDS TO RETIRE. THE FATHER STATED THAT HE DIDN'T WORK IN MECHANIC SHOP AND THE JOBS WERE PERSONAL. MEANING THAT HE MAY HAVE BEEN WORKING ON FRIENDS OR RELATIVES CARS. JM WENT WAY LEFT WITH IT. SMH
Exactly!
I thought he was at least 70
I feel like she had a really idealistic view of what a father should be. If he was there for you everyday, day in and day what more can you ask for?
Emotional, Financial, counsel, food, & moral support
@@gigiarchie3208 "he was never a shoulder to cry on for me" "I could never ask him for financial advice" she's an adult she can gain some financial literacy just like the next person. Also, if her dad wasn't there to comfort emotionally but he was present for her throughout her life she should count her blessings. Sounds ungrateful to me.
Not everyone has a good relationship with their children. You hope for the best but sometimes it's just not in the cards. About the best thing you can possibly do is to try your best, do what's right and then let the chips fall where they may.
Adrian, sometimes you say the best things. "sometimes"!🤗 🤔
The defendant needs help by attending Alcohol Anonymous to overcome his drinking habit he to be in his daughter life.
That's one avenue.
She's money hungry
Money hungry for $250? Not at all!
Mathis has the nerve to talk… what kind of father don’t vet the men his daughters date. He exposed himself.
Uhmm because some fathers being doing too much and some even trust their daughter's decison or even respect it without getting involved. It's called personal space
Mathis gang roll call 📞 😎 👌
Why not help him get a government phone🤷🏾♀️ it’s free.. I pay my granny phone bill she 68 but it’s because I want
Get to the case, they done talked and talked the whole episode, still dont know what she suing him for geez
He a good father
I had hardtime applaud people for go to rehab its for you
Not for us you don't want same for us ...
3 dollars per month 😮
Judge says you unlockett.
Adults have to realize a lot went on when they were kids that they knew nothing about. Both parties mom and dad were people before they had the kid, all you know is what you are told. Don’t walk around harboring ill feelings
I'm on the defendant side
I’m 2nd … This Is Extremely Early for Me - Let’s Go Comment Section and Good Friday Blessings 🙏🏾
Blessings 💞
He looks 65/68.
He always makes sure to keep stereotypes going about what men and women can act like or talk about. It’s a choice to keep old mindsets, and they’re not always right
Broad get out of your feelings
@@theredwhoop9372 I don’t have any.
But sometimes they are right. New is not always right. (I haven't looked at the video yet, so I don't know if "he" means JM or the defendant.
@@sereneamani1713 I meant JM because he definitely keeps things going instead of encouraging a growth mindset, for example gender roles and parent roles. That’s obviously an individual couples or person’s decision to make, it’s also 2022 and many boxes society created have been broken finally, and he’s also not a therapist or relationship counselor, or many other things, but injects his personal home opinion and experience, which is based off a toxic masculine environment he grew up in. I respect so much about him, but there are things everyone needs held accountable for, and women would still be in the kitchen if men didn’t adjust and women didn’t finally stop agreeing with men. Again, I respect much about him, and I see wrong, as I can point out in myself and grow from.
Yeah he's likable but a good man??? 🤔...yeah idk about that Judge Mathis. Fact is he was a financial & emotional deadbeat. Glad he accepted the help. Wish him/them well
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Eddie Kane from five heart beats the Dad lol
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