OP is not getting it, her friend is the toxic one. She flaunted Oliver in OPs face and watched OP marry someone else most likely knowing Oliver still had feelings for OP😢
To make a reference to a comment I already made, Sarah tells OP that Oliver kept on telling Sarah hurtful things, that she was useless and a rebound and was in a relationship with Sarah just to get closer to OP and when they went no contact he was too lazy trying to start over and stayed because of that and because Sarah had a better lifestyle than him. So yeah OP somehow dodged a massive bullet. 😄
Isnt it convenient that she would say that when you’re happily married and around your man? She’s clearly not only sabotaged a potential relationship but is now trying to sabotaged your current one. Disgusting.
I don't think she wanted to sabotage the current one. Then she might lose her man. I think she thought it was "so long ago" and everything "worked out" so we can joke about this now.
So to clear up some details: After that joke was made, Oliver and Sarah left. The next day when Sarah called the OP she said Oliver called Sarah useless and a rebound among other things and the only reason they were together was for Oliver to get closer to the OP but because they went no contact, he didn't wanted to start over again with someone else and Sarah had a better lifestyle than him. So technically Oliver was also toxic and that's why the OP said she's happy because her friend lied and not in a toxic relationship with Oliver.
I don't know how OP could trust anything Sarah says about Oliver considering she lied and manipulated the both of them and only now does Oliver get to find out the extent to which he was manipulated. Sarah blatantly lied to someone she'd been friends with for years and made it out like it was just a prank. Now that he's left her she's telling everyone how he was abusive and always saying mean stuff... And she just stayed while he abused her... And he stayed with her to get closer to her friend that she hadn't seen or talked to in years... Cause people who are using a woman to get closer to their friend do that by not having contact with that friend. 🙄 Maybe Sarah is telling the truth but it's hard to believe considering the extent of her lies and manipulation, that's not adding in how what she's claiming doesn't make much sense. I feel bad for Oliver, he just found out his relationship was founded on lies and manipulation. I wouldn't be surprised if he was manipulated into staying with her and the reason he and Sarah stopped talking to OP was because Sarah was jealous that he liked OP before.
Considering OP's friend's relationship with lying to her, I wouldn't be surprised if she made up stuff about Oliver to paint herself as the victim... And to make sure OP won't seek out Oliver ever again
I still think Oliver is a victim and not toxic. Sounds like Oliver though Op didn't like him because Op didn't know him and that's why he stuck around. In the meantime, toxic BF feeds him lies and lowers his self confidence to the point he's gives up. Seen this situation happen one to many times. Oliver is finally free of BF lies and snapped. I would too.
Maybe Oliver just appeared as 'toxic' because of the disappointment and frustration caused by staying in a toxic relationship. Her friend was clearly an awful person. Sometimes the wrong people bring out the worst in good people.
That and apparently, he said all of that toxic stuff immediately after finding out he'd been betrayed. People say a lot of hurtful things when angry, and he found out about the woman he loved too late. Though, like most situations, this wouldn't have happened if they actually communicated.
But Oliver and Sarah lost contact with OP for a while. There was no reason for him to stay with her if he dated Sarah to be close to OP. Besides, considering Sarah is a manipulative liar, she could've made up stuff about Oliver being awful to make herself look better
Like the first time I heard this story... poor Oliver. He genuinely like OP but was lied to. He may be toxic with Sarah but who knows what will be the outcome when he actually gone with OP. But then again I'm happy for OP and glad she cut off her contact with them.
How does OP know if she'd married her crush that their relationship would've been toxic? It was toxic for her girlfriend because of the dishonesty. I bet he sensed something off about his wife. But OP and her crush may not have married. Nothing is certain but death and taxes, as they say.
I believe that, if Oliver DID say, "I stayed for the convenience," he most likely said it to hurt Sarah, wanting to make her feel the pain he felt when she said she twisted his words and manipulated the situation so that she could be with him. I feel like OP is even a bit misguided... Sarah sounds like the toxic one of the bunch, not Oliver.
He basically manipulates just like Sarah and pretends to love others to get what he wants. So OP is happy to have dodged the bullet. If someone doesn't value others he won't value you either.
I don't think he was with sarah to get close to Op...if he was he would have done something when op started dating others or even would have tried to convince op when he got to know op's past true feelings...he left sarah coz he felt manipulated
She doesn't get that Sarah chased Oliver only because OP wanted him. The 'friend' realized she lost when OP created a healthy marriage with a kid on the way... The best revenge is a life well lived
Not related to the story but you should give credits to the person that makes the videos in the background, I found the creator so it's not an issue for me but others probably don't
I've seen this story so many times, oliver rid call the friend a rebound and all of that junk. To me sounds pike sarah and oliver are perfect for each other, both manipulative and toxic
Well happen to me as well my so called bf always talked to the crushes i could have during 10 years i always wondered why each time I showed i was interested pouf the man was not anymore and dated someone else... well she was talking shit about me to them ... never understood why i was the eternal good friends to men haha then later on i learned that she also harassed friends and told them that she was the only and true friend for me and that they didnt count parents of those friends confirm her behaviour I known her at 13 finally break free from that toxic girl at the age 25 and now i am 35 but damned sometimes i still think about all she did and how she just try to destroy me and she is the one married with kids go figure 😅 ,
I don’t know how literally being lied to and storming off from a relationship based on a lie is toxic- like girl I am happy for you but… you and I have very different definitions of a toxic relationship… the friend was definitely the toxic one to me-
You'd have to read the full story, but also saying "I only stayed with you out of convivence" will never make you sound like a good guy. Though let's be honest this story is probably fake
That wasn't a joke that was an admission. He may not have been toxic for you, even though, you never know how people change from high school into adulthood
OP is not getting it, her friend is the toxic one. She flaunted Oliver in OPs face and watched OP marry someone else most likely knowing Oliver still had feelings for OP😢
Yeah
I think the toxic relationship OP is talking about, is the one with her ex-friend
Btw meaning of op
@@Moonie_10958 op = original poster
@@AlanSmith-w6g ohh thx
I dont think Oliver would have been toxic though... Im happy for OP but now im worried about Oliver
I saw this story a while back. In my opinion, I think OP was referring to Sarah
Oliver stayed with friend he didnt love for years
He’ll be fine now that he’s free from a toxic relationship. Actually the joke saved him.
To make a reference to a comment I already made, Sarah tells OP that Oliver kept on telling Sarah hurtful things, that she was useless and a rebound and was in a relationship with Sarah just to get closer to OP and when they went no contact he was too lazy trying to start over and stayed because of that and because Sarah had a better lifestyle than him.
So yeah OP somehow dodged a massive bullet. 😄
@@neromaelstrom2250 ohh okay. Seems like she did Dodge a bullet, actually 2
Isnt it convenient that she would say that when you’re happily married and around your man? She’s clearly not only sabotaged a potential relationship but is now trying to sabotaged your current one. Disgusting.
I don't think she wanted to sabotage the current one. Then she might lose her man. I think she thought it was "so long ago" and everything "worked out" so we can joke about this now.
@@nibbles2734or she wanted the recognition of being the one who made op happily married and pregnant.
So to clear up some details: After that joke was made, Oliver and Sarah left. The next day when Sarah called the OP she said Oliver called Sarah useless and a rebound among other things and the only reason they were together was for Oliver to get closer to the OP but because they went no contact, he didn't wanted to start over again with someone else and Sarah had a better lifestyle than him. So technically Oliver was also toxic and that's why the OP said she's happy because her friend lied and not in a toxic relationship with Oliver.
Thanks for clearing that up
Oliver is a total pos but I also get it, the guy basically sunkcost himself just on a relationship rather than like gambling or buying a junker car.
Ty for saying this, I remembered this from another story as well but didn't want to type it all out lol 😅
What if Oliver never said that and Sarah was lying once again
I mean ever heard off "your vibe attracts your tribe"
I don't know how OP could trust anything Sarah says about Oliver considering she lied and manipulated the both of them and only now does Oliver get to find out the extent to which he was manipulated. Sarah blatantly lied to someone she'd been friends with for years and made it out like it was just a prank. Now that he's left her she's telling everyone how he was abusive and always saying mean stuff... And she just stayed while he abused her... And he stayed with her to get closer to her friend that she hadn't seen or talked to in years... Cause people who are using a woman to get closer to their friend do that by not having contact with that friend. 🙄 Maybe Sarah is telling the truth but it's hard to believe considering the extent of her lies and manipulation, that's not adding in how what she's claiming doesn't make much sense. I feel bad for Oliver, he just found out his relationship was founded on lies and manipulation. I wouldn't be surprised if he was manipulated into staying with her and the reason he and Sarah stopped talking to OP was because Sarah was jealous that he liked OP before.
Excellent comment.
Considering OP's friend's relationship with lying to her, I wouldn't be surprised if she made up stuff about Oliver to paint herself as the victim... And to make sure OP won't seek out Oliver ever again
The relationship was toxic with HER. Because she lied and manipulated him. It wasn't Oliver's fault!
I still think Oliver is a victim and not toxic. Sounds like Oliver though Op didn't like him because Op didn't know him and that's why he stuck around. In the meantime, toxic BF feeds him lies and lowers his self confidence to the point he's gives up. Seen this situation happen one to many times. Oliver is finally free of BF lies and snapped. I would too.
He’s both the victim and toxic. Staying with someone out of convenience is toxic.
Maybe Oliver just appeared as 'toxic' because of the disappointment and frustration caused by staying in a toxic relationship. Her friend was clearly an awful person. Sometimes the wrong people bring out the worst in good people.
That and apparently, he said all of that toxic stuff immediately after finding out he'd been betrayed. People say a lot of hurtful things when angry, and he found out about the woman he loved too late. Though, like most situations, this wouldn't have happened if they actually communicated.
But Oliver and Sarah lost contact with OP for a while. There was no reason for him to stay with her if he dated Sarah to be close to OP. Besides, considering Sarah is a manipulative liar, she could've made up stuff about Oliver being awful to make herself look better
@@nibbles2734 yes true👍
Like the first time I heard this story... poor Oliver. He genuinely like OP but was lied to. He may be toxic with Sarah but who knows what will be the outcome when he actually gone with OP. But then again I'm happy for OP and glad she cut off her contact with them.
Yeah I'm pretty sure Oliver was not a toxic person. Probably just upset that he was manipulated
How does OP know if she'd married her crush that their relationship would've been toxic? It was toxic for her girlfriend because of the dishonesty. I bet he sensed something off about his wife. But OP and her crush may not have married. Nothing is certain but death and taxes, as they say.
I believe that, if Oliver DID say, "I stayed for the convenience," he most likely said it to hurt Sarah, wanting to make her feel the pain he felt when she said she twisted his words and manipulated the situation so that she could be with him.
I feel like OP is even a bit misguided... Sarah sounds like the toxic one of the bunch, not Oliver.
How the hell oliver is toxic? He is a victim just like op
From what I understood, Oliver was only with Sarah to get closer to OP, so I guess they were both toxic.
He basically manipulates just like Sarah and pretends to love others to get what he wants. So OP is happy to have dodged the bullet. If someone doesn't value others he won't value you either.
I don't think he was with sarah to get close to Op...if he was he would have done something when op started dating others or even would have tried to convince op when he got to know op's past true feelings...he left sarah coz he felt manipulated
She doesn't get that Sarah chased Oliver only because OP wanted him. The 'friend' realized she lost when OP created a healthy marriage with a kid on the way... The best revenge is a life well lived
Not related to the story but you should give credits to the person that makes the videos in the background, I found the creator so it's not an issue for me but others probably don't
Who is it? I always see her cooking videos in these types of shorts
@alexan2821 @turkuazkitchen, her videos are actually very calming
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I'm pretty sure the creator of the cooking videos is called Turkish Kitchen, or Turkish Cooking?
Shoot, majority of whatever she's making be looking 🔥🔥🔥😂😂 ngl
@@jikuyemanamouna ikr
I've seen this story so many times, oliver rid call the friend a rebound and all of that junk. To me sounds pike sarah and oliver are perfect for each other, both manipulative and toxic
WTF how is the guy that was lied to for years toxic?
People on reddit were saying that this story was made up and it does sound made up.
They just stayed together through high school and college…
How did she save you from a toxic relationship? She might have stolen a true love that you will never know.
That's gotta be the worst friend ever cut off lady bye
Well happen to me as well my so called bf always talked to the crushes i could have during 10 years i always wondered why each time I showed i was interested pouf the man was not anymore and dated someone else... well she was talking shit about me to them ... never understood why i was the eternal good friends to men haha then later on i learned that she also harassed friends and told them that she was the only and true friend for me and that they didnt count parents of those friends confirm her behaviour I known her at 13 finally break free from that toxic girl at the age 25 and now i am 35 but damned sometimes i still think about all she did and how she just try to destroy me and she is the one married with kids go figure 😅 ,
Interesting that op say the dude is toxic after confessing her friends betrayal.
Typical, never the womans fault.
You didn't even read the full story but way to make it about gender
This is not the whole story. There are paets missing where oliver was also toxic not just sarah.
That friend needs to go she’s toxic
I don’t know how literally being lied to and storming off from a relationship based on a lie is toxic- like girl I am happy for you but… you and I have very different definitions of a toxic relationship… the friend was definitely the toxic one to me-
I think by toxic relationship OP meant her friend
When she says toxic relationship i think she is referring ti the friend
Saved you from a toxic relationship? What the hell did Oliver do?
How is it toxic? Oliver was rightly angry.
You'd have to read the full story, but also saying "I only stayed with you out of convivence" will never make you sound like a good guy. Though let's be honest this story is probably fake
I mean, she did a lie, but at least you have a family now who knows Oliver could’ve been abusive who really knows🤷🏻♂️
That girl is not your friend, she never was
That wasn't a joke that was an admission.
He may not have been toxic for you, even though, you never know how people change from high school into adulthood
What joke? There was nothing funny about this.
I really want to make the first recipe. Does anyone know what it is? Lol 😂
Some kind of crossauint roll or something
Do Bas call she saved you and your future by dating Oliver makes sense honestly you should thank her for that but yeah uh that joke was unnecessary
So shes a liar and a bad friend? Cool. Her own fault.
my name is oliver
yall who the heck is OP-
It means original poster.
It wasnt Olivers fault bruh 😒
You can't base a relationship on a lie
What an idiot
Theyre both toxic as hell
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wtfff
OP is an idiot, the friend was toxic not oliver
OP is DUMB
Reupload
Sounds like your trying really hard to stick to the story that's most convenient for you. Not the truth
I had a friend who ruined his relationship because of one joke 🫠