Women Love This Honest Approach

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  • Опубликовано: 25 окт 2024

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  • @AskToddV
    @AskToddV  Год назад +91

    Aside from the fact that getting to the point and showing what the interaction is about is ESSENTIAL for success, it's also better for your soul. Even if you get rejected, it's a lot easier to walk away having actually given yourself a chance. The worst is to wonder "what if", because you didn't have the balls to try!

  • @dila01
    @dila01 Год назад +50

    Such a good point. I genuinely believe that some women curbed me because I wasn’t moving towards getting physical instead I was trying to „get to know“ them longer than needed. they literally get irritated lol

    • @CommandoMaster
      @CommandoMaster Год назад +7

      Gotta move things forward. Otherwise girls get bored easily.

    • @dila01
      @dila01 Год назад +12

      @@CommandoMaster I don’t even think its boredom its more like insecurity. Because the instantly think you‘re not that into her and they start to reject you before you do lol

    • @ht4373
      @ht4373 Год назад +3

      @@dila01 trueee, I’ve always been good with women. This one hot girl at work in particular showed huge signs of interest after talking a few times, but it’s in my nature to act cold towards hot girls unless they really go out of their way to talk to me because I know how most are, so after that she initiated contact a lot and I engaged but never chased. So now I can see that she’s trying to put a barrier up. She’s pretending to not like me so hard one of her friends told me she liked me as a person she’s just trying hard to not show me

    • @warriormanmaxx8991
      @warriormanmaxx8991 Год назад

      @dila01 - re: "lol" = what is so funny about your comment? or do you use that wimpy "lol" at the end of most social media ??

    • @Cortesevasive
      @Cortesevasive Год назад

      @@CommandoMaster What matters is are u bored or not, she is irrelevant

  • @user-ee1fn4vt8b
    @user-ee1fn4vt8b Год назад +19

    If you watch his videos going back, you can tell that he just keeps on getting better and better at educating.

  • @codederick6920
    @codederick6920 Год назад +16

    The Toddfather out here making money moves

  • @jbc242424
    @jbc242424 Год назад +19

    "I'm certainly not showing any interest in any of you" is ACTUALLY an excellent third-level approach. Breaks the ice.

  • @JamesGreenier
    @JamesGreenier Год назад +17

    You can say anything as long as you are pandering and you are confident. It’s the vibe.

    • @Fred-zt5ky
      @Fred-zt5ky Год назад +2

      as long as you’re hot*

    • @opreadumitru1
      @opreadumitru1 Год назад +4

      almost anything almost

    • @SPACEDOUT19
      @SPACEDOUT19 6 часов назад

      @@Fred-zt5ky yes. the girl changes her behaviour based on your looks

  • @uscbro69
    @uscbro69 Год назад +41

    Todd is so smart dude. He’s almost too smart for this profession

  • @oscar.esteves
    @oscar.esteves Год назад +4

    "Fuck em'!, [PAUSE] "metaphorically"☝
    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @unknownlegend1207
    @unknownlegend1207 Год назад +6

    OLD MAN TODD, This guys literally the definition of GOAT (at game).

  • @ethan.wroblewski
    @ethan.wroblewski Год назад +8

    Was out last night for St pattys day I live in a Irish town so it was wild, but I had this problem with a few women last night in my approaches, this was great advice!💯

  • @Tommy06289
    @Tommy06289 Год назад +8

    guys just be blunt. "hi, I thought you were cute so I wanted to come over to know you more.". That's it. Simple

  • @mrcooper1654
    @mrcooper1654 Год назад +6

    I have a keep it moving attitude. Some times it works and sometimes it doesn’t.
    I will tell them what I want and be respectful.
    Ask them what there plans are for the weekend.
    If they say nothing I will shoot my shot.
    If I miss …
    I keep it moving.
    Lol
    Funny how they seem to comeback later.
    Now I’m trying to not give them a chance if they pass me up once… is this a bad idea???

  • @Paul-yk7ds
    @Paul-yk7ds Год назад +19

    So much dating advice, including Todd's, is about how to get into a romantic interaction with a new woman, and how to get to the first hook-up. Much of it is good advice... But honestly, I only need one or a few women in my life at a time. So pretty quickly, the bigger issue becomes how to manage these relationships, especially if you'd prefer something non-monogamous. Todd has a great 3-hour Relationships Manifesto video, but I feel like it still only scratches the surface in terms of designing your overall dating and relationship life with intention. If he put out a full relationships course, I'd buy it so fast.

    • @Spachia
      @Spachia Год назад +3

      The issue with that is there are so many stages, dynamics, and possibilities in a relationship. The only real advice is to be yourself and not desperate for maintaining a relationship. Everybody has their own boundaries and rules for engagement so if you’re always placating, you will be viewed as a weak partner.

    • @OLDPEDOJOE
      @OLDPEDOJOE Год назад

      Just look up Corey Wayne and read his book about being a 3% man, very good at managing relationships.

  • @swerth
    @swerth Год назад

    Analytics brought me here. Good content

  • @s.beccari4678
    @s.beccari4678 Год назад +5

    Honest is always better than gimmicky schtick

  • @fondelmaddick5085
    @fondelmaddick5085 Год назад +2

    Yes, women like direct / assertive guys, but they also love a bit of mystery and intrigue.
    Women are scientifically proven to get turned on by uncertainty, which is why they like bad boys

  • @codederick6920
    @codederick6920 Год назад +8

    Anyone ever notice these women in their early-to-mid 20s tend to be socially inept and have trouble holding a convo? It’s like their social skills are non-existent from spending the majority of their life on social media. I do far better approaching women in their 30s

    • @zhartho
      @zhartho Год назад +5

      I think everyone is experiencing this. The internet has made our attention spans shorter and it feels a lot harder to relate to people.

  • @CommandoMaster
    @CommandoMaster Год назад +91

    Women love when you're honest when approaching: "Hey, I love your style, just wanted to come say Hi, My Name is____"

    • @timothymurray1236
      @timothymurray1236 Год назад +54

      Corey Wayne recommends never offering your name and always asking her what her name is. If she doesn't ask you your name, you know straight away she's not interested.

    • @MastaInferno
      @MastaInferno Год назад

      ​@@timothymurray1236 so what do you suggest different as a conversation example 🤔?

    • @ludovico117
      @ludovico117 Год назад +21

      ​@@MastaInferno there's the respond in the sentence.
      Ask her name and if she does the same, keep forward. If she does not ask for your name... Don't be stupid and get the hell out of there.
      Don't waste your time with someone who isn't interested.

    • @toddbr5959
      @toddbr5959 Год назад +7

      ​@@ludovico117 Indeed! I've noticed that even on social! If i ask something personal like her age and she doesn't ask my age then she isn't even interested in a conversation with me!

    • @markcook8354
      @markcook8354 Год назад +3

      @@timothymurray1236 the problem here is that she can't be interested if she knows nothing about you so if you give little to no information about yourself then she has no reason to be interested.

  • @battragon
    @battragon Год назад +5

    "I'm looking for something like a one-night-stand." "Can I kiss you?"
    Mileage may vary, but yes, women respect respectfulness and hence directness.

  • @Hugo-xj2mj
    @Hugo-xj2mj Год назад +1

    I make no apologies for my desires as a man.

  • @phabeondominguez5971
    @phabeondominguez5971 Год назад +1

    Maaaan, I shot my shot and failed HARD, SO learn from me y'all. Girl and I at the gym been doin the eye dance for a while, feels like something is there, but then after seeing her almost daily, have not seen her since Dec. 31'st.. so I said if I ever see herr again, I'ma shoot my shot.. not even romantically, jus to be friendly.. so I did, saw her yesterday for 1st time since December 31st man, TOTAL FAIL.. And all I did was wave HI, but when she kinda smiled back, I made mistake of tryin to talk to her.. NOPE, too much, she froze up, I could tell, and kept walking, left me talking to my self.. haha, that was a FACE RED for sure.. so learn from me.., one step at a time.. no matter what, for the first few interactions, jus smile and or wave hi.. then and ONLY then do you plan ur next move depending on how she reacts to all THAT.. Good LUCK fellers
    as for me, no regrets, I shotted my shot, failed, but I'm still alive right? On to the next.. might have to change schedule so it won't be awkward if we see each other again tho..
    All y'all clap happy cats get at me
    oNe

    • @PimpBoySwag543
      @PimpBoySwag543 2 месяца назад +1

      Good on you for approaching, but I can tell just from how long you took to approach and with the confidence to approach that your energy probably wasn’t the best and that probably affected the whole approach. You probably didn’t sound confident in the fact that she was attracted to you or you were attracted to her. But overall at least you approached still better than most

    • @phabeondominguez5971
      @phabeondominguez5971 2 месяца назад +1

      @@PimpBoySwag543 ayy maaaaaaaaaaan, spot on, but ish def changed, now I'm pulling these females left and right EASY, but it was those type initial approach FAILS that taught me how to do it proper... I had forgotten about this fail here tho, but not her, she was def special, her whole vibe, and she was wifey material for sure. So don't miss out y'all, take the shot, even if ya fail..

  • @glyphicon330
    @glyphicon330 Год назад +3

    Love your content, keep it up!

  • @yokaibyte2133
    @yokaibyte2133 Год назад +3

    In Japan, you can just walk up to a woman and ask if she is interested.
    It’s hard to explain but basically you walk up to the lady and just ask her.
    I see guys doing it all the time at train stations usually.

  • @KpxUrz5745
    @KpxUrz5745 3 месяца назад +3

    I think this guidance has been disproven millions of times. We all know very well what will happen with almost 100% surety if we get directly to the point. And it won't take more than 10 seconds after that for the woman to deflate you immediately, or quickly disabuse you of any hope to date them because without fail we will hear "I already have a boyfriend". In fact, it is not only this video which brings us more ineffective "game" tips. This applies to almost all such "game" videos. It is a popular youtube niche, but for the most part very little of this coaching is helpful.

    • @revheadstv2760
      @revheadstv2760 2 месяца назад +3

      Sounds like there’s a reason you get that response bud

    • @KpxUrz5745
      @KpxUrz5745 2 месяца назад

      @@revheadstv2760 Oh really? Well try asking about ten thousand other guys, 99.9% of them will agree with me on this.

    • @PimpBoySwag543
      @PimpBoySwag543 2 месяца назад +1

      @@KpxUrz5745As you can tell from the video that’s how you get a better approach cause if you don’t provide the right context as to why you are there then the approach is almost pointless and you potentially get friend zoned. Plus you get more points from the girl for being confident

  • @kifacorea
    @kifacorea Год назад

    Always good content

  • @ChristiantDalberto
    @ChristiantDalberto Год назад

    Yo the new wise Humble look is good.. the younger version too cocky.. Puts people off from absorbing valuable and proven methods l 🙂 Keep it up 😉

  • @differentone_p
    @differentone_p Год назад +3

    hey how about people who doesn't drink💀

  • @mehoneybadger999
    @mehoneybadger999 Год назад

    communication is a two way thing.if a woman is interested in you too, you would realize it clearly while simple talks. getting into too much about levels,etc is all bs.

  • @isaacalonzo4840
    @isaacalonzo4840 Год назад

    this guy pretty good.

  • @SuperSymbiote1
    @SuperSymbiote1 Год назад +1

    Question: In the System/VGA model, how do you know when to transition from all 5 phases including when to do Seed, F, Q, L. And how to mix the phases together well?

    • @ToddVDating
      @ToddVDating Год назад +3

      When the phase has been "accomplished" you move on to the next. Though you never move on 100%, you just shift to MOSTLY doing the next phase rather than MOSTLY doing the current one.

    • @SuperSymbiote1
      @SuperSymbiote1 Год назад

      @@ToddVDating Okay, and when do you start seeding and qualifying a close? Is the evaluation phase separate to qualifying to close?

  • @andrejadame5233
    @andrejadame5233 Год назад +1

    Hey would you mind an advice. As a priority I prepared table at caffee for adate where I took away the chair so we will sit next to each other back to the walls, sadly right as she came she was like where would I sit since there is no chair and decided to pull chair from another table therefore I sit opposite of each other.... The wibe was perfect could clearly see that she was into me but since I could escalate with touch, I didnt go for the kiss. Was there a big mistake on my part that I still didnt go for the kiss at the end? Or next time we see each other I should go straight for the kiss at the beginning or kind of for it 100% to sit next to each other. Thanks a lot.

    • @Blazin2133
      @Blazin2133 Год назад

      There's a couple things you could’ve done. First off, I don't think you have a girl sit next to you on a first date. What she did was natural, sitting across from your date so you can see them is more comfortable. You can then transition to either another area like a lounge where you can sit next to each other or if you're at a table, you can find a reason to have her move over to your side or you move to hers. Like showing her something on your phone or whatever. Ideally if the date is going well, move to another place close by. Changing venues can work great. Or if you're at a place that has other areas that create close contact then go there. You can then touch her arm in a natural way like i if she says something funny or cute and you react to it. You just don't want to sit in one spot all night if it's not allowing you to escalate. Find a way to do it

  • @tmac326
    @tmac326 Год назад +3

    There’s a Woman that goes to my Gym that I have an interest in. However, other than just a few glances at each other and one brief interaction where she held the door open for me and I gestured for her to go first and told her “Ladies first” and she giggled, we haven’t really interacted.
    I’ve been wanting to approach and just say “Hey I’ve seen you here a lot for the past few months and I told myself I would come and introduce myself otherwise I’d beat myself up all day.” but she always her earphones on every time and whenever I see her and plan on just doing it, I basically freeze up and don’t 😂

    • @elxicoplayboi5517
      @elxicoplayboi5517 Год назад +3

      You could ask her to help you out with something in the gym (can you please hold this for a second kind of thing) and start a conversation from there.

    • @romedeleon1715
      @romedeleon1715 Год назад +3

      Something that works 4/5 times is so simple and a bit corny.
      Before you approach: smell great. Fantastic breath because you’re going to tell her a few things to her face .
      I get her eye contact. I then act like she’s someone I already hooked up with in some other state or country. You communicate( with your body language) that you’re surprised to see her and a bit confused as to why she’s in your town… in your gym. Trust me guys it works. They usually start walking up because you’re communicating the body language of someone she knows. She’s now curious.
      When you’re in front of her, you say “Jenna, what tha hell are you doing here? “ … you know where this is going.
      She’ll say you have the wrong girl. You say: stop f*cking around this is super creepy of you. Shell say something like: no really I don’t know you. You ask her for name? She’ll give it to you. You tell her you’re sorry but she’s the mirror image of a toxic ex years ago. She will smirk in an egotistical yet flattered manner.
      This is a lot of fun because she’s flattered but subconsciously, you pulled a woman that looks just like her many years ago and established an actual relationship.
      You tell her: this is too weird. I’m (insert you name)… I feel so stupid (with a confident smile).”You then shut and wait for her to say something like: oh no worries… it happens..etc. You then say:I have to finish my work out but I have to get your number. You hand her the phone. You tell her that you’re going to take her out at a specific time. You assume it aggressively because you’re in the gym and you’re a man. You always get you want. You’re bigger than her so you just assume the close. She’ll give you the number. You tell her to look super hot for your date( you’re talking to her like you already had sex with her and made her climax… you know what I’m saying.
      If you do get her to the date, sex is almost guaranteed.
      You’re welcome boys!

    • @phabeondominguez5971
      @phabeondominguez5971 Год назад +3

      ​@@romedeleon1715 bruh..

    • @AsadKhan-lm6yr
      @AsadKhan-lm6yr Год назад +3

      Ask her: ‘Do you know what’s worse than a mistake?’
      Her: ‘What?’
      You: ‘Regret for never trying!’
      Now just be you and you’ll be able to live with whatever outcome comes from the interaction. key is you had the confidence to never regret and that is all the world asks of you!

    • @josesantana770
      @josesantana770 Год назад

      Cut the bull crap seduction techniques.
      Whenever you have the chance
      " Next time it'll my turn to open the door for you". Saying that walk away. Do not stay.
      If she is interested when she sees you around, she will take off her earphones so you talk to her again, if she doesn't don't bother

  • @dannys7773
    @dannys7773 Год назад

    bro is that good, he is keeping himself go. casue he can still pull xD bro hit the gym, i used to watched you few years ago and now i can see the differance. good content anywys keep it up

  • @wildmanmike100
    @wildmanmike100 Год назад

    Quick question. Why does telling a woman you wanna smash never work when it's the most honest thing you could tell her?

    • @BleuBelair
      @BleuBelair 10 месяцев назад +1

      Its Simple…..Women dont want yo feel Slutty. Thats it

  • @seanautilis15
    @seanautilis15 Год назад +3

    you NEVER let a "modern woman" push you to the physical before you want it. we are not barnyard animals, and if she is, then believe me, you don't want her. Simply lay down the boundary: it will happen when I want it to happen.

  • @VanCough
    @VanCough Год назад +1

    Hi Todd,
    Not sure where to ask a question, but I have one for you. I met this girl who seemed pretty interested in me at the club and later it turned out we were on the same flight. I asked her out after the flight and she said she'll get coffee with me but only as friends because she is seeing someone and then scheduled a date with me shortly after. I was curious what you think about this situation and how I should approach the coffee

    • @phabeondominguez5971
      @phabeondominguez5971 Год назад +1

      THIS GUY.. jus play it by ear bro.. go on the date, no assumptions and jus be yo self, and the rest will follow, whatever that is, only you and her can know what that will be

    • @Ikaros23
      @Ikaros23 Год назад +1

      All is fair in love and war 😂. Just play it cool, and charm her.
      When you try to escalate later, and if she rejects you just say « you can’t blame me because i’m a man with a smile😉😄. Then back off. Then go for another girl, and forget about her ( there are billions of females on this planet)
      You have nothing to lose 👍.

  • @SchemeTeamSix
    @SchemeTeamSix Год назад

    Depends on how you look

  • @Looch27
    @Looch27 Год назад

    Is anyone else confused what they’re purpose is in these situations?

  • @teatowel11
    @teatowel11 Год назад

    "Hey!, my name's x and i'm here to hit on you"

  • @frissonsteemit2318
    @frissonsteemit2318 Год назад

    I keep getting kicked in the nuts when I approach broads

  • @pranaygawli6602
    @pranaygawli6602 Год назад +3

    Tips for cold approach for people over 40 they ll get rejected a lot more than younger guys.?.

  • @chrish2112
    @chrish2112 Год назад +4

    You forgot the part where you have to have at least 10 million dollars in the bank or she calls it harassment and you go to prison.

    • @pmonk1177
      @pmonk1177 Год назад +6

      You need to get out more.

    • @chrish2112
      @chrish2112 Год назад

      @@pmonk1177 Sounds like maybe you need to get out more. What I said is 100 percent accurate. Get a grip on reality.

    • @pmonk1177
      @pmonk1177 Год назад +2

      @@chrish2112 oh really, I’ve managed to meet and date girls when I was unemployed. If you think you need a lot of money to get women, then you don’t live in reality.

    • @chrish2112
      @chrish2112 Год назад

      @@pmonk1177 I bet they were wonderful ladies. 🤣

    • @pmonk1177
      @pmonk1177 Год назад

      @@chrish2112 oh yeah they were. How about you? Sounds like you haven’t been on a date in a while.

  • @Agent77X
    @Agent77X Год назад

    Stop approaching extreme toxic feminist ladies, hot babe lesbians and married women!😮

  • @SseriousGgamer3
    @SseriousGgamer3 Год назад

    Todd you looking a bit thic. What’s going on? I think it’s time for an epic cut

  • @jordwright507
    @jordwright507 Год назад +1

    If a woman liked me saying “you look like trouble” to her, I think I would feel physically sick by her immaturity!!

  • @darkwolf9ball
    @darkwolf9ball Год назад

    See this is all good if you want to date someone maybe. I have had countless conversations with men and women. I can hold a conversations down on many topics. You have some girls who get bored with even the stuff you just did. The attention span is so short today.

  • @8269wd
    @8269wd Год назад +2

    Todd really aged alot. Need more beauty sleep and drink more water.

  • @ramjet5192
    @ramjet5192 Год назад

    Women want money. period.

  • @toddpacker1015
    @toddpacker1015 Год назад

    Only works if you are significantly more attractive than her.

    • @rodriguesaplacino6612
      @rodriguesaplacino6612 Год назад

      I don't think so.. Women actually look deeper than guys

    • @toddpacker1015
      @toddpacker1015 Год назад +1

      @@rodriguesaplacino6612 Online dating suggests otherwise. Looks, status and money otherwise you're invisible.

  • @adrianazollo2688
    @adrianazollo2688 Год назад

    Nope

    • @OLDPEDOJOE
      @OLDPEDOJOE Год назад +2

      Oh Grandma, this video isn't for you! You're so silly sometimes.

  • @moralesharold87
    @moralesharold87 Год назад

    This approach has a height requirement.

  • @Sleepy_zzzzz
    @Sleepy_zzzzz Год назад +1

    5:21 Our society is done.

  • @supercal333
    @supercal333 Год назад

    What happened to this guy? He needs to work out and get his diet dialled in.

  • @fiercemillionaireproject3824
    @fiercemillionaireproject3824 Год назад

    Haha well I guess if your going to let yourself go make sure you at least have as much gam as Todd v!

  • @maxpane1691
    @maxpane1691 7 месяцев назад

    Damn why you speak so fast
    Its first video ever i have to play 0,75
    Most i play 1,25 or 1,5

  • @BullishBananaTrader
    @BullishBananaTrader Год назад +1

    Tip 1: Stop being a loser and hanging out at clubs to do "100 approaches". Become a 5% man where the rules of dating are flipped. Stop wasting your time with these videos

    • @toddpacker1015
      @toddpacker1015 Год назад

      Thank you! If you think cold approack works nowadays you are delusional

  • @kadrisengul8368
    @kadrisengul8368 Год назад

    please add Turkish as a language translation, let's understand, I offer my respects ❤❤

  • @ca32
    @ca32 Год назад +3

    Whatever shit Todd says the opposite is true

    • @ToddVDating
      @ToddVDating Год назад +12

      cool comment

    • @smilodon92
      @smilodon92 Год назад

      Whatever shit ca says the opposite is true

    • @ca32
      @ca32 Год назад

      @@smilodon92 ok hook ups are really cool and trying to sleep with as many people as possible is a really great philosophy

    • @mws2546
      @mws2546 Год назад +2

      @@ca32 I agree with you but I think the sills he teaches are required for shy guys to break out of their shells to approach even if their intention is serious

    • @dreamon5543
      @dreamon5543 Год назад

      @@ca32 IF you can charm them you can dine them, love them, and marry them. To be good with girls is every mans goal, for sex and love.