This is why I tell my teenage children, to focus on their future, FIRST! These lil boys & girls aren’t going anywhere. Sometimes, it can be a distraction. But many blessings, to these two & their child.
@@angelicjames It makes no sense at all. I’ve known plenty of women who were housewives with nothing to fall back on thinking their husbands always were going to be around. Fast forward they find a new woman and you have no education or job skills 😐
@@theproductjunkie8118 ok figure of speech but it involve words. Even the Bible speaks on that. I'm just giving a friendly advice how you take it is on you. But I still wish you a great day since it seems like you're on edge about this comment. 🌬️💨💜
@@NinJahBaeServicesLLC I’m not on edge on anything I thanked you and said God bless. I don’t think the same way you do which is why I speak the way that I speak. That doesn’t mean I’m on edge that means we have a difference in opinions. Have a good day 💕
They are both tragic. My grandma would always tell me “you are in a rush so bad to be grown, you are going to wish one day you were a kid again with no responsibilities”. She was right! They ruined their futures honestly 🤷🏾♂️
she took a charge for a guy just to get kicked out of school had a baby by him who lost his scholarship had no car just to use hers ,,, now let that marinate
One thing I have learned about women: if they like you, they will tolerate bs, make foolish decisions on behalf of the man, forgive the unforgivable. If they don't like you, there are not enough good deeds you can do to win them over. She is a prime example.
@@sereneamani1713 just watched a JM case yesterday with a sister suing her brother for the damages his crazy on again/off again gf caused to her car because she was jealous of the woman he was seeing. Both he and the sister stated that the new woman was good for him, but he eventually admitted that he'd probably never stop messing with the crazy girl. Y'all, crazy girl PEED in the sister's car. You gotta be one trash @$$ individual to do that...but...he's drawn to her 🥴🥴🥴.
Love, pussy, ass, big booties, cute smile, lust can never ever ever make me share anything with a bitch. Stay single people. Stack money and fuck bitches. I’m on my fourth rental property. MONEY 💰 💰💰💰💰💰💵💵💵💵💵💵
Unless u are married! Marriage and playing house and having kids and sharing cars n shit is not the SAME. the clock is totally different! Sad thing is that she was pressed and had his baby so they cant just leave it be. Another sad thing is that she IS GOING TO TAKE HIM BACK. and he'll be back in the mustang with his trifling ass, thinking it's fine that his baby and baby momma drive around in his bucket that has a million issues and is not safe. Smfh ugh ,,, COULDN'T BE ME AND WOULDN'T BE ME NEVERRRRRR!!!!
@@Lanie-sl9ne He wasn't being chauvinist, he wanted to see if she was bringing it up all of the sudden or changing the rules because they're no longer together
He wanted to equate the two as mutually retaliatory but the defendant is trifling and she seems more responsible for the kid. I hope she takes care of herself cause that dude is still a child minded.
He even tried to say “y’all both acting a fool” of her telling him the boy damaged her property and her car and I love that she corrected the judge, no he acted a fool!
@@tnicoletnicole no she’s a fool as well. He didn’t misspeak. It’s foolish to take the rap for a dude you barely know and get kicked out of school and proceed to let the very same dude impregnate you. It’s idiotic.
They had their heads on straight at first. Both in college, he got his associates, she was there for dance and cheer on full scholarship…. How could y’all blow it away just for weed on campus. Smoke way outside and spray. Don’t open a window and just smoke. They both made dumb ass decisions BUT I do think they learned their lessons and I hope their mistake is taught to their son. May his future be filled with success! LEGALIZE & DECRIMINALIZE WEED NATIONALLY FOR RECREATIONAL USE
How about just don't smoke weed on campus. That's stupid. He got caught not once, but twice. Her being kicked out of school because of him wasn't' enough? Weed isn't a necessity. These days, college is.
@@ggboot1 I went to a private predominately white school. The biggest nerds were the ones selling the weed, and everybody smoked it there was never any searches or any issues. This only happens to black folks. They criminalize black people for something many many states are now making billions off of. And now that white Americans have an opioid and substance crisis, it’s a public health issue and there’s needle exchanges and free pipes in every corner. It’s only a health issue when it’s their people they want to preserve. Wake up! It’s always a race issue if it involves blacks, but whites it’s a health crisis. People are still serving prison sentences for weed in some of these states. Where I live they don’t even arrest for opioids and substances!
@@ggboot1 Or move to states where weed is legal. (I don't condone weed or any other drugs. however, the uneven and discriminatory penalties across this country are atrocious and outrageous).
@@Hanna-bd9yr Right and in places like where I live, people are getting wealthy owning dispensaries selling the same drug that people are still in prison for and/or barred from employment and educational opportunities for selling and possessing marijuana.
I had a by income apartment (tax credit) at age 19 while in college. I liked a guy and let him visit me one particular day. The same day they did home inspections. They came in, looked around and claimed to smell weed. The guy did smoke weed, but he didnt do it in my house. I guess it was on his clothes. They forced me to move. I tried to get them to test me because I don't do any drug and never drank. But they refused. It was incredible embarrassing but I learned my lesson.
This is sad. She sacrificed everything for him. All for what? Him to be an ordinary dude who did her bogus. She could have done much more with her life if she didn't think small.
She was stupid as heck. And I dont feel sad because despite all of it, she is still making bad decisions and been stupid, even considering getting back. I can only feel bad for the kid.
Judge is so mad at him for basically ruining his future! She took the rap for senseless reasons. He ended up getting busted anyways losing everything; scholarship, future Etc
He’s using her, don’t blame him she’s part of the problem to choose a loser to have a child with him, I don’t think he’s helping her taking care of their child. She’s not over him yet.
Why are all the comments focused on her calling the coach like he wasn’t already smoking weed illegally and skipping study hall? He ruined his own college career and future. They both made bad decisions, but let’s not act like she didn’t lose everything too.
So the defendant witnessed the plaintiff getting kicked out of school. And he doesn't stop smoking weed and risked his scholarship?!?! That will be his biggest regret!!! I hope you enjoy smelling like McDonald's 🍟. I WISH I had received a scholarship to college. I would have taken it seriously 😒
I didn't finish college but my AA and am a business owner not working at McDonalds. He has is AA they said. So much options out there other then giving up and going to work for McDonalds. And I too wish I was lucky enough for a scholarship😞 specially growing up poor, it would have been super helpful
This guy is a piece of work. Using her car, telling her when he was going to bring it back, and destroying her property. Then he blames her for him vandalizing her vehicle. This guy takes no responsibility for his own actions. Pathetic. She should have just focused on her studies and left him where he was. Now she's out here probably struggling being a single mother. Smh. They're both too immature to be raising a child. Smh.
@@Truckeractivityy Okay and we have enough people getting killed via DV. If they plan on being together they both need individual and family therapy. It appears that they do not know how to express themselves without being violent towards each other destorying property and verbal abuse is a form of DV
They didn’t throw their lives away 😒, they threw their Plan A away. They are very young and still growing, they most definitely can do other things in life and become just as successful if not more successful on their new journey
Judge Mathias, being in college is not going reform that youngman's false reasoning. He was raised to be and stay a boy child. The immaturity on both sides is through the roof.
Most college kids are immature. The frontal lobes, home to key components of the neural circuitry underlying “executive functions” such as planning, working memory, and impulse control, are among the last areas of the brain to mature; they may not be fully developed until halfway through the third decade of life. That’s around 25 yrs old.
They are very immature, but actually seem like they might be able to make their relationship work if they grow up a little more. God bless them and their baby.
It seems like they would have made a good couple had they done things right. No drugs, stayed in school, got married then had a kid. He’d probably have a good career in football.
They are the definition of losers. She didn’t want to be a snitch so took a charge and got kicked out of school. He didn’t step up and do better and ended up losing his scholarship. Smh
@@kevinlakeem7818 yes taking a charge for a man is the dumbest thing you can do and getting yourself kicked out of school over dumb stuff when you had a whole scholarship
@@dance4life1208 There are many dumb things that people do in life. Have you ever heard of learning from your mistakes, improving, rebounding? Some people die from their dumb mistakes, but those of us who didn't die often learn and move upward and onward. BTW There really are dumber things that people can do and have done. Hopefully, as you grow older and gain more life experience, you will develop different perspectives on people and life. Perhaps learn to be less dogmatic and condescending,
Losers to get into universities and obtain scholarships they were headed to paradise they were being foolish immature n taking things for granted is more like it not losers. Losers don't even make it that far at a young age
This is one of my biggest fear for my son. Him not listening to all the damn instructions and advice we are giving him to try and make it in this cruel ass world. Listen to your parents and stop following other kids because u wanna be in the “in” crowd. They can get u killed also.
The worst fear... Like my mother say" hard head makes a soft behind" My nephew that we raised is a follower bad when they dont use there head to make the right decisions, hope everything goes well for your son. Like I tell my nephew one wrong move can have you dead or in jail.
Prayers For This Beautiful Young Couple. Tajenea You Are Beautiful 🌹 I'm Sure Their lil Son Is Too Adorable 🤎 Sending Y'all All The Best For Your Future. GOD Has Great Purposes For Your Family. 🤎🖤🤎
While watching this episode I kept saying to myself, “His voice sounds soooo familiar…” and it finally hit me just now… He sounds just like DABABY!!! Lol he literally sounds like he’s low key rapping while he’s simply talking 😂 so funny!
This is just sad, because of her and his ignorance they both have lost everything. They are toxic together and just need to co-parent. She took heed to what the judge said about he have a case against her. She knew she needed to stay on his good side so he wouldn't bring suit against her. She's very vindictive because she knew calling his coach was getting him in trouble. She knew he took that car and was upset he didn't come home. Her next call will definitely be the police.
So if someone took your car and didn't return it within the time they were to return it you wouldn't be mad. If she was really vindictive she would've called the police first and reported the car stolen. The moral of this story is do not take what isn't yours and then once you have have the nerve to say u aren't going to return it when I need it. Regardless if there is another vh or not the car was hers. He was wrong and instead of admitting it he was childish and showed his ass. Now she was wrong for deactivating the biz account and possibly could've just took the vh bk without contacting the coach but she simply said can you get a hold of him for me. He brought all the extra drama by not handling the situation as a grown man. They both having some growing to do but seem to be headed in the right direction and hopefully can amend their relationship for the sake of the child growing up in a healthy and stable environment
@@zenobiachapman1636 You said all that to say absolutely nothing. Like I said that was her boyfriend, she lives with, to say he didn't have permission to have the car, she would have been calling the police the 1st week he was gone. Instead she was expecting him to come home that week and he had practice on Saturday. She called the coach to be vindictive and found out yes he do have practice Saturday. That's why she didn't show up until after he told her he would be there when he got there. Was he wrong yes, was she wrong for calling his coach and then showing up and taking the car for the coach to see, that was fucked up because it got him kicked off the team and out of school fucking up his chances to get any other scholarship or admission to another university. She was already there following him because ain't no way she live a hour and a half away and track the car to a restaurant and they just now eating in the restaurant and she got the car. Like I said there's ignorance on both parts and like the judge told her, he have a case against her because that was detriment to his livelihood. See this is the problem with so called women never wanting to put responsibilities in their hands and face what they have done. Like I said they are toxic together because of her insecurities and unhappiness of taking on a rap that wasn't hers. She became all kinds of bitter, and they should have left it alone then but no he still brought her up to him. So it really wasn't about the damn car, it was because he didn't return on that Friday like he was supposed to because he had practice. She worked all night looking for a way to get up there and then found a friend. Like he said it was another car there for her to drive around and she had no problem with that until he didn't return when she wanted. When she felt it didn't help calling the coach because the coach told her he have practice is when her mind decided she's going to get it. So you can miss me with all that other shit.
This is so unfair her future destroyed and he gets a slap on the wrist after the second instance of Marijuana being in his proximity yall young girls have to prioritize yourselves. Not only did he destroy her future he did it again a week later and the coaches have the audacity to have sympathy for someone who clearly has no care for himself. Just sad she should be embarrassed telling that story he didn't even see the seriousness of her losing her future
Young people making young mistakes in their relationship and life. He seems to be his own worst enemy actually, but it seems that she loved and still does love him very much. I’m sure he feels the same way. I wish the 2 of them and their child the ultimate success!
She’s not lucky he’s not countersuing, she says she paid him back already. Judge was upset about her calling the coach more than him damaging her property
Yeah because that costed him his future TF. Why do woman never look at the bigger picture it's like yall have tunnel vision. The guy lost his scholarship, a chance to become a pro athlete and make something of himself. You think a few hundred dollars of damage is much worst than that?
@@DatActiveGuy lol shut up you sound like a peon. He took her car and wouldn’t answer the phone. She can do whatever she wants at that point including report he stolen. He’s lucky she didn’t do that. His coach told him return it and he still didn’t. He cost himself his future, don’t blame her, take some responsibility cornball
@@ebonyswope You sound like the typical bitter black woman. This is why society has no respect for yall. Always doing the most for nothing. She had another car to drive & she knew he would bring it back. But nah she decided to act up and cost the man his future. This is why we steady choosing to date other races yall always got to be the victim and never have common sense FOH
"When you make a decision, make it carefully. Know what you truly want. Consider every possible consequence or you'll wind up at 59 wondering what the hell happened." ~ Ernest Hemingway~ Find your skill base and find out what you love to do Choose a job you love and you will never have to work a day in your life
Wellllll…. I wouldn’t say “need” but yes I like smoking a little bf I lay down at night too! I also work full time 8-4:30 and part time 6-11 so I feel I deserve to kick back after work with a little green to help me relax and sleep ;-)
It’s amazing how JM scolds people for calling jobs, probation officers or whatever in regards to personal issues yet here it’s perfectly fine to call his coach about something not football related 🤦🏽♂️
@Delores B left her stranded? No she left him stranded because she was being psycho and controlling. She was at home with her baby where she belong. Didn't you hear him say they had a second car? She was just being psycho in her feelings actin a fool when she went and took the car leaving him wherever he was at.
I’m glad they decided to get back together I mean damn they been through a lot and I like both of them. It’s great they are going to raise their son together as a unit now they just need to get some professional help to grow tf up and live productive lives.
Child please this s*** is tragic she wasn't taught to date accomplished she fell for a conversation and a penis . Which none of them can have you owning a home /having money in the bank/ trips/and or resources and a fabulous life.
I’m for recreational marijauna too JM. I believe that if everyone smoked every once in a while the world would be more relaxed. Life gets stressful. God knew that! He put this here for me, and you! #shoutouttosmokey!!!
I lived in Fort Valley for 4yrs. I hate that these young folks get distracted with senseless things. But, I was soooooooo worse than them. Still trying to stay focused. I hope they complete their goals.
He is in rage for her calling his coach to returning the car and feeling embarrassed and his ego and narcissistic behavior and emotion needs addressing expeditiously Even his mother stated as plaintiff said, her son his grown and does not listen to nobody So these young adults trying to be grown and playing house and having babies, yet still not mature im their mindset to make fruitful decisions for long life God's way
They would only take it from certain people. This is why I urge our young people to stay focused, our people are not as fortunate therefore it is in our best interests to walk a straight line. In my home, US Virgin Islands, our elders have a saying, prevention is better than cure. They knew the police was there before, bet your bottom dollar they will be back to check, why give them what they were expecting to find? I could see they were raised right though, they just made some critical mistakes that caused them to get kicked out. To these two young people, it is not the end of the world, we all make mistakes, but it is how we respond to these mistakes is what defines our future. Pick yourselves up, brush yourselves off and try to do better, God bless you all.
This made me so sad. He had such a bright career. And he really tried. He moved her to where he was at, most young men wouldn't do that. This situation really could have been avoided with mentor and some patients with him. All messed things up over A CAR A CAR!!! Lord God!! They just needed someone older to help them through it all. I pray that they can get their life back on track
She had a bright future as well and lost it over trying to save him. It came back on him in the end. Both were young and immature. Hopefully they co-parent well and do better.
Thank you, I can’t stand when people act like they just fall into life with no clue of what’s going on. Condoms are cheaper than the destruction he caused because he feel he can do whatever since she’s his bm
Correction: SHE GOT HERSELF PREGNANT. It's a woman's job to know her body and when she ovulating or in her high fertility window. How these random men y'all lay down with supposed to know that YOU are ovulating. Girl bye. Females need to grow up and learn to start taking responsibility for their own body. Especially if they're not married.
@@texasmadehoney1523 please go back and read a biology and anatomy book on the creation of life. We hold the womb that carries the baby, men carry the seamen that creates the baby. So many of our men are totally disconnected from the life they help to create which is why there are collectively millions of children without Fathers. Mainly because men refuse to take accountability for there part in creation. Babies cannot exist without a mans sPErM. FYI I don't have children and I've abstained from sex for 13 years. Please grow up.
Why aren’t women being responsible for their bodies. If you are studying and the education is important to you, why you having sex without protection??? If you don’t want children use condoms, ladies use birth control . There’s no one out there who don’t know how babies are made. If he’s not willing to protect you, protect yourself . We keep saying it takes two, which it certainly does, only 1 person gets pregnant though. Women ! Protect yourselves
"Chair" scholarships are where it's at😂 but hey, she wanted to prove she was "down", well now she gets to reap the consequences of such idiocy. His "business"...riiiight😂
This is why I tell my teenage children, to focus on their future, FIRST! These lil boys & girls aren’t going anywhere. Sometimes, it can be a distraction. But many blessings, to these two & their child.
Lol independence is the reason why this happening... teach your kids the role of being a husband and a wife..
@@victorvalentinejr9738 That doesn’t even make sense
@@angelicjames It makes no sense at all. I’ve known plenty of women who were housewives with nothing to fall back on thinking their husbands always were going to be around. Fast forward they find a new woman and you have no education or job skills 😐
It really does
@@scottrogue946 there nothing wrong with being a housewife.
I wish my daughter would get kicked out of school for taking a charge for a BOY
I don't wish that on nobody, I know you're using sarcasm but words carry life and death. We have to be careful how we use them...
@@NinJahBaeServicesLLC it’s a figure of speech. Your intentions when speaking is what manifest bad/good things. But thank you anyway. God bless.
@TimTim & The BusyBodies! she better had cause this is terrible
@@theproductjunkie8118 ok figure of speech but it involve words. Even the Bible speaks on that. I'm just giving a friendly advice how you take it is on you. But I still wish you a great day since it seems like you're on edge about this comment. 🌬️💨💜
@@NinJahBaeServicesLLC I’m not on edge on anything I thanked you and said God bless. I don’t think the same way you do which is why I speak the way that I speak. That doesn’t mean I’m on edge that means we have a difference in opinions. Have a good day 💕
They are both tragic. My grandma would always tell me “you are in a rush so bad to be grown, you are going to wish one day you were a kid again with no responsibilities”. She was right! They ruined their futures honestly 🤷🏾♂️
Shut up
@@ayana188 WHY!!!
They didn’t ruin their future, just have to take another path. Life is great they will be okay.
They're not going to be okay being vindictive jerks to one another.
I wish there was a way to be an adult with no responsibilities!
she took a charge for a guy just to get kicked out of school had a baby by him who lost his scholarship had no car just to use hers ,,, now let that marinate
One thing I have learned about women: if they like you, they will tolerate bs, make foolish decisions on behalf of the man, forgive the unforgivable. If they don't like you, there are not enough good deeds you can do to win them over. She is a prime example.
@@muskegontribune Ironically, I've learned the same thing about people, men and women.
@@sereneamani1713 I am a Man and I agree with you
@@sereneamani1713 just watched a JM case yesterday with a sister suing her brother for the damages his crazy on again/off again gf caused to her car because she was jealous of the woman he was seeing. Both he and the sister stated that the new woman was good for him, but he eventually admitted that he'd probably never stop messing with the crazy girl.
Y'all, crazy girl PEED in the sister's car. You gotta be one trash @$$ individual to do that...but...he's drawn to her 🥴🥴🥴.
And there gonna get BACK together and live on lots of LOVE and live happily ever after.
This whole story, from start to finish was extremely sad!
Yes, it was. Good thing is theyre young enough to turn this around.
Yes it is
@@MotherDivable she should appeal for financial aid eligibility
👀😤 Especially when caucasians are making Billions selling it " legally" ‼️🤬
Kids having kids acting like adults, but totally lost on reality. This is a perpetual occurrence in our community.
I agree if by community you mean the WORLD.
Yes it's sad they have no clue
Kids having kids and acting like kids
I wish these two (and the child) the best ! We all make mistakes but it’s about how you deal with it and overcome.
Yes we all go through a stupid stage where we mess things up. Hopefully they will start to wake up.
So right
True
These young people worked hard to derail their potential and greatness. I pray they get it together ❤ we must do better 🙏🏽
What a waste of the Plaintiff's willingness to take the blame. He lost the scholarship, degree, and off school.
Because of his own behavior. He can blame himself for that.
Young dumb n full of you know the rest
😤😭😭😳😭
he lost his scholarship because they found weed in his room afterwards not because of the weed she took blame for
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This is why everyone should have their own no sharing cars or bank accounts
Love, pussy, ass, big booties, cute smile, lust can never ever ever make me share anything with a bitch. Stay single people. Stack money and fuck bitches. I’m on my fourth rental property. MONEY 💰 💰💰💰💰💰💵💵💵💵💵💵
unless you married
right
Unless u are married! Marriage and playing house and having kids and sharing cars n shit is not the SAME. the clock is totally different! Sad thing is that she was pressed and had his baby so they cant just leave it be. Another sad thing is that she IS GOING TO TAKE HIM BACK. and he'll be back in the mustang with his trifling ass, thinking it's fine that his baby and baby momma drive around in his bucket that has a million issues and is not safe. Smfh ugh ,,, COULDN'T BE ME AND WOULDN'T BE ME NEVERRRRRR!!!!
@@AndyinMTL nah I still want my own marriage don’t work out I still got my own shit
Judge Mathis tried to set up the plaintiff by repeatedly asking if she ever gave him permission to drive the car but she didn't fall for it.
Yeah, that's his chauvinist side.
@@Lanie-sl9ne He wasn't being chauvinist, he wanted to see if she was bringing it up all of the sudden or changing the rules because they're no longer together
He wanted to equate the two as mutually retaliatory but the defendant is trifling and she seems more responsible for the kid. I hope she takes care of herself cause that dude is still a child minded.
He even tried to say “y’all both acting a fool” of her telling him the boy damaged her property and her car and I love that she corrected the judge, no he acted a fool!
@@tnicoletnicole no she’s a fool as well. He didn’t misspeak. It’s foolish to take the rap for a dude you barely know and get kicked out of school and proceed to let the very same dude impregnate you. It’s idiotic.
I witnessed so many people go through similar woes in my college years. Just young, dumb, and free. You live and you learn.
They had their heads on straight at first. Both in college, he got his associates, she was there for dance and cheer on full scholarship…. How could y’all blow it away just for weed on campus. Smoke way outside and spray. Don’t open a window and just smoke. They both made dumb ass decisions BUT I do think they learned their lessons and I hope their mistake is taught to their son. May his future be filled with success! LEGALIZE & DECRIMINALIZE WEED NATIONALLY FOR RECREATIONAL USE
How about just don't smoke weed on campus. That's stupid. He got caught not once, but twice. Her being kicked out of school because of him wasn't' enough? Weed isn't a necessity. These days, college is.
Agreed! @kitty
@@ggboot1 I went to a private predominately white school. The biggest nerds were the ones selling the weed, and everybody smoked it there was never any searches or any issues. This only happens to black folks. They criminalize black people for something many many states are now making billions off of. And now that white Americans have an opioid and substance crisis, it’s a public health issue and there’s needle exchanges and free pipes in every corner. It’s only a health issue when it’s their people they want to preserve. Wake up! It’s always a race issue if it involves blacks, but whites it’s a health crisis. People are still serving prison sentences for weed in some of these states. Where I live they don’t even arrest for opioids and substances!
@@ggboot1 Or move to states where weed is legal. (I don't condone weed or any other drugs. however, the uneven and discriminatory penalties across this country are atrocious and outrageous).
@@Hanna-bd9yr Right and in places like where I live, people are getting wealthy owning dispensaries selling the same drug that people are still in prison for and/or barred from employment and educational opportunities for selling and possessing marijuana.
I had a by income apartment (tax credit) at age 19 while in college. I liked a guy and let him visit me one particular day. The same day they did home inspections. They came in, looked around and claimed to smell weed. The guy did smoke weed, but he didnt do it in my house. I guess it was on his clothes. They forced me to move. I tried to get them to test me because I don't do any drug and never drank. But they refused. It was incredible embarrassing but I learned my lesson.
At least you learned young rather than be a old fool. Blessings.
I am sorry for your experience. I am really sure that their actions could have been legally challenged. Did you have any advocates?
Dealing with males women ALWAYS lose
This is sad. She sacrificed everything for him. All for what? Him to be an ordinary dude who did her bogus. She could have done much more with her life if she didn't think small.
She was stupid as heck. And I dont feel sad because despite all of it, she is still making bad decisions and been stupid, even considering getting back. I can only feel bad for the kid.
@@323azteca that part PISSED ME OFF
All I see is two young people learning... both good people.
Yikes..
Ty your right their sooo young and learning life but they need to maybe stop living like a married couple at such a young age.
Glad Judge Mathis cleared that no snitching up
I agree
I messed up your property but I do not feel I owe you because you caused these emotions. Boy if you don’t run her her damn coins.
😩😂😂😂
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He's a clown who doesn't deserve a girlfriend or baby. He has nothing to give or teach a child
AND EXPEDITIOUSLY 😮
You took the blame and got kicked out of school?!?! For a dude?! Baby I’m snitching!!!!! On camera, microphone in hand!! Wtf!
I'll be your witness, the stupidity of it all. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Judge is so mad at him for basically ruining his future!
She took the rap for senseless reasons.
He ended up getting busted anyways losing everything; scholarship, future Etc
He’s using her, don’t blame him she’s part of the problem to choose a loser to have a child with him, I don’t think he’s helping her taking care of their child.
She’s not over him yet.
Why are all the comments focused on her calling the coach like he wasn’t already smoking weed illegally and skipping study hall? He ruined his own college career and future. They both made bad decisions, but let’s not act like she didn’t lose everything too.
Exactly. Why Judge worried on that! Dude took her car. She lucky she didn’t call the police.
Victim blaming and not holding men responsible has the black community in a chokehold🤮
@@ebonyswope What??? Those two things are pertinent and only issues? I just honestly don't see the correlations you are making.
@@sereneamani1713 did I say only? You’re a part of the problem clearly
@@ebonyswope nothing to do with the conversation but your hair is so beautiful 🥺🥺
So the defendant witnessed the plaintiff getting kicked out of school. And he doesn't stop smoking weed and risked his scholarship?!?! That will be his biggest regret!!! I hope you enjoy smelling like McDonald's 🍟. I WISH I had received a scholarship to college. I would have taken it seriously 😒
I know the only thing he might got going for him is if he is really trading stocks.
I didn't finish college but my AA and am a business owner not working at McDonalds. He has is AA they said. So much options out there other then giving up and going to work for McDonalds. And I too wish I was lucky enough for a scholarship😞 specially growing up poor, it would have been super helpful
This guy is a piece of work. Using her car, telling her when he was going to bring it back, and destroying her property. Then he blames her for him vandalizing her vehicle. This guy takes no responsibility for his own actions. Pathetic. She should have just focused on her studies and left him where he was. Now she's out here probably struggling being a single mother. Smh. They're both too immature to be raising a child. Smh.
Than he said “she ended up getting pregnant” 👀 Like she got the flu and he had nothing to do with it 🤒 😂
She embarrassed him he wants to look like he's the man around his friend
He was a piece of work. But she liked it. Women love bad guys--it always makes them honorable.
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Adult version of a spoiled brat. Never is required to accept accountability as a kid and hasn't matured enough to accept it as an adult. 🥴
They should just co-parent and leave this toxic relationship alone. Both of these young people need to do better risking it all do to ego.
We have enough broken homes
@@Truckeractivityy Okay and we have enough people getting killed via DV. If they plan on being together they both need individual and family therapy. It appears that they do not know how to express themselves without being violent towards each other destorying property and verbal abuse is a form of DV
@@ChocoBeauty8 I agree with you
She silly she messed up her own bag
Just sad… both of em threw their school lives away over foolishness…
They didn’t throw their lives away 😒, they threw their Plan A away. They are very young and still growing, they most definitely can do other things in life and become just as successful if not more successful on their new journey
Judge Mathias, being in college is not going reform that youngman's false reasoning. He was raised to be and stay a boy child. The immaturity on both sides is through the roof.
Agreed
Most college kids are immature. The frontal lobes, home to key components of the neural circuitry underlying “executive functions” such as planning, working memory, and impulse control, are among the last areas of the brain to mature; they may not be fully developed until halfway through the third decade of life. That’s around 25 yrs old.
FACTS College ain't going to solve this kid stupidity and immaturity
There is no reform. Just sex-addled adult-lessons.
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This is what happens sometimes. Kids go to college, and be away from home for the first time and start acting a fool smh
Yep lol I sure did
Yep
He fumbled the bag and that woman has nothing to do with his immaturity
Hopefully she moves on cause he’s very childish
This is why we need to get rid of this babymama culture. She followed it to a fail, where it usually ends. 🤦🏿♀️
Thank you. Marriage THEN kids not kids and hoping for it all to work itself out. That is ghetto and struggle mentality.
West 4B 💪🏾💯
So her friend can drive her 2 hours away but can’t take her to work…🧐😂😂
They are very immature, but actually seem like they might be able to make their relationship work if they grow up a little more. God bless them and their baby.
It seems like they would have made a good couple had they done things right. No drugs, stayed in school, got married then had a kid. He’d probably have a good career in football.
He has no emotional stability or intelligence. We’re ignore red flags this early in 2022?
Honey, baby mama's grow up after 35 years + 4 grown kids by 4 baby daddy's + 9 grandkids. And they still gon be 'grown'
They are the definition of losers. She didn’t want to be a snitch so took a charge and got kicked out of school. He didn’t step up and do better and ended up losing his scholarship. Smh
They’re losers? Tell me you were never a teenager who made mistakes… you ppl have clearly lost touch with reality
@@kevinlakeem7818 yes taking a charge for a man is the dumbest thing you can do and getting yourself kicked out of school over dumb stuff when you had a whole scholarship
@@dance4life1208 There are many dumb things that people do in life. Have you ever heard of learning from your mistakes, improving, rebounding? Some people die from their dumb mistakes, but those of us who didn't die often learn and move upward and onward. BTW There really are dumber things that people can do and have done.
Hopefully, as you grow older and gain more life experience, you will develop different perspectives on people and life. Perhaps learn to be less dogmatic and condescending,
Losers to get into universities and obtain scholarships they were headed to paradise they were being foolish immature n taking things for granted is more like it not losers. Losers don't even make it that far at a young age
Wow that was harsh they were in college you never made a mistake at 19/20?
They Must be Actors.... They was just on Divorce Court Wednesday and Thursday telling this same Story!!!
Wow fr...
Now paternity court
@@Luckymeee555 🤦🏾♀️
@@Luckymeee555really 😮
This is one of my biggest fear for my son. Him not listening to all the damn instructions and advice we are giving him to try and make it in this cruel ass world. Listen to your parents and stop following other kids because u wanna be in the “in” crowd. They can get u killed also.
The worst fear... Like my mother say" hard head makes a soft behind" My nephew that we raised is a follower bad when they dont use there head to make the right decisions, hope everything goes well for your son. Like I tell my nephew one wrong move can have you dead or in jail.
Listen to God because we parents don’t know it all either.
The world js not cruel if you behave decently. Be smart and avoid stupidities because they seem 'cool'
Prayers For This Beautiful Young Couple.
Tajenea You Are Beautiful 🌹
I'm Sure Their lil Son Is Too Adorable 🤎
Sending Y'all All The Best For Your Future.
GOD Has Great Purposes For Your Family.
🤎🖤🤎
While watching this episode I kept saying to myself, “His voice sounds soooo familiar…” and it finally hit me just now… He sounds just like DABABY!!! Lol he literally sounds like he’s low key rapping while he’s simply talking 😂 so funny!
I wished I had their scholarships. What a Blessing gone. Hope they mature and raise their child smarter.
He had no plans of maturing I’m sure
I agree
Judge Mathis wouldn’t be Judge Mathis if he didn’t give a lecture and I love it 💕
Right it's good ol wisdom
Yeah she wasn’t the perfect candidate for college if she taking the blame for a nikka smh
Such a waste
Right. Not taking the fall for anybody!
@TimTim & The BusyBodies! I am glad I got both book and street smarts.
I love when Judge Mathis G checks ppl and calls them out haha
This is just sad, because of her and his ignorance they both have lost everything. They are toxic together and just need to co-parent. She took heed to what the judge said about he have a case against her. She knew she needed to stay on his good side so he wouldn't bring suit against her. She's very vindictive because she knew calling his coach was getting him in trouble. She knew he took that car and was upset he didn't come home. Her next call will definitely be the police.
I agree, she knew he took the car she was just upset that he didn't come back in time.
So if someone took your car and didn't return it within the time they were to return it you wouldn't be mad. If she was really vindictive she would've called the police first and reported the car stolen. The moral of this story is do not take what isn't yours and then once you have have the nerve to say u aren't going to return it when I need it. Regardless if there is another vh or not the car was hers. He was wrong and instead of admitting it he was childish and showed his ass. Now she was wrong for deactivating the biz account and possibly could've just took the vh bk without contacting the coach but she simply said can you get a hold of him for me. He brought all the extra drama by not handling the situation as a grown man. They both having some growing to do but seem to be headed in the right direction and hopefully can amend their relationship for the sake of the child growing up in a healthy and stable environment
@@zenobiachapman1636 You said all that to say absolutely nothing. Like I said that was her boyfriend, she lives with, to say he didn't have permission to have the car, she would have been calling the police the 1st week he was gone. Instead she was expecting him to come home that week and he had practice on Saturday. She called the coach to be vindictive and found out yes he do have practice Saturday. That's why she didn't show up until after he told her he would be there when he got there. Was he wrong yes, was she wrong for calling his coach and then showing up and taking the car for the coach to see, that was fucked up because it got him kicked off the team and out of school fucking up his chances to get any other scholarship or admission to another university. She was already there following him because ain't no way she live a hour and a half away and track the car to a restaurant and they just now eating in the restaurant and she got the car. Like I said there's ignorance on both parts and like the judge told her, he have a case against her because that was detriment to his livelihood. See this is the problem with so called women never wanting to put responsibilities in their hands and face what they have done. Like I said they are toxic together because of her insecurities and unhappiness of taking on a rap that wasn't hers. She became all kinds of bitter, and they should have left it alone then but no he still brought her up to him. So it really wasn't about the damn car, it was because he didn't return on that Friday like he was supposed to because he had practice. She worked all night looking for a way to get up there and then found a friend. Like he said it was another car there for her to drive around and she had no problem with that until he didn't return when she wanted. When she felt it didn't help calling the coach because the coach told her he have practice is when her mind decided she's going to get it. So you can miss me with all that other shit.
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This is so unfair her future destroyed and he gets a slap on the wrist after the second instance of Marijuana being in his proximity yall young girls have to prioritize yourselves. Not only did he destroy her future he did it again a week later and the coaches have the audacity to have sympathy for someone who clearly has no care for himself. Just sad she should be embarrassed telling that story he didn't even see the seriousness of her losing her future
indeed
Young people making young mistakes in their relationship and life. He seems to be his own worst enemy actually, but it seems that she loved and still does love him very much. I’m sure he feels the same way. I wish the 2 of them and their child the ultimate success!
Nobody, absolutely nobody
Judge Mathis: hell poor people need a joint every now and then 😂😂✋ why is Judge Mathis like this that’s my boy though
That took me out
Fort valley in the house. Go Wildcat 💛💙💛💙
She’s not lucky he’s not countersuing, she says she paid him back already. Judge was upset about her calling the coach more than him damaging her property
Yeah because that costed him his future TF. Why do woman never look at the bigger picture it's like yall have tunnel vision.
The guy lost his scholarship, a chance to become a pro athlete and make something of himself. You think a few hundred dollars of damage is much worst than that?
@@DatActiveGuy lol shut up you sound like a peon. He took her car and wouldn’t answer the phone. She can do whatever she wants at that point including report he stolen. He’s lucky she didn’t do that. His coach told him return it and he still didn’t. He cost himself his future, don’t blame her, take some responsibility cornball
@@ebonyswope You sound like the typical bitter black woman. This is why society has no respect for yall. Always doing the most for nothing.
She had another car to drive & she knew he would bring it back. But nah she decided to act up and cost the man his future. This is why we steady choosing to date other races yall always got to be the victim and never have common sense FOH
@@DatActiveGuy Keep doing blank women a favor by dating other races. You’re helping them dodge bullets sis😂
May God guide them both they're still young and they can get it together
How she wasn't no snitch about the weed but was to the coach about the car? And he sound like da baby.
His lack of accountability is going to be his downfall if he doesn't change.
She saw NFL dollars and thought she hooked one. Not until draft day, sweetie. 🤦🏾♀️ #goofy
Many blessings to you both 🙏
Somebody pray for them.
They better pray for themselves and get smarter.
“Somebody” 🤣🤣🤣
"When you make a decision, make it carefully.
Know what you truly want.
Consider every possible consequence or you'll wind up at 59 wondering what the hell happened."
~ Ernest Hemingway~
Find your skill base and find out what you love to do
Choose a job you love and you will never have to work a day in your life
...let the choir say
AMEN.😌
Thank you, Judge Mathis for always keepin it real! People need weed, recreationally. Shoot. Lol.
🤣
Wellllll…. I wouldn’t say “need” but yes I like smoking a little bf I lay down at night too! I also work full time 8-4:30 and part time 6-11 so I feel I deserve to kick back after work with a little green to help me relax and sleep ;-)
All these waisted opportunities. This level of immaturity don’t make sense at all.
To be smart they are not that smart
It’s amazing how JM scolds people for calling jobs, probation officers or whatever in regards to personal issues yet here it’s perfectly fine to call his coach about something not football related 🤦🏽♂️
A coach is also a mentor. My husband is a professional athlete and the one person he would listen to other than me is his coach.
@Delores B that is the part I think is horrific. She needs to dump because I’m sure he would cheat on her eventually
@Delores B left her stranded? No she left him stranded because she was being psycho and controlling. She was at home with her baby where she belong. Didn't you hear him say they had a second car? She was just being psycho in her feelings actin a fool when she went and took the car leaving him wherever he was at.
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I’m glad they decided to get back together I mean damn they been through a lot and I like both of them. It’s great they are going to raise their son together as a unit now they just need to get some professional help to grow tf up and live productive lives.
Well said!
😂😂😂
Child please this s*** is tragic she wasn't taught to date accomplished she fell for a conversation and a penis . Which none of them can have you owning a home /having money in the bank/ trips/and or resources and a fabulous life.
So many needy, worthy people out there who can't afford a higher education and it's wasted on that lump of nothing, and they're procreating...ugh 😒
I’m for recreational marijauna too JM. I believe that if everyone smoked every once in a while the world would be more relaxed. Life gets stressful. God knew that! He put this here for me, and you! #shoutouttosmokey!!!
I pray this family stays together and comes out good in the end.
Lord have mercy🤦🏽♀️
It was her car. End of story.
I lived in Fort Valley for 4yrs. I hate that these young folks get distracted with senseless things. But, I was soooooooo worse than them. Still trying to stay focused. I hope they complete their goals.
I stayed 7 yrs. Got distracted with the parties. Got it together and graduated .
Gotta love the calm and collected lady behind all defendants.
He is in rage for her calling his coach to returning the car and feeling embarrassed and his ego and narcissistic behavior and emotion needs addressing expeditiously
Even his mother stated as plaintiff said, her son his grown and does not listen to nobody
So these young adults trying to be grown and playing house and having babies, yet still not mature im their mindset to make fruitful decisions for long life God's way
Whew chile! They're exhausting 😫
Judge Mathis is showing his!😄 You can't get 5 joints out a 10 sack!🤣🤣😂 Cute!
He lost almost everything, his football future for stupidity. It’s sad and upsetting. He needs to know how to deal with people and their properties
I have 3 sons. Note to self : tell them their girlfriends don’t need their coach’s number.
Your sons should have that much sense lol.
Damn he lost two scholarships smh.
This is the price you pay when you play house.
Exactly
It’s this one man that’s in the audience everyday 🤣
I think that's his nephew Melvin, or something
Ok - no wonder lol
That was just young love. The learned from it and now can grow and teach their son what NOT to do. Happy Black History Month
The day people learn to control their emotions, they will be better off. I hate stories about people damaging others property when they’re angry🙄
I’m upset that Mathis was mad at her for calling the coach and he had her shit and damage her car
He's the champion of scvmbags☝🏻
YES MY CAR PERMISSION TO DRIVE MY CAR !
Nice ending! 👍🏾
Both of them messed up each other’s life 🤦🏾♀️
Indeed 🤦♀️🤷♀️
Same couple just appeared on Divore Court... While watching DC I realized I heard this same story before thought I was trippin 😁
It seem to go a little bit different on divorce court though, didn't it?...lol
@@zulu3274 a little
The plaintiff is gorgeous! Her skin is glowing! 🌺
This judge's rulings are ridiculous.
What’s wrong with him?? He’ll bring HER car back when he gets ready?? 😳 He’s very entitled. Grow up
Why would the police do a search especially, while they were in their apartment? isn't this invasion of privacy?
Smelling marijuana in the apt gave the police "probable cause" for a search.
Just think where she would be if she would have never engaged with this guy!! 🤨
I’m convinced judge Mathis indulges in cannabis 😂
I see they’re practicing already, how to be dis functional.
Get your own car and get your own phone. Why do men think women owe them something.
Thank you for explaining the snitch.
They would only take it from certain people. This is why I urge our young people to stay focused, our people are not as fortunate therefore it is in our best interests to walk a straight line. In my home, US Virgin Islands, our elders have a saying, prevention is better than cure. They knew the police was there before, bet your bottom dollar they will be back to check, why give them what they were expecting to find? I could see they were raised right though, they just made some critical mistakes that caused them to get kicked out. To these two young people, it is not the end of the world, we all make mistakes, but it is how we respond to these mistakes is what defines our future. Pick yourselves up, brush yourselves off and try to do better, God bless you all.
That poor coach 🤦🏽♀️
This made me so sad. He had such a bright career. And he really tried. He moved her to where he was at, most young men wouldn't do that. This situation really could have been avoided with mentor and some patients with him. All messed things up over A CAR A CAR!!! Lord God!! They just needed someone older to help them through it all. I pray that they can get their life back on track
She had a bright future as well and lost it over trying to save him. It came back on him in the end. Both were young and immature. Hopefully they co-parent well and do better.
My daughter attended Fort Valley University 😀 Wish these two the best.
I hope they can both get back in school
Idc who you put it on but it’s not going to be me🤣🤣🤣
I was in St. Joseph, Mo. Playing ball in 1989. Highland still the same. Wow!!
Judge ain’t lying my poor ass ALWAYS need a joint 🤣
I saw these two on Divorce Court wow! His Momma was on there with them
The Plaintiff didn't "ended up getting pregnant " no sir, correction, you got her pregnant.
That part
Thank you, I can’t stand when people act like they just fall into life with no clue of what’s going on. Condoms are cheaper than the destruction he caused because he feel he can do whatever since she’s his bm
Correction: SHE GOT HERSELF PREGNANT. It's a woman's job to know her body and when she ovulating or in her high fertility window. How these random men y'all lay down with supposed to know that YOU are ovulating. Girl bye. Females need to grow up and learn to start taking responsibility for their own body. Especially if they're not married.
@@texasmadehoney1523 please go back and read a biology and anatomy book on the creation of life. We hold the womb that carries the baby, men carry the seamen that creates the baby. So many of our men are totally disconnected from the life they help to create which is why there are collectively millions of children without Fathers. Mainly because men refuse to take accountability for there part in creation. Babies cannot exist without a mans sPErM. FYI I don't have children and I've abstained from sex for 13 years. Please grow up.
Why aren’t women being responsible for their bodies. If you are studying and the education is important to you, why you having sex without protection??? If you don’t want children use condoms, ladies use birth control . There’s no one out there who don’t know how babies are made. If he’s not willing to protect you, protect yourself . We keep saying it takes two, which it certainly does, only 1 person gets pregnant though. Women ! Protect yourselves
"Chair" scholarships are where it's at😂 but hey, she wanted to prove she was "down", well now she gets to reap the consequences of such idiocy. His "business"...riiiight😂