Woman say they don't want a broke man because it makes their life easier, why would they choose a broke man to make their life harder. Why do you think men work to become high value? Not to get a woman who talks back and challenges him on everything, that does not make the man's life easier. That's not even getting into the high body count where a woman has a hard time pair-bonding.
Thats BS. Dudes will be stable at 50k easy. A big part of that is discipline, or the ability to say no. Good luck telling a woman no to buying some stupid ish
$50k in most places is closer to poverty than stable. It has nothing to do with discipline or ability to say no, but everything to do with the cost of living.
@@jas1565 closer to, but not. Hes not starving. Hes not at risk of eviction. All his bills are paid. Thats stable. Last thing he needs is some broke broad trying to get him to buy her a birkin when she cant afford one herself
@@malrofo $50k in most places is in fact a missed paycheck from poverty. Have you seen rent prices, groceries, etc.? You're definitely not living comfortably at $50k. And I promise, NO ONE is asking a man who makes $50k for a Birkin. They're not even asking that man for Coach. $50k is paycheck to paycheck, they know that man can't afford it.
This is a stupid talking point because people should love who loves them. Love doesn’t mean be stressed out every five minutes… so love who brings you PEACE, and beautiful women inspire… so love who inspires you… most black women accepted the cultural nuance that they can’t accept a man while he working towards it… or was set back due to a wrong move on the chess board, plus a failed relationship that ended with a broken home, and the laws and the hiring managers hate on a brother. Being broke is a mentally… but also raising from the ashes and not dying from the situation is a mindset as well.
You make good points. Women, however, are justified in wanting a financially stable/wealthy man. Money is important, and the man who struggles to earn it can and will be a burden to her. With that said, 99% of women are not qualified for a wealthy man. That girl in pink is not worth a wealthy man. While women may want and ask for a wealthy man, that doesn't mean they qualify for one.
@@otrebla8944being that the US Economy is what it is…it sounds like False Hope. Most will continue to work and share the load or struggle on their own…those are practically the only options
Let's just let it be known these women ain't paying no man bills the way a man stand on business. You should ask them what's the most that they ever spent on the guy that they in love with cuz he don't go both ways I guarantee the Man spent more in every relationship that they was in
What I've found out about relationships, and life is, the only thing that matters is the end goal!!! What do want to ultimately become!? All that in between is bullshit!!
0:50 yea but those be the same women who make good money but soon as they get a man they want him to pay for everything while she saves all her money. Y’all not going 50/50 so she no different from the gold diggers 🤷🏾♂️
Exactly what good is a woman who has her own but too stingy to pay her own way? I understand being a provider to your woman but someone you're just dating you don't even know may never even see again no way. That's not financially responsible or disciplined
Its not selfish, although it's when someone equates one's value with how much money they make and using that person for their money then it'd be selfish
The first date the woman need show her cooking skills and the man show how to shop in a Budget with his money. So he know that she is a good investment. I think if the woman want to go to a expensive restaurant the first date the man pay and next date the woman pay. I think it fair because we just meant and paying for an expensive meal like we are celebrating our relationship.
Big girl in the pink keep touching her wig like its her real hair..
Lmao
Petting that horse hair
Facts petting it like its her dam dog
Ive noticed that. Sick of our women not embracing there real hair
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Nothing wrong with a women wanting a man to be financially responsible 💯🤷🏿♂️
True
But the question is what is financially fit. They way they describing us a free ride. Responsible with money is financially fit.
Stupid topic No one is guaranteed financial stability 85 to 90 percent of Americans are one false move from losing it at
I work to live not work to give. A home, transportation and necessities is all human need to survive.
Woman say they don't want a broke man because it makes their life easier, why would they choose a broke man to make their life harder.
Why do you think men work to become high value? Not to get a woman who talks back and challenges him on everything, that does not make the man's life easier. That's not even getting into the high body count where a woman has a hard time pair-bonding.
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Thats BS. Dudes will be stable at 50k easy. A big part of that is discipline, or the ability to say no. Good luck telling a woman no to buying some stupid ish
Facts
Bingo👏🏿💯
$50k in most places is closer to poverty than stable. It has nothing to do with discipline or ability to say no, but everything to do with the cost of living.
@@jas1565 closer to, but not. Hes not starving. Hes not at risk of eviction. All his bills are paid. Thats stable.
Last thing he needs is some broke broad trying to get him to buy her a birkin when she cant afford one herself
@@malrofo $50k in most places is in fact a missed paycheck from poverty. Have you seen rent prices, groceries, etc.? You're definitely not living comfortably at $50k. And I promise, NO ONE is asking a man who makes $50k for a Birkin. They're not even asking that man for Coach. $50k is paycheck to paycheck, they know that man can't afford it.
Fellas never lead with your wallet it will leave you broke in disgusted 😭🤣😂😆🤔🙄🤫👀🧠🤦🏽💯
This is a stupid talking point because people should love who loves them. Love doesn’t mean be stressed out every five minutes… so love who brings you PEACE, and beautiful women inspire… so love who inspires you… most black women accepted the cultural nuance that they can’t accept a man while he working towards it… or was set back due to a wrong move on the chess board, plus a failed relationship that ended with a broken home, and the laws and the hiring managers hate on a brother. Being broke is a mentally… but also raising from the ashes and not dying from the situation is a mindset as well.
You make good points. Women, however, are justified in wanting a financially stable/wealthy man. Money is important, and the man who struggles to earn it can and will be a burden to her.
With that said, 99% of women are not qualified for a wealthy man. That girl in pink is not worth a wealthy man. While women may want and ask for a wealthy man, that doesn't mean they qualify for one.
@@otrebla8944being that the US Economy is what it is…it sounds like False Hope. Most will continue to work and share the load or struggle on their own…those are practically the only options
@@otrebla8944true
Let's just let it be known these women ain't paying no man bills the way a man stand on business. You should ask them what's the most that they ever spent on the guy that they in love with cuz he don't go both ways I guarantee the Man spent more in every relationship that they was in
"Financially stable" doesn't mean he makes more money than you
What I've found out about relationships, and life is, the only thing that matters is the end goal!!! What do want to ultimately become!? All that in between is bullshit!!
0:50 yea but those be the same women who make good money but soon as they get a man they want him to pay for everything while she saves all her money. Y’all not going 50/50 so she no different from the gold diggers 🤷🏾♂️
Exactly what good is a woman who has her own but too stingy to pay her own way? I understand being a provider to your woman but someone you're just dating you don't even know may never even see again no way. That's not financially responsible or disciplined
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Its not selfish, although it's when someone equates one's value with how much money they make and using that person for their money then it'd be selfish
Yea social media has ruined dating in the US smh
It’s funny how it’s ok to go cheap on Doing activities & stuff like that but he got to blow a bag on some food
Now I see why that girl left arm is so damn big is she been playing with her hair the whole episode she got that quagmire effect😂
The first date the woman need show her cooking skills and the man show how to shop in a Budget with his money. So he know that she is a good investment. I think if the woman want to go to a expensive restaurant the first date the man pay and next date the woman pay. I think it fair because we just meant and paying for an expensive meal like we are celebrating our relationship.