SHORT FILM- BOYS DON'T CRY-
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- Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
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As a RUclips ambassador, I wanted to create a short film that addresses toxic masculinity. i hope that this video can help someone out there that struggles to open up and realise that to feel sad or hurt doesn't make you less of a man! This project couldn't be done without RUclips and the creators for change programme. For more information, visit www.youtube.com...
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'Better to cry now so we can smile another day'👌🔥🔥💯
That's a 2pac quote just re worded
@@FuckDeezHoez stfu
@@dagsufii5279 😂😂😂shut him down
@@dagsufii5279 no need. And a tone deaf reply considering the nature of the video. Dick.
@divyanshu pandey besides the point of the entire video.
Why the hell isnt this guy not huge yet.Too underrated. Been here since the chronicles of tutoo
Been here since DOAB.
Chronicles of tuttu was the shit
Chronicles of tuttoo was the best
He is huge but his subs and stats aren't big enough.
I rember that series
This is a person who changed the game on youtube, this is a person who is a hard working and deserves every single bit of support from us, this is a person who has been through so much in his life but doesn't want to affect anyone else's life because he loves others
Thank you man 😢🙏
@@HumzaProductions I love you Humza Productions
@@HumzaProductionsYou're helping us and every video you make us happy. This is not the end. Still more to come.
Tahmid Ahmed hi.....n
@@lukecollins3765 what do you mean
Nice video, Irritated at the number is dislikes. Because positivity should be shared.
If you watched from chronicles of tutoo you know how much the production of Humzas videos have improved. Somebody give this man at least 5 million subs. He deserves at least 10million tho
No he doesn't
He deserves 100 million subs accaully
" better to cry now so we can smile another day" man that got me.
Who else is here since “my life is crap!” 😂
Me lol
Fam the whole way
I remember watching that on my crappy windows xp 😂
Gang
I don't really comment on your videos or on videos at all - it's very rare. But this is the best video you've ever posted. In all these years, this is by far the best work you've done
Better to cry now so you can smile another day 💯💯
Charlie Vinan true
Crying is for pussies xD
@@downiemcsyndrome8067 it actually isn't
@@downiemcsyndrome8067 it's really not
Charlie Vinan thanks ❤️
As a Counsellor who is privileged to help men change the learnt behaviour of 'Boys don't cry' I found this very moving, had me in tears this morning. Well done lads, what great role models you will be, not just to your own kids but hopefully the nation. I have shared this in my professional groups and hopefully it will spread quickly on social media! Keep up the great work - the podcast is fab too!
This made me cry right at the end 😢
@@melissabroomr3357 i bet u still single af
@@jimsanta356 😂😂, I read that and found out it was a year ago, then I read your comment and idk why but it just made laugh
@@haroon1705 n u didn't like 😑😑😑i made u laugh 😂😂😂😂
actually same
I'm in tears right now 😭😭 we need to stop making male crying seem so alien and unusual. Man or woman, inside is a human soul which has the right to cry. So proud of your work and a loyal fan from day 1 ❤️
Ik😕
All I'm saying is u better be on RUclips rewind. U deserve it bro. Doubt you'll see this comment doe
the spoken poetry tho, so touching
اوو معاذ الامور شنو؟
Powerful message bro ❤
You were part of the video of the friends in it I saw you in it it's an amazing video
Muaz Osman it’s like an 11 year old wrote it.
Muaz Osman it seems to me even if close to God. as humans we need a word or two .... thanks
“Boys calling me to talk but there’s nothing to be said” 😪
I felt this in my heart, I’m crying right now, it’s so sad that people have to hide their pain and sadness instead of talking to someone, this was beautiful, it was presented in a very amazing way, I’m so proud of this ❤️
Still killing the game after all these years! Respect
That was one of the most beautiful things I’ve ever heard and seen . It even made me cry 😢🧡🧡
That's the real 🥇🏆💯
Your such a cutie.
Aww poor baby
Humza I don't know u but after watching this short film I feel like I've known u for a long time. U couldn't have hit the head of the nail more accurate then u just did with this film its powerful and beautiful in one whoever doesn't become touched by this film after watching it is either a damn good liar or simply put not man enough to own up to being a real man I commend u for this film Humza u just saved a bunch of lives believe it or not. Keep it up bro u got my support. Thank u
Lol weird to think that THIS GUY created chronicles of tuttooo
i was like non the verge of crying till i read this comment and burst out in laughter LOL
I remember staying up with my brother waiting for the new diary of a badman
@@nadiyai7092 First, of all it's a joke that only *The MOST intellectually capable* could understand.
Second, do you have any friends since I bet you call people "retards" before you understand them.
Juicy Crips you had 665 likes so I liked you comment so you can the 666 you’re welcome
Hes the CEO of go to tesco and do a shit lamo
It’s always the happiest of people who seem to take their lives😭💔💔
That's why they seem so happy, because they constantly hide any pain inside.
@@bereal2756 how is it wrong?
This hit me hard, as a girl, I was told it's shameful to cry, girls need to be strong even if it was tough, after countless years of anxiety, depression, self harm and suicidal thoughts, and 3 attempts of suicide, I was told that everything will be okay and it'll get better in time. It never did, it still isn't. but it's beautiful that people are acknowledging the fact that everyone struggles, and boys do cry, you should feel comfortable to open up to close family and friends about anything. This was a beautiful message Humza, I'm so proud of you ❤❤
Diamond 487 Listen, whoever you are, I love you man. Keep fighting. Your in my prayers along with many others🙏🙏🙏stay strong man... please.
God bless you & everyone else
@@chebz1136 thank u xx I'm a girl btw haha xx thank u xx I love you too, I dnt get much sympathy, especially when ppl know what I've been through and what I'm going through, they usually avoid me and all, it's hard, it really is xx thank u xx
Ah man stay strong I'm going through the exact same thing been in depression for years attempted suicide. Ive told family they dont understand what im going through or my feelings
@@alishbaa5191 that's the same with me, there's not many ppl who I can talk to, and who actually understand me. Stay strong x ❤❤
This is the deepest thing I’ve watched
Big up Humza production❤️🙏🏼
Million subs soon In’sha’allah👏🏼
Outstanding production with a powerful message. Really well made, well done!
Bro your productions are insanely touching and deep I’ve been subbed since day one and love the quality of the film. People need this, thank you
Im 11, a girl and I hated crying. I always thought it made me feel weak. But now I cry. A lot. It helps me with everything. When I’m happy I cry, when I’m sad I cry, when I’m jealous I cry. Tears are not a weak point anymore, it’s a way of showing my emotions. Tears don’t have to be sad. Tears are strength. To remind you that after all your hardships, your a strong and real human. In the end, tears remind you that your not fake. Theres a strong human underneath all those layers.
Edit: Why are people being mean? I honestly don’t remember writing this and I don’t think I should keep it up anymore. The replies are making me sad🤕
Girl, don’t worry bout me😇 I’m really doing fine nowadays. Although I’m 11, I’ve gone through a whole load of sh*t. Seriously, I’ve had suicide attempts. Never has been easy... please worry about your issues. Eleven and I’m more mature than most 20 year olds. I hope your life gets better for U. I never wrote this comment for ya’ll to feel bad for me. I wrote this to show that tears are never a weak point. I really hope that you do well in your exams. Even though I’m in year 7, they prepare us for exams. I’ve done SO many assessments and have loads of homework. Its so much pressure. Im sure you should know that in this age, other people r nosy in your scores. They like to see what u got. I love that you shared this with me and the others who read ur reply. Get through life, because trust me when I say that it is the hardest thing you will ever do. As sad as it is many people don’t. I wish you the best in ur exams. Lots of love from Leicester, England 🏴❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@daffodil7999 awe babe haha dw when I was 11 I didn't knw what friking day it was ahahha glad to see ur doing okay, and yes I wish ppl realised that kids have feelings too, if u need any help with an assessment let me know, I had a art project on Monday, i had a english exam on Tuesday, a religious studies exam on Wednesday, I had a history assessment today and a fuckin citizenship exam tmrw like bro wtfff ahah loads of love frm Blackburn, England ❤😂 srsly tho if u need anything let me know, I'd be down to help ya babe xx
Diamond 487 thanks, dude! At the moment I don’t need no help. They gave us 1 week break of homework 😁😆😆😆 The only thing I need to worry about is; how to not forget the nth term lol😂😂😂😂😂😂😍😍😍😍😍😂😂😂😂😍
@@daffodil7999 ur so friking lucky, I have mock exam after mock exam, it's pees me off....I'm gna b honest, no clue wt the nth term is....😂😂😂 gosh I hate yr 11
Diamond 487 nth term is a formula. Basically set out like;4 (n+2) = 10 Confused? Okay.
P.s I have a problem. It’s not necessary but I dno what to do... So every student has an identity card that U wear around your neck. You put money in that. So it’s like a credit card. I always have £20 and over so everyone asks me to buy food for them. Typical me, I hate saying no. But now, my mums always asking me why I need money so quickly. Help me please???....
Well put bro, honestly amazing work 👏🏽 such a taboo of a topic and it’s time that mentality is addressed and people can get the help that’s needed
This hit my heart I could really relate because sometimes when I’m alone I cry all day Ik I rhymed but u get what I’m saying
Oh please, get a job or something. My best friend killed himself 2 years ago. Do you see me going around like i can't manage? Handle your shit and do well, or go crawl in a hole and wait for death, those are the only two choices in life.
@@ianholmquist8492 this is not about you your not the only special one so stop being selfish I'm sorry for your lost but just stop your not the most important one in the world
Ian Holmquist you need to talk to someone about losing your friend. You have so much rage inside and you basically said to suck it up and live life like you or suicide like your friend. That is the choices you presented. You are angry with your friend giving up and leaving you. Find a puching bag and let it out. There is a lot of grief and sadness under the anger. That is how to deal with it. Ignoring the issue is NOT dealing with it. It will ruin your life and you will continue being hard hearted to others while you hold onto the pain. You gotta pull the thorn out or the wound will never heal. 😉
Yes I can't think what I am going to do I want a woman to hold and love me for who I am I don't want to be here but she don't want me here can we please meet and see where it goes from there I want to make a true life but she wants me to move out mite be today she hates me and I don't know what to do or go I can we meet today I am off work cause of the rain and I need some body to help me cause everyone else use me and don't got cash they don't come around it sucks
I do work it cause of the rain but I being there for a one year old and and some I love to work I work 7 days a week cause I didn't have nobody to come home to or I don't work if it rains it sucks bad
this is the first time a video had ever made my cry on RUclips , especially when someone is able to capture exactly what you are feeling in a video . This is absolutely beautiful , one that I will never forget . I pray everyone gains or has a friend they can open up to , or ones that will understand what you are going through . Never feel afraid to speak out as the message says , love man .
Im only 12 years old but that still touched my heart bro you are a legend bro keep going and inshallah you will reach 1million subs one day😎🙏
Inshallah
Ameen 💕
Wow! That is the most beautiful and powerful 7 minutes ever. Congratulations on such a profound piece of film making.
Topic covered nicely. Great video
Zulf Photography Looks like trash, bot.
This needs to be shown in schools & youth centres etc.
Beautiful
Agreed! 1,000,000 percent!
Yep
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forsythia yellow I agree 💯
This is the kind of creators for change stuff I can get behind. The garbage RUclips puts out is not what anyone wants to see. But this stuff that strikes a chord with so many men who feel they have to hide their emotions to seem more manly. This video goes out to all the young men who in an age where people focus on taking down men and trying to change young men, they need to be shown it’s ok to be who you are.
Couldn’t have put it better
Andres Perez , woman don’t cry the way you think they do, we aren’t emotional but yes men should have the chance to have emotional support, however I find woman and men the same because you can’t just assume that woman are weak, you don’t know every single girl out there and so therefore you can’t say that they all as a group are emotional, I’m not for example.
@@AndresPerez-jc6nv As a heavy sufferer of depression i have to say you are wrong.
I have no problem talking about my emotions or feelings but it simply doesn't help me. It is not therapeutic or beneficial to me.
I come from working class Scotland and I've never had any man tell me it wasn't ok to cry, in fact quite the opposite.
I do not appreciate people insisting I'm emotionally broken simply because I'm a man.
Exactly. I saw the creatorsforchange hashtag and was like "okay another piece of disturbing, delusion enabling trash. Better remove this from my feed. " And then thankfully I read their description and thought "hey, they're actually talking about a real issue, not brainwashing people with political propaganda."
@@Zahra-jn1kx I can tell just by your comment that you're young. Women get emotional way more than men do and a good majority of them cry a lot. That's just the way it is and that's ok.
I never wanted to jump out of the screen and hug someone more in my life holy shit.. i love this.. please stop the stereotypes. Boys and men cry, women and girls cry, enbys cry, its a fact of life. You're aloud to be hurt and to be happy freely. Please never take your lives just because of stereotypes. Love yourself deeply and truly and if you cant, someone will always be there to love you until and even when you can. Im here for you if you ever need to talk even though i know im just a stranger, close people will be, and so many other people. Hang in there, your important needed and loved by someone trust me
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LoL you wanted to jump out of of the screen hug him
I’m not lying I stared crying after watching this because this happened to very close family members to me.
So beautifully presented , great work❤️
Brilliant short film.
Hopefully a lot more men watch this and see that it's ok to talk.
I cried so much my pillow is soaked in tears,I love your work so much🙏
What a time to come out, I’m feeling so lost and depressed. This video really cheered me up loads. Humza your something else , you deserve more than what you have honestly.
This is exactly the poetry of my life, that was so emotional and heartbreaking. Love you humza
I still don't get why you haven't got one mill subs yet.
honestly, this video was so beautiful to watch.. such a strong message behind it. Humza needs so much more recognition its so unreal, keep it up Humza!
This was amazing bro, I've never really followed you but this was real and it's hit my heart. I had tears watching this, feeling my own pain because of trials and challenges. May Allah reward you for this beautiful reminder, Ameen.
*I can't believe how close to 2 million you are, KEEP IT GOING BRO!*
no he isnt
Are we looking at the same page
@@frankiemarks3322 yes we are
Your blind he ain't even on ha
For a mil
2 mill views?
Wow. No words. Boys can cry.
This hit me hard, 2 friends of mine commited suicide. One by drowning
I hope this reaches someone and helps them x
thegreathoffman16 I’m soo sorry 🥺😢
@@edhacker4412 thank you zane, it was around 10 years ago now. Neither gave no clue to what they were going to do. My brother tried to as well (he has PTSD from the forces) its one of the reasons i finally trained in mental health nursing to try and help others.
@@thegreathoffman16 stay strong, remember you're never alone. don't dread things, you can't change the past.
Who watched this without at least one tear? 😭
thegreathoffman16 has
"BOYS CAN CRY YOU'RE HUMAN, IT'S OKAY"- Humza production
2019 still touches me☹️❤️
This is what those 'tough' men need to see
More people need to see this
What a beautiful video and a great message! Should be shown in schools to eradicate the stereotypical expectation that are put on kids by society so early on.
It’s ok, normal and healthy to cry and talk about it. It’s how you can start dealing with and moving on.
Arfa Malik I completely agree
Arfa Malik so brainwash them?? 😂😂
You save your emotion for personal time with your family, you don't go around crying like a puss in public
@121bham well there's nothing wrong with things like true love and romance. There's a lot of men who are strong but get emotional around their woman nothing wrong with that
@121bham women like men who put in effort to a relationship and take it seriously
Smashed it G. Well done 🙌🏻🙌🏻
MAZ BONAFIDE wooooooo hiiiiiiiiiii
Great video. Crying out for more mental health content aimed at men. 👍
😂😂😂
The fact it took this long is sad, but thank god it came
Humza I want to thank you for making this video because it has made me realise that it’s ok to ask people for help and to cry
Excellent video Humza, very deep and so true. Us men do hold a lot in and sometimes feel ashamed to open up and talk. But the sad reality we don't. We tend to think that's only us going through situations when many others are in a far worse condition. Men let's speak up and make a difference. Men are more likely to commit suicide than women. Find a family or close friend and talk. It won't hurt but heal you instead. 😉🙋🏾♂️
Sherwain Nurse I second that
Some people say that they don't love, when they say that the only person they don't love is themselves. They will regret that the second everyone who ever lived him won't love them any more.
Every like for this comment may change people's minds on what they do.
Everyone who does like this I pray God opens the Gates of Paradise to you. Ameen.
Remember watching your vids back in primary school with all my cousins especially at daawats 😂 it's mad how far you've come
I remember that too :)
wallah my mums cutting onions here
pfffttt I didnt cry
lol
That hit me in the heart tho
I know for a fact this speaks to so many people on a next level
A big message in 2020🔥May Allah swt give you access in any step you take towards positivity Ameen
I'm speechless this was amazing! carry on spreading messages, your videos can make a true difference in some one else life after all we dont know how somebody else's life is like at home or when they are alone
This really touched me boys can cry this video deserves more attention then it's getting to spread the message more
Boys don't cry but real men do. 💪
Yeah! Real men also pack there tampons and lipstick as well as some tissues for all that hardcore manly crying they do💪💪
@@callumwilliams8167 No........tf? Are you alright.
@Cynical Asshole No shit sherlock, did you work that out by yourself? Dumb shit. Also sad guy, you liked your own comment....
Completely agree. People need to understand that it's okay for men to be emotional. So true 💓
Made me cry bro! Amazing message given in this message your best RUclipsr bro and we are all like family ❤️
The part were they all sat down again at the end but there was only 4 instead of 5 killed me !!!!!
Mate this is beautiful, really amazing. This needs to spread and be heard by so many people
FINALLY SOMETHING GOOD OUT CREATORS FOR CHANGE
This is amazing! Mental health is seen as so taboo and not discussed within the Asian community, especially with boys. You’re doing an amazing job by starting the conversation and actually bringing light to something that has an impact on so many of us. Always a legend!
Sometimes taking that step is the hardest thing in life you'll ever do, but it only takes one step.
Man this is it. Well done bro, stuff like this will change people
why does this sound sarcastic lol
I was shown this in Yr10, just enjoying this movie, now 3 years later, I understand the pain and meaning of the video 💔💔💔
Been going through alot of shit and I bottled it up for too long. I'm glad this made me cry, it legit touched me, even tho imma gyal 🤷keep grinding Humza nuff love❤❤
wow this really touched me ur honestly a legend this was as accurate as a pin - straight to the point
Boys and men can cry . Loss and pain become complicated if not expressed . Thank you so much for this, it’s touched my heart . Peace and respect . 🙏🏻☯️
😢😢omg you made me cryy!!!😢😭
humza its amazing seeing how much we’ve seen you grow .. praying for your success you deserve it ❤️
This is so beautiful I'm crying.
Your very kind hearted, and shape the lives of many people, getting them through a hard time 🙏😁
I cried after watching this 😭😭
hope this goes viral...this is such a powerful video👍
*sheds a few tears and claps for humza* Very inspiring this touched my heart this video is amazing
I don’t normally rate these social issues videos but this one got me. I honestly believe there are parts of this video that every man can relate to. Great, great work!!! It adresses the issue, and it leaves you reflecting at the end. Fantastic work!!!
Wow brother! This is very powerful, I hope so many men/boys watch this 💕
It's bare touching and emotional 😩❤️
Flying monkey what made you laugh?
I don't cry at least not in front of other people. Why would I do that?
@@cedricburkhart3738 😎😂
@@joesmith.5920 I learned not to cry in front of people it makes them uncomfortable.😏 Besides it takes a lot more to make someone like me cry. I don't cry when my pets died.
This acc made me cry...and boys can cry..no one has any right to judge them...and im proud of you humza...this video is so strong and i think it will touch alot of people keep it up!❤❤❤
nazma shoukat Yh I agree with you...What’s ur snap
You have changed my life and the way I see life so much. I wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for you 😢😢😢❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
"My circle is small.....but thats how it should be"💯💯
Omggg never thought would've got a heart by hamza 😂❤❤
Most heartwarming video it’s hit me real hard great work really effective thank you
This made me cry- amazing work and so needed
These things actually happen and humza showed us as society we need to stop thinking men have to act a certain way and not to show certain emotions in front of people
Can we make this guy's work get noticed already! Share it with all the men you know! This needs to be heard now more than ever!
I really enjoyed this with actual tears in my eyes. It's one of the best messages I've seen that will certainly make that difference in saving someone's life.
It may look like a simple video but boy its message is clear and the fact it awakens a different person from within, with a clear mental understanding that you can talk to your friends then can and will help.
Just talking to them or anyone you trust can make all the difference.
Fantastic it should be aired on TV for everyone to see and I am sure thousands of us will be inspired and give us all a little more courage.
@Humza wow what a powerful video. Damn it's so deep bro, that it actually had me in tears 😭 near enough to the end. There are many guys who act tough, bad boys, rude boys etc, acting like they don't feel pain or they don't cry. I had one mate say men don't cry Mitz. If men can't let out their inner emotions or cry in their own comfort zone or share with mates then it only leads to committing suicide because they don't know how to deal with pain or how to go on about it, only to make them go haywire and insane, in order to lead to crimes etc. We've all been through good and bad who hasn't. Hiding emotions or having no one you can trust or confide in, only gets too much for a person in order to kill themselves I've been in this situation. No such thing as men don't cry they do. Just as much as girls feel pain so do men they just don't show it as much and cry and let it out in their own comfort zone, like I said. But shouldn't be afraid to talk with mates, family etc and share your pain. Men need to start opening up, rather than hiding in their own shell. Hiding pain only makes shit ten times worse. God didn't create humans for us to take our lives away etc, that's first sign of stupidity. Life is a test from god. How we deal with it is like a challenge. It's our responsibility to deal with difficult and tough situations the right and civilised way. The proper way, rather than the wrong way. 🙏🏽 keep up the good work bro
Humza this message... it’s beautiful and true in many more ways than I can comprehend
This is truly amazing! Where do I begin? My best mate who went through exactly what is shown in this video. The abuse ppl gave him, families members disowning him, school “friends” bullying him even during adulthood, girlfriends using him, until he could not bottle it no longer and took his own life.
Men do cry and it’s okay. It’s best to talk about your feelings rather then hide behind a fake mask.
Salute to you Hamza for creating this powerful video.
This was so good. You are a great guy. Keep up the great work! Inshallah 1 million is coming soon.
I suffer from depression and as a guy it’s hard to even show my emotions I keep it all inside mine and this video wow humza been a sub since year 10 chronicles of Tatu and diary of a bad man and still watching ur videos bro keep it up my guy deserve 10 million subs bro
i just got this as an add and im happy i didnt skip it
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Me too! Our souls wanted this Law of Attraction so we can feel our pain and grow. 😊
Hey you are the one want to make love to you and we have a family together
“I have so much to say, but my feelings don’t show”
This was real man - and went from 0 To 100 real quick.
You change the world bit by bit
Thanks for what you given
I love the messages you spread❤️
Me too and hi luv your vids
I am getting off I got to pack my stuff up I am trying to get another place to live she wants me to leave if you want to see me come 108 crestmont drive Gaffney SC 29340 or I call 8644809129
Brother you couldn’t be more spot on with the realness of the pain. The dilemmas and decisions I’d endured after heart break was literally how you portrayed it. It really hit home with me so much so I even felt like sending this vid to my ex to show how she made me feel. But Alhamdulillah it’s all good now. I’ve done my crying, now I’m doing my smiling 😁
Keep inspiring yourself to inspire us all.
If King Kong himself feels this much despair after a heart break, then the rest of the menfolk need to ease up on themselves.
Boys need to cry!
Am happy you made it through because life is a gift and we should value it
I have to jack off and it ain't the problem I need some body rub my back and I ain't got no woman to do that I want go out somewhere with a women and talk women and men thanks you don't talk to no family members most of them hate me they tried to hurt me and I know my grandma don't want me here and I ready to do what ever but I do that I go to a home they. Love me and don't do me wrong and I end up long run she marry me thang happens for a reason but any body coming if do come to the door and ask for shannon I want to come in and wake me up and we go from there I don't think anyone coming I waiting to see I got blue balls and I hony as hell and need some it can be a one night stand or we be together forever never know
I ain't Melissa don't get me mixed up please
I am shannon Phillips I wish could hit it one time but everyone thinks I her sister but I ain't cause her mama ain't married to Ken he already married to little man mama but I need some it making my head hurt and balls hurting can you come now some body