A lot of men don't wanna fool with women like that now because they don't appreciate shit. They expect you to take care of kids that's not yours with no pushback, pay all their bills, take them on 5,000 shopping sprees every weekend, and want you to accept they're still in love with their ex all while they critique you on every little flaw you have and have this I can but you can't attitude
Can't win for losing then complain about men approaching then turn around and say why men don't approach then they complain about how black women tired of carrying black men but don't want to take accountability of the men they where choosing.
Can two things be true at the same time. One say men are tired of having to pay a woman's bills off the rip and men are turned off by women who has their own? I'm confused.
@cliftonconnor9389 the problem most of the time is there's no balance in modern relationships. Yeah there's a lot of men who still want things the old school way but if they need help to get things done, there should be no reason why his partner can't help. It used to be honorable for a man to get involved with a single mom because society used to accept it and praise him and women didn't take advantage but now there's no upside to it and women knew how to cut off their exes as soon as they got with another person...not the case these days.
I had to set someone straight on this bs. They tried to claim every hobby or thing a man does is for or to attract a woman. I told him mfer im into anime and gaming. If anything that used to hurt my chances with women until that shit became "trendy".
These the same women who complain about cat calling and calling dudes dusty for approaching them now surprised men not worried about them no more. They getting exactly what they asked for
Real men never was “obsessed” they were obsessed with having a good family and if making his women happy meant making the family better he was willing to do whatever. Now a days a man can be doing everything right n still be in a broken home there’s no pleasing these women now a days there satisfaction is like a bottomless pit due to them constantly comparing themselves with social media women.
Everyone keeps talking about being obsessed with dating women and why Men aren’t obsessed but lots of these women aren’t even “Decent Human Beings” on any level. Growing up media has projected that Men have always been the problem in society but social media has exposed to the average person what my OGs taught me a long time ago. “Oh she pretty but you need to find out if she ain’t about ish exit” . Its unfortunate that it took social media for the average cat to see that
The reason men aren’t obsessed with women anymore is because men realized the things your average woman was doing. The 1990s was the last time you would ever see a cartoon like Johnny Bravo, because that cartoon was created off ideals between men and women that died in the 2010s.
The way shorty laughed when he said "and I turn a blind eye when I see these red flags because I like the other things" was cringe af because its true. They really believe that liking toxicity there's nothing wrong with them because they can't help what they like.
That's why you should never take them seriously. If they liked to be used, then use them. They will cry about not finding a good man at 35 with 2 kids, and we will laugh at them later. It's the circle of life.
It's the unrealistic expectations of the modern American woman. I've already quit the game and started dating overseas. It's a whole new world. Women overseas still appreciate love and being a gentlemen.
Me too. I’m 39 and I won’t date young women because I’m not having any more kids. On child support after my first child dealing with bw. If she not on menopause I’m good.
It has nothing to do with women showing their bodies online, it's their unreachable expectations he has to make this much, be this tall, be hood and so on and so on. Men have just checked out.
One of the main reasons why men aren't as interested in chasing women like in Prior years is because today's modern women treat men who like them like fans, and figured they can talk and treat today's men however they feel. I'm not going to pursue anybody who talks or treats me like I'm a fan of theirs I should be honored just to be in their presence like I'm beneath him
Bruh,...The Dude In the GOAT Shirt is Giving Real 'SIMP-LICITY!!'...Ain't no dude getting up everyday to go to work, pay bills, put a roof over their head, etc...for a Damn Woman!!...We Do It For Survival!!... Because We Are Adults!!..He is giving Real Simp Mentality!!...
Excuses galore. They find a certain kind of stereotypical man PHYSICALLY attractive. And then think they know they aren't the only ones who find the same man attractive, they share him with his abundance of options, all of them hoping to be the "special one" he changes for. They want to FEEL special.
It's never their fault smh. You'll hear them talk all day about women's intuition and how 'they just know". Yet their intuition can never stare them into the direction of a good man.
Her opening statement for the most part sums it up. Women wouldn’t want a Man that appears to be for anybody/everybody, why would a Man? I’m not saying be a prude, but if I have to hold my phone while showing my Moms your IG, that’s probably not the best sign.
You vette them by bringing them around other men in your community that you have respect for..but that’s easier said and done because that’s what leads to where you are now 😅♻️
Marriage is down, dating is down, sexual activity for males is down, yet she thinks women are too accessible. It's not the accessibility. It's quality of personality that they're finding. The accessibility aspect of things has been warped on the female side.
Nah I dont like how they skip past ace point about the men that women pick. We have an ever increasing population of men who are single and childless especially in the black community. In our community in particular there is a minority of men who are having kids with a majority of women. Women are legit out here sharing men and they know it 😂
Consistently women on podcast provide no intricate insights to any relationship conversations. They are never honest and always end up defensive. The scenarios always play out the same.
But then again women aren’t obsessed with men either I’ve had women say they don’t need a man but got a roster of men whom they benefit from with out a relationship
If the only men/women you are attracting is pookie/shanayay, then you need to look within. Take accountability for the men/women you are repeatedly choosing.
This is all I see on RUclips single ppl talking about how to make marriage work or relationships work or something somebody else is doing, all podcast topics are the same one after another
Chick walks into the store with small tight booty shorts on. I look in her direction and she called a wierdo literally but in real life. I've been married to my high-school sweetheart and I have 23 only child whom is currently in law school...back to the story tho. I look at her,the store clerk, the guy on aile 6 getting milk beside me....I thought I was seemly observing my surroundings like everyone does but in 2024 your a wierdo if you don't walk in the store with your head down and don't make eye contact with anyone....I feel sorry for you Youngs guys...it's over period!!!
Limited edition items hold and increase in value. This world is over saturated with single women that don't value themselves, don't present themselves as wife material, at the same time think they can get something for nothing. The games are outrageous which is seen in the language. Example: The term (emotional intelligence) propaganda at best.
Im 40 went on a date with a 24 year old. I offered to take care of her, but when she refused to kiss me on the date and told me she wasnt looking for a relationship. I was like "bye Felicia!" Im not fixing to pay your bills while you're getting piped down by pookie.
As a man i disagree in life I don’t do all my doings for a woman hell no. I do it for myself. I stay clean and take care of myself for me not because of a woman. I don’t work because of a woman I work because I need a place to live and stay and I need to be able to adult that’s for me
Women LITERALLY evolved to be socially calibrated as a defense like men evolved physically as a defense. They stay claiming Pookie that reads on a 2nd grade level is a Denzel level actor, yet they also going out their way to date rappers trappers and jailbirds Edit: And why would you obsess over these women when they for everybody, entitled, and dont appreciate anything.
No matter how progressive black women try to talk their feminist beliefs will eventually come out. I'm still waiting to find these mythical powerful black women.
When a man here or see women saying I don't need a man I don't want a man I can do bad all by myself man ant Ish. Then when a man try to shoot his shot at a women instead saying she not interested she call him a creep prev or if it's in the workplace make me feel uncomfortable what more you expect a man to do keep trying to risk his life when you got some women turning something small into something bigger then it really was no.
I’m getting up and going to work to provide for myself lol. Whatchumean? Define obsession lol. These women talking about the same 36 men and trying to rope all men into it.
I get decent clothes, a car and haircut because I don’t want to look like a bum air not because of women lol. I have a job to provide for myself because I’m a grown man adult not because I want to provide for a woman who can also work.
I was thinking a lack accountability. The only day and 10% of men, but don’t wanna admit it always got a skews behind everything. How are you hot educated but still pick to Pokey’s in Ray Ray’s?
Well if the women were more appreciative to men who actually did those things instead of just experiencing it and not appreciating it is when it changed I saw it back then stepfathers were treated with love and respect and appreciation for taking on the role if they did and especially if they did it well but single mothers weren't as common as they are now not even close it was still a taboo thing and didn't happen as much not until the 2000s most people were still respectful overall
It’s not about having your own that makes men not obsessed it’s wat it’s turn u into, u would think equality would equal the playing field and more understanding but it’s actually quite the opposite n a lot of wat makes a woman, your totally against it and it’s unattractive.
A lot of men don't wanna fool with women like that now because they don't appreciate shit. They expect you to take care of kids that's not yours with no pushback, pay all their bills, take them on 5,000 shopping sprees every weekend, and want you to accept they're still in love with their ex all while they critique you on every little flaw you have and have this I can but you can't attitude
Can't win for losing then complain about men approaching then turn around and say why men don't approach then they complain about how black women tired of carrying black men but don't want to take accountability of the men they where choosing.
Can two things be true at the same time. One say men are tired of having to pay a woman's bills off the rip and men are turned off by women who has their own? I'm confused.
@cliftonconnor9389 the problem most of the time is there's no balance in modern relationships. Yeah there's a lot of men who still want things the old school way but if they need help to get things done, there should be no reason why his partner can't help. It used to be honorable for a man to get involved with a single mom because society used to accept it and praise him and women didn't take advantage but now there's no upside to it and women knew how to cut off their exes as soon as they got with another person...not the case these days.
had a women tell me “i hate a guy that know his worth”. I never spoke to her again
@@lisosaboy she wanted a puppet to control an move however way she tell em an think. Glad you walked my brother
Straight men dont do everything for women...simps do. I go to work k to increase the comfort in my life
I had to set someone straight on this bs. They tried to claim every hobby or thing a man does is for or to attract a woman. I told him mfer im into anime and gaming. If anything that used to hurt my chances with women until that shit became "trendy".
Facts, you gotta have and do things outside women, only simps do everything, I agree.
Yes sir !
@@MrDarkjustice30Facts
Simp talk
These women continue to show the solid good guys are invisible. They keep picking the no good ninjas and blame all men.
That's why I avoid them or pay no attention to them as if they don't exist. It's pointless at this point.
They seriously need to admit that "women's intuition" is complete BS.
It has been for at least two generations!
Facts 😎 👍🏾
Women can tell if your thirsty or if you get a lot of box that’s it😭
Intuition is 100% real and scientific. Women’s intuition is nothing even remotely similar😂🤣😂 that shit is just voodoo with less steps🤡💩
They always make nothing but bad choices an decisions
These the same women who complain about cat calling and calling dudes dusty for approaching them now surprised men not worried about them no more. They getting exactly what they asked for
Thank you!! I was going to say the same thing.
Real men never was “obsessed” they were obsessed with having a good family and if making his women happy meant making the family better he was willing to do whatever. Now a days a man can be doing everything right n still be in a broken home there’s no pleasing these women now a days there satisfaction is like a bottomless pit due to them constantly comparing themselves with social media women.
The word is insatible. They’re role models are vixens! 🤦🏾♂️ The 304 mentality.
100%
Exactly the only reason we want a woman these days is to build a family. Not necessarily the woman.
Boy this 100% shows women don’t like to take accountability
If a woman in the comments can explain why a man should be obsessed with women who said they don’t need a man I’d love to hear it! 👂🏾
These women on the panel proved they acknowledge the bad toxic behaviours, but somehow still dodged the accountability part.. we’re doomed😭
Women aren’t meant to be accountable because they aren’t leaders.
Accountability for what?
@@MrsLegitParttwoignoring red flags and choosing what their kewchie wants instead of thinking with their heads.
Everyone keeps talking about being obsessed with dating women and why Men aren’t obsessed but lots of these women aren’t even “Decent Human Beings” on any level. Growing up media has projected that Men have always been the problem in society but social media has exposed to the average person what my OGs taught me a long time ago. “Oh she pretty but you need to find out if she ain’t about ish exit” . Its unfortunate that it took social media for the average cat to see that
The reason men aren’t obsessed with women anymore is because men realized the things your average woman was doing.
The 1990s was the last time you would ever see a cartoon like Johnny Bravo, because that cartoon was created off ideals between men and women that died in the 2010s.
Why be obsessed with someone who has a deep hatred for you?? That's insane.
Correct
Women acted out, wanted their way, men agreed and men still won!!!
The way shorty laughed when he said "and I turn a blind eye when I see these red flags because I like the other things" was cringe af because its true. They really believe that liking toxicity there's nothing wrong with them because they can't help what they like.
That's why you should never take them seriously. If they liked to be used, then use them. They will cry about not finding a good man at 35 with 2 kids, and we will laugh at them later. It's the circle of life.
All toxicity eventually catches up to whoever endorses it. Laugh now cry later head ass. lol
It's the unrealistic expectations of the modern American woman. I've already quit the game and started dating overseas. It's a whole new world. Women overseas still appreciate love and being a gentlemen.
At 30 I’m like I’ll deal with woman when I have time to other than that I really don’t want them around!
Im in my 30s and women are more of a distraction than anything
I dealt with women in my 20"s and now I'm on child support in my 30's.
Me too. I’m 39 and I won’t date young women because I’m not having any more kids. On child support after my first child dealing with bw. If she not on menopause I’m good.
You need therapy for that last part.
@@indianajones443yeaaa we see the kid in the back seat. Thank goodness I wrapped my weey weey up. God bless you brother
It has nothing to do with women showing their bodies online, it's their unreachable expectations he has to make this much, be this tall, be hood and so on and so on. Men have just checked out.
They were beating around the bush about that.
One of the main reasons why men aren't as interested in chasing women like in Prior years is because today's modern women treat men who like them like fans, and figured they can talk and treat today's men however they feel. I'm not going to pursue anybody who talks or treats me like I'm a fan of theirs I should be honored just to be in their presence like I'm beneath him
She said a ple-thora lol
😂😂thought I was the only one lol smh
Man I’m sitting here like wtf is that 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Look at that goalpost go!
I read that in the best football announcer voice 😂
Let the 🐻's have them!
Grizzle Grizzle
Bruh,...The Dude In the GOAT Shirt is Giving Real 'SIMP-LICITY!!'...Ain't no dude getting up everyday to go to work, pay bills, put a roof over their head, etc...for a Damn Woman!!...We Do It For Survival!!... Because We Are Adults!!..He is giving Real Simp Mentality!!...
He used the wrong word. I think the point he was trying to convey was some men prioritize women over everything.
dodging accountability like bullets in the matrix
*"THERE'S NO HOPE... NO CHANGE... FOR THE BLK COMMUNITY"* - Michael David Carroll (RIP)
When you don’t play the game you win !!
It’s really no benefit to them. They all the “table” and don’t bring ISH to the table…
There's more women than men in this world. So stressing about one woman when you can go to someone who appreciate them.
Excuses galore. They find a certain kind of stereotypical man PHYSICALLY attractive. And then think they know they aren't the only ones who find the same man attractive, they share him with his abundance of options, all of them hoping to be the "special one" he changes for. They want to FEEL special.
It's never their fault smh. You'll hear them talk all day about women's intuition and how 'they just know". Yet their intuition can never stare them into the direction of a good man.
Her opening statement for the most part sums it up. Women wouldn’t want a Man that appears to be for anybody/everybody, why would a Man? I’m not saying be a prude, but if I have to hold my phone while showing my Moms your IG, that’s probably not the best sign.
You vette them by bringing them around other men in your community that you have respect for..but that’s easier said and done because that’s what leads to where you are now 😅♻️
Marriage is down, dating is down, sexual activity for males is down, yet she thinks women are too accessible.
It's not the accessibility. It's quality of personality that they're finding. The accessibility aspect of things has been warped on the female side.
Nah I dont like how they skip past ace point about the men that women pick. We have an ever increasing population of men who are single and childless especially in the black community. In our community in particular there is a minority of men who are having kids with a majority of women. Women are legit out here sharing men and they know it 😂
Correct
Women have made it where u can have any one of them for a price and many aren't worth nothing
The first lady was absolutely right with all her points
Passed around women on the panel pretending to want relationships but actually just want a work horse to make their lives smoother
It’s not an obsession its a biological imperative
Consistently women on podcast provide no intricate insights to any relationship conversations. They are never honest and always end up defensive. The scenarios always play out the same.
But then again women aren’t obsessed with men either I’ve had women say they don’t need a man but got a roster of men whom they benefit from with out a relationship
Plethora is WILD 😂
"Pla-thor-a" 😂😂😂😂
Bird
The "smarter" sex proving that statement right😆
Yoooo...I was wondering if anyone else peeped that pronunciation. 🤣🤣
BM PLEASE STOP WASTING YOUR TIME TRYING TO GET WOMEN TO TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY.
They're not going to so lv them to their own devices.
If the only men/women you are attracting is pookie/shanayay, then you need to look within.
Take accountability for the men/women you are repeatedly choosing.
First woman…… nailed it.
That first statement by the woman was true…we are turned off
Just watching this I can see character flaws in these women. Is it concrete red flags no, but I've seen these hints before
This is all I see on RUclips single ppl talking about how to make marriage work or relationships work or something somebody else is doing, all podcast topics are the same one after another
What the woman in the white top meant to say was “We’re not as…we’re not as HONEST as men especially about our feelings…”
If you are going to disagree with what is considered an obsession, what was the point of including the word in the question?
Chick walks into the store with small tight booty shorts on. I look in her direction and she called a wierdo literally but in real life. I've been married to my high-school sweetheart and I have 23 only child whom is currently in law school...back to the story tho. I look at her,the store clerk, the guy on aile 6 getting milk beside me....I thought I was seemly observing my surroundings like everyone does but in 2024 your a wierdo if you don't walk in the store with your head down and don't make eye contact with anyone....I feel sorry for you Youngs guys...it's over period!!!
They really don’t know 😂
Did she say...Plathroury... lol
You can be emotional but take accountability. FOH with that women are different shit.
5:34 AAAAAAAAAANNNNNNND that's the problem. This attitude.
Yapping
10:50- this is why men aren’t obsessed
Why does a woman's intuition activate only when a man is cheating?
Men are in LOVE
Women are in BUSINESS😉🤑💸💸
Being emotional is their excuse but we cant say thats the reason we dont take them seriously 😂😂
Limited edition items hold and increase in value. This world is over saturated with single women that don't value themselves, don't present themselves as wife material, at the same time think they can get something for nothing. The games are outrageous which is seen in the language. Example: The term (emotional intelligence) propaganda at best.
Great video but women and accountability............they still can't admit it.
False accusations are the reason men are no longer interested. When flirting can get you wrongfully accused.
There are 2 types of women in this world: Those who are worthy of men, and those who aren't.
Narcissism shows when someone wants to be obsessed over by someone else💯
Im 40 went on a date with a 24 year old. I offered to take care of her, but when she refused to kiss me on the date and told me she wasnt looking for a relationship.
I was like "bye Felicia!"
Im not fixing to pay your bills while you're getting piped down by pookie.
As a man i disagree in life I don’t do all my doings for a woman hell no. I do it for myself. I stay clean and take care of myself for me not because of a woman. I don’t work because of a woman I work because I need a place to live and stay and I need to be able to adult that’s for me
Women LITERALLY evolved to be socially calibrated as a defense like men evolved physically as a defense. They stay claiming Pookie that reads on a 2nd grade level is a Denzel level actor, yet they also going out their way to date rappers trappers and jailbirds
Edit: And why would you obsess over these women when they for everybody, entitled, and dont appreciate anything.
I'm Wayyy past this conversation.
Men with good sense don't even deal with Modern women anymore.
Work.Gym.Travel.💯
Deleted Comments And Lack of AccoUntability
No matter how progressive black women try to talk their feminist beliefs will eventually come out. I'm still waiting to find these mythical powerful black women.
Men were obsessed with tryna get some 🤤but women started given it away lowered the value now dudes is like whatever 🥳
How does she not see she is completely dodging accountability by blaming “feelings” and “differences”?
Because she's dumb.
@5:30 over half of women have kids 😂😂
She have Every excuse except accountability. That’s facts right there.
Babygirl in the Grey jus listen she can hear the Women B/S. Great Clip Much Respect
When a man here or see women saying I don't need a man I don't want a man I can do bad all by myself man ant Ish. Then when a man try to shoot his shot at a women instead saying she not interested she call him a creep prev or if it's in the workplace make me feel uncomfortable what more you expect a man to do keep trying to risk his life when you got some women turning something small into something bigger then it really was no.
You supposed to get a full disclosure....if it take years to reach a level of commitment so be it.
Never fall in love with pleasure,money and control ones anger.
“Everything men do is for women”?! 🧐🤣 Like I can’t get a haircut because I wanna look nice for ME TF 😂
Selfish mentality will show you flames. Don't worry
I don’t know 🤷🏽♂️how y’all brothers do this 🙏🏾🫡
What's happening is that average women have ridiculous expectations for average men. Not of necessities but provider in luxury.
Like peeing standing up, taking accountability is impossible for women.
Women please learn the difference!!!
Emotional Intelligence vs Emotiinal Exhabitionist
and
A Good Conversationalist vs A person that Talks alot
I’m getting up and going to work to provide for myself lol. Whatchumean? Define obsession lol. These women talking about the same 36 men and trying to rope all men into it.
Also we know they all cheat 😂
Dodging like Neo in the Matrix
The issue is we are the first generation to experience this day and time of the illusion of too many options...so both sexes are at a tug of war.
Men don’t like to work hard… says a Woman 😂😂😂😂
This is a ironic clear example of what he mentioned
I get decent clothes, a car and haircut because I don’t want to look like a bum air not because of women lol. I have a job to provide for myself because I’m a grown man adult not because I want to provide for a woman who can also work.
No accountability at all from these chicks it’s ridiculous at this point
I was thinking a lack accountability. The only day and 10% of men, but don’t wanna admit it always got a skews behind everything. How are you hot educated but still pick to Pokey’s in Ray Ray’s?
Women do the same things men do and cpmplain as if doesnt happen with them only men
All this "RaRa" and maschine talk by them and then but we're emotional & sensitive 😂
🧠 > ❤️. That's the best advice I can give women
GOOOOD😂 NICE😂😂😂😂😂😂
NEVER listen to women. End of story
Well if the women were more appreciative to men who actually did those things instead of just experiencing it and not appreciating it is when it changed I saw it back then stepfathers were treated with love and respect and appreciation for taking on the role if they did and especially if they did it well but single mothers weren't as common as they are now not even close it was still a taboo thing and didn't happen as much not until the 2000s most people were still respectful overall
It’s not about having your own that makes men not obsessed it’s wat it’s turn u into, u would think equality would equal the playing field and more understanding but it’s actually quite the opposite n a lot of wat makes a woman, your totally against it and it’s unattractive.
The things that men valued women for they gave it away for money